Robert John Andrews

The memory of a righteous man is a blessing.
Proverbs 10:7

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Robert John Andrews, 45, of Fallbrook, California, passed away peacefully in his home after a courageous two‑year battle with an aggressive neuroendocrine carcinoma. Born and raised in Oceanside, Robert lived his life with a spirit that was funny, spontaneous, courageous, outgoing, and endlessly hardworking. He brought energy and joy wherever he went, and he faced every challenge with the same determination and heart that defined him.

Robert had a rare gift for connection — no one was ever a stranger to him, just a friend he hadn’t met yet. He chatted with everyone, knew every neighbor, and was on a first‑name basis with nearly everyone at the gym. His openness made people feel seen, welcomed, and instantly comfortable.

He was known for his wisdom and his ability to mentor others, especially men seeking guidance in marriage, relationships, discipline, and personal growth. Robert had a way of speaking truth with kindness, offering encouragement that was both practical and deeply heartfelt. His passion for helping others grow closer to God was woven into everything he did. His love for Jesus shaped his life, and he poured that love into every community he was part of.

Robert had a deep love for his faith, his family, fitness, music, restoring old cars, snowboarding, and the thrill of buying and selling treasures at the Pomona Swap Meet. He found joy in the things he loved and shared that joy generously. Whether he was tinkering with a classic car, discovering a new song, or carving down a mountain, he embraced life with enthusiasm and curiosity.

Professionally, Robert was the Global Director of Flow Cytometry, a field dedicated to individualized cancer treatment and diagnostics. Over 16 years, he worked his way from the bottom to become a respected leader, speaking at conferences and guiding others with kindness and fairness. His dedication to learning was unmatched — he was known for reading textbooks at the beach or by the pool, always striving to deepen his knowledge and contribute to a field that mattered deeply to him.

Robert is survived by his wife of 18 years, Lacey Andrews, and their four children: Makenna (13), Aila (10), Roland (8), and Benjamin (5). He also leaves behind his parents, Scott and Carol Andrews; his sister and brother‑in‑law, Jenny and Jaxon Bilbrey; his mother-in-law, Claudia Kaapke, brother‑in‑law and sister‑in‑law, David and Siobhan Martinell, nieces and nephews, Peyton and Nixon Bilbrey, Olive and Sage Martinell and a wide circle of “framily” — friends who became family and loved him dearly. He passed surrounded by his wife, mom, and dad, held in the love that shaped his life.

Robert’s legacy is one of inspiring others to become who God created them to be — to grow with purpose, to serve selflessly, and to live a life they could look back on without regret. He will be remembered for his laughter, his spontaneity, his fierce love for his family, his deep love for Jesus, and the countless ways he made life brighter for everyone around him.

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July 14, 2026

Robert was such a rad dude, and he will be greatly missed. I went through some old photos and found these from 2002/2003 from when we all hung out with the North Coast college group.

Nathan Firth

July 13, 2026

Genoptix 2014 Halloween

Carl Reed

July 12, 2026

I am so honored and deeply blessed to have known Robert in my life. Through his generous spirit and kind presence I’ll always hold those memories close. You will always be remembered, my friend. Till we meet again.

Jason Kwok

July 10, 2026

I only knew you for a year in Carlsbad while I lived there, but you and Lacey were my favorite neighbors! My twin Grandaughters loved McKenna and we were invited to her birthday party which we loved being a part of. I do remember how Robert was so kind and helpful. He gave me advice on seeking a job and even tried to get me into his company. I will never forget his friendship and thoughtfulness in helping me! He will be missed always! I pray for Lacey and the children and family that go on without him! May his memory burn in their hearts and minds and may Jesus wrap His arms around all of them! Until we meet again, RIP Robert. ❤️😢😘

Anne Maria Viola

July 9, 2026

Forever grateful for the time we had together twin. Countless memories were made and they will forever be shared. I loved experiencing life with you and seeing who you were to so many people. The impact you have made is extraordinary. You built the life you dreamed of through hard work and determination. It wasn’t always easy but you never gave up. See you later bro. Until then, I’ll be replaying all the silly accents and songs you have left me over voicemail xoxox

Jenny Bilbrey

July 9, 2026

Chad and I will forever remember our dinner at the Quiram’s house after we had finished classes with you both. We were told to bring our wedding photo and to talk about this special day. Chad and I had never laughed so hard at a dinner. Rob was telling the candid story of your special day and per Rob’s story telling, the table was all enthralled. We, having lived our own crazy time in the world new at this moment we had met people that knew exactly what it’s like to be saved from the world. He did it unabashedly and with such flare that our sides literally ached with laughter while tears streamed down our faces. It was at this very moment that we felt not alone in our journey of faith and love of our God. We still feel this love for you both.

Tania Emery

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