Mola Godfrey Mongambe Membwange

Goddy the love of my life, a loving father to my darling children. You were my all and all from my youthful life to old age.
52 years ago we made our vows at God's altar even though we were so young. We knew what we were up to, we were in love, I mean Agabe Love the divine barometer for marriage and we lived up to it.
You were a rare gem full of knowledge in all aspects of life. I fondly called you MR Wise and my encyclopedia relying on you for any references.
You touched so many lives with your kindness, peaceful nature, always concerned and ready to help where necessary.
These virtues which you exercised have made the family to receive same from well wishers far and near since your demise portraying humility , peace and love
Goddy you demonstrated how great a man you were. Powerful, prayerful courageous and resisted for 11 years with your failing health. Your children, family, friends and myself put all our efforts together to keep you alive with us but God had other plans for you. We Thank God immensely that we were able to shower you with love, render all the care and support you needed until the almighty asked us to "Let Go" that it was time for you to rest in his bosom.
We had a wonderful time together, full of fun with your sense of humour.
Now you are in a place where you will have no more sickness and no more pain.

I miss you so much already especially our fun time memories and videos we watched together of the grand children

Goddy my love, with a lonely heart, tearful eyes I say fare you well with God's speed until we meet again to part no more.

You remain an ineradicable mark in my heart.

G, Yondo Swelele

Your Darling Wife.
Joffi

Daddy all went well. Your legacy lives on. Your humility, grace and calm personality was very much present throughout. The spirit of forgiveness. Thank you. Rest well daddy. Things will never be the same now. God has other plans 🙏.
Rest assured We will look after mummy.

I miss you dearly
Ngowo

Hmmmm!!! It's been almost impossible for me to do this. Each time I try to do it it feels like it's not real. I have finally realized that it is needful. So my Dear Esteemed Brother as we call you, I want to first thank God almighty for the personality that he created in you. And for your yielded ness to express that personality to the fullest. I salute your courage, you didn't give up and you didn't give in, you only allowed God's will to prevail. Thank you for your cheerfulness and kindness. There was never a full moment with you. My family and I will miss those moments but we know that you are in a better place now and we hope to see you again very soon at the Rapture of the church of Jesus Christ. Farewell my dear Brother in law. May God bless your soul even in death in Jesus mighty name amen.

Pst Irene OJOMO and family.

Dearest Daddy,
Rest well and may the angels rise to greet you!
Sorely missed.
Oma nanu,
Nkumbe

It is a peculiar thing that out of tragedy, we would get to know and cherish a man of such goodness, grace, and quiet strength, who comforted us and gave us reason to believe and hope again. That man was Uncle Goddy Membwange. He came into our lives decidedly in March 1980 when he accompanied my mother to Cameroon to bury our father and back again to London, gently announcing to us that we no longer had a father. From then on till we left the UK, he watched over us, just as he had watched over my mother making sure that she was protected from knowing the worst until she was firmly in the midst of her family and loved ones in Victoria.
We became family. We grew up knowing that whatever distance there was, he cared for us and was always supportive. Uncle Goddy was gentle, caring and always carried with him a warm smile. It was pure joy being in his company. You felt seen. He always had a kind word and was ever so encouraging. I remember his generosity, forever bearing gifts when he would visit us. Aunty Constance extended that same generosity to us. He built a strong and discreet family, and we always enjoyed their company. Even in illness, we still saw that and experience that grace.
We are so thankful to the good Lord for having brought this remarkable and humble man into our lives. Our deepest condolences to Aunty Constance, Lucy, Mofoke and Ngowo. May the good Lord comfort you during this time of loss as we pray for rest for dear Uncle Goddy. He was indeed a faithful servant. May his goodness continue to shine a light unto all your paths.
Etona, for the Ekole Family.

Grandad,

The last thing you said to me was to do well in school, everytime I go now I think of your wise words.

My heart aches when thinking about you being gone, I'll miss the days you made me laugh, the days you gave me advice, and the days when you would hug me until my arms would tire.

I'll miss you so much and I cannot believe that you're gone, it really hasn't clicked yet. Only now in Douala does my chest sink when I see the empty house and the deepened aura you left behind.

Thank you so much Grandad for all words you have ever said to me, I don't know how I wouldve become who I am today without you. You made me who I am today and I hope that you are there proud of my achievements. I wish you could tell me that I will be just fine in school one more time when I have doubts, but nevertheless, I will still dream about your words.

Rest in peace Granddad, I miss you hours on end and ill see you when I see you. I love you.

Dear Daddy,

"Comptable." You were a fighter! ...

Always looking at the bright side of every situation.

You experienced numerous challenges with your health, but at the end of each day, it took only 5 minutes to watch you fall asleep and sleep peacefully.

I could write a whole book of the last 6 years you spent with me, at home in Douala. The hospital trips, enjoying a football match, or discussing pigs and farming chickens.I hold only fond memories , especially of your gentle smile.

Thank you for everything you taught me as a son. From tying my Sandja to type writing, driving, playing tennis, and financial independence, just to name a few.

As I came of age, I realized that I inherited your capacity to be present for your own and will continue to live by your standards , as I care for my siblings and children...

Amongst the many things you left behind which you enjoyed, are your cheese and wine. I will savor them with you in mind after we lay you to rest.

Dear Daddy, you loved as much as you forgave. Forgiveness was a quality imbued in you as part of your DNA.

Today, as I sit in the realization that I cannot share all our memories in one write up , I would like you to know that you will be dearly missed.

Rest well Tata...

Mofoke! "GB"

He was an amazing grandfather to all of his grandchildren. May he rest in peace

My dear brother,it is heartbreaking to know you are no more. Who will call to check on me again?who will ask after my children again?. Brother Goddy as I fondly called you,I will miss you,your death has left a vacuum in my heart. I love you but God loves you most. Adieu brother..
Your sister,
Bibiana Matike .

Dear mola Goddy,
Where do I start?
We heard so much about you before we met you.Mola Njoh always told us you were the best Bakweri husband and father.
I recall the day we first met you at mola Njoh's house in Douala.
You came to visit mola Njoh and aunty Sarah. You were accompanied by aunty Constance, Lucy, Ngowo and Mofoke.
My brothers and I watched the way you took care of your family. You were the model of a loving and caring husband and father.
I also remember how you pulled aunty's legs with your jokes. We would laugh in the background.
Unfortunately sickness took your later years. You had the best nurse anyone could have. Aunty was there by your side.
God has called you to rest. We cannot question him. You have fought the good fight and eon the race.
May your soul rest in peace.
Yondo swelele

Our lovely and caring daddy, we knew a day like this will come but little did we know it will be so soon, Well, you fought a good fight and a crown awaits you in heaven. Memories of you will always put a smile on my face. I remember when I lost my mom, You and your wife Mummy Vida stood by us, we were teenager your endless
gifts and care is unforgettable, I also remember back in the days in Garoua, how you always encouraged us by celebrating each time we had a success in examinations, can't forget when you always thought me basic things like opening a bottle of wine, I remember when you used to call me Blondelle, with your sold spoken voice, I am praid of my self because of you , Indeed you always remain in my heart, I personally appreciate your kindness , caring and humble.. Limunga Mongambe Agnes
Aka Blondelle

A Tribute to Mola Goddy by Mola Stephen LYONGA EKOSSE

News of your death came as a shock to us.
Now you have come to the end of the road and the sun has set for you.
We miss you so dearly but remember the love and fraternity you shared.
We remember your care, your kindness and your soft spoken manner.
Farewell as you take on the journey to the land beyond, which we must take alone
Adieu Mola Goddy and may your soul rest in peace

Happy Birthday, Daddy. I am sure it was good to hear mummy sing to you today. No cake today but we know you are fine. We are celebrating for you and with you always. Lots of love and Happy Feast of St Joseph's. God bless and love you always.

Dear daddy, it still seems like a dream that you are no more with us. Even when your health deteriorated, it didn't seem evident that you would leave us so soon. You had indeed been a father to countless children.
I remember the time I spent with you in Bonamoussadi. You were there as a father in everything. I still have memories of how love you showered on me. How you would even get me up while asleep to celebrate my success in the GCE. I remember how you took me by the hand to the Arts Lobby of UB to submit my application form. You stood by me at every step of life ensuring that I make the right decision. You groomed me in choosing my career and was ever ready to provide whatever I asked from you without a second thought.
All this while my ministry separated me from you and just at the time when I was happy that I am coming to live with you in the same town, death snatched you away.
Daddy, you were such a caring father and à very generous person. My mother was one of the greatest beneficiaries of your generosity and I remain grateful for this. May our heavenly Father reward you abundantly for all you did for humanity. Even though your body has left us, memories of you will forever in our hearts. Adieu daddy. Rest invthe bosom of your Creator.

It's strange writing this tribute at this time, Uncle it is hard to believe that you have left us, Death has separate us so soon I will never have another person like you Uncle,you have been so caring and loving, you will always remain in our heart.
May your soul RIP
Mongambe David.

My Dear Brother,
Loosing you is a pain I can hardly put into words. You were not just my brother, but my friend and a piece of my heart. Though you are gone your love and memory will stay with me forever.
Rest peacefully until we meet again.
With love your younger sister Mama Manyaka.

A TRIBUTE TO A KIND LOVING PAROTIC AND PARTICIPATORY PARIS ICON.
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Mola Goddy as we fondly called you. The news of your demise fell like a bomb 💣 shell to your fellow parishioners.
Your extreme kindness,soft spokeness and generosity was seen in many aspects during your active years. The most was displayed at the A.D.P. ie Association of Diocesan Priest. You made sure that all the tables had good 🍷 besides the catering expertise display of your VIDALU hostesses.
This made and marked a parochial name and is a reference to the diocese. Thank You.
Your question each time we had a parochial activity or levy was " what is left to be done ". Weti remain for do am"? You always made sure you made it up no matter what it cost. In that light your fellow parishioners nicknamed you. " Mr fill in the blank spaces".
We appreciate your donation of a coffin(casket) carrier to the Bonjongo mission station. Your generosity did not only end at church but was extended to villages. Bongala village will always remember you for the electrification of its village.
You taught your fellow parishioners submissiveness. We remember you driving in your green Toyota 4 Runner holding your "man no rest " machete to come and clear grass in the church premises. During the sharing of the quacoco Bible you came up with a slogan "Boy work boy chop" You will jealously loosen and start eating.
Your being a patron to the Engelberg choir was very inspiratory.

Mola Goddy no one lives forever.

We pray that a member of your family will let your legacy go on as far as our parish is concerned.

Farewell until meet to part no more
Auntie Jaco.
For the Parishioners.

Uncle Goddy, I remembered being a tiny flower girl on your wedding day. Here is your first born Lucy, our little family, in those days. Your gentle, soft voice and a beautiful smile on your face. These are memories that can not be forgotten. I remembered my weekends spent with you and your lovely wife, sister Vida in Buea. I loved washing your car. I promised visiting you when I came to Cameroon last December, but couldn't make at the hospital to see you due to unforseen circumstances. My last memories of you is when I finally break the silence I had for thirty years plus between you and your wife due to the way Papa Haddison was treated when my lovely, kind hearted, caring mother, Olivia Monjoua Haddison passed away. When sister Vida made that announcement to you, that guess who is on the phone? Endale. She screamed and said, "Endale, you have made Goddy smile again after a long while. Even though you struggled to communicate. I could hear your small, frail voice talking to me. I am glad you departed, knowing that there is peace between us. The big brother I have always respected with a sense of humour, humbled, obedient, kind, and lovely man that you were. You and my sister Vida nurtured me. I remembered the freshly made yogurt and the cakes and good food, I ate at your house in Buea. Thank you for being part of my life. You will forever be remembered, Uncle Goddy.
May your sweet and gentle soul RIP 🙏 👏🏻👏🏻❤‍🩹❤‍🔥Endale.

Hello Daddy, it’s time for breakfast. You would usually have had some fruit, porridge, toast, some egg and a cup of tea. Hahaha, you used to drink so much tea!! Large cups of tea!! One cup after another. Throughout the day!!
Lots of love, Monjo x


Hello Daddy, you know, you were not fussy about food. I remember when you had to eat more salads. You would liken yourself to a rabbit as you crunched the lettuce and carrots.
When sister Agie and I were learning how to cook, you would look at the dishes, puzzled. “Is this okra?” Hahaha! You would thank us and eat it anyway!
I dare say, we got much better over the years!!
Love you, Monjoa x

Ciao Daddy, I recall many an evening spent listening to music. Playing the records on the turntable and singing along.
Or watching a film on the numerous video tapes you had recorded for us on your travels.
Or reading a novel. You fuelled my love of reading. Thank you. I think I read almost all the novels you had in the library. You told me once, that whenever you traveled, you would pick up as many books as you could carry from the Bestsellers on display.
You were very proud of our encyclopaedia collection.
Thank you Daddy, love you x

Daddy it's hard to accept the reality that you are no more. I have always known you to be father who was hand working and wanted nothing,But the best for your children and family. I remember in my little age when ever you come, I was very excited because I knew you wouldn't come along with out giving many gifts. Daddy you footsteps and works was remarkable by everyone who came close to you each time you did your best to see that every thing was done properly. I will always remember you as an example in my life and the family at large.
Vekima Mongambe

How truly blessed we are to have wonderful people like you. Your Love and support in diverse from to us especially after our mother and father has been very much appreciated, Yes as we bid you farewell, We are grateful you touch our lives and those memories in our minds forever. A Diea Uncle, please greet your brother Max father and order 's
Effeti Mongambe

My Dear Father I'am shocked by your departure which has created a big vacuum in our hearts. It's painful to believe that you are no more with us, It is with a heavy heart that we are parting ways you over whelmed us with your acts of giving and now that you are gone the space is impossible to fill. As you face life beyond, we remain here in reflection and preparation of ours
Mongambe Emily

Farewell to you Daddy, we pray 🙏 we carry forward the Love ❤️ and laughter you brought into our lives. Thought you may not longer be with us in body, we believe your spirit will forever echo in our hearts to remind us to cherish each moment and hold light to the bonds of family. You were a gem and will remain cherished. Sleep well in the Lord...
Mongambe Max

My dear uncle
A very important chapter of my life came to an end at the news of your demise
Who would check on me?
Who would visit me in bamenda?
My kids have fond memories of Bonjongo when they visited Uncle Goddy.
Uncle I saw you beaten by sickness and watched you crack jokes and fight to live.
In you I saw an epitome of family values
You were a darling father and husband and this was in turn reciprocated in your moments of despair.
Uncle you were given the best because you only gave the best to others
As you join the others go well. We promise to stay connected with your dear Joffi, Lucy, Mofoke and Ngowo
Rest in perfect peace
Your niece Fanny Enanga Litumbe Ncho

In Loving Memory of Mola Godfrey Membwange

Today, I gather my thoughts and memories to honor a remarkable man, who was not only an in -law to the Nupa family, but also a guiding light in the way he interacted with us all. Mola Goddy, your kindness, wisdom, and unwavering love left an indelible mark on me from the time you gave your daughter Ngowo, to my son Gerald. Since then, we became one family and each time we met, we shared very happy moments together.
You were a man of strength and integrity, always leading by example and teaching us the true value of family, hard work, and compassion. Your persistent smile filled our hearts, and your words of wisdom will continue to guide us even in your absence.
Though you are no longer with us in body, your spirit lives on in the lessons you taught us, the love you shared, and the memories we cherish. We find comfort in knowing that you are watching over us, smiling as we carry forward your legacy of love and kindness.
Rest in peace, dear Mola Godfrey. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten.
Mummy Nupa .

Dear Uncle Goody,
I have known Mola Membwange since my first cry as a baby. Growing up, I still remember how he will come home after Mass on Christmas Day with a bowl of chin chin and cake, my Dad and him will sit in the living room and have a drink of
Soda Water and Gordon's dry gin. Mola Membwange was a perfect gentleman, an example to emulate. I never heard him talk in a high tone. He spoke with calm and so much grace. He loved his Bojongo village. I wasn't myself that fateful 20th January when my Dad broke the sad news to me. Mola will be greatly missed.
My deepest condolences to Aunty Constance, Lucy, Mofoke and Ngowo and all the grandchildren. May his gentle soul rest in peace.

Dear Uncle Goddy,
I still remember all the loving stories mummy told me about you and your friendship with daddy. Both families had such a warm bond.
When I was finally able to meet you a few years ago, you were exactly like mummy had described. It was such fun spending those moments with you and family, you were such a witty and lively man. You are gratefully missed.
May God comfort your loved ones who keep the memories of you as you journey on.
🌹

Yes oo.Goddy what can i say? You were such a nice person to be with, telling hilarious jokes with my late husband Bill. As neigbours in Doyle Gardens London,we visited regularly watching movies especially on Saturtdays.You are gone but memories still linger on.Rest in Peace.Say hi to Bill for me.

To Grandad

I can’t believe you’re gone. It doesn’t feel real. It feels like a terrible dream. I can’t fathom the fact that I will land in Cameroon in a few weeks and you won’t be there alive.

I have so many fond memories of our time together in Cameroon. From the Bonamoussadi house in Douala; all the meals with more cousins taking their place at the table every few years. All of us piling into the back of your green Mercedes for the short journey to church on Sunday. Walks in the compound in Bojongo during my gap year trip home. I have a picture of you standing proudly next to pawpaw tree on the farm. That day you told me your dreams of building an extension with rooms for all the cousins and their future partners - at this point we’d definitely outgrown the rooms in the house! We dreamed of a family bakery in Limbe and a mini van for the Sunday trips up the hill to church in Bojongo. Thank you for all the memories. I’m so glad we took so many pictures over the years - you definitely passed on your love for photography!

You taught me that no dream is too big. You used to call me at 6am just to talk, and tell Grandma you wanted to speak to ‘your granddaughter Efosi’ when she’d tell you it was too early! You’d tell me that I’d end up working on Wall Street or in the City of London. Well your prayers were answered - I’m working in the City and running a photography business. I hope I’m making you proud.

I’m so sad you won’t be at my wedding, but I’m so thankful you knew of Ola and knew I would be taken care of. You’ll be there in spirit and we’ll save a chair for you.

I miss you so much. I pray you rest in peace.

Until we see again,
Lia

Dearest Daddy,
I will never forget your kind spirit and gentle nature. Being around you was just soothing. Thank you for being a great human to us all. May you rest in peace with the Lord.

Good morning daddy.I have so many updates to tell you. I miss your voice. A tribute page just for you . I bet you are smiling. Daddy I cannot remember a day that you yelled at me or at us. It was not your style at all . If you raised your voice it was very rare . You were a gentle giant. Very gentle in all your ways, cheeky and funny. Weh rest well. You have tried.