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Jan!  

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Jan!  

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With raw disbelief and great sadness, we share that Janet Ann Sillik - our 'Miss Jan, Aunt Jan, Grandma Jan, Mom' - passed away on July 7, 2026, after a brief hospitalization.   
Jan was born in Jacksonville, Florida on September 10, 1943, the daughter of Evelyn Florida Davis Jones and Robert Edward Jones. Lifetime resident of Jacksonville, she graduated from Baldwin High School where she was a cheerleader who graduated at 16 and went on to Stetson University in Deland. 
Jan was an active member of St. Peter’s Episcopal Church and continued her worship at Christ Church in Jacksonville. Many beyond Jacksonville will remember Jan as a devoted member of the Florida Federation of Garden Clubs, serving as its President from 2011 to 2013. She enjoyed great food and was a champion at organizing/delegating for large events. 
Anyone who knew her will remember her as a rare spirit, with a zeal and passion for family, strong friendships and good conversation. Jan was joy! Light! Flowers! Miss Jan loved deeply and loyally and believed passionately in the enduring love of family. Her friends and family will know that she was devoted to her son Chris and his wife Inna, and she adored her grandchildren. She was a faithful servant of the Lord and devoted to living a life of faith. 
Our Jan also had a loving circle of close friends who were valuable support to her throughout her life. Because of her extensive background as copywriter, editor and writer, and as a lover of her trove of inherited stories and customs, she could speak either eloquently or adopt the rhythm and idioms of her past, most especially when retelling some story from her or her family. She made friends easily, making even the newly-met a sudden extended family.  
She loved her home and living on the land her father had developed a built a house on. She loved being around her sculptural artifacts from her time with floral design and her stacks of books accumulated over the years. 
She was also a collector of family memories and all manner of items that triggered an artistic or memorable inspiration. She was a master of floristry design, an avid reader especially of non-fiction because she burned for knowledge and understanding a full picture. There were so many books in her house, they could have been used for furniture! She was a frequent visitor to the public library and a lover of the spoken story, traveling miles and miles yearly to take in the best storytellers in the country, forever longing for the warmth of a story around a log-burning stove. 
She was a huge presence and had a larger-than-life personality, even as she regaled us on the last day of her life with a story she told about the Meyers-Briggs evaluation that had labeled her an “I”: an Introvert. Sher even joked about her “Dollies.” We can’t talk about that here, but ask us sometime. 
She is at peace now, resting in the arms of her mom and dad, a host of West Florida relatives, Ain’ts (Aunts), Cuddins (Cousins), and a whole “passel” of Joneses and Davises from tiny Alpha, all the way to Fernandina Beach, (and particularly Amelia Island) Florida. 
Jan lives on through her son Chris Dickson, her daughter-in-law Inna Dickson; the radiant smile of her grandchild Amelia, the mischievous humor and spirit in Leo and Bruno Dickson; and in her sister-law Jackie Jones, niece Amity Jones, nephews Adam and Ron Jones (Marie) and great nieces Evelyn and Elaina. 
A funeral will be held on August 2, at 2 p.m., Christ Church on 103rd Street on Jacksonville’s Westside. We would welcome you there to celebrate the life of Jan Sillik and share some warm memories and healing.  
And in the meantime, if you have memories and photos you’d like to share here, we invite you to do that or email us to include files and give us permission to post. We are hopeful you will be able to help us document her presence in all our lives. 

Thank you all!

THANK YOU Christ Church, Garden Club of Jacksonville, family and friends, and so many caring people for a sweet, memorable service and reception. It means so much. To join together in remembrance of my Mom, to hear and share stories, and love. Thank you.  

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August 7, 2026
Mrs. Jan so many wonderful memories over the years . She would always say -Jackson take a photo . Little did she know I took more photos of the specials moments we had & things she shared with me about family. I remember this one particular Christmas she was so excited about seeing her grands & family . She went out bought laser guns for the boys & she was just so excited . I took flowers poinsettia every Christmas to her home & it warmed her heart so! This photo was in 2022. We would eat a fish sandwich sometimes & order ( pizza ) from the Loop. She enjoyed those pizzas ( funny ) she would say, Jackson! Go grab us a sandwich & we would talk for hours & she would have a funny story for me a little joy in the moment . It took me a week after her funeral to find the joys in the moments we shared & I needed to process this sudden news. Even at the funeral I said to myself I can hear voice in my head as if we just talked . Anyhoot, she always had a show & tell moment when I came over . Jackson!? Let me show you what I did today. May of been her crossword puzzles she liked …or a story she shared & I can’t forget the pizza from then loop . Lol I’m going to miss you Mrs Jan & I want to thank you as I did for all the teachings in the garden you shared with me . She made a cake look at the details
Flower mums & Hydrangeas so beautiful she couldn’t wait to show it to me the 100th birthday at the home & Garden club.
You will be truly missed .

With Love always your friend Jackson .
Marquis Jackson
August 4, 2026
Chris and family, thank you for the privilege of being a part of saying my farewells to your dear mother, mother-in-law, and grandmother accordingly. I thought the world of her, as did many. What a blessing to have experienced life with her and Bill.
Please heal when able and know she is in the presence of our Lord and Savior! Until we all meet again. Have a beautiful life and super duper safe trip home. Continued blessings to you all!!!!!
Love and hugs,
Emery Mills
Catch The Drift ❤️
Emory mills
August 3, 2026
Jan standing in front of a gorgeous arrangement that she made for the Garden Club lobby for the Ninah Cummer Birthday Brunch Celebration. Also show here standing to receive some sort of special recognition, which, of course she greatly deserved!
Susan Currie
August 1, 2026
I heard of Jan long before I actually got to meet her,my son Marquis started mowing her lawn and eventually incorporated landscaping into his lawn service due to Ms Jan being such an advid reader on flower gardening. I remember the very first time Marquis mowed her yard i got a call about how whimsical Jan's flower garden looked i even got pictures. About 3 years ago I got to meet Jan, what a joy, she will be remembered for having a heart full of flowers.
Phyllis Jackson
July 31, 2026
I am heartbroken to say goodbye to a truly special friend. I was blessed to know you for 34 years, and your kindness, talent, and generous heart touched so many lives.

You played the piano at my wedding, helped me creat beautiful floral arrangements that brightened countless family, school and church events, and were always willing to share your gifts with others. I always knew I could stop by or call and you would support me in any way possible. It was my honor to be your friend and hairdresser. I always enjoyed creating your "pillow hair", making you feel younger and testing you with my sheers. You were always afraid I was taking to much off but thanked me afterwards.

Thank you for the beautiful memories, the laughter, and the friendship. The world is a little less beautiful without you in it, but your legacy of love, faith, and kindness will live on in everyone who was fortunate enough to know you.

Rest peacefully, my dear friend. You will be deeply missed and forever remembered. 💜
Crystal Starling
July 31, 2026
I got to know Miss Jan over 30 years ago when for many years I was her gardener at her beautiful home in Cedar Hills. I loved working with her and delighted in her natural, flowing style of gardening: nothing stiff or formal here! Her flower beds were a riot of color and variety, all growing together in vigorous profusion -- a lively harmony of beauty, much like herself!
I so enjoyed her warm and cheerful spirit. Even in her last years when she endured a great sorrow, she always chose to hope and believe the best of others.
May she rest in peace in the arms of Jesus Christ, the true Master Gardener!
"...to appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He might be glorified" (Isaiah 61:3).
Margret Meyer
July 31, 2026
District IV garden clubs will greatly miss our ‘Jan’. She will be remembered by her friendly smile, quick wit, and great love of floral design. She was our district director from 2001-2003 and our state president from 2011-2013. Jan was active in making and teaching floral designs. She shared her talents with us by creating the program, ‘Fun with Flowers’; still used by garden clubs throughout the state as a great fundraiser and teaching experience. During her years as state president, she introduced ‘co-ed camping’ at Wekiva. Jan mentored and encouraged everyone she encountered to grow plants, use them in designs, and share the joy with others. Her talents and humor brought smiles to many. Jan, we will miss your friendship, laughter, enthusiasm, and creativity always. District IV Garden Clubs
District IV Garden Clubs
July 31, 2026
Jan was so positive and fun to be around.
I had the honor of picking up a few food and drink items and prescriptions for her and doing some housework and trying to get her to get rid of items and downsized so I could clean better and would tell her will will just do baby steps so she wouldn't stress .
She loved talking about her family and friends and stories of her life.
She was such a joy to be around .
She will be missed by many.
When I think of her I always smile.
Loving memory
Cindy Hoffman
Cindy Hoffman
July 31, 2026
Not only kind and generous, but a true inspiration. Jan taught a 'Fun with Flowers' workshop in St. Augustine in 2007 and that started my journey into floral design and flower show judging.
She was the ultimate true southern lady and so very talented.
We will miss your sweet smile and contributions to the world of flowers!
Keep designing in heaven my friend!
Carol Sisco
July 30, 2026
How I loved "Gluegun Jan"! She was my inspiration and mentored me thru FFGC. Her wisdom, wit, and love of life was a blessing to all who knew her. How I will miss our Sunday phone calls and lunches together. Her creativity was unsurpassed. What a wonderful teacher, dear friend and one of God's angels.

Sam Runyon
Smaro "Sam" Runyon
July 30, 2026
Jan was one of my favorite garden club friends. She always made you feel welcome, by her southern charm and wit. Our mutual love of being Jacksonville natives, southern girls, and love of plants and culinary arts, gave us many endless conversations. She inspired me to be active in garden club’s many adventures. I have lots of ‘Jan’ memories with long laughs and a few tears. We started the co-ed week at Camp Wekiva and I told her, ‘they would either ‘love us or hate us’. Since it still exist, we can smile. I am certain Jan’s love for life will grace the cosmic universe forever. Always in my heart and memories. Kalia
Kalia Baillene
July 29, 2026
Ms Jan was a wonderful person. We only met a few time and each time was very enjoy. Ms Jan you will be greatly missed.
John
July 29, 2026
Grandma! I will always cherish the memories we made together. Having fun at Hampton Inn with movies and games; going shopping at our favorite places; going to Disneyland, the zoo, fairs, and parks; going to restaurants; and having picnics. And of course, charades ;) I loved having wonderful conversations with you about our favorite books, flowers, and the latest news. And there is so much more that I will always remember.

We will always be the OG Hampton Inn Girls.

Love you and miss you soooo much.
Amelia Dickson
July 29, 2026
Grandma! We loved spending time with you! No one could spoil us better than you. I will miss you!

Bruno Dickson
July 29, 2026
Grandma was so fun and loving! I loved coming over to her house and watching football with her. She knew so many stats and names of players (she definitely knew more about football than I did!) Grandma also loved reading and always kept us updated on stats and football news. We watched the FIFA World Cup together. My brother and I tried to teach her all about soccer: rules, teams, and players! After games we would always call and talk about the game we just watched (both with soccer and football). When we visited, we would also make s'mores and play fun games! I loved going to Olive Garden and Cracker Barrel (our favorite restaurant to go to together) with her, and staying at Hampton Inn and having fun in the pool. Grandma was a really caring and sweet person and I really miss her and will always think of her. Love you Grandma!
Leo Dickson
July 29, 2026
We remember you, Jan! It was always fun with you!


Лилия
July 27, 2026
I met Jan in 1976 when we both worked for St. John’s Management Co.- even then, she was creative and funny- we re- connected 20 years later thru a garden club dinner- we were District Directors together- and she ‘persuaded’ me to follow in her leadership footsteps. Jan’s strengths were her creativity and enthusiasm- but her loves were her son, daughter-in-law and her grandchildren- they were truly the light of her life. I hate that the end of her life was not as happy, but her comforts were her family and her religious beliefs- I am glad she is at peace with our Lord, and knew the love of her son and his family- they were her true pride and joy.
Claudia MacKenzie Bates
July 27, 2026
I was so sorry to hear of Janet’s passing. We called each other occasionally and I will really miss those conversations. She always had news of her family to share. This has brought back memories of Uncle Robert and Aunt Evelyn to me. Love and prayers to all of you.
Vivian Jones Holley
July 27, 2026
Aunt Jan also loved her brother, Terry, very much. He would often join her at my home when I hosted holidays. She was famous for her amazing caviar pie and she would always bring me a nutcracker at Christmas to add to my collection.

Carissa Kiesow
July 27, 2026
She really was good with words, word choice, descriptive. She used to have a dog, a poofy white Chinese Shih Tsu breed (pronounced 'sheed zoo'), whom she named "Sushi". Before that she had a little charcoal grey dog, some mix of Maltese-Yorkie, and named him - yes, "Smokey" because he looked like a puff of smoke but also after the movie 'Smokey and the Bandit'.
Chris
July 27, 2026
I was privileged to know Jan from Flower Show Judges Council. She welcomed me as a new member when I moved to Florida. I admired her talent and dedication to the art of floral arranging and learned from her. She was a kind woman.
Mariette Wooden
July 26, 2026
So many people adore you Mom, you touched so many lives. Love you Mom.
Chris
July 26, 2026
Jan instantly embraced me as an NGC Flower Show Judge in 2013 when I moved to NE Florida, leaving behind my many beloved mentors in GA. She gave me a hug after we were introduced. I knew I had found my people. I will always cherish the lessons she taught me about floral design and will miss her radiant smile and the twinkle in her eyes. I know she is designing flowers in Heaven now along with my other precious mentors.
Beverly Williams
July 25, 2026
My heart is heavy of the passing of Aunt Jan. I have so many fond memories of.spending the night with her as a child, playing grocery store, games, and going to the library. She would always bring me peanut butter Captain Crunch cereal on a wicker tray in bed. She an my mom had a special friendship that spanned almost 50 years!

As an adult, I had the pleasure of hosting her for many holidays as well Chris and Inna when they were in town. We shared so much laughter.

She loved Chris and his family beyond measure! She put so much thought and effort into making their visits extra special!

She was a beautiful, fun, and talented lady who will be missed dearly!

Carissa
Carissa
July 25, 2026
Jan enjoyed sharing lunch with friends. Always good conversation. Beautiful smile, and oh, how her eyes lit up when talking about her grandchildren! She is missed so much but it’s comforting knowing she knew Jesus and is now sharing stories with Him and others who’ve gone before. Praying for you and your dear family, Chris. So happy she had those last days with you.
Sherry Brundage
July 25, 2026
Mom you were the best. Always always always sweet and positive and uplifting and fun!
Chris
July 24, 2026
Miss you Mom. Thinking about you every day.
Chris

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We are working on several special ways to remember Jan and share her joy:
   •  Christ Church Anglican. She served as a Scripture Reader and in the Floral ministry. It would be a tribute to her to help cover weekly Sunday services floral arrangements. 
   •. Garden Club of Jacksonville. She served as a Floral Design Judge , Instructor, and in leadership culminating as the State President of the Florida Federation of Garden Clubs. A tribute to her would be to help support floral designing including her flagship contribution, Fun With Flowers. 
   •. Jacksonville Public Library. Her Library card was her most valuable card and got the most use! She loved books and stories. A special tribute at her Wesconnett Library would mean so much. 

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