Zelle Flor Arrogante Frazier

Goodbyes are not forever, are not the end; it simply means I'll miss you until we meet again

Obituary

Bing Frazier, a beloved wife, mother, sister and respected professional, passed away on January 2, 2025 surrounded by her family and loved ones. Bing was a cornerstone of her community and an inspiration to many, leaving behind a legacy of dedication, kindness, and leadership.

Born in Cebu City, Philippines, Bing grew up in a close-knit family deeply rooted in faith. As the daughter of a pastor, she spent her early years moving across the Philippines, experiencing life in different provinces and building lasting connections wherever her family went. These experiences instilled in her a profound sense of adaptability, kindness, and unwavering faith that guided her throughout her life.

In 1981, Bing embarked on a new chapter, moving to Los Angeles, California, in pursuit of new opportunities and dreams. Her professional journey took her to Philips Electronics and Hill & Knowlton, where she was known for her strong work ethic, attention to detail, and genuine care for her colleagues.

One fateful evening, Bing’s life took a beautiful turn. The night before she was set to move to New York for a new job opportunity, she went out with a friend and met John, also known as Ben, the man who would become her life partner. Captivated by their instant connection, Bing chose to stay in Los Angeles, a decision that changed her life forever.

Bing and Ben dated for four years before getting married and, in 1992, welcomed their daughter, who became the center of their world. In 1998, with their daughter’s future in mind, they made the heartfelt decision to move to Loma Linda. There, they found a supportive community and excellent educational opportunities, creating a nurturing environment for their family to thrive.

Born with a heart for service, Bing devoted 26 years of her life to Loma Linda University Medical Center (LLUMC), where she began her journey in 1999 in Human Resources. She played a vital role in the recruitment of non-clinical staff, bringing her compassion and professionalism to every aspect of her work. In 2000, she transitioned to the Medical Surgical Nursing department as a Data Procedures Coordinator, where she assisted in the Sir Run Run Shaw Hospital project. Her role evolved as she transitioned to the Department of Case Management and then to the Office of International Affairs, where she thrived for 13 years as Program Manager.

Bing was instrumental in the growth of Loma Linda University Health’s Global Health Institute, managing the international professional development program which welcomed and developed over 3,000 international students, including doctors, nurses, and healthcare administrators. Her efforts significantly advanced global healthcare education and strengthened LLUH’s international collaborations.

Bing’s warmth, wisdom, and unwavering dedication to others will be remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing her. She leaves behind a legacy of compassion and service that will live on through the countless lives she touched.

Family and friends are invited to join in honoring her extraordinary journey and bidding her a heartfelt farewell. Her service will be live-streamed and recorded. 

Her celebration of life will be held at the following location: 
Loma Linda University Church Auditorium (Annex) - Sunday, March 9, 2025 at 10am PST
11125 Campus Street, Loma Linda CA 92354
There will be signs out front 
Reception to follow at Fellowship Hall 

Livestream Link (beginning at 10am PST): 
https://vimeo.com/event/4846770/250d95211d

Parking Information: 
P1 Parking Garage, Level 2 and 3
11150 Campus Street, Loma Linda 92354

In lieu of flowers and cards, the family requests that donations be made to the family's memorial expenses and/or the LLUH Global Health Institute, in memory of Bing Frazier and her enduring commitment to global health and furthering education. If you would like to write a card, please write a message below in the Memory Wall section for us all to enjoy for years to come. 

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February 26, 2026

It is 6 years after participating in the program, the time that shared with Ms.Bing will be unforgettable. As I review the pictures taken at that time, I couldn’t help remembering the old days with Bing and being into tears. The day we in Disneyland you asked me to raise the huge turkey leg and take the picture, the day when you cried after Kobe’s death and we visited outside the Staples. Your words and kindness have already been the lighthouse deeply rooted in my spirit, your behavior indicated that “Death is not the end of life, forgetting is the end of life”. You will be remembered with affection.

Edward Wang, MD

March 9, 2025

Dear Bing,
Your words left on the wall deeply touched me. You'll never gone and will always be by our side. Over the years, you've been an outstanding mentor and a kind sister to me. I've always enjoyed working and talking with you. And every colleague who visited LLUH returned to me full of appreciation for your thoughtful arrangements. Thank you for everything you've done, for SRRSH, for CIC, and for me personally. May you enjoy the peace and the tranquility now. Zoe

ZOE HU

March 9, 2025

I can hardly express words when I received the news that Bing has passed away. In my visit to Loma Linda in October 2023, even though she was busy at the registration table attending to the delegates of the conference, she took time out of her post and greeted us in our table. It was such a loving act from someone so thoughtful and caring. We went to the corner of the hall and I prayed for her. She wiped a tear after the prayer and said, "Everything will be all right. God is with us."

Bing has touched our lives. Bing has done so much for the two institutions that I have worked with her. She was an angel to us. We look forward to the resurrection morning where there will be no more death that will separate us from a loved one like Bing.

Hector Jr Gentapanan

March 9, 2025

Bing Frazier....a dear, dear friend. O how I miss her!

She was one in a million... in terms of work ethic, in organization, in attention to detail, in thoroughness, in punctuality, in trustworthiness. It would be difficult to find someone who could hold a candle to her in terms of these qualities. And on top of all that, she was a generous and faithful friend!

As Program Manager of the LLUMC's Office of International Affairs, she received my communications and facilitated my acceptance in 2007 into my mentorship in Pediatric Heart Transplant Program at the LLU Heart Institute under my mentors the late Dr. Leonard Bailey and Dr. Anees Razzouk, as well as mentorship in Wellness and Whole Person Care, Spirituality, and Bioethics at the LLU School of Medicine, under Dr. Wil Alexande, Dr. Carla Gober, and Dr. Gerald Winslow, respectively.

When I became founding dean of the Adventist University of the Philippines College of Medicine (AUPCOM), established in 2015, Bing was so overjoyed, and we two discussed and formulated the plan to have outstanding AUPCOM graduating 4th year medical students undergo a month and a half clinical exposure at our sister institution, the LLU Medical Center as part of their clinical clerkship. This was approved by President Dr. Richard Hart and then LLU School of Medicine Dr. Roger Hadley. The Covid lockdown delayed the sending of clinical clerks, but was eventually carried out in April-May 2022 with the first group of four clinical clerks rotating, followed by six clinical clerks in 2023, and eight in 2024, all under the term of LLUSM Dean Dr. Tammi Thomas and LLUMC Clinical Coordinator Dr. Kevin Codorniz. The LLU experience has been unanimously appreciated and treasured by the rotators, not only for the wealth of clinical knowledge gained, but because of the memorable motherly care provided by Bing Frazier. This year eight clinical clerks will be going to LLUMC this April-May 2025, thanks to the ongoing AUPCOM-LLUSM clinical exposure program that Bing Frazier had a big hand in spearheading. Personally, and as administrator of AUPCOM, I truly cannot thank Bing Frazier enough. Thank God for her in my life and AUPCOM's life.

Good bye, dear friend...... See you on resurrection morning.
In Christ's love, Doris

Doris Adsuara Mendoza, MD

March 9, 2025

On behalf of the Children’s Hospital of Zhejiang University School of Medicine, we extend our deepest condolences on the passing of Bing. She was a remarkable friend and partner. Her leadership in international professional development strengthens the ties between Loma Linda University and our hospital. We will always remember Bing's kindness and wisdom in our hearts.

SHU QIANG

March 9, 2025

It is our great loss of such a kind and sweet partner, Bing Frazier. It is her that be our closest colleague and friend that once we set up our friendly relationship with LLUMC almost two decades ago. We remembered her efforts and promotion that help us build up a stable collaborative relationship with LLUMC officially and personally. Bing’s legacy of kindness and compassion will continually inspire us, and her absence will be deeply felt. We send our deep condolences and empathy to her family and loved ones and will remember her long forever.

FU JUNFEN

March 9, 2025

Dear Bing,

As I reflect on the year 2011 when I first arrived at Loma Linda GHI for advanced studies, your guidance was like a beacon. You personally taught me how to provide the best service for various visiting foreign delegations and how to handle international cooperation projects efficiently.

During the 18 years of our partnership with Loma Linda, you warmly welcomed every visiting trainee from our side, ensuring that they all had a fruitful and meaningful learning experience. We are eternally grateful for the tremendous contributions you have made to international cooperation over the years.

I miss you so much. Please accept my deepest condolences to your family. May you rest in peace.

Michelle

March 7, 2025

My dear Bing! So many joyful memories of special GHI trips. She opened so many doors for her participants. I will miss going to Phil's Barbeque in San Diego with Bing. No one knows all the great eating spots like Bing! It was a pleasure to know her. she will be deeply missed. My friend Bing...

Elijah M Hajj

March 7, 2025

I've had the pleasure of working with Bing.
I always knew we were going to have a good time together. We've gone to Torrey Pines, Cabrillo Park, Coronado Island, Midway and Phil's Bar-B-Q in San Diego. Not to mention Cabazon, the Stapes Center and to many places to name. Anytime Bing wanted to take a trip to San Diego we all knew Phil's was one of the stops. She has a great pallet for food. She seemed to know all the best places to eat, and all the visiting International Staff always had a great time with her, young and older, she was a pleasant, force. She was telling me about how the food was best from a dirty kitchen. I sat listening, looking puzzled because the Bing I knew; uses 3 seat covers in public :-) she always has some kind of hand sanitizer with her, she would clean the dorms herself and even hire her own maid to clean the rooms when she didn't have the time. She is so picky that she would clean the tops of the refrigerators as well. So, dirty kitchen....... she must have read my facial expression, because; she explained that they used to have two kitchens. One for guest where the dishes were nicely stacked and put away where food could be served, and the other kitchen was where they would have pots and pans everywhere using all kinds of ingredients to make the best tasting food. It was clean but messy. So, they called it the dirty kitchen.:-) We had a good laugh.... after I understood. She made us all, laugh and think and share. Even when the language barrier sometimes made it interesting to communicate with one another. Bing found a way to connect us all. Did I mention that I am working, during all of this:-) Man! she always makes it fun. I speak about her in the presence because we serve a God of the living. And although her body is done her spirit is with our God.
I hold on to what she said when I asked her; "Why are you cleaning the dorms?" she said they weren't cleaned to her satisfaction and went on to say that, she believed, that you should treat people the way you want to be treated. I took that as the great commandment:

Matthew 22:36-40
Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.

If father allows you to rest Bing... rest in peace. If father allows you to watch, cheer us on and keep praying. I love you now and forever!

Priscilla

March 7, 2025

Remembering Our Dear Bing
At the beginning of 2020, I took a group of students to Loma Linda, USA, for an exchange program. Bing, as the primary contact, arranged all our academic and daily life activities. When we first arrived in the US, I struggled to adapt, but Bing was incredibly kind, thoughtful, and patient in helping me adjust. He constantly encouraged and supported me. That period was particularly special and challenging as the COVID-19 pandemic emerged. Faced with an unknown disease, I felt panicked and lost about the future. During that time, Bing continually comforted me and eventually helped me cut my program short, allowing me to return home smoothly.
When I heard that Bing had passed away, I was deeply saddened. I will always remember him as a kind and warm-hearted teacher and friend during my time in the US.

Shujuan

March 7, 2025

March 7, 2025
Dear Ms. Bing,

Since 2011, nearly 14 years have passed. I vividly recall when you meticulously organized our trip from Sir Run Run Shaw Hospital in China to Loma Linda University in 2011. Your warm and personal welcome on campus, along with the patient and thorough familiarization tour you provided, left a lasting impression on me. I am profoundly grateful for having such an exceptional friend who feels like family.

Bing was not only talented and beautiful but also radiated kindness, helpfulness, and joy in everything she did. Despite the vast distance between us, our friendship remained strong throughout the years.

Please accept my sincere condolences on behalf of Bing's family, her friends, and the entire Loma Linda community. The world has lost an extraordinary woman, and we are truly saddened by this loss. You will always be my friend, Bing, and you will be missed forever.

Sincerely,
David Lin

David Lin

March 7, 2025

Dear Bing,I was devastated to hear about your illness and deeply grieve your passing. I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for the invaluable assistance and support you provided during our time working together.
When I was in the United States for two weeks, your support, both professionally and personally, was crucial. You offered emotional encouragement that I truly needed. Your patient guidance on complex projects and meticulous support with daily tasks greatly enriched my professional experience. You not only enhanced my skills but also taught me invaluable lessons about dedication, optimism, and teamwork. Your professionalism and enthusiasm were a great encouragement and strength to our team, especially during critical moments.
May you rest in peace, and may your memory continue to inspire us to strive for excellence and kindness in all that we do.

Amy Wang

March 7, 2025

Dear Bing Jiejie,
You were a significant figure whose dedication and enthusiasm were integral to shaping SRRSH staff into professional, charitable, and diligent people throughout the past 30 years. With your help, care, and coordination, every hospital colleague who visited LLUH before received wonderful visiting experiences and warm care from you. We all greatly appreciated your excellent support and guidance.
Personally, you were an inspiring mentor, a dear family member, and a guiding light for me. I always remember your encouragement: "Strive for greater excellence in the work, meanwhile, becoming a responsible, honest, and compassionate person." Under your guidance, I have developed into a capable, competent, and caring person.
Your impact and guidance will forever be cherished in our hearts. All of us will remember you forever.

Elaine Zhan

March 6, 2025

Dear Ms. Bing,

As time goes by, I often think about the special people who made a real difference in my life. Today I want to honor your memory and say thank you for everything you did for me.

Thirteen years ago when I first came to the United States, your kindness made all the confusion feel manageable. You didn't just help me with practical things like understanding work culture or daily routines – you showed me what American life truly feels like. Thanks to you, what could have been a stressful experience became a meaningful adventure.

I'll always remember our talks about what it really means to be a good doctor. When you talked with me about empathy, compassion, and why sympathy matters in medicine, it changed how I see my work. Those lessons aren't just words to me – they guide how I treat every patient now.

Even though I can't tell you this in person, I hope you know how much your help meant. Your kindness didn't just affect me – it's still helping people through the work I do every day. Wherever you are now, I hope you're at peace knowing how many lives you've touched.

With heartfelt thanks,
Eric Wang

Eric Wang

March 6, 2025

Dear Bing,
It's my privilege to meet you, know each other, be partners, and be friends because of our hospital's partnership with LLUH since 2006. Many good memories always come back to my mind. In my graduation ceremony at LLU, you arranged so many touching activities for me. I am really appreciated. In 15 years of working together, your dedication, professionalism and caring for others gave me a lot of inspiration. I miss you and pray for you. Thank you!

Helen

Helen SUN（ Xiao Ying）

March 6, 2025

Dear Jiejie,

We met in 2017 when you came to Dong E Hospital because of the China Project. Your warmth and kindness made me open up to you. You became my closest friend and co-worker.

You named and helped us set up the Office for International Partnerships. You guided me through many projects, teaching me how to plan and make detailed checklists. Your meticulousness and vision were truly inspiring.

In August 2024, I visited Loma Linda and saw you working despite your suffering. Even though walking was a struggle, you insisted on taking me to Santa Monica Beach. Every moment with you is a precious memory I will treasure forever.

I am committed to continuing the mission you left unfinished and to advancing our hospital’s international development. Your dedication will always be my guiding light.

May you rest in peace, free from pain forever. You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

With deepest love and gratitude,
Your Meimei,
Doren

Doren Ran Dong

March 6, 2025

I already told her this, that she was the light during my dark days in Loma Linda.
Indeed, one would make time for people who matter.
I never regret flying across the Pacific Ocean just to spend a day and a half with her.
This is not a permanent goodbye.
I’ll be seeing her on the resurrection morning.

Eunice

March 6, 2025

My sincere condolences to the family of Bing and the entire Loma Linda community.
Bing dutifully organized my trip to Loma Linda (from Malawi) in 2022. She passionately personally welcomed me on campus and patiently walked me around on a familiarization tour. Her team in the GHI offices rallied alongside her, ensuring that all the paperwork and my stay was as good as it could get. My stay was unforgettable and she remains a key part of the memories I gathered there.
I am glad I had the opportunity to have met her. A highly organized and compassionate lady.
It is sad that she had to leave rather soon. She will be fondly remembered.

Tamara Chirambo Nyaka

March 6, 2025

Bing was always so kind, professional and good at what she did! She was so great at supporting the mission of LLU, and helping connect us with all the International health care professionals. The world seems much emptier somehow without her in it. Sending deepest sympathy to her loved ones, she was an amazing woman.

Tami Shankel

March 6, 2025

A WONDERFUL PERSONALITY THAT LIGHTENS ANYBODYS LIFE EVEN WHEN SHE DOES NOT KNOW YOU.
A GERM THAT GOD AND MAN WILL BE FOREVER LOVE AND MISS.

Akin Obisanya

February 25, 2025

I am not gone. Not really. I haven't left you, not in the ways that truly matter. Close your eyes, and you will find me there, in the way your heart still knows mine. In all the things that made us-us. I have not gone far. I'm just beyond the veil of what you can see. And what's absence, after all, but a trick of the eye? I am not where you can reach anymore, but I am where you can remember. Do not let grief turn my name into something heavy. Something you can't speak without feeling the weight of loss in your chest. Let my name stay light. Say it as you always did, with easy and familiarity. You don't have to move on from me, just move forward with me. I mean, I was just here. Right next to you. Don't pack me away in boxes of sorrow, not yet. Speak of me like I'm still sitting beside you, like I never left, like I never could. Let my name live on in the moments when you laugh, when you love again. You don't have to let me go; just carry me differently. Lightly. Gently. With the same tenderness that once held my hand. And when the weight of missing me feels unbearable, When you reach for me in places I no longer fill, remember this--I am not gone. I am still here, just not in the the way I once was.

BING

January 16, 2025

My deepest sympathies at this difficult time. I have such warm memories of Bing. I have known her for many years at Loma Linda University Medical Center and the Global Health Institute. Her kindness, helpfulness and joy were very visible. Her attention to detail and assistance with global travel as I traveled for the first time to China were so much appreciated. Over the years I enjoyed working with Bing on the placement of nurses and visitors to our hospital campus. I will miss Bing and my prayers are will all her family, friends and colleagues.

Patti Radovich

January 11, 2025

My deepest sympathies and condolences to the family and friends of Bing.
I knew Bing at EVA during our high school days, having sung together with the Faith Singers. Bing was a talented and beautiful young lady when we were in high school.
However, I never knew she was living in Loma Linda and also a member of LLUC, where I volunteer for the Media, not until reading her name in our church bulletin. The last time I saw her was at EVA in the 1970’s.
After reading her obituary, I am so thrilled to know that she had lived a happy, successful, and blessed life, and with a loving and supportive family. It is my prayer that God will comfort you during your time of bereavement.
How I wish we can sing together, “No More Night…”

Alger Lasta

January 8, 2025

“The comfort of having a friend may be taken away, but not that of having had one”.
I am so grateful to have such an amazing friend who is like a family to me. I am thankful for those precious bonds we created over time and extending them to our children.
Until we meet again, ate Bing🌹

Jing Krato

January 5, 2025

Dearest auntie Bing, Uncle Ben, & Alexa,

We are truly sad the world lost a beautiful person. Uncle Ben, you & auntie were an awesome couple, always cheerful & funny to us & our kids. Alexa your mom was always so kind.

Our fondest memory of you auntie Bing was your kindness and cooking! When we got our first house in Redlands & hosted our first Thanksgiving, we had empty furnitures, but it didn't matter cause there were plenty of delicious meals. We were so surprised how you showed up with a bayong of bananas + big bottle of cooking oil as you wanted to make it fresh right in our kitchen! You were so gracious for every party and your cooking were always delicious but the banana fritters & tiramisu cake were our favorites! Hopefully uncle Ben & Alexa can continue making them. You were also helpful after party, manning the sink, cleaning dishes even when we try to shoo you away.

Thank you again for all your love, kindness & guidance! We'll miss you! Love, Prince, Cathy, Prandon & Gavin

Prince & Cath Arrogante

January 5, 2025

You are my Jiejie, forever, BING.
Separated by thousands of miles, I was grateful to be your Meimei because of the China Project. We were the best working partners, the pillar of my heart, and the beacon of my light. You explained that the quality of a visiting itinerary determines how far a project can go;  You shared, that women, need to be strong, keep reading and learning, and master their direction;  You emphasized that besides the professional development, Mom is the core of a family, spend time with your child as they grow up;  In a conversation just six months ago, you talked about visiting various cities and projects this time was extremely rewarding.  Bing, the China Project is your pride.  
Strong, diligent, self-disciplined, and willing to help...BING, you brought me radiance and love, thank you.  I miss you.

Sherry

January 4, 2025

My dear Tigay!

“Tigay” was an endearment between you and me which you started while we were still in college. That was the start of our bonding: bonded over shopping groceries, cooking, singing in the choir, chatting, etc. We shared so many things: Your mother and my mother were sisters, we went to the same University, age ( you beat me by a little over a month), our daughters are the same age too. Memories…. so many of them to recall but I’m very fortunate to have a cousin like you. Someone who was hilarious ( I still have the letter you sent me that makes me chuckle every time I read it), kind, loving, thoughtful, smart and generous. My only regret is that we allowed our busy lives to preclude us from interacting more frequently. Lesson learned. In myriad ways you have influenced me positively and I’m grateful for that. I will miss you and you will remain in my heart and mind. I love you Tigay. See you in the morning!

Merly

Merarie Doyle

January 4, 2025

My deepest sympathies to the loved ones who were lucky to be in Bing’s life. She’s always got a warm loving place in my heart forever. I love you Bing. Always here for you Alexa. Hugs!!!!

Rita Labuni

January 4, 2025

You’re the best mom. Your presence was big -
you were opinionated, kind, warm, funny and supportive. You would talk to strangers so easily, sharing life experiences and recipes to try. Even when you didn’t feel well throughout your treatment, you would check in on me and others who you knew were in moments of struggle. In high school, you were everyone’s 2nd mom or Auntie. Everyone wanted to be in your group when you were a chaperone on school trips. You were always on the go, planning the next dinner reservation or trip. You loved to plan events and loved eating good food at new places that you found online or watching reruns of Diners, Drive ins and Dives. You enjoyed finding new recipes to cook for us at home which you and Evan bonded over. You loved to travel and experience new cities and cultures but most importantly, you just loved being wherever we were. You were everything, to everyone, all at once. You gave me a lifetime of love in the 32 years we shared together, I just wish we had more time. There will be a missing piece of my heart forever, but I will hold onto seeing you again one day. Until then, I hope you’re sitting on the beach enjoying some sunshine. I’ll love you forever.

Alexa Frazier

January 4, 2025

Mahal,
You've always been my sunshine, there's never been a cloudy day. If someone asked me what was the best thing in my life, It was simply looking at you. I'm sad you're gone but I'm glad you're no longer in pain. I'm happy you're with Jesus. Thank you for the wonderful 32 years of marriage and 36 years of friendship. I would do it all over again with no hesitation. Your soulmate Ben.

Ben Frazier

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