
James (Wes) Wesley Bell

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. (Jeremiah 29:11-12)
Obituary
James Wesley Bell, aged 67, passed away on December 17, 2024 at his home in Plano, Texas. He was born June 15, 1957 to John and Marguriette Bell and raised with unapologetic Texas pride. Wes was a beacon of love, laughter, and generosity, whose presence touched all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Family was the center of Wes's universe. Wes was devoted to his loving wife of thirty-two years, Lisa. Together, they raised four wonderful children, instilling in them values of kindness, resilience, and hard work. Wes put his family at the heart of everything he did and took immense pride in his role as a father and provider. He loved sharing stories from his childhood, creating new traditions with his children (e.g., Dad’s Christmas Eve Gamapalooza Extravaganza), sharing his passion for Turner Classic Movies, working on old cars, and playing games with anyone he could convince to play. Family gatherings with Wes were filled with jokes and laughter, which will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered.
Wes was known for his tireless work ethic and dedication, achieving excellence in both his education and career. An innovative and tenacious computer scientist, Wes cultivated an expansive skillset that made him a leader in his field. In many instances throughout his career, colleagues became lifelong friends through mutual respect and admiration.
A history and politics buff who would read the U.S. Constitution for fun, Wes had a lifelong love for learning. From technical computer science books to learning about DC circuitry to conducting electrolysis experiments in the backyard, Wes was unafraid of the unfamiliar and constantly sought new knowledge. Much of his joy in daily life was derived from a sense of mastery, as well as imparting knowledge unto others.
An eccentric and awkwardly charming man, generosity was another cornerstone of Wes's character. Wes never met a stranger in his life, always engaging in friendly conversation wherever he went. He was quick to help others when the need arose, whether it was giving them the shirt off his back, sharing his unique and infectious laugh, or simply being there. Wes leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and kindness.
Per his wishes, Wes's body was donated to science. He is survived by his wife Lisa, his children Edwin, Christina, James, Elizabeth, their spouses Bianca, Katy, and Caroline, and countless more family members including his brothers John Lyn and Ron. His spirit lives on in the hearts of his family and friends, as they continue to celebrate the life of a truly remarkable man. His memory will forever be cherished by all who had the privilege of experiencing his warmth and friendship.
Revisit
Please revisit this website periodically when you think of Wes. All of us can and should continue to contribute photos and memories of Dad here to share with each other in loving memory of him.
Timeline
After leaving the hospital, he spent the majority of his recovery homeschooled and in traction, eating Goobers. Once he was mobile enough, he spent months rebuilding his motorcycle in his closet!
Fun fact: In the 8th grade, Wes was working nights as a dishwasher at Jimil's Lebanese Steak House and skipped school for an entire month. He faked sick to his school and faked attendance to his mother, and ate nothing but bread and butter to see what would happen, just for fun!
The couple was wed on September 19th, 1992. 👰🏻♀️🤵🏻♂️💒
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Wes was a treasure house of knowledge on Video technologies, US history, Constitution and much more. His approach to solving hard problems by diving deep and being curious led to Wes being the go-to engineer to solve tricky and hard problems. His eyes would light up on an opportunity to tackle complex engineering issues.
Wes was proud of his family, there was not a single interaction where he would not talk about Lisa and their kids. My heart goes out to his family and friends. Wes will be deeply missed and his spirit will live on through the numerous lives he touched.
Coming home will never feel the same. You filled the house with your boisterous laugh & constant goofiness. I don’t think a lot of people knew this, but you and I were kindred spirits. We shared so many of the same interests/appreciation of things, along with a lot of similar personality traits, good and bad, alike we were.
Our love of games and competitiveness, sometimes me getting out of hand🫣😬ooops -But , I think you secretly loved it! You always made me feel welcome as part of the family by giving me a hard time, from day one. I always felt so grateful that you appreciated and understood how much I love getting glam, you said it reminded you of GoGo. Foooood OMG Our love of food!! -obsession, or was it aggression? The looks that you and I would share between one another talking about food and how excited we became.
You always had a special place in my heart, because I understood you. Every time a picture would be shared of you, through the group chat, I would save it. I miss you so much and I want you to know how much I love you and cherish the moments and memories we had. I wish I could give you one last hug and kiss.
Your loving daughter-in-law ♾️ ,
Bianca



With lots of love,
Caroline
Being his namesake has been a rollercoaster my whole life. I remember as a kid being so proud of it, a preteen being embarrassed, and a teenager wanting to change it. Now, looking at his life and the man he was, I hope I can do justice to his legacy of friendship and generosity.
Growing up a giant nerd, loving video games, comic books, and fantasy, I always felt he didn’t get my hobbies. But as I look back, while he did not really appreciate them in the way I did, he was always telling me about people like Stan Lee, sharing with me the relationship between CS Lewis and JRR Tolkien, and did admire the art and programming behind my games. He truly tried in his own way to reach a middle place with me.
I will miss that obnoxious jokester will my whole heart.
Love you, Dad

We joined forces years later at NewMBC, sometimes working at his house, sometimes in an apartment that he rented for the team to work at, and sometimes flying out to LA to work. He loved the work we did and always took time to help and encourage everyone. We worked together one more time at ViewCast where we had many discussions about work life and his MBA studies.
The one constant throughout all of those times was his joyful spirit. He always encouraged me to pursue excellence. A few years ago we met for a long lunch and I remember he was just so proud of his family and happy with his work at Amazon. We had a lot of laughs remembering our times working on Monty Python games. He had an impact on my career and my life and I will always fondly recall our friendship.
You saved my life twice. Well probably more but most people probably didn’t realize that you were my stepdad who adopted me and Edwin. You took care of us and supported us like we were your biological children! You’re an amazing man and I miss you so very much. I pray that you are at peace and resting. I know that you probably challenged Gogo to a game of cards first thing when you got to heaven! Give her a hug from me and rest in peace now Daddy. We will take care of mommy.
Love you always,
Christina
P.S.
I’m flaring my nostrils for you!
Leftovers from our fridge were always safe with him, unless you had intended to eat said leftovers. If you really wanted to save your leftovers for yourself, you'd need to hide it, conceal it, write a threat on it (or a deal), and wish it well as you close the fridge door. Many times, we'd wake up in the morning and look for leftover pasta or pork chops or cake and it would be GONE (or nearly). Poof--Dad ate it. A sense of defeat would wash over me for years but eventually I strategized. I would save space in my belly and eat sushi leftovers between 12-6am, because they would be gone by 9am if he could get there before me. To this day, my favorite thing to eat late at night is leftover sushi from Densetsu, our favorite sushi spot.
Christina says I will have wrinkly eyeballs like Dad. Mom told her a while back that the doctor said he had "wrinkly eyeballs" and Christina said to Mom, "What?! He's so old he has wrinkly eyeballs?" Hearing this story, Edwin's eyeballs feel weird and so do mine, but I'm the one inheriting his wrinkly eyeball gene. I wonder if it's from laughter. I will say, Edwin and James got the human vacuum habit from him.
I got my habit of writing essays and sending really long texts from him as well. More words more fun I guess. He was notorious for sending essays in the family group chat and I’d match him any day. Oh the debates we had. I know he respected me for that, even though we held opposing positions on many things, because I was passionate and had a lot to say, like him. I feel unafraid of hard conversations in part because of the many controversial and conflict-filled conversations I’ve had with my dad. I know first hand how much you can disagree with and love a person.
Bobbi is over and we're picking hymnals for my dad. Back in the day, Mom says that Dad would slide all over Several octaves until he found the note. We enjoyed but ruled out a song that had lots of highs and lows across the scales, cracking up at my dad’s singing skills. He preferred to sing baritone or lower whenever possible, and I miss his singing.
Just now, I was watching a YouTube video about plants on my laptop in the den and remembered the many times he has asked me to turn whatever I’m playing off once he sat in his chair. He'd have the remote in his hand and start playing youtube clips of his own. We'd watch AFV together if it were the 2000s and various countries got talent if it were the 2010s. He would have been watching old movies any time and try to keep our company by sharing obscure facts about the film cast and crew. He didn’t always get the nuances and analogies from the plot, but that makes me laugh too.
At any rate, we could always agree on Family Feud back in the day. There were some jokes on there that have been repeated in my household more times than I have fingers and toes. For example, “Name an animal with four letters in its name.” “Alligator!” Classic.
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The lines between days have been blurred and I'm stuck sitting with what it means that you're gone. I miss you a frickin ton, Dad. Love you,
Elizabeth
He built some legendary spreadsheets which he had to tune to not break Excel chasing down a problem with timing of video packets that needed to be aligned with nanosecond precision on a device with limited memory, resulting in chattering in the audio. The resultant fix was labeled "Chasing Chipmunks"
For folks that didn't know Wes at work, he was considered the local SCTE-35 expert. SCTE-35 is the standard that describes metadata in how programs are marked for content (such as advertising). If you ever wanted to know how hard commercials are, go look up the spec. He could read SCTE-35 markers like Neo could read the matrix.
He did all these with that twinkle in his eye and unmistakeable smile I see in the photos. I am deeply saddened he is gone, and my heart goes out to his family, friends, co-workers. His light and spirit, will be missed.
He granted me such Dad quips as "I'm going to butter your biscuit, Triscuit." And I'll always think of Wes when I hear Zep's Physical Graffiti.
His memory is a blessing.

My Dad, Wes, taught me to work hard, to never stop learning, to always be myself, to pursue my passions and try new things, to be kind to others and to share in laughter whenever possible.
He loved to watch old movies, listen to rock ‘n roll turned up to eleven, work on old cars, and manicure his lawn.
I love you forever, Dad, and I will always remember you for these many things you have instilled in me. I’ll always be proud to be your son.

While reading the above question about Wes' favorite food: Steak I let out a good chuckle. I remember during lunch at the office one day he brought out one of the largest steaks I've seen and proceeded clean up every bite. I as an Oregonian knew I was no match for this man of Texas.
Wes you always made me feel welcomed every time I visited you. You will be missed a lot.
🩷Alyssa

We always had a good laugh. Just one memory of Wes from early on was from back in the 90s when I brought my younger brother's impossible math homework to him. Wes took one look at the equations, rubbed his hands together like a mad scientist, and said, "Math? Oh, I'm going to start salivating!" Without missing a beat, he solved everything in a flash, reading the answers out loud like he was dictating a bestseller. I handed it to my brother, who proudly turned it in as his own and scored an A+.
Whether it was working and cracking jokes or laughing about his wild driving skills, I’ll never forget how kind and welcoming he and his family were when I visited Texas, making me feel at home when I was far from my own. My heart goes out to Lisa, Edwin, Christina, James, and Elizabeth. And I know he’ll live on in spirit through those who loved him. Until we meet again, my friend.
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Favorites
Fruit cake. Bacon and Eggs.
Sweaty Cheddar (a.k.a. "Pocket Cheese").
Lisa and Edwin's Baby Food Mashed Potatoes, circa 2000.
Chicken Fried Steak. Pot Roast. Brisket!
James's poblano habanero meatloaf with provolone shallot mashed potatoes (much to Lisa's chagrin).
Acid Rock
Tibetan throat singing
Bagpipes
"Bon appetit" if he was at the dinner table.
"That's the best meal I've ever had!" after every meal he ever ate.
"Better save your nickels," despite being endlessly generous.
"It only takes one yes" when it comes to customer service.
Hutchin's Barbecue.
Sonny Bryan's Barbecue, once upon a time.
Freaks (1932)
The Wizard of Oz (1939)
And Then There Were None (1942)
Dr. Strangelove (1964)
Monty Python and the Holy Grail (1975)
The Blues Brothers (1980)
Happy Gilmore (1996)
MANY more silent and black & white films.
Dominos.
Billiards.
Monopoly, but he was a cheater (banned by Mom).
Bananagrams.
Blokus (banned by the children)
Low Rider by War.
Minnie the Moocher by Cab Calloway.
What's New Pussycat by Tom Jones.
Also everything else by Led Zeppelin.
The Big Bang Theory, later Young Sheldon.
Family Feud.
Faulty Towers.
Mindhunters.
He also genuinely loved going to the dentist.