
Wendy Drew

In memory, tribute and celebration of Wendy Drew
Wendy, our beloved mum, died unexpectedly on 12th March 2026.
As were her wishes to return to Aberystwyth, where she first moved to Wales and studied in the '60s, Wendy's funeral was held at Aberystwyth Crematorium on Saturday 25th April 2026 at 2:30pm; followed by a gathering at Medina - followed by sundown drinks afterwards on the Royal Pier Garden / Upstairs Bar.
Tributes
If you would like to leave a tribute to Wendy, share memories or photographs it would be wonderful to see these, you can do this below on the memory wall.
Donations
Donations welcome, in memory of Wendy, in aid of CND: Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament and The Wildlife Trust of South & West Wales: Cardigan Bay.
To make a donation please visit Wendy's Just Giving page: www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/donations-wendy-drew
Playlist(s)
Music especially selected by Wendy for her funeral are on this Spotify playlist, (use this short link) bit.ly/WendyDrew - all the tracks up to and including 'Be Yourself' were included in her service, the rest are Wendy's long list!
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6OlJQUWL68T9YQTCixi4LF?si=Awbw04I1Q8KYU-giAkMc4w
There is also a playlist curated by Gerty & Verity for Wendy "Reflecting Aberystwyth conversations April 2026" under Wendy's moniker "Mrs Pokinghorn" (if you know, you know!), available here:
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6RpiAncT1JrHoFwrYNotih?si=2CjGU8h5QreRilqKNOpGlw&pi=FmFVKSc0Sr-Lk
Gallery
Memory wall
It was Wendy's extraordinary contribution to the lives of so many who sat around the famous kitchen table.
Like much of Welshpool High Street now, it looked rather run down, uncared for and sad. It’s a cliché to say that places have seen better days, but Ael y Bryn definitely has. Those days when it was Wendy’s, and was the hub of a whole scene, and the beating heart of a multitude of social lives, were most certainly better. They were good days, and nights, and though they are long past, they are not lost because they live on in so many memories for so many people.
I can’t make it to Aberystwyth today, but I’ll be thinking of Wendy, and her literally fabled kitchen table and the people around it with great fondness and affection.
To Wendy, and to better days.
When Chris passed away in 2006 Wendy was such a strength and support to me. I will never forget her kindness ..... especially as she was grieving the loss of her best friend.
Sending heartfelt wishes at this sad time.
Xx
Sheila
Wendy and I both loved jazz and the emerging popular music scene. She could jive really well and I remember vividly a joyous night of dancing at the University “hop” when the Beatles song “she loves you yeah, yeah, yeah!” had literally just been released. No one had ever heard anything like it before and everyone, including Wendy and me went wild!
After graduation, my work meant that we moved around the country but that didn’t stop us from having a family….so Trudy was born in Llandudno, Rachel in York, Katie in Chirk and Drew in Essex! In spite of all this movement Wendy devoted her time to the family and was a wonderful wife and mother.
Those were very happy times with dear Wendy ….we had lots of fun and had many dear friends. But I will always remember her so fondly for her support of me at that time and for being such a loving and caring mother of our children of whom she and I are so proud.
With love
Rod xx
The world was a far better place when she was in it.
The world is a far poorer place now that she's left it.
Wendy,
I can still hear my own footsteps on your stairs going up to the kitchen.
I can still hear me, Ade, Larry and Dave playing in your attic.
I can still hear your voice and your laugh.
I can still taste the rollup I'm smoking at your kitchen table.
Safe journey to wherever, you...
You'll be missed, really.
XXX
A poem for my dear auntie Wendy with fondest memories by Laurence Gerrans Reeve - April 2026
One
In the sadness of
Dear Wendy’s death
Let us pause and take
A ponderous breath
Just perhaps
Two
To consider the thought
That just perhaps
Nature knows
No pointless lapse
Just perhaps
Three
That all the life
We daily see
Comes back to right
Renewed and free
Just perhaps
Four
Too good to be true
Just perhaps you’ll say
It’s just not possible
It is not the way
Just perhaps
Five
That the pain of death
Is not the end
But a darkened road
With an invisible bend
Just perhaps
Six
And that just perhaps
Again we’ll see
Her smiling face
With youthful glee
Just perhaps
She was such an important person in many people’s life, me included. Those formative years of teenage life and early 20s were better for Wendy being there, unquestioning she accepted us into her home. Ael y Bryn, or Wendy’s as it was always referred to was a hub of life at most anytime of the day and nowadays I seldom pass the house without glancing a smile its way.
She was an integral presence during these years and always welcoming and will be sadly missed X
Being around Wendy was like a tonic - social nights with wine and roll ups, honest conversations, sharp wit, always animated and interested. I think about this and can see her vividly, smiling, laughing and eyes shining brightly. Relaxed mornings (she seemed to have perfected the art of the weekend lie-in!), the best toast and marmalade…Being just one day apart in our birthday , we exchanged cards for many years, with a tradition of who could send the most ridiculous “dog themed” card. Every time I opened her card it made me chuckle. I always have and always will, think of Wendy with the utmost fondness and deepest gratitude . With love, Tam XXX
All those coaches she organised to get us to those demos, which were very major events in the life of an idealistic Montgomeryshire teen. I hope she knew what a lodestar she was for us misfit youths back then.
One memorable winter’s day and night, when a severe cold snap made everything freeze up, presumably including the buses, and Wendy had a resulting houseful of impromptu guests including me, and we had to get water from the Buttery, because the pipes were all frozen. (It reached -25C in Shropshire that night, I don’t know what the temperature was in Welshpool but it was bloody cold!) Wendy was quite unphased by having an unplanned houseful and no water… no panic or irritation, just her usual cheerful hospitality.
Sitting on a sunny afternoon in the beer garden at the Talbot - a very characteristic Wendy memory. The roll-ups! Her big husky laugh (possibly related). Her love of Trad jazz. Her general love of fun and bonhomie, and occasional frustration with people who were boring and wouldn’t get into the spirit.
Very cosy (in my memory, candle-lit) winter nights around the fireplace in the sitting room.
Her instantly recognisable handwriting on the birthday cards she sent me almost every year.
Her unforgettable voice, and, again - her laugh. I can picture her now in absolute fits of laughter.
It seems really odd now that we can take photos of anything and everything with our phones, but I have NO photographs at all from those days in Welshpool, and not one single photo of Wendy. So I’m hoping that people will contribute what they do have, here - or that I may get to see more pics at the weekend. Love to you all Xx
1. A legendary gig in Welshpool Town Hall in aid of CND which Wendy had organised with her local CND members.
2. Spending the evening at Wendy’s house in Welshpool on May 2nd 1997 to see Labour sweep into power after the years of Tory rule under Thatcher and Major. An unforgettable and historic moment.
Proud to have known and spent time with Wendy. X
Service
Clarach Road, Aberystwyth, SY23 3DG
14:30
For those who plan to attend, please dress as you feel comfortable, wear colour or dark clothes as you wish.
Marine Terrace, Aberystwyth, SY23 2AZ
Donate
If you would like make a donate please click through to: www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/donations-wendy-drew

