Wendie Rae Ffrench Batho
“Wherever you are, and whatever you do, be in love.”
― Rumi
Our Wendie
It is with a sad and heavy heart that I let you know our beloved Wendie passed peacefully, next to me, in her sleep Friday morning, 1st May. For all of us who knew and loved Wen, we feel her loss keenly whilst also knowing she is flying free reunited with all those whom she loved and who’ve passed before her.
Wendie had a rich, loving and deeply meaningful life. She thought of it in distinct chapters. First, she grew up between being raised by grandparents in Greenacre, and her great aunt and godmother who lived in Bellevue Hill, with a two-story weekender on the water at Palm Beach. This unusual upbringing gave her a great ease with people from all backgrounds.
Her second chapter was the decade she spent in PNG as a school teacher - and also a spy for the Government! She made firm and lasting friendships with colleagues and ex-pats who remain friends to this day.
Wendie's next chapter was with her beloved Kay Moechtar. As well as raising Kay's wonderful children, Elisa, Ben and David, Kay and Wendie made a huge contribution to education, particular establishing the curriculum for teaching English as a second language as well as multiculturalism. Wendie attained five university degrees and was a lecturer and consultant at various universities.
Kay and Wendie attended my first cancer support group established in Sydney in 1985 when Kay was newly diagnosed with breast cancer. Kay attended dozens of my meditation and support groups over the 7 years she lived.
Wendie's final chapter included establishing the Quest for Life Centre with me and our incredibly happy life together. The Centre would not exist without her amazing energy, wisdom and dedication. She was the Centre's first General Manager as well as originally developing and co-facilitating all the programs with me.
Wendie's capacity for love was boundless. She walked towards everyone - no matter how difficult or painful their story might be - and was always available for a hug. She will be remembered for her relentless good humour, her loyalty and generosity of spirit and her enduring love and kindness towards everyone. She was definitely a one off'!
We invite you to join us to celebrate Wendie's amazing life. The details are below.
"Give us a kiss!"
Wendie Batho
Donations in Lieu of Flowers
For those who wish to remember Wendie with a contribution to the Quest for Life Foundation, you're invited to make a tax deductible donation in lieu of flowers. All donations will go to the Wendie Batho Memorial Fund to support people attending programs at Quest: https://donorbox.org/in-memory-of-wendie-batho
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We welcome your memories, reflections and photos:
June 10, 2026
Remembering the good old days, friends lost but never forgotten. Love Jon and Donna
May 13, 2026
My gosh, my heart.. what a huge loss to the world, and a huge gain for the universe . Wendy you will always hold a special part of my story, healing and also my recovery, thank you for your spirit, your strength, your spirit and your love . Our family loves and respects, appreciates and values the impact you had on my
Journey. Petrea my heart is always with you… holding you now from afar along with all that loved Wendy and her dear family x
Journey. Petrea my heart is always with you… holding you now from afar along with all that loved Wendy and her dear family x
May 11, 2026
The first time I met Wendie on my first visit to Quest after much research on the right place to find support, my car broke down on the way and I had to catch the train to Moss Vale. I was a little stressed, worried about being late, and was told 'Petras partner will collect you'.
I met larger than life Wendie at Moss Vale station, she calmed my nerves instantly, connecting and sharing stories, as if we were long time friends. Feeling concerned about being late, I wanted to sneak into the room quietly. No such thing with Wendie, 'This is Nina, who has arrived by helicopter'.
That was the story now, not that my car didn't make it! why not throw a helicopter into everyones imagination. 'The mind doesn't know what's real, right"
The last time I came, feeling like maybe my name was showing up on the list too many times, Wendy greeted me with..." I was so glad to see your name on the list" She had a skill not only to meet you where you were at, but to know, where you were at.
Forever grateful, Nina
I met larger than life Wendie at Moss Vale station, she calmed my nerves instantly, connecting and sharing stories, as if we were long time friends. Feeling concerned about being late, I wanted to sneak into the room quietly. No such thing with Wendie, 'This is Nina, who has arrived by helicopter'.
That was the story now, not that my car didn't make it! why not throw a helicopter into everyones imagination. 'The mind doesn't know what's real, right"
The last time I came, feeling like maybe my name was showing up on the list too many times, Wendy greeted me with..." I was so glad to see your name on the list" She had a skill not only to meet you where you were at, but to know, where you were at.
Forever grateful, Nina
May 10, 2026
My few exchanges with Wendie over the years always left me feeling warm, happy and energised. I feel blessed and grateful to have known her – even if only briefly. My prayers and thoughts are now with her beautiful Petrea, the lady who heals other people’s broken hearts, restores hope and brings joy by sharing her wisdom. May Petrea find strength to continue her work of caring and sharing as she copes with her own broken heart and the loss of the love of her life.
Sending everyone at Quest rainbows of love as you all adjust to life without Wendie.
Sending everyone at Quest rainbows of love as you all adjust to life without Wendie.
May 8, 2026
Thank you dearest Wendie for being a kind, wise & genuine friend over many really rough years. I am stronger, wiser & a more competent parent from our talks & your gems of advice. I will never forget you. 🌈❤️🌈
May 8, 2026
Your life mattered Wendie. I will be forever grateful to you and Petrea for your work and determination to establish Quest for Life.
May 8, 2026
My memories of Wendie are from the 1980s when Elisa and I were in high school together. I always remember Wendie and Kay and the Moechtar household as being a very special place, full of fun and happiness. It has been wonderful to see the photos and stories. What an amazing lady who shall be dearly missed. Thinking of you all today as you celebrate such an incredible life and person. To Patrea and Elisa and all the family. I send my love and hugs.
Seanine xxx
Seanine xxx
May 7, 2026
Still in shock of my big cousins passing ,some photos of her godsons engagement
Wendie is godmother to my three children Aaron Troy & Camille 😢🥰
Wendie is godmother to my three children Aaron Troy & Camille 😢🥰
May 7, 2026
Dear Wendie
What an amazing life you have had!
John & I are grateful to you for some fabulous times - long lunches at Penrose & Bundanoon with you & Petrea.
You are so loving, positive, fun, naughty, curious, engaging, funny, witty, smart, irreverent & a great hugger!
we are so grateful to have known you & know you will be your shining light on the other side.
All our love to Petrea, Kate & family. Unimaginably sad to lose Wendie's physical presence and trust she will be with you today lighting up the room.
Vale Wendie
Lynora & John xx
What an amazing life you have had!
John & I are grateful to you for some fabulous times - long lunches at Penrose & Bundanoon with you & Petrea.
You are so loving, positive, fun, naughty, curious, engaging, funny, witty, smart, irreverent & a great hugger!
we are so grateful to have known you & know you will be your shining light on the other side.
All our love to Petrea, Kate & family. Unimaginably sad to lose Wendie's physical presence and trust she will be with you today lighting up the room.
Vale Wendie
Lynora & John xx
May 7, 2026
We would not be who we are today except for what we did with Wendie. The first photo is Wendie with the Social Literacy books we created for the Catholic Education Office in the early 1980s, and the second is an inservice training day with Catholic teachers at Coogee - Wendie in shadow in the back row in the centre, Kay in the front row in the middle, Mary and Bill on the left. These were productive and happy years, full of optimism.
May 7, 2026
Wendie,
Thank you for your fabulous dry humour, your wicked wit and devilish twinkle in the eye. Thank you for your sharp intellect, wisdom and insight, which you have always used to shine a light on others - to lift others up and draw out their insights so that they could shine. Thank you for your warm generous earthy presence which has always been like a hug, like a cup of cocoa by a roaring fire - you were always hygge personified. Thank you for your impish playfulness. Thank you for your amazing partnership with Petrea - for being the champion, holding space and collaborator who has always enabled Petrea to fulfill her important vocation as healing beacon for those in troubled darkness. The two of you are so precious. My heart goes out to Petrea and family. Love is flooding to all as this extraordinary life is celebrated. Love and blessings, Wendie, on this new journey. You will be missed, but I know you will be present to us in new ways.
Thank you for your fabulous dry humour, your wicked wit and devilish twinkle in the eye. Thank you for your sharp intellect, wisdom and insight, which you have always used to shine a light on others - to lift others up and draw out their insights so that they could shine. Thank you for your warm generous earthy presence which has always been like a hug, like a cup of cocoa by a roaring fire - you were always hygge personified. Thank you for your impish playfulness. Thank you for your amazing partnership with Petrea - for being the champion, holding space and collaborator who has always enabled Petrea to fulfill her important vocation as healing beacon for those in troubled darkness. The two of you are so precious. My heart goes out to Petrea and family. Love is flooding to all as this extraordinary life is celebrated. Love and blessings, Wendie, on this new journey. You will be missed, but I know you will be present to us in new ways.
May 7, 2026
In case we forgot to tell you Wen, we had a really nice time 💕🥂xxxxx
May 7, 2026
Will never forget the first day I met you Wen, all those years ago. Still blows my mind when I recall the love and support both you and Petrea gave to me, not knowing me from a bar of soap and then all that followed. So grateful for you and the incredible place of healing you created with your soulmate. Your legacy is your superpower and will continue to provide loving support to all who need it ❤️🌈❤️
May 7, 2026
Dearest Petrea, my deepest condolences, big love and big hugs to you at this so very sad time. I have very fond memories of the many times you spoke at our Happiness & Its Causes conferences, always accompanied by your beautiful Wendie. Her smile and laughter could light up the room. I always enjoyed a chat and a laugh with Wendie, and loved her often hilarious posts on social media. I also loved her tales of your lives together and the family who meant so much to her.
I’m forever grateful for the great kindness both you and Wendie showed me when I stayed at Quest, this was a very special and healing experience for me. Together you have created an incredible gift to the world with the Quest for Life foundation. Wendie will be held in the hearts of many, May she rest in natural great peace. With love, Beth
I’m forever grateful for the great kindness both you and Wendie showed me when I stayed at Quest, this was a very special and healing experience for me. Together you have created an incredible gift to the world with the Quest for Life foundation. Wendie will be held in the hearts of many, May she rest in natural great peace. With love, Beth
May 7, 2026
We had the delight to share one of the most memorable days of our lives with Wendie, our wedding day on February 11th 2012. Petrea kindly blessed our marriage and was holder of ceremony, Wendie alongside like an angel sparkling with warmth, and wow that gorgeous big smile! We had in common our times from PNG and I felt her connection to our land and our people. I have such wonderful memories and wish her all our love for her onward journey ... may her presence be continually felt in the hearts of many... Much much love from Bianca, Quentin and our son Theodore xox
May 7, 2026
Where do I begin with how important you have been in the lives of me and my family?
From the moment we met in 1997, you became woven into our story. Through milestone birthdays, babies being born, new puppies and goats, long lunches under the trees in Bundanoon, and afternoons by our dam where you and Petrea were the first to swim.
You gave us so much…guidance, wit, brilliance, and wisdom, but above all, extraordinary love. Everything you did wrapped us in that magnificent love. Like your hugs, it was comforting, healing and somehow made the world feel right again.
One memory captures you perfectly. One of my children was really struggling and we spoke over the phone. Not long after you called back and simply said “We are coming”
You and Petrea arrived and loved our child with all your might and in your presence she felt lighter and safe again.
We love you Wen. We miss your physical presence deeply, but we are endlessly grateful to have lived within your orbit.
Vale darling friend xxxx
From the moment we met in 1997, you became woven into our story. Through milestone birthdays, babies being born, new puppies and goats, long lunches under the trees in Bundanoon, and afternoons by our dam where you and Petrea were the first to swim.
You gave us so much…guidance, wit, brilliance, and wisdom, but above all, extraordinary love. Everything you did wrapped us in that magnificent love. Like your hugs, it was comforting, healing and somehow made the world feel right again.
One memory captures you perfectly. One of my children was really struggling and we spoke over the phone. Not long after you called back and simply said “We are coming”
You and Petrea arrived and loved our child with all your might and in your presence she felt lighter and safe again.
We love you Wen. We miss your physical presence deeply, but we are endlessly grateful to have lived within your orbit.
Vale darling friend xxxx
May 7, 2026
Wen … your voice of logic, reason, wit, and humour made every chat light, loving, and funny. The endless chats around the kitchen table, pulling apart all types of topics.
You helped me navigate many crisis situations with love and compassion. You have been a mum to me and a wonderful granny to Cleaver.
You live on Wen because you made such an impact on so many people.
You are always around and forever within.
Thank you for every moment xx
You helped me navigate many crisis situations with love and compassion. You have been a mum to me and a wonderful granny to Cleaver.
You live on Wen because you made such an impact on so many people.
You are always around and forever within.
Thank you for every moment xx
May 7, 2026
Dear Wendie, now that you’ve shed you spacesuit for planet earth I hope you’re enjoying the experience of what comes next.
Thank you for the shared times and for your friendship from many years ago. Forever in my thoughts. Bill
Thank you for the shared times and for your friendship from many years ago. Forever in my thoughts. Bill
May 7, 2026
Looking back over the 51 years I have known darling Wen, I think of her love and loving, fun, laughter, zaniness, D&Ms, wit, knowledge, love, naughtiness, thoughtfulness, teaching, love, family, loss, smile. There must be a wonderful party happening over there while we are left with a huge gap over here. Till we meet again 😊
May 7, 2026
I was so very fortunate to have come to know Wendie over the last couple of years. Her enthusiasm for finding presence in life and living was remarkable, and it was an absolute privilege to work with her. The light that shone through her was beautifully bright and immense.
She would often say that life did not happen to her, it happened for her. Such a beautiful message that I will carry with me.
Much love to Petrea, family and friends.
Wen will be deeply missed.
She would often say that life did not happen to her, it happened for her. Such a beautiful message that I will carry with me.
Much love to Petrea, family and friends.
Wen will be deeply missed.
May 6, 2026
Oh Wendie, what an extraordinary woman you were, and what a life you lived. You were a powerhouse of love and connection. I'm going to miss your birthday collage messages on Facebook feed, they were the best! Fly free, darling Wendie XXXX
May 6, 2026
Dear Petrea, family, and friends,
Sending my heartfelt condolences your way. May every rainbow be another blessing and a reminder of Wendie’s vibrancy and presence in your lives. Whilst the honour of meeting Wendie in person may not be part of my journey, I feel incredibly grateful that she continues to live on in everyone she loves and the hearts she touched and the healing centre that continues and these beautiful memories that will be cherished. You’ve described such a grounded and compassionate and cheeky soul that will be deeply missed. Thank you for the legacy you have created together and for the opportunity to be a part of it. To Petrea and to all those who were lucky enough to walk alongside Wendie, I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m sending rainbows from my heart to yours.
With love, Karina
Sending my heartfelt condolences your way. May every rainbow be another blessing and a reminder of Wendie’s vibrancy and presence in your lives. Whilst the honour of meeting Wendie in person may not be part of my journey, I feel incredibly grateful that she continues to live on in everyone she loves and the hearts she touched and the healing centre that continues and these beautiful memories that will be cherished. You’ve described such a grounded and compassionate and cheeky soul that will be deeply missed. Thank you for the legacy you have created together and for the opportunity to be a part of it. To Petrea and to all those who were lucky enough to walk alongside Wendie, I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m sending rainbows from my heart to yours.
With love, Karina
May 6, 2026
I am deeply saddened by the news of Wendie's death. The many times that my late wife, Margaret, and I spent at Quest were always enriched by Wendie's capacity 'to lift up our hearts'. Petrea, a big hug to you. I am sure that Margaret will have a big hug for Wendie.
May 6, 2026
I was always very happy if I got to sit with Wendie at lunch, regaling stories of life. Her love of Petrea, family, friends and dogs...A sharp wit and cheeky humour. Sending love to Petrea and all who who loved her X She will be deeply missed
May 6, 2026
Dear Petrea and Family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.
I didn’t know Wendie well but felt I did through Petrea. The deep unconditional love you shared was truly special and inspiring.
Sending you much love and warm hugs,
Dahlia ❤️xx
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences during this difficult time.
I didn’t know Wendie well but felt I did through Petrea. The deep unconditional love you shared was truly special and inspiring.
Sending you much love and warm hugs,
Dahlia ❤️xx
May 5, 2026
Thank you Wendi for seeing me- as I am. Thank you for always making me laugh, smile and for putting me at ease. Thank you for giving me the permission to not need to fit in and to be authentic. As I skim through messages and pictures from you, I thought these are the best to share with others that also love and cherish you.
May 5, 2026
I loved Wendie deeply. We are the same age and my beloved partner Margaret also died on 5 May. I have been watching the full moon and celebrating life. I last saw Wendie at the recent ReQuest Weekend and her vibes were as strong and out there as ever. Her kindness, forthrightness and caring were her trademarks. She will be hugely missed and my heart and love reach out to Petrea at this time.
Blessings and rainbows. Judith
Blessings and rainbows. Judith
May 5, 2026
In cherised memory of a wonderful and admirable woman and partner in life to our very dearly loved Petrea. I thank you for your kinds words of wisdom in my hour of need. Forever in our hearts, Barbara.
May 5, 2026
Dear Wen, what a lucky day it was for us when you and Trea came into our lives. We clicked immediately and shared many happy times, wonderful discussions over long lunches and always, always, lots of laughs. You were the wacky one, with a keen intelligence and a quirky outlook. You were out there in every sense of the word, pushing at the edges, turning "normal" upside down as you held court, taking us on fabulous journeys and flights of fancy.
You made the world a better place with your warmth and your love. A light has gone out in all our lives. Your peaceful departure from this earthly plain does not mean you are gone because as long as those of us who knew and loved you have breath in our bodies, you will live on forever in our memories.
Love always, Gai and Jen 💖💖
You made the world a better place with your warmth and your love. A light has gone out in all our lives. Your peaceful departure from this earthly plain does not mean you are gone because as long as those of us who knew and loved you have breath in our bodies, you will live on forever in our memories.
Love always, Gai and Jen 💖💖
May 5, 2026
Great to have known, and worked alongside, Wendie and Petrea over many years
- I particularly remember working with them both in the final stages of setting up the retreat centre in Bundanoon in 1999, before returning to Findhorn
- I love the picture of Wendie elsewhere on the site that encapsulates what I experienced as the ' no nonsense' and sparkling humour that was often present and shows through so beautifully in the photo
- may I do my best to emulate those qualities in my daily life, and bring more joy and sparkly humour into the world
Thanks Wendie for being my teacher
Blessings on on your Journey
- I particularly remember working with them both in the final stages of setting up the retreat centre in Bundanoon in 1999, before returning to Findhorn
- I love the picture of Wendie elsewhere on the site that encapsulates what I experienced as the ' no nonsense' and sparkling humour that was often present and shows through so beautifully in the photo
- may I do my best to emulate those qualities in my daily life, and bring more joy and sparkly humour into the world
Thanks Wendie for being my teacher
Blessings on on your Journey
May 5, 2026
I feel so very blessed to have known Wendie, having crossed paths with her & Petrea initially in Lorne Victoria many years ago, then Brisbane at the Happiness Conference and more recently at Quest in Bundanoon. Wendie was such an incredibly genuine, down to earth & kind person. I always felt like I could truly be myself around her, and to me she embodied Quest’s philosophy & vision. For me the Quest for Life Centre is a haven, a place of peace, comfort, healing, transformation and most of all, love. ❤️ Quest has changed my life no doubt and I am so incredibly grateful for Wendie and Petrea and all the amazing work they have done through Quest. I am so blessed to have had a connection with these two amazing souls. They are like beacons of light, helping me and so many others, as we all endeavor to find our way home 🙏🌈 I’m sharing this gorgeous photo I took of Petrea & Wen at the recent facilitator training weekend. I love how happy they look together. I am so grateful to have spent that time with them. Sending all my love & heartfelt condolences to Petrea, her family & friends as you farewell your beloved Wendie. Fly high Wen! 🙌
Love Sue xx
Love Sue xx
May 5, 2026
Could read you more accurately than a thermometer. Filled to the brim with pure goodness, multidimensional being, larrikin down to the twinkle in her eye behind which the magic of a uniquely wise and wonderful woman. Greedily - an all too short association. Love and sympathies to Petrea and families.
May 5, 2026
We got to know lovely Wendy when she would come to all our several ayurveda and yoga conferences with Petrea when she was a keynote speaker.She was always by her side and we loved having her with us. She was a beautiful soul indeed. we wish her Garothman Behesht which in ancient Zoroastrian script means the highest place in the Heavenly astral realms. May the Divine give you the strength dearest Petrea to bear this irreplaceable loss. There must be a huge celebration in the astral world of her home coming. We leave you with this beautiful saying by Paramahansa Yogananda on what we call death:
" Our real self, is immortal . We may sleep for a little while in that change called death, but we can never be destroyed . We exist , and that existence
is eternal . The wave comes to the shore, and then goes back to the sea ; it is not lost. It becomes one with the ocean , or return again in the form of another wave.
This body has come , and it will vanish; but the soul essence within it will never cease to exist. Nothing can terminate that eternal consciousness."
" The word "death" is a great misnomer , for there is no death; when you are tired of life , you simply take off the overcoat of flesh and go back to the astral world".
Paramahansa Yogananda , " Where There Is Light".
Yours in sympathy with lots of love
Sheriar Khursheed Nekzad Nyrika and Farida 🙏🙏🙏🙏
" Our real self, is immortal . We may sleep for a little while in that change called death, but we can never be destroyed . We exist , and that existence
is eternal . The wave comes to the shore, and then goes back to the sea ; it is not lost. It becomes one with the ocean , or return again in the form of another wave.
This body has come , and it will vanish; but the soul essence within it will never cease to exist. Nothing can terminate that eternal consciousness."
" The word "death" is a great misnomer , for there is no death; when you are tired of life , you simply take off the overcoat of flesh and go back to the astral world".
Paramahansa Yogananda , " Where There Is Light".
Yours in sympathy with lots of love
Sheriar Khursheed Nekzad Nyrika and Farida 🙏🙏🙏🙏
May 5, 2026
Very sad to hear of wendie,s death.I have not seen her for about 25 years as we live in different continents but she was so bright,interested in world affairs,compassionate,and very good company.I have a very bad long term memory but in Wendie,s case she was and will always remain unforgettable.
May 5, 2026
What an honour to have crossed paths with Wendie, albeit briefly and not enough times over the last few years.
In that time I was an honoured recipient of Wendie's boundless love, along with so many other lucky ones. Her light was unmistakable and will never dim. She consistently generated a smile in the energetic field, on people's faces and in their hearts, always. What a true gift she was to us all.
I will remember Wendie as our 'Quest Queen of Attitudinal Healing'. She so beautifully modelled 'the way' of CHOOSING love, inner peace, compassion, and forgiveness ... for Self and for all Others. A profound and enduring legacy ... what a niffty kid indeed!
You'll be sorely missed down here Wendie. Fly high knowing we are enveloping your Petrea in armfulls of rainbows and endless love, until the two of you meet again. xxx
In that time I was an honoured recipient of Wendie's boundless love, along with so many other lucky ones. Her light was unmistakable and will never dim. She consistently generated a smile in the energetic field, on people's faces and in their hearts, always. What a true gift she was to us all.
I will remember Wendie as our 'Quest Queen of Attitudinal Healing'. She so beautifully modelled 'the way' of CHOOSING love, inner peace, compassion, and forgiveness ... for Self and for all Others. A profound and enduring legacy ... what a niffty kid indeed!
You'll be sorely missed down here Wendie. Fly high knowing we are enveloping your Petrea in armfulls of rainbows and endless love, until the two of you meet again. xxx
May 5, 2026
Wendie has been amazing to me. I worked for Wendie and Petrea end of 2018-2021 as their receptionist. She was always around to give advice, support and had such a lovely presence about her. And I loved her stories about her life that she would tell. I was in awe of how much she achieved and full of wisdom.
I will always cherish my time working at Quest, it had definitely changed me as a person for the better and I have Wendie and Petrea to thank.
Memory: During my time there at times, we turned my office into a wedding planning office, the whole team attended.. it was magic!
She will be dearly missed. My condolences to the family. May she rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Renee Marks
I will always cherish my time working at Quest, it had definitely changed me as a person for the better and I have Wendie and Petrea to thank.
Memory: During my time there at times, we turned my office into a wedding planning office, the whole team attended.. it was magic!
She will be dearly missed. My condolences to the family. May she rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Renee Marks
May 5, 2026
Wendie Rae Batho ... you left before I could say goodbye. I am heartbroken not to have hugged you one last time. Your hugs were the best, so, too, your laughter, your capacity for joy, your endless curiosity, your empathy, your wit. Your very being.
You were my `precious poppet' - along with your darling Petrea - and I was your `prince.'
There were so many occasions during the past forty years when you gave me strength and confidence, when you showered me with love, all the while anointing me as your prince. I'm sure you had dozens of princelings tucked away, but you made feel like I was the only one.
Darling Wendie, thank you for everything you gave me and gave the world and gave Petrea who, in turn, continues to give so much to all of us.
What would she have done without you? What shall she do now without you? My heart lurches for her but I know she will be showered with all the love in the world by those who love her ... and be buoyed by the fact that you will still be there hovering over her, blessing her, counselling her, reassuring her that everything is alright. Better than alright.
Soar into the night sky darling Wendie and go with all my love and gratitude forever
David
You were my `precious poppet' - along with your darling Petrea - and I was your `prince.'
There were so many occasions during the past forty years when you gave me strength and confidence, when you showered me with love, all the while anointing me as your prince. I'm sure you had dozens of princelings tucked away, but you made feel like I was the only one.
Darling Wendie, thank you for everything you gave me and gave the world and gave Petrea who, in turn, continues to give so much to all of us.
What would she have done without you? What shall she do now without you? My heart lurches for her but I know she will be showered with all the love in the world by those who love her ... and be buoyed by the fact that you will still be there hovering over her, blessing her, counselling her, reassuring her that everything is alright. Better than alright.
Soar into the night sky darling Wendie and go with all my love and gratitude forever
David
May 4, 2026
I am sad to hear this news of lovely Wendie . I feel especially blessed to have had the opportunity to hear her words of wisdom and her wonderful sense of humour at a special workshop with her and Petrea 6 weeks ago. What a team! They so blended together and I could feel the love and respect they shared with each other. Sending lots of love and healing to Petrea and family. xxx
May 4, 2026
I am sad to hear this news of lovely Wendie, my thoughts are with Petrea and families, I met Wendy when I attended Quest for Life twice a few years ago. Sending my Love.
May 4, 2026
We are so sad to learn of Wendie's passing, what an amazing woman and such a legacy to leave behind, of the wonderful work she and Petrea did together, you couldn't count how many lives they helped and made a difference. Our hearts break for beautiful Petrea at this sad time. Sending love and light,
Margie and Curly Charlwood xoxo
Margie and Curly Charlwood xoxo
May 4, 2026
Four days later I am still in shock after hearing this sad news. I first met Wendie & Petrea at a weekend program in 1996 & have been a volunteer at Quest since the centre opened in 1999 when I moved down from Sydney. Quest has been a huge part of my life & I just can't imagine Wendie not being there. This photo was taken at Wendie's retirement dinner in December & the photo Petrea & Wendie are holding is to be on the walls of Quest in honour of Wendie. I was on a ReQuest weekend program with Petrea & Wendie 6 weeks ago & that time spent with them both is even more precious now. Will miss her so much. Sending lots of love to Petrea & family ❤️🌈❤️
May 4, 2026
Your light, your love, your passion, the positive difference you made in this world, will be felt in a lasting way through those that met you, loved you and of course through all that Quest has done and continues to do for so many, including me. Your programs have changed my life and I am eternally grateful🌈🌈🌈
Sending healing thoughts to Petrea and all your loved ones 💜🌈💜
Sending healing thoughts to Petrea and all your loved ones 💜🌈💜
May 4, 2026
Remembering Wendie’s warm heart, generous feedback, great humour but most of all the warm hugs
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May 4, 2026
Deepest condolences to the family!
I'll be forever grateful for the warmth and love you always offered, Wendie. You'll be missed.
I'll be forever grateful for the warmth and love you always offered, Wendie. You'll be missed.
May 4, 2026
Dear Petrea and family,
I was so saddened to hear the news of Wendie’s passing. She was truely an inspirational and uplifting human, full of warmth, energy and a genuine zest for life. Her presence touch so many, and she will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Thinking of you all during this difficult time and sending my heartfelt condolences.
I was so saddened to hear the news of Wendie’s passing. She was truely an inspirational and uplifting human, full of warmth, energy and a genuine zest for life. Her presence touch so many, and she will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Thinking of you all during this difficult time and sending my heartfelt condolences.
May 4, 2026
Dear Wendie
You were one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever known.. From the very first time we met over 12 years ago at Quest , you reminded me that I was enough , exactly as I am, and that is a gift I will carry with me always…..
Your support, your kindness, and the way you believed in me at Quest For Life meant more than words can ever say. You were my cheerleader, and I will never forget the way you lifted me up so effortlessly with so much ❤️when I felt anxious or nervous when training in the facilitator role over the years …
You leave such a deep space in so many hearts. Your presence, your light, your fun spirit and humour is some of the qualities I will cherish always 🌈
I love you, Wen..,,You will always be remembered, always be felt, and always be part of me.
With so much love,
Sandy ❤️
You were one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever known.. From the very first time we met over 12 years ago at Quest , you reminded me that I was enough , exactly as I am, and that is a gift I will carry with me always…..
Your support, your kindness, and the way you believed in me at Quest For Life meant more than words can ever say. You were my cheerleader, and I will never forget the way you lifted me up so effortlessly with so much ❤️when I felt anxious or nervous when training in the facilitator role over the years …
You leave such a deep space in so many hearts. Your presence, your light, your fun spirit and humour is some of the qualities I will cherish always 🌈
I love you, Wen..,,You will always be remembered, always be felt, and always be part of me.
With so much love,
Sandy ❤️
May 4, 2026
Some more memories of Wen
May 4, 2026
Not often that children can say they grew up in a home with two mothers living side by side. That was our house. Forever blessed
May 4, 2026
So very sad to read about Wendie’s passing. She was a ray of sunshine an a cloudy day. It’s been many years since I’ve seen Wendie (and Petrea) but she was simply unforgettable. Much love to Petrea and all who have been touched by this beautiful soul.
May 4, 2026
Our love to you Petrea and family, as we hold you all in our hearts. Fly free Wen, we know you will be the brightest star in our night sky.
Love Susie & Jo
Love Susie & Jo
May 4, 2026
Rest peacefully now
My heart is saddened to read this…
When I attended Quest in October we talked about upcoming retirements and loved her analogy of ‘I’m not retiring…. I’m diversifying !!!’
I often use that myself when I’m asked about my retirement
I will always remember your kindness and compassion around the dinner table and your ability to speak wisdom
My thoughts are with all the Quest community but to Petra … I’m so grateful she passed in your arms… what a beautiful moment for you both
Please take care
There are no words for your loss only light love and peace
Thank you Wendi for your support over many years at Quest now fly high and protect our Petra in her grief
Annette Wickens
My heart is saddened to read this…
When I attended Quest in October we talked about upcoming retirements and loved her analogy of ‘I’m not retiring…. I’m diversifying !!!’
I often use that myself when I’m asked about my retirement
I will always remember your kindness and compassion around the dinner table and your ability to speak wisdom
My thoughts are with all the Quest community but to Petra … I’m so grateful she passed in your arms… what a beautiful moment for you both
Please take care
There are no words for your loss only light love and peace
Thank you Wendi for your support over many years at Quest now fly high and protect our Petra in her grief
Annette Wickens
May 4, 2026
condolences from Rosie (black lab) Iris (chocolate lab) and there mama Toni xx
May 4, 2026
I still remember meeting Wendie when I worked at Quest and feeling instantly at ease, like I’d known her for years.
She had this cheeky, silly sense of humour that always made me laugh, and she never held back — honest, direct, but always with so much warmth behind it. She had a Wendie way of making people feel comfortable and looked after without making a big deal of it.
She’ll be greatly missed. I can’t help but think she’d still be having a laugh somewhere, keeping a quiet eye on things and making sure we’re still finding those little moments to smile.
My heartfelt condolences to Petrea, and the team. Thinking of you. xx
She had this cheeky, silly sense of humour that always made me laugh, and she never held back — honest, direct, but always with so much warmth behind it. She had a Wendie way of making people feel comfortable and looked after without making a big deal of it.
She’ll be greatly missed. I can’t help but think she’d still be having a laugh somewhere, keeping a quiet eye on things and making sure we’re still finding those little moments to smile.
My heartfelt condolences to Petrea, and the team. Thinking of you. xx
May 4, 2026
Deepest condolences dear Petrea & Family. So many wonderful memories from my days at AIMA and your contribution to our conferences. Wendie, always present, engaging, smiling and a delight to be around. Riposa in pace cara.
May 4, 2026
Well miss u
May 4, 2026
Dearest Wendie what wonderful gifts we have received with your magnificent love, warmth, inclusiveness, charisma, honesty and humour. You will be so missed and at the same time we celebrate your onward journey to even greater love and peace.
May 4, 2026
Condolences to Petria & family .Wendie was an amaxing person who I grew very fond of after doing workshops at Quest then becoming a helper . Enjoyed lunch’s with Wendie, Brenda & Greitja in Bowral . Always fun times . Will miss Wendie on FB and sadly I can’t attend her farewell . Same day I am attending a living wake in Nowra with a dear friend who is dying . Feeling torn that I can’t attend Wendie’s farewell but Chris is still here with us and I must attend . I am adding a photo of Wendi & I together and another photo of Wendie , Brenda who went to school with Wendie & Grietje …… we all shared our time together as we enjoyed our luncheon dates . Farewell beautiful Wendie fly high to a beautiful place . Love ❤️ light 💡 peace ☮️ from Sandy xx
May 3, 2026
Like everyone, I loved Wendie. She was a unique individual at home in her own skin, with love to give to anyone. Wendie had everything: a warped and funny sense of humour, endless curiosity which kept her brain working all the time; also had enormous energy and loyalty to give to Petrea and her life's work. Everyone who meet her would fall in love with her because she exuded warmth and kindness.
Wendie and Petrea and my partner Anne and I shared a lot of time together when they were first setting up Quest so our friendship went deep.
One lovely memory that came into mind straight away, was the way she talked to her dogs. She would have a little dialog with them, doing both parts - very 'stream of consciousness' way.
She could send herself up at any time. One saying I remember well - "I can never put the stop back in the bottle".
For many years we had great dinners at their place, usually over a home made chook and Wendie at the sink always with her wettex.
Wendie and Petrea and my partner Anne and I shared a lot of time together when they were first setting up Quest so our friendship went deep.
One lovely memory that came into mind straight away, was the way she talked to her dogs. She would have a little dialog with them, doing both parts - very 'stream of consciousness' way.
She could send herself up at any time. One saying I remember well - "I can never put the stop back in the bottle".
For many years we had great dinners at their place, usually over a home made chook and Wendie at the sink always with her wettex.
May 3, 2026
Such heartfelt condolences, Petrea. I absolutely loved every moment with Wendie: her deep-seated authenticity, courage, and humour lifted energies like no-one else could. A beautiful heart and soul in all of the possible ways xxx
May 3, 2026
So many wonderful memories of fun times and some challenging times spent with Wendy. Wendy was a force to be reckoned with. She was a person of incredible integrity with a strong commitment to fairness and compassion.
Wendy brought joy to many and was generous in sharing her amazing wisdom with others. Thank you Wendy
Rest in peace
Wendy brought joy to many and was generous in sharing her amazing wisdom with others. Thank you Wendy
Rest in peace
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