Vivian Vi Pham

Vivian is my childhood friend. She was one of the first best friends that I ever had. I think we met in first or second grade, but we both left that school and didn’t get close until we came back for 5th and 6th grade. I was there when she decorated her first cake. She really was talented even at that age. Her ability to frost was perfect. So smooth.

But not only decorating, she was also an amazing basketball player. We played on the same team for 7th and 8th grade and she won awards for being such a good player.

I’m sad we didn’t stay in touch after middle school, but I’m so grateful to her for reconnecting a few years ago when she invited me to her cake competition screening. I’m so glad I got to see her, and see how her core self hadn’t changed. She was still the hyper and bubbly girl that she’d always been. Her life hadnt been easy, even when we were kids. But I am so proud of her and everything that she accomplished. It was inspiring to see how she stayed true to herself. I know she’s in a better place now, and found the peace that she deserves. She’ll always be in my heart. Rest easy my friend ❤️

Adding some photos of our cringey adolescent years, that I loved reminiscing on with her. Some of my best kid memories are with you, Viv.

I met Vivian in my 20’s at Myth nightclub and then ran into her a bunch more times after. Her high energy level and the Pom Pom headbands she wore meant she never went unnoticed.

I found out that she went to my high school and used to get made fun of for wanting to be a baker. Well she followed through on her dreams and ended up winning a bunch of competitions and being amazing at what she does. She was an example to me of going for what you want regardless of what other people thought.

When I was looking to do a revamp of a lounge in downtown San Jose I asked her to be our design consultant. She quickly came up with an Alice in Wonderland theme and walked me through the space and shared her vision with me. We talked a little bit more about her past and current endeavors and she told me that she was not business-minded at all. She said she enjoyed creating beautiful things but she had no interest in charging for things and would often get scolded by business partners for always wanting to give things away for free.

I never ended up revamping that lounge, but I’m glad I got to share that lunch with Vivian, someone whom I had admired for her skill, creativity, and over-the-top bubbly attitude. She was, at her core, an artist doing what she could to beautify the world.

Perhaps this world was too dark for someone like Vivian and I hope her spirit is in a world more fitting for her now.

She was one of my son’s friends. She was a sweet young lady. I know things weren’t always easy for her but I remember her always working on her dreams. So sad to hear that such a beautiful young lady left this world.
I know she’s smiling and baking up a storm (at least that was her dream when she was younger)
Beautiful Angel, rest peacefully in heaven until we see each other again

I went to high school with Vivian, and we connected many years after when she and Randy had puppies up for rehoming. It's largely because of Vivian that I have had these past ~7 years with my best four legged friend, Basil. That speaks to the heart of who I knew Vivian to be, a life giver, and bearer of light you didn’t know you needed. I’m so sorry you couldn’t find peace in our world and that you felt let down Vee. I will miss getting to enjoy your art on Lunar New Year or cheering you on from the other side of the screen. You created beauty through your craft. I hope you found peace, and I hope you’re dancing and creating magic wherever you are.

Vivian and I worked together at Alexander's Steakhouse. In those days, it was good times. I remember the pastry team, Rosiana, Dan, Lauriano and Viv. She was a bright spot bringing in an infectious personality that was always sunny. Her voice and tone was always postive. She was a lovely positive person that always made others smile. She was talented and driven and I was so proud when I learned of the tv spots she was landing. I would brag to others that I knew her. I ran into darker times and at that time, lost touch regretfully. I am shaken and this news saddens me much. Rest In Peace Ms. Viv.

I met Vivian at Julian's party. We hit it off right off the bat. Both of us so sweet and welcoming. We loved to joke around and laugh together. We kept in touch and always lit up if we saw each other again. Vivian beyond talented in baking and making stuff and also dressing up and just being beautiful inside and out. I think of you a lot 💕

I met Vee a few years ago at “the house” and she was the sweetest and most welcoming person ever.

I’ll always remember the random times she would come into the room and say “want a shot?” or “I made some sweets, want some?” or “wanna do face masks?”.

Vee is the reason I have a 20 minute skincare routine and also why I’ve finished every season of F Boy Island. She’d be like “Ready for some TRASH?!” and then we’d proceed to binge trash tv for the next 5 hours on our lazy days.

Love you Vee 🤍. Until next time.

Viv, you were one of my favorite people in the world, and I will always love and miss you deeply.

Some of my fondest memories are from the summers we spent together as kids. Be it rewatching movies like A Walk to Remember and Moulin Rouge and wandering through Michael's. Your creativity and imagination always amazed me; we’d come home with the same canvas and paint, but you would turn yours into a true masterpiece.

Watching you grow up and navigate your 20s was a joy. We had so many fun nights out dancing. You were the brightest light in every room, and everyone adored you. I am so proud of the legacy you’ve left behind through your life's work and creations. I wish we had more time together but we'll meet again, sweet cousin.