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Theresa Taiwo Oloko, née Osagie, peacefully departed this world on October 30, 2024, at the age of 72, surrounded by her beloved family. Born on June 30, 1952, in the bustling heart of Lagos, Theresa was a cherished wife, devoted mother, grandmother and a beacon of love and generosity to all who crossed her path.
Theresa dedicated her life to nurturing her family, finding immense joy and pride in raising her five children alongside her beloved husband, Abimbola Akintayo Oloko. Her children remember her as a loving mother whose nurturing spirit and boundless compassion shaped them into who they are today. Her home was a sanctuary, known not only for its warmth and comfort but also for Theresa’s legendary cooking, which brought family and friends together to share in the joy of life’s simple pleasures.
Deeply involved in her community, Theresa touched many lives through her volunteer work and active participation in church activities. Her unwavering faith and commitment to service were guiding lights, inspiring those around her to seek kindness and understanding in an often tumultuous world.
Theresa loved nothing more than gathering with loved ones in laughter, dancing and celebration. Her infectious smile and empathetic nature left a lasting impression on everyone she met. As a woman of grace and dignity, she navigated life’s challenges with resilience and an unyielding spirit, leaving an indelible mark on her family and friends.
A funeral service to honor and celebrate the life of Theresa will be held on December 10, 2024, at 11:00 a.m. at the Kemnal Cemetery in Chislehurst. Family, friends, and all whose lives she touched are invited to attend and pay their respects, sharing stories, tears, and laughter in remembrance of a truly remarkable woman.
Theresa Taiwo Oloko leaves behind a legacy of love, compassion, and dedication. Her memory will forever live on in the hearts of her children, grandchildren, and a wide circle of family and friends. She will be greatly missed but remembered fondly and celebrated by all who were fortunate enough to know her.
Biography
Biography of Late Mrs. Taiwo Theresa Ayo Oloko (aka "Double T" Iyawo Jesu)
Late Mrs. Taiwo Theresa Ayo Oloko, fondly known as "Double T" Iyawo Jesu, was born on June 30, 1952, to Mr. and Mrs. Gabriel Akhadaiye and Elizabeth Osagie at 99A Lewis Street, Lafiaji, Lagos Island, Lagos, Nigeria. She was one of seven siblings—six sisters and one brother.
Early Life and Education
In 1958, Taiwo began her education at St. Mathias Catholic Primary School, Lafiaji, Lagos. She was raised in a devout Catholic family alongside her twin sister and siblings. Her early faith journey started at St. Michael Catholic Church, Lafiaji, where she was baptized, received her First Holy Communion, and was confirmed. As a teenager, Taiwo was an active member of the church choir and St. Maria Goretti society.
In 1965, she and her twin gained admission to Bona College, Yaba, Lagos, where they successfully completed their secondary education. She furthered her education at the Young Women’s Christian Association (YWCA) Catering School on King George V Road, Lagos Island.
Career and Family Life
Taiwo began her professional career in 1973 with the Federal Ministry of Defence at the "24-storey building" in Kakawa Street, Tinubu, Lagos. After many years of dedicated service, she retired voluntarily and became a contractor for government establishments and private organizations.
In 1978, Taiwo married Engr. Chief Asiwaju Abimbola Akintayo Oloko at St. Michael Catholic Church, Lafiaji. Together, they were blessed with five children: Late Miss Adetutu Abiola Mary Oloko, Late Afolabi Abiodunrin Victor Oloko, Mrs. Oluwatosin Adetokunbo Rita Ailoyafen (née Oloko), Babajide Samuel Oloko, and Ajibola Lucy-Anne Oloko.
During her marriage, Taiwo supported her husband’s career, which included a transfer to Kano as a branch manager for Unipetrol of Nigeria Limited. The family later returned to Lagos, residing in Satellite Town before relocating to Agege, Lagos Mainland. While in Lagos, Taiwo was an active member of St. Sabina Catholic Church, where she served as a Church Warden and a member of St. Vincent de Paul Society.
Life Abroad and Charitable Service
In 1992, Taiwo began traveling to London, eventually settling there permanently in 2000. In London, she resided with her twin sister and junior sister, Mrs. Juliana Alaba Thompson. She continued her devout Catholic faith, attending Our Lady of La Salette and St. Joseph Roman Catholic Church, where she became a Eucharistic Minister. She and her children routinely cleaned the church after Mass as part of their service to the community.
Later, she joined St. Monica Catholic Church, Hoxton, and St. Anne's Catholic Church, Vauxhall, where she and her twin were ordained as Mission Eucharistic Ministers. In this role, they visited the elderly and sick, providing prayer and Holy Communion.
In 2003, Taiwo and her twin attended Nursing Care School in London, becoming caregivers. They continued their acts of service by cleaning St. Peter Catholic Church in Woolwich and other local parishes as part of their charitable work.
Final Years and Legacy
Taiwo remained committed to her faith and service until her health began to decline. On October 30, 2024, she was admitted to Basildon University Hospital, Essex, where she passed away peacefully on October 30, 2024.
Late Mrs. Taiwo Theresa Ayo Oloko, "Double T," leaves behind a legacy of faith, compassion, and selfless service to her family, community, and church. Her life exemplified unwavering devotion to God and tireless dedication to helping others. She will be deeply missed but fondly remembered.
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It is with a heavy heart and deep pain that I write this tribute to a woman who was so much more than a mother figure to me. Mummy Oloko, or as I fondly called her, my second mother, was a beacon of love, faith, and unwavering support in my life. She embodied the virtues of a God-fearing woman, and her impact on my life is something words cannot fully capture.
Mummy, you taught me how to pray deeply, how to connect with God in a way that shaped my life forever. You were never tired of encouraging me, reminding me to strive for more, and ensuring that I stayed grounded in faith. You were my prayer warrior, my constant encourager, and a shining example of what it means to live a life of purpose and dedication to God.
So many memories of you flood my mind, and it’s overwhelming to even begin to recount them all. You were always on my case, always checking on me, making sure I was doing the right things and staying rooted in the values that matter most. You never took my well-being lightly; you carried me in your heart as if I were your own, and for that, I am forever grateful.
I remember so vividly seeing you at my 40th birthday in May. I never imagined that would be the last time I’d see your beautiful, loving face. If only I had known, I would have held you longer, talked with you more, and cherished that moment even more deeply. The thought of not seeing you again on this side of eternity is a hard pill to swallow, but I take comfort in knowing that you are now in heaven, smiling down on all of us.
Mummy, your passing has left a void that is impossible to fill, but your legacy of faith, love, and care will remain etched in my heart forever. You were a gift, not just to me but to everyone whose life you touched. I miss you so much, and I know I will continue to miss you every day. But I promise you, I will be okay. Your prayers, your lessons, and your unwavering love have left me with the strength to carry on.
I loved you deeply, and I still love you, Mummy. Rest peacefully in the arms of the Lord, until we meet again. Heaven has gained a precious soul, and though it hurts, I take solace in knowing you are finally at peace.
Forever in my heart,
Your loving daughter
Mimi
I’m honored to have felt even a small part of her light, and I’ll carry that with me always. My thoughts are with you and your family as we celebrate the beautiful legacy she leaves behind.
To my dear friend Babajide, I stand with you in honoring your mother’s legacy.
Rest in peace, a true angel among us.
Today, I want to honor someone who was more than just a part of my life; she was a second mum to me. Her love, wisdom, prayers and kindness left an indelible mark on my heart, and her sudden passing has left a void that words struggle to fill.
She wasn’t bound to me by blood, but by something much deeper: the bond of unconditional care, prayers and a genuine connection. She had a way of making everyone feel seen, valued, and safe. Whether it was her prayers, warm smile, her thoughtful advice, or the simple way she listened when I needed it most, she brought light into every moment we shared.
She taught me so much about resilience, compassion, and how to face challenges with grace. She celebrated my wins as if they were her own and comforted me during my losses as only a mother could. In her presence, I always felt a sense of home.
Her unexpected departure has shaken me, but I choose to hold on to the countless memories we created together. I’ll remember her laugh, her wisdom, and the love she poured so generously into my life. She was truly one of a kind, and her legacy will live on in the hearts of everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.
To my second mum: thank you for everything you gave me, for every prayer, every hug, every word of encouragement, and every moment of joy. Though you are no longer here, your love will continue to guide us all. I’ll carry you in my heart forever.
Rest peacefully, knowing you were deeply loved and will never be forgotten.
That day at the hospital , we prayed the Divine Mercy Chaplet together @ 15:00 hrs, something we’d done before, but this time felt different. Mummy T’s voice, though faint, joined ours, and the prayer filled the room with a sense of peace. It was as if heaven was leaning in, wrapping us in a quiet stillness I didn’t fully understand then.
We stayed close to her, she was cared for, noticing the small things: the way her hand felt, the peaceful look in her eyes, the gentle rhythm of her breath. Each moment seemed ordinary but was layered with something sacred, though I couldn’t name it at the time.
Looking back, I realize that the time spent with mummy T was a gift, even in its simplicity. I didn’t know it was goodbye, but now I see how deeply love filled those hours. Her memory lives in that prayer, in those quiet moments, and in the love she gave so freely. And even though she’s gone, I carry that love with me, unbroken by time or loss.
Eternal rest grant unto mummy T and may perpetual light shine bright on her, may the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace 🙏
Rest in peace, Grandma. You will always be in our hearts.
I will forever love you
I met mummy the very first time about 25 years ago when I visited her home at Oko- Oba, Agege, Lagos State Nigeria. I was introduced to her and the family by her late daughter of blessed memory, Adetutu Oloko ( may God bless her soul)
There I met Tosin, Babajide, Jibola, Afolabi and her husband. I also met her sisters aunty Kehinde, Toyosi her niece and aunty Alaba. Since then I had become familiar with her family.
Mummy Oloko would call me son and anytime I visited she would always pray for me. She went on to know my parents.
I remember very vividly before she relocated to the UK back then, She prayed for me and blessed me with a foreign currency.
I was impressed by this because mummy was very kind to me, she never knew me and I was only introduced to her by her daughter. This drew me closer to her and the family because she was a pious woman. Most times in our conversation she would always mention the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God.
When she relocated out of the country back then with Jibola and Babajide I lost contact with her but I would frequently ask about her through Tosin.
Sometime back in 2014, I was able to speak and reconnect with her after so many years when I eventually traveled to the UK, she was her ever usual self (always praying for me and my family).
I was very sad when I leant of her passing unto Glory. For me she was a prayerful woman, a mother of her many adopted children like me.
She will be missed, heavens gain, our loss.
Sleep on mummy in the bossom of our Father Abraham and see you on resurrection day.
Adieu Mummy Oloko
Writing my farewell to you is difficult because I never thought I would be doing this now, Ma; I write this with a great deal of sadness. For everyone who knew you, you were an appreciated, respectable ma. Sometimes, I wonder how she remembers everyone at her age and spreads her unconditional love beyond reach. My mother was not only my mother; she was my mother to everyone. Some people are surprised to learn that I am her daughter; she had a way of connecting with everyone and always hoped for everybody who knew her to be rewarded with a thankful blessed husband, wife, children, or a home of their own. Mum loved to share her prayers, tears, pleasures, and sorrows with everyone she knew, especially her kids.
It isn't the same without you, but I know that Matoyosi would never leave us and would do incredibly well for us all, including your grandchildren, future grandchildren, and future great-grandchildren. It hurts to think that you are gone, and it hurts even more when I see your identical twin sister, who looks a lot like you. Mother, please don't worry as much as you might as I know & believe Matoyosi has got this.
Everywhere she went, Mummy was well-known for her teachings, singing, prayer, and other activities. My mother took life easy and contributed in whatever way she could, even if it meant borrowing money to make it seem like it was for her. Her commitment was unfathomable, and she did it out of God's goodness, love, and mercy rather than for fame. However, some of the children found her methods of teaching assignments difficult to understand since they were old school. My mother did her best to teach the children the ways of the Lord, give them money, and ensure they do their homework. It was my goal and belief that my mother would witness my children's success and graduation and hear her extol the virtues of her grandkids. I had great expectations and thought my mother would see her grandchildren shine and be there to pray with them like she always did, but I didn't think she would leave anytime soon. She was eager to watch her grandchildren develop and succeed, as well as everyone else around her.
Prayer times were 6 a.m., 9 a.m., noon prayer, and bedtime prayer. I recall that when we were little in Nigeria, our mother would ring the bell at 6 a.m. every blessed morning for Angelus, and if we didn’t get up, she would ring it louder and sing out loud gospel praises. My siblings and I quickly adapted by waking up earlier before Mum sounded the alarm or started to sing.
I thank God for the bond you had with Clarence (my partner) and appreciated him for being part of the family who is also the father of our adorable angels, Ewuresi and Nana-Afua. I'm grateful that your granddaughter, Ewuresi, had the opportunity to receive good guidance and training from you. Although, at times, she complained that Grandma takes too long to explain things, I told her just to process it as it would benefit her in the future. We had no idea you would leave us so soon. Now Ewuresi and I wish to spend those quality moments with you again. It was my prayer for you to see your granddaughters grow up and pursue their dreams just as you prophesize in your daily prayers, I have full faith that they will make you proud.
Ewuresi misses you so much because you had a big influence on her from the moment she was born to the brilliant young teen she has become now. She loved your funny but strange ways of pronouncing and how you always asked for help and then brought treats and money to show your appreciation. She is finding it difficult that she can't talk to you anymore about how her day went and the joy on your face listening to her in detail. Nana-Afua misses you dearly and at times asks if Grandma is coming home soon, it was a tearful moment when Clarence (her Daddy) had to explain to her that Grandma is now with God and He has a special place for Grandma in Heaven.
It is with heavy hearts to say our goodbyes, full of love and appreciation for a Mum who was a mother to everyone and an amazing Grandma, a prayerful Mother, an amazing dancer with a laugh filled with joy and loved singing. Mummy passed away; despite her prolonged sickness, which we were unaware of, she was still able to take her precious granddaughter to school. (PLEASE MY DEAR AUNTIES AND UNCLES, I BEG YOU ALL TO GET REGULAR CHECKUPS ON YOUR INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL HEALTH).
Dearest Mum, please greet my beloved sister Tutu, brother Folabi, Daddy, and Mama. They are all solely missed and will always hold a special place in my heart. Even though you are no longer with us Mummy, you will always be remembered till we cross paths again. Until our paths cross again in God’s time, may your kind, serene, and lovely soul rest in the arms of our Lord Jesus Christ. “Amen”.
A friend is no more.
No one is perfect.
Our different ideas of how to live our lives created a distance before your unfortunate and "early" exit.
I will never forget the interesting times I had with your family.
You allowed all relations both from your side and your husband's into the warmth of your home without discrimination.
My late and beloved Tunji enjoyed the benevolence of your husband to the fullest throughout his university days, courtesy of your magnanimity. His fiancee who later became his wife had the benefit of living with you. My cousin Tope, lived with you, apart from your own relations who also lived with you. Not a single one complained of maltreatment.
My wife would never forget the special african way you bathed her son. This resulted in a wonderful pleasant sleep for the new baby.
These are memories betrayed by the gulf created for over two decades.
Though fate could not keep us together for over two decades, I longed for a reunion.
The opportunity of reunion never came again.
Now we are finally separated. I hope we'll see again at His foot.
Odion, my "sister", Rest in peace.
Rest in peace, Grandma. You will always be in our hearts.
I will forever love you ~ Amelia
With love from the Aluko (Peju & Tope with D gals) “Nigeria”
I fondly remember when I was 14 or 15 years old, spending a holiday with your family in Kano, Nigeria, alongside my sister. You ensured that we prayed together as a family every night before bed and every morning after waking up. You also made it a point for each person to take turns leading the prayers. This practice profoundly impacted me and helped me cultivate a prayerful life at a young age. The way your children(my cousins) prayed during those sessions inspired me to prioritize prayer and always place God at the center of everything I do.
You were a source of encouragement, always speaking uplifting and positive words into the lives of others.
Death robbed us of your presence too soon. Your absence is deeply felt by me and all who loved you. Despite the sickness you faced and the courageous fight you put up, God Almighty, in His infinite wisdom, chose to call you home to rest in His embrace. Though you are no longer with us, you will forever remain in my heart.
Continue to rest peacefully in the arms of our Lord Jesus Christ until we meet again to part no more.
May your gentle soul continue to rest in eternal peace with God Almighty. Amen.
From AJ.
Rest well in heaven.
❤️From Haja
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