Terhemen Wachin Gavar
FOR TO ME, TO LIVE IS CHRIST AND TO DIE IS GAIN.
Philippians 1:21
Biography
BIRTH AND EARLY LIFE.
Builder Terhemen Gavar was born on 13th May 1952 in Mkar, Gboko Local Government Area of Benue State, to the family of Honourable James Wachin Gavar and Mrs Rhoda Wachin Gavar. He was the first of eight children and grew up with a strong sense of responsibility, discipline, and commitment to family values.
EDUCATION AND TRAINING.
He commenced his formal education at Mkar Demonstration School in 1959, where he obtained his First School Leaving Certificate. In 1966, He proceeded to Barewa College, Zaria, and obtained his West African School Certificate 1970. His passion for the construction and building profession led him to Kaduna Polytechnic, where he earned an Ordinary Diploma in Construction 1974, and later a Higher National Diploma in Construction in 1977.
In pursuit of further academic and professional development, he attended the University of Jos, from 1986 to 1989, where he obtained a Bachelor of Science (B.Sc.) in Building and later a Master of Science (M.Sc.) in Construction Management in 2002. He also participated in several professional short courses and seminars in areas such as; Refractories in the cement industry, Industrial psychology, and Management and industrial relations.
CAREER AND WORK LIFE.
Builder Terhemen Gavar began his professional career with Tilley Gyado and Co. Ltd, Jos, where he served as a Building Site Supervisor from 1974 to 1975. He undertook his National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) at the Nigerian Army Signals Training School, Apapa, Lagos from 1977 to 1978, serving as an instructor.
In 1978 he joined the Benue State Housing and Urban Development Corporation, Makurdi, where he served as a Higher Technical Officer and later Senior Technical Officer. He subsequently worked with the Benue State Housing Agency as a Principal Technical Officer.
In 1989 he joined Benue Cement Company Plc, Gboko, where he served as Senior Estate Maintenance Superintendent until 1999.
Between 1999 and 2005, he was engaged in private practice as a contractor, after which he served as Director of Works at the University of Mkar, Mkar, contributing significantly to infrastructural development within the institution.
He was actively involved in professional bodies and served as the Benue State Chapter Chairman of the Nigerian Institute of Building from 2018 to 2022. He was also a member of the Nigerian Institute of Management. Throughout his career, he was widely respected for his integrity, dedication to duty, commitment to excellence, and mentorship of younger professionals.
FAMILY LIFE.
In 1981, he married Mary Alueshima Sombo, and the marriage was blessed with five children: Dondo Gavar, Iember Anyafo, Ngusurun Hanior, Mamfe Gavar, and Dr. Aondofa Gavar, as well as five grandchildren: Mamse Abigail Dondo Gavar, Avana Anyafo, Yana Anyafo, Torna Hanior, and Ertor Hanior. His family expanded with a daughter-in-law; Doosuur Dondo Gavar, and two sons-in-law; Zikora Anyafo, and Joshua Nyoosu Hanior, each welcomed into his life with love and belonging
Guided by his christian faith, he opened his heart and home to many other children, raising them with the same love, care, and guidance he gave his own. He was truly a father to all—rich in wisdom, generous with counsel, and always wearing a radiant, reassuring smile.
He was a loving and dedicated brother, uncle, and friend.
FAITH AND COMMUNITY
Builder Terhemen Gavar was a devout Christian and a committed member of the NKST Church, where he served as a church elder, a member of the English choir, and participated actively in church building projects. He was equally known within his community as a peace-loving individual who consistently promoted unity and understanding among his people.
He was a man of honesty, truth, and love—approachable, wise, and dependable in counsel.
FINAL DAYS
In September 2025, his health began to decline. He underwent surgery in November 2025 and was recovering gradually. On Friday, 9th January 2026, he was admitted at Best Practice Hospital, Makurdi, and on Monday, 12th January 2026, he passed on peacefully at noon.
Builder Terhemen Gavar lived a life of purpose, service, faith, and love. Though we mourn his departure, we celebrate a legacy firmly built—like the solid structures
Timeline
1952
May 13th
Birth
Mkar, Benue State, Nigeria
1970
Graduated from Barewa College
WASC
Zaria, Kaduna State Nigeria
1977
Graduated from Kaduna State Polytechnic
HND Construction
Kaduna State, Nigeria
1981
January
Married to Mary Gavar (nee Sombo)
Benue State, Nigeria
1981
August
Birth of 1st Child
Welcomed Dondo Gavar, 1st of 5 children
Makurdi, Benue State, Nigeria
1989
Graduated from University of Jos
BSc Building
Jos, Plateau State, Nigeria
2002
Completed Post-Graduate Degree at University of Jos
MSc Construction Management
Jos, Plateau State
2012
Became a Grandfather
Welcomed Torna, first of many grandchildren
2012
August
Retired
Retired from paid employment after many years as a building construction professional, serving in various capacities across several organizations, including the University of Mkar, Benue Cement Company, Benue State Housing Agency, and the Benue State Housing & Urban Development Corporation, among others.
Benue State, Nigeria
2026
January 12th
Passed on to Glory
Passed on to Glory at Best Practice Hospital, Makurdi.
Makurdi, Benue State, Nigeria
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February 20, 2026
It was heartbreaking to hear of your passing, yet we are comforted by the hope of eternal rest and reunion. You lived well, touched many lives, and your legacy endures in the memories you leave behind. My sincere condolences to the entire family.
February 13, 2026
Daddy, Daddy, Daddy,
Where do I start from?
You came into my life as a brother-in-law but became a father in every way that mattered.
Calling you Daddy came naturally because that is exactly who you were.
You were a father, a protector, a guide, and a constant source of strength.
My heart is heavy as I try to come to terms with your passing.
The void you have left is one that words cannot fully explain.
You loved deeply, gave selflessly, and carried everyone along with such quiet strength.
I will never forget the day I was rushed in for an emergency Caesarean section to deliver my daughter. In the midst of fear and uncertainty, you were there at the hospital, standing in faith and praying for me. Your presence alone gave me comfort and courage.
When my daughter was later hospitalised for a long period, you came to visit us. The moment you walked into the ward, the atmosphere shifted. Peace replaced anxiety. Hope replaced fear. Unlike other visitors who prayed quietly only for their own loved ones, you stood in the middle of the ward and lifted up every patient before God. That was who you were, selfless, compassionate, and full of unwavering faith.
Your love was never limited to your own family; it reached everyone around you. You carried light into heavy places and left every room better than you found it.
You were truly a blessing in my life, and your legacy of faith, kindness, and fatherly love will forever remain in my heart.
Your voice, your counsel, and your presence will be sorely missed.
Rest well, Daddy.
Your legacy lives on in us.
Where do I start from?
You came into my life as a brother-in-law but became a father in every way that mattered.
Calling you Daddy came naturally because that is exactly who you were.
You were a father, a protector, a guide, and a constant source of strength.
My heart is heavy as I try to come to terms with your passing.
The void you have left is one that words cannot fully explain.
You loved deeply, gave selflessly, and carried everyone along with such quiet strength.
I will never forget the day I was rushed in for an emergency Caesarean section to deliver my daughter. In the midst of fear and uncertainty, you were there at the hospital, standing in faith and praying for me. Your presence alone gave me comfort and courage.
When my daughter was later hospitalised for a long period, you came to visit us. The moment you walked into the ward, the atmosphere shifted. Peace replaced anxiety. Hope replaced fear. Unlike other visitors who prayed quietly only for their own loved ones, you stood in the middle of the ward and lifted up every patient before God. That was who you were, selfless, compassionate, and full of unwavering faith.
Your love was never limited to your own family; it reached everyone around you. You carried light into heavy places and left every room better than you found it.
You were truly a blessing in my life, and your legacy of faith, kindness, and fatherly love will forever remain in my heart.
Your voice, your counsel, and your presence will be sorely missed.
Rest well, Daddy.
Your legacy lives on in us.
February 8, 2026
TRIBUTE TO OUR UNCLE:
Our uncle was the kindest man we ever knew. To be loved by him was to feel completely safe, truly seen, and deeply at peace. He loved us wholeheartedly, without hesitation or condition, and he had a beautiful way of making ordinary moments shine with warmth and laughter.
It still feels surreal to speak about our uncle in the past tense. It is hard to believe that such a steady, gentle presence could be gone. Yet everything he gave us remains — his patience, his humour, his wisdom, and the faithful way he always showed up for us.
Thank you, Uncle, for the countless quiet acts of care, for the stories that shaped us, and for the lessons you never needed to announce. We carry you with us every day, in our hearts and in the way we live and love.
You were, and will always be, deeply and endlessly beloved.
We love you, Uncle. Rest easy in the bosom of the Lord.
Our uncle was the kindest man we ever knew. To be loved by him was to feel completely safe, truly seen, and deeply at peace. He loved us wholeheartedly, without hesitation or condition, and he had a beautiful way of making ordinary moments shine with warmth and laughter.
It still feels surreal to speak about our uncle in the past tense. It is hard to believe that such a steady, gentle presence could be gone. Yet everything he gave us remains — his patience, his humour, his wisdom, and the faithful way he always showed up for us.
Thank you, Uncle, for the countless quiet acts of care, for the stories that shaped us, and for the lessons you never needed to announce. We carry you with us every day, in our hearts and in the way we live and love.
You were, and will always be, deeply and endlessly beloved.
We love you, Uncle. Rest easy in the bosom of the Lord.
February 8, 2026
"Mngu nan we wan wan sha dooshima"
Daddy, said. Words that stuck with me. That was how I gained a new father and family.
Nothing prepared me for your departure. We were together just last christmas.
I remember our conversations; nurturing, guiding, gentle, influence without pressure.
We miss you but we hold to the memories of our time together.
We remember your love for God, we remember your peaceful nature, your prayerful lifestyle, your sacrifices. These have become our guiding light and we will hold to your values.
We miss you but we are comforted because you always trusted in Jesus and we know heaven has received its saint.
Daddy, said. Words that stuck with me. That was how I gained a new father and family.
Nothing prepared me for your departure. We were together just last christmas.
I remember our conversations; nurturing, guiding, gentle, influence without pressure.
We miss you but we hold to the memories of our time together.
We remember your love for God, we remember your peaceful nature, your prayerful lifestyle, your sacrifices. These have become our guiding light and we will hold to your values.
We miss you but we are comforted because you always trusted in Jesus and we know heaven has received its saint.
February 8, 2026
TRIBUTE
In Loving Memory of Builder Terhemen Gavar
Some lives are measured not by length of years alone, but by depth of impact.
Builder Terhemen Gavar lived such a life—quietly purposeful, firmly grounded in faith, and rich in service to God, family, and humanity.
Though connected to me by marriage, he related with me as family in the fullest sense.
As a first cousin of my wife, he stood as a pillar of encouragement and support to our home.
His late mother, of blessed memory, played a significant role in the foundation of our marriage, and through him, that legacy of love, guidance, and moral strength continued to bless our family.
Builder Gavar believed deeply in empowering others.
He encouraged me to own land in the Benue State capital and went beyond words by personally applying his professional expertise to construct the wall and fence around my property.
That structure stands today not merely as a physical edifice, but as a lasting symbol of his generosity, foresight, and practical love.
He was a man who celebrated the progress of others as his own.
His presence at my daughter’s graduation in Canada last year—despite distance and the demands of life—spoke volumes about his commitment to family, encouragement, and shared joy.
That was who he was: supportive, proud, and always present when it mattered.
A devout Christian and committed churchman, Builder Terhemen Gavar lived out his faith through integrity, humility, peace, and service.
His counsel was wise, his disposition gentle, and his life an example worthy of emulation. He built not only structures, but people—strengthening families, mentoring younger ones, and promoting unity wherever he went.
As we bid him farewell, we do so with gratitude rather than despair. He has finished his race and left behind a legacy firmly built—like the solid foundations he was known for throughout his life.
Sleep well, Builder Terhemen Gavar.
Your works speak.
Your values endure.
Your memory lives on.
Ortamen Manasseh Terna Denga.
In Loving Memory of Builder Terhemen Gavar
Some lives are measured not by length of years alone, but by depth of impact.
Builder Terhemen Gavar lived such a life—quietly purposeful, firmly grounded in faith, and rich in service to God, family, and humanity.
Though connected to me by marriage, he related with me as family in the fullest sense.
As a first cousin of my wife, he stood as a pillar of encouragement and support to our home.
His late mother, of blessed memory, played a significant role in the foundation of our marriage, and through him, that legacy of love, guidance, and moral strength continued to bless our family.
Builder Gavar believed deeply in empowering others.
He encouraged me to own land in the Benue State capital and went beyond words by personally applying his professional expertise to construct the wall and fence around my property.
That structure stands today not merely as a physical edifice, but as a lasting symbol of his generosity, foresight, and practical love.
He was a man who celebrated the progress of others as his own.
His presence at my daughter’s graduation in Canada last year—despite distance and the demands of life—spoke volumes about his commitment to family, encouragement, and shared joy.
That was who he was: supportive, proud, and always present when it mattered.
A devout Christian and committed churchman, Builder Terhemen Gavar lived out his faith through integrity, humility, peace, and service.
His counsel was wise, his disposition gentle, and his life an example worthy of emulation. He built not only structures, but people—strengthening families, mentoring younger ones, and promoting unity wherever he went.
As we bid him farewell, we do so with gratitude rather than despair. He has finished his race and left behind a legacy firmly built—like the solid foundations he was known for throughout his life.
Sleep well, Builder Terhemen Gavar.
Your works speak.
Your values endure.
Your memory lives on.
Ortamen Manasseh Terna Denga.
February 8, 2026
My Daddy🤍 … Losing you has been a roller coaster of emotions, some days are harder than others, and the reality of you no longer being here leaves a deep vacuum that only God can fill. Yet, even in the pain, God keeps comforting me daily, and I remain profoundly grateful for the gift of having experienced the love of a father through you. You embodied fatherhood so beautifully, graciously and I could never have asked for a better Dad. I cherish every moment of being your daughter - your little girl, and every memory we made. Your legacy lives on, not only in our family but in my home and in the woman I am becoming, shaped by the lessons you taught me with love, sacrifice, and quiet strength.
I know you are proud of me; proud of the milestones I have reached and the progress God has helped me make in life. Though I wished you could have stayed longer to fully enjoy the fruit of your labor, I am forever thankful for how tirelessly you worked so that we could have the best you could afford. Truly, your memory is blessed, and I carry stories and memories that will last a lifetime; stories I will keep telling your grandchildren and their children’s children.
I am grateful to God for the gift of seeing you just weeks before you went home, for the Christmas memories we shared, and for knowing you are now at the feet of Jesus, where there is no more pain. Until we meet again Daddy to part no more; keep singing with the angels. I love you always.
I know you are proud of me; proud of the milestones I have reached and the progress God has helped me make in life. Though I wished you could have stayed longer to fully enjoy the fruit of your labor, I am forever thankful for how tirelessly you worked so that we could have the best you could afford. Truly, your memory is blessed, and I carry stories and memories that will last a lifetime; stories I will keep telling your grandchildren and their children’s children.
I am grateful to God for the gift of seeing you just weeks before you went home, for the Christmas memories we shared, and for knowing you are now at the feet of Jesus, where there is no more pain. Until we meet again Daddy to part no more; keep singing with the angels. I love you always.
February 7, 2026
- A TRIBUTE TO A BELOVED BROTHER TURNED DAD -
Daddy Tar,
At times like this it is hard to put words on paper. The Bible calls it the end of all mortals. It is indeed the end of an era! You represented different things to different people throughout your life.
You were daddy Tar to most of us because the responsibility to lead the family came naturally to you. You were our go to person in friendly times and in times of crisis and you handled both situations well.
You were our consultant on so many different issues at different levels and even some that seemingly had really nothing to do with you. We sought your views, your advice which always came in handy. Thank you for always being there for us as a family and for leading by example.
You were an honorable man, a man of integrity and great humility, selfless, full of compassion and care for others and a man of inner strength . You were a God fearing man who served God with enthusiasm and it showed in everything you did and how you handled issues. No issue was ever too big for you not to have a solution.
You had a listening ear for everyone,. You had a calm demeanor but still firm and you were always ready to proffer a solution whenever I called.over any issue,
You always stood with us, stood in for us when you needed to and spoke for us when you had to and gave advice when solicited. Thank you.
You were present at Ivande's graduation last year! That is just who you were! Supporting, encouraging and cheering everyone on in their respective endeavors.
It is hard to say goodbye at this time because you left us too soon. However, we thank God for the gift that you were to us.
We will surely miss you but I know you are only resting from your labours. Your works do follow you and a victor's crown awaits you. 2Tim4:8, Rev14:13.
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May your legacy continue to inspire. May your soul rest in eternal peace. Amen.
Member Manz Denga
Daddy Tar,
At times like this it is hard to put words on paper. The Bible calls it the end of all mortals. It is indeed the end of an era! You represented different things to different people throughout your life.
You were daddy Tar to most of us because the responsibility to lead the family came naturally to you. You were our go to person in friendly times and in times of crisis and you handled both situations well.
You were our consultant on so many different issues at different levels and even some that seemingly had really nothing to do with you. We sought your views, your advice which always came in handy. Thank you for always being there for us as a family and for leading by example.
You were an honorable man, a man of integrity and great humility, selfless, full of compassion and care for others and a man of inner strength . You were a God fearing man who served God with enthusiasm and it showed in everything you did and how you handled issues. No issue was ever too big for you not to have a solution.
You had a listening ear for everyone,. You had a calm demeanor but still firm and you were always ready to proffer a solution whenever I called.over any issue,
You always stood with us, stood in for us when you needed to and spoke for us when you had to and gave advice when solicited. Thank you.
You were present at Ivande's graduation last year! That is just who you were! Supporting, encouraging and cheering everyone on in their respective endeavors.
It is hard to say goodbye at this time because you left us too soon. However, we thank God for the gift that you were to us.
We will surely miss you but I know you are only resting from your labours. Your works do follow you and a victor's crown awaits you. 2Tim4:8, Rev14:13.
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May your legacy continue to inspire. May your soul rest in eternal peace. Amen.
Member Manz Denga
February 7, 2026
Although living far apart, I always felt Baba’s support while going through school. It made it all the more special when both he and Mama were able to attend my graduation last June. Although not aware it would be the last time, I still felt the gravitas of the moment and remember it very tenderly. I’m grateful to have known him and had him as an elder in my life. Rest in peace, Baba.
February 6, 2026
Today, I want to honor my uncle—a man whose love wrapped around me in ways that were quiet, steady, and life-changing. He didn’t just say he believed in me; he showed it, again and again, through his presence, his protection, and his unwavering support.
He covered me when I needed safety, stood beside me when I needed courage, and lifted me when I was still learning how to stand on my own. Long before I fully knew who I was becoming, he saw it. He nurtured my strength, affirmed my voice, and made space for me to grow into the woman I am today.
Because of him, I learned what it feels like to be truly supported. Because of him, I learned that love can be firm and gentle at the same time. His guidance didn’t fade—it lives on in my choices, my confidence, and the way I now show up in the world.
Though he is no longer here in body, his influence remains deeply woven into my life. I carry him with me—in my resilience, in my compassion, and in my determination to live fully and authentically.
Thank you, Uncle, for loving me so well. Your legacy lives on through me, always.
Love always…
-Your baby, DM
He covered me when I needed safety, stood beside me when I needed courage, and lifted me when I was still learning how to stand on my own. Long before I fully knew who I was becoming, he saw it. He nurtured my strength, affirmed my voice, and made space for me to grow into the woman I am today.
Because of him, I learned what it feels like to be truly supported. Because of him, I learned that love can be firm and gentle at the same time. His guidance didn’t fade—it lives on in my choices, my confidence, and the way I now show up in the world.
Though he is no longer here in body, his influence remains deeply woven into my life. I carry him with me—in my resilience, in my compassion, and in my determination to live fully and authentically.
Thank you, Uncle, for loving me so well. Your legacy lives on through me, always.
Love always…
-Your baby, DM
February 2, 2026
Today, we honour the life of a remarkable man, my uncle, Tar.
Though we lived our lives far away, his influence travelled far
beyond its borders and reached all the way into my own life,
shaping the man I have become become.
Uncle Tar was the first Nigerian man I ever saw show open, joyful
affection to his wife. As a child, that sight stayed with me. It
taught me that love is something to be expressed, not hidden. It
showed me what partnership could look like gentle, proud, and
full of respect. I remember thinking, “When I grow up and get
married, I want to be just like Uncle Tar.” And that lesson has
stayed with me every day of my adult life.
He also inspired my path in another profound way. It was because
of him that I chose to study engineering. His passion, his
curiosity, and how he spoke about life in the cement factory lit a
spark in me. That spark carried me across the world, through my
studies, and into the career I now have. His legacy is not just a
memory, it is alive in the work I do, in the values I hold, and in the
example, I pass on to my own children.
To our family: please know that Uncle Tar’s impact did not end
with his passing. His life continues to echo across to the other
side of the world. His kindness, his love, calmness, his brilliance,
and his example live on in me, and through me, in my children.
His legacy is alive, strong, and honoured.
May God bless his soul and keep him in eternal peace.
Tertsegha Gyuse Ashibi
Though we lived our lives far away, his influence travelled far
beyond its borders and reached all the way into my own life,
shaping the man I have become become.
Uncle Tar was the first Nigerian man I ever saw show open, joyful
affection to his wife. As a child, that sight stayed with me. It
taught me that love is something to be expressed, not hidden. It
showed me what partnership could look like gentle, proud, and
full of respect. I remember thinking, “When I grow up and get
married, I want to be just like Uncle Tar.” And that lesson has
stayed with me every day of my adult life.
He also inspired my path in another profound way. It was because
of him that I chose to study engineering. His passion, his
curiosity, and how he spoke about life in the cement factory lit a
spark in me. That spark carried me across the world, through my
studies, and into the career I now have. His legacy is not just a
memory, it is alive in the work I do, in the values I hold, and in the
example, I pass on to my own children.
To our family: please know that Uncle Tar’s impact did not end
with his passing. His life continues to echo across to the other
side of the world. His kindness, his love, calmness, his brilliance,
and his example live on in me, and through me, in my children.
His legacy is alive, strong, and honoured.
May God bless his soul and keep him in eternal peace.
Tertsegha Gyuse Ashibi
February 2, 2026
A Tribute to Daddy TG
I write for a living, yet for some reason, finding the words to say goodbye to you, Daddy TG, has been harder than I imagined. Maybe it’s because speaking of you in the past tense still feels so surreal.
What an honour it was to be known and loved by you. I am so grateful to have experienced the man you were: a devoted husband, a loving father, a doting grandpa, and a true friend.
I’m certain you’ve already met up with my dear father in heaven by now. He always spoke so highly of you. He never forgot how you supported his early walk with God and introduced him to the NKST choir. You didn’t just preach the Gospel; you showed your children—and by extension, their friends—what it means to be a true Christian. It was reflected in every kind word, every selfless action, and your unmistakable sense of humour.
I’m holding on to our last memories together (they featured many belly laughs😂). I am so glad I took those pictures and videos; I will treasure them forever. Thank you, sir, for simply living a beautiful life—a life we can only aspire to emulate.
Your memory is blessed, and you are deeply, deeply missed.
Love always,
Your bonus daughter,
Doofan Hiikyaa (neé Ichull)
I write for a living, yet for some reason, finding the words to say goodbye to you, Daddy TG, has been harder than I imagined. Maybe it’s because speaking of you in the past tense still feels so surreal.
What an honour it was to be known and loved by you. I am so grateful to have experienced the man you were: a devoted husband, a loving father, a doting grandpa, and a true friend.
I’m certain you’ve already met up with my dear father in heaven by now. He always spoke so highly of you. He never forgot how you supported his early walk with God and introduced him to the NKST choir. You didn’t just preach the Gospel; you showed your children—and by extension, their friends—what it means to be a true Christian. It was reflected in every kind word, every selfless action, and your unmistakable sense of humour.
I’m holding on to our last memories together (they featured many belly laughs😂). I am so glad I took those pictures and videos; I will treasure them forever. Thank you, sir, for simply living a beautiful life—a life we can only aspire to emulate.
Your memory is blessed, and you are deeply, deeply missed.
Love always,
Your bonus daughter,
Doofan Hiikyaa (neé Ichull)
January 31, 2026
You were my brother, my friend and a constant source of joy and security in my life. Memories of us growing up together, the fun we shared as children are all with me. I'll miss your voice, your strength and your steady presence. Memory of our friendship brings both tears and gratitude. You have gone too soon, but you will never be forgotten. Rest in peace knowing you were deeply loved.
January 29, 2026
Dear Daddy,
You received me not just as a son-in-law, but as your son. I really admired how you and mummy were so inseparable. You always had your devotions, prayed before every meals, and enjoyed each others company. That definitely stood out to me as a model to continue to follow in my marriage.
You were a perfect gentle man, with your gentleness and advice from Gods word. You prayed for us as a family and committed us to God.
The time we spent together seemed so short, but I know someday we all will see at the Lords feet. I am rest assured, that you have fought a good fight and ran a good race, and heaven is smiling to have you home.
We will carry your legacy and the memories we all had with you, will continue to grow in our hearts and lives.
I am reminded of Hebrews 4: 9-10 " There remains therefore a rest for the people of God. For he who has entered His rest has himself also ceased from his works as God did from His."
You received me not just as a son-in-law, but as your son. I really admired how you and mummy were so inseparable. You always had your devotions, prayed before every meals, and enjoyed each others company. That definitely stood out to me as a model to continue to follow in my marriage.
You were a perfect gentle man, with your gentleness and advice from Gods word. You prayed for us as a family and committed us to God.
The time we spent together seemed so short, but I know someday we all will see at the Lords feet. I am rest assured, that you have fought a good fight and ran a good race, and heaven is smiling to have you home.
We will carry your legacy and the memories we all had with you, will continue to grow in our hearts and lives.
I am reminded of Hebrews 4: 9-10 " There remains therefore a rest for the people of God. For he who has entered His rest has himself also ceased from his works as God did from His."
January 29, 2026
Daddy, as I stand here today, memories of you flood my mind, and my heart swells with love and gratitude. You were more than just a father to me; you were my rock, my confidant, and my best friend. Your unwavering support, guidance, and love helped shape me into the person I am today.
I remember the countless hours we spent together, laughing, talking, and sharing stories. Your wisdom, kindness, and generosity inspired me, and I'll carry those lessons with me forever. You taught me the importance of hard work, integrity, and compassion, and I strive to live my life by those values.
Your love was unconditional, your patience was endless, and your presence was a comforting blanket that shielded me from life's storms. Though you're no longer here with me, your legacy lives on through me, and I'll make sure to make you proud.
I'll miss our deep conversations, our silly jokes, and our quiet moments together. I'll miss your guidance, your advice, and your reassuring words. But most of all, I'll miss you, Daddy.
Rest in peace, Daddy Your memory will forever be a blessing to me, and I'll carry your love with me always. 😌💔"
I remember the countless hours we spent together, laughing, talking, and sharing stories. Your wisdom, kindness, and generosity inspired me, and I'll carry those lessons with me forever. You taught me the importance of hard work, integrity, and compassion, and I strive to live my life by those values.
Your love was unconditional, your patience was endless, and your presence was a comforting blanket that shielded me from life's storms. Though you're no longer here with me, your legacy lives on through me, and I'll make sure to make you proud.
I'll miss our deep conversations, our silly jokes, and our quiet moments together. I'll miss your guidance, your advice, and your reassuring words. But most of all, I'll miss you, Daddy.
Rest in peace, Daddy Your memory will forever be a blessing to me, and I'll carry your love with me always. 😌💔"
January 29, 2026
AN ODE TO YOU, ENTITY OF BENEVOLENCE
By Doosuur Dondo Gavar (Wan Akpe)
Greetings, entity of benevolence!
I pay homage to your existence.
Permit my mouth to take all expense
To dispense my intelligence of your affluence.
Mastermind of uncountable disciples,
You nurtured with heavenly principles.
I call you an embodiment of altruism;
It is my pleasure to speak of you with all enthusiasm.
Greatness in physical possession,
Unsung hero of no category,
Magnificently transformed into your full glory,
To where you will forever dine in many mansions.
Entity of benevolence, dressed in flowing white robes,
In loving memories that throb,
Your physical absence projects an illuminating presence;
Our solace is in your loving essence.
By Doosuur Dondo Gavar (Wan Akpe)
Greetings, entity of benevolence!
I pay homage to your existence.
Permit my mouth to take all expense
To dispense my intelligence of your affluence.
Mastermind of uncountable disciples,
You nurtured with heavenly principles.
I call you an embodiment of altruism;
It is my pleasure to speak of you with all enthusiasm.
Greatness in physical possession,
Unsung hero of no category,
Magnificently transformed into your full glory,
To where you will forever dine in many mansions.
Entity of benevolence, dressed in flowing white robes,
In loving memories that throb,
Your physical absence projects an illuminating presence;
Our solace is in your loving essence.
January 29, 2026
Daddy dearest,
What an honour to be called your first daughter! While I grieve your passing and come to terms with the fact that you are no longer with us in the flesh, my heart is filled with immense gratitude for the amazing father that you were to me, and to us all. You listened, you loved, you led our family with that quiet confidence of yours.
You were present for every milestone, guiding and encouraging me through life’s twists and turns. Professionally, you were my senior colleague and role model, teaching me the values of discipline, respect, and honesty in an industry where people are so quick to cut corners.
I could write pages about your life, Daddy, but I’m glad I always told you how much you were loved and appreciated. Even in death I say thank you! Thank you for giving us a home filled with love, peace, and laughter. We truly won the ‘Daddy lottery!’
Thank you for pointing me to the love of our heavenly Father through the life that you lived.
You always told me "our times are in God's hands", words that have brought me comfort at a time like this.
May your light continue to guide me, till we meet again.
Indeed a good man has finished his race. 2 Timothy 4:7
What an honour to be called your first daughter! While I grieve your passing and come to terms with the fact that you are no longer with us in the flesh, my heart is filled with immense gratitude for the amazing father that you were to me, and to us all. You listened, you loved, you led our family with that quiet confidence of yours.
You were present for every milestone, guiding and encouraging me through life’s twists and turns. Professionally, you were my senior colleague and role model, teaching me the values of discipline, respect, and honesty in an industry where people are so quick to cut corners.
I could write pages about your life, Daddy, but I’m glad I always told you how much you were loved and appreciated. Even in death I say thank you! Thank you for giving us a home filled with love, peace, and laughter. We truly won the ‘Daddy lottery!’
Thank you for pointing me to the love of our heavenly Father through the life that you lived.
You always told me "our times are in God's hands", words that have brought me comfort at a time like this.
May your light continue to guide me, till we meet again.
Indeed a good man has finished his race. 2 Timothy 4:7
January 28, 2026
It will be faithlessness to think that we love you more than God does.
Because your physical absence projects an illuminating presence, your memories and legacy will forever be passed on.
Farewell daddy,watch over us while resting in peace.❤️
Ka mo Wan Akpe,kwase wou.
Because your physical absence projects an illuminating presence, your memories and legacy will forever be passed on.
Farewell daddy,watch over us while resting in peace.❤️
Ka mo Wan Akpe,kwase wou.
Family tree
James Wachin Gavar (Deceased)
Rhoda Peiver Gavar, nee Kusa (Deceased)
Mary Gavar, nee Sombo
Mamfe Gavar
Ngusurun Hanior, nee Gavar
Spouse: Joshua Nyoosu Hanior
Spouse: Joshua Nyoosu Hanior
Children
Torna
Ertor
Aondofa Gavar
Iember Anyafo, nee Gavar
Spouse: Zikora Anyafo
Spouse: Zikora Anyafo
Children
Avana
Yana
Dondo Gavar
Spouse: Doosuur Dondo Gavar, nee Akpe
Spouse: Doosuur Dondo Gavar, nee Akpe
Children
Mamse
Mary Gavar, nee Sombo
Mamfe Gavar
Ngusurun Hanior, nee Gavar
Spouse: Joshua Nyoosu Hanior
Spouse: Joshua Nyoosu Hanior
Torna
Ertor
Aondofa Gavar
Iember Anyafo, nee Gavar
Spouse: Zikora Anyafo
Spouse: Zikora Anyafo
Avana
Yana
Dondo Gavar
Spouse: Doosuur Dondo Gavar, nee Akpe
Spouse: Doosuur Dondo Gavar, nee Akpe
Mamse
Terhemen Wachin Gavar
Service
Please join us to pay a last tribute.
While we mourn the loss of our beloved, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy brought into our lives. Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
While we mourn the loss of our beloved, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy brought into our lives. Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
SERVICE OF SONGS
5, Shima Gyoh Crescent, off Captain Downes Road (Opposite JS Tarka's Grave),
Gboko Benue State
Gboko Benue State
THUR 19TH FEBRUARY, 2026. 5pm - 9pm
WAKE KEEP
Mbaakon Grammar School Open Field,
Tse Gavar, Mbaakon,
Vandeikya Local Government
Tse Gavar, Mbaakon,
Vandeikya Local Government
FRI 20TH FEBRUARY, 2026. 6pm
internment
Tse Gavar, Mbaakon,
Vandeikya Local Government
Vandeikya Local Government
SAT 21ST FEBRUARY, 2026. 9am
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In honor of our beloved Elder Terhemen Wachin Gavar, we invite you to donate to his family or contribute to a cause that was near and dear to his heart. Your generous donation will serve as a meaningful tribute.
Please send an email tottgavar.tributes@gmail.com for details on how to make a donation.
Together, let us continue the legacy of compassion and kindness that Terhemen Gavar embodied throughout his life.
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