Stephen Leslie KC
Stephen Leslie KC
Obituary
Stephen Windsor Leslie was born at 61, The Drive, Hove, where celebrations were underway for Queen Elizabeth II’s 21st birthday.
He was born to parents Lou (Leonard) Leslie and Celia, and was their only child. His parents themselves came from big families, with Lou the youngest of 19 conceptions (10 of the siblings surviving to adulthood), and Celia the youngest of 6. Despite coming from a large extended family, he saw relatively little of his mother's extended family save for his maternal grandmother, a neighbour of Joan Collins. He would regularly see Jackie and Joan (who spoilt him rotten as a young teenager) without ever guessing at the fame they would achieve!
His maternal grandfather escaped from Poland in a coffin, using a straw to breathe. Without that there might have been no Stephen. He was an impressive 6 ft 4" to his Romanian wife's 4ft 6" - between them, Stephen felt he had a fair chance of reaching a decent height!
Stephen enjoyed an idyllic childhood, and thanks to his baby books we have retained many happy memories. We know that Stephen only tolerated fresh green peas as a solid food for six months, said “Pepe” (his dog’s name) as his first word, rather than ‘Mama’ or ‘Papa’, and took 18 months to take his first step. Which makes his stint running for Sussex county even more impressive; proof that it's not how late you start.
Boarding school was Brighton College, and his parents were very proud that he was the first member of his family to attend public school. They themselves were jewellers who ran a series of jewellery shops in The Lanes in Brighton, with the family still well established in the Silver Vaults, Chancery Lane today.
At school Stephen ran and boxed. He was an outstanding sportsman who kept a 7 stone featherweight physique, and remained unbeaten through 79 fights. His academic work saw him excel at subjects he liked, but ignore those with terrible teachers. Looking at his last school report, having taken five A levels, you can read: “Cheerfully illiterate, irrepressibly illegible, he still manages to convey a certain shrewdness and realisation of relevance.”
His own household was not a particularly religious one. His grandmother declared that “There can be no God” after the Holocaust deaths the family suffered. He nonetheless saw himself as culturally Jewish, even if his household did not keep Kosher. His regular religious education consisted of a Jewish chap coming up from London to read aloud from the Jewish Chronicle! He had a Bar Mitzvah, with celebrations that were very grand.
Stephen celebrated leaving school by touring America on a greyhound bus for three months. He was able to meet the Kennedys, and stayed with their friends, the Skegells. He determined to come back to the USA if he didn’t become a barrister; his English accent and Bob Dylan-esque good looks could get him far (he was even asked to sign autographs when mistaken for Dylan on a number of occasions!).
However, America would have to wait, because he did get to read law.
He attended King’s College London, even though academia was not required at the time, and was Called to the Bar as a Scholar of Lincoln’s Inn (Thomas Moore Bursary). He put this down to his personality at interview, and quick thinking.
At that time one had to pay a pupil master to do pupillage (rather than the other way around) as this was considered an apprenticeship. That money had to be borrowed as the family’s fortunes had risen and fallen over time, due to his father’s health. He determinedly and happily worked as a bus conductor to make up any shortfalls, both in Brighton and London, and said that there was good money to be made if one did double shifts. He cheerfully remembered chatting up lots of girls this way (a captive audience!) but also admitted to paying for elderly folk who took a long time to count out carefully hoarded coins.
His parents threw him a party at the Savoy on his graduation, to which he invited all his teachers (including those who were more sceptical and uncertain of his success!).
Stephen was born to be a barrister. He loved the job. This wasn’t just about unearthing a Silk’s Wig that had belonged to a famous Speaker, purchased in Portobello Road Market for £5. (A sharp clerk persuaded him to sell it to a senior member of chambers for £50, which sounded like a good idea at the time, but which ultimately meant he ended up spending thousands on his own!). He quickly undertook serious cases, and in a relatively short time had made a name for himself. The charm exercised with young solicitors and his outstanding performance as an advocate made him a natural choice to brief.
Stephen married thrice; Melissa finally said "yes" after he asked her 300 times. He said that he wanted to be sure that they would meet in Heaven. They have been blissfully happy, finding deep contentment over the last 20 years in the few tranquil moments in their very busy lives.
He took Silk, was elected Leader of the South Eastern Circuit by his peers, and was responsible for 7,000 barristers. He undertook some notable cases and made his name. He became employed after decades as a self-employed practitioner and adapted to work, relishing the chance to help others thrive in this new environment and give them the benefit of his experience. Whilst he was a workaholic, he tried to keep up with friends, family and travel in odd moments.
He sadly drowned while on holiday from work in Mauritius. He was with Melissa at this time.
He was a husband, father to Lara, Ophelia and Theodore and grandfather to Adam, Louis, Theo, Robin and Aeson, Bencher of Lincoln's Inn. He was a great friend to many. He will be missed dreadfully xxx
(Melissa and Stephen were halfway through his memoirs when he died; please make contact with Melissa to provide your memories, and allow this work to be completed. Legal and non-legal memories are equally as important; the key is to build a legacy worthy of a man who was so very alive.)
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February 2, 2026
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Stephen was an enigmatic gentleman; who gave so much of his time back to the profession through his support of students embarking on their journey into the profession he loved. That is where I first met Stephen - his stories and his passion were an inspiration. When I then qualified and volunteered myself at educational weekends for Lincoln’s Inn some years later, Stephen’s passion, and his commitment to inspiring and supporting those students remained as steadfast as they had been when I was a training. Forever young at heart. Rest in peace.
January 5, 2026
I first met Stephen in the 1970s in our early years at the Bar. It was always a treat to have him in court, and I recall at least two occasions when we were on opposite sides of- in the Divisional and Crown Court. Always a pleasure to work with him. Good natured and straightforward. Delighted that he became our neighbour in Kew and we could renew our friendship and meet Melissa. Deepest condolences on your great loss
January 4, 2026
Stephen was one of a kind. A truly remarkable man. I was so looking forward to hearing more of his law stories; gone too soon x
December 30, 2025
Dear Melissa. I just want you to know that you are in my daily prayers together with Stephen . You know I pray to St Jude and I ask that he gives you strength and courage at this desperately sad time. The icon you painted for me of St Jude at the lovely evening the four of us had at the Carlton is even more special now. I cannot process this tragic news so cannot begin to imagine your pain but want to remind you Richard & I are always here for you . If there is anything at all we can do for you we are only a call away .
You are strong Melissa and your love for Stephen will support you through this as he will always be by your side . He said to me not long ago , when you were away painting I think and I was teasing him , he was fretting about cooking and I said how blessed he was to have you
“ I know how lucky I am Melissa is the wind beneath my wings “ may he RIP and watch over you. Take care Melissa & God bless. Know that there are many of us who want to show our love and respect for Steve hen and you. All our love Pina & Richard xx🙏
You are strong Melissa and your love for Stephen will support you through this as he will always be by your side . He said to me not long ago , when you were away painting I think and I was teasing him , he was fretting about cooking and I said how blessed he was to have you
“ I know how lucky I am Melissa is the wind beneath my wings “ may he RIP and watch over you. Take care Melissa & God bless. Know that there are many of us who want to show our love and respect for Steve hen and you. All our love Pina & Richard xx🙏
December 30, 2025
Dear Melissa
It was a beautiful service. You did Stephen proud.
The fact that the service was so crowded despite the short notice and being in the middle of a working day is testament to how very much Stephen was loved and respected
Your grief is shared by so many of us. I hope that is some comfort to you at this difficult time.
Stephen always made us smile. We remember his warm exuberance with much affection.
May he rest in peace and rise in glory.
Lots of love from us both and our prayers.
God bless
Shirani xx
It was a beautiful service. You did Stephen proud.
The fact that the service was so crowded despite the short notice and being in the middle of a working day is testament to how very much Stephen was loved and respected
Your grief is shared by so many of us. I hope that is some comfort to you at this difficult time.
Stephen always made us smile. We remember his warm exuberance with much affection.
May he rest in peace and rise in glory.
Lots of love from us both and our prayers.
God bless
Shirani xx
December 30, 2025
A perfect gentleman and so in love with Melissa. He was a part of our group experience, learning about history, theology and iconography. Sharing his legal stories and always making us smile with the whirlwind that he was. So thankful to have known him and recognise that the world is poorer for no longer having him here.
Praying for Melissa and you x
Praying for Melissa and you x
December 30, 2025
Eccentric, dapper, a handkerchief carrying gentleman who said “good morning” and made people smile. I recall him carrying LouLou around as a very young puppy and teaching him about variety - excellent training for a very zen dog. With Melissa he was content and only keen that others got to share his good experiences, restaurants, holidays, theatre trips. He invited friendship, inspired loyalty, and was much loved. A Kew resident we were proud to recognise as one of our own while wildly unique. Rest in peace dear Stephen x
December 30, 2025
A very special friend. Stephen shared his faith, his love of classical music, and good food and wine with me. Melissa and he arranged countless trips where I would be their guest to Glyndebourne, his club, etc. Generous, fun loving, and loyal, he knew how to live life well. May he be blessed in heaven as we miss him here on earth. Shocking to lose him in this way, too soon, he will always be remembered with love.
Toffee Apple xx
Toffee Apple xx
December 30, 2025
The best person to meet at family gatherings. Energetic, kind, and full of mischief. Always willing to hatch a plan that shared fun for others. You will be missed
December 17, 2025
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Stephen was an amazing man with an incredible level of detail in his work. He was my line manager and my friend. He always encouraged me. He was committed to those he line managed, and his straight-talking approach was something I really appreciated. A true role model and one of a kind.
Melissa, Stephen would say the kindness things about you, and we all know exactly how much he deeply loved you. I will remember you and the whole family in my prayers.
Melissa, Stephen would say the kindness things about you, and we all know exactly how much he deeply loved you. I will remember you and the whole family in my prayers.
November 25, 2025
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Energetic, inspirational and so very Alive. I am surprised to find out how old Stephen was in terms of chronological age because he has so much energy; more than I have at almost half his age! It was a beautiful energy, making plans, rushing around and finding enjoyment in life. He hadn’t known me long when he took so much trouble for my birthday, spending hours in the phone for opera tickets and taking me out to celebrate. Always keen to share good experiences with others, he was a Class Act.
November 20, 2025
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Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of Stephen. May His peace be with you.
Dear Melissa, may the memory of your husband be a lasting blessing, offering light and guidance in the days ahead. I pray that God surrounds you with strength and comfort during this profoundly difficult time.
Thoughts and prayers,
Yvonne, Susan, Ingrid, and family.
Dear Melissa, may the memory of your husband be a lasting blessing, offering light and guidance in the days ahead. I pray that God surrounds you with strength and comfort during this profoundly difficult time.
Thoughts and prayers,
Yvonne, Susan, Ingrid, and family.
November 18, 2025
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I was very sad to hear of Stephens passing who was a brilliant advocate and always fought with passion and dedication. He had wealth of knowledge and experience with a larger-than-life personality. He had unique way of telling a story and capturing a Jury. He had a smile that lit up the room, and his quick wittedness left you in hysterics and smiling to yourself for days.
A few tears have escaped down my cheek as I write this and find it hard to accept the reality. Even writing about him in the past tense feels unreal. He was kind, generous and a truly caring soul.
We miss you Stephen!
May God keep Melissa and their family in his warm embrace as they all navigate this loss.
A few tears have escaped down my cheek as I write this and find it hard to accept the reality. Even writing about him in the past tense feels unreal. He was kind, generous and a truly caring soul.
We miss you Stephen!
May God keep Melissa and their family in his warm embrace as they all navigate this loss.
November 17, 2025
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Standing outside Kew Gardens station one day, debating how to get to my destination after discovering that yet again the District Line wasn't working, Stephen came past, walking his dog. On hearing about my dilemma he immediately offered to get his car and drive me. In the end that wasn't necessary, but I was so touched by his generous offer. A lovely person, and a really kind fellow parishioner at St Winefrides, with love & prayers, Valerie.
November 17, 2025
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Dave & I were so sad to hear of your passing, dear Stephen. You were a wonderful mentor and became a great friend.
You were always made yourself available if I needed you and you were a source of support when I had my eye operations. I enjoyed our regular catch-ups.
I will always remember the time you decided we would have our meeting in your Club and we walked over to St James' and shared a pot of tea, in our very civilised meeting.
You were one of lifes true gems and you will be sadly missed.
Thoughts and prayers are with Melissa and the family at this difficult time.
You were always made yourself available if I needed you and you were a source of support when I had my eye operations. I enjoyed our regular catch-ups.
I will always remember the time you decided we would have our meeting in your Club and we walked over to St James' and shared a pot of tea, in our very civilised meeting.
You were one of lifes true gems and you will be sadly missed.
Thoughts and prayers are with Melissa and the family at this difficult time.
November 14, 2025
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I met Stephen Leslie in 1974 at the Youth Court which was then in Seymour Place. I had just set up in practice as Goodman & Co. in Shepherds Bush. He offered me a lift back to my offices. Stephen always knew how to schmooze solicitors!
From then on he became my counsel of choice. I instructed him on all my murders and rapes. It was a wise choice because he was a brilliant advocate and could spellbind a jury.
We both had young families and became back then became close friends.
He was great fun. I remember one time we were going en famille to the circus and were running late. Stephen commandeered a passing motorist on the Uxbridge Road and ordered the startled man to take himself and the four children to Shepherds Bush Green.
He was a good son and I remember with great affection his parents,
Lou and Celia, who doted on him.
Farewell Stephen.
From then on he became my counsel of choice. I instructed him on all my murders and rapes. It was a wise choice because he was a brilliant advocate and could spellbind a jury.
We both had young families and became back then became close friends.
He was great fun. I remember one time we were going en famille to the circus and were running late. Stephen commandeered a passing motorist on the Uxbridge Road and ordered the startled man to take himself and the four children to Shepherds Bush Green.
He was a good son and I remember with great affection his parents,
Lou and Celia, who doted on him.
Farewell Stephen.
November 14, 2025
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There is a ‘blankness’, now, in the world with your absence, dearest Stephen. And, reading the tributes and testimonies underlines how beloved, esteemed and professionally respected you were.
Even writing the word ‘were’ feels like an affront, such is this sorrowful season of extended shiva. We shall remember yours and Melissa’s many celebratory kindnesses to us; sparkling lunches and dinners, and debates and reflections on these perilous days. But equally there was the elevating joy as we shared that ‘there is a land that breaks beyond our dreams’; and because of that we praise and toast, ‘L’chaim’; the life that is not erased.
But, dearest Stephen, how bewilderingly ‘missing’ you are. It is right that we deeply mind that your illuminating, sagely presence is not your daily portion for us. And, darling Melissa, what you have lived through during such a shocking removal and translation is unimaginable. Please be assured of our ongoing prayers, petitions and enfolding love and support.
Stewart and Carol Henderson
Even writing the word ‘were’ feels like an affront, such is this sorrowful season of extended shiva. We shall remember yours and Melissa’s many celebratory kindnesses to us; sparkling lunches and dinners, and debates and reflections on these perilous days. But equally there was the elevating joy as we shared that ‘there is a land that breaks beyond our dreams’; and because of that we praise and toast, ‘L’chaim’; the life that is not erased.
But, dearest Stephen, how bewilderingly ‘missing’ you are. It is right that we deeply mind that your illuminating, sagely presence is not your daily portion for us. And, darling Melissa, what you have lived through during such a shocking removal and translation is unimaginable. Please be assured of our ongoing prayers, petitions and enfolding love and support.
Stewart and Carol Henderson
November 14, 2025
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How can someone so animated and full of life be gone? I’m really struggling with believing Stephen is no longer with us.
As head of education at Lincoln’s Inn I always knew that if Stephen was on the team for any event he would make the most conscientious of contributions and would be jolly good fun to have around too.
On a personal level, when my husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer Stephen insisted that we have a holiday at their house in Spain. It was a really special time during which the children and I made some precious memories. I can’t thank Stephen and Melissa enough for that.
He really will be missed. Xx
As head of education at Lincoln’s Inn I always knew that if Stephen was on the team for any event he would make the most conscientious of contributions and would be jolly good fun to have around too.
On a personal level, when my husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer Stephen insisted that we have a holiday at their house in Spain. It was a really special time during which the children and I made some precious memories. I can’t thank Stephen and Melissa enough for that.
He really will be missed. Xx
November 13, 2025
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We joined the PDS on the same day, the two of us having our introductory meetings together at Petty France. It was all very new, your position was far more complicated than mine, but despite this your interest and concern for me was palpable. I felt a bit lost but you made me feel it would be ok. It was. You were much more than my manager, you were a friend who genuinely cared and was always there to provide welcome advice and support. Our conversations were usually a bit chaotic, you never did one thing when there was a chance to do three at the same time, but that was the fun and I miss them still now, several years after leaving the PDS. You and Melissa let my family stay in your happy home leading upto New Year, a typical act of generosity when I needed a break from work, and it was a brilliant few days we will always treasure. I am so sorry to hear the sad news, but incredibly grateful to have known you.
November 13, 2025
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I was so sorry to learn of Stephen’s passing. He had a stellar career but was in equal, if not greater measure a remarkably kind human being. I will genuinely miss him, his colourful anecdotes and his ability to make me smile and laugh even though that was not his intention. My deepest condolences go to his family and friends.
Kulvinder
Kulvinder
November 13, 2025
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We will very much miss Stephen. As a relatively new friendship, formed originally in the Opticians in Kew, we have enjoyed our social evenings together with you both. We will especially miss the frequent “drop-in’s” by Stephen and Lulu on a Saturday morning, on their way to Waitrose! The “Men in Pink” photo is a memory of a very happy day on Alf’s 80th birthday in September this year. We were so glad that Stephen and Melissa came to celebrate with us. We are so sad to lose our dear friend who left us much too soon.
Sara and Alfred Simon
Sara and Alfred Simon
November 13, 2025
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The obituary here is beautifully written by the way. Well done to whoever wrote it.
I first met Stephen at the Old Bailey in 1984. I was a freelance outdoor clerk, Stephen was already an established figure at the criminal bar. It was probably in court one, as it was a serious and controversial case that had attracted a great deal of negative publicity. Stephen, I remember secured acquittal on the main charges, but my main memory is how Stephen was kind and friendly to a humble outdoor clerk, notwithstanding all the pressures of fighting the case.
Our professional paths crossed from time to time over the years, as I qualified as a solicitor and Stephen took silk. I had worked with him only briefly but he always greeted me like a long-lost friend. However, it soon became apparent that he did that with everyone, and that it was absolutely genuine. He took people at face value, regardless of rank or seniority, and was truly interested in you as a person. And, of course, always an excellent source of gossip.
We worked on a big case together in about 2010. The case lasted 2-3 years and was a complete nightmare, particularly the client who wouldn't stop talking. I will always remember a conference where Stephen and the client sat at opposite ends of a long table, each trying to speak over the other while conducting ten different arguments simultaneously. The junior and I were stuck in the middle like two spectators at Wimbledon. This went on for 30 minutes before they finally talked each other to a standstill; Stephen, needless to say, had the last word (or so he claimed).
Despite all those pressures, working with Stephen turned out to be one of the most enjoyable experiences of my career. I don't think a day went by without us finding something to laugh about.
I got to know Stephen and Melissa a lot better after that and so did my wife, and we became good friends. It was a massive shock to receive the news this morning, not least because Stephen always seemed so indefatigable, and indeed indestructible.
My condolences go out to all of his family but particularly Melissa at this sad time. He will be very much missed by a lot of people.
I first met Stephen at the Old Bailey in 1984. I was a freelance outdoor clerk, Stephen was already an established figure at the criminal bar. It was probably in court one, as it was a serious and controversial case that had attracted a great deal of negative publicity. Stephen, I remember secured acquittal on the main charges, but my main memory is how Stephen was kind and friendly to a humble outdoor clerk, notwithstanding all the pressures of fighting the case.
Our professional paths crossed from time to time over the years, as I qualified as a solicitor and Stephen took silk. I had worked with him only briefly but he always greeted me like a long-lost friend. However, it soon became apparent that he did that with everyone, and that it was absolutely genuine. He took people at face value, regardless of rank or seniority, and was truly interested in you as a person. And, of course, always an excellent source of gossip.
We worked on a big case together in about 2010. The case lasted 2-3 years and was a complete nightmare, particularly the client who wouldn't stop talking. I will always remember a conference where Stephen and the client sat at opposite ends of a long table, each trying to speak over the other while conducting ten different arguments simultaneously. The junior and I were stuck in the middle like two spectators at Wimbledon. This went on for 30 minutes before they finally talked each other to a standstill; Stephen, needless to say, had the last word (or so he claimed).
Despite all those pressures, working with Stephen turned out to be one of the most enjoyable experiences of my career. I don't think a day went by without us finding something to laugh about.
I got to know Stephen and Melissa a lot better after that and so did my wife, and we became good friends. It was a massive shock to receive the news this morning, not least because Stephen always seemed so indefatigable, and indeed indestructible.
My condolences go out to all of his family but particularly Melissa at this sad time. He will be very much missed by a lot of people.
November 13, 2025
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I can’t begin to describe the shock I felt when I received the phone call telling me of Stephen’s passing.
He would often ring and begin with, “Tricia, it’s Stephen. I know you probably won’t know the answer to this question, but I thought I’d ask you anyway.”
As the days have passed, I’ve realised how much I miss those calls — his humour, his stories, and his friendly voice.
My thoughts and prayers are with his much loved family and friends.
May he rest in eternal peace. He will be deeply missed. ✨
He would often ring and begin with, “Tricia, it’s Stephen. I know you probably won’t know the answer to this question, but I thought I’d ask you anyway.”
As the days have passed, I’ve realised how much I miss those calls — his humour, his stories, and his friendly voice.
My thoughts and prayers are with his much loved family and friends.
May he rest in eternal peace. He will be deeply missed. ✨
November 13, 2025
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Stephen was an absolute delight to work with, and always brought a smile to my face when I was in meetings with him, in my few years at the LAA. I particularly remember the support Stephen gave to me and my team when we were recruiting for a new team member, that will never go forgotten.
I would like to offer my condolences to Stephen's loved ones, I will always think fondly of the memories I have with Stephen and hope that in our various meetings together that I also brought a smile to his face.
I would like to offer my condolences to Stephen's loved ones, I will always think fondly of the memories I have with Stephen and hope that in our various meetings together that I also brought a smile to his face.
November 13, 2025
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It’s hard to think of Stephen without a smile coming to your face. He had that rare gift of making every room brighter. Stephen reminded us all how good it feels to truly enjoy the moment.
He was more than good company — he was good-hearted, steady, and kind.
We’ll remember Stephen for his laughter, his warmth, and the joy he brought to Melissa and our lives. Though he’s gone, his spirit will always stay with us.
He was more than good company — he was good-hearted, steady, and kind.
We’ll remember Stephen for his laughter, his warmth, and the joy he brought to Melissa and our lives. Though he’s gone, his spirit will always stay with us.
November 13, 2025
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KC Stephen Leslie was such a lovely man and a great personality. I had the pleasure of working with him for the Reverse Mentoring programme, as part of LAA. My condolences goes out to all his family with my heart felt blessings.
November 13, 2025
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Stephen was an absolute delight. Although i didn't know him well, we came across each other numerous times at work in the LAA. He always had a story to tell and a cheeky anecdote of when he'd pushed his luck. He was inspiring, kind and funny, a huge character that will be missed in the world. Huge condolences to his family.
November 12, 2025
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I first met Stephen in 1974.
In 1974 Stephen was living in an upper floor flat in an Edwardian mansion block on Bedford Square, close by Tottenham Court Road tube station. Later on, Stephen’s elder daughter, Lara, was born while he was living at this address.
On the ground floor in one flat lived Andrew Whitley and David Burgess and in another Jeremy Connor and Peter Lantos.
Jeremy was at the bar, then a Stipe at Bow Street and then a Circuit Judge. Jeremy and Stephen remained lifelong friends.
Andrew, David and I were was all friends from our time as undergraduates at St Catharine’s College Cambridge.
I soon met Stephen as I visited Andrew and David at their flat. Right away Stephen impressed as an irrepressible force who made his mark wherever he went.
David and I were both Solicitors. In September 1975 we co-founded in Islington, Winstanley-Burgess, a firm of Solicitors. We soon developed a practice in criminal law.
I instructed Stephen in a criminal case and so began our long and successful professional relationship. As Stephen increased in seniority at the bar and took silk, so the cases he undertook for Winstanley-Burgess increased in seriousness. Stephen always wanted to do the very best he could for his clients. If an idea came to him at 2am, he would ring me to suggest further enquiries that might be made. I welcomed Stephen’s dedication to his work. You never left a case where Stephen was acting feeling that more could have been done. No stone was ever left unturned.
Stephen was born to be a barrister. He was fearless. He combined his intelligence and good judgment with just the right amount of flamboyance.
Stephen soon became a personal friend. We regularly played squash together at the Junior Carlton or the Oxford and Cambridge Clubs. Stephen was a left hander with a very deft touch. After a game of squash, we invariably went for a meal. One of our favourite haunts was Bertorelli’s on Charlotte Street with its 1930’s menu tucked inside the present day menu.
Our families met socially. We had two wonderful family holidays together, sharing a villa on the Algarve in 1982 and then 1984. Our two sons are both older than Ophelia, Stephen’s younger daughter, and younger than Lara. Stephen displayed his talents as a chef on these holidays. He cooked crab, lobster and other shellfish in a herb seasoned broth. The kitchen looked as though a bomb had exploded in it, but the food was delicious.
I met Stephen’s parents, Lou and Celia. They did not make a big thing of it, but it was obvious that they were proud of what Stephen had achieved in his successful career as a barrister.
The last case Stephen and did together was in 1996 as I was ending my time with Winstanley-Burgess, about to become a Circuit Judge. I appointed myself as Stephen’s Junior in a lengthy case at the Old Bailey. I had never before worked with Stephen in this way. The lengthy period in court with Stephen was a valuable learning experience.
A couple of years later, Stephen and I went to his delightful house near Playa de Pals on the Costa Brava. As ever, Stephen was working hard but for me it was a holiday. We shared some memorable meals.
Stephen and I both loved cricket and were members of MCC. A day at Lords with Stephen was a real pleasure. On one occasion Theodore, Stephen’s son, joined us. I was looking forward to spending more time at Lords with Stephen when he retired.
Jo, my wife, and I regularly met up with Stephen and Melissa for a meal and then to watch a play at the Richmond Theatre or at the Orange Tree Theatre.
Stephen was a force of nature. Jo and I are going to miss his company very much.
Robert Winstanley
In 1974 Stephen was living in an upper floor flat in an Edwardian mansion block on Bedford Square, close by Tottenham Court Road tube station. Later on, Stephen’s elder daughter, Lara, was born while he was living at this address.
On the ground floor in one flat lived Andrew Whitley and David Burgess and in another Jeremy Connor and Peter Lantos.
Jeremy was at the bar, then a Stipe at Bow Street and then a Circuit Judge. Jeremy and Stephen remained lifelong friends.
Andrew, David and I were was all friends from our time as undergraduates at St Catharine’s College Cambridge.
I soon met Stephen as I visited Andrew and David at their flat. Right away Stephen impressed as an irrepressible force who made his mark wherever he went.
David and I were both Solicitors. In September 1975 we co-founded in Islington, Winstanley-Burgess, a firm of Solicitors. We soon developed a practice in criminal law.
I instructed Stephen in a criminal case and so began our long and successful professional relationship. As Stephen increased in seniority at the bar and took silk, so the cases he undertook for Winstanley-Burgess increased in seriousness. Stephen always wanted to do the very best he could for his clients. If an idea came to him at 2am, he would ring me to suggest further enquiries that might be made. I welcomed Stephen’s dedication to his work. You never left a case where Stephen was acting feeling that more could have been done. No stone was ever left unturned.
Stephen was born to be a barrister. He was fearless. He combined his intelligence and good judgment with just the right amount of flamboyance.
Stephen soon became a personal friend. We regularly played squash together at the Junior Carlton or the Oxford and Cambridge Clubs. Stephen was a left hander with a very deft touch. After a game of squash, we invariably went for a meal. One of our favourite haunts was Bertorelli’s on Charlotte Street with its 1930’s menu tucked inside the present day menu.
Our families met socially. We had two wonderful family holidays together, sharing a villa on the Algarve in 1982 and then 1984. Our two sons are both older than Ophelia, Stephen’s younger daughter, and younger than Lara. Stephen displayed his talents as a chef on these holidays. He cooked crab, lobster and other shellfish in a herb seasoned broth. The kitchen looked as though a bomb had exploded in it, but the food was delicious.
I met Stephen’s parents, Lou and Celia. They did not make a big thing of it, but it was obvious that they were proud of what Stephen had achieved in his successful career as a barrister.
The last case Stephen and did together was in 1996 as I was ending my time with Winstanley-Burgess, about to become a Circuit Judge. I appointed myself as Stephen’s Junior in a lengthy case at the Old Bailey. I had never before worked with Stephen in this way. The lengthy period in court with Stephen was a valuable learning experience.
A couple of years later, Stephen and I went to his delightful house near Playa de Pals on the Costa Brava. As ever, Stephen was working hard but for me it was a holiday. We shared some memorable meals.
Stephen and I both loved cricket and were members of MCC. A day at Lords with Stephen was a real pleasure. On one occasion Theodore, Stephen’s son, joined us. I was looking forward to spending more time at Lords with Stephen when he retired.
Jo, my wife, and I regularly met up with Stephen and Melissa for a meal and then to watch a play at the Richmond Theatre or at the Orange Tree Theatre.
Stephen was a force of nature. Jo and I are going to miss his company very much.
Robert Winstanley
November 12, 2025
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I first met Stephen when we were training to be mental health allies. I quickly noted his sharp wit, warmth and engaging character. It was no surprise that he could hold an audience's attention! We worked together on a number of mental health workshops across the country. Alongside his legal advocacy, he was a skilled advocate for peoples' wellbeing. I found him kind, infectiously positive, and immensely likeable. Unfortunately the pandemic cut short our opportunities to work more often together. I was very sad to hear of his passing, and will look back fondly on our time together. May I offer my condolences and best wishes to all his loved ones.
November 12, 2025
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Stephen was unfailingly kind and cheerful during the time i worked with him in the PDS and i was shocked to hear of his passing. He was such a good sport- one year i asked him to dress up as a Christmas elf and he did, with Melissa's help - and provided a photo to prove it! He was one of a kind and will be deeply missed by many. Condolences to his family at this sad time.
November 12, 2025
1
I first met Stephen in 2004 when I was a VHCC Case Manager, managing legal aid on some of his most significant cases. Stephen always brought good humour to every interaction.
Over the years, he loved to remind me of a particularly memorable appeal we went through—one I ultimately lost! He would bring it up periodically, first when he was at the private Bar and later through his work with the PDS. In time, we learnt to laugh about it, and holding my own against him in those early years of my career remains something I’m proud of. I know he would be pleased to hear that—Stephen was a keen mentor and a true character.
I am so sorry to hear of his loss and I would like to offer my deepest sympathies to his family.
Over the years, he loved to remind me of a particularly memorable appeal we went through—one I ultimately lost! He would bring it up periodically, first when he was at the private Bar and later through his work with the PDS. In time, we learnt to laugh about it, and holding my own against him in those early years of my career remains something I’m proud of. I know he would be pleased to hear that—Stephen was a keen mentor and a true character.
I am so sorry to hear of his loss and I would like to offer my deepest sympathies to his family.
November 12, 2025
2
I first encountered Stephen when he was in private practice and he had to negotiate the work he wished to undertake on a VHCC case with me. I knew if Stephen called or if I was meeting with him that I would need to ensure I had no follow on meetings as he loved to talk!
Negotiations on VHCC's did not always mean agreement, but even when we disagreed he was always courteous, charming, and engaging. He was passionate about what he did and wanted to ensure he did it well. He also understood my role and never gave the impression that having to liaise with the LAA was unwelcome or beneath him.
Our paths would cross again when he joined the LAA as an advocate in the PDS. He would like to reminisce about the VHCC's he had worked on with me. In his new role he retained his warmth, his passion for the work, and his enjoyment of a lengthy conversation.
It was with deep sadness I learned of his passing and I send my deepest condolences to all his family, friends, and close colleagues.
Negotiations on VHCC's did not always mean agreement, but even when we disagreed he was always courteous, charming, and engaging. He was passionate about what he did and wanted to ensure he did it well. He also understood my role and never gave the impression that having to liaise with the LAA was unwelcome or beneath him.
Our paths would cross again when he joined the LAA as an advocate in the PDS. He would like to reminisce about the VHCC's he had worked on with me. In his new role he retained his warmth, his passion for the work, and his enjoyment of a lengthy conversation.
It was with deep sadness I learned of his passing and I send my deepest condolences to all his family, friends, and close colleagues.
November 12, 2025
2
Stephen was warm, generous and able. His life and career are a reminder of what the Bar can be at its best. Around him the Seven Lamps of Advocacy always burned brightly, but especially in Lincoln’s Inn, the Lamp of Good Fellowship never dimmed.
November 11, 2025
1
Dear Stephen,
We are so very sad to hear of your passing... We first met when you appeared at our door, utterly exasperated over the lack of internet connection — and before we knew it, we were warmly welcomed into your and Melissa’s home, surrounded by neighbours, lovely drinks and snacks, and the most brilliant stories from your extraordinary life. Your warmth, quick wit, dry humour, and larger-than-life presence made an instant impression. We feel fortunate to have known you and to have been your neighbours, albeit briefly. We will miss seeing you cheerfully walking along with LouLou.
Our hearts go out to Melissa and your other close ones.
May the earth rest light as a feather upon you.🙏🏼
Vera & Greg
We are so very sad to hear of your passing... We first met when you appeared at our door, utterly exasperated over the lack of internet connection — and before we knew it, we were warmly welcomed into your and Melissa’s home, surrounded by neighbours, lovely drinks and snacks, and the most brilliant stories from your extraordinary life. Your warmth, quick wit, dry humour, and larger-than-life presence made an instant impression. We feel fortunate to have known you and to have been your neighbours, albeit briefly. We will miss seeing you cheerfully walking along with LouLou.
Our hearts go out to Melissa and your other close ones.
May the earth rest light as a feather upon you.🙏🏼
Vera & Greg
November 11, 2025
1
sad to hear of your passing.. I prosecuted and co-defended with you many times, and it was always a joy to discover that you were in the case.
November 11, 2025
1
Dear Stephen,
When you became my line manager you inherited a terrible mess in relation to my annual leave. You remedied this in a matter of days and equally promptly arranged for me to shadow HHJ Mensah. You told me she was 'a pal of mine' and I came to hear that turn of phrase a great many times over the following years. You always expressed the hope that I viewed you as a 'pal' too, not just my line manager, and I am honoured to say that I did.
I owe you a debt of gratitude because I have benefitted greatly from your vast legal experience and knowledge. When we worked together, though, you never adopted a position of superiority - you were were always quick to invite my views and adapt your own accordingly.
Our line management meetings always took longer than they should because you had a wealth of entertaining anecdotes to share. I cannot forget the tale of the escaping tortoise who was returned to you by a police officer! I enjoyed listening to you and I cannot quite understand how such a lively voice has now been stilled.
You never forgot to ask after the health of my partner Colin, our child and my parents. You dispensed practical, compassionate advice with the same enthusiasm as you dispensed legal advice. You will be very greatly missed by both Colin and I. God bless.
When you became my line manager you inherited a terrible mess in relation to my annual leave. You remedied this in a matter of days and equally promptly arranged for me to shadow HHJ Mensah. You told me she was 'a pal of mine' and I came to hear that turn of phrase a great many times over the following years. You always expressed the hope that I viewed you as a 'pal' too, not just my line manager, and I am honoured to say that I did.
I owe you a debt of gratitude because I have benefitted greatly from your vast legal experience and knowledge. When we worked together, though, you never adopted a position of superiority - you were were always quick to invite my views and adapt your own accordingly.
Our line management meetings always took longer than they should because you had a wealth of entertaining anecdotes to share. I cannot forget the tale of the escaping tortoise who was returned to you by a police officer! I enjoyed listening to you and I cannot quite understand how such a lively voice has now been stilled.
You never forgot to ask after the health of my partner Colin, our child and my parents. You dispensed practical, compassionate advice with the same enthusiasm as you dispensed legal advice. You will be very greatly missed by both Colin and I. God bless.
November 11, 2025
1
I am so very sorry to hear of Stephen's passing and my heart goes out to you Melissa, and all your family.
I was very blessed to work with Stephen and call him a dear friend. He always looked out for me and I loved our virtual chats in the kitchen, including with you Melissa. Stephen's work in the diversity and inclusion space was wonderful. He was and always will be a special person who touched the lives of many in such positive ways.
My fondest memory was when we went to his club. Stephen gave me a tour and I was amazed by the decor and history he shared. We sat with a pot of tea chatting whilst Stephen ate a crumpet. We went in the lift and he was concerned that I would get stuck and ran up the stairs and shouted down to me. Then he took me to meet some friends. The first thing they asked him was if I was his mother. He didn't hear that remark and afterwards was truly mortified. We both laughed so much and then he made sure that I got back onto the tube ok. Such a gentleman and I will miss him very much.
May the love of family and friends bring you comfort as you navigate the coming days and weeks. We cannot take away the pain of losing Stephen, but please know you have support, love and are not alone. Thinking of you and may Stephen rest in peace.
I was very blessed to work with Stephen and call him a dear friend. He always looked out for me and I loved our virtual chats in the kitchen, including with you Melissa. Stephen's work in the diversity and inclusion space was wonderful. He was and always will be a special person who touched the lives of many in such positive ways.
My fondest memory was when we went to his club. Stephen gave me a tour and I was amazed by the decor and history he shared. We sat with a pot of tea chatting whilst Stephen ate a crumpet. We went in the lift and he was concerned that I would get stuck and ran up the stairs and shouted down to me. Then he took me to meet some friends. The first thing they asked him was if I was his mother. He didn't hear that remark and afterwards was truly mortified. We both laughed so much and then he made sure that I got back onto the tube ok. Such a gentleman and I will miss him very much.
May the love of family and friends bring you comfort as you navigate the coming days and weeks. We cannot take away the pain of losing Stephen, but please know you have support, love and are not alone. Thinking of you and may Stephen rest in peace.
November 11, 2025
Dear Stephen,
I knew of your reputation well before I joined the Public Defender Service, where you were my line manager. I admit that at times you could drive me to distraction but only because you always wanted precision in every element of what you did. You also made me laugh and smile with your various stories from the bar and life experience. You were kind and generous in equal measure (I do not think you had a mean bone in your body).
Your passing is a tragic loss to us all.
Sean
I knew of your reputation well before I joined the Public Defender Service, where you were my line manager. I admit that at times you could drive me to distraction but only because you always wanted precision in every element of what you did. You also made me laugh and smile with your various stories from the bar and life experience. You were kind and generous in equal measure (I do not think you had a mean bone in your body).
Your passing is a tragic loss to us all.
Sean
November 11, 2025
1
Stephen was invariably kind to me and I had the benefit of his wise counsel often. He was a person who cared. That is, to my mind at least, a very rare and special quality. I will miss him very much.
November 11, 2025
1
We were so sorry to hear of your tragic loss, Melissa. We remember Stephen’s cheerful personality at so many Inn functions over the years; and in particular his jocular welcoming of us when we were newcomers to Bench functions and to Advocacy training. I will especially miss his robust challenges to me upon greeting ! David and Carolyn Morris.
November 11, 2025
2
Beloved Stephen,
Ever learning, ever seeking, a young spirit always desiring to expand I to mystery of life, and a servant to those in need. Beloved Melissa, I carry you in my thoughts and prayers as you struggle to adapt. May the peace of Christ who suffered be with you, and the consolation of His Mother who beheld Him suffer be with you.
Ever learning, ever seeking, a young spirit always desiring to expand I to mystery of life, and a servant to those in need. Beloved Melissa, I carry you in my thoughts and prayers as you struggle to adapt. May the peace of Christ who suffered be with you, and the consolation of His Mother who beheld Him suffer be with you.
November 11, 2025
1
One of the great disappointments of my career as a Chancery and commercial practitioner, and then judge, is that I never appeared against Stephen, nor did he ever appear before me. By reputation, he was a formidable advocate, who would leave no stone unturned when defending his client.Stephen was the kindest, and most generous man, who had time for everyone. He was a loyal friend and great company. Jane and I will miss him greatly.
We offer our profound sympathies to Melissa and all of Stephen's family. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.
David Hodge
We offer our profound sympathies to Melissa and all of Stephen's family. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.
David Hodge
November 10, 2025
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Stephen definitely a one off, you could be very tiresome if opposing counsel, but your heart was in the right place and that is all that really matters. Devoted to Melisa, the Bar, your colleagues as well as to Lincoln's Inn what more could could anyone ask.
You will be missed -Nick
You will be missed -Nick
November 10, 2025
2
At times Stephen could be argumentative and provocative (as most barristers) but he always brought good sense and humour to his conversations. He had the perfect combination of being tough, yet sensitive. Above all he was caring considerate and generous. We will much miss this gentleman.
Michael & Pamela Powers
Michael & Pamela Powers
November 10, 2025
3
We are so very sad to hear of your passing, dear Stephen.
Stephen, you were a rare gem. A friend with a great sense of fun & mischief, witty and full of stories. A consummate raconteur and ever generous. You will be sadly missed.
Thoughts and prayers are with Melissa and the family at this difficult time.
Maxina, Stefan & Francesca
Stephen, you were a rare gem. A friend with a great sense of fun & mischief, witty and full of stories. A consummate raconteur and ever generous. You will be sadly missed.
Thoughts and prayers are with Melissa and the family at this difficult time.
Maxina, Stefan & Francesca
November 10, 2025
4
Veena and I were shocked to hear the news of your passing especially after receiving a photo of you and Melissa enjoying the horse racing in Mauritius that we organised. We are still in shock and cannot believe that we will not meet again.
Wherever you are, enjoy your favourite sports- cricket, Horse racing and every time we will watch these events, we will think of you always.
Thank you so much for having been a very good friend .
You will be missed terribly.
Best
Wherever you are, enjoy your favourite sports- cricket, Horse racing and every time we will watch these events, we will think of you always.
Thank you so much for having been a very good friend .
You will be missed terribly.
Best
November 10, 2025
3
I am so sad and sorry to hear of your passing. You were and always will be an incredible presence, someone who commanded the attention of the room through sheer force of personality and quick wit.
I will fondly remember sparring sessions around the table at Kew, hearing incredible stories from your work and life (a movie must be made!), and watching you wander across the green with Melissa and Lou Lou. You are very loved and very much missed.
All my love, Zoe and Max
I will fondly remember sparring sessions around the table at Kew, hearing incredible stories from your work and life (a movie must be made!), and watching you wander across the green with Melissa and Lou Lou. You are very loved and very much missed.
All my love, Zoe and Max
November 10, 2025
3
We are so sorry to hear of your passing. You have been a wonderful neighbour to us, truly kind, considerate and extremely generous.
We will miss you terribly.
The Glover Family.
We will miss you terribly.
The Glover Family.
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