Sophia, Lisa & Tod Lonergan

What a beautiful tribute to such a beautiful family. To have the privilege of knowing even just one Lonergan, is enough to fill you with more joy and love than most experience in a lifetime. Holding your entire family close to my heart. Britty

Oh the pain that comes with saying goodbye when not being able to ever actually do so. Tod was like a brother to me for so much of my younger years. He was protective, fun, loving and fiercely intelligent. Like a fountain of information, you could talk to Tod about anything and if he wasn’t well versed he would dig until he was. My favorite thing about Tod was how easy it was to make him laugh. He almost always had a smile on is face, often times watching with curiosity and no judgement at the shenanigans Kris and I were involved in. He was deeply kind to us all of the time. But for all of the wonderful joy Tod brought to our childhoods it’s nothing compared to the love and devotion he felt for his beloved family in Lisa and his treasured daughter. Lisa also adored Tod and as tragic as their ending was these two knew deep love because of one another. I’m holding all who loved these three very close.

Its been about 6 months. I still come back here all the time. I miss Sophia and her mother so much. I never really got to know her dad but the few times I met him he was so kind to me. I remember him saying to my mom "She is welcome here any time". And that plays in my head constantly. I miss our face times and her texting me while I was in class, both of us sneaking on our phones and always sitting in our spanish teachers room. I still cant believe shes gone, I go to text her and update her all the time but it is always so hard when I remember she is gone. I love you Sophia,you will always be in my heart and I will hold a spot for you at every event. My wedding, graduation, everything. I miss you so much baby, I pray for you every night. Cant wait to see you again some day. - Adelle Norton

I leave here this message for Sophia and all of my respect for the people that brought the one I loved the most in my whole life to the world, it was an absolute tragedy. I will always remember how we starred talking. She immediately clicked with me and was kind and gentle when I took the initiative and that was the best risk of my life. I met someone that treated me so well I couldn't believe I was so blessed to receive this. Then after this initial moment of souls being reunited again, I found my eternal love and my eternal peace. We had endless deep conversations full of empathy, dreams, kindness, sweetness, affection and truth and memories and feelings I will never forget. I hope she can be the one I remember and love for the rest of my life. I hope I can realize of all the dreams her heart confided in me and I hope that she is forever remembered for being the most brave, joyful, sweet, fair person in the whole world; a brilliant angel that had a future ahead of herself and that had only good intentions for everyone, I wish I could have protected the love of my life from all of this pain. I hope everyone knows that Sophia was and always will be like God is to so many people; an angel so pure and so sacred that it hurts to even say her name without praying for her mercy and for her light. I am gonna be brave enough to say that she was not only a sister to me but the person that I was in love with as much as this feels like a betrayal to say. I was more than in love with her; I wanted to build a life for her, centered on her and I wanted to get married to her even if this could cost my life and even if she married me but was my living companion and liked her sweet boys that she wanted to give love with so much intention. I hope she is remembered for all of her words and feelings she expressed and for her eternal heart that is forever the heart that conquered my soul. I love you more than life, my twin flame.

Thank you for sharing, this is how I remember all of them. I met them when I was in Rico teaching at Rico school. I would babysit for Sophia and her friend Paige sometimes. Tod was a mentor for me in my spiritual journey. Lisa was a friend. They are missed dearly. These pictures made me smile - we will all hold them in our hearts.

Just wanted to say what a beautiful tribute this is to the memory of Tod, Lisa and Sophia! Knowing Tod, his incredible smile, sense of humor and energy, it’s hard not to just…..smile. I’m praying both families will have peace and calm remembering the love and fun-as time passes, life will bring small and big moments for everyone to reflect, share and laugh at amazing memories. Stay strong, be open to sadness, healing and most of all love that will forever bond. Xoxoxo. Becky

Sending lots of love to you all!! I remember the Lonergan home on Winter Street always being filled with laughter, joy and fun (and lots and lots of kids)! What a beautiful tribute and a beautiful family!

My heart is absolutely broken for Jane, Kristin and Mike and their families. I can’t imagine the pain of losing so much all at once.

Though I didn’t know them personally, I know how deeply they were loved—and how much they meant to you.

You are in my thoughts and prayers during this unimaginable time. Sending all my love and strength. 💕

I’ve known the Lonergan family almost my entire life and have so many memories of visiting Weston - memories filled with laughter, fun, joy, energy and of course the pool. Todd is part of many of those memories, and in more recent years, loved hearing about his life and adventures with Lisa and Sophia.

Sending so much love and strength. May their memory be a blessing.

Thinking of you Jane, Skippy, extended family and friends & sending so much love your way. This is such a beautiful tribute. A love this deep can never fade in memory and may it only grow stronger in your hearts. All my love - xoxo - Stacey

Such beautiful writings. I am sorry I can't be with you on that day,
Memories of all the times our families spent together will always be in my heart! I wil cherish the good times we had. Will never forget.

Holding you in our hearts.
With love and deepest sympathy,
The Bowman Masseys

My childhood is made up of memories of Winter Street
Sitting on the kitchen counter, Jane making us the best sandwiches under the grill...and the best days would be when Tod and his friends would entertain us over snacks or hours in the pool.

His warm. kind smile and and the way he was always effortlessly kind when bumping into is younger sisters friends in the halls of WHS will be a lasting memory for me.

The love your family has shared, so abundantly, is a rare gift and you are all ever present in my thoughts.

I loved hearing about Tod, Lisa & Sophia through Kristin...always so many adventures, laughs, and such love. Perfectly described in this beautiful tribute. Sending strength, love, and big hugs to Jane and all who are dealing with this extraordinary loss. Love you Lonergans and Oseychiks xo

The Lonergan family is truly amazing. They are the most incredibly kind, joyful and loyal people. I have admired the strong bond that this family has for decades, held together by Thomas and Jane's love and Jane's shared passion for children, the outdoors, exercise and sunshine. I did not know Tod well but I admired him as Kristin's fun and devoted older brother and it is unimaginably sad to live in a world without him and his beautiful family. Thinking of all of you and sending so much love. - Liana

Hearing stories of our loved ones does help. Hope this site gets filled with beautiful, funny and fond memories.

I remember being at the pool and Jane being so happy and excited for Tod, Lisa and especially Sophia’s visit.

Condolences to you all.

My memories of my cousin Tod were primarily from childhood and my teenage years. What stood out was his immense kindness. It is easy to remember him smiling and laughing. It felt like he was really listening and cared, like he was watching out for me. I was endlessly impressed with him: how smart and talented he was....how he effortlessly pick up Japanese, his dives into the pool and his amazing butterfly stroke! ...He loved his entire family and we love him back. ❤️

Back to my earliest memories, the Keatings and Lonergans were inseparable from Tot Time to Morses Pond. I recall endless sleepovers and still have the cape I wore playing superheros with Tod in my office.

Our family is wishing peace and sending love to all navigating this extraordinary sorrow. Please know we are holding the three of them, and all loved ones, in our hearts.

So many memories on Winter Street with the Lonergan family!! We were always welcomed with open arms:-)). …even though we ate all the coffee cakes, and drank all the clearly canadians and capri-suns!!

Thinking of you all daily - may God give both families the strength needed to forge ahead and honor their memory.

With much love-
Robyn

We are with you in hope, faith and promise for keeping the spirits of Sophia Lisa and Tod with us!!! Love you Skip, Jane and family. Xoxo Court 💫💫💫🙏🏻

Sofia was coming to sleep over at my house and when she got over I met her mom. She was so sweet to me, telling me she loved my green hair and my energy. She left, and Sofia and I were up the whole night laughing and making funny videos. That was probably one of the best days of my life 🖤

In this moment of loss, may love surround your family and memories bring comfort to you all. Wishing you strength and peace. Holding you in my heart.

Sending lots of love to all the Lonergans and Oseychiks. This is unimaginably hard. Big hugs for everyone, especially Jane. ❤️

Sending love and prayers to your whole family during this incredibly difficult time.

Please know that you are all family to us. We grew up along side of your family and have many happy memories with you all. We are here for your biggest or smallest need, so please don’t hesitate to reach out. Sending hugs and so much love to you all.
Paul Caruso❤️

Thinking of you guys. Miss you Jane :) ❤️
Love you...Amy Noble

What beautiful tributes to Sophia, Tod and Lisa. Sending SO much love to all of the Lonergans and a special hug to Jane. 💕

This is a beautiful tribute to Tod, Lisa and Sophia! I never had the opportunity to meet the girls but have fond memories of Tod’s big smile and bright eyes lighting up the room when he walked in! He was such a fun soul, and am thankful I knew him from high school and after! From this tribute, stories from Kristen, I can tell how amazing the girls were as well! I’ve been keeping everyone in my prayers the past month, and will continue to as life carries along. Sending much love to both families, and please let Jane know I’m around in Weston if she ever wants a visit. Xoxo. Rest peacefully my friend….

Your family is filled always with smiles and love! That is how I know all of the Lonergans! Jane, Kristin (Skippy), Scott & Mike & families, please know my family has all of you in our thoughts and prayers. May their memories be a blessing to you all. Lots of love, Karen, Cathy, & our family

My memories of Todd go way back to the family reunion your mom hosted. We were playing Volleyball and I popped my knee out’. Your mom popped it back in and i continued to play and popped it out again! it was so painful and we were sleeping over your mom‘s and Todd was so sweet nice and considerate that night waiting on me and just being such a sweetheart. Michael was there too and he was awesome as well.

Second memory is how much your dad loved him. He would talk about him constantly and what he was doing, where he was living, etc. On one of his “episodes” he went out to visit Todd and Michael I think and he was so excited and then I guess ended up staying for a while and they were so good to him.


You have a wonderful family that is very loving, caring and considerate of others. Todd had wonderful role models and displayed that throughout his lifetime. I never got to meet his wife or daughter, but I’m glad they are all together now in peace and harmony.

Love you all. May God give you the strength to endure this loss and continue to honor his memory through good works and kindness.i I love you all so much.

Sending tons of love to everyone intertwined with this beautiful family…..

Jane/ Kristin/ Mike- we love you guys and are thinking of you all everyday….

This is a beautiful tribute. So many memories on Winter street.
Tod had a smile that could light a room.
Sophie, Lisa & Tod live on in our hearts and memories.
Jane, Kristin, Mike, Lisa’s family and Sophie’s friends- thinking of you all and sending love your way.