Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afubera KSM

Daddy, where do I even begin? It is really hard to accept that it had to end this way, but as Christians, we comfort ourselves with the knowledge that we do not mourn like those without hope. We hold fast to the promise of the resurrection.
​I am profoundly grateful for every moment I was privileged to share with you. You were deeply loved, and you expressed love in your own unique way. My "no-nonsense" Daddy, the brilliant English "Prof". Your sharp mind and disciplined nature shaped us into who we are today.
​I find solace in knowing that God’s timing is perfect. If your time had not truly come, God would not have permitted it, for you had already courageously triumphed over death several times before. I am so grateful to God that you lived to see your grandchildren; that was once a fervent prayer of mine during my years of waiting, and God answered beautifully.
​Thank you for the morals, values, and ironclad discipline you instilled in us. You left a void that can never be filled, and you will be sorely missed. Continue to watch over us from above as you rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord.

​Your Ada Ukwu,
Miriam Nneka Ejidike

In loving memory of Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afuberah

Today, with a heavy heart but deep gratitude to God for a life well spent, I pay tribute to a truly remarkable man, a father, mentor, friend, and devoted servant of God — Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afuberah KSM.

Daddy was a boisterous, cheerful, and exceptionally warm man whose presence could light up every gathering. He carried himself with dignity and strength, yet with a simplicity and kindness that drew people close to him. His laughter, words of encouragement, and sincere concern for others made him unforgettable.

He was deeply devoted to his family, whom he loved passionately and protected with unwavering commitment. Beyond his family, Daddy was also a steadfast pillar in the Church, serving God faithfully and contributing immensely to the growth of the Christian community. His dedication, humility, and commitment to the things of God remain worthy of emulation.

Personally, Daddy stood solidly by me during some of the most trying moments of my life. His support, encouragement, and fatherly counsel gave me strength when I needed it most. He believed in me, prayed for me, and constantly reassured me with his kind words and confidence.

One memory that will remain forever etched in my heart was my last moment with him — sitting quietly beside his bed in his bedroom. Though words were few, the bond, affection, and emotions shared in that sacred moment can never be forgotten.

And how can I ever forget the unique and proud way he would call me, “My DG!” Every time he said those words, it was with such joy, pride, and affection that made me feel truly valued and loved.

Daddy, your departure leaves a painful vacuum, but we are comforted knowing that you fought a good fight, kept the faith, and now rest in the bosom of the Lord.

May the Angels of God guide you safely to eternal rest, and may your beloved wife and the wonderful family you left behind find solace in the comforting truth that you are now in a better place where pain and sorrow exist no more.

Rest in Peace Daddy.
Rest in Peace Great Man!

Ogbuenyi Nnamdi Clement Onyekwe

Ah, Uncle! "Uncle Afubera!" Oh my God, I'm speechless. Still trying to recover from the shock! May God comfort "Antie Afubera" and all the loved ones you left behind. Rest in peace, uncle. It is well!

Uncle Afubera was my teacher at St. Augustins college, Ibusa when my mom was the Vice principal 78 to 80.
He always had this aura of discipline and lovable authority in his presence. A thorough gentle man with a unique swag.
'Our no nonsense Uncle'
He never stopped reaching out to those dear to his heart 💜
His resting place is in the bosom of our Lord and the great memories he has left behind will not diminish easily.
Auntie Ndidi, God chose you for him and has prepared you for now...lines shall fall unto you in pleasant places and the joy of the Lord shall be your strength as you bear the inevitable loss.
Uncle, I hail You...'nough Respect Sir ! 😔

To a remarkable man who was so much more than a father-in-law. From the moment our two families joined, you welcomed me with open arms and a warm heart. Thank you for raising an incredible daughter, the love of my life, for your quiet wisdom, and for the laughter you brought into our home. You showed us what it means to lead a family with kindness and strength. Your legacy lives on in the beautiful family you built, and we will miss you every single day.
You may be gone from our sight, but you will never be gone from our hearts. Rest in peace Daddy.

We miss you, Daddy. But we are strong, because that is what you would have wanted. Loving you was easy, because you loved with all you had. Thank you for your teachings.
Obiageli misses grandpa in Asaba.....

I am still searching for the right words to say goodbye......