Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afubera KSM

In Loving Memory of our loved Uncle

Uncle came into Dads family through marriage, but he became family too in every way that mattered. He had a gentle spirit and a friendly heart —

Our engaging Uncle with a strong character that announced him at every gathering.

Your boldness was second to none. We miss you.


He taught us that family isn’t just about blood, but about how you treat people.

He made conversations easier, and every room feel more like home.

We miss him dearly, but we’re grateful. Grateful for his life, his laughter, and the love he gave so freely.


“Uncle Good afternoon, good morning, good evening”, that’s how we would greet you, and you’d always reply, “Nke Obuna.”

We are still in shock. When we saw you in March 2026, you were waxing stronger and full of life. God knows best.

You left a void we feel deeply. We’re praying for strength to bear this loss.

We miss you, Uncle. Rest in peace.

Rest in peace, Uncle.

Your kindness will always be remembered.

Sir Ikemefuna-Amaechi Family

**TRIBUTE TO A DEAR FRIEND AND CO- BROTHER-IN-LAW**

It is difficult to come to terms with the passing of my dear co - brother-in-law Sir Emma Oseloka Afubera KSM.
Your departure has left a deep sense of loss in our family, and words can hardly express the sadness we feel.

You were more than a co-brother-in-law; you were a friend, a dependable family man, a gentleman to the core, and a source of peace and encouragement to many. Your humility, kindness, and respect for others earned you the love and admiration of all who knew you.

I thank God for the privilege of knowing and sharing family bonds with you. Though you have left this earthly home, the memories of your good deeds, warm smile, and gentle disposition will remain with us forever.

As we bid you farewell, we take solace in the belief that you have gone to rest in the bosom of the Lord.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Amen

Fare thee well, dear bosom friend. We will miss you greatly, but your memory will forever remain in our hearts.
May God grant your lovely Wife, Children & Grand Children the fortitude to bear this loss.

TRIBUTE TO A MAN OF PEACE AND INTERGRITY

Sir Emmanuel Osekola Afubera was a kind and sincere man with a loving spirit. It was always a great pleasure to interact with him as he exudes warmth and always ready to proffer pragmatic solutions to issues with compassion and grace. One thing that immediately becomes evident in my interactions with him is that he was a man of peace and great wisdom.

I was very much endeared to him as he had very fond memories of my late father, Akunne John Tiger Oranefo Agusiobo, which he used to share with me as he fondly calls me by the name he was revered by his peers, Agusiobo Ringim! Agusiobo Mazi!!

On personal level, I always saw him as a fair-minded person that values truth and integrity.

He will surely be missed by all who have had the privilege and opportunity to relate with him. May His Gentle Soul Rest in Perfect Peace, Amen.

*TRIBUTE TO SIR EMMANUEL OSELOKA AFUBERA, (KSM)*

It is with profound gratitude to God and deep appreciation for a life well lived that we pay tribute to Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afubera, a distinguished educator, an exemplary leader, a committed Christian, and a man whose legacy of service continues to inspire all who knew him.

Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afubera was a teacher par excellence, a man who dedicated his life to the noble vocation of education. He saw teaching not merely as a profession but as a sacred mission of shaping minds, building character, and preparing young people for meaningful lives. Through his knowledge, wisdom, patience, and commitment, he imparted not only academic excellence but also moral values that have remained with his students throughout their lives.
Many who passed through his tutelage remember him as a disciplined and highly principled teacher. He was positively strict, firm in his convictions, and uncompromising when it came to matters of hard work, honesty, and integrity. His discipline was never intended to intimidate but rather to guide and mould. He understood that excellence could only be achieved through dedication, perseverance, and self-control. Though his standards were high, they were always motivated by genuine concern for the welfare and future success of those entrusted to his care.

As a leader, Mr. Afubera distinguished himself through his exemplary conduct, wisdom, and sense of responsibility. He possessed the rare ability to inspire confidence and motivate others through both words and actions. He led by example, demonstrating integrity, fairness, humility, and unwavering commitment to duty. His leadership left a lasting impression on his colleagues, students, associates, and all who encountered him.

His life was also marked by a deep commitment to God and the service of the Church. As a devoted member of Pro Labore Dei, he actively participated in the spiritual and apostolic mission of the Church. He embraced the values of faith, sacrifice, service, and dedication, becoming a worthy example of Christian commitment. His participation in Pro Labore Dei reflected his desire to work tirelessly for the glory of God and the spiritual growth of God's people.

Furthermore, as a member of the Knights of St. Mulumba, Sir. Afubera distinguished himself through active participation, dedication, and unwavering commitment to the ideals of the Order. He exemplified the virtues of charity, unity, fraternity, and service. He was ever willing to contribute his time, talents, and resources toward the advancement of the Church and the welfare of humanity. His active involvement earned him the admiration and respect of fellow Knights and all who worked alongside him.

Sir. Afubera's life was characterized by honesty, discipline, service, and devotion to duty. He believed in doing what was right, even when it was difficult. He taught by example that true greatness is found not in titles or material possessions but in the positive impact one makes in the lives of others. His words of wisdom, his commitment to excellence, and his dedication to service continue to resonate in the hearts of many.

Today, as we reflect on his life, we remember a man who touched countless lives through education, leadership, faith, and service. We remember a teacher who formed generations of students, a disciplinarian who instilled values, a leader who inspired others, a devoted member of Pro Labore Dei, and a committed Knight of St. Mulumba who faithfully served God and humanity.
Though death has taken him from our sight, it cannot erase the legacy he leaves behind. His life remains a testament to the power of dedication, integrity, faith, and selfless service. The seeds he planted in the hearts and minds of many will continue to bear fruit for generations to come.

May we honour his memory by embracing the values he cherished, following the example he set, and continuing the good work to which he devoted his life.
May Almighty God, whom he faithfully served, grant him eternal rest and reward him abundantly for his labour in His vineyard.

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

Tribute to the Late Mr. Afubera

The late Mr. Afubera will be remembered as a man of deep faith, integrity, and compassion. His life was a reflection of Christian values, expressed through his love for God, his service to others, and his special concern for the poor and vulnerable. His kindness, humility, honesty, and generosity touched many lives and earned him the respect and admiration of all who knew him.

I feel especially blessed to have shared a close and meaningful friendship with him. Such was the depth of our bond that I affectionately called him "Daddy," in recognition of the fatherly love, wisdom, guidance, and care he so generously gave.

Though we mourn his passing, we take comfort in the hope of the Resurrection and trust that the Lord whom he faithfully served has welcomed him into eternal rest. His example of faith and service will continue to inspire all who were privileged to know him.

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. Amen.

Br. John Black, MLM

DEE,

My beloved husband, death is a final pathway for all mortals. You ran the race, you put up a good fight till the end. You held your trust and faith in the Lord as shown by the manner you exited. You will be missed but will be fondly remembered by what you have done.
Those we love never truly leave us. Dee, I feel you walking beside me every single day unseen and unheard, yet profoundly present. You are still so deeply loved, desperately missed, and forever held close in my heart. Heaven may have called you home because God loved you more, and to me you're never truly gone.
I truly wish we had been granted more time together, Dee. You have been a beautiful part of my life since I was only twenty. True love creates a bond that nothing can ever break. Though you are no longer in my arms, Dee, you will forever hold a place in my heart.
Words fail to capture just how much you have meant to me in over five decades of knowing you.

May God continue to grant you eternal rest. My hero, continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord.

Your loving wife

A TRIBUTE TO MY GRAMMARIAN.
It is with great shock I received the message of your demise I feel so much pain. Keep resting in the Bosom of the LORD I pray that the good LORD continues to comfort and protect those you left behind, give them the fortitude to bear the loss. My family we miss your advice and your lovely smile.
Mrs Gheghor Deborah.
PRO LABORE DEI.

Tribute To Audrey’s Grandpa.

We will live with the grief of your passing as a memory of how kind, joyful and prayerful you were. God grant you eternal rest, and May God’s perpetual Light continue to shine on your path. We will miss you and continue to pray that you are in a better place.

Tribute to my dear Daddy Mr Afubera
Your death was a shocking experience. As a peaceful man your passing was peaceful and unexpected. No one can question God's will. I only pray that Our Lord will receive him into His Kingdom 🙏

TRIBUTE TO A FAMILY FRIEND AND A BROTHER KNIGHT.
It was a sad news when I and my family heard the demise of a family friend and brother knight
Sir Emmanuel Oselukwa Afubera who passed to the Lord on 8th of May 2026.
We started the knighthood at Assba sub council, when we found him to be jovial, friendly and accommodating.
He gave me a nickname "tomato jos” because of my complexion.
Sir Afubera was a family friend, confident and honest whom you can approach him for help and he renders it without hesitation.
He related and admired my late brother Sir (Prof.) Okonmah because of his courage, outspokenness and intellectual capacity in the public. He had always commended him on his eloquency in English language as an educator.
We will miss him but we cannot question God’s desire who brought him to the world to serve humanity. However when it was time, he called him to be in his right hand in heaven.
We pray that his perfect soul will continue to rest in peace Amen.

Sister A. Okonmah
Adieu Bro. Afubera

Tribute to Daddy Afubera (PLD Asaba Branch Member & Coordinator)

Today, we mourn the loss of a man of God with integrity who devoted himself to serve the lord in the poor of the poorest.
Daddy your death came to me as a big shock. You are a kind-hearted man whose presence brought warmth, peace, and encouragement to many. Your faith, humility, and love for God and people will always be remembered. Though he is no longer with us, the impact of his life and the memories he shared will remain in our hearts forever. May his soul rest peacefully in the arms of the Lord.
Daddy you have run your race and finished go and receive your crown in the bosom of the lord,whom you served faithfully
RIP
From Mrs A.C Mbachu

Tribute to My dear friend and Noble In-Law


The demise of Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afubera, presently, is excruciating and I lack the words to describe the pain I feel in my heart. Indeed, the Bible rightly stated in Isaiah 55 vs 8 and 9 that God's thoughts are not our own thoughts, neither His ways our own way: As the heavens are above the Earth, so are God's thoughts and ways are above our thinking and way of life. Hence, the journey to eternity by all mortals is beyond the comprehension of human being and death is the peak of life everybody must attain.
We became friends at the age of 12 years at American Quarters situated in Onitsha North Local Government Area of Anambra State. As we grew up, I knew he was intelligent and quite knowledgeable in various subjects. But after the civil war, Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afubera had developed himself to a level of what everyone in the classroom at Metropolitan College Onitsha where we were admitted for the West African School Certificate Examination in 1972, called him an “Englishman Personified”. He excelled in all subjects preparatory for the examination in 1972. He became an inspiration to me and everyone that had direct contact with him.
On career prospects, he emphasized being a Medical Doctor and was admitted at the University of Port Harcourt as a pre-med student while I chose to be a Lawyer or Nigerian Career Diplomat (Foreign Service). While I was in the United States of America as a student, he expressed his desire to marry my younger Sister. Of course, I gave him my profound approval!!!
Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afubera was a man with a golden heart, kind, and compassionate with virtues of patience, endurance, longsuffering and spirit of forebearing one another in all ramifications. Above all, his personality was second to none.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace, Amen. Adieu my dear friend and brother In-Law.

Ambassador Ifeanyichukwu Davidson Ikemefuna.

Tribute to my precious Emma.

My dearest Emma may the good Lord accept your soul in heaven. You really lived a good life and touched so many lives, you've moved on to a better place, but the good memory will ever remain.
Your cousin
Chinwe Umerah

Although my family and I have known Daddy for a short time, his uncanny understanding of people, issues, kindness, friendliness and readiness to help those in need showed him as an exemplary character.
A very intelligent man.
No doubt, we will miss him like everyone and whoever came in contact with him.
Good night to a wonderful inlaw and my dear friend...
Your Ogo....

TRIBUTE TO GOD'S GENERAL

The scripture says in the book of ecclesiastes 3:12, To every thing there is a season, a time to be born and a time to die...
Uncle in fact words alone cannot explain the type of shock I had when Nneka broke the ugly news of your demise.
You were never boring to be with, you always has a story to tell
Uncle death has created a void, you are my mentor who will mentor me now, I always run to you for advice, who will advice and encourage me
Truly, uncle was a man of peace. He never quarreled unnecessarily and always sought peace.
My uncle has gone to rest in the blossom of the Lord, the God he loved and served faithfully.

TRIBUTE To My Great Daddy.
Daddy up till Today,I can't still Believe you are No More.
Returning Back from Home to be with my Daddy &Gist with him as usually.

But was surprised your room was Empty and lonely.

My super Daddy.i have stop showering Tears because I believe you are in Heaven with the saints.you taught me how to be Dispcline, and to be prayful in all my Endeavour.i am Glad,I spent quantity time with you before your creator call you.

Farewell well my super Daddy.
Till we meet Again.


Your Ada ADA.

I miss you Dearly Daddy

[TRIBUTE TO GRANDPA

It is with deepest pain and tears that I write this tribute for my dear, sweet, lovely grandpa who loved and nurtured me . I find myself reflecting on the beautiful moments shared with you. Your kindness, laughter,and unyielding support made a lasting impact on everyone around you. Your ability to uplift those around you including me, was a true gift, and your warmth will be profoundly missed. The stories and words of wisdom will forever remain in our hearts.
With a gentle smile and kind words, you nurtured, encouraged and taught me life lessons. I really miss your presence in the house. Who will call me "onyi" grandpa? Who will eat and leave a piece of meat on the plate for me now? The special bond we shared cannot be filled again. You told me you were getting better the last time we saw. You also gifted me the rosary you were praying with, and gave me some money. ​
I still remember your words, Grandpa: "Onyi, the next time you come, you will help me with my laundry instead of the caregiver." But you didn't wait for me. You left much too soon. I can't question GOD because He knows the best.
Your love and wisdom guided me through life's journey. I am heartbroken to say goodbye but I believe you are with your creator. Even though your time with me was extremely amazing, the memories we created together will forever be in my heart. Thank you for being a cherished part of my life.
You will always be remembered with Love and gratitude. May your gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord till we meet again.

*Onyinyechukwu*

Words fail me. It has been a herculean task putting myself together to pen down this tribute in honour of a man I fondly called "Daddy" and who meant that to me in every sense of the word.

For the moments I felt overburdened by life, a call either to him or from him never failed to give me a new lease of life, and spur me on to face life courageously.
While on sickbed, Daddy never failed to make me believe that he would beat that sickness and be on his feet in no distant time and I sincerely believed that he was on the road to recovery..
. The news of your death, few days after we spoke, left me speechless and for the second time in my life, made me fatherless.
We will not question God, He is all knowing, but we are rest assured that having run a good race, you are already in heaven waiting for us all to complete our own earthly journeys.
Adieu Daddy, till we meet to part no more sir.
To all us who are mourning, may we be consoled and be granted the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.

Daddy as we fondly called you, you were a father not just to ur biological children but to all that came in contact with you. We have so fun memories of you, your encouragements and discussions where your english prowess comes to bare. You served the Lord with your life, i have no doubt you have reunited with Him. So long daddy! Till we meet again. We shall miss you greatly.

Tribute to a courageous man._
Worthy Brother Sir Emmanuel O Afubera
I was completely lost when I received the message that you died, and I started asking myself could it be true?

The day I took you to the hospital I was full of hope, because you kept on calling me _“Oke Nwadiani”_ and continued the conversation with me. Even then, you were strong, present, making sure I wasn’t alone. After your stay in the hospital you came back to the house, and I believed we had more time.

I didn’t know it would happen so soon. But to the glory of God, I hold on to the courage you showed me that day, and every day before it. You faced life head-on, and that’s the example you leave behind.

You will not be forgotten. We carry you forward every time we choose to stand firm and lived in without fear.

Hon Leonard Chukwudebelu KSM

Troubled heart? Scared? Daddy is so soft spoken that his speech would calm your nerves and remove fear. He was so encouraging, calmed our nerves and both mum and Dad received us like many years hadn't passed by when we lost my sister's husband to death too.
I learnt that true strength and authority lies in calmness not shout and screams. Sleep on Agu Nwoke.....you will be remembered always.
Tawa, nwa Tarzan.

Daddy the news of your transition to glory wasn't anticipated but it happened because the scripture must be fulfilled, for everything under the heaven has its season and time, a time to be born and a time die Ecclesiastes 3:1-2a. Daddy death didn't know how dear you were to me and my entire family as such he couldn't notify us about your death for us to say goodbye, that notwithstanding i bid you farewell as you rest in the blossom of the Lord.
Daddy within the threshold of life expectancy which you lived above, it's on record that your impact in the lives of many that you touched as a teacher, counselor, guidance, philanthropist, prayers and in terms of humanitarian care can't quickly be forgotten.
Daddy we missed you but God almighty knows best that he has to call you out of this trouble world at this time may your soul rest in peace.
On behalf of Akpoyibo Augustine family we wish daddy eternal rest

The passing of our dear Daddy has dealt a heavy blow on our PLD members Asaba Branch as our Branch Coordinator of PLD Asaba branch. May the Good Lord receive his soul in His Kingdom and grant his family the fortitude to bear the loss Amen 🙏

Hearing the passing of Our Branch Coordinator PLD Asaba Branch Mr Afubera was a great blow to our branch. We however accept the will of God as we have no right to question Our Lord. May the Good Lord receive him in His Kingdom and grant his family the grace to bear this loss🙏

Daddy, you never allowed money / tenancy fee to be the priority before giving me a place of resident, you welcomed me into your house, and took me as a member of your family. You never saw me as a tenant. I enjoyed staying close to you. Daddy, I never thought of it that your last word with me will be the success you wished me in the morning of that fateful day "8th of May" you answered your call to the Supreme Being.
Death is a call that every mortal being must answer to our creator, and you have answered yours.
I am convinced that you (Sir. Emmanuel Afubera) are with the Lord, where there is no affliction. As a mortal being, may God be merciful to your soul. Farewell Sir.
( Okafor C Michael).

Dear Grandpa,

​Is it really true that you are gone to heaven? I am going to miss you so much. My favorite memories are the times we spent watching the animal channels together, especially when we talked about the fearless honey badger.
Thank you for the tie you gifted me during my last visit to you at Easter, l will always treasure it.
​Rest in peace, Grandpa. I love you.

​Chukwuka Ejidike

Loosing someone so genuine is incredibly difficult. Through out my time knowing you, you constantly demonstrated what it means to be a person of deep integrity,care and compassion. Thank you for treating me with such dignity. You have left a beautiful legacy behind. Rest in peace Daddy. One one billion...one step one billion.

Grandpa,
We find comfort in knowing that you lived a meaningful life and are now in heaven, in the presence of the Almighty.

May you continue to rest peacefully in the arms of the Lord.

With love,
The Daniels Family

My dearest Daddy where are you? I miss you greatly. You left us suddenly and unexpectedly when I thought you were getting better. I beg the Good Lord to cleanse you of any sin committed as a result of human frailty and open the gate of Heaven where we hope to meet one day glorifying His goodness forever. Rest in peace Daddy Amen 🙏

Dear Grandpa,
I miss you so much. How are you doing? My birthday is coming soon and I'm sad you are not here. I remember you anytime I look at your pictures or belongings. I wish you were here.
Its me, Obiageli....your Oby

A perfect gentleman, humble and greatly respected. May his soul rest in peace.Amen

Daddy, where do I even begin? It is really hard to accept that it had to end this way, but as Christians, we comfort ourselves with the knowledge that we do not mourn like those without hope. We hold fast to the promise of the resurrection.
​I am profoundly grateful for every moment I was privileged to share with you. You were deeply loved, and you expressed love in your own unique way. My "no-nonsense" Daddy, the brilliant English "Prof". Your sharp mind and disciplined nature shaped us into who we are today.
​I find solace in knowing that God’s timing is perfect. If your time had not truly come, God would not have permitted it, for you had already courageously triumphed over death several times before. I am so grateful to God that you lived to see your grandchildren; that was once a fervent prayer of mine during my years of waiting, and God answered beautifully.
​Thank you for the morals, values, and ironclad discipline you instilled in us. You left a void that can never be filled, and you will be sorely missed. Continue to watch over us from above as you rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord.
May the angels of your birthday guide you home safely.

​Your Ada Ukwu,
Miriam Nneka Ejidike
(Nee Afubera)

In loving memory of Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afuberah

Today, with a heavy heart but deep gratitude to God for a life well spent, I pay tribute to a truly remarkable man, a father, mentor, friend, and devoted servant of God — Sir Emmanuel Oseloka Afuberah KSM.

Daddy was a boisterous, cheerful, and exceptionally warm man whose presence could light up every gathering. He carried himself with dignity and strength, yet with a simplicity and kindness that drew people close to him. His laughter, words of encouragement, and sincere concern for others made him unforgettable.

He was deeply devoted to his family, whom he loved passionately and protected with unwavering commitment. Beyond his family, Daddy was also a steadfast pillar in the Church, serving God faithfully and contributing immensely to the growth of the Christian community. His dedication, humility, and commitment to the things of God remain worthy of emulation.

Personally, Daddy stood solidly by me during some of the most trying moments of my life. His support, encouragement, and fatherly counsel gave me strength when I needed it most. He believed in me, prayed for me, and constantly reassured me with his kind words and confidence.

One memory that will remain forever etched in my heart was my last moment with him — sitting quietly beside his bed in his bedroom. Though words were few, the bond, affection, and emotions shared in that sacred moment can never be forgotten.

And how can I ever forget the unique and proud way he would call me, “My DG!” Every time he said those words, it was with such joy, pride, and affection that made me feel truly valued and loved.

Daddy, your departure leaves a painful vacuum, but we are comforted knowing that you fought a good fight, kept the faith, and now rest in the bosom of the Lord.

May the Angels of God guide you safely to eternal rest, and may your beloved wife and the wonderful family you left behind find solace in the comforting truth that you are now in a better place where pain and sorrow exist no more.

Rest in Peace Daddy.
Rest in Peace Great Man!

Ogbuenyi Nnamdi Clement Onyekwe

Ah, Uncle! "Uncle Afubera!" Oh my God, I'm speechless. Still trying to recover from the shock! May God comfort "Antie Afubera" and all the loved ones you left behind. Rest in peace, uncle. It is well!

Uncle Afubera was my teacher at St. Augustins college, Ibusa when my mom was the Vice principal 78 to 80.
He always had this aura of discipline and lovable authority in his presence. A thorough gentle man with a unique swag.
'Our no nonsense Uncle'
He never stopped reaching out to those dear to his heart 💜
His resting place is in the bosom of our Lord and the great memories he has left behind will not diminish easily.
Auntie Ndidi, God chose you for him and has prepared you for now...lines shall fall unto you in pleasant places and the joy of the Lord shall be your strength as you bear the inevitable loss.
Uncle, I hail You...'nough Respect Sir ! 😔

To a remarkable man who was so much more than a father-in-law. From the moment our two families joined, you welcomed me with open arms and a warm heart. Thank you for raising an incredible daughter, the love of my life, for your quiet wisdom, and for the laughter you brought into our home. You showed us what it means to lead a family with kindness and strength. Your legacy lives on in the beautiful family you built, and we will miss you every single day.
You may be gone from our sight, but you will never be gone from our hearts. Rest in peace Daddy.

We miss you, Daddy. But we are strong, because that is what you would have wanted.
Loving you was easy, because you loved with all you had. Thank you for your teachings.

Daddy, I called your grand daughter "pikin" today....you were not here to correct me...it hurts....

Junior is hurting so much, Daddy. But I will be strong for 3 of us...
Obiageli misses grandpa in Asaba.....

I am still searching for the right words to say goodbye......