Samuel Adegbayi Ibitoye

Rest in peace dear uncle. Though it is painful to see taken from your family so soon, we give God the glory for your life. The memory of the righteous is truly blessed indeed. The Lord will keep your family. The Lord will give them strength to bear the loss in Jesus name.

What a man Mr Ibitoye was. The times i came in contact with him, i saw a calm, gentle, respectful and ready to help of a man. There was no day or time i spoke or saw him that he will not exhibit those characters mentioned above. He was a God fearing person during his life time. What a man he was. May his gentle soul rest with the Lord and i pray the Holy Spirit comforts the wife, children and other family members he left behind.

A TRIBUTE.
I probably knew Dad Tokunbo first "in the 90s". While living with my grandma of blessed memory as a girl child, and "Brother Ade" as fondly Called then came visiting his mother -inlaw to be, he would call me D-A-D-A( Dada: Dread girl).This he called me till his departure. He immediately formed a bond with my husband last year November in Lagos,Nigeria. He was always been supportive and kind to our family. Our strength along with my aunt -Mrs R. A lbitoye when my mother died(his sister -inlaw) and when my sister and family relocated to the United Kingdom in 2023.
Dad Tokunbo, your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure and your are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.

Mrs. Fatimat Frinso Mustapha (DADA)

*A Gentle Giant Remembered*: *Tribute to Mr. Samuel Ibitoye*

The news of the passing of Mr. Sam Ibitoye on the 3rd of October, 2025, was deeply heartbreaking.

Uncle Sam was truly one of a kind , a gentle giant in every sense of the word.

Calm, respectful, and unassuming, he carried himself with quiet strength and grace that drew people to him effortlessly. He commanded respect not by demanding it, but through the integrity and humility of his character.

He was a man deeply devoted to his family. His beloved wife and their three sons were the center of his world, and when the daughter in law and grandchildren came along, he embraced them with the same warmth, care, and pride. His love and dedication were evident in everything he did.

Uncle Sam also cared deeply for his mother, tending to her with remarkable devotion until her passing earlier this year, a true testament to his sense of duty and compassion.

He was the kind of person who worked diligently behind the scenes, ensuring that everything and everyone was taken care of. When he wasn’t around, things simply didn’t run as smoothly.

He had a servant’s heart always ready to help, never complaining, even when it meant driving us all around London for our outings and making sure everyone got home safely. That same spirit of service extended to his church, where he humbly served as a church warden

Soft-spoken and kind, Uncle Sam treated everyone with respect and sincerity. He served his God faithfully in his own quiet, personal way and found joy in life’s simple pleasures, travelling, spending time with loved ones, and appreciating the beauty of the world around him.

Passionate, hardworking, and grounded in his values, he embodied discipline and cultural pride. As his family’s secretary and administrator, he carried out his duties with diligence and precision, keeping everything organized and orderly.

His absence leaves a deep void that words can hardly fill.

He will be sorely missed by his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Uncle Sam has gone to where love lives on forever, gone ahead, like one who walks before us in the dark, or turns the corner just out of sight.

Rest on, dear Uncle Sam in the bossom of your Lord.

You lived well, loved deeply, and served quietly but meaningfully.

Your gentle spirit will remain in our hearts forever. 🌹

Itunu Omotayo

Mr Samuel Ibitoye was a wonderful person and colleague, and he will be greatly missed. My condolence to the entire family. May his soul rest in peace.

Mr Ibitoye, you left us so soon. May your soul rest in peace.
May God comforts the family and friends you left behind🙏🏾

When we met at our family reunion of November 9,2024,none of us ever thought it would be the first and last time we had ever met together.On that day you did not fail to demonstrate your inherent Christlike qualities of love,kindness and generosity.for which my wife and I remain eternally grateful.
When your death was announced,I was and am convinced that you have not been annihilated.
Death Is neither a punishment nor annihilation. It is a transition from one sphere of existence to another. May your soul personality continue to progress in the light and love of Jesus Christ. Amen.

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In Loving Memory of A Gentle Giant

As I reflect on the surprise birthday celebration that Uncle helped organize for me in Thailand, my heart swells with both gratitude and sorrow. It warms my soul to know that he did not only assisted in the planning but was also eager to join in celebrating the significant milestone. Amidst his own challenges and pain, Uncle chose to share in my joy, embodying the true essence of love and support that he carried throughout his life.

Uncle Ade and Aunty Bose were a beautiful testament to love and partnership; they were truly inseparable. Wherever one was, the other was never far behind. Family gatherings and celebrations—such as birthdays, weddings, and naming ceremonies—were occasions when they traveled great distances to be together. My nephew reminded me how Aunty Bose always concluded her conversations with "Abi Ade" or "Sam," a sweet reminder of the affection that filled their home. The love they radiated reflects the profound message of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.

In the past few years, I have treasured the moments spent with Uncle during our holidays, alongside his "Iyawo me," Aunty Bose, and Mummy Mrs. Famosa. I remember how Aunty would browse the shops with Mummy in tow while Uncle patiently waited, embodying a quiet strength that was both comforting and inspiring. We devised our own waiting strategy—Presecco Time—where he became my partner in crime. It was during this moments that I genuinely got to know him: a simple gentleman, yet a profoundly impactful man who prioritized his beloved wife, children, and family above all else. His patience, thoughtfulness, and kindness left an indelible mark on everyone fortunate enough to know him.

The sudden loss of Uncle has cast a heavy shadow over my heart, leaving me at a loss for words. I can only imagine the profound pain that Aunty, the children, grandchildren, and the rest of our cherished family are feeling. My heart goes out to them in this tough time. I earnestly pray for the mercy of the Almighty to provide them with the strength and resilience needed to face this unimaginable sorrow. Uncle’s love will always hold a special place in our hearts, and his spirit will continue to guide and support his loved ones as they navigate the challenging days ahead. May his unwavering faith bring comfort and solace to his family now and always.

Rest in the eternal Peace Uncle.

Kasope Lasekan - "Partner in Asian Holiday Crimes"

Baba Ibitoye,

I was so saddened to hear about your passing. It came as a great shock when the news came, but even at that was reassuring that you're with your maker. You will be greatly missed.

Thank you for the opportunity you gave me to know you and learn from watching you in your calmness, sincerity, objectivity and love that you showered to those who were around you and to those that were not.

And to Mama Ibitoye and the boys, sharing in your sadness as you remember your loved one. May the memories of Daddy Ibitoye bring you comfort.

Daddy, We will always remember your wonderful spirit, humor, kindness at times.

For our precious Father, Grandfather, Uncle, Brother, and Friend who meant the world to many.

You might have left this earthly realm, but your essence continues to permeate the lives of those who knew you.
Grief has a peculiar way of making the world seem surreal and it clouds the ordinary days of life, but as loved ones grieve, your irreplaceable presence will not be forgotten.
As a beacon of light in society, people are blessed to have shared this remarkable journey of life with you.

Rest in Peace, Dear Uncle Sam. Your journey continues elsewhere, but love remains here always.

From Lara Alao (Nee Famosa) & Family

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*CONDOLENCE*

Our deepest sympathies go out to our dear sis, Mrs. Abosede Ralirat Ibitoye ( Nee Famosa ) and the entire family on the sudden demise of her beloved husband, Mr Samuel Adegbayi Ibitoye

We hold you close in our thoughts at this sad time. We are deeply sorry for your profound loss.

We pray that in this time of sorrow, you will feel God's love much more and that you will find your comfort
In the presence of the Lord.🙏🏼

We pray God pours upon you and your family His sweet amazing grace and overflow your hearts with peace as you live in His embrace through Christ our Lord. Amen.

May our Lady Queen of Sorrow console you and your family always.

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. Amen

A very gentle soul; A man with the warmest heart. Your warmth radiated every room you visited, your quietness was very loud and showed great wisdom in every sense. You will be missed so much and I pray that the almighty gives the family the strength to bear this loss. The heavens has indeed gained an angel. Continue to rest well and dine with the angels at the alter of the Lord.

We love you.

Abiola, Jisola and Tife Lasekan.

I am only left with your memories to live with now. No words can express my grief. I pray that God will bring peace and solace to your beautiful family. Rest in peace, uncle.

Thank you for being there for my beautiful daughter, helping her in moments of difficulty with kind words of wisdom. Supporting her before and after the birth of your granddaughter. One promise I will make to you is that your beloved granddaughter, will always know how much you loved and adored her. She will carry your memory with pride and love.

I have known uncle for about 40 years and I have never seen him upset or say unkind words to anyone. He is always smiling, quiet and shown great love and I have always felt welcome in his presence. May He rest in perfect peace and I pray that the Almighty will help the family to bear this great loss.

My dear brother Ade,

The news of your passing came as a big shock to me. It is very hard to believe that you are gone. My heart is heavy.

You were such a kind and generous person to all of us and always stood by us - Ibitoye family. You were a true pillar, a man of peace, love, and humility. Your gentle nature and warm heart touched everyone around you. You lived with grace and left behind beautiful memories that will always remain with me and us all.

You will always be a dear brother to me, a blessing that time can never take away.

Rest well my brother.

Tribute to Late Mr Adegbayi Ibitoye(Uncle as I called him) I happened to have know Uncle Ade with my Aunty(Mrs Linda Ibitoye-the wife) in the ‘80s before he proceeded to join the wife In London. He was a painstaking, friendly, kind hearted and complete gentleman whose nature is always to make everyone around him happy no matter what, he was a someone who partake in charity to humanity and can go out of his way to make people he comes in contact with very happy. He was very reserved and hardly get annoyed no matter what you do to him.
Uncle Ade lived a quiet life and was loved both his family and the Famosa family during his life time. I enjoyed every moment I had with him and appreciate his way of admonishing me on issues.

He was indeed a great loss to the Famosa and Ibitoye family and his departure was painful but who are we to question our creator.
I prayed almighty GOD console all the families left behind, uphold Mrs Abosede Ibitoye, be with the children and grant him peaceful rest in his bosom IJMN Amen.

Sanni Idowu

A Tribute

To a wonderful man — a beloved husband, father, grandad, brother, uncle, dear friend, and great in-law.

I’m deeply sorry that you left us so suddenly. You’ll always be remembered in our hearts for being such a kind, joyful, and lively man.

I thank God for your beautiful life. I still remember when we were in Thailand with your wife and Kasope — after you finished your seafood and wine, you said, “O De be,” meaning you were having a lovely time. That was just one of many moments — you often said how much you were enjoying life.

I thank God that you knew your Father, your Creator, and your Saviour.

You were a great husband, father, grandad, brother, uncle, co-worker, friend, and in-law.
So supportive, caring, accommodating, loving, and kind. You were always ready to share and to give.

You’re going to be missed so much. We love you deeply — but God loves you more.

Sleep peacefully in the arms of our Lord.
Goodnight, till we meet again.

Sure re o! Sure re o!

Princess Elsie Folake Famosa

It's hard to believe you've gone, my dear brother.
You were simple, humble,caring and a true lover of peace.
You lived quietly, touched lives gently and showed love to all.
Thank you for living an impactful life.
Though it really hurts to say goodbye, I'm comforted knowing you are in a better place
Sleep well,my dear brother till the resurrection morning.
You will forever remain in our hearts.

Your sister- Funmilayo Adewumi (Nee Ibitoye)

Bro Ade, my brother with a heart of gold…
We became very close when I moved to the UK.
Thank you for your beautiful support during my daughter’s wedding, for always checking on me, and for every birthday gift.
You were always thoughtful, always kind.

I am grateful to God that you surrendered your life to Christ even on your sick bed.
God, in His mercy, gave you the grace and the privilege to prepare for eternity.
I remember how your favourite song echoed in those moments:
“There is power mighty in the blood,
There is power mighty in the blood of Jesus Christ.”

I prayed and hoped desperately for a miracle…
But we cannot question God.
Haaa.. I will forever be grateful to God for your life. You will always remain in our hearts

May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace, Broda Ade.
Pastor(Mrs) Modupe Fatayo Nee Ibitoye

The exit of a rare germ!

Daddy Tokunbo left me with good memories about him right from childhood.
He is an angel in mankind, a man with a heart of gold, humble, kind and persevering.
A pillar of support to many. He derives joy in making people around him comfortable , this culture that define his household.His memory of unwavering support to my family still lingers. Never taught this goodbye will be this soon, as I hope to celebrate and appreciate you someday. I pray the Lord reward you with goodness and make heaven your place of rest.
I and my family will miss you.

A light from our house hold is gone
A voice we loved is stilled.
A place is vacant in our home which can never be filled.we really missed you Daddy, your grand children missed you.
May the choir of angels receive you and may you have rest and peace everlasting.

Still finding it difficult to believe,that Daddy is no more.September 25th 2023 was my first discussion with him.when me and my family were planning to book a plane from Cotonu to London. He was shocked and asked me why Cotonu and not lagos since we are coming from Lagos .I told him the fare from Nigeria was to expensive for me to bear.As I have said earlier this conversation was on phone.He told me to cancel the plan and he eventually booked the tickets for me and my family.Also he booked 2nights apartment for us in London,Just for us to settled down before proceeding to our destination. What a wonderful soul to meet in life. On arriving on 3rd of October 2023.He and Mummy came to pick us at Heathrow airport with an heartwarming smile on both his face and mummy. A memory I would never forget.The journey continued as he drove us to Liverpool after a night in London. What an amazing journey.wherr he stood by me and my family in Liverpool for a week.My journey herr in United kingdom would never be completed having failed to acknowledged his efforts both in kind,finance,moral and prayer support. I pray to Almighty God to forgive him his shortcomings and give us fortitude to bear this great loss.
Keep resting on the right side of our creator till we meet again.

What is really good in goodbye.

Broda Ade, is it goodbye to your humility; simplicity, generosity, dedication, devotion etc?

Indeed, we loss a Pillar in Ibitoye. Humanity loss a servant.
Heaven received an angel.

Thank you for all you did!
Thank you for your brotherly trust & exchanges.
Thank you for the mouths you fed.
Thank you for the services you rendered.
Thank you for your broad shoulder that provided comfort and succumb.

We accept, what we can't change!

This tear, is really bitter!!

Dayo Ibitoye

What a colossal loss!Big daddy, you stood up for my mom and I as a father, you were always there for us.This is bitter pill to swallow but we accept it.I will forever cherish the great memories we shared sir.Rest in peace daddy🙏
Bolu Ibitoye

A bitter way to say goodbye, you were always ready to listen to me, your gentleness, kindness, generosity, care& love was top notch.
May God forgive your shortcomings & grant you eternal rest sir.
May God comfort Aunty, the children and the rest of us to bear this irreparable loss Amen 🙏
Ayo Ibitoye

THE EXIT OF AN ICON

The news of the demise of broda Ade, as he is fondly called in the family, came to us as a rude shock.
He was such a great bridge builder and unifier in the family.
He was very humble, caring, and generous.
He was one of the few people that really stood by me since after the death of my husband in 1995.
The vacuum created by his demise will be very difficult to fill but we are praying to God to grant us the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Adieu! Broda Ade.

Mrs Eunice Wuraola Ajayi
Bida, Niger state. Nigeria

DADDY TOKUNBO: A Good Soul Goes Home.

My brother-in-law who i fondly referred to as Daddy Tokunbo with the birth of his First Son, was a kind hearted person who was fond of my three daughters when he was in Lagos Nigeria, particularly the eldest Omobolaji whom he popularly referred to as Omo to ba Ola ji, meaning a child born into comfort, a phrase he continually referred to whenever he visited us in those days in Nigeria.

Uncle Ade, a very good human being was quite generous and a rallying point of his maternal siblings and close relations most of who he assisted financially materially and otherwise, even as he lied critically ill on his sick bed and single handedly undertook the burial of his mother both at home in Nigeria and London where he lived.

His departure for the United Kingdom with the encouragement and assistance of Abosede the wife who preceded him to the new land, there was a sharp gap in our relationship until very recently with the active push from Abosede that we became very close again, a new and regenerated relationship ensued without be being aware that this will be short lived! I am quite delighted that i had the opportunity of being close to him and his immediate family feeling the warmth and generosity of Abosede and the cultured training demonstrated by Tokunbo, Damola and Adetayo all of whose company i enjoyed at a very close range.

As a medical doctor who knew and appreciated the critical condition he found himself, i was impressed and still do with the strength and fortitude with which he confronted his challenges.

As I pray for the good repose of the soul of Mr. Samuel Adegbayi Ibitoye my soft spoken and unassuming brother-in-law, i will urge his immediate family and the larger one of the late Pa Daniel Ibitoye to be consoled with the fact that he lived a very impactful life to the glory of all that came across him.

Rest in the bossom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ my dear brother-in-law and good human being.

Dr(Mrs) Edith Ibitoye.
Lagos. Nigeria

Very Rare Loving Brother.

Dear brother Adegbayi, your love knew no bounds, always willing to lend a helping hand irrespective of the situation either within the family or to outsider.

You'd go out of your way, no matter the cost, to support and uplift others with a selfless heart without asking for anything in return for your good gestures.

You will greatly be missed. Your kindness and generosity inspired me a lot to be a better person and to live with empathy.

I'll cherish memories of your thoughtful deeds, encouragements and supports all the time.

Rest in peace, dear brother Adegbayi

Your love, kindness and legacies will forever be remembered.

Your brother - Olanrewaju Ibitoye

ADEGBAYI, MY ABURO MY SOULMATE: A Tribute.

Adegbayi came long after me in December 1957. And for quite a while, we were the only two Siblings in the nuclear family of our late father, Daniel. The Mum(our Mama Kekere) had come into the family at the beginning of that year. We had our early childhood together and the normal siblings-rivalry was there but became very pronounced with time. Mama Kekere didn’t help matters.

We remained together wether in Ifaki-Ekiti(our home-town) or Ilorin(where we lived) or in Lagos(where our late Uncle resided) until Adegbayi left for the United Kingdom with the support,encouragement and assistance of his heartthrob Abosede Famosa who stood with him until his last days.

The migration to London sharply separated us until very recently with the persistent pressure of Abosede, that he should be close to his Elder Brother, notwithstanding that they are not from the same Mum, a fact for which i remain eternally grateful to Abosede, without whom i wouldn’t have been able to write this Tribute, albeit, with considerable pain in my heart.

It is unfortunate that it is me who would have to write Adegbayi’s Tribute rather than the other way round. But who are we to question God the Almighty who is Alpha and Omega of our fate. I am confident that he will be resting in the bossom of our Lord and Master Jesus Christ now, whilst i console Abosede, Adetokunbo, Adedamola and Adetayo whose labour and broken hearts shall be repaired and compensated by the Almighty God Himself and in His Own Way and Time in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Master.

Adieu My Aburo and gentle Soulmate.

Brother Emman.
Lagos. Nigeria.

Brother Ade!

You left too soon!

Ever since our paths crossed at our uncle’s house on Kadiri Street, Surulere, Lagos, you embraced me as a younger sister and you have consistently demonstrated and played the role of a brother. Your devotion to Christ, humility, and gentle spirit are worthy of emulation! Your pet name Oluwaobaloyemisi will forever echo in my mind as a constant reminder of your fondness and love. May your humble soul rest in the bosom of the Lord Jesus Christ, dear brother Adegbayi, until we meet again on the Resurrection Day!

Oríkì:
Àbá mi, omo oníbòbò, bòbó gbèrègèdè lóko ìtile. Omo iròro òsùn, omo iròro òjo.
Ó bé’ni móta mó ráhùn ònìyàn ko’nù, ko yá ráhùn idà kororo l’Ádó Èwí ibi tia.
Ó dìgbà!

Mrs. Oluyemisi Oduwole neé Olaopa