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Stuart Allen Gilmore, 42, of Pacific, Missouri, passed away on October 23, 2025, surrounded by loved ones. Known affectionately as “Stu”, he will forever be remembered for his energy, generosity, and unwavering devotion to his family and friends. He was a devoted husband, loving father, brother, uncle, son-in-law, brother-in-law, and friend to many whose warmth and energy touched everyone he met.
Born on March 31, 1983, in Columbia, Missouri, Stu loved telling stories of his memories and things he learned growing up in life. Though his stories were known to stretch a bit long, they were always full of humor, lesson, and heart. His charisma, humility, and genuine compassion made him everyone’s friend. Stu was the person who was always the first to lend a helping hand.
He was preceded in death by both of his parents, Robert Gilmore and Patricia (née Hahn) Gilmore; his sister, Susan Gilmore; and father-in-law Greg Ray. He is survived by his wife, Jennifer (née Linhares) Gilmore; daughter, Mikayla Linhares; brother to Douglas Gilmore and his wife Kelley Gilmore; son-in-law to Tony (Cheri) Linhares and Diane Ray; brother-in-law to AJ (Lauren) Linhares, Chris (Tara) Ray, and Alex Linhares; uncle to Brendyn, Cameryn, Katelyn, Macklyn, and Madalyn Gilmore; Victoria Gilmore; Nora and Owen Linhares; Calvin, Thomas, and Caroline Ray; and Ellie Linhares; and other family members along with many friends who were considered family. Stu was proud of his faith and a member of St. Bridget of Kildare Catholic Church.
Stu found his life’s joy in hard work, laughter, and the simple pleasures of time spent with loved ones. He was a deeply talented craftsman who built not just projects but memories. Whether helping family, friends or working on his own home, Stu poured his heart into everything he did. He was truly a dedicated and hard-working man who approached every task with determination and pride.
He did take pride in his work, but even more pride in the people who filled his life. His greatest pride came from the life he built with his wife, Jennifer, and their daughter, Mikayla. Stu and Jennifer married in April 2025, celebrating a union that was the culmination of love, laughter, and steadfast partnership. To Jennifer, he was the best husband and protector she could have ever dreamed of; to Mikayla, he was the best father and greatest supporter.
Stu’s life was marked by a rare and beautiful simplicity. He lived fully, loved deeply, and helped freely, leaving a legacy of kindness and strength that will be felt for years to come. Those who had the privilege of knowing him will miss his long-winded stories, his ready smile, and the way he made every person feel important. He was full of life and energy, a simple man who found joy in the everyday moments that others might overlook.
Stu will be remembered not just for what he built with his hands, but for his spirit and the love and laughter he built into the lives of others. He will be remembered always as a simple and kind man with an extraordinary heart—everyone’s friend, the best husband, and the best father. Though his time here was far too short, the impact he made will endure in every person who had the privilege of knowing him.
Visitation will be held Wednesday, October 29, 2025, from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Bell Funeral Home in Pacific. A funeral mass will take place on Thursday, October 30, 2025, at 10:00 a.m. at St. Bridget of Kildare Catholic Church in Pacific, with burial to follow at St. Bridget’s Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that a donation be made to either St. Bridget of Kildare Catholic Church or the Missouri Department of Conservation.
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John and Stu first met back in the early 2000’s through their mutual friend, Jeremiah. John went to visit Jeremiah, during his shift at Walmart, when his clocked-out coworker, Stu, needed help fixing his blue dodge pick-up. It was then that John and Stu bonded over their love for tinkering with cars.
John quickly became the Pinky to Stu’s Brain. For those that don’t know, that is a reference to a cartoon about two genetically enhanced lab mice that was popular in the mid 90’s. Brain was the highly intelligent master schemer who created elaborate yet unsuccessful, world domination plans. Pinky was a feeble-minded and hyperactive assistant. John would ask, “What are we going to do tonight, Brain?”. Stu would respond, “The same thing we do every night, Pinky. Try to take over the world.”
As young bachelors, a typical Friday night was spent either at home playing video games, until the early hours of the morning or out wondering at Walmart, eating at Denny’s or bowling with several of their friends. Fun fact about Stu …his absolute favorite bowling ball weighed in at a whopping 6lbs.
Stu was the most amazing friend that John could ever ask for. A brother. “He was always one to give you the shirt off his back and expect nothing in return”. For instance, instead of calling John for help, he once showed up at his house and said he had just learned that it takes 683 pumps of a bicycle tire inflator to fully inflate a car tire.
Stu often shared his interest with john, teaching him about carpentry, world and American history, and firearms. The most important lessons were about patience, self-control, honesty and true friendship.
In August of 2021 Stu had met the love of his life, Jennifer. John knew right away that they would be inseparable and that she was the one for him. John had seen the changes in Stu’s self-love and motivation. Stu told John that Jen was the best thing that had ever happened to him. John happily accepted the role as best man of their wedding on April 11th, 2025.
Jen and Mikayla, you were Stu’s reason to live. Many of us have witnessed this. He fought as long and hard as he possibly could for the two of you. You both gave Stu the best life possible and relentlessly surrounded him with your love. May you know that Stu will always be watching over you. Stu is with his Savior and will be waiting for the day he will get to hold you both in his arms.
You will be remember forever, fondly. Those left behind will tell tall tales in your honor. RIP x
"I now have to remember you for longer than I've known you"
- C.C. Aurel
Jen, I promise always to be here for you. May you forever find comfort in God's love.
Love, Veronica Jones
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We will come together to remember and pay tribute to the wonderful Stuart Gilmore. While we mourn the loss of our dear, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy brought into our lives. Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
709 W. Union Street
Pacific, MO 63069
4:00 PM to 8:00 PM
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Pacific, MO 63069
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Pacific, MO 63069
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Together, let us continue the legacy of compassion and kindness that Stuart embodied throughout their life.
St. Bridget of Kildare Catholic Church
111 West Union Street, Pacific MO 63069
Tel: 1-636-271-3993
Web: www.sbkparish.org
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PO Box 180, Jefferson City MO 65102-018
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