

What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.
Obituary
In Loving Memory of Renate van Zyl
22 April 1942 – 6 March 2025
It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Renate van Zyl, a beloved mother, wife and dear friend to many. Renate passed away peacefully on 6 March 2025, leaving behind a legacy of love, kindness, and dedication.
A devoted and proud educator, Renate spent decades shaping young minds, leaving a lasting impact on generations of students. Her passion for teaching and unwavering belief in the potential of every child earned her the admiration of colleagues, students, and parents alike. She was more than a teacher—she was a mentor, an inspiration, and a guiding light to those fortunate enough to learn from her.
Beyond the classroom, Renate was cherished by her family and friends, always offering warmth, wisdom, and support. Her generosity of spirit and gentle strength will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
She is survived by her loving family, who will forever hold her in their hearts.
“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.”
We invite you to share photos and memories on this page.
Love,
Hannes van Zyl, Lucette van Zyl & Chantal Trollip.
Celebration of Life
On behalf of Lucette, Hannes and myself, I would like to welcome you all today.
My mom did not want a funeral, yet reflecting over the last week, we wanted to come together & celebrate Mom’s life & share some special memories.
Today, we want to celebrate and remember. We invite anyone today, to share any memories they have of my mom over the course of the morning.
Mom loved flowers, and her home was always filled with them. We have brought some of her favourite vases with us today and invite anyone to take one home. Fill them with flowers & plants, just as Mom would have done.
I will keep this short. As I would not want to embarrass my mom, with my poor grammar & substandard articulation. As Mom fondly reminded me often over the years, ‘’I am definitely not phonic & did not inherit the language gene’’, which Lucette for sure did. I have a few memories (maybe not fond ones), of Lucette & Mom breaking out in laughter over not something I said, but rather how I had said it! 😊
I did want to share a quite recent memory with you. I last visited South Arica in June/July last year. On the day I was flying back home to the UK, we came here, for one final lunch. She really wanted to come here, as she had been here a few weeks earlier with I suspect some of you and had shared with me that it was a lovely outing. In the parking lot, as we arrived, I realised that I was wearing my dress back to front, and without a second thought, I proceeded to correct my dress… in the parking lot. Mom was horrified! And I am sure knowing my mother, you all know why… what an un lady-like thing to do! 😊.
I wanted to thank all of you for being here today. You have all been fantastic over the last week. From sending messages, cooking for us, checking in on us & helping to arrange today’s event.
From my side, I do want to thank a few incredibly special people –
- Danielle, my daughter, who has helped us immensely over the last week. From fetching both Lucette & I at the airport, cooking for us & keeping us hydrated those last few days in the hospital. With exception of her pointing out my first grey hair the other night, she has been an absolute amazing human!
- Renee. You are my best friend, and 6 years of living in different countries has not changed that. Your love, support & prayers mean the world to me, and more so than I think you realise.
- Danie, thank you for looking after my dad over the last week & especially fetching him at the hospital after my mom passed.
- Willie, a close friend of Lucette's. thank you for your kindness & checking up on her & me over the last week. You have become a friend to me, over the last week.
- The Bouwer family, and especially Faye, who took much of the burden of arranging today off our shoulders.
I want to end with a quote. As I was sifting through my mom’s memory boxes, I came across this quote –
‘’IN ANY MOMENT OF DECISION THE BESTHTINGYOU CAN DO ITH THE RIGHT THIN, THE NEXT BEST THING IS THE WONG THING, AND THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO IS NOTHING’’ – Theodore Roosevelt.
And it just made me realise how much of Mom is engrained in me. I cannot recall how often I have told my team at work ‘’that it does not matter what decision you make, as long as you make one’’.
THANK YOU, Mom, for being a big part of shaping me into the wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, woman, and leader I am today.
- Chantal Trollip
Gallery
Memory wall
I had not yet seen the face of the flower to my heart's content, and the spring is over.

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Mamma, thank you for giving me a happy and stable childhood. I have so many happy memories as a child, from us shopping together at Brooklyn Mall, to going on holiday in Marina Beach. My most vivid memory of us as a child is you sitting on the coach with me, helping me with long division. You played a big part in the person I am today, and for that, I am forever grateful. I loved you and appreciated you more than I probably expressed to you over the years. I wish we had been able to spend more time together, especially since I moved abroad, and it saddens me that you never got to visit me in my new home country. I love you. Chantal
Rest in peace and know that you have enriched the lives of many 💗
Auch für mich war Mrs van Zyl die absolute Lieblingslehrerin und so viel mehr! Die Nachmittage mit ihr und den anderen Shakespeare sisters waren wertvoll und prägend!! Als ich Anfang des Matrikjahres nach Deutschland gezogen bin, haben wir uns Briefe geschrieben, die ich bis heute aufbewahrt habe und in den letzten Tage wieder gelesen habe. Sie wird immer einen besonderen Platz in meinem Herzen haben.
Ich wünsche euch als Familie viel Trost und Kraft in dieser Zeit!
Unser herzlichstes Beileid für Euren Verlust. Wir haben Tante Renate so schön in Erinnerung- das beste Frühstück Haferflocken mit Rosinen…Matheaufgaben beim Buswarten und weil sie immer da war wenn wir sie brauchten. Leider haben wir uns über die Jahre verloren, aber ich kann mich noch sehr gut an das Haus erinnern und wie schön Renate es immer gemacht hat.Fühlt euch beide ganz fest umarmt, die Mama war eine sehr tolle Frau! Haltet zusammen das würde die Mama wollen. Denken an Euch Natalie, Löcke- Dagmar und Peter Salota 💔💔💔😥😔
My deepest sympathy for Chantal and the family.
Like many of the contributions below, her unequalled enthusiasm and passion for the refined depth and intricacies of the English language touched me too as her student, and strongly influenced me in my career choice. Her authenticity of keen interest for both the literature and language as well as the human beings she was sharing this passion with was phenomenal. She saw and heard us all with an open heart, and dared to greet every new idea with a smile and a cheeky sparkle of the eye before questioning the motives and details - gently but decidedly. No comment would go unnoticed, but it always seemed she took a moment to reflect deeply and sincerely before replying.
I think our “Shakespeare Sisters” evolved from a passion ignited after many sessions practising with her and Mrs Stolp for English Olympiad in their so generously donated free time. What dedication!
I remember an occasion where we Shakespeare Sisters went I believe to the Tram Shed together to watch a movie with Brad Pitt, and a subsequent round of coffees where, while admiring Pitt’s acting talent, she so amusingly expressed her lack of understanding for his attractiveness as a man (due to his “baby face”)… I shared her preference for the likes of Richard Gere…
This was what set her apart - she was so real and honest and true to herself in her opinions, all the while so open, caring and accepting of all in every scenario.
I also had coffees with her in passing through Pretoria in later years, and it was always so refreshing and uplifting to catch up. And I also still have a collection of yellowed paper keepsakes from her lessons - little texts that went deep and meant so much.
I feel honoured to have met this special lady, and grateful to have been touched by her in my life during the vulnerable growing years where lives take direction.
What a legend, that will most certainly live on in all our memories.
RIP
Ada
I am heartbroken for the passing of your beloved wife and mother. I know how much she meant to each of you, and my thoughts and prayers are with you as you navigate this painful loss. I will forever be thankful to her for raising and shaping my wife into the wonderful person she is today. I feel privileged to have known her. May you find comfort in the cherished memories you've shared with her, and may those memories bring you peace in the days ahead. I wish I was there to help ease your burden.
Love,
Johann Trollip
To a teacher who was more than just an educator, but a beacon of hope and inspiration. Mrs. van Zyl, you saw potential in each of your students, especially when we struggled to see it in ourselves.
In my darkest hour, when I lost interest in school after my father's sudden passing, you were there. You encouraged me, guided me, and helped me find my way back. For that, I am eternally grateful.
You had a unique way of making your students feel seen and understood.
I will never forget the day you told our class, during our matric year, that you planned on retiring the next year. The whole class was filled with sadness and upset. You simply smiled and asked us why, reminding us that we wouldn't be there the next year. I think that says it all—you were such a great teacher that the thought of you leaving the school felt like an immense loss. No one could ever replace you.
Rest in peace, Mrs. van Zyl. May your soul find comfort and joy in the knowledge that you have made a difference, that you have inspired, and that you are dearly missed. Should we meet again one day, I promise to tell you just how much your support meant to me.
Thank you for being the teacher every student dreams of having. Your legacy lives on in each of us.
Als ich mit meiner Familie 2014 in Südafrika war, hat mich Renate mit durch die 14 Monate getragen. Sie hat mich Englisch unterrichtet und dabei sind wir Freundinnen geworden. Bis zu ihrem Ableben, hatten wir Kontakt. Im Oktober 2024 habe ich Renate noch in Südafrika gesehen. Dafür bin ich unendlich dankbar. Ich werde sie nie vergessen. Sie war ein so herzlicher, humorvoller und toller Mensch.
Renate....du bist für immer in meinem Herzen ❤️
Birgit, Georgios und Jannis
Rest in peace my deepest condolences to all the family Mita Manabe/
Rose and Martha Johannah s Children
She was also just quietly cool. While I was at university, I came back to Pretoria and we went out for coffee. She was one of the first people I told that I was gay. And of course she was more than accepting, because she was actually ahead of her time.
Mrs. Van Zyl, you were not just my favourite teacher, you were the best teacher I ever had, and you had a lasting impact on my life.
I can see her smiling and saying this peaceful passing, is what I wish for. May she RIP.
Much love
Anne-Lore Bramley
Ek en Renate was feitlik elke dag saam en het nooit stry gekry nie. Saans het ek en sy saam studeer, aangesien ons elkeen drie stapels boeke moes bemeester. Ons het saam gewerk aan Engels, Afrikaans en Duits, en saam op 'n bustoer na die see gegaan.
Renate was ook my strooimeise. Nadat ek getroud is, het ons saam poste in Vanderbijlpark gekry. Sy het by haar skool gewerk en ek by die Transvaalse Onderwysdepartement gewerk. Ook daar was ons vir 'n paar jaar, feitlik elke dag saam.
Nadat ek getroud is, het ek saam met my man Oos-Kaap toe getrek en sy het in Pretoria gaan bly saam met haar man. As gevolg van werk, kinders en die gewone verloop van die lewe het ons al minder kontak met mekaar gehad. Ek het egter nooit weer 'n vriendin gehad wat so naby aan my was nie. Iemand in wie ek soveel vertroue gehad het, by wie ek soveel geleer het en vir wie ek so lief was nie. Ek is stukkend oor haar heengaan. Ek sal haar eendag weer in die hiernamels sien.
Ek groet jou met rus in vrede en nie vaarwel, want jy leef voort in my hart en gedagtes. Ek sal jou nogsteeds gaan opsoek op elke plek waar ons kuiers altyd diep en sinvol was.
Jou ongelooflike nalatenskap eer ek vir altyd.
My innigste simpatie en meelewing gaan na elkeen wat haar lief het.
Mag die mooi herinneringe aan haar jul troos in hierdie moeilike tyd van rou
Liefdegroete Lehmkuhls ( Renate was jare gelede ons bure en baie goeie vriende in Kroonstad)
Renate hat mir bei meinem Zusatz Studium so sehr geholfen, sie hat all meine assignments korrigiert und mir immer Mut gemacht, wenn ich an meinen Englisch Kenntnissen gezweifelt habe. Mit ihrer Hilfe habe ich mit Summa cum laude mein diploma für Grundschullehrerin in Südafrika abgeschlossen. Ich hab ihr so viel zu verdanken und danach haben wir eine schöne Freundschaft gepflegt. Ich werde Renate sehr vermissen.
I am grateful to have had Renate in my life for many years. I will miss our lovely chats and will also miss her dearly.

Extract from “Sonnet for Renate and Ria”.
“Today we sit, our cups and stories shared
Recalling classrooms, children, wisdom learned.
The time we gave, the paths we all once dared
Remain as glowing embers, never burned.
And though we’ve left the classroom far behind,
I’m this dear company
Our hearts still bind.”
Rest in peace, Renate,
Annette Erasmus
I really enjoyed our tuition lessons and nice conversations together. Your kind, passionate character in combination with your wisdom really made them truly special. And even though you knew so much, you’d still ask me things that you could still learn from me. That shows, how humble you were. Stay such a nice person also where you are now. May the angels or God always keep you well.
Rest in peace, you will never be forgotten.
My sincerest condolences to you and your family. I haven’t seen your mom since our school days…but have many fond memories of those days. She was a very special lady.
We were friends for over 50 years and she will be greatly missed by all our family.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers
Lots of love to you all Gordon, Gloria, David and family😢🥰💔💔✝️

