Ramaswamy Jayaram

September  25th, 1967 July  3rd, 2024
Ramaswamy Jayaram

Dr Ramaswamy Jayaram /Dr Jay/Jay, you were a rare gem-brilliant, kind, compassionate. You are loved, respected and cherished by all who were fortunate to have met you.  Thank you for touching our lives. May you rest in eternal peace  


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July 12, 2024
Dr Jay, there are no words to express how much you have meant to so many across your life and career. You were always the kindest, most genuine and funny man, a bright light in the darkness, I will always be thankful to have known you. I wish you peace on the next step of your journey, and send all my love to your family.
Amy x
July 12, 2024
I was deeply saddened to hear of your passing Dr Jay. You touched the hearts of so many people with your caring and kind nature. You will be missed so much. My sincere condolences to your loved ones.
Janet Crewe
July 12, 2024
I am so so sad to hear of Dr Jay's passing. He touched the hearts of all who knew him. Such a kind and caring gentleman. I will always remember your warm smile. RIP Dr Jay.
Suzie Landon
July 12, 2024
Dr Jay, you will be sadly missed. Thank you for the support you have given to all colleagues and friends. You have supported so many people during your career as not only the great doctor you are. But the kind person you are. The knowledge you have passed on, will continue to support others. Rest in eternal peace. Sincere condolences to your family.
Kat Munson
July 12, 2024
Dr Jay, your warmth and kindness will be deeply missed, your smile and gentleness always brightened my day. May you rest in peace, and your beautiful family find solace. .
Angela Sadler
July 11, 2024
Dear Dr Jay,
Its hard to grasp that you have left this side so soon.
I will always remember your kind words, gentle spirit, humble competence, and unwavering support through my years as your specialty doctor.
You gave me wings to fly and I owe so much to you, Dr Jay.
May your family find comfort and peace knowing what a gift you were to many.
Anne Alase
July 11, 2024
Hi Dr Jay,
You touched so many lives in the very best way. I'm grateful I got the chance to know you as both a colleague and a friend.

Dr Mohammed Jalal
July 11, 2024
Dr Jay, you were a kind, caring man who was very considerate and conscientious. My sincere condolences to your family.
Alice Edwards
July 11, 2024
Dear Dr Jay,
Working with you was never less than a pleasure. Warm, kind, conscientious and caring; those personal qualities also helped to make you an excellent doctor. May you rest in peace. You will be missed by many, but by none more than your beloved wife and family. My thoughts and prayers are with them.
Laura Head
July 10, 2024
Jayaram, your fond memories will live in the minds of many who have known you , particularly your 1985 Medicos bunch. You will be much missed !!!Wishing all the peace to your family .
Kadakkal Radhakrishnan
July 10, 2024
Priya Susan Antony
July 10, 2024
Dear Jayaram … so sad to lose you in such untimely fashion. We are left with sweet memories of 4 decades that you leave behind .. and the recent times were sadly too busy for us to catch up more frequently! I still remember our early medical school years when you were the physiology expert ! Having been must ever be … you will always live in our hearts.
Parameswaran Hari
July 10, 2024
Rest in peace Doc.You will always be remembered. My condolences to your lovely family .May they find peace during this time.
Febi Sayi
July 10, 2024
Dear Jay,
You were a constant in my working life for nearly twenty years & I find it hard to accept you’re no longer with us. You were an excellent doctor & much loved for your kindness & gentle presence by colleagues & patients alike. May you rest in peace my friend.
Stephen Tucker
July 10, 2024
Dr Jay,
It was a pleasure working with you. You were such a kind and gentle person; I saw only humanity and warmth from you and it is such a loss you are no longer with us. You taught me the meaning of my name in your culture, and would always find time to listen and check in. You really were lovely, rest in peace.
Astra Sansiviero
July 10, 2024
No words......
For me..
Jay's demise is beyond my imagination....
Dr Suresh pookkodan manickyam
July 10, 2024
So shocking....
Tearful tributes to our dear friend.....
Sharing the grief of friends and family.....may the noble soul rest in eternal peace....
The sorrow / agony due to the loss is beyond words ....
Let 's comfort each other at this most sad moment in our lives when one among us just vanished.......
Friends,,please share his memories...
Expressing my deep sorrow and heartfelt condolences to the dear family members...prayers
Sagar Thankachan
July 10, 2024
Dear Jayaram,
Dear friend,we had lost touch for a long time after MBBS, miraculously reconnected last year....
We did our little catching up.....
Few plans to meet up next time you are in India.....
And then this sudden exit....
It was too early Jayaram....
Anyway let's meet in another space and another time.....
Rest in peace my friend 🙏💐
Dr Indu V Nair
July 10, 2024
Heartbroken to learn of the loss of my former colleague, Dr Jay. A gentle soul, he personified decency, compassion, and a dedication to his profession. It was a pleasure to have walked in his shadow for 4 years. My sincere condolences to his family, friends and colleagues. Safe trip.
John Davies
July 10, 2024
Dear Jay,
I have been privileged and honoured to have had you as a colleague in Home Treatment for the past 17 years.
Your gentle nature, kindness and amazing medical knowledge will always be a treasured aspect of working with you.
Not to mention your love of cricket, your knowledge on the subject, and joy in frequently discussing cricket with a fellow cricket fan.
Let's hope, when reincarnated, you come back as an Aussie cricket fan - nirvana/heaven indeed!.
dr vivien peeler
July 10, 2024
I am shocked and deeply saddened by the death of Dr Jay. I will always remember Dr. Jay as a passionate, supportive, helpful individual personally and professionally. He was a great mentor. It is a great loss for everyone who knew him.

May his soul rest in peace and my deepest sympathy goes out to his family and loved ones. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

RIP Dr Jay.
Naveed Mussarat
July 10, 2024
Dr Jay
I still see your warm smile.
Thankyou for allowing me the pleasure to have worked with you, for helping me out in the AMHP world.
I will always remember the fun side of you, driving along the A14 in the early hours and getting lost in the diversion, we did laugh.
Sleep in peace and keep shining over your loving family.
July 10, 2024
i would like to remember Jay as a great human being. he was deeply passionate about his subject. I would like remember the days we played cricket together in Ipswich. It is an emotionally draining time for me at his untimely death.......
R. Raadhakrishnan
July 10, 2024
It was shocking and deeply unsettling learning you had passed. You were always kind, open and very helpful to me. Working with and knowing you was easy. I will remember you and hope those left behind carry on with the best of you.

Rest in peace Dr Jay
Afeez Enifeni
July 9, 2024
Dear Dr Jay, I am shocked and saddened by your death. You have been a great support for me, mentoring me helping and guiding me both professionally and personally. It’s a great loss for all who have known you.

From our conversations, I know how much your family means to you. Hope they have the strength to go through this difficult time.
You will be always be remembered with love and respect.

Rest in peace Dr Jay.
Archana Unnikrishnan
July 9, 2024
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Dr. Jay. He was a remarkable individual, known for his boundless kindness and unwavering compassion. His caring nature touched countless lives, leaving an indelible mark on everyone fortunate enough to have known him.
Rest in peace Dr Jay
Rachna Anderson
July 8, 2024
I am deeply saddened by the passing of Jay. He was a supportive, kind, and exceptional psychiatrist, whose dedication to his patients and colleagues was remarkable. His loss is a senseless tragedy, and it is felt deeply by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Jay was immensely proud of his beloved family, and my heartfelt condolences go out to them during this unimaginably difficult time. His warmth, generosity, and professional excellence will be greatly missed. May he rest in peace.
July 8, 2024
Jay, thanks for being an amazing colleague and friend. I'll always remember your gentle, reassuring presence, your quiet determination, your ability to uplift those around you with a cheeky joke. I'll always admire your commitment to care for and support everybody around you so selflessly, especially your family.

Many will be sad to have lost you, but most definitely blessed to have known you.

Rest in peace Jay.
July 8, 2024

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Karen Moreira
July 8, 2024
Jay you were a very special person, who touched the hearts of so many. Those memories will live on, the memory of a good person is such a blessing. The soft-spoken gentleman who greeted everyone with a smile, who was kind, caring, professional and funny. My thoughts and prayers are with your beautiful family.
July 8, 2024
Dear Jay
The ebb and flow of tide will not erase your footprints in the sand of time and the picture of a kind and loving gentleman always smiling will remain in our minds forever. Our hearts will always be heavy with the pain of losing a dear colleague and friend. We will cherish the fond memories of days gone by and pray for eternal peace for your soul. May your soul rest in peace in Heaven. Amen.
May God grant your wife and children the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
Shamim Ruhi
July 8, 2024
Jay it's so heavy on my heart to think that you are not between us. I found you always positive, compassionate. In every presentation your input was extraordinary. We will miss you, rest in peace.
Mehreen Ras
July 8, 2024
Dear Dr Jay, You had a warm and kind presence about you that will be deeply missed. I really enjoyed the home visits I went on with you during my hospital placement - still inspires me to pursue becoming a mental health professional after GP training. Thank you for who you were & your compassion. With Respect,
Karthick Selvakumar
July 8, 2024
Dear Dr. Jay, if there’s one word that I would remember you by, it would be “gentle”. You were always kind and had a smile for everyone, incredible teacher, doctor and human being. Keeping you and your loved ones in my prayers.
Quratulain khan
July 8, 2024
Jay, you have always been that gentle, kind person, always with a smile in your face. You were always supportive and encouraging to your colleagues and friends. We will miss you Jay forever
Bipin Ravindran
July 7, 2024
Jay, it is so hard to accept that you are no longer with us. I thank you for showing me kindness and extending your warmth, genuineness and support. You always carried yourself with a wonderful smile and with simplicity. As I bid you good bye, I pray God offers your dear family and all loved ones, the solace and strength they need to carry on. May your beautiful soul rest in eternal peace. Miss you Jay
Karen Moreira


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