Philomena Aghanti
You were our guiding light, and your legacy of love will never fade. Rest peacefully, dear mummy."
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Philomena Aghanti lived a life of love, faith, and selfless devotion to God. A cherished sister, wife, mother, and grandmother, she touched countless lives with her warmth and kindness.
Born 2nd March 1950, Phil was raised with strong family values and an unwavering commitment to the church. Asides being a mother and a leader in the church. She spent her early working years in London, United Kingdom and later on in Zaria, Kaduna, Nigeria till she retired. She continued to serve her community and the church as a well respected leader till the end.
Fondly called "Mummy" not just by her children but all those who knew her - she had a nurturing spirit that extended beyond her family, always providing care, comfort, and protection to those around her.
Her presence brought light and love, and her legacy of truth, kindness and faith will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew her.
She will be fondly remembered with love by her sisters, husband, children and grandchildren.
“Those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us every day.
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September 14, 2025
No wonder so many called you “Mummy” and “Mentor” right to the very end.
You carried the burdens of others as if they were your own, and through your prayers, you helped
them find strength and solutions. You loved and cared deeply for everyone in both families. My late
mother even cherished you as her own last-born child.
I never imagined it would end this way. Even during those long and difficult months of the ‘battle,’ you
spoke to us all; children and all sundry, with that God-given wealth of wisdom that was uniquely yours.
Though the joy of seeing the remarkable and successful work you accomplished was short-lived, our
merciful Father knew best and took control. It is enough.
I give thanks that your gentle soul now rests in the bosom of the Almighty.
Adieu, my dearest, loving, and caring “Mother of All,” Phil. Rest until we meet again, never to part.
You carried the burdens of others as if they were your own, and through your prayers, you helped
them find strength and solutions. You loved and cared deeply for everyone in both families. My late
mother even cherished you as her own last-born child.
I never imagined it would end this way. Even during those long and difficult months of the ‘battle,’ you
spoke to us all; children and all sundry, with that God-given wealth of wisdom that was uniquely yours.
Though the joy of seeing the remarkable and successful work you accomplished was short-lived, our
merciful Father knew best and took control. It is enough.
I give thanks that your gentle soul now rests in the bosom of the Almighty.
Adieu, my dearest, loving, and caring “Mother of All,” Phil. Rest until we meet again, never to part.
September 14, 2025
The most glamorous woman I ever knew. No one could ever hold a candle to you, your beauty or
intelligence. You were multitalented and loved by many. I miss you. You will always be in my heart,
never to be forgotten. Adieu mummy!
intelligence. You were multitalented and loved by many. I miss you. You will always be in my heart,
never to be forgotten. Adieu mummy!
September 14, 2025
Hello Mummy
That simple phrase held a world of love, warmth, and sometimes playful mischief; just like you.
You always called me Ify, and now I understand why… it was your way of keeping me close. Your joy.
your love was fierce, your heart vast; you had a way of caring for everyone and making them feel seen.
I still feel you with me, guiding me quietly in spirit… and in that, I find my strength.
That simple phrase held a world of love, warmth, and sometimes playful mischief; just like you.
You always called me Ify, and now I understand why… it was your way of keeping me close. Your joy.
your love was fierce, your heart vast; you had a way of caring for everyone and making them feel seen.
I still feel you with me, guiding me quietly in spirit… and in that, I find my strength.
September 14, 2025
My mummy you showed a strength compared to none. You taught; you guided and made sure I will
never let go of the values you imparted. I will always miss your prayers, our labrish times and most of
all you, guiding me back when I stray. The vacuum in my life your departure has created will never be
filled. I miss you mummy; continue to rest in peace till we meet again’.
never let go of the values you imparted. I will always miss your prayers, our labrish times and most of
all you, guiding me back when I stray. The vacuum in my life your departure has created will never be
filled. I miss you mummy; continue to rest in peace till we meet again’.
September 14, 2025
Mummy where do I even begin? You were the heart of the family, the glue that held us all together.
Your love was a constant source of strength as your loving kindness knew no bounds. I am so grateful
for all the sacrifices you made for us, every lesson you taught us, and every laughter you shared with
us. You will forever be my role model, my safe place and my biggest chair leader, thank you for
everything mummy, I will forever miss you, but so grateful that you are watching over us all.
Your love was a constant source of strength as your loving kindness knew no bounds. I am so grateful
for all the sacrifices you made for us, every lesson you taught us, and every laughter you shared with
us. You will forever be my role model, my safe place and my biggest chair leader, thank you for
everything mummy, I will forever miss you, but so grateful that you are watching over us all.
September 14, 2025
Dear mummy,
I delayed writing this tribute because it sealed the finality of something I am still unwilling to accept.
I’m angry that I couldn’t be there, that I couldn’t have done more… but I surrender to the will of God.
And even as I write, I can hear you teasing me, reminding me that I had a temper, while I would always
insist that I was “the calm before the storm.” You knew me better than I knew myself.
You always wanted the very best for me. You gave everything you had and did everything within your
power to make sure I had it. You sacrificed your comfort, your sleep, your resources — all so that I
could stand tall and become the man I am today. You felt all my pains, cried when I cried, rejoiced
when I was happy. Your advice and counsel were priceless. Just one sentence from you was enough
to light up my darkest, most troubled paths.
Mummy, we shared conversations so deep and unusual that no one else could have made sense of
them — yet you always had a way of breaking things down with rare wisdom, simplicity, and grace. I
could always rely on your words to steady me when I was lost.
You were there for me through every struggle. You moved mountains, you sacrificed endlessly, and
you prayed with a fire that never went out. I still remember the nights you stayed awake, calling each
of your children and grandchildren by name, covering us in prayers. You prayed in secret and fought
openly on our behalf. I remember when the doctors gave up on me, but your prayers refused to. God
heard you, and your faith literally brought me back to life.
You were my anchor. You were my strength. Your transition has left a void no one else can fill.
I keep struggling to find the right words to capture how I feel, but Julie won’t stop disturbing me to
send this tribute… (yes, I’m rolling my eyes).
So let me end the way we have always ended the day - Night Night Mummy.
I delayed writing this tribute because it sealed the finality of something I am still unwilling to accept.
I’m angry that I couldn’t be there, that I couldn’t have done more… but I surrender to the will of God.
And even as I write, I can hear you teasing me, reminding me that I had a temper, while I would always
insist that I was “the calm before the storm.” You knew me better than I knew myself.
You always wanted the very best for me. You gave everything you had and did everything within your
power to make sure I had it. You sacrificed your comfort, your sleep, your resources — all so that I
could stand tall and become the man I am today. You felt all my pains, cried when I cried, rejoiced
when I was happy. Your advice and counsel were priceless. Just one sentence from you was enough
to light up my darkest, most troubled paths.
Mummy, we shared conversations so deep and unusual that no one else could have made sense of
them — yet you always had a way of breaking things down with rare wisdom, simplicity, and grace. I
could always rely on your words to steady me when I was lost.
You were there for me through every struggle. You moved mountains, you sacrificed endlessly, and
you prayed with a fire that never went out. I still remember the nights you stayed awake, calling each
of your children and grandchildren by name, covering us in prayers. You prayed in secret and fought
openly on our behalf. I remember when the doctors gave up on me, but your prayers refused to. God
heard you, and your faith literally brought me back to life.
You were my anchor. You were my strength. Your transition has left a void no one else can fill.
I keep struggling to find the right words to capture how I feel, but Julie won’t stop disturbing me to
send this tribute… (yes, I’m rolling my eyes).
So let me end the way we have always ended the day - Night Night Mummy.
September 14, 2025
A tribute to my dearest mum, whose love wrapped around me like the softest lullaby.
I was your baby, and you were my world.
Being your last born was a blessing I’ll forever cherish, held in your arms and guided by your heart.
Though you’re gone, your devotion lives in every heartbeat of mine.
You were my pillar, my strength, my greatest supporter, I slept soundly knowing that you were always
up praying for me.
My gist partner, my gossip partner, my ever so wise adviser, who do I run to now to pour out my heart.
The matriarch of not just the Aghanti dynasty, but to every group and community you were affiliated
with. Your passing has left an enormous void that absolutely nothing can fill.
Mummy, you were taken away from me, from us, just too soon, there were still so many memories to
be made. I miss you so dearly, every single day.
I take comfort knowing that you are resting with our maker, away from the chaos, the pains and the
struggles of this world.
I take comfort in knowing that you live on through every one of us and generations to come.
I take comfort in the legacy you have left behind…
Rest well, my prayerful, caring, selfless and gorgeous mummy, you will forever remain in my heart
I was your baby, and you were my world.
Being your last born was a blessing I’ll forever cherish, held in your arms and guided by your heart.
Though you’re gone, your devotion lives in every heartbeat of mine.
You were my pillar, my strength, my greatest supporter, I slept soundly knowing that you were always
up praying for me.
My gist partner, my gossip partner, my ever so wise adviser, who do I run to now to pour out my heart.
The matriarch of not just the Aghanti dynasty, but to every group and community you were affiliated
with. Your passing has left an enormous void that absolutely nothing can fill.
Mummy, you were taken away from me, from us, just too soon, there were still so many memories to
be made. I miss you so dearly, every single day.
I take comfort knowing that you are resting with our maker, away from the chaos, the pains and the
struggles of this world.
I take comfort in knowing that you live on through every one of us and generations to come.
I take comfort in the legacy you have left behind…
Rest well, my prayerful, caring, selfless and gorgeous mummy, you will forever remain in my heart
September 14, 2025
With eyes filled with tears and sadness I'm writing this, though not easy but your memory stays with
me, a bittersweet refrain,
A reminder of love, laughter, and the joy you brought to my life.
Though you're no longer here, your impact remains,
A legacy of kindness, compassion, and unwavering love that still sustains.
In your absence, there's a vacuum that can't be filled,
a silence that echoes with memories that are still so real.
I cherish every moment with you, the stories told,
the lessons you taught, and the love that never grew old.
Your strength and resilience in the face of life's challenges
Inspire me still and guide me through life's uncertain passages.
Though you're gone, your love and legacy live on,
A guiding light that shines bright, brightening my path, and never gone.
Rest in peace mommy, your memory will be a blessing,
A treasured keepsake that I'll hold close, and never let go of, or forget.
May your soul find eternal peace and love,
And may your memory continue to inspire and guide me from above. I promise to make you proud
and not let go of your teachings. I love you forever sweet mommy.
me, a bittersweet refrain,
A reminder of love, laughter, and the joy you brought to my life.
Though you're no longer here, your impact remains,
A legacy of kindness, compassion, and unwavering love that still sustains.
In your absence, there's a vacuum that can't be filled,
a silence that echoes with memories that are still so real.
I cherish every moment with you, the stories told,
the lessons you taught, and the love that never grew old.
Your strength and resilience in the face of life's challenges
Inspire me still and guide me through life's uncertain passages.
Though you're gone, your love and legacy live on,
A guiding light that shines bright, brightening my path, and never gone.
Rest in peace mommy, your memory will be a blessing,
A treasured keepsake that I'll hold close, and never let go of, or forget.
May your soul find eternal peace and love,
And may your memory continue to inspire and guide me from above. I promise to make you proud
and not let go of your teachings. I love you forever sweet mommy.
September 14, 2025
My dearest sister, Philomena,
Today, my heart is heavy as I stand to say goodbye to you, my eldest sister, and the first of us to leave
this world. You were a woman of striking beauty and grace—ebony, tall, and elegant. But to me, you
were so much more than just a big sister; you were my mother figure, my guiding light.
A`er our own mother passed away, you stepped into that role with selfless love and open arms.
Providing both financial, moral and mo]va]onal support.
I was never hungry at your home. I found a safe haven in your home with you and your husband
before I began my own family. I will never forget the ]me we shared, and how much it meant to me
to help you care for your children, strengthening a bond that was already so deep.
You were a woman of great substance, a devoted wife, and a hardworking individual. I always
admired your dedica]on to your work at Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, where you built a life with
your husband. Though your children—Hellen, Julie, Angela, Gloria, Emmanuel, and Peter—live far
away in London, you remained a constant presence in their lives, rooted in the home you built.
The same way you kept contact , care and communica]on with your younger sister as if were your
own children even while at our matrimonial home with full grown children .
My heart is broken, but it is also filled with immense gra]tude for the love you gave. You were a pillar
of strength and a source of wisdom for me and for our en]re family. I will cherish the memories we
have and the legacy of care and devo]on you le` behind.
Rest in peace, my dear sister. I will miss you always.
Today, my heart is heavy as I stand to say goodbye to you, my eldest sister, and the first of us to leave
this world. You were a woman of striking beauty and grace—ebony, tall, and elegant. But to me, you
were so much more than just a big sister; you were my mother figure, my guiding light.
A`er our own mother passed away, you stepped into that role with selfless love and open arms.
Providing both financial, moral and mo]va]onal support.
I was never hungry at your home. I found a safe haven in your home with you and your husband
before I began my own family. I will never forget the ]me we shared, and how much it meant to me
to help you care for your children, strengthening a bond that was already so deep.
You were a woman of great substance, a devoted wife, and a hardworking individual. I always
admired your dedica]on to your work at Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, where you built a life with
your husband. Though your children—Hellen, Julie, Angela, Gloria, Emmanuel, and Peter—live far
away in London, you remained a constant presence in their lives, rooted in the home you built.
The same way you kept contact , care and communica]on with your younger sister as if were your
own children even while at our matrimonial home with full grown children .
My heart is broken, but it is also filled with immense gra]tude for the love you gave. You were a pillar
of strength and a source of wisdom for me and for our en]re family. I will cherish the memories we
have and the legacy of care and devo]on you le` behind.
Rest in peace, my dear sister. I will miss you always.
September 14, 2025
Your death was a very big shock to me. When we were chahng on Christmas day 25th of December,
2024, you didn’t inform me that you were leaving us on the 29th of that same year. Oh death you
have done your worst. Sister, I am very proud of you because of the life you lived on earth. A`er the
death of our mother, three of us were taken to our mummy’s side (Agbor-Obi) while you alone were
le` in our daddy’s house Egbudu Akah to face the reali]es of life. When eventually I was brought
back to Egbudu by our dad, I heard a lot from people how squarely you faced the ups and downs
there. Sister, you were one in a million. We miss you much but God knows why it has happened this
way. Keep res]ng in the bosom of the Lord ]ll we meet to part no more.
2024, you didn’t inform me that you were leaving us on the 29th of that same year. Oh death you
have done your worst. Sister, I am very proud of you because of the life you lived on earth. A`er the
death of our mother, three of us were taken to our mummy’s side (Agbor-Obi) while you alone were
le` in our daddy’s house Egbudu Akah to face the reali]es of life. When eventually I was brought
back to Egbudu by our dad, I heard a lot from people how squarely you faced the ups and downs
there. Sister, you were one in a million. We miss you much but God knows why it has happened this
way. Keep res]ng in the bosom of the Lord ]ll we meet to part no more.
September 14, 2025
Memory grows and memories fades but your memories never go away. You were kind hearted,
selfless in thoughts and in deeds to family and friends alike, a mother that loved and prayed for
everyone because your countenance was to see that everyone around you is successful. Our tears
remind us of your life, how you shared your love with everyone.
Indeed you have fought a good fight of faith, and we will miss you dearly. May your gentle soul rest in
peace ]ll eternity.
selfless in thoughts and in deeds to family and friends alike, a mother that loved and prayed for
everyone because your countenance was to see that everyone around you is successful. Our tears
remind us of your life, how you shared your love with everyone.
Indeed you have fought a good fight of faith, and we will miss you dearly. May your gentle soul rest in
peace ]ll eternity.
September 14, 2025
My grandmother, yet everyone’s keystone. One I overlooked, who now overlooks me alongside our
father [God]. Her boundless love for us all, engraves an everlas]ng love I, and all, have for her - deep
in our hearts. Undoubtedly forever.
father [God]. Her boundless love for us all, engraves an everlas]ng love I, and all, have for her - deep
in our hearts. Undoubtedly forever.
September 14, 2025
The light to our darkness, the strength to our weakness, Grandma. Your presence alone had a
posi]ve effect on all of those around you. Your caring soul le` not one man unaaended to and now
it’s your turn as you transcend into paradise. Goodbye Grandma.
posi]ve effect on all of those around you. Your caring soul le` not one man unaaended to and now
it’s your turn as you transcend into paradise. Goodbye Grandma.
September 14, 2025
Dear Grandma
Thank you for raising my father to be the brilliant role model he is for me and my brother, allowing us
to prosper further within our own lives through the values you instilled in him. Thank you also for
raising brilliant aunties and uncle, who have had a vibrant impact on my life. Your excellent character
will be remembered throughout our lives and will continue to inspire us all.
Rest in peace Grandma. May God care for your soul in Heaven.
Thank you for raising my father to be the brilliant role model he is for me and my brother, allowing us
to prosper further within our own lives through the values you instilled in him. Thank you also for
raising brilliant aunties and uncle, who have had a vibrant impact on my life. Your excellent character
will be remembered throughout our lives and will continue to inspire us all.
Rest in peace Grandma. May God care for your soul in Heaven.
September 14, 2025
Dear Grandma
Thank you for everything you have done for our family. Thank you for raising my dad and the rest of
my Aunties and Uncle, making them the best people. Your kindness and love was so special to all of
us. As we go through our chapters in life, we will remember you and everything you have done for us.
Rest in peace Grandma, as God keeps you safe in heaven.
Thank you for everything you have done for our family. Thank you for raising my dad and the rest of
my Aunties and Uncle, making them the best people. Your kindness and love was so special to all of
us. As we go through our chapters in life, we will remember you and everything you have done for us.
Rest in peace Grandma, as God keeps you safe in heaven.
September 14, 2025
Dear grandma,
We know that you can see us up in heaven and we want you to see us excel in our work and to be
proud of us. I want you to have eternal happiness in heaven with our Lord Jesus Christ, and his
kingdom up in the skies. You may not be here physically, but you are spiritually. Your golden spirit is
in our hearts forever.
We know that you can see us up in heaven and we want you to see us excel in our work and to be
proud of us. I want you to have eternal happiness in heaven with our Lord Jesus Christ, and his
kingdom up in the skies. You may not be here physically, but you are spiritually. Your golden spirit is
in our hearts forever.
September 14, 2025
Dear Grandma,
I’ve been missing you. I love the way you always smiled at me. Grandma the life that we had was
amazing and I had an amazing life with you. I know you’re now a beautiful angel and may the Lord
bless you; we love you and we will always remember you. Grandma, you are a member of our family.
I hope you’re okay and I know you are safe with God.
I’ve been missing you. I love the way you always smiled at me. Grandma the life that we had was
amazing and I had an amazing life with you. I know you’re now a beautiful angel and may the Lord
bless you; we love you and we will always remember you. Grandma, you are a member of our family.
I hope you’re okay and I know you are safe with God.
Family tree
Emmanuel
Hannah
Alphonsus
Helen
Children
Mark
Micheal
Julie
Emma
Children
Zuriel
Zephan
Angela
Peter
Gloria
Children
Nathan
Nathalia
Alphonsus
Helen
Mark
Micheal
Julie
Emma
Zuriel
Zephan
Angela
Peter
Gloria
Nathan
Nathalia
Philomena Aghanti
Favorites
What was Phil's favorite Quote?
Time and Tide waits for no man | You can take a horse to the river but you can't force it to drink water
What was Phil's favorite Movie?
Tom and Jerry | Emmanuel TV | Arise News
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What was Phil's happy place?
Church | Omugwo | On the sofa with the TV remote | On the phone with her children and grandchildren.
What was Phil's favorite Hymn?
Blessed Assurance | It is well with my soul | Draw me nearer, nearer unto to thee
What was Phil's favorite music?
Hosanna in the Highest | Glory to the Father, Son & Holy Ghost |
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