Perminder Kaur Anderson, 'Pam'
I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I’d like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun;
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done." Anon
Obituary
After a long period of illness during early 2022, our beautiful and loving Pam was diagnosed with severe liver complications. Despite her health improving during 2023, enjoying her own wedding and proud to see her daughter married, she became ill again in April this year, and was admitted to hospital in May. After multiple rounds of treatment, she was moved to intensive care, where she then recovered sufficiently to transfer to a specialist clinic. Sadly, further complications arose, and she was transferred into palliative care where she slipped away, listening to her favourite music, and surrounded by her loved ones.
Mrs. Perminder Kaur Anderson, (nee Sanghera, formerly Tutter), beloved wife and mother, passed peacefully in her sleep, in hospital, with her family at her bedside.
The funeral events were concluded on 31st July, with the Sahaj Paath Bhog. The family will advise when the Memorial event is scheduled.
Please note the Donate section of the site has now been closed. Thank you for your contributions. The charities have each been paid a quarter of the proceeds. If you still wish to donate, please do so direct. Her nominated charities are:
Crisis, Water Aid, Khalsa Aid, Mind
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Pam lived a life of Laughter, Love, Kindness, Strength, Beauty and Dignity.
Together we worked, travelled, lived, loved, supported and cherished each other for 10-years.
We overcame many challenges, and celebrated our achievements.
It was my total honour to become her husband, and in the end to be with her, night and day, to ease her passing.
Please join me in showing Pam the love and respect she earned through her integrity, by posting your memories here.
With all my love, mi corazon, Matt
Together we worked, travelled, lived, loved, supported and cherished each other for 10-years.
We overcame many challenges, and celebrated our achievements.
It was my total honour to become her husband, and in the end to be with her, night and day, to ease her passing.
Please join me in showing Pam the love and respect she earned through her integrity, by posting your memories here.
With all my love, mi corazon, Matt
August 19, 2024
Dear Pam, we met together with Matt couple of years ago during more than a year. I still remember your professionalism (I learned from you) your wide knowmedge and kindness.
I will also never forget the good time we shared during/after work with Matt in Belgium and in the UK in London and Swindon. I sincerely miss knowing that you've gone.
I wish Matt, his family & friends all the best at this terribly difficult time.
I will also never forget the good time we shared during/after work with Matt in Belgium and in the UK in London and Swindon. I sincerely miss knowing that you've gone.
I wish Matt, his family & friends all the best at this terribly difficult time.
August 5, 2024
Dear Pam, you brought a light into our family and a light into Uncle Matt's eyes that was so special. You were so kind, funny, generous and loving. I will miss you so much. All my love, Sophie xx
July 24, 2024
I only knew Pam for the last year or so through work, but she was such a bright & friendly person - it was always a genuine pleasure to chat with her - and it was so sad to hear the news- I wanted to pass on my deepest sympathy to all her friends & family at this difficult time.
July 23, 2024
Pam’s brightening personality and energy would bring such clarity to the work that I, Matt and Pam undertook during the time we shared Atos. Always smiling with buckets of positivity and empathy. I’m am deeply saddened by this news. She was taken too soon. Deepest condolences to you Matt, and the entire family. Prayers from us all.
Assad & Family
Assad & Family
July 23, 2024
Rest in peace dear one into the arms of the heavenly father.
Heartfelt condolences to Matt and the entire family,
May her sweet soul rest in peace amen!
Heartfelt condolences to Matt and the entire family,
May her sweet soul rest in peace amen!
July 19, 2024
You taught me so much, stepping in and up when others didn't, and helping me to do the same. I became a better manager and a better person because of you. And I know how proud you'd be of me now. I'll think of you often as I move in to my new role, and will cherish the memories, just sad that there weren't more.
And my love to you Matt, as you forge a new future. It's hard to imagine you without Pam, I know you will never forget her, and that you'll feel totally broken right now, but if I can be any part of the moving forward, there's a good pub I know of :-)
Nathalie (Honda/ATOS)
And my love to you Matt, as you forge a new future. It's hard to imagine you without Pam, I know you will never forget her, and that you'll feel totally broken right now, but if I can be any part of the moving forward, there's a good pub I know of :-)
Nathalie (Honda/ATOS)
July 19, 2024
Oh lovely Pam! You were a ray of sunshine and will be sorely missed by all those who loved you. I still remember the warm, dare I say bubbly, welcome to Atos (Origin) - as it was back then, back in 2005 when a bunch of fresh grads joined the Nottingham gang! You made us feel perfectly at home from day one. Then later when we worked together in 2018/19 on Honda and Matt too. We were a great team and your enthusiasm and commitment was at the very heart of everything we accomplished. I will miss you dearly but may you rest in peace and cherish eternity in the heavens, looking down and protecting the ones you loved.
All my love,
Graham x
All my love,
Graham x
July 17, 2024
My dearest darling friend Pam - we have known one another since 2011 when we attended the same training course at Atos! We clicked instantly and then hung out all the time, spending many nights out in bars and restaurants in a London! We didn’t speak all the time but when we did, I felt that instant connection with you!
You truely were a beautiful soul - so gentle and kind! You excelled at work and were well respected. An amazing mum to your two children and a wonderful wife to Matt.
I am going to miss you a lot - we never got around to planning our catch up, but I’m glad for the opportunity to spend some time with you at your daughter’s wedding last year and so is Amit.
Xxxxx rest in peace my darling friend x love Niyati x
You truely were a beautiful soul - so gentle and kind! You excelled at work and were well respected. An amazing mum to your two children and a wonderful wife to Matt.
I am going to miss you a lot - we never got around to planning our catch up, but I’m glad for the opportunity to spend some time with you at your daughter’s wedding last year and so is Amit.
Xxxxx rest in peace my darling friend x love Niyati x
July 17, 2024
Hello my darling sister,
Your storybook has been full of love, courage, laughter laced with adversities which you have overcome with pure strength and determination. You are a true human being and a real life hero.
https://youtu.be/6cedWvuxwbc?si=pbqto1U6xx7us0Pz
Until we meet in the next chapter,
Sleep well my little one xx
Your storybook has been full of love, courage, laughter laced with adversities which you have overcome with pure strength and determination. You are a true human being and a real life hero.
https://youtu.be/6cedWvuxwbc?si=pbqto1U6xx7us0Pz
Until we meet in the next chapter,
Sleep well my little one xx
July 16, 2024
Darling mama,
We are so lucky to have been able to spend the last 30 years with you. We have countless memories with you, but the overriding one will be the feeling of constant love and support - our biggest cheerleader.
Love you immensely and ever so proud of everything you have achieved in life… you have been more than a daughter & son could ask for. Our love always, Sapphire and Areese xx
We are so lucky to have been able to spend the last 30 years with you. We have countless memories with you, but the overriding one will be the feeling of constant love and support - our biggest cheerleader.
Love you immensely and ever so proud of everything you have achieved in life… you have been more than a daughter & son could ask for. Our love always, Sapphire and Areese xx
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