In Loving Memory of Paula Nancy Harris (Adams)
“Those we love never truly leave us. Their memory lives on in the stories we share, the lessons they taught us, and the love they gave so freely.”
Obituary
With deep sadness and loving remembrance, we announce the passing of Paula Nancy Harris - maiden name Paula Nancy Adams who passed away on April 17, 2026, at her residence in Coachella, California, following cardiopulmonary arrest.
Paula was a gentle and caring soul whose kindness touched the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know her. She had a quiet strength, a warm heart, and a natural way of making people feel welcomed, valued, and loved. Whether through a thoughtful conversation, a comforting presence, or a simple act of generosity, Paula created meaningful connections that will never be forgotten.
She treasured her family deeply and devoted herself to the people she loved with patience, compassion, and unwavering support. Friends admired her loyalty and sincerity, while neighbors and colleagues appreciated her thoughtful nature and the calm encouragement she brought into everyday life. Paula had a special gift for bringing people together and making ordinary moments feel memorable.
The loss of Paula leaves an immeasurable emptiness in the hearts of those who loved her, but her memory will continue to live on through the countless lives she touched, the love she shared, and the lasting impact of her gentle spirit.
Paula is survived by her brother, Erp Purcell; her daughter, Jennifer Campbell; and her son, Joshua Harris. She is also survived by her cherished granddaughters, Lily Keller and Daisy Keller, as well as seven beloved nieces and nephews-in-law.
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Please see attached Slideshow from the Celebration of Life.
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When I first met Paula, some thirteen years ago, I noticed her kindness right away—a gentle presence who made a home feel warm and steady. But over time, I came to see the full picture: someone who had lived boldly—from riding motorcycles in the desert and even partying with Led Zeppelin and befreinding Jimmy Page, to a love of any and all racing where she felt most alive—from the roar of drag races to the thrill of Formula One. She carried both strength and warmth so effortlessly, and she was truly a force in her own right — full of life, strength, and a presence that stayed with you.
They say that "listening is an act of love," and if that is true, then Paula loved us more than words could ever express. She was the ultimate "safe harbor “someone who let you be your messiest self without ever making you feel small for it.
For me, the true heart of our home was found at the dinner table.
After I’d walk through the door and we finally settled in for a meal, the day would just come pouring out. I would vent to her about everything—the quirks of the office, or those challenging client calls that tested my patience. Every soaring high, every crushing low, and every mundane moment in between.
She never judged. She never offered unsolicited criticism. Over plates of food and the quiet of the evening, she simply listened. In a world that is always rushing to give an opinion, Paula was the gentle silence where you finally felt understood.
Paula didn’t have to raise her voice to be the strongest person in the room. Her presence alone was a stabilizing force for all of us. When the world felt chaotic, we looked to her, and her calmness became our own.
There is a wonderful quote that reminds me of Paula
“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
Paula made us feel capable. She made us feel heard. She made us feel strong.
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