Patsy Lorna Palmer (Aunty Patsy)

First, let me apologize for my absence due to reasons beyond my control.

Today, I pay tribute to my late great principal, Aunty Patsy. She was more than a principal to me—she called me her son. She remains one of my greatest inspirations, and whatever success I have is deeply indebted to her. She held my hand and guided me along the path to who I am today. I still live by her words: “All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads to poverty.” I may not be rich—but I am okay… (and I can hear her smiling at that).
One of my fondest memories of Aunty Patsy was during my time at Praise Tab. As a practical teacher, I was teaching simple and complex machines, so I brought in a wheelbarrow and Uncle Andrew’s bicycle for demonstration. When she saw me on camera with that bike, she came blazing— “Mr. Walters, no, no! Take that dirty bike out of my school! I don’t want the students to pick up any virus!” I froze, immediately obeying her instructions.
But later, after reviewing my lesson plan and understanding the purpose, she called me into her office and apologized. That moment taught me a powerful lesson: always be willing to say sorry when you’re wrong. It also showed me just how fiercely she protected her students—she would put her life on the line for them.
One thing about Aunty Patsy—she could switch from calm to commanding in seconds, and you never saw it coming! One minute she was gently quoting scripture and smiling, and the next minute, just the sound of her footsteps in the hallway, and a bang of the paddle could straighten your posture and fix your attitude instantly.
She had this special “look” that could silence an entire room without her saying a word—but somehow, five minutes later, she’d be cracking a joke or calling you into her office just to make sure you were okay. And the funny part? Even when she scolded you, you couldn’t stay upset, because deep down you knew it came from love—and she probably had you laughing about it before you even left her office.
Aunty Patsy was kind, committed, and always found a way to whisper a word from the Bible just when you needed it most. She constantly encouraged me to write and publish my own mathematics book. I may not have accomplished that in her lifetime, but I will fulfill her wish. And when we meet again, she can say, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”
Rest well, Aunty Patsy. I love you. This is written with tears in my eyes—but I know you would not want to see me cry.

Marvin Walters (Math Guru)

Thank you for the seeds you have planted in my life Aunty Patsy. From I was a baby, you taught me the Word of God at Sunday school or Saturday at Kids Praise. These memories are unforgettable. You transformed so many young people’s lives. I’m certain your crown in heaven is filled with many beautiful jewels. The word you planted in my heart has lead to other saved souls each time I’ve shared it. I really cannot believe you are gone, it feels so heavy. But! When I think of how happy you are now, it’s selfish of me to want you to be here. Rest in peace in beautiful paradise!! Indeed, how beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace. Love you and miss you so much Aunty P!🥹❤️ I’m so sorry I couldn’t be there to dance in honor of your life. But thank you for always fueling me to dance for Jesus❤️🙏

Photos: Aunty P blessing my son Jacob

A Tribute to Dr. Palmer: My "Aunty Patsy"

There are people God places in our lives who act as anchors when we are drifting, and for me, that anchor was Dr. Palmer—my beloved Aunty Patsy.

She didn’t just teach me Sunday School; she taught me how to find my voice at a time when I felt completely lost.

At 14, I wasn't easy to love. I was defiant, we rarely saw eye-to-eye, and my words were often unkind when I didn't get my way. Yet, where others might have turned their backs, Aunty Patsy stood her ground. Alongside the late Aunty Louis Berry—who we remember fondly today—she showed me I was important. Whether it was them buying me my very first Bible or Aunty Patsy making sure a Samaritan’s Purse box was reserved specifically for me even when I wasn't there, she made sure I knew I was seen.
She taught me the hard lessons: that my actions had consequences and that discipline and love are not mutually exclusive. Even when she had to correct me, her door remained open. She was the one who led me to Christ, and even when I strayed from God’s will, her disappointment never diminished her devotion. Her love was so steadfast that she stood by me as the Godmother to my first child, a testament to a bond that outlasted my mistakes.
Aunty Patsy was the epitome of what God intended a human being to be—a constant source of "gems" and wisdom. Her final words to me were a simple command: "Go and get married." For once, I chose not to be defiant, and I am so happy I listened.
I thank God for the life of Dr. Palmer. I thank Him for her patience, her resilience, and her unchanging love. She didn't just teach the Word; she lived it, and in doing so, she changed the trajectory of my life forever, sleep in God's love my dear Aunty Patsy.

It’s hard to find the right words, but I’m truly grateful for the impact she had on the school and its students. She led with strength, care, and dedication, and her presence made a difference in so many lives. She will always be remembered with respect and appreciation.

To be under Aunty Patsy’s watchful eye was to be loved. I’ve never met a more caring woman, pastor, principal, mother and I’m so grateful to have experienced her vigor and passion while I did. As a principal she inspired me to have integrity and ambition, and her teachings have carried me through the ups and downs of my life. Seeing Aunty Patsy at any given time brought the most joyous feeling into my heart.
While we grieve I’m grateful to know that she has gone home and had lived her life and loved with all her heart.
Thank you Aunty Patsy, I wouldn’t be who I am without you. ❤️

I have had the great privilege of meeting Dr. Pastor Palmer over 28 years ago.when I came to Praise Tabernacle Church. I have been blessed with her being my two children's Sunday school Pastor and her many challenges with them. Auntie Patsy ,affectionately called by all of us was up to the challenges. When I think of those days I smile. A firm disciplinarian, one never get away with disrespect nor rudeness without repremand or counseling. DIspite that seemingly tough exterior ,she loved and cared and would always go the extra mile for "all her children "and those who come in contact with her .
Auntie Patsy helped to shape two generations of my family, for which I am eternally grateful. My grandchild Daneel two years old , not yet patty trained was one of the students that started Praise Tab Christian Academy followed by her brother few years after.
I always remember back in that time during morning worship listening to those seventeen children worship it gave me goose pimples.
Over the years I have been encouraged and blessed by her sermons she preached , advice given, and just sharing life stories at times.
Pastor Palmer, educator, mother to many children, spiritual advisor, teacher,and the many other caps she wore. She has left a legacy that cannot be replaced. She will live on in all the lives of the children and families she helped to mold in a Godly way as it passes down to the other generations. God gave her to us to fulfill His Purpose in the earth. Having completed her task God called her home. She was well loved and will be greatly missed by my family and many others

Rest in Eternal Peace Auntie Patsy.

Though her spirit has gone back to her Maker, the memories remain with the ones that she has impacted. As her former student who has been recently baptized, I can confidently say that Aunty Patsy played a role in my walk with God. I still remember her drilling Romans 8:37 and Deuteronomy 28:13 in our heads each day at school. The woman that I am today is because of her as well. She never gave up on us. Although her death seemed sudden and sad, she is not suffering anymore. Another soldier is being laid to rest, and I believe that all of Hell is rejoicing because she is out of the fight, but she has planted many seeds and because of her obedience to Christ, others will follow Him. Until the King comes back for His people, she will be greatly missed.

A Tower of Strength,
A Balm in Gilead,
A Shelter from the storm,
A Mother to the Motherless,
A Mom,
A sister,
A Pastor,
A Principal,
A renegade,
A knight in shining armor,
An army unto herself,
One who defies the odds,
A loving friend,
A rough-neck disciplinarian,
A 'take-it-or-leave-it' / 'Deal or no Deal / Stand your Ground type of
person.
A warm, caring, soft hearted, empath of a person, whose heart beats to the needs of others... but tucked deep within a seemingly impenetrable exterior,
My friend,
My confidant,
My Mentor,
Gone.. in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye.
Not here today but remembered forever!
Sleep well beloved. Sleep and take your rest.
...Love always.

Faithful Servant and a Master Teacher
Dr Palmer leadership characterised by a steadfast heart and a compassionate hand. She demonstrated a life of integrity, holiness, and unwavering love for the Saviour by walking with the broken-hearted, celebrating with the ebullient, and embodying these qualities.

As an educator Dr Palmer recognised the potential of each student, not only as a learner but as a masterpiece of God. She has imparted more than just academic knowledge; she also instilled confidence, inquiring and character because of her many generations of young minds are now more adequately equipped to navigate the world.

She will forever emains embedded in my heart.

According to Matthew 25:23 "Well done, good and faithful Servant."
We weep, but not as those without hope, for we know you are resting in the embrace of the Lord you served so faithfully.!

The trail blazer for education and the gospel of Jesus.
She had special love for children, the way she loved children, took them in an rasied them as her own, she was kind and loving and a kind soul when it comes on to disciple she was firm she believe in children having respect an good morals she was loved by many especially children she was a God fearing person
Sip aunty patsy
Your memories and your legacy will always live on

Thankful, Grateful and Blessed.
I am Thankful that Aunt Pasty had opened her home in Montego Bay, Jamaica to support me and many others in enuerable acts kindness.
I am Grateful for her unending work in Children's ministry which extended from Kids Praise into Praise Tabernacle.
I was Blessed by her dedication and devotion that never ceased even in the midst of persecution.
I am Thankful, Grateful and Blessed, that her legacy will live on in the lives of everyone she reached with the Gospel.
To God be the Glory.

My condolences to the family members of Aunty Patsy. Aunty Patsy lived a meaningful life that impacted many people from the young to the elderly. In addition, she was thoughtful and caring to me ( miss O'Connor) I can remember when I was sick, and was admitted to ward 1 everyone knows Aunty Patsy don't like the hospital and she sent flowers delivered to my station by a delivery person just for me and that brought joy to my eyes and truly didn't expect that kind gesture from her. I remembered how Aunty Patsy, Aunty Jean,the church family and school family prayed for me and for that I am very grateful. Rest in peace Aunty Patsy you are truly remembered and love by many people and now that you are in a better place sleep well.

You will truly be missed, Aunty Patsy.

A strong disciplinarian, a powerful and visionary leader, and a woman who dedicated her life to shaping young minds. Your influence reached far beyond the classroom, leaving a lasting impact on every child and family you encountered, my daughters, Jhazara and Zahnaya, included.

Thanks for your unwavering commitment, your guidance, and the foundation you helped to build in so many lives. Your legacy will continue to live on through the countless students you inspired.

To the entire family, please accept our deepest and most sincere condolences during this difficult time. We pray that God grants you comfort, strength, and peace in the days ahead.

Rest well, Aunty Patsy. Your work here is done, and your impact will never be forgotten.

Dr. Patsy Palmer, our beloved “Aunty Patsy.” I hardly know where to begin. I could talk about Kids Praise, puppetry productions, dowel rod performances, dancing, poetry pieces, clowning, her quick wit and humour or I could simply start with who she was as a person.

We shared what I would call a unique relationship, one which has growth in it. She was a strong, resolute individual, someone who stood firmly in her beliefs, even when we didn’t always agree. Still, I admired her for that unwavering spirit. I loved her for her authenticity, even if I sometimes struggled with the fact that she might have been right… at least “some” of the time.

One thing I will never forget is her vision of opening a school. When my son Kristoff graduated as valedictorian from his pre-prep school and it was time to move on, I didn’t even apply elsewhere. Praise Tab Christian Academy wasn’t yet open, but I had faith that something would work out. I remember when my friend Randia Scott asked where I planned to send him, and I confidently said, “Aunty Patsy’s school.” She thought I was joking, but I encouraged her to consider it for her daughter as well. Sure enough, Kristoff became one of the school’s founding students; I vaguely remember eight or nine students. It could only have been God’s doing. I have never regretted that decision. I was proud that he was grounded in a Christian education, especially one connected to our church family.

Aunty Patsy brought so much joy into our lives. I think of VBS days, scripture competitions (where we learned more verses than we ever thought possible), and singing songs like “Mi Nah Lef Mi Yaad Wid Out Mi Weapon.” And of course, dressing up as clowns for the children, those were the moments I saw a side of her I deeply connected with, because I too love laughter and sharing joy. (This is where her quick wit and humour came into play).

I feel truly blessed that my family and I knew her - my sons Kyle (now deceased),] and Kristoff, my sister Kerry Ann, my brothers, and my late mother. She held a special place in Kristoff’s heart, and he in hers. It was evident every time they met, her face would brighten, her spirit would grow tender, and she would welcome him with the warmest embrace. Now Kristoff is grieving deeply, but he is leaning on God’s strength, understanding that this is a part of life.

Aunty Patsy, I will never forget you. The day I heard of your passing was one of the hardest days of my life. I was at work, in shock and disbelief. But I trust that everything happens for a reason. Life is short, and none of us knows our appointed time. Still, I find comfort in knowing that you are at rest, in the presence of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. And to anyone reading this who doesn’t know Jesus, my hope and prayer is that you turn to Him and give your life to Him while you still have the opportunity. Aunty Patsy is now resting in the arms of Jesus.

Aunty Patsy, thank you for the lasting impact you made on my life, my family, and the many children you nurtured through your teaching. You will always be loved, deeply missed, and forever remembered.
God, thank You for blessing us with her, even for a time. Her assignment is completed. Amen!

Karen, Kristoff & family

It is with profound sadness that I write to convey my deepest condolences to the family of Rev Patsy Palmer her church family and Rev Jean Clerk at the sudden passing of this Stalwart in the kingdom of God ‘.
In the early years of Love and Hope Ministries Rev Palmer along Rev ,’Clarke would give us 100% support in our fundraising banquet setting the stage for supporting our at risk children in our Primary Schools .
I value those days and effort shown. .
It was the Saturday before her passing I saw her in the plaza we had a long conversation and she filled me in on the successes of family etc
Never knew it was the last time after not seeing her for a very long time .
I am consoled however of this fact ‘To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord . ‘
Rest well my sister your reward is sure .
Dr. JD Wood and Mabel Wood
Love and Hope Ministries Lahm 8763375646

Today I honor a woman who was more than a pastor she was a blessing in my life. She prayed me into this world, stood in faith with my mother, and helped shape the person I am today.
She instilled discipline in me and always reminded me: “You are the head and not the tail, above and not beneath. You will lend and not borrow. You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.” Those words will stay with me forever.
The last time I saw her, the day before my birthday, she remembered me and told me how proud she was. I will carry that moment with me always.
Rest well, Pastor. Your love, prayers, and impact will never be forgotten 🤍

Patsy Palmer is an extraordinary individual who touched more lives for Jesus Christ than many of us will in our lifetime. She was especially vital in the sspiritual development of my children and my education on how to lead them to the Lord and nurture them in the ways of Jesus Christ.
She will be remembered with great appreciation until we meet above.

My memories of Auntie Patsy are great and will linger for a very long time. Your impact on my daughter, Rachel through Sunday school and camp shaped her life in amazing ways. Today, she is actively involved in church as she brings up her own son.
My admiration for you is great as you touched the lives of so many children in particular. May you rest in peace and God’s light shine on you eternally.

An extraordinary, amazing powerhouse of a woman—Auntie Patsy ❤️
I’m usually a woman of few words, but you always seemed to know exactly when I needed that extra push, those words of encouragement, and the reminder that God is always in control. You gave me grace when I couldn’t give it to myself, and for that, I will forever be grateful.
I feel truly blessed to have crossed paths with such a kind and genuine soul. You knew every child by name (meanwhile, I’m still mixing up my girls’ names 😄), and you showed each of them love, care, and attention like they were your own.
I always looked forward to seeing you—at school, church, prize-giving, sports day, fun day—you were always there, front and center, even asking for your $200 contribution 😄. But beyond all of that, you cared deeply. I wasn’t just another parent to you—you made it personal.
I’m so thankful I got the chance to know you on that level. I’m sad I won’t see you anymore—I truly wasn’t ready. Even now, when my girls have an attitude, I find myself saying, “Is that how you would speak to Auntie Patsy?” The discipline, the love, and the impact you’ve had on them will never fade.
You were the only one who could truly calm my oldest, and that’s something I will never forget.
Thank you for everything. I appreciate you always. You will forever hold a special place in my heart. ❤️ #smithgirls

Today l honor the life of Patsy Palmer, my condolence to all family members, friends and the loved ones I just want everyone who never really no me or understand me in the family that am not a bad person as some of you would think but that’s not why we’re here today we’re here because of someone who we love and share good and sad up and down moments with I wasn’t ready for this news but as time go by I no I will heal in some way but the love I have for her will never fade or die she had my back when I had nothing not even a roof over my dear head she helped me down as if I was her own she helped me with my baby when she was born and I had no roof or food or clothes she stud by her has she grown all the way up to 15 years who could it be but Jesus auntie Patsy is one in a million. She is special. She is one of a kind from what I get from her as a person is that she has helped so many peoples and she has shown so many kids love and support even when some of the kids was rude and mean to her she still never neglected anyone she loves them all just remember that your last words to me will never fade I will always remember your last words when I was on the phone with you the night before your death I can feeling something was off I could hear it in your voice but am sorry I didn’t get the chance to call you back the Same night to check on you before you go to bed I told akelah to call you and check on you because I told her something was off I could feel in in my stomach that something was off I have bin sick five days before you passed and when I told my mom she said probably I drawn to you that’s why I was sick when you passed I get back better I wasn’t sick anymore and I thank you for checking on me even when you was going home and I didn’t know am writing this message with tears but I no that you’re now with your father in heaven and I can’t wait to meet you again to tell you things that I may never get the chance to say but I thank you so much for everything and I promise I will try my best to make sure that your daughter get the best education that you always wanted her to get I can see that she’s a very tuff one to deal with but I will try my best to pick up from were you left of your hard work won’t go in vain you call me anieka and I will never forget that name coming from deep down in my heart I will I could trade my life so you could be here but Jesus knows what’s best I love you unconditionally and respect you a thousands miles away words cannot explain I will see you soon love anieka💐❤️‍🩹🫶🏻💌🧸 I forgot I will always cherish your little teddy puppy I sleep with it beside my bedside table 😔

Today I honor the life of a woman who played such an important role in shaping who I am—my adopted mother, Patsy Palmer.

Our journey together wasn’t always perfect. We had our ups and downs, and there were times when I didn’t fully understand her ways. She was strict, strong, and firm—but as I’ve grown, I’ve come to realize that everything she did came from a place of love. She wanted the best for me, even when it was hard for me to see it.

Mommy was a woman of strength and care. She showed love not just in words, but in her actions—in the guidance she gave, the rules she set, and the way she stood her ground. Those lessons, even the tough ones, have helped shape me into who I am today.

Even though we didn’t always see eye to eye, the love between us was real. And that’s what I will carry with me. I will remember her not just for the strict moments, but for the care behind them, for the role she played in my life, and for the impact she has left on my heart.

Rest in peace, mommy. 
Your love, your strength, and your lessons will never be forgotten.

Aunty Patsy walked with me during my journey as a Christian School Principal. Her love and support for me were without conditions. I'll forever remember her. I'm so blessed to have known her. So blessed. Until we meet again my friend 🕊 until we meet again.

Shana

Dr Patsy Palmer, more affectionally known as Aunty Patsy, helped mold the person I am today through the love, guidance and belief she had in me. She instilled in me that all hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads to poverty and that has stuck with me all these years. As both my Pastor and Principal, she showed me the importance of always believing in myself and working to show myself approved, as well as being a man of the spirit and of integrity. She will be greatly missed but she will never be forgotten. Rest In Peace

Dr. Palmer,a devoted Mother, Preacher, Teacher, Councillor and friend. Known to me through her two daughters Faith and Akelah from Wolmer's Girls. Was a strict disciplinarian who never spares the rod and spoil the child. A loving and caring mother who devotes her time in bringing up her family in the fear and admonition of the Lord. A strong Christian who loves the lord and gives freely to him. An excellent educator who cares and loves those who comes in contact with her. Doc, as I affectionately called her will be missed but not forgotten. Sleep on beloved, sleep and take your rest until we meet again on the other side of the Jordan.

Vice Principal
Wolmer's Girl's School

Aunty Patsy contributed to the man that I am today. She will be greatly missed by my family, everyday I’m reminded that “All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads to poverty.”

Rest in Peace, Dr. Patsy Palmer. 🕊️💔
Today my heart is heavy as I reflect on the incredible woman you were and the unforgettable impact you had on my life. There are some people placed in our lives by God whose love, guidance, and belief in us changes our path forever and for me, you were one of those rare and extraordinary people.
You gave me opportunities that helped shape the very foundation of who I am today. You gave me the honor of being one of the very first students at your school, and later, you trusted me enough to offer me my very first job. Those may have seemed like moments in time, but to me, they were life changing blessings that opened doors and built the man I stand as today.
Because of your influence, your wisdom, your discipline, and your belief in me, I became stronger. I became better. I became the man I am proud to be a father, a son, and a soldier. Your hand is in that. Your love is in that. Your legacy lives in that.
You were more than an educator. More than a mentor. More than a leader. You were a light. A woman of purpose, grace, strength, and vision. You poured into so many lives, and I know without question that I am one of the many who will carry your impact forever.
Though you may be gone from this earth, you will never be gone from my heart. Your name, your lessons, your kindness, and your belief in me will live on in everything I do. I will forever be grateful to have known you, to have learned from you, and to have been loved and guided by you.
Thank you, Aunty Patsy, for helping raise me into the man I am today.
Thank you for seeing something in me.
Thank you for changing my life.
May your beautiful soul rest in eternal peace. You will never be forgotten. 🤍🕊️