Major (Rtd) Patrick Brunoh Muhanji
Muraka(Eden Grove), Kakamega
Major (Rtd) Patrick Brunoh Muhanji
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.
John 14:27
Program
Funeral service Day 1
Friday 27th September 2024
9.00 am-Family and friends assemble at Brunohs home in Muraka
9.30 am-Departure to Kakamega Funeral Palour.
10.30am-Body arrives at Musingu home, with brief viewing of the body and a funeral service conducted by the Quaker Friends Church Musingu.
2.00 pm-Body leaves for Muraka
DAY 2: 28th September 2024
Funeral Service led by the Friends Church
8.00 am - Gathering at the Muraka house
8.30 am - Departure for funeral service at Muraka Primary School
9.00 am: Call to order
-Two hymns
-Scripture reading
-Opening remarks - Church
-Eulogizing / Speeches
A) FAMILY:
-Uncles and aunts
-Brothers and sisters-in law
-Cousins
-Nieces and nephews
-Grandchildren
-Daughters and sons-in law
-Siblings
-Children
-Neighbors
-Widow
B) ADMINISTRATION:
-Assistant Chief
-Professional Colleagues
-Military Colleagues
C) EULOGY
D) CHURCH
E) BURIAL PROCESSION
Eulogy
BIRTH AND EARLY LIFE
Patrick Brunoh Anyula Muhanji was born in 1957 in Musingu Village, Mugomari sub-location, Ilesi location (Isukha West) in Shinyalu Division, Kakamega East sub-county. He was the third born of the late Reuben Steven Muhanji and the late Dinah Inyanya.
He was the father to Steve Reuben Muhanji, Eric Joel Khamadi, Ashlee Mbula Muhanji and Caren Kaeni, grandfather to Stephanie Araya, Sansa Ndamu,Trasme Khamadi; and father-in-law to Lillian Kalela, and Phides Kagendo
He was a brother to George Mongo Muhanji, Rose Achitsa Kubasu, Fred Muhanji, Washington Muhanji, Kenneth Muhanji and Nancy Muhanji.
He was an uncle to Maureen, Collins, Barbra Anne, Mercie, Reuben, Dinah, Francis, Addah Atieno, Phoebe, late Michelle, Debby, Beryl, Ian, Michelle, Steve, Santos, Samantha, Sasha, Fatuma, Saddam, Jeremy and Trevour.
He was a nephew to the late Clara Masitsa, the late Naomi Sakase, the Luvutses, the Alukhavas, the Khamadis, and many more others.
He was a cousin to the Ayekhas, Misigos, Amogolas, Andoves, Murilas, Mudeheris, Mulusas, Alis, Wanenes, Rakamas, Shinalis, Kinaros, Ojiambos, Amunyas, Shihunwas, Shibembes, Otungas, Asoyas and many more.
He was a brother-in-law to David Kubasu, Anna Shirwatso, Grace Akinyi and Elizabeth Omina.
EDUCATION
Brunoh started his education at Musingu Primary School in 1965 and Sat for his C.P.E in 1971 at the then Government Road Primary School. He proceeded to join Olkejuado High School then to Kakamega High School in 1974 where he did his K.C.S.E. In 1977 he sat for his K.A.C.E after which he joined the Kenya Army in 1978.
MILITARY SERVICE
Major (Rtd) Muhanji was enlisted as an Officer Cadet on 22nd May 1978 and after undergoing training at the Armed Forces Training College, graduated as a commissioned officer on 30 March 1979 as a member of Intake 9 that also commissioned colleague officers like General (Rtd) S Mwathethe the former CDF, Ambassador Lieutenant General (Rtd) S Thuita, Major General A Ikenye among others. During his service, he was promoted to several officers’ ranks starting from Second Lieutenant 1979, Lieutenant - 1980, Captain – 1984 and Major – 1987 to 1999.
The late Brunoh as he was popularly known, served in both Command, Staff and Training institutions holding various appointments, among them Platoon Commander 7th Kenya Rifles, Squadron Commander as a helicopter pilot and safety officer in the 50 Air Cavalry Battalion (having trained in the United States of America), Officer Commanding Defence Staff College, Administration. Officer Embakasi Garrison among others. He also served abroad as a United Nations Military Observer in Angola.
Major (Rtd) Muhanji was a hardworking and dedicated officer. This was recognized by his superiors thereby earning several medals among them: Kenyatta Commemoration, Presidential Installation, 20th Anniversary commemoration, 10 Years of Nyayo Era and the United Nations (UNAVEM) Angola medals.
The late Major (Rtd) Muhanji’s career was set to shine but he had other ambitions in life and while serving at the Defence Headquarters, he opted to honorably and voluntarily retire from Service on 3rd November 1999 with 21 years of Service under his belt. After his service in the Kenya Army, Brunoh had an outstanding career as a military and security consultant working for many international agencies and organizations in different parts of the world e.g. Namibia, Siera Leone, Yemen, South Sudan, Iraq, Nigeria etc.
FAMILY LIFE
Brunoh got married to Erika Njeri Hastie in 1983 and they were blessed with children namely Steve, Eric, Ashlee and Kaeni
ILLNESS AND DEATH
Brunoh was born healthy and lived a full and bubbly life. In 1983 he was involved in a helicopter crash in Loitoktok and was one of only two survivors of the crash. He however has lived with a lingering back issue which he has been able to address medically.
On Saturday 14th September he drove himself, as he usually does, from Nairobi to go home (Muraka) where he was to spend histwo weeks work leave with his son and granddaughter. He was in good spirits and spent time with friends and siblings in Musingu and Muraka. On Monday 16th, after a peaceful day and a healthy supper of bushuma (ugali) and chicken that he slaughtered himself, Brunoh retired to bed at around 9:00pm. Unfortunately, Brunoh peacefully passed away in his sleep.
An autopsy conducted on 18th September concluded that he had succumbed to a heart attack.
Brunoh Leaves behind a legacy of gallant service to the nation, community and his family embodied in his favorite quote "Esprit de corps" a French term that means "group spirit" or "spirit of the body". His deep love for his family and friends will continue to inspire all those who had the privilege to interact with him. May his soul rest in eternal peace.
SPIRITUAL LIFE
Brunoh was born a Quaker and grew up as a Quaker man but due to his occupation and numerous engagements he was not able to complete all the Quaker classes. He however immensely contributed to the development and mission of the Quaker Friends Church.
Brunoh was a very prayerful person and always started and ended his day in prayer.
Timeline
1957
May 11th
Birth
He was the third born of the late Reuben Stevenson Muhanji and the late Dinah Inyanya.
1965
Musingu Primary School
Primary Education
1971
Government Road PrimarySchool
Sat his C.P.E
1974
Olkejado and Kakamega High School
Highschool
1978
Joined The Kenya Army
1983
Family Life
Got Married
1999
November 21st
Retired From The Army
Opted to honorably and voluntarily retire from Service , on 3rd November 1999 with 21 years of Service under his belt.
2000
Career as Safety and Security Consultant
Served in various organizations as a Safety and Security Expert
Worldwide
2024
September 16th
He Rested
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Memory wall/Tributes
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September 28, 2024
Heartfelt Condolences to the family.Rest easy Baba Steve
September 28, 2024
Patrick was an authentic man. He spoke his mind and was not afraid to admit when he didn't know something. He treated all people with respect and dignity. He genuinely cared about the welfare and safety of our team. We will miss him dearly!
September 25, 2024
Bruno. Major. What happened? We will miss you. From the Murakaville to the city. From the shores of the oceans to the adrenaline rush of the evacuations and assessment of the situations. From the Military 🪖 to the Humanitarian and Corporate Security world. The tall man with an amazing story and the never ending banter of Manchester United and Liverpool. Born in the same month and almost day, as my son, we were looking forward to the birthdays, both of us were born of ladies called Dinah, and much more. Inauma sana. Inafaa tufanyeje? My heartfelt condolences 🙏 to the Muhanji, vandu va Musingu and Muraka.
September 25, 2024
Uncle..,
We met few times but you left a huge impact in our lives, you were loving,caring and very sophisticated, always fun to be around. I remember when you invited us to your home you treated us like queens that we didn't even want to leave. Though we always met under not so good circumstances, you always made it memorable and embraced us with love. We are saddened that we will never see you again but we mourn with hope that we will be reconnected in heaven. Fare Thee Well Uncle ❤️🕊️
The Wabwile's
We met few times but you left a huge impact in our lives, you were loving,caring and very sophisticated, always fun to be around. I remember when you invited us to your home you treated us like queens that we didn't even want to leave. Though we always met under not so good circumstances, you always made it memorable and embraced us with love. We are saddened that we will never see you again but we mourn with hope that we will be reconnected in heaven. Fare Thee Well Uncle ❤️🕊️
The Wabwile's
September 25, 2024
Eeey Anko I am still trying to internalize all this. I am lost for words I am heartbroken. You would always call me Inyanya!! am traveling to Nairobi are we going together and you would pick me up and drive together. You always made it easy for us to talk and joke with you. Oh! Anko I will miss you so much but for now I pray that you rest in peace.
September 24, 2024
My Dearest Khotsa ,
When you told me you're going home to rest I never imagined you were on your way to your final resting place. HOW!? You were supposed to be here for so much longer!!
My heart is weary, my spirit is broken, my body is numb, but I can only hope and pray that peace has followed you wherever you are. That you are truly resting and that you now have a permanent smile on your face. You had such a beautiful smile khotsa . I can't believe I will not see you or hear your voice again.
You were a second father and a friend. You taught me through words and action what unconditional love of self and others looked like. EVERYTHING you did was rooted in love. Love for country, love for family, love for fine things in life and above all else love for God.
I hope to make you proud. Rest with the angels my dearest khotsa. You're now part of my Schutzengels .
I will always remember you.
I love you today and forever
Inyanya Kubasu
When you told me you're going home to rest I never imagined you were on your way to your final resting place. HOW!? You were supposed to be here for so much longer!!
My heart is weary, my spirit is broken, my body is numb, but I can only hope and pray that peace has followed you wherever you are. That you are truly resting and that you now have a permanent smile on your face. You had such a beautiful smile khotsa . I can't believe I will not see you or hear your voice again.
You were a second father and a friend. You taught me through words and action what unconditional love of self and others looked like. EVERYTHING you did was rooted in love. Love for country, love for family, love for fine things in life and above all else love for God.
I hope to make you proud. Rest with the angels my dearest khotsa. You're now part of my Schutzengels .
I will always remember you.
I love you today and forever
Inyanya Kubasu
September 23, 2024
Baba,
This is the hardest thing I have ever done for you. I thought I was strong until I got to do this, I have so much to say but I don't know how to say it. Baba you have been my rock and my strength, and I don't know how to go about this life without you. Who is going to be reminding us to pray at exactly 9:30, who is going to be wishing us a blessed day every day? Baba who told you this would be easy for me? How I'm I going to learn how to live without you, yet you have been present my whole life? Papa bear, your little girl who is not little anymore is broken. I'm only left with memories and the worst part about it is, it hurts more. The past three weeks the Lord made it all about us. We bonded and grew closer, and I tend to think this was all God's doing and I'm grateful. You have been a great father to my siblings and I, the best babu twiga to your grandkids, the favorite uncle to your nieces and nephews and amazing brother to your siblings. Holidays will never be the same again because we have lost the organizer to all the holidays we have at home. Home will never also be the same because you have left an empty, scary space. I'm heartbroken and I don't know how to heal from this heartbreak. Guide me, hold my hand and walk beside me, you hold the biggest part of my heart, and you showed me nothing but pure love. Watch over us, heaven has truly gained an amazingly incredible person. Until we meet again papa bear.
Kigunyo
This is the hardest thing I have ever done for you. I thought I was strong until I got to do this, I have so much to say but I don't know how to say it. Baba you have been my rock and my strength, and I don't know how to go about this life without you. Who is going to be reminding us to pray at exactly 9:30, who is going to be wishing us a blessed day every day? Baba who told you this would be easy for me? How I'm I going to learn how to live without you, yet you have been present my whole life? Papa bear, your little girl who is not little anymore is broken. I'm only left with memories and the worst part about it is, it hurts more. The past three weeks the Lord made it all about us. We bonded and grew closer, and I tend to think this was all God's doing and I'm grateful. You have been a great father to my siblings and I, the best babu twiga to your grandkids, the favorite uncle to your nieces and nephews and amazing brother to your siblings. Holidays will never be the same again because we have lost the organizer to all the holidays we have at home. Home will never also be the same because you have left an empty, scary space. I'm heartbroken and I don't know how to heal from this heartbreak. Guide me, hold my hand and walk beside me, you hold the biggest part of my heart, and you showed me nothing but pure love. Watch over us, heaven has truly gained an amazingly incredible person. Until we meet again papa bear.
Kigunyo
September 23, 2024
Anyular undeshi mwichendanyama
(translated: Anyular you've left me in the wilderness)
(translated: Anyular you've left me in the wilderness)
September 23, 2024
Bruno Bruno......l have no words to explain......since the old man went then mom followed,u were always there for your siblings......like a chicken protects its chicks.....u have taken care of us,u have been a big pillar in my life,always looking out for me.....u neva ever wanted me to lack......apart from calling u "afande" u were always a brother first....u were ever in my games when l was playing for the National Team whenever Scarlet FC was playing in Naii u never missed my matches,whenever u wanted something when l was going "out" on a National duty.....it was niletee ile kitu,which l deligently brought u......there is so much to write......my last conversation with u on Sato when u came......we will catch up on our Bible study when l come back from Naii on Tuesday....but our Lord had other plans for u......bro go and dance with the angels......u will neva be erased in my mind
September 23, 2024
The King has rested. The glue that binds us together as a family. My brother, my confidant, my provider and cushion, my FRIEND. Ohh!!! Kona ni tsinjerosi in God's heaven. This time my friend, you hit me below the belt...not fair at all. Just....GO WELL!!
September 23, 2024
It is still hard to comprehend that you are no more.You played the father role,listened without judging .You were the the life of every family meeting,Christmas will never be the same again.You were our pillar, now what do we do from here??? I'll forever cherish the moments we spent together. Your legacy will live on. Our guardian angel,watch over us from up there...May you have eternal rest
September 22, 2024
Bruno.... you taught me the words 'kool Koro' You were indeed a cool guy.. I and many loved your big hugs and cheeky smile! I shall miss you.will always remember the drama your Tusker T Shirts delivered @ Lavington 😂😂 you just made us all laugh … 🙏
Years later you lent me your army sleeping bag for my honeymoon which I accidentally damaged but you forgave me.,,
Then many many more years later - a proud moment for me when I introduced Kelsey to you... @ Papas funeral and we eat the roast meat.. with Zee
(you call her Mami Red) peeling garlic with the other ladies... we laughed we shared jokes and lovely friendship and comfort knowing we are all together however heavy that load was with papa’s going.,.
Now with you gone - that’s so soon… too soon but it’s Gods plan. @ my 3am morning wake up … in prayers - I shall remember you …
it's going to be weird.. My Clint Eastwood has gone to rest. Our kool Guy
😢Carol
Years later you lent me your army sleeping bag for my honeymoon which I accidentally damaged but you forgave me.,,
Then many many more years later - a proud moment for me when I introduced Kelsey to you... @ Papas funeral and we eat the roast meat.. with Zee
(you call her Mami Red) peeling garlic with the other ladies... we laughed we shared jokes and lovely friendship and comfort knowing we are all together however heavy that load was with papa’s going.,.
Now with you gone - that’s so soon… too soon but it’s Gods plan. @ my 3am morning wake up … in prayers - I shall remember you …
it's going to be weird.. My Clint Eastwood has gone to rest. Our kool Guy
😢Carol
September 22, 2024
Tribute
For my uncle Bruno,this feels like a dream,I am loss of words ,gone before we knew it
I have so many memories we shared anko,The pop ins you used to make at home anko and you would Say Mmera make me “something hot something sweet”and i knew i had to prepare tea….you made it your responsibility to know how each and everyone of us were doing ,even woke me up at 3am to pray with me on the morning of my visa interview anko….The Muhanji Empire family has lost a leader,mentor,father figure,I will forever cherish all the moments we shared together.
For my uncle Bruno,this feels like a dream,I am loss of words ,gone before we knew it
I have so many memories we shared anko,The pop ins you used to make at home anko and you would Say Mmera make me “something hot something sweet”and i knew i had to prepare tea….you made it your responsibility to know how each and everyone of us were doing ,even woke me up at 3am to pray with me on the morning of my visa interview anko….The Muhanji Empire family has lost a leader,mentor,father figure,I will forever cherish all the moments we shared together.
September 22, 2024
To my favourite babu,
He has been there for me through tough times. We had a lot of memories together . He bought me clothes and shoes . When he was in Nairobi he used to buy me KFC and bought me a piggy bank to put my coins.
When he went to work he would call me on the phone. I used to drive with babu in his car.Babu was my hero.
I wonder why he left so early, I really miss him so much . He would solve problems
I love you my babu
From your granddaughter Tikolo ( Trasme Njeri Khamadi Muhanji)
He has been there for me through tough times. We had a lot of memories together . He bought me clothes and shoes . When he was in Nairobi he used to buy me KFC and bought me a piggy bank to put my coins.
When he went to work he would call me on the phone. I used to drive with babu in his car.Babu was my hero.
I wonder why he left so early, I really miss him so much . He would solve problems
I love you my babu
From your granddaughter Tikolo ( Trasme Njeri Khamadi Muhanji)
September 22, 2024
For my uncle Bruno,this feels like a dream,I am loss of words ,gone before we knew it
I have so many memories we shared anko,The pop ins you used to make at home anko and you would Say Mmera make me “something hot something sweet”and i knew i had to prepare tea….you made it your responsibility to know how each and everyone of us were doing ,even woke me up at 3am to pray with me on the morning of my visa interview anko….The Muhanji Empire family has lost a leader,mentor,father figure,I will forever cherish all the moments we shared together.
September 22, 2024
Bruno my Brother, Mentor, Adviser, Best Friend and Father Figure you have devastated my life, you left without saying a word yet I was with you all through. We shared quite a lot together, yet you never told me you're leaving me mwichenda nyama.i will miss your pieces of advice, jokes, smile and presence. You were the Best of the Best Bro, you were so close to me to the extent that whenever I needed help you were there for me. My father look alike you have physically gone but your spirit will forever be in my heart. Anko B we shall never have interesting, happy and enjoyable family meetings as we did when you were around. You really were a great organizer we shall miss you greatly. Fly away Bro Dance with the Angels and always look over me from yonder. I will forever miss your great company Rest in Peace Bro. Amen
September 22, 2024
In tribute to a remarkable grandfather, Sansa and I celebrate a life filled with love, laughter, and generosity. His warm embrace was a sanctuary, where every moment spent together felt like an adventure. Whether sharing stories that sparked joy or providing support in times of need, he embodied kindness and selflessness. His legacy lives on in the hearts of those he touched, reminding us of the ultimate gift: the power of love and connection. We will miss you Baba. Rest in Peace Babu Twiga.
September 22, 2024
In honoring my father-in-law, I reflect on his extraordinary patience, boundless generosity, and deep love. His calm presence and unwavering support have created a foundation for my family, teaching us the value of understanding and compassion. Whether sharing his wisdom or lending a helping hand, he showed me the ultimate meaning of selflessness. His legacy of kindness will forever inspire me to embody the same love he so generously gave. Rest in perfect Peace Baba.
September 21, 2024
Uncle B was a remarkable man who touched my life in so many profound ways. He was more than just an uncle to me, he was a beacon of kindness, wisdom, and strength. His unwavering support ,gentle guidance, and infectious laughter made him a cherished presence in our lives.You never discriminated between us and your own children we were all your children .I remember the day I was short on school fees ,I called you and you were like "Debby I have some money wanted to sort Ash out , how about mugawene katikati".You were the first person who celebrated me after my graduation.
Ooh how you loved the sandals "Debbie will be home next week get me two pairs zakurudi nazo S.Sudan " You never stopped promoting me no matter which side hustles I ventured in.
You inspired me to aim higher in my career always sending me jobs za UN because that's where you always saw me working in your dreams for me am glad you managed to see me achieve that dream .
You were the only Grandpa with
whom my son Lani knew.From the day I delivered always checking up on his latest grandson. I remember the video calls just so that he could see how his chokora has grown(as he used to call Lani) because everytime he called Lani was always running around and getting into things .
Through his thoughtful advice, generous spirit and his ability to listen for I could tell him anything without fear of being judged ,he made me feel valued and loved.You showed me what a father's love looks like.
Lani and I will deeply miss you but never forgotten from our hearts.
Love you uncle till we meet again.
Ooh how you loved the sandals "Debbie will be home next week get me two pairs zakurudi nazo S.Sudan " You never stopped promoting me no matter which side hustles I ventured in.
You inspired me to aim higher in my career always sending me jobs za UN because that's where you always saw me working in your dreams for me am glad you managed to see me achieve that dream .
You were the only Grandpa with
whom my son Lani knew.From the day I delivered always checking up on his latest grandson. I remember the video calls just so that he could see how his chokora has grown(as he used to call Lani) because everytime he called Lani was always running around and getting into things .
Through his thoughtful advice, generous spirit and his ability to listen for I could tell him anything without fear of being judged ,he made me feel valued and loved.You showed me what a father's love looks like.
Lani and I will deeply miss you but never forgotten from our hearts.
Love you uncle till we meet again.
September 21, 2024
Bruno my Brother,my Friend! I am left with no words. You have left us so suddenly..your most recent memories are still very colourful in my mind. How could this happen to you? It is all in God’s hands. Only he can give answers to our questions.
You gave me the name ‘The Red One’, ‘Mami Red’ when we were teenagers. This has stuck to date. I will miss your calling me ‘The Red One’ . I will miss you’re your jokes, your husky laughter, your presence in family meetings. I will miss you my Brother, my Friend. Through memories, you will live in my heart forever. Bruno, may you find the eternal rest you deserve.
Mami Red Aka Zippy Ali
You gave me the name ‘The Red One’, ‘Mami Red’ when we were teenagers. This has stuck to date. I will miss your calling me ‘The Red One’ . I will miss you’re your jokes, your husky laughter, your presence in family meetings. I will miss you my Brother, my Friend. Through memories, you will live in my heart forever. Bruno, may you find the eternal rest you deserve.
Mami Red Aka Zippy Ali
September 20, 2024
Hi dad, you were a papa bear from the first time I met you. You came and gave me such a big hug and asked how your KitKat is doing and I knew we would become great friends. Over the time I was able to spend with you, you gave me a hug at every opportunity and never failed to tell me you loved me. Everytime we would have a conversation and we had different opinions you would always say, “Sweetheart Kaeni, it’s not a fight,” and we would continue to have the conversation and ended up understanding that our differences in perspective was covered with love and affection.Sometimes the exchanges would get heated, but we always found common ground and laughed in the end.
I love how stubborn and headstrong you were - I don’t know where I got that from.
I remember your excitement when you introduced me to the Muhanji crew and now I cannot imagine life without them. You were and always will be a pillar for the crew and your legacy lives on in all of us.
You never failed to have your daily prayers whether alone or with us as a family. I loved your wholehearted commitment to God, and although it’s painful that you’re gone, there is joy in my heart because I know you’re Home safe and sound and any pain is exchanged for peace and tranquility.
I yearn for the conversations we began and never got to finish, but I find comfort in the fact that we did have those conversations and I enjoyed them. You were always eager to share your adventures and we would laugh as I listened intently. We bonded over the most unlikely things, e.g. politics, flying and most recently our food adventures.
You never faltered in showing any of us your love and never allowed us to forget it. Looking back, this quote comes to mind, “There is nothing that makes you more insane than family, or more happy, exasperated, or more secure”. You always made me feel secure, happy, safe-the list is endless and I knew from day one, you had my back and I love you even more for it. Though I may not see you now, I feel your presence everyday since you’ve been gone and I continue to relish the fact that you will always have my back no matter where you are. I keep wondering to whom I will rant about all the things we loved to talk about but I know you’ll always be listening.
I love you dad and always will, and just like the first time you received me with open arms I know that the next time we meet, you will be waiting again with open arms, and say, “CK, I’ve missed you”, and I’ll know everything will be alright.
I love you, papa bear and I know someday I’ll get to see you again.
I finish this tribute to you by quoting Liza Minnelli, “A father is someone you look up to no matter how tall you grow”, and for me I quite literally looked up to you in stature and character - when I grow up I want to be just like you and not just in character.
Love you, dad, forever and always!
LOVE CK!
I love how stubborn and headstrong you were - I don’t know where I got that from.
I remember your excitement when you introduced me to the Muhanji crew and now I cannot imagine life without them. You were and always will be a pillar for the crew and your legacy lives on in all of us.
You never failed to have your daily prayers whether alone or with us as a family. I loved your wholehearted commitment to God, and although it’s painful that you’re gone, there is joy in my heart because I know you’re Home safe and sound and any pain is exchanged for peace and tranquility.
I yearn for the conversations we began and never got to finish, but I find comfort in the fact that we did have those conversations and I enjoyed them. You were always eager to share your adventures and we would laugh as I listened intently. We bonded over the most unlikely things, e.g. politics, flying and most recently our food adventures.
You never faltered in showing any of us your love and never allowed us to forget it. Looking back, this quote comes to mind, “There is nothing that makes you more insane than family, or more happy, exasperated, or more secure”. You always made me feel secure, happy, safe-the list is endless and I knew from day one, you had my back and I love you even more for it. Though I may not see you now, I feel your presence everyday since you’ve been gone and I continue to relish the fact that you will always have my back no matter where you are. I keep wondering to whom I will rant about all the things we loved to talk about but I know you’ll always be listening.
I love you dad and always will, and just like the first time you received me with open arms I know that the next time we meet, you will be waiting again with open arms, and say, “CK, I’ve missed you”, and I’ll know everything will be alright.
I love you, papa bear and I know someday I’ll get to see you again.
I finish this tribute to you by quoting Liza Minnelli, “A father is someone you look up to no matter how tall you grow”, and for me I quite literally looked up to you in stature and character - when I grow up I want to be just like you and not just in character.
Love you, dad, forever and always!
LOVE CK!
September 20, 2024
Uncle B you left us without a warning your departure has touched many.I will always remember you for standing with me during my many life tribulations. Thank you for being who you were, firm but fair. Uncle B ,you were a model of love, compassion and generosity. Thank for being always there for us.Fare thee well.
Andy G
Andy G
September 20, 2024
September 20, 2024
My khotsa was the life of almost every family gathering. He was the teller of jokes, the singer of songs, and the catalyst for hearty laughter and boy would he laugh!!!. But beyond the joy and entertainment, he was always available to offer a listening ear and a comforting hug.
I had a beautiful relationship with khotsa and had the privilege to be able to talk to him about any and everything, from discussing building projects, daily check ins to fears and concerns that we had. Around June he bought several suits, and we had a routine where I virtually would help put some of his outfits together, we would discuss what shirt and tie would go with what suit, and when we were satisfied with an ensemble he would chip “looku imeiva”. We had even began a foot skin routine, and if you know ango B very well, you will recall he NEVER oiled his feet, after a lot of back and forth, with a lot of resistance he had finally given in and had bought Nivea for Men moisturizing lotion and he made sure to send me a pic always to show how well moisturized his feet were. We shared a love for perfume and cologne and would have a full-blown analysis about our “smell goods” as we referred to them, the next cologne he was to get to add to his collection was going to be Hugo Boss Intense.
Like any human being, he had his fair share of good times and shortcomings. He wasn't perfect; however, I am grateful that he was able to share with me some of those moments when life seemed to test his strength and resolve because to me in facing those trials, he demonstrated an admirable level of resilience that made me so proud of him.
Oooh khotsa wanje your physical presence will be deeply missed, but your spirit will continue to live on in the stories we share, in the lessons we remember, and in the love, we continue to feel for you. Thank you for showing me what it means to truly live. May your soul find eternal peace and happiness, knowing that you profoundly touched my life and the lives of many others. You indeed made the world a richer place by simply being you. My Khotsa, “Ango “B, my friend, my G, Le’general rest easy boss it will never be the same….
My khotsa was the life of almost every family gathering. He was the teller of jokes, the singer of songs, and the catalyst for hearty laughter and boy would he laugh!!!. But beyond the joy and entertainment, he was always available to offer a listening ear and a comforting hug.
I had a beautiful relationship with khotsa and had the privilege to be able to talk to him about any and everything, from discussing building projects, daily check ins to fears and concerns that we had. Around June he bought several suits, and we had a routine where I virtually would help put some of his outfits together, we would discuss what shirt and tie would go with what suit, and when we were satisfied with an ensemble he would chip “looku imeiva”. We had even began a foot skin routine, and if you know ango B very well, you will recall he NEVER oiled his feet, after a lot of back and forth, with a lot of resistance he had finally given in and had bought Nivea for Men moisturizing lotion and he made sure to send me a pic always to show how well moisturized his feet were. We shared a love for perfume and cologne and would have a full-blown analysis about our “smell goods” as we referred to them, the next cologne he was to get to add to his collection was going to be Hugo Boss Intense.
Like any human being, he had his fair share of good times and shortcomings. He wasn't perfect; however, I am grateful that he was able to share with me some of those moments when life seemed to test his strength and resolve because to me in facing those trials, he demonstrated an admirable level of resilience that made me so proud of him.
Oooh khotsa wanje your physical presence will be deeply missed, but your spirit will continue to live on in the stories we share, in the lessons we remember, and in the love, we continue to feel for you. Thank you for showing me what it means to truly live. May your soul find eternal peace and happiness, knowing that you profoundly touched my life and the lives of many others. You indeed made the world a richer place by simply being you. My Khotsa, “Ango “B, my friend, my G, Le’general rest easy boss it will never be the same….
September 20, 2024
As I reflect on our time together, I realize that we didn’t just share the bond of father and child, but we grew together as friends. In these last few years, especially, our relationship blossomed into something beyond the ordinary. We walked side by side, learning from each other, sharing laughter, and navigating life’s ups and downs with a sense of unity that only deepened our connection.
Patrick was a man of great strength and character, whose wisdom came not only from his years of service but from his immense love for life and family. He had a unique ability to bring warmth and comfort into every conversation. He was always there, not just as a guiding hand, but as someone who truly understood and walked with you through every challenge. He was a source of unwavering support and unspoken understanding, qualities that made him so much more than a father, He was a leader and with wisdom that all of us tapped into.
To me, papa was also a brother, someone who I could confide in, laugh with, and lean on as I found myself in this world. He wasn’t just a figure of authority but a companion who made me feel seen, heard, and valued. We shared moments of deep reflection, joy, and even struggle, and through it all, he remained a constant source of love and encouragement, as I say “a total man”
His legacy extends far beyond his military achievements; it lives on in the love he gave, the lessons he imparted, and the friendship we shared as well as those who are with us here and beyond. Papa had a way of making everyone around him feel important, and his generosity of spirit knew no bounds. He lived his life with integrity, always striving to lift others up, and that is a gift he left with all of us. Once he had me say YOLO- YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE but he corrected me and said YODO – YOU ONLY DIE ONCE so how you live is the most important thing my son, so live it well and true.
Papa’s love for his family knew no bounds. His sacrifices, though often unseen, were felt in every success, every achievement, and every moment of joy that we experienced. He gave selflessly, always putting others before himself, ensuring that those around him felt supported, understood, and cherished.
Beyond his family, Papa was a man of the community—always willing to lend a hand, always ready with a kind word. He believed in uplifting others, in sharing his knowledge and resources to better the lives of those around him. His generosity knew no limits, and his legacy of kindness will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to cross his path.
Though he may no longer be with us in the physical sense, his presence will forever remain in our hearts. His laughter, his wisdom, and his friendship will continue to guide us through life, reminding us that love, in its truest form, never fades.
Rest well, dear father, friend, and brother.
Major (Retired) Patrick Brunoh Muhanji, your memory will forever be cherished, and your impact on our lives will never be forgotten.
Patrick was a man of great strength and character, whose wisdom came not only from his years of service but from his immense love for life and family. He had a unique ability to bring warmth and comfort into every conversation. He was always there, not just as a guiding hand, but as someone who truly understood and walked with you through every challenge. He was a source of unwavering support and unspoken understanding, qualities that made him so much more than a father, He was a leader and with wisdom that all of us tapped into.
To me, papa was also a brother, someone who I could confide in, laugh with, and lean on as I found myself in this world. He wasn’t just a figure of authority but a companion who made me feel seen, heard, and valued. We shared moments of deep reflection, joy, and even struggle, and through it all, he remained a constant source of love and encouragement, as I say “a total man”
His legacy extends far beyond his military achievements; it lives on in the love he gave, the lessons he imparted, and the friendship we shared as well as those who are with us here and beyond. Papa had a way of making everyone around him feel important, and his generosity of spirit knew no bounds. He lived his life with integrity, always striving to lift others up, and that is a gift he left with all of us. Once he had me say YOLO- YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE but he corrected me and said YODO – YOU ONLY DIE ONCE so how you live is the most important thing my son, so live it well and true.
Papa’s love for his family knew no bounds. His sacrifices, though often unseen, were felt in every success, every achievement, and every moment of joy that we experienced. He gave selflessly, always putting others before himself, ensuring that those around him felt supported, understood, and cherished.
Beyond his family, Papa was a man of the community—always willing to lend a hand, always ready with a kind word. He believed in uplifting others, in sharing his knowledge and resources to better the lives of those around him. His generosity knew no limits, and his legacy of kindness will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to cross his path.
Though he may no longer be with us in the physical sense, his presence will forever remain in our hearts. His laughter, his wisdom, and his friendship will continue to guide us through life, reminding us that love, in its truest form, never fades.
Rest well, dear father, friend, and brother.
Major (Retired) Patrick Brunoh Muhanji, your memory will forever be cherished, and your impact on our lives will never be forgotten.
September 20, 2024
Baba, before TK (Trasme Khamadi) was born, I used to call you Baba. But when TK was born, TK always called you Babu. From that moment, I automatically began calling you Babu too.
Now that you’ve gone, without saying goodbye, I heard your whisper telling me, “You are not alone.” Honestly, it’s hard to let you go. I feel like I’m losing my bond with you.
You were a great father, a great grandfather, a wise man, a consultant, a warner, and a great supporter. Your treasured memory will never be forgotten and will always remain in my heart.
Babu, do me one last favor. Don’t turn off your phone — I want to see the alarm keep reminding us of the prayer time at 9:30 p.m. daily, so that we can keep praying together.
Love you, Babu.
Now that you’ve gone, without saying goodbye, I heard your whisper telling me, “You are not alone.” Honestly, it’s hard to let you go. I feel like I’m losing my bond with you.
You were a great father, a great grandfather, a wise man, a consultant, a warner, and a great supporter. Your treasured memory will never be forgotten and will always remain in my heart.
Babu, do me one last favor. Don’t turn off your phone — I want to see the alarm keep reminding us of the prayer time at 9:30 p.m. daily, so that we can keep praying together.
Love you, Babu.
September 20, 2024
Bruno my loving brother, my support system, my confidant and friend, why did you go without a word of goodbye?? Always referring to me as BIG SIS you have broken my heart, my spirit has sunk and am left with no word to say. Always smiling with a cup of tea in your hands. How do I refer to you as the late.....did you really want me to come and find you cold and lifeless....mbula lya mbola mwana weru. Pass my love to our dad Reuben and mama Dina tell them we are trying to accept that you have left to join them in watching over us from above. TUTAONANA TENA lakini HII IMENIUMA SANA.
September 20, 2024
My running mate!!!🥹I don't know why you chose that Nick name for me ,but I loved it! And when you always saw me ,you would add ,Mama Wanje,and I felt like I was on top of the world.And I loved you ,but I know you loved me more!You were a good man Uncle B,and I am so grateful that God gave us you for the time he did.I will miss making chapatis for you and always sharing in encouragement from God's word of how Faithful He is in all situations.I loved how you would not allow us to sleep without praying together at your house(something I now do also in my home).As hard as it is now ,without you here,God will give us strength and peace ,till then,See you later Running mate,Uncle B❤️
Family tree
Sara Mauchi
Lena Mmera
Reuben Steven Muhanji
Dinah Inyanya
George Mongo Muhanji
Rose Achitsa Kubasu
Steve Reuben (Hoss) Muhanji
Eric Joel Khamadi
Full Name
Ashlee Mbula Muhanji
Caren Kaeni
Fred Muhanji
Washington Muhanji
Kenneth Muhanji
Nancy Muhanji
George Mongo Muhanji
Rose Achitsa Kubasu
Fred Muhanji
Washington Muhanji
Kenneth Muhanji
Nancy Muhanji
Steve Reuben (Hoss) Muhanji
Eric Joel Khamadi
Full Name
Ashlee Mbula Muhanji
Caren Kaeni
Major (Rtd) Patrick Muhanji
Service
Please join us to as we pay our last tribute.
Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
MAIN SERVICE
28th September 2024
Funeral Service led by the Friends Church
8.00 am - Gathering at the Muraka house
8.30 am - Departure for funeral service at Muraka Primary School
Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
MAIN SERVICE
28th September 2024
Funeral Service led by the Friends Church
8.00 am - Gathering at the Muraka house
8.30 am - Departure for funeral service at Muraka Primary School
Location
Muraka Primary School
Date/time
28th September 2024, From 9:00AM
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We are accepting donations in honor of our beloved Brunoh.
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Send Money:
Phone Number: +254 724 512910
Name: Rose Kubasu
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FOR MPESA DONATIONS
Send Money:
Phone Number: +254 724 512910
Name: Rose Kubasu
FOR VENMO DONATIONS
Name: Barbra Kubasu
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FOR PAYPAL DONATIONS
Name: Barbra Kubasu
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