Patricia Uloaku Okoye

ROSARY HIGH SCHOOL AWGU OLD GIRLS ASSOCIATION.

A TRIBUTE TO CHIEF DR. PATRICIA OKOYE, OUR PRESIDENT EMERITUS 11.

The news of your passing on jolted us the old girls and many questions were asked which no one could answer. God knows.
Achallaugo nwanyi, you were the oldest member of this noble association whose presence was always felt. You were a woman of many parts, a great teacher,a prolific writer, an orator, a lead dancer, a wonderful leader and companion and so on. You were such a lovely person who saw and treated everyone like your own sister.
We accompanied you to two memorable occasions where you did us proud ;the launch of one of your books titled ‘ When the man dies’ and the prestigious Igbo lecture ‘Odenigbo’ where you held the audience spellbound. Your presentation at that lecture earned you the title ‘Odee’.
Achallaugo you will surely be missed in our midst.
May your soul continue to rest peacefully in the of the bosom of the Lord.
Adieu our big sister till we meet to part no more.

Princess Rose Egbo
(President)
Afy Etta
(For and on behalf of the
RHS Awgu Old Girls.)

Tribute to Aunty Dada

We reunite today to celebrate the wonderful life of a remarkable woman — our
beloved Aunty Dada.

To list all the things Aunty Dada was to us would take a lifetime. She was an author, a teacher, a philanthropist, a leader in every community she found herself in. She was a brilliant mind, a woman of grace and class. A bright light and a warm heart.

She carried herself with such elegance. And no matter how busy she was, she always had time for everyone. She loved children very much and they all loved her. She had a special way of making every child feel seen, valued, and inspired.

Her intelligence showed in everything she did — in her words, in her stories, and in the way she understood people. Aunty Dada simply had a rare gift for turning every moment into pure Magic.

Aunty Dada’s words will live on in the books she wrote, but her legacy lives even stronger in the hearts she touched — in every child she inspired, every friend she lifted, and every family member she loved so deeply.

Though we mourn her loss, we also celebrate her life — a life that taught us to laugh often, to think deeply, to love freely, and to live with grace.

Rest well, Big Aunty Dada. You wrote beautiful stories, and your life was the most beautiful one of all.

Your beloved nephew,

Steve O

Dear Aunty Dada, you poured so much of yourself into others — through your kindness, your wisdom, and your steadfast faith. You had a rare gift for making everyone around you feel valued, understood, and loved. Your gentle words, generous heart, and resilient spirit have left a lasting mark that time can never erase.

Aunty Dada was a woman of remarkable intellect and unwavering purpose. Her love for learning knew no bounds — she viewed education not merely as a means to success, but as a powerful instrument for empowerment and service to others. Her academic excellence inspired all who knew her to pursue knowledge with dedication and passion. Yet, it was her kindness and compassion that truly set her apart. She used her wisdom and resources to uplift others, giving generously to those in need and championing causes that touched her heart.

Rest peacefully, dear Aunty Dada — your legacy of love will never fade.

Love from Nneka

Dear aunty Daada,
I’m privileged to have had you as my aunty. Your wisdom, kindness, and love touched every heart that knew you. You meant so much to so many people. You had a way of making everyone feel special. Your wisdom was gentle yet profound, and always shared at just the right moment. Your caring spirit was endless. Your love continues to guide us. We carry your lessons, your laughter, and your legacy in all that we do. Thank you for being you. Until we meet again. Rest in eternal bliss.

Your beloved nephew
Double Chris

Dr. Mrs. Pat Okoye was a true example of kindness and strength, she was a woman of elegance, wisdom, and compassion. Her kind words and compassionate heart changed many lives, and she conducted herself with dignity.
It was an experience of modest perfection, humility, and kindness to know her. She inspired everyone around her with her unshakeable dedication and faith, served faithfully, and loved deeply.

Although her death leaves a profound hole, her influence on innumerable lives keeps her light shining brightly. I give thanks to God for our shared memories and the gift of her friendship.

May her lovely spirit find eternal peace.
Dr. Mrs. Pat Okoye, you will always be remembered even though you are greatly missed.

From, Ngozi Okoye- Peterborough

Tribute to Dr. Pat Okoye
Death, we know, is an inevitable end. Yet, even with this understanding, nothing could have prepared us for the loss of Dr. Pat Okoye whom I fondly call Sister Pat. Her passing was sudden, unexpected, and deeply painful, leaving a void that cannot be easily filled. Sister Pat was more than a sister-in-law to me; she was a source of light, warmth, and inspiration.

Sister Pat had a remarkable ability to brighten up any room with her presence. Her smile, laughter, and genuine kindness always made those around her feel welcomed and cherished. She made me feel truly special, never missing an opportunity to show her affection and appreciation. It was in these moments that her beautiful spirit shone the brightest.

I am grateful for the meaningful experiences that connected me with Sister Pat. I remember years ago (in the ‘90s), when she was diligently working on her dissertation, she reached out to me for help. She needed peer-reviewed journal materials from the Library of Congress in Washington, DC, and I was honored to assist her. Seeing her joy and gratitude afterward made me feel valued and important in her academic journey.

Years later, as she began writing Igbo literatures, she sought my thoughts and stories from our shared heritage. Once again, I had the privilege of supporting her, contributing my own experiences and ideas. These moments were more than simple exchanges—they were bridges that drew us closer, deepening our bond in ways I will never forget.

Rest in peace, dear Sister Pat.

Dr. Aloysius C. Ibe

Dada, Junior, in his tribute to you, said that during one of your conversations with him, you told him, “With us”—meaning your children—“I feel safe and at peace.”
 Junior concluded this by saying, “Sleep peacefully in the Lord, until we meet to part no more.”
Dada, your presence among us, your siblings, has always been one of joy and laughter. We will all miss you deeply. I thank you for setting the standard and raising the bar for us—showing us what Mama and Papa would have wanted us to do as good children.
It is still hard for me to say that you have passed away. One day, while at home, I came out of the restroom and saw a woman gliding gracefully down the stairs. I thought it was one of my daughters, who was home that day, so I called out, “Nne, are you going downstairs?” My daughter answered from her room, “No, Mom, I’m right here.”
 Puzzled, I asked, “Then who is that going downstairs?” And in that very moment, I realized—and exclaimed—“That is my sister!”
I knew it was you, Dada.
 I stand here today to attest before the world, especially to those who have experienced such heavenly moments, that Dada is happy where she is. And where else could one be happier than in heaven?
Dada, I am happy for you. Please remember us in heaven until we all meet again, by His grace.
Rest in God’s eternal peace, my dear sister. I love you, and I always will.

Love, your sister,
Laura

Dear Mum,
Writing this feels strange as I'm lost for words. I’ve had the blessing of knowing you for fourteen years. I still smile at our first meeting—before you even knew who I was, you turned to Junior and said, “I like this girl for you.” Though we came from different cultures and backgrounds, we connected instantly through what we shared: strength with humility, unwavering faith in God, a love of laughter, and a bold sense of style. You were the only person I knew whose fashion felt as uniquely you as mine feels to me.
We talked about everything—from everyday joys to the deeper meaning of life—and we agreed this earth is not our final home. With us, you said you felt safe and at peace. That means everything to me.
The news of your passing was so unexpected, especially as we were planning your visit to Australia. I was getting ready for work that day but simply couldn’t go. I choose to remember the fullness of the life you lived—a life many long for—and to celebrate you.
My memories of you are warm and lovely. I can still hear you saying: “Mich—it’s so good to hear your voice.” We had beautiful conversations. I pray that God grants your last request. Your final words to me are a treasure I will always carry. To be absent from the body is to be present with God. In the sweet by and by, we shall meet on that beautiful shore.
Love always, Michelle

Tribute to my Sister

Daada, Daadam, Daada Amanator, Olulu(morning star) Agim, now that you are gone, it's now that our Mother has truly died. The void you leave in the family can never be filled. You were there for all of us to help us absorb the shock of Mama's exit. There was hues and cries all over Amanator at the news of your exit.You lived an exampliary Christian life. That's why you are loved by so many. An unconditional love that's uncommon. God will salve the heartache of Your Brothers and Sisters and the Children you left behind by granting your good soul eternal rest in the bossom of the Lord God. May the grace of God forever be with you my Sister. Bye Daadm.

Ozo Amefuna Agim

A Tribute to Late Dr. Patricia Okoye

Dear Pat,

With humility and gratitude to God, I pay tribute to your outstanding life of love, hard work, commitment to social growth, development, justice, and fairness.

You were a true mother who loved life and bore seven children at a time when educated women began to argue that it was trendier and more feasible to have a maximum of four children. You followed it up by working hard with your loving husband, the late Dr. Steve, to nurture and train these children, giving them the best education. Among them were three medical doctors and other professionals who have made significant contributions to the world.

Pat, you excelled in the “Better Life program for rural women,” which was launched by the then First Lady of Nigeria, the late Mrs. Mariam Babangida, to uplift the condition of rural women in Nigeria through education, empowerment, and the creation of cooperatives to enable them to get loans for their projects. I know, Pat, that you were a member of the think tank and leaders who actually visited and mobilized these women for their various projects. You followed your own activity up by researching some widowhood practices and other factors that tended to marginalize and restrict women’s rights.

You were a prolific writer, authoring about 24 books to my knowledge, through which you exposed many cultural practices for education and development. These writings will be a source of information for many generations. Your versatility and good sense of humor enabled you to delve into writing Igbo proverbs, which were very educative.

Pat, your honorable father, the late Minister Agim, was a schoolmate of Blessed Iwene Tansi, the first Nigerian Saint, and he very much related to him in prayers. Your strong Catholic background and training from the Holy Rosary Sisters impacted so much on your children, especially as one of them expressed amazement in your habit of always stopping at different spots in her house to say prayers holding onto the hanging Rosary beads. I believe the Blessed Virgin Mary was with you at the last hour.

Adios, Pat, and may Jesus and Mary give you and Dr. Steve eternal rest. Amen.
From Mrs May Akonobi.

Tribute to My Dear Aunty Daada

It still feels so unreal that Aunty Daada is no longer with us. Just a little over a week before she passed, she came all the way to visit my family and me. At nearly 81, she made that long five-hour journey simply to spend time with us, just as she did years ago when she travelled for our traditional wedding. That was who she was…loving, selfless, and deeply devoted to family.

During her visit, she was radiant. Her laughter filled our home, her words carried gentle wisdom, and her presence brought a calm joy that lingered even after she left. She adored our boys and showered them with love. Looking back now, it feels as though she came to bid us farewell, leaving behind blessings and lessons wrapped in kindness.

I always admired her grace, her quiet confidence, and her unshakable faith. She was a true matriarch, a woman of strength and deep conviction. Her beautiful Catholic marriage to late uncle Steve was a shining example of love and partnership. She spoke about him during her visit, with warmth and peace, as though her heart was already preparing to be reunited with him. She also spoke fondly of late Aunty Comfort, and late Uncle Hyacinth. I had never seen her so at peace, so ready to rest.

She talked about all her children with such pride and joy, as if to say her heart was full and her work here complete. And to our dear Aunty IJ, we are so grateful for your care, devotion, and love. You looked after her with such tenderness, and through you she remained surrounded by warmth until the very end. We love and appreciate you deeply and pray that God comforts and strengthens you and all your siblings in this time of loss.

Though we will miss her dearly, we take comfort in knowing that hers was a life well lived, a life filled with faith, love, and grace.

May the angels welcome her home, and may the light of our Lord Jesus Christ guide her to eternal rest. Rest peacefully, dear Aunty Daada. You will forever be loved, remembered, and celebrated.

Nneoma & Kingsley Iheke

Mummy, as I fondly called you, and you always reciprocated by calling me "the original oghuachi @ GNG".

I still have a vivid memory of the 1st day I met you when Ije my dear sister first moved into Stevenage. You left an indelible mark in my memory with your charming, intelligent, friendly, loving, and warm personality. We both clicked straightaway. Your humility was something else. Despite all your achievements, you didn't let them get to your head. You had time for everyone. Mummy, we had so many good times together both here in the UK and in Nigeria. You visited us in Ogidi with Daddy every time we were in Nigeria. You were so much fun to be with. You appreciated the smallest thing that anyone did for you.

I still remember how joyous and happy you were last year when we celebrated your 80th birthday, and we were looking forward to more celebrations with you. Absolutely nothing could have prepared me for this sudden death Mummy, the shock was too much, to the extent that when the paramedics declared you dead that I didn't take it in. It did not sink in one bit. I clutched unto you into the early hours of my birthday on the 26th of June 2025, hoping that you will wake up. You quietly left this horrible Earth without any fuss or drama to go and be with your loving husband, and your creator. There was no doubt that you were missing your dear husband of over 50 years terribly since he passed. Your personality changed following his passing, you became more introverted and bothered very little about things of this Earth. Despite that, I thought that we still have many more years with you. I thought that with time that the feeling of loss will abate, little did I know that you were preparing to be with your creator. You must be celebrating with your loving husband now. We all miss you a lot mummy.

I struggle to comprehend the fact that I am writing this tribute to you. It took me so long to write as I was putting it off. The whole situation is totally unbelievable but it's our reality. Only God knows best. Your death is another testament that we are mere morals

Though we are all hurting, we must have the humility to accept God's will as the ultimate.

Goodnight Mummy. May your soul and the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in perfect peace Amen.

Sleep peacefully in the Lord till we meet to part no more.

Yours ever,

Ngo Oligboh
AKA "Original ogbuachi @ GNG"

Aunty Daada,

That day when I received the call from mummy and heard her voice crying, my instinct instantly told me we had lost somebody but it never crossed my mind that it would be you.

It hurts aunty, but we remain thankful to God for the life of impact that you lived. Thank you for making your home available to us during midterm breaks during our time at FGGC Owerri. Thank you for those visits in our early childhood which we always looked forward to with so much excitement. Thank you for being a solid big sister to mummy. Thank you for everything you did and for who you were.

Thank God we made sure to see you late last year when you were in Lagos. Little did we know it would be the last time. Aunty Daada, we love and miss you. Continue to rest in God’s bosom.

Ebere O. (Niece)

A RARE GEM IS GONE

The value of one’s contribution to society is not measured by what one gained from it but by what one gave to it. In this light, Chief Dr. Patricia Uloaku Okoye (née Agim)—my uncle's wife—lived a life truly worthy of recognition and emulation. From my vantage point, she contributed robustly and meaningfully to society, leaving an indelible mark on everyone she touched.

Chief Dr. Pat U. Okoye, fondly known as Adadioranma, lived a colorful and eventful life. Despite coming from a prestigious and highly regarded paternal family, she was exceptionally humble, friendly, industrious, resourceful, and academically inclined. She had a special pet name for everyone she loved. She lovingly called me “Ndobeanyi.” Her command of the English language was impeccable. These qualities, combined with her charisma and determination, propelled her to success in every facet of life.

Adadioranma was deeply passionate about gender-based issues, with a strong focus on the challenges facing widows in Nigeria. Her advocacy wasn’t just local—it achieved global recognition. She documented her observations and views on the plight of widows in books, which became powerful tools for her crusade. In 1999, I had the privilege of presenting her article on widowhood at an International Women’s Conference in Alexandria, Virginia, USA. Her work was widely acclaimed and celebrated, both at home and abroad.

She was also a key figure in the “Better Life for Rural Women” project, initiated by the late Dr. Mrs. Maryam Babangida, wife of Nigeria’s then Military President, General Ibrahim B. Babangida. Together, they brought hope and succor to countless rural women across Nigeria, advocating for their empowerment and elevating their quality of life.

Adadioranma didn’t stop there. She personally organized numerous outreaches and workshops to highlight and combat gender inequality. One outreach that stands out vividly in my memory took place in Njikoka Local Government Area during my tenure as Chairman of the Local Government. With the invaluable assistance of Lady Nneobioma Anene Okoli, then Head of the Local Government’s Family Support Programme, the event was a resounding success, positively impacting the lives of many.

As we mourn the passing of this extraordinary woman, the wisdom of the English poet John Donne (1572–1631) comes to mind:
"Send not to know for whom the bell tolls. It tolls for thee."

When the church bell tolls to announce the transition of Chief Dr. Mrs. Pat Uloaku Okoye, it tolls not just for her but for all of us. It is a solemn reminder to take stock of our lives and reflect on our purpose and legacy.

To her family and to all who loved her, let us find comfort in the poignant words of Chuck Palahniuk, who once said:
"The goal isn’t to live forever. The goal is to create something that will."

Adadioranma exemplified this truth beautifully. She created a legacy that will resonate through time, inspiring generations to come. And to her, I humbly say:
"To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die."

Now, Adadioranma rests in God’s paradise, where we all strive to be. She served God faithfully and without equivocation, and I pray that He will uphold her in the hollow of His hands.

May the soul of Chief Dr. Patricia Uloaku Okoye—our beloved Adadioranma—rest in perfect peace.
May God Almighty, whom she served so faithfully, grant us the strength to carry forward her legacy.

Lady Hon. Nwando Joy Obika, JP
Solicitor General/Permanent Secretary (Rtd.)
10th October, 2025

My dearest Daada, it is so hard to accept that you are gone. You were not just a sister, you were a mother to me. You were my hero, my teacher, my mentor. You loved me, carried me through so many seasons of my life, and I will never forget how you stood by me and did everything you could to see me happy. You gave me without hesitation, you supported me without judgment and loved me without condition.

People often mistook me for you because of how much we looked alike and every time this happened, it filled me with pride, joy and happiness especially when your friends referred to me as "obele Pat". To be compared to you was the highest compliment because you were someone I admired so deeply. You were intelligent, confident, resilient, and impactful. You were a person of positive immense presence. You stood tall, both physically and in all that you achieved in life. You set a pace for our family and for everyone who had the privilege of knowing you.

My Daada, you would always fill my home with joy and excitement anytime you came to visit. I can still hear your voice call out to my husband "thanko daddy " and "googoo gaga" to my grandchildren in that ever joyful tone. I always looked up to you with pride because you showed me and many others what it means to live with purpose. You cared about people. You were a people’s person. You saw injustice and refused to be silent when you wrote your book on widowhood practices, it was more than just words. It was your way of fighting for women who had no one to fight for them. You wanted to shine a light on their pain and bring them comfort, and that was who you were. Someone who carried the burdens of others and turned them into hope.

Your marriage with Doctor was another thing that inspired me. The love and respect between you both was so beautiful to see. Together, you showed us and others what healthy partnership and companionship should look like, rooted in love, strength, and understanding. No wonder you were a very good counsellor for your community members.

Daada, I will miss you more that words can ever express. I will miss your laughter, your conversations, your wisdom, your encouragement, and the way you believed in me. I will miss the way you carried yourself, the way you made me feel safe just by being there.

I loved you dearly, and I still do. That love will never fade. Your legacy, your kindness, your strength, your honesty, and your impact will live on in me, in our family, and in the many lives that you have touched.
Thank you for being my sister, my friend, my mother and my example.

Rest well, Daada. You will forever remain in my heart.

Queen Akwari (Sister)

Aunt Pat, may your soul continue to rest in God's bosom.

I remember when you and Uncle Steve came with a big flask of very delicious ofe nsala filled with many obstructions such as catfish and chicken to see me after I gave birth to Nwando, my first daughter. I will never forget that thoughtful visit. I was so touched.

I last saw you at Odibeze's burial. We exchanged greetings and banters. I didn't know that would be my last time of seeing.

It really hurts.

A very warm, nice, vibrant, elegant woman. Nwanyi oma, Ezinne, jee na udo.

Life is fleeting. Here today, Gone tomorrow.

May God comfort us and strengthen us, especially her children.

Another one ,
Remembering your fond way of encouraging Steveo Jr and I those days in UNEC to go for another one after achieving one set career goal.
You hugely inspired us and we will always fall back to those inspirations.
You were impactful professionally, family-wise, community building etc.
Your legacies will live on while we pray for the repose of your gentle soul.
Adieu mama 🙏🏾
Fada B.

RIP Mummy!

IJ, my heart goes out to you and your family during this incredibly sad time. I'm so grateful for the memories I have and will always cherish Mummy.
She became a mother for Class 88 in UK and was loved by all.
We will miss her dearly. Please know that I am here for you, whether it's to listen, or to help. Ndo nu.

You will forever be missed

Celebration of the life of a beautiful and kind hearted Woman.
I met Mama when IJ came to see me for the loss of my mum in 2024.
Mama was very kind and comforting, she stood out for me as an elegant and intelligent Lady.
May her soul rest in peace, Amen

The Rosies, please accept my condolences. You lost a dear sister, your Adanne and I lost the elegant mentor whom I looked up to as a very dear friend and a mother when I taught in Queen's School.
She was a source of inspiration to many of us young teachers whom she called umuadam. Adin'ije was the soul of the party during convivialities; hence, we nicknamed her 'adi nije ma ije enwe isi.'
Aunty Pat's legacies are too numerous for me to recount:
- She would always advise to look straight ahead and count your steps as you walk while making your face look pleasant to an onlooker
- to speak with measured sentences as if you are reading
. not to cheapen oneself with quarrels, malice and exchange of words, etc.

Aunty Pat was a real amazon, an epitome of beauty, intelligence and regality; with her soft but firm voice of oratory whom we all looked forward to seeing every morning as she made her way to the assembly ground in measured steps and upright posture despite her very,very tall frame.
Nne, I am consoled that she lived a fulfilled life, made indelible marks in the hearts of many, and above all, experienced massive love from her beloved family ♥️.
May Adin'ije's soul find rest in the bosom of our Lord🙏.

A tribute to a charmingly and loving mother in law: Chief Dr. Mrs. Patricia Okoye

Dear Dr. Mrs. Ijeoma Nwizu and family.
The death of a mother at whatever age is always very painful; nevertheless, death remains a necessary end for a new beginning and an avenue for an eternal dwelling with the Lord.
Your mother was not just a part of your life but a source of love, wisdom and warmth. Her presence undoubtedly left an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to have known her . She is a fulfilled woman and a mother of a charming charster. That whoever met her , will long to meet her again. As you navigate through the waves of grief, remember that the love and memories shared will forever hold a special place in your heart.
In the tapestry of life, your mother's thread was woven with kindness,grace and unwavering supports. Her legacy lives on not only in the family bonds she nurtured but also in lives she touched through her role as a mother.Her spirit will continue to shine through the lessons she imparted and compassion she showed to others. Your mother was a devoted catholic who lived her christian life with deep faith and conviction. She left the marks in the family in many ways; the great love bonds shared in the family and a great friendship bound with a very charming and welcoming which I always enjoy whenever I visit her. This I will personally miss.
During this time of mourning, I hope you will find solace in the out pouring of love from friends,family and your faith community both in Nigeria and abroad. I have already celebrated a nine days Novena Mass for the repose of her soul.
Leaning on the cherished memories, stories, and shared laughter while she was with you,especilly her last hours, will help ease the pains of her physical absence. As you grieve, may you also discover strength in the love and support of many friends surrounding you.
May her soul rest in peace. Amen!

Dr. Mrs. Patricia U. Okoye: Author of Children’s and Adult’s Books, Plays, Publisher, Poet, Scholar, Songwriter, Speaker, Linguist, Mentor, Wife, Mother, Best Friend (1944-2045).

“A Tribute to A Brilliant Jewel in the Okoye Family, and Nigeria.”
by Ambassador Professor Marie Linton Umeh, New York, U. S. A.

I offer my heartfelt condolences to the family of the late, Dr. Mrs. Pat U. Okoye, who was a magnificent and gifted individual who lit up every room she entered and lifted up the community and people that surrounded her with beautiful smiles, kindness and genuine laughter.
Pat was a kind soul, and our relationship bloomed over fifty years. I met Pat and her husband, Dr. Steven Okoye, in Enugu, Nigeria, in the early 1970s.
Later on, when she visited New York, she autografted and sold her books to many teachers and students. Her publications on the rights of the child and widowhood in Igboland spanned Africa, Europe, America, and most of the continents throughout the world.

“May her memory live forever in the hearts of all of us who loved her! May her soul rest in perfect peace in Heaven, Amen

Aunty Daada…one of a very rare breed.

She was more than just an aunt; she was a second mother, a beacon of love, a pillar of strength and a source of pride for our family. I have fond memories of us as kids, sitting around Aunty Daada, listening to some of the most intriguing folktales whenever she visited from Enugu and indeed, we learnt very important life lessons from her stories.
She remained motherly, loving and caring till the very last time I was with her, when I dropped her at the airport in December of last year. I wish I hugged her a little longer.

It will be impossible to summarize her impact on our entire family in a few sentences, but I am sure her legacy of compassion, resilience, endeavour, integrity and love will continue to be guard rails for the family she has left behind.

Our hearts are heavy with grief, but we are consoled knowing that she lived with grace, dignity and the fear of God, with Whom she rests eternally now.

Rest peacefully Aunty Daada, you will always live in my heart.

Onyekachi Toby Akwari

Fare Thee Well

The writing of this Tribute took over one month for the simple reason that each time I picked up my pen to write I didn't know whether to lament or glorify. I didn't know whether to cry or shout praises. The reason for the confusion is because no matter the option I take I would still be right, however I decided to start with lamentation.
Someone, a special somebody left this world, so it is a loss and a painful thing to endure. Auntie Daada was there for us from the time we got married and were lucky to be living in the same city Enugu. To my wife she was not only an elder sister but a multi-purpose consultant. To me as a Federal government worker who travelled very often my mind was at rest because I knew she was there for my family. Even when I was transferred after three years of marriage to then Gongola state( present Adamawa and Taraba states) I left my young family back in Enugu because I believed she would be there for them and this she did so perfectly. Auntie Daada we are very grateful.

On the second part of this piece I can say that Auntie Daada lived a good and fulfilled life. A Ph.D holder, a chief in her home town of Amanator, an author of many books in many subject areas etc.
She was ever welcoming and if there is anything lacking in her collections SMILE is not one of them. We thank God and glorify Him for granting her the Special grace of living up to eighty years in this world. We wish she lived longer but God knows best. We don't know her agreement with the creator. I use the word 'agreement' because the circumstances of her death looks to me like as the Ibos will say 'Uka akpara akpa isi ka eji ekwe ya' . It reminds me of the caption of a brochure of one burial ceremony which was "AGENDA COMPLETED" so I feel Auntie Daada has completed the agenda of her meeting with the creator.

If there is anything like a "GOOD DEATH" I think Auntie Daada died a 'good and happy death '.
Thank you Auntie Daada for saving us from the anxiety and tension that accompany the final departure of a loved one. We believe you are comfortably resting in the bosom of the Lord. Adieu


Inno Duru
Brother In-law

CATHOLIC ARCHDIOCESE OF OWERRI
(OFFICE OF THE ARCHBISHOP EMERITUS)

October 1 2025
The Okoye Family
c/o Dr. Steve Okoye (Jr)
& Dr. Mary Ann Ije Nwizu (nee Okoye)
c/o St. Hilda's Catholic Church
Stevenage, Hertfordshire SG2 9SG
Dear Steve & Maryann:
Sincere Condolences
On
Odee Dr. Patricia U. Okoye

“Oh, Precious in the eyes of the Lord is the death of His Faithful”. Ps 116:15
In the less than ten years in which I got to know Dr. Mrs. Patricia Okoye nee Agim, she came across as an angel of the Lord and an unforgettable associate. A major in the English language, her willingness to deliver the prestigious Odenigbo Lecture of the year 2018 at Owerri created a cherished relationship between us that glorified God and ignited an unusual affection and passion for the Igbo language and our Igbo people.
Beyond her novel fascination with the Igbo language which led her into writing new books in Igbo she waded into the Igbo culture with her authentic Catholic Spirituality, calling for the freeing of Ndi Igbo from ancestral traditional hostages anchored in ignorance and superstition.
Her saintly, academic and humble spirit will live on to energize me and many others who knew her as well as others who will come to know her at her funeral.
Continue to cherish the life and services of your beloved mother, Odee Chief Dr. Mrs. Pat. Okoye. While I will not be with you physically at her Funeral Mass on the 31st October 2025 be assured of her special inclusion at the Holy Mass I celebrate on that same day.
May the Good Lord strengthen you all as you bid farewell to your dear mother. May her soul rest peacefully in God’s eternal home.
Sincerely yours

Most Rev. Anthony J.V Obinna
Archbishop Emeritus
Owerri Archdiocese

A tribute to a beloved sister

Daada m, Adakwere, Adadioramma, Odee! You were not only the first born of our large unique family of eleven but you were our second mother, our guide, our role model and our adviser. You nurtured us all very well. Thank you for being a great big sister to us all.

You carried the huge responsibilities of being the eldest child of our family with grace, kindness, happiness, patience and wisdom. You were a very caring and devout mother to your younger siblings, children and grandchildren. You had a very happy married life. Daada you lived a well fulfilled life as a good Christian.

You left a legacy of love that will inspire us all forever. Your legacy continues in all the lives you touched. You will forever remain in our hearts but God will have you in his keeping.

I am grateful to the Lord Almighty that I had the opportunity to celebrate you very closely on your last birthday on earth. We thoroughly enjoyed it. I am also eternally grateful to the merciful God that you lived to witness with us our new family ‘edifice’ which gave you so much joy. I thank God above all that you lived to see and enjoy your children and grandchildren.

Daada you will be very missed in many different ways. My twin sister and I will dearly miss your early morning birthday phone calls and your beautiful voice singing Happy Birthday song for umu ejima every year. My children will miss their favourite auntie. The vacuum your passing created cannot be filled. We all love you so dearly but God loves you the most.

Daada m ndo! I love you. Gaa nke oma. Nodu mma. Safe journey home. Ka mkpuru obi gi zuo ike na ndokwa! Daada m, may your beautiful soul rest in eternal bliss, Amen!

From Lolo Juliet Nwosu
(Sister)

Tribute to my Aunty Pat Okoye.
We all have those people in our lives who leave an indelible mark, and for me, one of those people was my Aunty Pat. It feels as though only moments ago we were sharing easy conversation and laughter in her warm Enugu home, and now, this silence- almost 5 months later-doesn't just fill the space she left, it screams of her absence.
Aunty Pat wasn't just my favorite uncle’s wife, but one of my biggest ‘cheerleaders’ and role models, and a living, breathing testament to what it means to live a life filled with purpose and kindness. She had this uncanny ability to make you feel like you were the most important person in the universe. Looking back, those treasured occasional secondary school holiday periods under her roof in Enugu were truly formative times for me. With Uncle Steve, she didn't just offer me an opportunity to enjoy those holidays-she offered nurturing and guidance. The memory of the way she consistently and generously reached out to both Nky (my wife, as you fondly called her) and me is something we deeply value and regard as a gift which will remain a fundamental part of our lives. Though she achieved so much as a wife, mother, teacher, academic, and author, Auntie Pat's most enduring legacy isn't found in a curriculum vitae. It lives, instead, in the indelible mark she left on our hearts. Her life was a beautiful tapestry, demonstrating perfect blend of unwavering compassion and powerful strength in every moment. For one thing, she truly and genuinely loved her husband, my uncle.
Her physical journey with us has ended, but her presence is immortal in every precious memory we share. For all of us who were lucky enough to know her, her warm, enduring light will never fade. And as we continue our own journeys, we carry a piece of her with us, a reminder to be a little kinder, a little bolder, a little wiser, and a little more like my wonderful and highly cerebral Aunty Pat.
To my beloved cousins Ij, Junior, Chinny, Ngo, Mimi, 'Edu and Ugo-o , ndo nu! Please remain strong!
Aunty Pat, Rest in Peace, in the name of Jesus Christ! Amen!!
Prof Onochie Ike Okoye

Pat you were such a joyful heart that you made it a duty to make everyone around you joyful and happy by your generosity. Cheer ful face and simple humor. May your friendly spirit remain an inspiration to many who knew you. Rest in perfect peace Pat. Amen

Mama as I fondly call you, you were not just a mother to me, you were my friend. Thank you for your love, your kindness and prayers. I have never seen you angry, thank you for your smile, warmth and welcoming embrace whenever we visit.
The news of your passing was very devastating, the last time I saw you, you were full of life, happy, jovial and your usual response “isokwa” whenever I shout out “ndi nne mama” was very welcoming as always .Never knew that will be the last time I will see you.
Myself, the children and their dad truly miss you mama, we are devastated but we take solace in God, we are encouraged that you knew and loved God.This is very evident in the way you showed love to everyone, regardless of race, colour or tribe. No amount of words can describe how sweet you are mama. I will personally miss you but I know we will meet again in glory. Please watch over us all. Adieu great warrior.

We last saw at the burial of late Mrs Sarah Okoye(Odibeze) in February 2025. Little did I realize that was to be our last physical contact on earth. What can I say about my late maternal uncle's wife that others have not written or said about you. You were so full of life, always smiling, kind and ready to step in when needed. Your passing has destabilize the family. We cannot question God. To my first cousins I pray that the good Lord will console you all and grant you the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. May the soul of Pat Okoye and the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of the Lord rest in peace. Amen 🙏

It's hard to be here without my dear sister Pat. I want to acknowledge that for many of us, the loss of her energy and charisma in this world leaves a hole. She really knew how to fill a room.

For me, our bond went beyond typical friendship. She was my sister. The kind of sister you choose and keep for life.

What I'll remember most is the absolute certainty of her.

She was my confidante because she was one of the few people who could handle the truth. I could tell her anything—the good, the bad, the embarrassing—and I knew it would be met with calm, sensible advice, and sometimes, a well-deserved laugh. That level of trust is irreplaceable.

And more than anything, she was reliable. I never had to wonder if she would be there. That consistency, that rock-solid presence, was the foundation of our entire relationship.

Thank you, my friend, my sister, for every moment of shared life. I will miss your spirit every single day.

Lady Appolonia Ibegbu
Adinaije

Aunty Pat was a truly magnetic and deeply cherished soul. Her energy and charisma were infectious, illuminating every room she entered. She possessed a rare ability to make everyone around her feel seen and accepted.

For those of us who grew up alongside her family, she was an unwavering presence—a constant source of guidance and a person we could always look up to. Her home was more than just a house; it was a sanctuary—a beloved second home where everyone was met with unconditional warmth.

Her legacy of love, kindness, and vibrant spirit will forever be held close in our hearts.

Sent with love and deepest sympathy from
Dr Nkiru Okeke

... April 15 2023 was a 'momentus' day for a couple of reasons. 'Twas the day we celebrated my parents' 50th wedding anniversary. It was also the first time I met you and Ije (big coz) for the first time. I remember you seeing my parents and saying "they look strong and well"... and indeed they looked so, as they were about to dance into the hall.

I remember chatting with you, and taking a picture or two with you and Ije (which I hope to share in this site). You are so down-to-earth and graceful. You seemed to have enjoyed yourself on the day. Last year, I could not make it to your 80th birthday but we met again, not knowing 'twas going to be for the final time, at Ichie Chigbo Okonkwo's 80th birthday. You were so full of life... you gave me the 'massivest' hug I had ever had... only to hear that you went to be with the Lord some weeks later.

Adadiohamma 1, you have completed your race and handed the baton to us to continue... and we will do so. Rest in perfect peace, aunt dearest. Chigbo Onyeka

CATHOLIC DIOCESE OF ENUGU
LIFE MEMBER (LM) ASSOCIATION OF CATHOLIC WOMEN ORGANIZATION, ENUGU


Our Ref--------------------------------
Your Ref------------------------------ ------- Date: 22/09/2025
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TRIBUTE TO OUR BELOVED SISTER, PATRICIA ULOAKU OKOYE (LM)

The Executives and entire Life Members Association of Catholic Women Organization Enugu Diocese write to commiserate with your family over your transition to eternal glory our dear member and friend, LM Patricia Uloaku Okoye. It was with great shock that we received the news of your demise on 19th Sept, 2025. We are pained that we have lost an ardent and committed member of this noble association and a child of God. LM Patiricia was a great woman known for her hard work not only in family and community services but also her active life in God’s service.
Sister, your death has created a big vacuum in your family, our association and in the world which only our creator, the Almighty and all knowing God has the capacity to fill. We will miss you dearly but take solace in your faith in God and power in the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ who you professed7 while alive. We also believe that the souls of the virtuous are in God’s hands and no torment shall touch them. We thank God for His favour, love, mercy, grace of longevity and robust health given to you to experience an octogenarian year. May His name be praised for ever and ever, amen. Sister, we believe you are at peace in Christ Jesus and our Mother Mary.
We therefore implore your family and loved ones you left behind to take solace in the fact that you lived a fulfilled life. May the good Lord grant them the grace and fortitude to bear this loss in Jesus Name, Amen.
Adieu our beloved sister, LM Patricia Uloaku Okoye! May your gentle soul continue to rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ, Amen. It is well with your soul.
Signed:

LM Lolo Princess Ogonna Ayalogu (AMB, JP) LM Chief Mrs Amah Juliana Nwije MED/
PHIL). DEMA (HONS)
President LM Enugu Diocese Secretary, LM Enugu

This is in loving memory of Mama Patricia Okoye, whose spirit touched so many lives. Though your physical presence is no longer with us, your love, laughter, and wisdom continue to guide us. You remind us of the beautiful impact they had, and may we carry that memory forward in our hearts with every step we take

Aunty Pat, the news of your demise truly unassuming, but who are we to question God.
Death is something that will happen, but whenever it does it comes like a surprise and with great sadness. This was my exact feelings. Nwanne'm Aunty Dr. Patricia Uloaku Okoye, you will be remembered for your lavish love.
We give thanks to God for the well spent and lives touched, your legacy will live on. Aunty Nwanne'm rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ until the resurrection morning.
UMU NWADI ALAM NDONU
"OKE'ADA GA IJEGI NKE OMA"

MRS. NGOZI OGEMDI EZEKWEM

Aunty Pat,you lived with grace,love and a generosity of spirit that touched so many,brought light into the lives of those who knew you.Rest in peace Adadiohamma,Amen.

Pat!Pat! has left the stage in answer to the irrevocable call of her maker and the maker of us all. We, Ije, Jnr and their siblings as well as us Umu Sidney and Priscilla Okonkwo must accept God’s own chosen of this call. It’s very sad to miss the smile, the laughter and all
the encouragement Pat!Pat shares whenever and wherever she is socialising We will miss her, we must all bear the burden of her loss with courage and fortitude. We love you Pat! Pat and pray that God’s accepts you in His paradise Je ee nke oma oo🌺🌺👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️❤️

Chaaii our beautiful mummy! Mama may your soul find perfect peace in God's bossom! Amen!
Look out for Ify Onu, my beloved mom, she will surely hit it off with you! She has a way of making friends with everyone! We miss you our dear mummies but we are consoled that you are in a place of rest!
Mama whisper to our Mother Mary to always intercede for us and give her a bouquet of flowers on our behalf! YOU are gone but will never be forgotten! Adieu Mama!

My sincere condolences to my dearest friend Ifeoma (Mimi) Take heart Sis!



Nneka Ezeani
(Kpakpando)

Aunty Pat,as we fondly call you..
Beauty,elegance,poise,charm and intelligence,you possessed these qualities.
Your beauty speaks for itself...the way you adorn yourself with lovely apparel and your elegant carriage is so heart warming.
Uncle Steve,surely saw and plucked a beautiful flower that birthed other beautiful flowers,Dr ijay and her amazing siblings.
To pour out words won't bring you back,but it's my little way of stating that you touched lives in a million ways than you can ever imagine.Your kindness ,love, honesty and faith will be emulated.

Thank you beautiful,elegant Aunt for your love and affection.
I will surely miss you..

Jee nke Oma..Chineke e welu go onodu na ebe
ino..(had to write this part in Igbo, because I know how much you admire Igbo language and culture).
Farewell Aunty Pat,till we meet again at Jesus feet.Amen.
Rest in peace always.

Amen, Amen and Amen.

Dear Dame Maureen Okoye,

I received with deep sorrow the news of the passing unto glory of your beloved mother Dr (Mrs) Patricia Okoye.

From the many testimonies about her life; its no doubt that Mama lived a life of devotion, humility, hidden strength and love which she recapped in few words "The heart's greatest richness is found in the love we give to others."
She was a woman of faith and character, who touched lives with kindness and left behind a legacy that speaks of service, love, and godliness. All these and more should be a beacon of hope and inspiration to you, your siblings, family members and all of us.

I urge you and the entire family to take solace in the assurance that she rests in the bosom of the Lord, where there is no pain nor sorrow, but everlasting peace.

I pray that the Almighty God grants you and the entire family the strength to bear this irreparable loss, and that He consoles you with His abiding presence.

May Dr (Mrs) Patricia Uloaku Okoye find eternal rest, and may her memory continue to be a blessing.

With deepest sympathy,
Dr. JC & Chinyere Diara (KSC)

I find it hard to believe the sad news that the Amazing Madam Pat is gone to be with the Lord ! Not until I spoke with Dr Ije her daughter who confirmed her death, I refused to believe! I could only but weep like every living mortal still on this earthly journey who must surely pay her debt at the appointed time.
I came to know Madam Pat as a teacher, writer, business woman, dedicated wife, loving mother and a great colleague in teaching profession through her friend, the late Carol Onwuegbune nee Chibuoke. My first meeting with her was like we had been friends for ages. She was kind, welcoming and very supportive. She encouraged me to be part of her clothing business and inspired me to be a WAEC Examiner. Madam Pat as I fondly called her was a great and wonderful lady with a large heart full of love. There was never a dull moment when you are in her company.
To her children she was a role model, loving and caring. To Steve her darling husband, she was a diamond and everything to him ! To all her friends she was a shining star! To her siblings she was a great Daada !
We all had wished that she stayed longer with us but God’s case has no appeal! She lived a quality and beautiful life! She was loved, cared for, honored and respected by everyone around her and for these we are blessed and grateful to God for the life and the opportunities of knowing her.
May God grant her soul eternal rest in Heaven. Amen 🙏❤️

Chiugo Obiefuna
NC USA.

Tribute to My Dearest Aunty Pat
Aunty Pat, as we fondly called you, you were my mum’s bosom friend. I grew up knowing you, and to know you was to love you. You were tall, elegant, and a fashionista par excellence—always looking fresh and radiant.

You were loving and warm, with such a big heart. I remember our visits to your home every other weekend—we would eat, play, and never want to leave. And those Sundays when you and your dear husband, Uncle Steve, would stop by our house after visiting Mama 71 (Uncle Steve’s mum at 71 Owerri Road, Asata in Enugu)—those moments are etched in my heart.

You and Uncle Steve were simply amazing. We became family in every sense of the word. Your children became our friends, and then family too.

When Chinny called to give me the sad news of your passing, I honestly thought I was having a bad dream. You were so full of life, even at your age, and you didn’t look like someone who was going anywhere soon. But God knows best. You lived a good and fulfilled life, achieved so much, and touched countless lives along the way.

We will all miss you dearly, but we take comfort in knowing you have gone to glory to be with the Lord. Farewell, Aunty Pat, till we meet again.
Mrs. Ijeoma Agusiobo (née Eneanya

Dearest, dearest Aunty, it's taken a while to put words together to say thank you for being my Aunty. It was always a great pleasure to see you whenever the opportunity was created especially during the Christmas holiday period in Ikenga-Ogidi and to speak with you in the later years. See now the great vacuum you have left in my sight as I ponder upon your sudden departure from this world but grateful I remain for you will be held dearly in my heart knowing that you are dancing with the heavenly hosts. The imprints you have made in my life will continued to be shared through words and acts. Thank you for being true. Rest peacefully in heaven Aunty now and forever, amen ❤️🙏🏽
~Ngo Ochendo (as you fondly called me)

Daada so your death has truly become a reality.
I lack words to express the shock of the bad news. It is now I realized why you phoned a day before your death singing happy birthday song and wishing me well on a day that is not my birthday, which you hardly forget the month and the day.
You sang the birthday song in such an emotional way, that tears rolled down my cheeks as soon as you finished, not knowing why until now.
Daada as a little girl, you took me to your husband's house out of love, and out of love and confidence I had in you, I agreed to follow you.
Daada I will miss your jokes, songs and the different pet ways you personally called my name.
I will always remember you whenever I recall my primary and secondary school days through Osina, Abakaliki and Enugu.
You have left a big vacuum amongst your siblings, your motherly advice and all you stand for in our one big family.
Daada m, we love you but God loves you the most.
May heaven be your consolation. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Your sister,
Goldie.

CHURCH OF NIGERIA
ECCLESIASTICAL PROVINCE OF ENUGU
DIOCESE OF NIKE
(Anglican Communion)
CATHEDRAL CHURCH OF ST. CYPRIAN ABAKPA NIKE, ENUGU

Our Ref: CCSC/ADM/181 Date: 20th August, 2025


Dr. Steve C. Okoye and Family,



TRIBUTE TO A QUINTESSENTIAL MOTHER

We received with much grief in our hearts news of the passing on of your beloved mother, Dr. Mrs. Pat U. Okoye.
It is even more painful coming at this crucial time when you, her children, needed most her wise counsel with which she had guided you all through your journey of life.

Your mother, during her life time was a mother and benefactor to many, a shining testament to the power of kindness, compassion and faith.
As a devout Christian, your mother made sure she inculcated in her children such cherished Christian virtues of love, peace and sacrificial devotion to the work of God.

As a Church, God has made us to benefit by extension from these rare Christian virtues by giving us one of her daughters – our own dear Dame Maureen Okoye – a rare gem, Church Verger and one of the pillars of this great Cathedral, who also embodies the aforementioned virtues in the highest degree. Hence, your mother is not necessarily dead but still lives in the children she left behind.

The Standing Committee, the Clergy and the entire parishioners of Cathedral Church of St. Cyprian, Abakpa Nike, wish to commiserate with you and the entire Okoye family to take solace in the fact that your mother had played her God-given role, leaving worthy legacies for us all to follow.
As Christians, we believe like St. Paul the Apostle, that death or life is a win-win situation.
Your mother has gone to answer the mandatory call that faces all mortals.
We should, therefore, not mourn like those without hope but have our eyes fixated upon our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ, to also run our own race, finish strong and receive our crowns of glory.

May your Mum’s gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord till the resurrection morning.

Adieu Mama!


Ven. Dr. Harold U. Onuselogu
Sub-Dean of the Cathedral

Bro Charles-Philips Nwankwo Secretary, Cathedral
Standing Committee.

Dr Pat Okoye,fondly called Aunty Pat..
Your demise came to me as a shock,which I am yet to come to terms with..
Your kindness,your beauty,your sweet angelic voice ,shall never be forgotten..The way you loved and adored Uncle Steve,is world class..matchless I must say.
I have too many memories about you and I shall inculcate them for the period I am still on earth.
Your candour to "shakara"is one I personally admire.

Aunty,If i knew the gifts you gave me at my Mom's funeral would be the final farewell,maybe I would have hugged a little bit more.....Thank you so much,Aunty Pat for your love and care.i deeply appreciate you.

Adadioramma!!!jee nke oma..you're at rest.
No more pain but Heaven's gain.. You'll be missed..

May God continue to give Dr ijay,Dr Steve, Chinwe,Dr Ngozi,Mimi modella,Chinedu and U-go,the fortitude to bear this huge loss.Amen

May your beautiful soul rest in the bosom of the Almighty..Amen.

Aunty Pat was a woman whose life was a living lesson in love, faith, and wisdom.

As a mother, she gave not only life, but also guidance, sacrifice, and unconditional love. Her heart was understanding, her arms always open, and her words filled with encouragement.

As a teacher, she did more than impart knowledge—she shaped minds and inspired character.

As a grandmother, she was a wellspring of warmth and tenderness.

Her greatness was not in titles or possessions, but in the quiet ways she touched lives and left lasting imprints on our hearts.

We celebrate her not only for who she was to us, but for who she helped us become. Her legacy lives on in the family she raised, the students she taught, and the countless lives she touched.

Rest well, beloved mother, teacher, and grandmother. Your lessons will echo through time, and your love will never be forgotten.

May Her Soul Rest in Peace!

On behalf of The family of Dr Francis and Dr Ifeoma Egbuonu, I write to convey our condolences to Ijeoma, Steve, Maureen, Ngozi, Chinedu, Ifeoma, Ugochukwu as well as the beloved grandchildren, relations and friends whose lives were touched by the many kind words, deeds and presence of the Matriarch of your family.

Her uncommon gifts were manifest in her constant warmth, wise counsels and unwavering Faith.

We share this difficult period with you as a family, believing that her impactful life will continue to give us all comfort in the legacy that defined her as a daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, accomplished scholar, Faithful servant and joyfully humane...

And by His Grace, we can accept this transition of Chief Dr Mrs Patricia Okoye is unto the Saints Triumphant...

Accept our deepest condolences.

Francis Egbuonu III

The Family of Late Chief Steve Okoye 18th Aug, 2025


Condolence Message
On behalf of the Parish Priest, the Pastoral Council and the entire good people of St John the Beloved Parish RCC , I write to commiserate with the entire family on the passing of our beloved mother and mother inlaw Late Chief Dr Mrs Pat Okoye (nee Agim)
Late Chief Dr Mrs Pat Okoye (nee Agim) was a quintessential teacher, an academia, a writer, a great community leader, a jolie fellow and a very caring mother who brought transformation in the life of many families and young people especially her family. She was a caring and inspiring soul, always there with kind words filled with rich wisdom for all who came for her advice and encouragement. She invested her life to secure the future of her children and all who had the privilege of being around her. She was a generous and large hearted creature, always ready to go extra mile to reach-out to people with love. She was a very hardworking and diligent mother who did not condone laziness. Above all she was a very dedicated Christian.
The death of a mother is always a very painful experience. May we assure you that our thoughts and prayers are with you. As you mourn, may you derive consolation in Christ who is the resurrection and life and from the fact that mama lived a good life. May the legacies she left continue to be alive in the family. May God give the entire family the grace and the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
May her gentle soul rest in the peace of Christ.


Rev Fr. Dr. Anthony Tochukwu Owoh,
Parish Priest

Heartfelt Tribute
From Fr Prof Augustine Akubue

Dear Members of the Family of the Late Dr. (Mrs.) Pat Okoye,

Words may not fully capture the pain of your loss, but please accept my deepest sympathy as you mourn the passing of your beloved mother. Her transition into eternal rest is indeed a moment of sorrow, yet we must surrender to the will of the Almighty God with faith and resignation.

Dr. (Mrs.) Pat Okoye was truly a gift to all who had the privilege of knowing her. I was personally touched by her kindness and generosity. She was not only a neighbor, but genuinely neighborly; not only a friend, but deeply friendly; and above all, not just a mother, but profoundly maternal. Her warmth, grace, and selfless nature made a lasting impact. She will be sorely missed, yet lovingly remembered.

Her virtues were many—her humility was charming, and her simplicity disarming. These qualities formed a legacy that will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.

Take heart in knowing that while she may be away from you, she is now closer to God. As she joins the company of the faithful departed, may she be received with joy among the saints as a faithful servant returned to her Lord.

May God grant each of you the strength, peace, and courage you need during this time of grief.

With deepest sympathy,
Rev. Fr. Prof. A. Akubue
Dean, Faculty of Education
Coal City University, Enugu

Maama mia, Nne oma m.
With utmost poise and dignity, you embodied the very essence of grace, elegance, and nobility until the twilight of your earthly sojourn.
The Almighty God lavished upon you His most precious blessings, and with a generous heart, you ensured that every soul graced by your presence was touched by your benevolence.
Like Tabitha of biblical renown, you found sublime joy in the art of giving—dispensing love, sharing knowledge, offering warmth, providing sustenance, bestowing gifts, and countless other acts of kindness.

Maama mia, bidding adieu to you is an aching necessity, one I had not envisioned arriving so soon, certainly not before at least another five years had unfolded. Yet, as the saying goes, man proposes, God disposes.
In His infinite mercy, the good Lord called you home at the pinnacle of your ripened time, sparing you from any taint of defilement.
All glory is ascribed to God, who adorned your life with a cornucopia of grace and fulfillment, directing your path and tenderly preparing you for the glorious coming of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ.
You came, you saw, you conquered.
Your luminous memory shall remain perpetually evergreen in the chambers of my heart until my own final breath, when I shall reunite with you, Daddy, and all the faithful departed in the loving bosom of the Lord, where partings are no more. You were a living legend, a blessing of the highest order. Forevermore, I shall cherish love for you and gratitude in my heart.
Rest peacefully on in the sweet embrace of the Lord, my precious, irreplaceable mother and cherished friend ❤️🥰😍💔😭😭😭

I had earlier sent a detailed tribute in which I gave account of the personality of Chief Dr Odee Mrs Pat. Uloaku Okoye, Adadiohanma of Amanator Kingdom.
She was an embodiment of womanhood, the matriarch of Steve Nnaemeka Chukwuemeka Okoye family,
She was well educated, an author and publisher of many books, written in English, Igbo and French languages, her books are used in both primary and secondary schools in Enugu, Anambra states and beyond.
She was a decent and loving wife, a caring mother and an accomplished public servant.
I, my wife and family glorify God Almighty for the amazing wonderful life that she lived for humanity, especially the women, whose cause she championed, and evident in one of her books; "Harmful Widowhood Practices..."
May God accept her soul to rest in perfect peace in His bossom, and grant us, especially her immediate family, the fortitude bear the irreparable loss with faith.

Chief Charles Okey Ikegbunam.
(Nwannedinamba of Ibagwa-Aka Kingdom).

Daada m nkeukwu, you left a legacy of peace, love, unity, and justice for all. May your sweet gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace with the Lord Amen.
Yours baby sister,
Tos.