Pat Storey
To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.
Obituary
With deep sadness, we announce the passing of Pat, who was born on August 20th, 1958 and passed away on April 27th, 2026.
Pat was an incredibly loving, kind and generous person who dedicated her life to her family, friends and helping others. She spent her career first helping survivors of strokes then moving on to fostering children whilst volunteering with the New Hope Trust. With no need for recognition or praise she quietly went about her work, ensuring the world was a better place for her being in it.
As a wife she was dedicated and loving. Sharing a lifetime of love and many, many laughs with husband Ollie. As promised in her wedding vows she cared for him - in sickness and in health - and together they created a life full of joy. As a sister to Terry she was bound by blood but loved by choice. They grew up and travelled the world together, creating memories and sharing incredible experiences. As a friend she was selfless and loyal, forging deep lasting friendships that became like an extended family to her.
Though it was as a mother and nanny that she truly shined. A matriarch in the warmest sense of the word. She would do anything to help her children - Daniel, Lauren & Becky and grandchildren, Marley, Logan, Jessica, Bear & Isabelle. We're not permitted to publish her foster children's names but you know who you are and how much you were loved. Unfortunately we are also not allowed to post pictures of our foster children although you can add them in your own comments. She made all the children feel safe and loved unconditionally - no problem seemed too big or worry too scary when she was around. To her children she was a hero and a role model, an example of how to move through the world being the best version of yourself. To her grandchildren she was a light that shined in their life with a brightness that was irreplaceable.
The passing of Pat leaves a space that cannot be filled. Yet she lives on in the hearts of everyone she knew - in the memories she made, the laughter she shared and lives that she created.
Pat will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered.
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June 24, 2026
I remember Pat as a women that loved. She loved her work, connecting with people, making lives better, she loved a challenge.....always creatively overcoming barriers and she loved her friends and most of all, her beautiful family. She lived life with an open and welcoming heart.
Working for Pat was never dull, she was supportive, fun, joyous and wanted the best.
I have fond memories of the plan hatched with Pat and Judy...a charity event where we dressed as the "Caped Cowsaders" and did laps in the park. She was a true people person and nothing was ever too much for her.
I can not imagine the gap Pat has left in her families lives but know that everyone who met Pat will have the opportunity to carry some of her shining light forward.
Sending much love to Pat, her family and friends. Xxxxxx
Working for Pat was never dull, she was supportive, fun, joyous and wanted the best.
I have fond memories of the plan hatched with Pat and Judy...a charity event where we dressed as the "Caped Cowsaders" and did laps in the park. She was a true people person and nothing was ever too much for her.
I can not imagine the gap Pat has left in her families lives but know that everyone who met Pat will have the opportunity to carry some of her shining light forward.
Sending much love to Pat, her family and friends. Xxxxxx
June 6, 2026
Rest in Peace our lovely Pat-Pat. You will be so missed. There have been some wonderful messages on here and they say it all. You were fabulous and will never be forgotten. We are so grateful to have been blessed with you as our friend. Much love to your family - from your Four Amigos.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
June 4, 2026
So sorry for your lost,sending our love and sympathy to you all. Pat was a lovely lady .
June 3, 2026
Dear Ollie, Daniel, Rebecca & Lauren (I am Barbara’s sister)
I am so very sorry to hear of beautiful Pat passing away, such a lovely, funny lady, may she rest in peace.
We used to hang out with all the gang at the space ship club in Greenford, had many laughs at the dances there. Pat was a funny beautiful lady.
I am sure Pat will always be with you all watching over you all.
Such a wonderful lady.
Liz
I am so very sorry to hear of beautiful Pat passing away, such a lovely, funny lady, may she rest in peace.
We used to hang out with all the gang at the space ship club in Greenford, had many laughs at the dances there. Pat was a funny beautiful lady.
I am sure Pat will always be with you all watching over you all.
Such a wonderful lady.
Liz
June 3, 2026
Pat was always so very kind and extraordinarily good-humoured on the occasions I met her.
So deeply sorry for your loss, wishing you all, the very best.
So deeply sorry for your loss, wishing you all, the very best.
May 30, 2026
Was a pleasure to have known Pat Pat, we had many special times and laughs, will be greatly missed x
May 29, 2026
Rest peacefully dear cousin Pat. You were not only family but a very cherished friend. We travelled together through different stages of our lives filled with joy, sorrow and laughter. It was a privilege to have had you in our lives and you will be forever in our hearts.
Deepest condolences to Ollie, Daniel, Becky, Lauren and grandchildren.
Love,
Mary, Monica, Jean, Johnny & Fran
Deepest condolences to Ollie, Daniel, Becky, Lauren and grandchildren.
Love,
Mary, Monica, Jean, Johnny & Fran
May 29, 2026
To Ollie & family
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Pat's passing.
Ollie, my oldest friend, my heart goes out to you and your family at this very difficult time.
Although we had not seen much of each other in recent years, it is clear from the tributes shared here that Pat was a truly special person whose memory will live on. May she rest in peace.
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Pat's passing.
Ollie, my oldest friend, my heart goes out to you and your family at this very difficult time.
Although we had not seen much of each other in recent years, it is clear from the tributes shared here that Pat was a truly special person whose memory will live on. May she rest in peace.
May 28, 2026
Vending, Vidi, Vici, I came, I saw, I conquered. This is what Pat did to all of our hearts. We all greatly miss Pat and her bright jovial company.
Greatest condolences.
Ollie Day
Greatest condolences.
Ollie Day
May 28, 2026
There is no word to describe how Pat made everyone feel loved and welcome. She was an amazing person and one of a kind and inspirational to us all.
May 27, 2026
Pat was a special person to so many people. She was a giver not a taker in how she lived her life. There was nothing she wouldn't do for her family, friends, colleagues and anyone in need. She loved a laugh and we had many, she loved loved a challenge and we had many, but she was nobody's fool. We treasure the time and the memories we had with her and she will never be forgotten ♥️ ❤️ 💖
May 25, 2026
There are some people who leave such a mark on your life that it’s impossible to imagine the world without them in it. Pat was one of those people.
She had the rare gift of making everyone around her feel loved, welcomed, and safe. Whether through her kindness, her laughter, her wisdom, or simply a pot of tea and a listening ear, she gave so much of herself to so many without ever asking for anything.
Family was the centre of her world, and she created a home and a life filled with warmth, compassion, and unconditional love.
Pat touched more lives than she will probably ever know, especially my dad and mum. She changed lives quietly and selflessly, simply by being who she was.
I feel incredibly lucky to have known Pat and to have called her as my adopted step sister. She will be missed more than words can say, but never forgotten.
Sending all my love to Ollie, Terry, the children, grandchildren, and everyone whose life was made brighter by Pat.
She had the rare gift of making everyone around her feel loved, welcomed, and safe. Whether through her kindness, her laughter, her wisdom, or simply a pot of tea and a listening ear, she gave so much of herself to so many without ever asking for anything.
Family was the centre of her world, and she created a home and a life filled with warmth, compassion, and unconditional love.
Pat touched more lives than she will probably ever know, especially my dad and mum. She changed lives quietly and selflessly, simply by being who she was.
I feel incredibly lucky to have known Pat and to have called her as my adopted step sister. She will be missed more than words can say, but never forgotten.
Sending all my love to Ollie, Terry, the children, grandchildren, and everyone whose life was made brighter by Pat.
May 25, 2026
Pat was my best friend from the day we met in secondary school and we were inseparable for years.I have many wonderful memories of our times together, including our first holiday in the Isle of Wight at the age of 16. We spent every weekend together for years having a great time ,
We were bridesmaids at each others weddings . I used to visit Pat often when she moved to Watford and she came to visit me with Daniel, Lauren and Rebecca.
Our lives became busy with our families and our visits became less often, ( my biggest regret).
I was heartbroken to hear the news of Pat passing 💔. My thoughts and love to Ollie Daniel Lauren and Rebecca and her sister Terry. We have all lost a very special lady.
Rest in Peace Pat I will never forget you ,my lovely kind funny beautiful friend xx😢💔💔
We were bridesmaids at each others weddings . I used to visit Pat often when she moved to Watford and she came to visit me with Daniel, Lauren and Rebecca.
Our lives became busy with our families and our visits became less often, ( my biggest regret).
I was heartbroken to hear the news of Pat passing 💔. My thoughts and love to Ollie Daniel Lauren and Rebecca and her sister Terry. We have all lost a very special lady.
Rest in Peace Pat I will never forget you ,my lovely kind funny beautiful friend xx😢💔💔
May 24, 2026
Dearest Pat, ive been trying for a few days now to find the words to describe how much you have always meant to me and my family but nothing feels like it does you justice- i now realise that's because there are no words to adequately describe someone who is absolutely one of a kind and who has made such a difference to my family's lives. To call you a carer feels like a bit of an insult as many people are carers - however, in my many years of experience you and ollie are literally the only people that did truly care. It wasn't a job that you did for the income which is sadly all we had experienced previously. The children were not burdens that felt unloved and unwanted- completely the opposite..they immediately felt loved, wanted, relevant and nurtured and my precious boy is the person he was supposed to be today because of your love and care. Nothing was too much to ensure he was thriving. You were his parents when I couldn't be but ensured I was still included and did everything in his best interests. I am proud and blessed to say you are just as much his mother as I am and I will always love you deeply for being that mother so willingly and so completely. I really can't put into words how special you are to me and my family and you will always be in my heart. God bless and may you rest in peace xx
May 24, 2026
Deepest sympathy to Oliver & Family.
Those we love don't go away.
Thinking about you Pat.
Dear Angel.
Those we love don't go away.
Thinking about you Pat.
Dear Angel.
May 23, 2026
It still does not feel real that lovely Pat has passed away. She was more than a family friend, she was like an aunty to myself and Simon. She cared so much for everyone and was always the first there to help with Ollie when support was needed. I have fond memories of her looking after us when mum was unwell and having sleepovers with Lauren and Becky on school nights. Then later the fun and laughs at the Stroke group events, BBQs and get togethers. Not to mention when we all snuck round to Chris and John Days to decorate the outside of their house with tacky Xmas decorations while they were away. 😂.
Pat will always remain with us all in our hearts and memories. She will be forever missed but always remembered. She will be so welcomed by all of our loved ones in heaven. A true angel. Miss you forever Pat. Rachel, Gary and Rosie xxxx
Pat will always remain with us all in our hearts and memories. She will be forever missed but always remembered. She will be so welcomed by all of our loved ones in heaven. A true angel. Miss you forever Pat. Rachel, Gary and Rosie xxxx
May 23, 2026
You were, and always will be, a star.
Thank you for the memories, the laughter, and the friendship you gave so freely. Though you are no longer with us, your light continues to shine in our hearts and in the lives of everyone who had the privilege of knowing you.
You will be deeply missed, forever loved, and never forgotten.
With all our love,
Gary, Lina, Orleta, Milana, and of course, Amadeus
Thank you for the memories, the laughter, and the friendship you gave so freely. Though you are no longer with us, your light continues to shine in our hearts and in the lives of everyone who had the privilege of knowing you.
You will be deeply missed, forever loved, and never forgotten.
With all our love,
Gary, Lina, Orleta, Milana, and of course, Amadeus
May 22, 2026
Dear Ollie and all the Family
Pat was a truly wonderful lady and together you were both a Powerhouse Couple with the biggest hearts ♥️ ♥️
I will keep you all in my prayers
With Love
Rose Marie and Family xxxx
Pat was a truly wonderful lady and together you were both a Powerhouse Couple with the biggest hearts ♥️ ♥️
I will keep you all in my prayers
With Love
Rose Marie and Family xxxx
May 21, 2026
To Becky, Lauren and Dan and Terry
I just want you to know how special your Mum/sister is. To Ollie, we've know each other for so long and Im desperately sad for your loss.
I hope the support we can give you will help you all in the knowledge that Pat was special and you both did so much for other people with your foster care which is inspirational.
With love
Graham and Elle
I just want you to know how special your Mum/sister is. To Ollie, we've know each other for so long and Im desperately sad for your loss.
I hope the support we can give you will help you all in the knowledge that Pat was special and you both did so much for other people with your foster care which is inspirational.
With love
Graham and Elle
May 21, 2026
Losing a great friend is very painful but Pat was like the daughter we never had, thus making her a big sister to Peter & Gary. Pat was so caring, so kind, very good at DIY & nothing was too much trouble for her. I have so many happy memories, going out with Pat was so much fun. A day never passed without having a great laugh and a visit to Greggs! Rest peacefully, forever loved, forever missed, forever in our hearts.
Love
Mummy Chris xxxx
My favourite pictures of us, the 2nd picture is Pat & John toys in their wasp’s rugby kits on his memorial bench. Today 21st May is the 6th anniversary of my husband John passing and Pat was a tower of strength that day and helped me get through it. I meet Pat many years ago when John retired and he volunteered for the Stroke Association, They forged a strong bond and became great friends, and John also considered her to be the daughter we never had.
Love
Mummy Chris xxxx
My favourite pictures of us, the 2nd picture is Pat & John toys in their wasp’s rugby kits on his memorial bench. Today 21st May is the 6th anniversary of my husband John passing and Pat was a tower of strength that day and helped me get through it. I meet Pat many years ago when John retired and he volunteered for the Stroke Association, They forged a strong bond and became great friends, and John also considered her to be the daughter we never had.
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In honor of our beloved Pat, for those that have requested a charity so they can make a donation in Pat's name we invite you to contribute directly to NEW HOPE TRUST.
Account name: Watford New Hope trust
Account number: 00081649
Sort code: 40 52 40
Pat has catered for the homeless & needy for over 40 years, she has been a volunteer with the trust for a number of years. She cooked her 1st Holy Rood soup kitchen meal in April 1984 & finished her last winter night shelter duty on the 17th March 2026. Your generous donation will serve as a meaningful tribute, perpetuating the spirit of Pat by supporting a meaningful cause.
Together, let us continue the legacy of compassion and kindness that Pat embodied throughout their life.
Account name: Watford New Hope trust
Account number: 00081649
Sort code: 40 52 40
Pat has catered for the homeless & needy for over 40 years, she has been a volunteer with the trust for a number of years. She cooked her 1st Holy Rood soup kitchen meal in April 1984 & finished her last winter night shelter duty on the 17th March 2026. Your generous donation will serve as a meaningful tribute, perpetuating the spirit of Pat by supporting a meaningful cause.
Together, let us continue the legacy of compassion and kindness that Pat embodied throughout their life.
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