Pam Dickeson
In loving memory of Pammy!
Obituary
Pam Dickeson, a cherished mother to Chelsea and Simon, and fondly referred to as "Nanny Pammy" by many who grew up under her care, has died following a prolonged battle with mental illness on Sunday, July 28, 2024. Her infectious laughter, kindness, love for the beach and children, and unwinding day with a glass of chardonnay will always be remembered. Pammy lived in both Australia and New Zealand, and spent many years in Eastbourne, endearing herself to the local community. Having returned to Australia for her retirement, she will be deeply missed but forever cherished.
Arrangements are being made for a memorial service in Sydney, likely to be in late August or early September. The details will be shared once confirmed.
If you want to celebrate Pammy's life, please light a candle in her memory.
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August 6, 2024
Pam, we are so sad to hear of your passing. Thank you for the love and care you gave to Lily and Jack. They loved going to your place. We will miss you x
Jess and Gareth
Jess and Gareth
August 6, 2024
Pam - thank you for your contribution to our kids and our community. You made one tired mum smile, often. Rest well.
Huge love to your family at this difficult time.
Huge love to your family at this difficult time.
August 6, 2024
Dear Pammy I loved our chats along the Eastbourne promenade or in the village. thanks for your kindness always to me and our family. we shared a homesickness always so I was so glad to hear you were finally going back to Australia. I'm sorry you didn't get to enjoy it for longer! send some sun down to us from heaven nanny Pammy. lots of love xxx
August 4, 2024
Pam, we will all miss you. Your love and laughter will never be forgotten. Thank you for taking such great care of our babes. Rest in peace. X
August 4, 2024
It’s with such sadness that I have learned of your passing Pam, you were wonderful.
I loved your infectious laugh and smile, your vibrancy and care of others and the world about you.
You were very good to me Pam, A genuine caring person. I miss you, and will miss knowing you’re not here anymore. Will raise a glass, on the wall, with a beautiful harbour sunset to you my friend.
Go with much love Pam xx
Chelsea and Simon, I’m very sorry for your loss of your Mum
I loved your infectious laugh and smile, your vibrancy and care of others and the world about you.
You were very good to me Pam, A genuine caring person. I miss you, and will miss knowing you’re not here anymore. Will raise a glass, on the wall, with a beautiful harbour sunset to you my friend.
Go with much love Pam xx
Chelsea and Simon, I’m very sorry for your loss of your Mum
August 2, 2024
Oh Pam, I am so sad to hear this news. We always laughed with great gusto when we met. You were a very kind, thoughtful and empathetic person who could talk the hind leg off a donkey! You will be very missed. Much love to your family xxx
August 1, 2024
I have had the privilage to know you for 35 yrs, you took care of lily when she was young.
we were a part of your family and saw chelsea and Simon grew up together.
You were the kindest person i know!
I wish strenght to Chelsea and Si in the coming time.
You will never been forgotten.
we were a part of your family and saw chelsea and Simon grew up together.
You were the kindest person i know!
I wish strenght to Chelsea and Si in the coming time.
You will never been forgotten.
August 1, 2024
Rest easy, lovely Pammy: Second mum to me (and many others). I carry core memories of your laugh, candour, peppermints, fresh flowers and struggling to keep up with your cracking pace. You taught me so much about life and childcare, which I can now bring into my motherhood journey. Chels and Si, my thoughts and love to you both.
July 31, 2024
Dear Simon and Chelsea
Like many we were so shocked to hear this sad news.
Pam was so looking forward to her retirement in the sun and being able to spend more time with her family.
Thinking of you both and remembering your Mum in happier times .
KiaKaha
Hugs to you both
Jill and Laurie Marment xx
Like many we were so shocked to hear this sad news.
Pam was so looking forward to her retirement in the sun and being able to spend more time with her family.
Thinking of you both and remembering your Mum in happier times .
KiaKaha
Hugs to you both
Jill and Laurie Marment xx
July 31, 2024
Our sincere condolences Chelsea and Simon on the death of your Mum.
It is more than 30 years ago since you all played as kids and had a wonderful time together with the many other children in Pukatea Street. Of more recent times, Pammy looked after our grandchildren who all loved her. We are so sad that she has lost her battle and not able to enjoy her retirement years.
We will remember you all together with Pammy’s kindness and infectious personality.
RIP Pammy.
Diane & Spencer XX
It is more than 30 years ago since you all played as kids and had a wonderful time together with the many other children in Pukatea Street. Of more recent times, Pammy looked after our grandchildren who all loved her. We are so sad that she has lost her battle and not able to enjoy her retirement years.
We will remember you all together with Pammy’s kindness and infectious personality.
RIP Pammy.
Diane & Spencer XX
July 31, 2024
Dear Chelsea and Simon,
I am shocked and devastated to hear Pam is no longer with us. She was such a big part of my little family's life and she was so happy to be going back to Australia and the sunshine, as well as to be close to her beautiful family. She was a strong, brave, hard working, fierce woman and I loved her honesty and that no subject was out of bounds. I loved seeing her striding around Eastbourne, often with little ones in tow, enjoying the beach life (but hating the Wellington weather!). Your sadness is shared over here in Eastbourne. Sending you much love and strength for the days ahead. xxxxx
I am shocked and devastated to hear Pam is no longer with us. She was such a big part of my little family's life and she was so happy to be going back to Australia and the sunshine, as well as to be close to her beautiful family. She was a strong, brave, hard working, fierce woman and I loved her honesty and that no subject was out of bounds. I loved seeing her striding around Eastbourne, often with little ones in tow, enjoying the beach life (but hating the Wellington weather!). Your sadness is shared over here in Eastbourne. Sending you much love and strength for the days ahead. xxxxx
July 31, 2024
Dear Chelsea and Simon, sending you much love. Such happy memories of your beloved mum. So many days with all the children playing outside, running between the houses, coffee mornings, lots of laughs, late afternoon wines, street parties - Pukatea Street days were wonderful. She adored you two. So many good times. Treasure your lovely memories of your dear mum xxxx
July 31, 2024
Pammy you were my closest friends in my life. I will miss you horribly. You were a special person in my life and I am very sad you are not here anymore. I hope things are better where you are now. Lots and lots of love Ann Husmann xx
July 31, 2024
Dear Chels and Simon,
So sorry to hear about your wonderful Mum. She was such a bright light around Eastbourne growing up. A big heart and infectious laugh. Hope you both are ok xx
So sorry to hear about your wonderful Mum. She was such a bright light around Eastbourne growing up. A big heart and infectious laugh. Hope you both are ok xx
July 31, 2024
Lots of love Pammy 💗
July 31, 2024
Dear Chelsea and Simon. I am so very sorry for your loss. It has been many years since we lived next door to you but I have always loved seeing Pam and having a chat around Eastbourne. She was already missed from the community. Thinking of you both x
July 31, 2024
Pam you were my lovely welcome to Konini Street in Eastbourne and a breath of fresh air each time we spoke over the fence as I pottered around in my front garden.
You will be missed my many!
RIP
You will be missed my many!
RIP
July 30, 2024
Dear Pammie. Through all the years I knew you, all I knew of you was constant laughter, smiles, giving of friendship and love. If I’d seen more of you in recent years, maybe I’d have seen behind that beautiful smile. You’ll be missed by many, especially children, and an entire community. But you’re at peace now. Arohanui xx
July 30, 2024
Dearest Chelsea and Simon. I am devastated to hear of the passing of your beloved family. I loved having you over the road in Miro St and being your teacher for a short while at Muritai School.
Pammie and I shared many stories and had jolly good laughs together. I can still hear her laughing!
May she now be in peace.
Pammie and I shared many stories and had jolly good laughs together. I can still hear her laughing!
May she now be in peace.
July 30, 2024
Rest in peace dear Pam... your laugh always made me feel better.
I will never forget it.
I will never forget it.
July 30, 2024
Dear Chelsea & fam,
I am heartbroken to hear of your beautiful Mums passing, and my love and condolences are with you all at this sad time,
Every interaction I had with Pam was an absolute delight, and she bought so much joy and laughter to the room, much like you do too Chels x
Your Mum did an incredible job raising you and Simon to be kind, caring, and simply wonderful humans. And I know how much you will miss her.
Although we may now live oceans apart, I hope you know I will forever and always be there to support you whenever you need it.
Sending you and your family the biggest hugs and all my love right now Chels
xx
Rest peacefully beautiful Pam <3
I am heartbroken to hear of your beautiful Mums passing, and my love and condolences are with you all at this sad time,
Every interaction I had with Pam was an absolute delight, and she bought so much joy and laughter to the room, much like you do too Chels x
Your Mum did an incredible job raising you and Simon to be kind, caring, and simply wonderful humans. And I know how much you will miss her.
Although we may now live oceans apart, I hope you know I will forever and always be there to support you whenever you need it.
Sending you and your family the biggest hugs and all my love right now Chels
xx
Rest peacefully beautiful Pam <3
July 30, 2024
My memory of your mum is her absolutely joy of life… she gave it her all! Rest in peace my dear sister in law
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