

It is not how long we live but rather the impact we made in this world especially in other people's lives that matters most.
Otito you left indellible footprints in the sands of time.
BIOGRAPHY
Dr Otito Nnebundo Aronu was born in Enugu, Nigeria on Feb. 24th 1979, the third of 5 children and only daughter of Mr Benjamin and Late Mrs Uchenna Anaka. Her early years were in Nigeria where she attended Independence Layout Primary School Enugu and later Federal Government Girls College Onitsha, Anambra state.
She relocated with her family to the United States in 1996. Here in the US she completed her High school at Far Rockaway High school, Queens New York where she was a distinguished Athlete winning several medals on the tracks. She was also an excellent student academically.
She later gained admission to the City University of New York graduating with a Bachelor of Science in Biology in 2003. Otito went on to study Public Health obtaining a Masters in Public Health from the State University of New York, Down State in May 2005. While completing her Masters in Public Health program she gained admission into the Syracuse University Medical School, Upstate New York graduating with an MD degree in 2008.
Her interest was in Obstetrics and Gynecology. She proceeded to Residency training first at Northshore University Hospital, Long Island New York and subsequently to St Peter's University Hospital, New Brunswick New Jersey. She graduated in 2013.
Otito then relocated to the Midwest picking a job at the Methodist Hospitals, Gary Indiana. She was a respected and dedicated ObGyn Attending and worked dutifully at the Methodist Hospital Gary Indiana for her professional career. She enjoyed her job and was loved by her patients who stayed connected to her long after deliveries and surgeries.
Otito was a devoted Christian who served God fervently at the Bethel Church Crown Point Indiana.
She got married in 2008 and was a very loving wife to her dear husband Nnamdi and a doting mother to their 3 children, Chimdi, Uche and Chibundo.
Otito was a pleasant and happy fellow that radiated joy and optimism wherever she went. She was kindhearted, selfless and easy to get along with. She was brilliant, focused and hardworking.
She was snatched by the cold hands of death on Wednesday January 8th 2025 after a protracted illness.
Otito we do know that you're in a better place surrounded by God's angels. Continue to rest peacefully in God's bosom till we all meet again in eternity.
Survived by:
1. Dr Godson Nnamdi Aronu(Husband). Mr Benjamin Anaka(Father)
2. Chimdindu Aronu(Daughter) Mr James Emeka Anaka(Brother)
3. Uchechukwu Aronu(Son) Mr Ufondu Anaka(Brother)
4. Chibundo Aronu(Daughter) Mr Eziafa Anaka(Brother)
Dr Ikenna Anaka(Brother)
She also left behind uncles and aunts, numerous cousins, nieces and nephews.
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I knew Dr. Otito Aronu when I was an undergraduate student at Sophie Davis Medical School, City College NY. After just a few months, I was motivated by the diligence, care, and devotion that Dr. Otito had demonstrated, which is why I entered a study group with her. Her focus and determination encourages those around her to function at a higher level of enthusiasm and achievement. She has the ability to turn tasks into enjoyable experiences making her a true asset. Anyone that has been fortunate enough to work along side her, will have an everlasting impact on their personal growth, career, and future. I will never forget the impression that Dr. Otito left on me. RIP

The pain of your loss has been so incredibly painful to bear. It is now apparent that I had no idea how much God loved me until he blessed me with your presence in my life. You were my friend, my confidant, and my sister. When I was weak, you prayed for me. When I was sick, you helped take care of me. Whatever it was, you were always there for me. You would always do whatever you could to lift me up and encourage me when I needed it the most. I just hope that I was to you, what you were to me… So many memories flood through my mind, from times we’ve spent together—- whether I was doing your hair, talking with you for all hours of the night or comforting you with ice chips and cold compresses in the delivery room while you were preparing to give birth to your first child. Honestly, I think I will miss all the laughs we’ve shared the most. Even now, there is one distinct and hilarious memory that comes to mind but I know you’d probably clap-back at me from heaven if you knew I put it in your tribute, so I’ll refrain, lol. Even in spirit, I dey fear you lol… At times, when you weren’t feeling well or feeling like yourself, I knew that if I could make you laugh, deep down you’d appreciate it. I’ve also learned so much from you and I owe a lot of gratitude to you for that. The biggest lesson I’d have to say that I’ve learned from you is that God is good in all things. Although your absence may make me sad at times, I know and trust that you are no longer in pain. I’m confident that you are resting comfortably in the bosom of the Lord. I thank God that I was fortunate enough to know you. Thank you for being my friend and sister. I will cherish our memories forever …Til’ we meet again.
I love you Chu,
Claud
“A friend loves at all times…” Proverb 17:17
Otito was that kind of a friend. A person who has left footprints of joy, laughter, love, and compassion through life with everyone she encountered.
Otito and I met at SUNY Upstate Medical School in 2004. We immediately bonded due to our African backgrounds, she is from Nigeria and I from Ghana. We shared similar yet distinct stories from Africa, our culture, our foods, laughed over stories from our “African Upbringing.”
Otito was so easy to get along and made time fly delightfully with arduous tasks. We spent many hours studying together, working on assignments, burning the midnight oil. Yet we always had schedule breaks to watch our favorite TV drama - “House MD.” We had a shared passion for dancing. We choreographed African dances together which we would later teach our colleagues during our African American Heritage Month.
Otito was born a leader. She was articulate, eloquent but most importantly it was her ability to unify people from various backgrounds with her love and compassion. She was our natural choice as President for our African American Group in school. A generous soul.
Although life got busy and we thought we would have the time to have that great reunion we never did. We thought we would have the time to meet and reminisce about our good old times at SUNY. Unfortunately, we have been robbed of that.
We will miss you dearly. But I know your spirit will continue to live on in your dear children, your husband, your family and in the beautiful memories you have given to us all. Rest in God’s perfect peace dear friend, until we meet again. You are forever in our hearts, BUT GONE TOO SOON…
Mary Otoo.





2 Timothy 4:7 I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith
O – Optimistic, you found something good in everything and everyone.
T – Tenacious, you held tight to your faith to the very end.
I – Impactful, your joyous personality was infectious…freely dancing and singing without inhibitions.
T – Thoughtful, always giving what was needed to your patients, family, and friends.
O – Original, you were not swayed by trends, holding fast to your morals and Christian values
Endless Love,
Rosaland Lee

In loving memory of my dear friend Otito, I struggle to accept that you are truly gone. The absence of your radiant smile in any room feels unbearable. You were more than just my boss; you were a sister, a mentor, and a guiding light in my life. Your unwavering optimism and kindness touched everyone around you, and your wise words, even when challenging to hear, always came from a place of love.
I will forever cherish our Thursday nights filled with games, mini adventures, and karaoke sessions, where laughter reigned despite our lack of singing talent. You have always inspired me with your extraordinary capacity to find joy even in difficult times, demonstrating your courage and inner strength. You believed in me when I couldn’t see my potential, and I am eternally grateful for that.
As I navigate this world without you, I feel the deep void your absence has created. Yet, your legacy of compassion and strength continues to guide me. You celebrated my victories and understood my struggles, treating me with the warmth of a true sister. I am genuinely grateful to God for the opportunity to have known someone as unique as you.
Though the lights may have dimmed, your spirit shines brightly, urging us to carry on and remain strong. I hold dear memories of the laughter and support you gifted us, and I promise to honor your legacy of kindness and excellence.
I pray for the day we reunite in a place free from pain and sorrow. Until then, I will treasure the happiness you brought into my life and keep an eye on your children, just as you would have. Rest in peace, beloved sister. You will forever be missed and loved.
With love,
Kimiyssa

I met Otito in 1988, we were in 3rd grade at Independence Layout Primary School Enugu, Nigeria. She was friendly, bold and brave. If anyone bothered us, I would run scared, but she would stand and confront the perpetrator. We lost contact when we both went to different high schools in Nigeria.
However, we met up again in 1997 as college students when both of our families immigrated to New York and became best friends. She was hardworking and focused on her studies. She did not allow any obstacle to deter her dream of becoming an Ob/gyn.
She was kind and generous with a loving heart. She would light up the room when she walked in and made everyone around her comfortable. She never met a stranger.
We are both each other’s firstborn godmothers (which was unplanned). She took her role as a godmother seriously and has been very present in my daughter’s life. She loved her family and would have her nieces and nephews spend the summers in her house despite her hectic schedule.
I would miss our weekly prayer calls and her positive attitude. She always found a way to see the bright light in any situation and was the voice of reason, a nonjudgemental and supportive friend.
Otito was selfless and caring, while she was sick, she would worry about her family’s wellbeing, especially her father, husband and children. Nnamdi, thank you for being a caring, loving and devoted husband to her especially these past 2 years.
Chimdi, Uche and Chibundo, your mom is now your guardian angel living in your hearts. I will do my best to be supportive and present in your lives as much as you allow me to.
Emeka, Ufondu, Eziafa and Ikenna thank you for sharing your sister with me. She was more of a sister than a friend.
Otito, we had so many plans, including our 50th birthday trip but God knows best.
May you continue to rest in God’s bosom with your mom and give my dad a hug for me till we meet again.
Love,
Oby Ozuah

You loved your husband and children and spared nothing to make life better for us all. There were no dull moments with you sweetheart. You brought life, light and happiness to everything around you. You were a loving and devoted wife and a wonderful mother to our children.
Baby you were humble, a virtue I cherished so greatly. I remember when you visited Nigeria before I came over to the US, I had no car then and you will follow me to enter the old and rickety vehicles used as taxis there. You never complained but was happy with me in my little world. It endeared you to my heart. When my mother had surgery and needed assistance with walking you readily provided that and will leave the front seat of the car for her and sit at the back when we drive, something a lot of young women will never do. You were a rare gem baby. If only tears can bring you back, I will cry rivers to have you back.
The kids loved and adored you. You bought them the best clothes and braided the hairs of our daughters personally so they could look their best. You took our oldest daughter consistently to her swimming classes and acted as an umpire in a number of her swim meets inspite of your busy schedule. I only fill in from time to time. You loved me unconditionally inspite of my numerous faults. Baby I will miss your love and tender care. I feel hollow and my heart is badly broken.Your pieces of advice were priceless....where do I get them from now?
Despite your devotion to our family you never forgot your dad and siblings. You made sure your dad was happy and well taken care of especially after the passing of your mom.
Sweetheart as a family we shall miss your smiles, songs, dances as well as your good food. I hope Chibundo(our last born) only 5 years at this time will remember you as she grows up. My eyes are filled with tears as I write this piece.
I am happy we had many memories in our vacations around the country and overseas. I will hold on to these memories.
Our home will never be the same again without you, but we will carry on knowing that you'll like us to stay strong.
Thank you for the love and care you gave me and the children while you were here. You fought very hard and was very optimistic about a complete healing but God knows better. Your faith never quivered till you took your last breath. A large piece of my heart is gone but heaven has gained an angel.
I take solace in the fact that you're now with the angels smiling down at us. Yes the pains and distress are now over.
We shall meet again baby, never to be separated again. Until then rest on in the Lord's bossom.
I love you and you'll forever live in my heart.
Your beloved husband,
Nnamdi.

I am honored today to pay tribute to my friend Otito. She was a devoted wife, a very proud mother, a daddy's girl daughter, a sister, a friend and a counselor. She was the type who always wanted to see you win.
We met when she was hired to work for our Ob/Gyn group over 10 years ago. Fresh out of residency she quickly developed a practice in genuine relationships with her patients and staff. Although she had not been in the office for some time they continued to look forward to her return.
She also had a close connection with the nurses and surgical technicians. As a competent, skilled and very capable obstetrician and gynecologist she took to her work seriously. Yet when everyone was tired and worn out and hungry she always found a way to make a dance party or have a dance-off.
What I will miss most are Mondays. This was our “family” surgery day. Myself, Dr. Linton and Dr. Aronu would perform most of our surgeries on this day. This is where our strong bond and supportive alliance would become unbreakable. We would laugh, make fun of each other, listen to music and talk about movies. And of course when she wasn't holding the scalpel, we would watch her dance. See was the one that started us on intermittent fasting. Although each of us had different ideas of exactly what that meant she would be proud to know we still do it today.
I delivered Otito's last two children. Throughout the pregnancy she would remind me that all she needed was an epidural and everything would be fine. I would say to her that she needs to have a few contractions before the epidural. She would just look at me and smile. When came in for delivery she called her personal anesthesiologist Dr. Mordi, who wasn't on that day but came from home to place her epidural. Not one contraction in sight. When I arrived to the hospital , I asked the nurses “who ordered the epidural?” They were afraid to tell me that she had been placing her own orders since she arrived. Everything turned out fine of course.
Farewell Otito. You will be deeply missed. May you rest in peace
Arnita

I can’t believe I’m even writing this tribute to you now. It is really hard to bear the loss of someone so dear. I feel as though I have not woken up yet from this alternate reality. I find myself only able to turn the faucet of my emotions on for a short while at a time because it becomes overwhelming to bear. I trust that with time it will get easier to accept that although you are no longer in this earthly world with us, you’re resting peacefully in the arms of the Lord. You showed incredible strength throughout your long battle against this terrible illness. Your faith and trust in God did not waiver which really resonated with me because many cannot say how they’ll respond when challenged with such trials/tribulations. There are so many wonderful memories of you that I will treasure and hold onto. Growing up with you for most of my childhood I looked up to you as a big sister. You were easy to talk to, offered guidance to me when I needed it. You embodied the characteristics that I strived to achieve. You were patient, loving, compassionate, hard working and intelligent just to name a few.
I promise to always be there to support your kids in any way I can. Rest assured that they will be looked after, showered with love and prayers for the Almighty Father to cover them with his Holy Spirit. I pray that God’s love and peace will surround them and Nnamdi and offer solace in the midst of sorrow. They will have a village to help raise them.
I will miss you dearly more than I can comprehend . You were so loved and will never be forgotten. Rest in heavenly peace in God’s care till we meet again.
Love you,
Cousin Uz

A few month’s ago, I got to see her one last time before she went to see Jesus. We are going to celebrate her soon. We will all see her again.
Bube
Otito, Otiee, Nnem, Chu,
You are the glue that held our family together especially since Mommy died in 2009. You have always been a shinning star in our family. Growing up in Nigeria, you were always top of your class, strong, athletic, compassionate and a protector. In primary school, you stood up against the strongest bully in your class in a fist fight despite the gender difference. You always stood up for others. You continued your journey in Secondary school as an excellent student and an athlete both in Nigeria and in Far-Rockaway High school. You continued your academic path in City college, NY where you obtained your bachelor’s degree in biology. You proceeded to earn a Masters in Public Health, then to Medical school in Upstate. Finally in 2008 you achieved your goal of becoming a physician, and a healer that enjoyed helping women and mothers bring children into this world. Nne, your life journey has not always been easy but you always found a way to scale over and around each hurdle.
There are countless memories and testimonies of how you have helped people either professionally or through a personal relationship with them. I can attest to these testimonies because I have witnessed and observed the same in our family. You are an advocate of togetherness and building a strong bond as a family. Although you didn’t succeed in having us all move to Indiana, you often planned events in the family to promote unity and togetherness. In the summer, you often held “Aunty Chu summer camp” where the kids came together to bond. It was through your camp that my son, Ebube learned how to ride a bike. You started a platform on WhatsApp group where the whole Anaka family both in Nigeria and abroad communicated and got to know each other as we grew in size. You often visited the Northeast to check up on Daddy and us. During your visits, you made sure the refrigerator is packed with cooked soups and other meals before you left. You encouraged us to start building a home in Nigeria to lift Daddy’s spirits when the devil tried to take his life. Your opinions and advice have always been positive irrespective of the circumstances.
Nne, you were my dance partner. We have grooved to lots of songs together. I remember how excited I was when you were my date in one of the Christmas parties in Upstate Medical. We sure had a great time showing off our Nigerian dance moves to the crowd.
Nne, our conversations, discussions and advices has played a critical part in the decisions I have made in my life in becoming a better person and husband. You always made me aware of the blind areas of my life and suggest ways to help me navigate around them. I appreciate you for that.
Nne, you were generous and a cheerful giver. You are quick to give in times of need and on celebrations. The kids always looked forward to Aunty Chu’s Christmas gifts from Indiana. Our people in Nigeria & abroad often testify of your generosity.
Nne, truly I don’t understand why you are gone. Why does it have to be you? Why was your life cut so short at the prime of your life. It’s still difficult for me to accept. You were vibrant, kind, coolheaded, tough and loved the Lord. These past few years were really challenging yet a testament of your strength and tenacity as you fought to beat this disease. You fought really hard all the way for the love of your family. Only God knows His will, however, I’m glad you are no longer suffering. Nne, rest in the bossom of Christ with mommy. Goodbye, my one and only sister.
Your big brother
Jack (Emeka)

Her efforts that day was beyond Herculean. She had an infectious smile and made it all look easy.
She will be missed and her memory will always be a blessing.
I love you mommy. I miss you.
You were the best mom in the world.
Your Daughter,
Chibundo.

Oty, to describe your passing is like rubbing pepper into the eye. It’s painful to say goodbye because of the love you represented in our family. You loved unconditionally, gave unreservedly, smiled affectionately and served selflessly.
You may have left us in the flesh to join your maker in heaven, but your memories with us will be everlasting.
May your gentle soul rest in the bosom of the almighty.
Your in-law
Pst Mfon Umoh.
My mom was always there for me whenever I was hurt or crying. She was always there to help me out of the kindness of her heart. I know she is now in heaven and will still fight for me, Chimdi,Chibundo,Daddy and everyone else. She has a deep love for us family and her friends. I love you mommy. Rest In Peace.
Your son,
Uche.

I find it so difficult to say goodbye to you. I remember the moment you arrived from Nigeria to New York. You were a breath of fresh air, so friendly, full of joy, and you had an infectious smile. I remember you were so ticklish, my sisters and I would tickle you and you would drop to the ground laughing, I remember the many late nights we stayed up together in the bunkbed and chatted about everything, I remember how you loved practicing the cheerleaders chant in H.S. with your zodiac sign, I remember how you were a pivotal leader in the St Mary's Nigerian musical church
performance. I can go on and on about so many memories that I will now cherish so deep in my heart. I will find small comfort knowing that you are in heaven with your mom and smiling down on us all.
Otito, you were such a warrior. You fought so very hard and never gave up, but God had other plans for you that we cannot question. You were like a big sister to me Otito. Even through all your pain, you constantly asked me how everyone was doing. Such a caring and loving spirit to the very end.
I pray that God will comfort your dear husband, your children, and the entire family. I pray they will find peace, strength, and grace during this difficult time in their lives. I pray for their success, good health, and happiness in all their future endeavors. I pray they will hold on to God's word in Psalm 34:18 that says the Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.
Chu, your last text message to me was "No Wahala". I will apply this message in finding comfort and peace in your early departure and holding onto God's word in Romans 14:8 that says If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.
I love you Otito and will miss you always and forever; until we meet again!!💔🕊
You cousin,
Beibe

This is just too sad, very disheartening and quite abnormal in the true sense of life sequence that I your aged mother in-law should write a tribute for you Otito .
Amalachukwu as I called you simply means the Grace of God and this you were to the entire family. Your stay with us was very short, that notwithstanding you touched many lives for good within your short stay.
You were a very graceful, happy, joyful, kind and loving human being. You were very hardworking, very caring, humble and respectful.
When you became sick, the family did not know that you have set your feet on your last journey in this planet. It was just like a joke from one challenge to another tougher one. Your husband carried you from one hospital to the other. He left no stone unturned to help you survive.
Amalachukwu, Otito nwunye m on your side you were very brave. You fought like a lion, you never gave up. All of us were praying and believing God for the miracle of healing and total restoration upon your life. God in His own ways knows the best for His children. In the early hours of Jan. 8th 2025 it pleased the Lord to call you back home for eternal rest with Him. In His bosom there will be no more pains, no sorrows and no more sickness.
Adieu my beloved and cherished daughter in-law. Rest in perfect peace until that great resurrection morning when we shall all meet again to part no more.
Mrs Grace Ngozi Aronu
Your mother in-law.

Hello, my name is Dr. Daniella Kanu. Otito was a dear friend of mine. We met in medical school when we both relocated to Syracuse, New York in the year 2004 to begin our formal medical training. To be in Otito’s presence was a delight. She would naturally uplift and brighten every space she was in with her sense of humor. From the onset, Otito would effortlessly serve up massive platters of laughter, which was very comforting through some of the rigors we experienced as fellow medical students. After our second year of medical school, we chose to became roommates and… we had a blast! Never a dull moment. For example, upon arriving home in our apartment daily, she would yell my name in a cheerful, unique and endearing manner that was so loud, it could likely be heard from across the street. She literally yelled my name every time we met upon arrival in our apartment – – yes, nearly every single day. This robust greeting was often coupled with a bear hug embrace! This name yelling had tenure for the entirety of our friendship whether in person or over the phone, regardless of the surrounding company! In these last few months as she battled her illness, she inevitably transformed the yelling of my name into a whisper over the phone that despite the low audible tone had the same endearing impact on my soul! Otito and I remained very close friends throughout medical school and long after medical school until she went to be with her Lord and Savior, whom she loved and honored in every aspect of her life.
I am deeply blessed to hold an abundance of memories of Otito from our time together as classmates, roommates and friends, however I have selected the following detailed memory in tribute:
-After a rigorous selection process (on a student budget) and extensive wait from the postal service, Otito’s wedding dress had finally arrived at our apartment. This was the dress she had planned to wear to wed her beloved, Nnamdi! On that day, she asked me to patiently wait in my bedroom until she had completely dressed herself in the garment before I was allowed to view. The dress reveal was nothing short of shocking! The wedding dress was ill manufactured, distasteful and poorly assembled. It appeared nothing like the beautiful display that was exhibited on the internet! Otito had fallen victim to false advertising from an overseas company. When Otito saw my facial expression in reaction to the dress, we both then immediately burst into a bout of crying – – as her wedding was just a short time away, leaving little time for adjustments. But somehow, in that moment, we were able to make a swift emotional transition and began to laugh hysterically with one another at such a disappointing time. After all, it was just a dress! Thankfully, Otito was able to find her perfect, well-tailored wedding dress in the days that followed at a local bridal boutique.
So, in closing, to all of us who love, greatly miss and are grieving Otito, let us make the best effort by God’s help, to rapidly shift our thoughts from sorrow and loss to laughter and joy each time she appears in our memory, because joy is one of the many precious gifts she bestowed upon us! Otito, we thank you for the immense joy that you brought into our lives. It was an honor to have you and we will always love you dearly.

My dear mother, it’s saddening to hear that you’re not on Earth anymore. No more nights eating ice cream watching our favorite shows. No more chats about our long stressful days. No more time together at all. However, my heart finds peace that you are with our Father in Heaven. You shall suffer no more pain this world has inflicted on you and I’m truly happy to know that. I know you’re watching over us. With every move I make, I’ll think of you. You’ll never leave my memory. I’ll live the rest of my life making you proud. The same way you expressed joy in being my mother, I will be your joyous daughter. Without your influence, I’m not quite sure how to move on, but I’ll try my best. I just want you to know that you were the person I loved the very most. Not only were you my mother, you were my pillar of strength, love, and support. You were always there in my times of struggle and hurt. I hope I can still make you proud Mommy.
I love you.
Your daughter,
Chimdi.

The news of your demise hit me like a thunderbolt and sent shock waves through my entire body for days in a row. It wasn’t supposed to end this way for we had fasted and prayed all manner of prayers consistently for months. You fought with everything in you, your faith and confessions so strong and unwavering. . I personally believed that God would come through for you even though the circumstances surrounding you were pretty daunting. Alas, it was not to be for God had His own plans. Who are we to ask Him why, His will always remains the best.
You were such a lively and pleasant person Otito and there was never a dull moment with you. Your kind hearted and caring nature could easily be seen in everything you did. I saw this exhibited in the memorable summer vacations you often gave to your nieces and nephews all gathered in your house to bond together. That was who you were and so so marvelous. I remember asking you in the summer of 2021 how you managed to look after all those children and your answer was simple:God’s grace. I know those children miss you(Aunty Chu) greatly as you had left an indelible legacy in their hearts which they will cherish all their lives. We all miss and love you very much but God loves you more. My only consolation is that you are now at peace in the bosom of our heavenly Father with no more pains and sorrows. You had fought the good fight, had finished the race and had kept the faith. Your crown 👑 of glory now awaits you for your decoration.
I pray that God gives your entire family the fortitude to bear this great, irreparable loss. To your beloved husband,Dr. Nnamdi Aronu; your children and the entire Aronu family, your dear father, Elder Ben Anaka, your siblings and the entire Anaka family; I say take heart. The Lord Himself will cover you all with His mighty hand of healing in Jesus name amen 🙏. It’s well with you all. NDONU.
Adieu Dr. Otito Nnebundo Anaka-Aronu
Adieu gallant soldier of Jesus Christ
Adieu Aunty Chu, till we meet to part no more.
How can I forget the push you gave me when I was writing my professional exams, you did not only offer words of encouragement, Otiii you backed it up with financial support! You were that kind of person. I am very happy I was able to come visit you last May, that visit meant alot to both of us.
Otiii, you fought like a tiger, we prayed, we questioned God, Anytime I get scared and I ask you Otii obigi akwụkwa chim ? Your reply will be obim kwụụ chim! And immediately I take courage. Sometime last year, I had a dream were you were completely healed, you were so happy and smiling, and I woke up from that dream very excited and shared it with you. Alas I didn’t know I was seeing your glorified body. Otii you were a super mum to not just your children but to all, who will fill in those shoes? You were an amazing wife and a sister, a wonderful daughter. Everyone is in pains, mourn you, we miss you, we are in tears! But like the bible says, Otii you are sleeping and not dead , we will see you again on resurrection morning. I miss you terribly. I still attempt to gossip with you and remember you are gone. I will continue to hold on to your memories in my heart. I pray for your husband and children every day and I know God will take care of them. Otito the warrior, you fought and you won! Now you are singing with the saints. Adieu my dear friend, in law, jist mate till we meet again. I love you.
From Uuujuuu as you fondly called me.

We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord.-2 Corinthians 5:8 KJV.
I struggle to put pen to paper as my mind races a million miles per hour pondering on the journey of the last almost two years with Otito.
The pain of your departure that early Wednesday morning on January 8 pierced so deep in my heart. Upon reading that message from your dear husband Godson. I remember crying and asking God why, we all asked him, prayed and trusted him for that one miracle and that was to give you that healing testimony. I wrestle with the fact I will never hear you call me Achykes when we had the chance to speak or read any of your recent messages to me saying ”Hi Dear...” though this is very difficult, I chose to say the words of Psalm 34: 1- I will bless the Lord at ALL times and his praise shall continually be in my mouth.
I remain eternally grateful to God for the opportunity to reconnect with you again in person after 27 years when we had our mini reunion of Federal Government Girls’ College Onitsha Nigeria, Class of 96 in Cancun Mexico July 2023. We all bonded and had an amazing time; we were back to the little 12/13 year old girls we were, telling stories, laughing, and playing cards and dancing. We also got free medical advice and mini talk regarding women’s health, memories I will cherish and hold in my heart forever. My dear Otito, you were so gracious to us in that reunion that you did not reveal to us what you were dealing with until we were about to leave. I remember we all cried, we prayed and called down heaven on your behalf. That reunion birthed a deeper spiritual relationship between us and from that time until January 8, 2025, I never left your side.
I recall with some fond memories some of the telephone conversations I had with you, some of the video calls and voice notes exchanged and from my children too who always prayed for their Aunty Otutu(as they called you) to get better. To be honest, this still feels so unreal to me that I am here typing your tribute, soo unreal. Your favorite prayer was Wednesdays “Oh Lord Show me Mercy” on the NSPPD prayer alter, coming from a place of knowledge you understood that when everything fails, Mercy speaks... Sis, we trusted, we prayed and we believed but God thought it best to call you home and you transitioned on the mercy wings of our Lord. Though not the outcome we had prayed for, you trusted and held unto your faith in Him for that miracle until the end and for that, I am confident you are in God’s presence. I know you will watch over your three young children and your dear husband their angel army is strong because you and God got them now. May the Holy Spirit comfort your dear dad and brothers and wrap them with His loving arms of comfort.
Adieu my dearest sister and friend Otito until we meet to part no more.
Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints. - Psalm 116:15.KJV.
Those we love NEVER truly die; they live in our hearts forever! Love you sis!
Forever green in my heart,
Ngozi Achike-Morris (Achykes)
New Jersey.
Nnem, You are my only and very beloved daughter. Your love for me is amazingly great. I could not believe that you would leave me on earth to go to heaven. I am in Terrible pain because of what has happened. The wicked one Satan, attacked you with such a terrible, painful illness. I trusted that the Almighty God, my Heavenly Father, who can do everything, who can save life, will heal you. I, our relations, pastors and friends prayed fervently with great faith for your healing. Your husband did all he could to get you out of this very painful illness. His relations also prayed fervently but God had other plans for you.
Adieu my daughter, stay comfortably with your mother in heaven because God has called you home to be with your mother until he calls me home to join you two forever-Amen.
Your brothers and your nieces and nephews weep and wish you goodbye. Your cousins, Aunties, Uncles, Friends of the family and their children weep for your untimely departure. They all miss you badly.
May God recieve you into his Kingdom forever in Jesus Name I pray, AMEN.

Ur big brother Foto.

Otito you were a model of compassion, kindness and courage. A woman of faith and an inspiration to the family. I admired your unwavering optimism, strength and bravery even in the face of tough times. You remained resilient, putting your faith in God and always thinking of others. When we came to visit you just two months ago despite your physical frailness you were concerned about us being hungry and offered to order food for us.
I hold on to fond memories growing up together filled with adventure and laughter. I vividly remember the multicultural Christmas concert at church in New York. You were the lead singer and my sister’s and I sang back up. We had fun learning Christian songs in Igbo and rehearsing for the concert. We received a big round of applause from the American audience who were introduced to Igbo instruments and songs. I also remember when we stayed up very late at night because you were braiding my hair due to school pictures the next day. We chatted and watched music videos on tv. Your candid personality was refreshing.
I will miss you dearly. I will continue to pray that God watches over your loving husband and children. May God rest your soul.
Love,
Ijeoma Menkiti
Rest in peace and power sister. We will strive to honor your memory by living our lives with as much joy and abundance as you did. We know you are dancing with the angels now and pray that you have found some well deserved peace.
The Anidi & Ngwu Families
Hey Chu! This has to be one of the hardest things I have to do but I am channeling your strength to get me through. It is hard to imagine a scenario where you’re not still here with us but I trust that God knows best. I want to take this opportunity to Thank you for who you are. Thank you for setting a great example for me to follow. I always say that I would not have made it this far in life and in my career if it was not for you. You have always believed in me more than I have believed in myself at times. You set out the blueprint for me to follow. You always empowered me to strive for more and trust in the Lord and it has not yet failed me. I have been able to achieve all the goals I set in my career and you played a major factor. I want to Thank you for that.
I want to Thank you for your honesty and always being direct. You did not sugar code and always listened and gave great advice which always came from a place of love. We always sought each other’s opinions on things (mostly me from you) because of our close bond and I appreciated being able to speak candidly with you knowing that it would not come with judgement.
Thank you for always being cheerful and in good spirits. No matter what you were going through, you were always positive and in good spirits and would always uplift others even if you were not having a good day.
Thank you for being a great physician who always cared for your patients with no complaints. We would talk on many occasions in the middle of the night when you have to go in for a delivery and even if you were sleep deprived or tired, once you entered the hospital, you were very cheerful, pleasant and greeted all the staff who always sounded happy to see you. Thank you for the impact you had in the earth. You have touched so many lives.
Thank you for loving you family and friends. You always planned ways to bring the family together. You would always organize to have all your nephews and nieces together in the summer which everyone always appreciated. Thank you for loving and caring for our father like you did. Thank you for Loving your family and children and putting them and God first.
I can go on all day about all the great things you have done and the great person you are but I truly appreciate you and Thank God for allow me to have the best sister I could have ever asked for. I will continue to strive to be a better person, husband, father, brother, uncle, friend and physician in your memory. I Love You and will miss you dearly. I know you’re in heaven smiling down on us with mommy. Until we meet again in heaven, Love you Chu!
Your Youngest Brother,
Ikenna aka I

Chu, words can't express how much our sisterhood meant to me. Marrying Ike was an answered prayer and gaining you as a sister was an immense blessing. You welcomed me with open arms and an open heart. I will never forget how many long, entertaining and insightful 3-way calls we had because we acted like 3 best friends who were reuniting once again.
Otito, you were more than a sister-in-law to me, you were a beacon of light and love in our family. You naturally took on the role of nurturer, a role you embraced with grace and warmth. We grew so close so quickly because you had an incredible ability to make me feel special and loved.
I thank God for your willingness to always lend me a listening ear, offer a comforting hug, or go out of your way to help me. I was blessed to know your unique gift of bringing joy into every room you entered. I always admired your infectious laughter and your positive spirit was a source of strength for all of us.
I will always remember our sisterly conversations, especially during our epic visits to Indi. Your home was like our family vacation spot because you were the epitome of a great host and we would always find ways to make fun memories from simple things - singing karaoke as a family remains one of my favorite times together. I thank God for the memories I have with you and for the invaluable lessons you taught me - lessons about faith, motherhood, and living life to its fullest. There is no one like you and I will miss having my sister here. Your legacy of love and kindness will continue to inspire me every day. In your honor sis, your memory will forever be a source of comfort and joy.
With love,
Ngozi "Bae"
I am assured that you now reside in a better place, next to Christ, watching over your loved ones.
Knowing my one and only sister has been a blessing. Thoughts of her are filled with testimonies of her excellence. While she was with us, she graced this world with unforgettable joy and liveliness. Otito was full of pleasant energy. Knowing her is to be acquainted with an individual who brought gladness to everyone around her. She lived with an infectious charisma that brightened every space. Otito Anaka-Aronu, you helped nurture many and continued to do so until your passing. You will surely be missed by many. Almost every summer your nieces and nephews couldn't wait to gather under your roof for their summer vacation. You accommodate them with love and care, I also found shelter in your presence on numerous occasions. You were not only a mother to your own children, but also to everyone around you. It's no coincidence that you dedicated your professional life to care for women that brought forth life into the world, as an OB-GYN.
Your faithfulness as a dear friend never wavered. You stood with your loved ones, which extended further than blood relatives - through thick and thin. You nourished me and many others back to health, physically and emotionally. Humbly you met all as an equal, never exalting yourself above anyone or thinking yourself below any being. You truly believed that everyone deserved to be treated fairly and with respect. Even after your cancer diagnosis, you continued to bless others. You put your pain aside to consider others and their situations and needs. You made efforts to share your presence with friends, just to brighten their day. You saw the good in all, often encouraging and assuring all that it will be well. No matter one's status, religion, or race, you embraced them. Otito wanted all to be happy.
You lived your life courageously and tackled any obstacle set before you. At a young age you excelled in academia and sports. You always came home with some form of accolade, be it a certificate or prize from school. In sports, you attained many trophies and medals in track and field. Physically, you were equally strong and fearless. Nothing intimidate you. Yet, you devoted your might to positive acts.
My one and only sister lived a full life, thought it was cut short. She blessed the world with three awesome children: Chimdi, Uche, Chibundo. May the Almighty God that sent you receive you back. I am assured you are truly with Christ. Elijah and Neziaha love and miss you. They both shared the last text you sent them: Colossians 3:1-8. May your children, husband, father and family be consoled. Let us all find the same joy and happiness that Otito had while she was with us.
Rest in your fullness, my dear one and only sister. You will be dearly missed.
Your brother,
Ezy

“My name is Kiesha Benn, a close friend and confidante to Otito”. My sister in spirit and the
body of Christ which began while we were undergraduate students at Sophie Davis Medical
School, City College, NY. I am sending heartfelt condolences to her husband Dr. Godson
Nnamdi Aronu and children Chimdi my God-Daughter, Uche, Chibundo, her father, siblings
and the entire family circle.
God is love and my dear sister Otito was an apostle of love at her core. As we gather here
today to celebrate the life of my dear friend and sister Dr. Otito Aronu, let us remember the
laughter, love, and joy she brought into our lives. May her memory continue to inspire and
uplift us as we navigate this world without them. Together, we can honor Otito’s legacy and
cherish the moments we shared together with her.
I can vivividly remember, as if it were yesterday, Otito approaching me with the remarks,
“Excuse me why don’t you smile”. We quickly became friends and as it turned out lived
blocks away from each other in East New York, Brooklyn. Otito exhibited a studious habit
along with being unusually energetic always applying herself with great ardor to the
acquisition of professional knowledge. We spent countless hours and days studying from
Shepherd Hall, City College to the library at Baruch College. Our breaks included listening
to music, window shopping or buying snacks of which Walker short bread cookies were
Otito’s favorite.
At all times, Otito was focused, highly motivated, disciplined and persistent in pursuing her
goals of becoming a board certified OBGYN physician. Practicing medicine, bringing life
into this world was what she loved. She said with the utmost passion, “I love my job, it is
not a burden to me and brings me joy!"
Personally, I can attest that Otito was a woman who strongly believed in God with immense
faith. Her faith saved many including me. She was a strong woman who confidently,
courageously and fearlessly accomplished success for herself and family. She followed her passion; she is someone to look up to and remained a mentor for others as she was always
caring and kind.
“Through the love of God our Saviour, All will be well; Free and changeless is His favour; All,
all is well. Precious is the blood that healed us; Perfect is the grace that sealed us; Strong
the hand stretched out to shield us; All must be well.”
To Nnamdi, Chimdi, Uche, and Chibundo I wish you comfort and always remember the kind
& loving spirit that was Otito. May God Continue to Bless her Soul.
Kiesha Benn
Dear Oty!!!
I didn't want to believe the news of your death despite your terminal illness because we were believing God for your healing.You were full of life prior to that illness that snatched the beautiful life you had away leaving us heartbroken.Though your stay here on Earth was a short one, you made a remarkable impact.
I call you the Dorcas of our time because you affected lives positively and put smiles on people's faces. You were kind and generous, even up to the time you were lying on the sick bed, you were still helping the less privileged and was talking about how to still support my business. I told you that we should concentrate on your getting better first before any other thing only for the news of your death to break on January 8, 2025.
The news of your death came with so much pains and sorrow to me because l didn't want to imagine that you were dead. You do not deserve to die if you ask me, considering the young family you left behind and your good works.
Thank you so much for your care and love towards your mother-in-law. You were a blessing to her and the family at large(lfeoma chukwu nyere anyi).
My small daughter asked me why didn't Jesus heal aunty Oty, because she always heard us praying for you.l didn't have an answer at that time but later a pastor told us God has taken you to be at a better place with him in heaven, where there is no more pains and that is my consolation even though l still wanted you here in sound health because your assignment here on Earth was not completed looking at your young family but who am l to question God, He knows the end even from the beginning. Your death confirms the saying that " Good people don't last long" l will greatly miss you, beautiful soul and the free medical advice l usually receive from you from time to time.You will forever remain loved in our hearts.
Farewell Otyyy!!! Indeed heaven has gained a beautiful soul.Continue to find rest in the bossom of the Lord, Amen.
Your sister in-law
Nkiru Ubochi
I write this with the deepest sorrow in my heart. Growing up, we were family and supported each other with every strength of our lives. As young high school kids, we both learned a lot from each other, and I sincerely thank you for the many things you taught me. I will forever remember all our afterschool ventures both academically and socially, including those our parents definitely wouldn’t sanction :) We both ended up graduating medical school, so at the end of the day we made them proud!
You were kind, peaceful, smart and always found a way to liven up events and put smiles on the faces of people around you. Words alone cannot express how sad I have been from the day I received the terrible news of your demise till this very day. It is so sad knowing we will never be together again. I am consoled by your hard and long fight. My dear Otito, you will forever be in my heart and mind.
May our Lord Jesus Christ receive your gentle soul in peace. May God Almighty give you eternal rest. May the good Lord lessen the pain of your beloved husband and kids and give us all the strength to bear this very bad loss.
Amen!!
Chioma Ezeadichie
My 1st memory of you was when you played a prank on me, can't remember my age but we were kids, and were in our house in Trans/Ekulu. You put a straight face and showed me something that looked like a broken glass cup and said to me that you broke it by accident. You asked me if my mom would be upset. I said in my mind that my mom would be furious but I didn't want you to feel bad so I told you that she might not be angry. We were still contemplating whether to hide it or own up to my mom when you started laughing and told me to look closely. It was ice that you retrieved from a cup that had been placed in the freezer. There was no broken glass, you were just being mischievous! This was who you were, very playful, never a dull moment.
You were like blood to me, my very own sister. You were very self sufficient, independent, strong, generous and kind. You put everyone else's need before your own, you'd never show anger if someone offended you, but if someone offended your loved one, good luck to that person cos they'll hear it from you. You loved deeply and showed up everyday for your family [nuclear and extended]. You gave our children a place to bond with all their cousins by providing your home for summer vacations for all of them, most fond memories were created for them in your home and this is priceless. I pray the vision that you had for the family will stay strong as your legacy.
You fought this illness with everything in you, it doesn't make sense that God called you home so early but like the scripture tells us, it will all make sense one day, when we meet God in heaven. Your calling is greater than what the world has. We take hope in God's promise that we will all see again on resurrection morning.
I pray that God will protect and guide your children and comfort your husband, they will never be alone and will always be surrounded by love and goodness. I pray for your soul, may you continue to rest in God's perfect peace.
I just can't believe I am writing your tribute dear sister. I have cancelled and cancelled sentences for the right words to describe your personality dear OT.
Indeed I lost a unifier,I lost a go getter and most of all a consummate counselor. Your sudden transition to the great beyond is like a devastating punch to solar plexus but I am gradually coming around to the present reality. You left behind a trail of tears and deep seated pains which I am quite certain will ease by divine balm.
Your lovely kids,your dedicated husband,your doting father,your wonderful brothers and the Anaka family are bruised by your movement.
The volume of prayers made to the throne of grace on your behalf were enough to bring you back to normalcy but the giver and taker of life whose decision cannot be questioned knows best.
Your resolve to cling to God in all situations is the solace we as a family acknowledge.
Your soul have found a resting place in the bosom of our Lord Jesus who paid handsomely for our redemption.
Nnem,jee nke oma till we meet again at Jesus' feet.
Good night,OT
Your cousin
Obi Anaka
I write this knowing you will not be able to read it, but you must understand how hard it is for your children and loved ones at this time. I know it was never your wish to leave us. No, it wasn’t. Even at the height of your illness, your strength never wavered. You strongly believed that one day all the pain would be over. If you were given options, you would have chosen to live for your children and loved ones.
You understood the true meaning of numbering our days to apply our hearts to wisdom, that’s why you chose to lead a good life. You radiated joy and happiness to the people you met. You really were a good woman, and we were blessed to have you as our wife, in-law and mother. There is no doubt you have found another sweet home, and you are now free from all the pain. The little time you spent with us was very remarkable and would remain ever green in our hearts. We will meet again, we certainly will.
Jee nkeoma
Aruma
A tribute to my sister in-law, Late Dr. Otito Nnebundo Aronu.
Otito, I met you the first time at Enugu when you were visiting. The day, I came you were outside washing clothes. It was difficult to believe that someone visiting from the US will be seated outside under the sun washing clothes with hands in Nigeria; one can easily take it as pretence, but later, I began to learn and realise that that’s simply you, you are just down to earth. Your unassuming lifestyle remained throughout your life not minding your qualifications, career level and class.
You came as a blessing to the family of Bennett Amaegbu Aronu, you joined this family not just as a wife, you became our sister and daughter, and this remained all through your life. OT, you have remained a living angel to our family; you were selfless, you spared nothing to see this family always happy, united and progressing. You touched every single life in this home. You received and treated our mum as your own mum. You have always been our host anytime we are visiting the US and your hospitality always left me wondering if I should rather move my family and relocate to the US. I found my wife through you and have looked forward to receiving you and your family in my home. We agreed you will be visiting Norway soon.
Otito you have been and remained a very good wife and mother to my brother and your children, even in your most challenging stage in life; you kept the smile, love, joy and peace burning in your family. You maintained a Godly home and a life filled with an aura of joy and gladness working and supporting your family even in the midst of your pains.
It was with a rude shock that I received the sad news of your passing. I believed God that you shall go back to work. My faith in your recovery was unwavering. OT, I have always looked forward to your visit to my family not knowing that my last eyes on you will be on 30th Oct 2024.
Your love for your family was firm, you were very brave, you fought with everything in you to remain with your family and loved ones but our God’s will has been done.
‘OTI-TO’ who will call me ‘U TO de GO’? I will always miss you.
We have submitted to the will of our God Almighty.
Continue to Rest in the Lord Otito.
Dr (Engr.) Ugochukwu Edwin Aronu
Fourteen years ago, in the bustling halls of our residency in New Jersey, fate brought Otito and I together. What began as a professional acquaintance quickly blossomed into a sisterhood—one of the most cherished relationships of my life. Together, we built memories so vivid and profound they remain etched in my heart like a beautiful tapestry.
Otito was always just a phone call or WhatsApp message away, ever ready with her warmth and wisdom. She was more than a friend—she was my confidante, my encourager, my partner in laughter, and my anchor during life’s storms. We dreamed big together, laughed until tears streamed down our faces, and supported each other through life’s uncertainties. She had a rare gift for love and connection, always wearing an affectionate smile that could light up any room and a laugh so genuine it was contagious. Since her passing, everyone I’ve spoken to has mentioned her radiant smile and the joy she exuded.
One person described her as a “good soul”, and that, she truly was.
And how could I ever forget her love for dancing? Otito loved to dance. I can still see her moving gracefully to Makossa and East African beats, her energy infectious and her joy palpable. There’s a video of her dancing that I treasure deeply, a beautiful reminder of the vibrant light she brought into every space she entered.
Otito’s wisdom was as vast as her kindness. We spoke endlessly about life, faith, family, and even finances. We dreamed of traveling the world after retirement, and had even envisioned opening a women’s clinic together—a dream conceived after residency. We frequently joked that we would be “best OBGYNs” since our personalities will complement each other and even called ourselves the “Igbo Superbabe” duo (or some other equally cheeky nickname), a name that captured the vibrancy of our shared dreams and cultural pride.
Though she had embraced many aspects of her American life, Otito remained profoundly connected to her Igbo roots. From the moment she learned my Igbo name, Ijeoma, she never called me Vivian again. That was Otito—she honored and celebrated the essence of the people she loved, always finding ways to connect deeply.
When Otito took ill, I witnessed her face this unimaginable challenge with unparalleled grace and bravery. She fought with the strength of a warrior and the faith of a saint. Even as her body weakened, her spirit remained steadfast, rooted in her love for God, her zest for life, and her devotion to those she held close to her heart.
She was my sounding board, my voice of reason, and my partner in navigating the complexities of life and medicine. We cried together, rejoiced together, and carried each other through countless challenges especially during the tough times in grueling residency. Now, as I face life without her, I feel a profound void. I miss her steady presence, her sharp intellect, and the comfort of knowing she was always there.
Otito, my dear sister, my heart aches in ways words cannot describe. Who will I call to share/discuss my difficult cases with? Who will I bounce ideas off? Who will encourage me with a hearing smile in her voice? The void you’ve left is immense, yet even in my sorrow, I find solace in knowing you are now in the bosom of God—free from pain, wrapped in eternal peace, and surrounded by love.
Though we have lost a gem, heaven has gained an angel. Your legacy lives on in the countless lives you touched, the love you gave so freely, and the beautiful family you adored, your husband, children, brothers, father, and in-laws.
Otito, watch over your young family, keep smiling down on us, and never stop dancing.
Though you are gone from our sight, you will never be gone from our hearts.
Rest well, my beloved friend, until we meet again.
Ijeoma - Vivian
My eyes dropped down tears, my heart shattered into pieces at the reading of the note my brother sent to announce your demise.
I asked many questions but had no answers, I beat myself to be sure it’s a dream so I can wake up from it, but it was real, yes it was real, you’re gone.
Oty, you fought, you resisted death, you refused to give up, but because it was meant to be, there was nothing anybody could do, you had to answer the call to eternity at this time.
Though our hearts are heavy with your absence, we take solace in knowing that you lived a life full of love and meaning. You will forever remain in our hearts, a beacon of light and a source of inspiration.
Rest peacefully Oty, you were a gift to this world and to all of us who were blessed to know and love you. You have touched me and my family in particular with your kindness and benevolence. We will carry your memory forward with gratitude and love, cherishing the time we had with you.
It is painful to say goodbye, but we take solace in the fact that you’re in the best place.
Rest on till we meet to part no more on the resurrection morning.
May your Beautiful Soul continue to rest in the Bossom of the Our Lord Jesus,
Amen.
Your Sister-in-law
Ify.
I’ve written and deleted this so many times. No matter how much I write, it still doesn’t feel real. Even with the poster, even with the silence of unanswered messages, it still doesn’t feel real.
I thought I had it figured out—the prayers, the ways to fight death. I mean, I’ve walked this path before when my mom passed. I learned then to pray harder, more fervently, and without ceasing. So, when we spoke and you told me you were sick, I did just that. I prayed. I didn’t rely on myself alone—I brought it up at my home cell fellowship, asking everyone to join in prayer. Deep down, I felt confident it would pass, that this would just be another testimony of God’s power. But now, it’s so clear that God’s ways are not our ways, and His plans are not ours to understand.
We had plans to see each other, plans that will now remain unfulfilled. But through the pain, I find comfort in God. He is my refuge, my strength, and my source of peace.
You fought so hard, Big Sis. You gave it your all, and I know you stayed as long as you could. Now, I believe you are resting—truly resting—in the arms of God.
I’m clinging to the memories we shared, our conversations, your encouragement. I remember our last conversation so vividly—you told me never to settle for mediocrity, to get up and do something meaningful with my life. I’m doing that now, but it breaks my heart that you’re not here to see it. Still, I am comforted by the thought that you are in a better place, free of pain, wrapped in eternal love and peace.
Rest well, Big Sis Tito. Heaven has truly gained an angel. Rest well, because, as the Bible says, ‘The last enemy that shall be destroyed is death.’
Rest in peace. Rest well, Rest in God’s embrace.
Your sister and baby cousin,
Mmesoma Anaka
I remember vividly how you beamed with beautiful smiles and danced energetically on your wedding day. Little did I know that I would be writing a tribute for you after a moment not too long. Your entrance to our family brought us a brighter shade of light. You took us the way we were. You bonded with us as though we grew up together.
It was during your visit to Onitsha that I first noticed your passion for music.You knew local songs and their dance steps even more than most of us in Nigeria. You were so down to earth.You took care of our parent(s) until your last breath.
Your sacrifices are immeasurable and your gifts are priceless. Not only do we enjoy the impact of your generosity, everyone around us feels it. The fact that we are doing well in Nigeria today is a product of your sacrifices. So sad I didn't have the opportunity to say thank you the way I feel it.
Oty, you were my doctor in the home. Even on your sick bed, you were still giving me medical attention! You were always by my side during difficult times. Your advice during such periods still rings like a bell. You once told me," Chy, don't let your husband pass through this alone". Those were the propelling force I needed to pass through that huddle.
Although I am beginning to accept this sad reality, you demise has left me with a lot of mysteries I cannot unravel, vacuum that is very hard to fill and an indelible scar.
Now that you are gone, who will give listening ears to my endless stories, who will call me Chyoma Ayoyo, who will give me medical attention the way you did?
The only consolation we have is that you are no longer in pains and are in the bossom of the Lord.
So rest in peace Oty Be Anyi till we meet to part no more.
Johnson Wonders Chioma
Abuja- Nigeria
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