Olugbenga Akinsanya Lawal

Tribute to my Daddy
My one and only papistic Lawistic.
My young old man.
Olugbenga Akinsanya Ligali Lawal.
I miss what your response to this would have been.
You would have looked up in pretence of offence and said,
“Shey emi ni o laruko mo lori beyen?”
And I would respond, “If I don’t tease you like this, who will?”
My dad prepared me for life very early, and being a female child never deterred him.
My dad, loving, yet firm.
At a very young age, he taught me how to change a tyre, check brake oil, windscreen fluid, and engine oil,basically making sure I knew my way around a car.
“I would not have my daughter stranded by the side of the road,” he said.
Thank you daddy, although I will not be jacking up a car with a fresh manicure when AAA is now just a phone call away.
But beyond cars and engines, he was teaching me to be limitless, fearless, strong, confident, and secure.
That was my father.
My dad had quite a few hobbies, many of which I now see have naturally flowed into the lives of his children and become our hobbies too.
Talk about the true definition of inheritance.
Reading novels, newspaper his favourites were Vanguard, ThisDay, and Sunday Times, watching movies, driving, travelling, playing chess, squash (with the famous shout of “Akin, why!”), watching football… a true Arsenal loyalist.
I wonder why all three of his sons are Arsenal fans too. Imagine his joy when Benjamin said he supported Arsenal as well, I am sure that was the real reason he allowed this Igbo boy marry his daughter, not because he didn’t see tribe.
I also recently discovered a beautiful trait I inherited from him, something I never realised until a conversation with Aunty Simbo a few weeks ago.
When I find a new artist or album, I will listen to it continously until I can sing every song word for word, beat for beat, in its original arrangement.
If you’ve lived with me, you have enjoyed and not endured this beautiful side of me.
So please direct all compliments and complaints to my dear papistic Lawistic.

My dad supported our interests, dreams, and aspirations,and I had many!
From buying countless colouring pens when I thought I would be an artist,
to knitting threads when I believed I could knit the best hats and scarves
(before abandoning that dream for baking).
Guess who my first lab rat was when I put a mixture in the oven meant to be cake, but it came out as the strongest biscuits ever?
My dad ate this so-called science experiment and praised me enough that I confidently took some back to school where I later learned from friends that it was, in fact, inedible.
But I believed strongly that if my dad ate it and said it was nice, everyone else’s opinion did not matter.
That belief lives on today as 3Tees Creations, and has birthed many businesses.
And yes, the name 3Tees was also coined by my dad.
There was a period when my dad was also my exercise buddy.
We would go jogging at 5 a.m., and he would always encourage me to go further.
I really could do with a workout buddy now, Daddy.
Now that I am older, I look back at the life of my papistic and see love.
He didn’t say “I love you” in words—as an old-school Ijebu man and naval officer would.
I mean, talk about a triple count of toughness.
But love flowed through his veins and his entire being, in every possible way.
My dad was also very generous.
Whenever he travelled, home or abroad,he always returned bearing gifts.
From bags of fresh produce indigenous to the states he visited,
to luxury shower gels and hotel slippers from all over the world.
I still wonder why a bathrobe never made it back.
Some of my fondest memories are being picked up from school and going back to his office with him.
While waiting for him to close, I would tour the hospital grounds, departments to wards.
That experience taught me empathy, compassion, and care.
Then there were car rides, watching him manoeuvre roadblocks, find back routes, and deal with roadside officials calmly but uniquely.
What else would give me the courage to drive from Ikorodu to the Mainland without a licence?
There are many things that made me proud to be his daughter.
Number one: how much I look like him.
I needed no introduction anywhere he was known.
People would say confidently, “You be correct Lawal pikin,”
followed by, “How a girl go resemble her papa like this?”
It was both protection and a badge of honour because I knew I could not mess up,
and because who wouldn’t want to be associated with such a great man?
My dad was conservative, simple, considerate, and caring.
Whenever I asked what to get him when coming home, after much probing his list would be:
Nescafé (a true coffee lover), Canderel sweetener, Paul Smith perfume, Gillette Shaving stick, aftershave, White underwear and vests (I genuinely didn’t know men wore coloured ones) and Polo-neck T-shirts. On our way home from the airport, we would stop to buy fresh Agege bread.
Once home, he would boil water, ask me to bring out his stash,
and we would enjoy bread with a hot cup of coffee.
If I could buy you the most expensive gift in the world, it would never have been too much.
Thank you, Daddy, for such a rich legacy of love, strength, family, togetherness, and contentment.
Thank you for raising me as AkinTobi,
with the strength of a son and the gentleness of a daughter.
So today, we do not just mourn my father.
We celebrate the man who raised us, guided us, and loved us quietly but completely.
Thank you, Daddy.
I stand tall because you taught me how.

Your T-Girl
Oluwatosin Oluwatobiloba Ugbene

Tribute to my Husband, Navy Captain (Rtd) Olugbenga Akinsanya Lawal

Olugbenga Akinsanya, my childhood husband. We met in 1978 at the naming ceremony of a close friend. Our friendship blossomed into love, and we were married to each other in Lagos on the 31st of October, 1981. By the grace of God, we shared forty-four beautiful years together before you answered the call of God Almighty.

You were indeed a loving husband and a caring father. You loved your children dearly and cared deeply for their well-being. You ensured they received a good and sound education and consistently encouraged people, especially in their academic pursuits and chosen careers.

Vefore I found the Lord and began attending church, we both came from Muslim backgrounds. You never stopped me from serving God; in fact, you always encouraged me to go to church. In time, you joined me at Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministry, Onike-Yaba. You were dedicated and fervent in the work of the Lord. You joined the ushering group and served faithfully as an usher.
Akin, you showed me unwavering love. You always listened to me and gave me wise counsel. Anytime you were at home, you played with me and our children. Truly, there was never a dull moment with you.

Despite all the storms, ups and downs, and challenges of life, God Almighty kept us together for forty-four good years. You always called me “ABEFE.” My greatest joy is that you rededicated your life to Christ and got to live as His child a few more years, before you departed this side of life.
May your soul rest in perfect peace, Olugbenga Akinsanya, until we meet again on the resurrection day at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ—when we shall meet to part no more.

Your loving wife,
Oluwanisola Lawal

Navy Captain Gbenga Lawal, came into the administration of swimming in Nigeria over three decades ago.

He showed genuine interest, and commitment for the sports of swimming. Unlike some of the other members of the board at the time. A qualified Referee/Judge of FINA, now World Aquatics Federation. He was swimming officiating Lead at numerous National, West Africa regional, Continental, Commonwealth Games, World Championships and Olympic Games.

He was at various times elected into the executive Committees of the African and World Swimming bodies; and served remarkably well as Technical Swimming Chairman (TSC) and Course Instructor.

While he was the Director of the Nigerian Navy Sports. He assisted and encouraged young swimmers to join and explore a lifetime career in the Navy. Most of these swimmers today have retired, while some are still serving in the Navy.

With the competitive swimming rules and regulations call cards tucked in his trouser pocket. He ensured successful meets by standing strong and professional on the Pool Deck

We both officiated on the Deck and attended swimming courses together in the United Kingdom, Peru, Japan and Russia.

He was kind hearted, a giver, and a compassionate soul.

He will be remembered for his contributions at the World Aquatics Federation and dedication and goodwill towards the development of swimming in Nigeria.

May God Rest His Soul in Peace. Amen.

Rev. Patrick Egbele.

My Daddy!

Ah, how do I express this feeling? Well, we take solace in knowing that you have completed your assignment here on earth and now resting in the blossom of our LORD JESUS.

You were a wonderful dad, guardian , friend and a gracious confidant to broken hearted. You had a great listening ears to the vulnerable around you.

Your hand of fellowship always out to all those in desperate needs around you! Your joy was always to see that people around you were happy.

People’s care and needs burdened you and would not rest until you see them helped! I am a living example.

GOD used you to nurture my dreams Daddy. I am eternally grateful.I realise through you that we do not need to be biologically related to be the instrument GOD will use to lift others up.

Come to think of this, I was not the only one you financially supported while in Uni in that church group.
We appreciate you Dad. You encouraged us to dream big.

You took a fatherly interest in me then in our Church.
You saw godly passion in me and the burning desire for education. You nurtured this without any inhibitions.

You supported me financially and emotionally. You helped me overcome timidity. Ah, daddy, you are my hero!

In our church group then, you were accessible to all, with grace and humour. You would crack jokes.
You were a servant leader. Despite your social status and military prowess, you related with us our friends.

Besides, your house was accessible to us. Mummy made it so. Very accommodating.

I remember your fatherly concern when I was getting married. My fiance then_ now my husband gat to be vetted by you or no show( lol). You received him graciously. He was ‘screened, vetted and interviewed’ for precious daughter. Thank GOD, he passed. Lo.

I remember daddy gave him some contacts while looking for better job offers then.

You opened any door opportunity at your disposal to us. All you wanted was us to succeed and have a good life.

Come to our wedding, you and mummy honoured us. My biological parents got to meet my ‘Church Daddy with his amiable wife’ and were so happy to meet you. You and mummy were shocked to know how “ popular your name and deed had become among my immediate family members’.
You supported my husband and I through and through. The relationship became more strengthened.

Our Son’s naming ceremony was graciously attended by Mummy while you were on national assignment. Mummy told us that you said she must be there physically… despite the distance, she honoured us_ bearing gifts too o. We can never forget this! Thank you dad!

You were an open book. The reason why I couldn’t disconnect from this gracious family that love me without knowing my background except my maiden name _ Lawal. Lol.

Life happens but still there always! I remember your joy when we came to visit you at Ikorodu _ with our children. You felt so proud of us.

I remember mum ( Mummy Lawal) telling sometime back_ Buky, you surprised me o. You still always look back to check up on us and showered me with prayers as always. I felt fulfilled.

That is why my bond with your biological children will continue to grow. They are amazing Aburos.
I pray GOD keep and bless your amazing family left behind.

My Daddy, we will miss you but continue to rest in the bossom of the LORD!


Olubukola Chidi _ Nee Lawal

Dear Mrs. Lawal,

We are deeply saddened by your loss. On behalf of the Ugbene's family, I extend our heartfelt condolences to you during this difficult time. May your memories of your husband, Rtd. Navy Capt. Olugbenga Lawal bring you comfort and peace.

With love and sympathy,
Late Gp. Capt. GUO. Ugbene's Family🌹

The life of my late uncle, Rtd. Navy Captain Olugbenga Lawal was marked by integrity, leadership, and compassion. He was a man of distinct character whose influence positively shaped the lives of many through education, mentorship, and selfless service.

A trained physiotherapist, he restored hope where it seemed lost—most notably helping our cousin, Ameen Olorunnimbe, regain the use of his hand after a severe injury. He strongly believed in education, supporting tuition fees, and encouraging everyone around him to complete their secondary and higher education. Though initially hesitant about overseas travel, his love prevailed as he later facilitated my brother’s journey abroad in search of a better future.

Late Rtd. Captain Lawal was deeply committed to national development and sports. In 1985, his passion for swimming earned him an honorary position with the Nigeria Swimming Association, and he went on to represent Nigeria as an officiating member at the Olympic Games. He also served with distinction on the Lagos State Special Task Force combating waterway contraband and held the position of secretary to the governor of the Oyo State Government in reduction of problems created by the Ibadan Tarrant late Adedibu.

After graduating from the University of Ibadan, he joined the Nigerian Navy as a Sub-Lieutenant. He shared his life with his beloved wife, Mrs. Olusola Lawal (Nee Mabinuori), whose grace and elegance complemented his journey.

Late Rtd Navy Captain Lawal’s legacy of service, discipline, and compassion will forever live on in our hearts.
Efunlana Family dynasty, Okun-Owa Ijebu.

Murphy Balogun

Papi Lawee, my Daddy, was a man of presence. He showed up consistently, quietly, and fully for his family. His love was not loud, but it was constant. Daddy’s love was expressed through action, through guidance, and through a deep commitment to seeing his children thrive.

From my earliest memories, he was always there. One moment that stays with me was one of my school holidays when I traveled alone with him to Jaji, Kaduna. At that time, I had started talking about wanting to become a pilot. Somehow, Daddy made it possible for me to sit in the cockpit during that flight. As a child, I was simply excited. I didn’t understand it then, but years later I realized what that moment truly was: a father who believed in his child’s dreams and was willing to do whatever he could to open doors and show him that possibilities are real.

Education mattered deeply to him. Daddy believed knowledge was a gift no one could take away. Throughout my schooling, he invested his time, energy, and resources to make sure I had what I needed: materials, access, encouragement, and opportunity. Whether it was helping with projects by driving me around for my case studies, facilitating internships, or simply showing up when I needed support, Daddy was always present. There was never hesitation. There was never indifference.

Even as I grew older, married, and became a father myself, his role in my life never faded. When my daughter faced a medical procedure that terrified me, he was the first person I called. With calm reassurance and a little cheeky laughter at me, he guided me through that moment, just as he had guided me through so many others. And he showed up again, checking in, visiting, and making sure she was well. In that moment, I saw clearly that the same love he gave us as children now flowed naturally to his grandchildren.

Daddy lived a life of love in action. He wanted the best for his children and his grandchildren, not just comfort, but character; not just success, but purpose. He believed in education, discipline, generosity, and responsibility, and he lived those values every day.

The man I am today is a reflection of the foundation he laid. His lessons continue to guide me, his values continue to shape my choices, and his presence remains with me, even in his absence.

He lived well.
And his legacy lives on through us.

Rest in peace, Daddy.
I love you

In Loving Memory of
Capt. Akinsanya Ligali Lawal (Rtd.) ⚓🕊️
A noble soul has answered the final call.
Egbon mi, Captain Akin Ligali Lawal (Rtd.), lived a life of honour, service, and commitment. As a Naval officer, he gave his best years to the defence of his nation, serving with courage, discipline, and unwavering loyalty.
He was a man who understood duty and lived by principle. Even in retirement, his life remained a testimony of dignity, wisdom, and quiet strength. To us, he was more than an officer — he was a brother whose love, guidance, and presence meant so much.
Though our hearts ache at his departure, we are comforted by the legacy he leaves behind — a legacy of service, integrity, and love. His memories will remain etched in our hearts, and his example will continue to guide us.
Rest peacefully, my dear brother.
Your watch has ended, but your honour lives on.
Gone from our sight, never from our hearts.
🕊️⚓
Mrs. Adeleye (Sister)

Tribute to My Beloved Brother,
Capt. Akinsanya Ligali Lawal (Rtd.) ⚓🕊️
Today, my heart is heavy as I pay tribute to my dear brother, Captain Akin Ligali Lawal (Rtd.), a man of honour, discipline, and uncommon courage.
He served his nation faithfully in the Nigerian Navy, rising through the ranks with integrity, dedication, and an unshakable sense of duty. His life was defined by service — to country, to family, and to humanity.
Broda mii as I always call him was a mentor, a man of wisdom whose words carried weight and whose presence brought reassurance. His strength was quiet, his character firm, and his principles unwavering.
Though death has taken you from our sight, your legacy of service, honour, and love will never fade. You have fought the good fight, completed your service, and answered the final call.
Sleep on, egbon mii daadaa.

May the Almighty grant you eternal rest and grant all of us the strength to bear this great loss.
Forever remembered. Forever honoured.

Mrs Adesanya (Sister)
🕊️⚓🤍

Tribute to My Father-in-Law

Dad was a man of strength, principle, and deep love. He was firm and disciplined, yet gentle, caring, and intentional about the people he loved. He cared deeply for all his children, and I was privileged to be counted among them, not just as the wife of his son, but as his daughter. I called him Dad, and he truly treated me as one.

Being around Dad was always a joy. He had a playful side that many may not have expected. He loved to tease me, and we would gist, laugh, and joke together. Those moments remain some of my fondest memories of him.

Dad loved his granddaughters dearly. He cherished them so much that sometimes, while he was eating, the girls would simply join him. Those small moments reflected the warmth of his heart and the love he carried for his family.

He was a father who always looked out for his children and wanted the very best for us. When I decided to change my job from Wema Bank to teaching at Powerfields, dad did not hesitate to help. He recommended me to someone there, which led to an invitation for a test and interview, and shortly after, I got the job. That was who Dad was: always willing to support, uplift, and open doors for his children.

Even while ill, Dad never stopped caring. When he heard that I had lost my job, he was genuinely concerned. Each time we spoke, he would ask about the situation and pray earnestly for me. Despite his own pain, his heart remained focused on others.

Some months before he passed, my mum visited him. In his moment of confusion, he thought she was me. My mum later told me how excited he was and how he hugged her tightly, overjoyed until it was gently explained that it wasn’t me. That story touched me deeply because it showed how much affection he carried for me in his heart.

Dad, you were loving, supportive, and intentional. You showed up for your children in every way you could, and your legacy lives on through the lives you touched and the love you gave.

I love you, Dad.
You are deeply missed and will forever remain in our hearts.

Navy Captain (rtd) Olugbenga Akinsanya Lawal - Au Revoir (Goodbye)

I first got to know Gbenga Lawal in 1987, when we were both appointed onto the Board of the Amateur Swimming Association of Nigeria (ASAN) as the Federation was then known. Gbenga was a Lieutenant Commander in the Navy at that time. Our initial Chairman during that first Board that we both served on (1987 - 1990) was Group Captain Ibrahim Alkali (Nigerian Air Force), who served as ASAN Board Chairman from 1987 - 1988. He left in July 1988 when he was appointed the Military Governor of Kwara State, and the Vice Chairman Mr Rufus Akin Elegbe took over until the Board's tenure expired in 1990. Our very dear former ASAN Chairman & FINA Bureau member / Vice President of CANA (African Swimming Confederation), Dr D. Olu Asekun, as well as our friend & big brother, Barrister Olatokunbo Thomas, were also both members of that Board. Gbenga Lawal went on to serve on four (4) successive Boards of ASAN, between 1987 - 1997, and (following our Federation's change of name) he also served on four (4) successive Boards of the Nigeria Swimming Federation (NSF), between 1997 - 2013. This included serving as 1st Vice President of the NSF between 1997 - 2001. During this twenty - six (26) year period, his career in the Nigerian Navy also progressed, getting promoted to Commander and then Navy Captain before his retirement.

Within the Nigerian Federation, Gbenga Lawal, apart from holding various other posts, served as Chairman, Technical Committee between 2009 - 2013, and after leaving the Federation Board, he was appointed an Honorary Life Member of the Federation in 2021, in recognition of services rendered by him to the progress of Aquatics in Nigeria, Africa & the World in general.

Gbenga Lawal's contribution to the development of Aquatics was not just limited to Nigeria. In 1999, he was appointed a member of the Technical Swimming Committee (TSC) of CANA (the African Swimming Confederation). He served as a CANA TSC member until 2008, when he was elevated to the position of Chairman, CANA TSC, a position which he held for two terms up till 2016. Thereafter, he continued as a TSC member until 2020. While serving as the CANA TSC Chairman, Gbenga was also appointed a member of the TSC of FINA (the International Swimming Federation), holding that position from 2009 - 2017.

Apart from officiating at various World, Continental, Regional & National Swimming Championships and Games over all these years, Gbenga Lawal also served as a FINA Course Facilitator for Swimming Technical Officials Courses. He did this for about ten years (2008 - 2018), handling many of such Courses within Nigeria, in the rest of Africa, and beyond.

In total, therefore, Gbenga Lawal's various contributions to the development of Aquatics were spread over a period of about 31 years. It would probably have been even longer if not for his being incapacitated in 2018. For him , Aquatics indeed became a 2nd career, overlapping initially with his career in the Nigerian Navy!

His many friends in the Aquatics family within Nigeria, all over Africa & other parts of the World all expressed deep sorrow when they heard of his recent demise. They have all requested that sincere condolences be passed on to the family that he leaves behind, as well as God Almighty's blessings.

We thank God for Gbenga Lawal's life, and we will not forget all his contributions to the development of Aquatics in Nigeria and beyond.

May his dear soul finally rest in perfect peace.

Past President, Nigeria Aquatics Federation, 2009 - 2021
Past member, FINA / World Aquatics High Diving Committee, 2013 - 2025
Vice President, Africa Aquatics, 2016 - present

Africa Aquatics mourns the passing of Captain Lawal Olungbenga, former Chair of the Technical Swimming Commission. A dedicated servant of our sport, he played a vital role in strengthening swimming across the continent. His commitment, professionalism, and constant availability elevated the quality of our competitions, and his work in training officials across Africa leaves a lasting legacy.

We extend our heartfelt condolences to his family, his loved ones, and the Nigerian swimming community. His contribution to African aquatics will never be forgotten.

Mohamed Diop
President, Africa Aquatics
President of the Continental Body of Aquatic Sports in Africa.... AFRICAN AQUATICS... AA

Dad was not a loud man, but his presence filled every room. He didn’t teach with speeches; he taught with how he lived. With patience. With grit. With a quiet sense of duty that never clocked out. He showed me that being a man isn’t about dominance, but about showing up even when tired, even when misunderstood, even when life feels unfair. He carried responsibility like it was sacred, and somehow made it look normal.

As his son, I didn’t always understand him in real time. Some lessons only make sense when silence replaces voice. Now I see it clearly: His discipline was love. His firmness was protection. His consistency was sacrifice. He shaped the father I am becoming.

Every time I choose patience over anger, strength over excuses, love over absence, that’s him, still teaching.

I miss him deeply. But I am not lost. Because a good father never truly leaves, he becomes a compass.

Rest well, Dad.

Your work is not finished. It lives on in me.

A TRIBUTE TO MY LATE FATHER-IN-LAW - Navy Capt. Olugbenga Akinsanya Lawal (Rtd.)

With a heart full of gratitude and deep respect, I pay tribute to a remarkable man—my late father-in-law, Navy Captain Olugbenga Akinsanya Lawal (Rtd), whose life was a true reflection of humility, wisdom, and devotion. He was more than a father-in-law to me; he was a guide, a counselor, and a steady presence whose words carried grace and whose actions demonstrated integrity.

He lived a life anchored in faith, hard work, and unwavering commitment to his family. His kindness was gentle but powerful, his generosity quiet but far-reaching, and his love for his children and grandchildren complete and unquestionable. To encounter him was to meet a man who valued peace, upheld truth, and treated everyone with dignity.

I remain grateful for the warmth with which he welcomed me into the family, for the trust he placed in me, and for the many lessons he imparted—lessons of patience, responsibility, and the importance of living honourably. His legacy endures in the values he nurtured, the lives he touched, and the memories we now hold dear.

Though we feel the pain of his departure, we take comfort in the knowledge that he lived a fulfilled life and has returned to his Maker, resting in eternal peace. We will continue to honour him, not only in words but in the way we live out the virtues he embodied.

May his gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace.
Amen.

Son-in-law

TRIBUTE TO CAPTAIN (RTD) AKIN LAWAL

I did not believe I would be writing your tribute so soon, but GOD knows best. Uncle, as I fondly call you, you fought a good fight and really wanted to live, but GOD knows best.

You were different persons to me at different times of my life. You were my hero, my mentor, my support system, and my go-to person. After my secondary school certificate examination, I wanted to go to NDA, you did everything within your power, including taking me to your very seniors in the military to assist me. GOD knows best, as this is not to be.

When I graduated with my first degree, you took it upon yourself to get me my first job. I cannot forget when you had to use your position (uniform) to get me access to companies or meet senior management in organizations I could not dream of stepping into then.

When I got a job in Portharcourt and I needed to know how to swim before resuming the work, you took me to National stadium in Surulere and handed me over to the national team coach to teach me within 2 weeks.

There are still many more to say, but I will allow you take your rest with your creator.

We love you, but GOD loves you more.

SUN RE OOOO.
OMO AKIN TI OFI GBA KANKAN SE OJO

A Tribute to Daddy Lawal

Daddy was many things to many people, but to me, he was fun, cheeky, and deeply loving.

He had a wonderful sense of humour that always kept you on your toes. One of my fondest memories is how he used to speak Yoruba to me - knowing very well that I'm Igbo, and would probably not understand what he was saying. Rather than make it easy, he would gradually increase the difficulty level, and sometimes even insist that I reply in Yoruba - as I usually responded in English. On the rare occasions I managed a response, he was clearly amused. On the many occasions that I didn’t understand what he had said, I would turn to my wife for help - until she eventually abandoned me to my fate. I still wonder if she secretly enjoyed watching me squirm 🤔. Daddy certainly did 😁.

But beneath that playful, cheeky exterior was a deeply loving man. From the very beginning, Daddy took me in as his own son. When he travelled, he picked things up for me just as he did for his biological children - never as an afterthought, always with intention and care.

Before his first stroke, he spoke with my wife, Tobi, five out of seven days every week. And if I failed to call him myself at least once a month, I would receive a “summons” and a friendly but firm query. He believed in staying connected, in being present, and in family.

On one of the occasions we spent together, Daddy took the time to teach me something simple yet meaningful - how to properly iron the cuffs of my shirts, especially those that require cufflinks. It was a small lesson, but it reflected who he was: attentive, thoughtful, and invested in shaping the people he loved.

Daddy didn’t just love with words; he loved with action, intention, and pride. I am grateful for the laughter, the lessons, the care, and the privilege of being loved by him as a son. While I was still based in Nigeria, he even tried to help me get a job with one of his friends before I decided to start my own software development agency.

We are already missing you, Daddy.
Your love, your humour, and your presence will forever remain with us. We love you Daddy.

Son In-Law

After I passed out from the Police Staff College, Jos, in August 1979, I was posted to Calabar. At the time, the PSC was the premier NPF institution for training young university graduates as police officers. We were young, idealistic, and believed that we could change the Force and indeed, through it, even the country! When I reported for duty in Calabar, what I met on ground forced a drastic drop in my enthusiasm. The 1979 state of the Police Command fell exceedingly short of my expectations, and I began to withdraw into my cocoon. As my disappointment sank deeper, I questioned the validity of my decision to join the Police Force.

Today’s gathering is one of mourning and, therefore, unsuitable to share my thoughts on those early months in the NPF when I was at a crossroad. It was at this point that divine grace joined me with Navy Capt. Olugbenga Lawal (aka ‘LAWI’) and, through him, his other young, versatile, and liberal naval peers in Calabar. The friendship we struck and built was one of the strong factors that held me back from resigning my commission from the NPF as early as December 1979. My not being able to revisit that period here deprives the reader of the window to truly appreciate the significance that my meeting ‘Gbenga represented in my journey.
Given the traditional frosty relationship between the NPF and Nigeria’s armed forces, it surprised many in my police constituency that naval officers were my best friends in Calabar. Among these officers, three were especially close to me: Gbenga Lawal (aka ‘LAWI’) who stood out prominently - a trademark that I later came to identify with him wherever he was present; the second was another Captain who recently also went to be with the Lord while the third is a retired Commodore who was a dental surgeon at the time but has since become a medical doctor in addition. Despite being senior to us at the time, this Surgeon was always gracious in his humility and tolerance to identify with us. Among other young naval officers, this trio was my core circle who turned my sojourn in Calabar around into such an extraordinary experience that I cherish to this day.

When my then girlfriend (now wife) and I started out in 1980, ‘Lawi’ was always respectful towards her, even at her back. During my occasional reflections, I always recollect a private incident between ‘Gbenga and I after I innocently misapplied a word in describing my admiration of her to him in the days immediately after I met her. Gbenga was vehement in his objection to the word, and I could not understand why he had to make such a fuss of it. Rattled by his mien, I got hold of a dictionary, and behold, the word conveyed the exact opposite of the encomium I had believed that I was heaping on her. Good enough, it was in the privacy of the two of us and not in the presence of the girlfriend whose charming features I set out to serenade. I always prided myself on the use of the English language, but ‘Gbenga taught me a profound lesson in fact-checking that day.

At my wedding ceremony in 1981, ‘Gbenga and the other two officers played remarkable roles at Ikom. Contrary to NPF expectations and to the dismay of my police peers, one of these three naval officers (now late) was my ‘Best Man’. It was ‘Gbenga who, in a short ceremonial parade, presented me with the sword by which my bride and I cut our wedding cake. The naval Surgeon, in his graciousness, was our Master of Ceremony. Even my Crossing of the Sword parade was a healthy mix of Naval and Police officers. I can never forget their acceptance and love for me.

After my transfer from Calabar in 1985 and without today’s luxury of the internet, Gbenga and I remained true to our friendship. Few years ago, I had the privilege to visit him at his Ikorodu residence. The notorious Lagos traffic would not allow for regular visits, but the arrival of social media was a huge relief. ‘LAWI’ was always approachable, accommodating, tolerant, and easy to get along with. He was a bridge builder, and I was always comfortable in his company. It is painful that I now have to learn to refer to him in the past tense.

May the Lord comfort his family, loved ones, and friends. May HE grant us all the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.

‘’There is no greater memory than the sound of a friend’s laugh,
The laughter shared and the secrets whispered will forever be cherished.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
May my memories of our fun times drown out the sound of my cries’’.

Adieu, Olugbenga, my friend.

‘’We will keep the memory of you alive by cherishing the moments we spent together’’.

May your pleasant soul find eternal rest in the bosom of the Lord. Amen.

Yours truly,

Tobi and I attended the same secondary school. Every time her parents came to visit her, they made sure they saw me too. On days Daddy came on a random visit, he would always make sure to ask to see me. Not only would he and Mummy see me, they would make sure I was doing fine. And every time, Daddy would give me some pocket money. Every single time.

This act of kindness made me feel so loved. Even now, every time I remember, I feel a warmth in my heart.

Daddy loved his children. Oh, he did! And that love overflowed to us, their friends. Daddy would encourage us and always cheered us on. There was no doubt how much he loved us all.

We truly wish we could have our loved ones physically with us forever, but even now, it's a blessing to be able to hold on to beautiful memories of them forever in our hearts.

Daddy, I'm sure you're smiling down on us and still cheering us on. We will miss you. We love you. Blessedly rest in the blossom of your Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Adieu Daddy Lawal. Adieu Baba rere.

With so much love,

Today, we honor a man whose presence made life lighter. He didn’t just walk into a room, he lifted it. Always jovial, always smiling, and always ready to lend a helping hand, he showed me what true kindness looks like in action. Beyond that, he was a deeply loving father, present, patient, and proud. The kind of man whose love shaped his children and inspired everyone who witnessed it. He gave without keeping score, laughed without holding back, and loved without condition. His impact on my life is something I’ll carry forever. Though he’s gone from our sight, his spirit lives on in the family he raised and the lives he touched, including mine 🤍. Goodnight, Dad.

Till we meet to part no more!

TRIBUTE TO A JOLLY GOOD FELLOW.........Ligali Lawal(Sanya Gbenga) (AKA: LL )

LL was an epitome of the mantra: ' It is not how long but how well'. Our paths crossed on that eventful month of January 1964 as 'form one' students at REMO SECONDARY SCHOOL(RSS) SAGAMU in class 1B. I was in the boarding house while he was a 'day student', that is, he attended classes daily from home. With him, there was no dull moment; he was always helpful in assisting boarders get things from Sagamu town at no cost to the senders.

We departed secondary school 1970, only to regroup in April 1988 as vibrant classmates. He was instrumental to the formation of RSS6468 family, in fact, he was the inaugural secretary, a position he held to the admiration and applause of RSS6468 family members.
In his adult life, he impacted lives so easily and this endeared him to the hearts of both male and female genders. He was a problem solver.

It must be admitted that he was so effective and thorough as secretary, so much so that when minutes were read at meetings, almost 99% of the time, there were no corrections and omissions.
His life was a rare blend of family, military, and social activities, and I make bold to say that he maintained a perfect balance in all these.
He was a loving husband, a caring father, and a dependable secretary.

No doubt, we his classmates, will surely miss him, particularly his 'hearty mechanical laughs' in our social gatherings.
But we take consolation in the fact that he lived a fulfilled life and died in Christ.

Good night Our dear LL, till we meet on resurrection morning.

For RSS6468 family

EULOGY TO CAPTAIN OA LAWAL(RTD)

Navy Captain Olugbenga Akinsanya Lawal(retired) was a very effective medical officer in the service of the Nigerian Navy who practiced as a physiotherapist and served in various capacities as sports officer, Naval Assistant to the military administrator of Oyo State. He was once the Director of Sports at the Naval Headquarters and technical adviser to the Nigerian Aquatics Federation, as well as Board Member on the African Aquatics(CANA) as well as Committee Member in FINA.

Late Captain Lawal fought a good fight and finished his race in this mortal world, and will be sorely missed by his family and those whose lives have been positively touched by his vibrant spirit. I join other survivors to wish his soul joyful activity in the luminous gardens of the hereafter, while praying Almighty Father grants us the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. (Amen).

Chairman RANAO Oyo State
Former Vice President Nigeria Aquatics Federation and former FOCs

TRIBUTE TO NN CAPT OLA LAWAL

I first met NN Capt. OLA Lawal in 1991 at the Command and Staff College (CSC), Jaji, when we were both participants of Senior Staff Course 14. Three of us were accommodated in a four-bedroom bungalow throughout the duration of the course. It was during this period that he fondly nicknamed me “My Honourable Landlord,” a name I gladly returned by calling him my landlord as well. That marked the beginning of a deep and enduring friendship.
We were members of the same African Tour team, where we worked tirelessly and eventually emerged winners of the African Tour Cup. We graduated together from CSC in 1992, and our bond continued to grow stronger long after our graduation and even into retirement. We both retired from service in 2007.

Capt. Lawal distinguished himself remarkably in his professional career. He served as the Technical Director of the Nigeria Aquatics Federation, a Technical Official with both the Nigeria Aquatics Federation and World Aquatics (FINA), and later as a Chief Referee with World Aquatics.

In his characteristic way of encouraging others, he persuaded me to enroll in the Fédération Internationale de Natation (FINA) Swimming School for Officials. I successfully completed the course twice, becoming a certified FINA Swimming Official. This brought us even closer, as we frequently travelled together to officiate at swimming competitions across Nigeria.

Capt. Lawal also made history as the first Medical Officer to become a Directing Staff at the Naval Faculty of the Command and Staff College, Jaji — a remarkable achievement that reflected his dedication, competence, and professionalism.
Beyond his professional accomplishments, Lawal was a devoted family man who loved his family deeply and went to great lengths to ensure their progress and well-being. He was a man of good character—hardworking, brilliant, amiable, jovial, dependable, and always willing to help others.

His period of illness was a very trying time for us all. We remained hopeful and prayerful, believing he would overcome it, but God in His infinite wisdom decided otherwise. The news of his passing on 19/11/25 came as a great shock and a deep personal loss. Yet, we take solace in knowing that God gives and God takes.

OLA, your memories will forever remain etched in my heart.
Rest in perfect peace, my dear friend.

Your Honourable Landlord,
QS Akerele

Dear Daddy.
I chose to preserve the memories I have of you as a kind and loving man who truly cherished his children.💛

The way you showered them love openly with hugs, closeness, and constant presence was something I truly admired. Your warmth extended beyond home, even to other children around you, including me and my brother.

At Tobi’s 10th birthday, fathers were asked to dance with their daughters, and honestly, an awkward moment became so natural because of the way you danced with her, and that moment showed the joy and safety you created for her.

I can't deny that some of the interesting places we visited as children were courtesy of your kindness and generosity. You once took us to watch a swimming competition, and I can never forget the top-notch entertainment we enjoyed while seated at the VIP section. I was so proud to be among the group.

When daddy served in the Government he made sure I and my brother visited Ibadan for a full weekend. I will never forget how huge the lunch table was and how he would ask if we were enjoying ourselves. Oh, I didn’t want to go back home again. I was one of the Lawals in my head.
He loved life, and with him was the perfect way to enjoy. He loved dogs, and I quietly developed an interest after watching the way he took care of his dog. I cried when Winnie died.

Those experiences shaped my childhood and made me quietly wish for that kind of deep fatherly bond.

Daddy. I pray God rests your soul and grants us all the grace to bear this loss. I have hope of a wonderful reunion on the last day.

Hun! Pappy Lawi. You will always be more than a brother in law to me . You have been a true brother and a friend. I will never forget the years we shared under the same roof when I was living with you and my sister at Navy town. The laughter the memories we shared under one roof. Your kindness generosity and love will always be remembered. Not to only me but to all of us living as a family. We the Mabinuori's will miss you but your humor will live on in our hearts. Rest in peace man with a heart of gold

My sincere condolences to you all. Daddy was a strong man.Even in sickness he was rugged and commanded respect. Once a military man forever a military man. Rest on Brave soul.

Navy captain Olugbenga Lawal,'Baba agba' as we used to call each other was not a brother in law to me but a 'brother in love'. In our extended family, people related with him as a son or brother.
He was a charismatic person, with him there was no dull moment even when he was sick. He was always ready to help people and he touched many lives positively even beyond the knowledge of his family.
I thank God that he died in christ and this should be the source of consolation to his immediate family and all the loved ones. May the almighty God comfort and protect all the loved ones left behind in Jesus name.

TRIBUTE TO LATE NAVY CAPTAIN OLA LAWAL(RTD)

"Your passing has left an unfillable void in my life and the lives of those who knew you. I'm honored to pay tribute to an extraordinary uncle and benefactor who played a pivotal role in my life.

Your influence in my life was instrumental, and I'll forever be grateful for the opportunity to serve in the Army, which you facilitated. Your trust and confidence in me meant the world, and I worked hard to make you proud.

Your presence at my wedding was a highlight of the day, and the love you showered on my family, especially the seeds from the marriage, was truly heartwarming. You treated them like your own, and your kindness and generosity towards them will never be forgotten.

As a benefactor and mentor, you took keen interest in my career, monitoring my progress and offering valuable guidance and advice. Your words of wisdom and encouragement helped shape me into the person I am today.

Uncle, your legacy will live on through the countless lives you touched. I'll miss you dearly, but I'll keep your memory alive by living out the values you instilled in me. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Rest in peace, dear Uncle. I'll always remember your love, support, and guidance."