Olufunlayo Apinke Fajemisin Ajayi

A Tribute to My First Best Friend

Dear Mum,

Of the many privileges God has afforded me, my most cherished remains His choice of who would welcome and nurture me into the world — Olufunlayo Apinke Fajemisin Ajayi.

You had a rare and powerful gift: you could spot the spark in every individual you met. Their diamond was crystal clear to you, no matter how much mud it was covered in. But seeing it was never enough. Your radical, genuine compassion meant you stayed fixated on the God in people — calling it out at the faintest glimpse, persistently encouraging, rooting for, and even negotiating for the better side of their being to take centre stage.

That is what it was like growing up as your son.

I often joke that I was brainwashed into believing I am special. And it wasn’t just your words of affirmation — though they were compelling — it was your eyes. I felt it. You genuinely believed “Oluwa má timi léhìn” — that God would stand behind me to finish the big thing He has called me to do. The self-confidence I carry today is rooted in buying into your vision for me early on. And you achieved that by selling the idea, never by mandating it.

That same faith you had in me extended beyond me. Even before you became religious, I watched you move with a faith I am still striving to match. When times were tough and you weren’t sure where the money for my school fees would come from, I learned what it truly meant to believe that our Father in heaven supplies all our needs. Somehow, it just always worked out.

Through your actions, I learned that a boss is no more worthy of respect than a driver — because you accorded both the same dignity. I learned that generosity is not only a duty, but sometimes a sacrifice, and that it must be given freely, without expectation of return.

It was that same posture that shaped our home. I have never truly felt like an only child. As far back as I can remember, you were always welcoming new members into our family — many of whom remain my brothers and sisters to this day.
When I opened a recording studio behind your house, young people came for the sound but stayed for the atmosphere. Your presence spoke loudly: “You are welcome here. You can think out loud without fear. You are safe.”

Your absence truly breaks my heart. It will echo far into the future. That said, it will also inevitably be softened by the far-reaching, generational impact you have had — and continue to have — through the countless lives you touched.

It breaks my heart to know I can no longer pick up the phone and laugh with my first ever best friend for hours, passionately debating philosophy and psychology, while also dreaming aloud about creative and business ambitions. Thankfully, I see so much of you in Neo and Eden, your grandchildren — and Jacky and I will make sure they understand the giant of a soul their 'Dinma' was.

Rest easy, Mummy 🤍🕊️. Save us a spot up there. Till we meet again.

And Mum — my answer hasn’t changed from when you first started asking me 30 years ago:
“Yes, Mum, I’m happy. Why wouldn’t I be?”

I have attempted to write this tribute like a hundred and twenty times in my mind; but words fail me.

My two words to describe Aunt Layo are “a listener and a life-giver”.

Auntie Layo is one of the greatest listeners that God blessed humanity with. She is indeed a safe place with a customer-centric approach to life, work and family relationship. She once said to me: “Olaide, the top three skills you must have as a sales professional are listening, listening and listening””. Aunt Layo genuinely listens and responds with empathy.

For a graduate of Ilaro Polytechnic who came out with Pass but eventually made it as Sales Director at Microsoft and Country Manager at Oracle, I believe her life is worth studying like a book.

Aunt Layo bought my wedding rings! She gave meaning to my husband’s life when he was a teenager finding his bearing in life. To him, she was and is forever a life-plug.

I recall one night at Anthony as her adopted daughter-in-law and neighbor, two parents came to raise voices over her harboring their son who was supposed to be in the University. Her reaction during the almost three hours of “back n forth” was that of warmth, enlightenment, motherly care and empathy. All they learnt from Aunt Layo was to listen more to their child if they want him to come home after a bad incident or accident. Her kind is indeed very rare.

You will always tell me to ask myself the why-question anytime I complain about his adopted first born (my husband, Kunle). “Have you asked yourself why he is behaving the way he is?” were her inquiries all the time.

You are one of the safe places for our children even from a tender age: they could pick up the phone and call you without holding back to say whatever at anytime because you will listen! You embraced all ages, habits, personalities and status, no matter how dirty, no matter how broken, no mattrr how silly. You were wierd in a way the world later appreciated!

Aunt Layo, chatting with you for three hours on the phone every other week was never boring. We discussed PFS solutions, the fintech industry, love and marriage, Nigerian economy, churches and religion, parenting, your next travel plans, FX trade, sales strategies and the list never ends.

Aunt Layo, you will be sorely missed😢

Do know that you are forever in our hearts. In partnership with your adopted son, Kunle, I promise to continue to pay forward your act of empathy, hospitality and generosity as Christ engraces us.

Rest on, Auntie. We love you dearly🩷🩷🩷

Layo, u will be greatly missed. Kind hearted, forthright, the life of gatherings and a true friend indeed. May the Lord continue to keep everyone you left behind and give them the strength needed at a time like this and to carry on your legacies. RIP

Our mother aka Iya Boys always say this to us " the world don't revolve around u" is a never ending song in my heart, that brings me comfort, happiness and being. I may sometimes forget the words but I always remember the tune.” I will always miss and never forget your teaching . Live on Iya Boys.

The last time I spoke to Layo on the phone in December and called her 'Lion of Africa', she laughed and said "only my Ghana people call me Lion of Africa!". Layo was undoubtedly a great sport and an even more beautiful spirit.
We honour you and your great legacy.
From your Ghana family, we say, Adieu, till we meet again in the Lord's bossom.

LFA ( Layo Fajemisin Ajayi) was my M.D at MFI& Associate . A lover of God, soft spoken, intelligent and full of wisdom. She had good taste and creative mind. Your thought brings joy always. Rest on beloved.

Lot of memories.

I recall driving her to a customer meeting and having one of the longest, yet most impactful chat that still feels fresh in memory.

I got a free guidance & counselling session from the mother that she was ☺️, firm advisory as a manager (the realities of TechSales) 😉, teasing as aunties would in a family gathering😆and then sharing personal experiences that felt like guardrails as I embarked on a new journey (corporate & marriage)☹️.

It was an unforgettable day, having all of that from an individual. Hmm! She was that one soul created to be a blessing to many and I was impacted.

I’m glad our paths crossed 🤞and may her gentle soul rest in eternal peace. 🕊️

Aunty Layo, words fail me but I and we are comforted that you are resting in the bosom of the Lord.
I remember meeting and engaging with you at your flower shop at some point in Anthony some few year ago, you made those flowers with love , you encouraged, shared real life lessons and was fun at it without knowing me so well, It was beyond a transaction but a genuine passion to lead, encourage, impact and be a blessing while at it.
Post this, you had a welcoming spirit, always smiling and looked away but always there. Thank you for being a blessing for those you know and those you don’t know. I pray the Lord comfort your family and friends and your soul continue to rest in peace. You will surely be missed and we bless for the impactful life you lived.

Mummy mi,

It is still so shocking to hear of your passing—what a painful shock. As the saying goes, God knows best.

Thank you for being a true mother in every sense. Your love, care, and support knew no bounds. Thank you for loving so deeply and so genuinely. I remember how you always emphasized love, that anyone who truly worships God must love unconditionally. At the time, I didn’t fully understand your words, but looking back now, they make so much sense. I am living by those very words you taught me.

The last thing you said to me on our final phone call was that you would come and do *omugwo* for your grandkids. I believed it so strongly and looked forward to it with joy. It breaks my heart that it will no longer happen, because your Creator has called you home.

Rest well, Mummy mi. My family and I love you so much, and you will forever remain in our hearts.

Opeyemi Opeseitan

Timi’s mum,

You stood out to all of us. We were so comfortable around you. We loved coming to your home. You were filled with so much warmth and joy. You always smiled. Always gave compliments and were genuinely interested in the friends of your dear son.

Your dear son, Timi, our “timbo” who was truly the apple of your eyes. You raised him well.

We rejoice that you got to see your grandchildren.

Thank you for being a light and for showing us an example of hospitality.

We remember you as a strong woman with a lovely smile and a good sense of humour. A woman of many parts discussing healthy meals before it was a thing.

A great sister to Funke.

Rest in peace in the bosom of the Lord.

Tunde and Tokunbo Fagbemi

Layo popularly known by my family as Timi’s Mum. Are you really gone??

It was shocking news, very sad indeed, to hear that early 23rd morning that you had passed peacefully to eternity.

In the short time I have known you, since Timi married Dumebi, I recognised a very loving spirit full of life. The soul of a party with her innumerable dance steps and a strong woman always ready to help. I really didn’t know that our last meeting was going to be in Dubai. I was looking to spend more time with you but God wanted you back home.
Adieu sweet woman‼️‼️‼️

Mummy,

We remember and honour your sacrifice for us, for opening your heart and your home to us, and in doing so you changed so many lives in ways you may never have fully realised. Your rare gift for making people feel safe, seen, and valued especially when they needed it most was unparalleled.

You gave more than care, you gave patience, and kindness. Through everyday moments and quiet acts of love, you showed me what family truly means. Your strength was gentle, your guidance steady, and your compassion unwavering.

Your legacy lives on in the lives you touched and the love you shared so freely. The lessons you taught and the warmth you gave will remain forever. I will carry you with me always, grateful for the time we had and the love you gave so selflessly.

You were, and always will be, my mum and grandma in every way that matters.

Jide

I had the privilege of knowing and working with Layo Ajayi, who served as the Head of the Sales Team. Though our direct collaboration happened only a few times, her impact on me was profound and unforgettable.

I remember clearly the first time I met Layo. Her humility stood out immediately and put me at ease, making it effortless to connect with her. This was long before we officially worked together, yet she left a lasting first impression that only grew stronger over time.

Later on, her team spent about a month on internship in my department. The objective was to help the sales team gain a deeper understanding of how the reconciliation software works, enabling them to engage prospective clients more effectively. Throughout this period, Layo was consistently inquisitive. She asked thoughtful questions and would not rest until her curiosity was fully satisfied.

Her passion went beyond selling a solution; she genuinely wanted to help clients optimize their processes to derive maximum value. This drove her deep interest in understanding the internal workings of prospective clients, identifying gaps, and offering recommendations for process re-engineering to achieve seamless automation.

Layo was resilient, passionate, and endlessly curious. Although I knew her for only a short time, her influence was significant, and her memory will remain with me for a long time.

Rest in peace, Madam. Your legacy lives on.

Today, I stand here to honor a woman who was more than a friend, more than a mentor, more than a helper, she was a mother to me. Everyone called her Mumsi, and to me, that name meant everything.

Mumsi was a jewel. A rare kind of person. She had a way of seeing the good in people, even when they couldn’t see it in themselves. There was a time when I was still finding my way in life, confused, stubborn, rough around the edges. But she always saw light in me. She guided me, encouraged me, and helped shape me into a better man.

No matter what was happening, she was the person I could always go back to. The one I could always talk to. The one who never judged me, never turned me away, and never stopped believing in me.

When I had my first child in 2018, life was still hard for me. I was struggling to find my feet. In that moment, when I didn’t know how I would cope, Mumsi stepped in like only a true mother would. She brought out her card, gave it to me with the PIN, and said, “Use as much as you need.” That act of love and trust touched me in a way I can never forget.

And when my second child was born, she insisted on coming for omugwo. She came to my home, cared for my family, and even bathed my baby herself. That is not something just anyone does. That is the heart of a mother.

She was always open, always kind, always there. Many times, she would call me just to say, “Nonso, I’m proud of you.” We would laugh, joke, change the topic, and talk about life. But those words stayed with me. They gave me strength.

Every job I got, every step forward I made, she was there as my guarantor, my supporter, my backbone. Whenever anyone asked about me, she would proudly say, “That’s my son.” And that meant the world to me.

She was my pillar of wisdom. She taught me patience, calmness, and resilience. She taught me how to be better, how to see life differently.

Mumsi was truly a great human being. A rare soul. A blessing to everyone who knew her.

It is so hard to accept that she is gone. I am deeply sad and devastated, because I have lost someone irreplaceable. But I take comfort in knowing that she lived a life full of love, kindness, and impact.

God loves you best, Mumsi.

Thank you for everything.
Thank you for loving me like your own.

Writing this means i'm accepting that you are truly gone and I won't see you again, I won't hear your voice on the phone and we won't talk for hours about big ideas, about the state of the world, about relationships and love and everything else in between.

You were my friend first before my boss, and my mentor. I can still hear your voice saying "Oh girl".

I remember meeting you in 2015 and we connected instantly on flowers, on creativity, shared views of the world and so so many other things.

You opened your heart and your home to everyone that came around you, and today, I am the woman I am because of you. I will carry you with me wherever I go.

I remember the last wedding we attended together and I was thinking to myself, I have a 63 years old friend and I took these picture because I realized over a decade we didn't have any pictures together and I'm so glad I did.

I'm grateful for your life, for your impact on the world, for the lessons you carried so dearly in your heart. You lived everyday with so much purpose and zeal, you welcomed everyone with love, warmth and open arms. You were truly a gem like no other.

From our days of the hand made bonsai trees, to the floral arrangements, to moulding cement pots, to growing the fresh plants, to the eva foam flowers, to the paintings, to the acrylic vases, to the giant flowers, to the woolen artworks, to the terrariums, to the floral wall arts, to the pop moulds, the paper mache experiments, to the artworks, to loveculture, to sales academy, to pfs. I can go on and on. Your life was one of adventure and fearlessness.

You lived.

Your spirit was like no other. You walked into any room and everyone knew Layo was here, your presence, your mind - captivating and I was always so proud of you, I would always tell you how intelligent you were. No problem was insurmountable with you in the room.

I loved you deeply and dearly. I wish I loved you more loudly. I wish I told you how beautiful and radiant you looked on that Monday, we talked as always about everything, about work, about your grandkids, you showed me your new clothes, you shared all the excitements for the new year, you shared your fears and your goals, the usual "Kofo wa ba mi wo kini yi" we paid for your apps for a year, you were looking forward to the future and I saw you looking out for me even on that last day. I wish I had stayed just a little longer for our usual end of day chat.

You told me you were done for the year and I said, "No, you mean you are done with work for the year" Teasing you like i always did. I wish I really heard what you were saying to me.

All in all. I'm grateful because I know you were in a good place. I'm grateful that you found your purpose again and again and you spent the last year of your life doing what you love and bidding farewell.

I hope you are dancing in heaven my dancing queen and I hope you can feel how deeply you are loved and you would always say to me:
"what will your impact be in the world, life is not about the material things"
"what will people remember you for?"
"are you a citizen or an idiot?"

You are a true citizen my Layo, and you made your impact on all of us.
Rest well my friend.

Dear Aun Layo,
My dearest big sister of life… “life of the party” you were a true definition of love…never judging, unconditionally giving, coaching and always there when the chips were down and ever bubbly when the tides high😇 and yes, yet nudging you to do better, with soothing words to calm any storm.

I’m thankful to God for making our paths cross when it did and I’m happy I never missed an opportunity to tell you how much you were loved and appreciated by me and my family.
Take my flowers 💐 💐💐💐
I know that I’ve gained another angel in heaven because that’s definitely where you belong.
Gone too soon?💔💔 Yeah, maybe but your impact will definitely live on.
Sleep tight my sweet Apinke, while I continue to reminisce on the litany of stories and advice, which I will certainly miss!!.
Your friend, sister (aburo)
Theresa Adeyinka

In Loving Memory of Layo Apinke Ajayi
Lively in spirit, gentle at heart,
Layo walked this world with open arms.
She knew no grudges, no borders of tribe or age,
Only love, fairness, and kindness freely given.
A tireless entrepreneur, God-centred and strong,
She lifted others with faith and hope.
I remember that day in 1993 when Layo and I entered LUTH morgue with the mission to raise a dead member of her church to the glory of God!
While am still grieving the loss of her husband Tope my best friend,
Now she too has gone—too soon—
To rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ.
We mourn, yet we trust God’s perfect will.
We love you dearly, Layo,
But God loves you more.
Rest in perfect peace,
Till we meet again my sister and good friend.

Psalm 116:15 -- Precious in the sight of the LORD Is the death of His saints.

We give glory to God for the special grace he gave you to be a bunch of blessings to humanity. You spent your life to express God's love unto men!
We love you so much, but the LORD loves you more...Thank you for being a blessing to me.

The memories of you will always be precious in our hearts.

Till we see again with our LORD JESUS, goodbye for now.
Sis. LAYO (LFA) Sun ré o.

My aunty Layo was truly one of a kind. She was full of life in a way that lit up every room she entered, bringing laughter, warmth, and joy wherever she went. She had a fun, vibrant spirit that made people feel at ease, and her presence alone could lift even the heaviest mood.
What defined her most, though, was her heart. She cared deeply and wholeheartedly—for her family, her friends, and everyone fortunate enough to know her. Her love was genuine, selfless, and freely given.
She leaves behind memories filled with laughter, kindness, and love—memories that will continue to comfort us and remind us of how blessed we were to have her in our lives. Though she is no longer with us physically, her spirit lives on in the love she shared, the lives she touched, and the joy she brought to the world.

I knew Aunty Layo as Timi’s mum. She was sweet yet firm, soft yet strong, and her smile always reflected the beauty of her soul. She was truly a cool mum who related effortlessly with younger people and made everyone feel safe and seen. May she rest in the Father’s arms, surrounded by everlasting peace.

The laughter shared, and the secrets whispered will forever be cherished

I have struggled to write this tribute without getting emotional. My heart aches it is heavy and broken. I am still searching for the right words to describe you and the impact you had on my life.

From the very first day I stepped into your home, I knew love dwelled there. I knew I had to be there. Mumcy, I love you so much. You taught me compassion not just with words, but through how you lived. You taught me so much that I still carry with me till today. I find myself constantly telling people about you, especially when I’m giving a teachable lesson. I often say, “This is how I was taught.”

I tell them how my first real job came from you, and how much I learned under your guidance. Your impact, Mumcy, is truly indescribable. I was just a little rebel an entrepreneur at heart who wanted to chase his dreams, and you helped me soar. You believed in me, constantly nurturing, molding, and pushing me to be better.

“Na flower I go chop,” I tell everyone when I speak about the role you played in what is now the booming fresh flowers business in Nigeria. I miss our long phone calls and your contagious excitement. “My son in Abuja,” as you fondly called me you were truly a wonder, a shining star.

You saw the good in everyone. Your doors were always open, and your arms even wider. You were a dear mother and a true friend to me. You never failed to remind me that I was your son, and you showed me that love in countless ways. I needed that love so dearly at that time in my life, and it changed me it made me so much better.

I miss lying on the couch in your room. I miss surprising you whenever I came to Lagos. You left us too soon before we could fully celebrate you and show the world just how much of an icon you truly were.

Words will never be enough to describe you! the selflessness, the love, the joy. You were so special.

Thank you for everything.

Till we meet again.

Your son in Abuja,
Chef Taylor Odeje

You were truly an amazing person with a larger than life personality and your attitude towards life is something I will learn from.

Thank you for the moments we spent together, particularly the dancing on Christmas. I’ll always remember the kindness you’ve shown me and especially the advice you shared with me growing up.

Rest in perfect peace Aunty❤️

A Tribute To A Lovely And Kind Hearted Woman.
I have had the privilege of talking to you on the phone but not of meeting you personally.
Just as it was possible to finally meet you personally, the cold hands of Death denied me that possibility.
All I am left with is just good stories of you and pictures.
May you rest in perfect peace at the bosom of the Lord. Adieu Layo.

Her life was a beautiful tapestry of compassion, woven with threads of kindness that touched every heart she encountered. As a devoted philanthropist, she didn't just give of her resources, but of her very soul, seeking always to lift others higher. She moved through this world as a beacon of love, proving that one person’s warmth can truly change the atmosphere of a room. Though she has left us far too soon, the seeds of generosity she planted will continue to bloom in the lives of those she supported. We remember her not only for the greatness of her deeds but for the gentle, amazing woman she was to her friends. Her legacy is one of selfless service and an unwavering belief in the goodness of humanity. We carry her light forward, honored to have been graced by a spirit so pure and a heart so exceptionally large.

I write this with deep honour to have known you mumsy, your kindness found me during an important and difficult season of my life, joining the house to work in 2014 was the first time I learnt again I could be someone. In those times, you were such a comforting and guiding presence and that is a lasting impression till date.

I can hear your voice saying Regina right now, asking and telling because with you it’s a dialogue. Your words reflect your deep intelligence, your smile carried both care and ease.

There is something rare in the way mumsy combined attentiveness with freedom, support with lightness. She made people feel welcomed, seen, and encouraged simply by being herself.

I hold deep appreciation, respect, and gratitude for having experienced her kindness and spirit.

Mumsy, your life has touched many and your legacy will continue to live on through the love you gave and the lives you shaped.

Continue to rest in perfect peace mumsy, till we meet again✨

Some people don’t just exist in a family, they define it. Aunty Layo was one of those people. She was the fun aunty, the safe place, the heartbeat of every gathering. She was bold, beautiful and unapologetically herself.

Aunty Layo had a way of balancing honesty with warmth when sharing guidance, or truths that stays with you long after the moment passed. You taught me how to face situations with strength and clarity, you showed how easy it was to fit in any gathering. Those lessons were quiet gifts and will always be precious.

It still feels unreal saying goodbye. We shared Christmas dinners, moments I looked forward to during the festivities as we end up with an after party with you championing us and going home with a new dance step you have learnt. These memories will ache cause the future no longer holds new ones with you, but even in your absence, your presence remains woven into our lives, our gatherings and our laughter.

Aunty, you’ll be deeply missed, fondly remembered and forever cherished❤️

My dear Aunty, you were a woman full of life, love, and warmth. You brought joy wherever you went, and your presence alone could light up any room. You were truly a mother to all, always giving, always caring, always showing up for everyone around you.

You were creative, eager to learn, and passionate about people, especially we young ones. You may never know this, but your words of wisdom and advice has shaped my life in ways I carry with me every day, just as they have shaped the lives of so many who loved you.

I will always remember how you danced with joy, how you would always ask about the new dance styles. It still feels surreal to me but the Lord knows best.
Until we meet again my sweet aunty, thank you for the love, the lessons and the memories i will carry forever.

Ahip Ahop Layo. We were friends at Compro and she was a great dancer (especially to Rappers Delight Sugarhill Gang) and a very jolly girl. Nice, social and funloving. May her jolly soul rest in peace. So sad but God knows best 🙏.

Auntie Layo, You were not just a Sister-in-law. You were a dear Sister and a friend i can talk to about anything and get a honest answer and positive direction on how to go about certain issues in life, your life enriched all of ours in a great way and i will always be grateful for the time we had and the reminder you gave us always that true beauty lies in kindness and the sacrifices you made for others. You were beautiful inside and outside, we will Always remember your love your strength,, your dance and the family bond you displayed.
May your memories be a source of inspiration reminding us to cherish every moment and to stand by our love once.
May the soul of Sister Layo and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God rest in perfect peace. Amen 🙏

Our darling Aunty Layo.
A loved sister and aunt
A source of light , joy , banter, kindness and goodness.
A whirlwind of positivity and possibilities .
A go getter and champion of many.
You saw the good in all and was always finding a way forward .
To you, there were no obstacles in life, only uncharted waters.
Nothing was ever impossible, only waiting to be solved.
You were and remain an inspiration.
You will be greatly missed but always remembered.
Rest in peace
Love,
Yinka , Olamiju and Baba

I still cannot believe I am writing this.

Mumcy, we were working on a project together, right up until your passing. We spoke just the Sunday before. I am still in shock, and my heart still refuses to fully accept that this is now a tribute rather than another conversation with you.

I fondly called you Mumcy, but you were so much more than that. You were a mentor, a coach, a friend, and truly a mother. Your ability to connect with people was impeccable. You listened deeply, loved genuinely, and cared passionately about my growth and progress. You never let me get too comfortable, you chased me whenever I was slacking and put me back on my toes, always with love and intention.

You were a rare kind. You held no judgment and treated everyone equally, with respect and dignity. You carried wisdom so naturally, and you took on my problems as though they were your own. Nothing ever felt too difficult or too heavy to bring to you. Somehow, with you, there was always clarity.

You didn’t just open the doors of your home, you created a safe space. A space where I, and everyone who walked through those doors, felt seen, valued, and guided. You managed our excesses without condemnation and never failed to call us to order when needed, always with love. You had a special gift for identifying the good in people and building on it, helping us become better versions of ourselves.

You never stopped dreaming. You never stopped chasing purpose. You never stopped achieving. And you pushed every one of us to do the same.

I keep replaying our last conversation, the Sunday before. You said, “I’ll get back to you on Monday.” That Monday never came. I had no idea that would be our last conversation, and that knowledge still shakes me.

I also remember your excitement when I left Nigeria a few years ago. Your words are etched into my heart:

“I am happy for you, my dear son, so happy. Please ensure you have a clear vision for yourself and your future, but please don’t let it be just about the money only, but about the riches.
Riches—meaning positive impact on your generation and a positive influence on your younger ones.
God be with you always.
You have been a great blessing to my life and I love you. Trust me, I will miss you. See you soon.”

Mumcy, I will miss you dearly, more than words can capture. But I will forever cherish the memories, the lessons, the love, and the wisdom you poured into my life. Your voice, your guidance, and your legacy will continue to live on through all of us you touched.

Thank you for being truly one of a kind, Mumcy.
Rest well. 🤍 🕊️

Raymond Osheku

I remember feeling a little apprehensive at the prospect of meeting you for the first time. Your brother (my now husband) was in Nigeria, and I was going to attend a family event in England, by myself. I needn’t have worried. You instantly welcomed me and treated me as an old friend. Very soon we were shopping together and visiting each other. I remember how we danced and laughed together.

You may have been my sister-in-law but to me you were just my sister.

You were one of the most open and compassionate people I have ever met, the embodiment of selflessness and generosity – always making everyone in your life feel appreciated and cherished.

I will always treasure the memories of our times together, from planning mine and Bunmi’s wedding to helping plan your son, Timi’s wedding decades later.

I thank God for the life you lived and the lives you touched. Your warmth and vibrance will never be forgotten.

Rest in peace my dear sister

Layo’s passing is deeply painful, but her legacy lives on through the lives she touched, the kindness she showed, and the quiet example she set. May her soul rest in perfect peace, and may God grant her family strength, comfort, and healing during this difficult time. Layo will be remembered with respect, gratitude, and fond memories.

I met Layo Ajayi in 2018, when she was engaged as a consultant to the firm I was working with at the time. From our very first interaction, we clicked instantly. What began as a professional relationship quickly grew into something much deeper—mentorship, coaching, friendship, and love.

Layo taught me so much. Through her guidance, she helped me discover gifts and strengths I didn’t even know I had. We worked on several projects together, and she constantly pushed me to stretch beyond my limits, beyond my own thinking. She believed in me fiercely—sometimes even more than I believed in myself.

Despite her exceptional professional pedigree as a former Country Manager at Oracle, Layo was one of the most humble people I have ever met. Her humility, kindness, and openness made everyone around her feel seen and valued.

When I was taken to court by my former employer, Layo stood firmly by me. She followed me for legal briefings, showed up in court—often arriving before I did—and defended me with unwavering loyalty. To this day, I don’t fully understand why she believed in me so deeply, but I am eternally grateful that she did.

When I made the bold decision to leave and commit fully to building my own company, her encouragement was second to none. She visited my office, shared ideas on how we could collaborate, and never stopped cheering me on. She was always there to listen—especially on days when I needed someone to lift my spirit.

Layo loved me like her own, and my entire team knew her name. “Aunty Layo” was a constant presence in our conversations. I had even promised them she would come to coach us on sales this new year—a training I kept procrastinating about. Now, I wish I had pushed harder to make it happen.

It breaks my heart that I didn’t get enough time to fully tell or show you how much you meant to me. Yet, I will forever cherish the memories we shared—the laughter, the deep conversations, even moments like our visit to the Asoké place for Timi’s wedding. There was nothing too sensitive, nothing too difficult, that I couldn’t share with you.

Till we meet again, my dearest Layo.
Good night. May the good Lord comfort us all, especially Timi.
You will always be my pride.
I will miss you deeply.

A Tribute to my Childhood Friend and Sister.

Layo, you were not only my childhood friend, but a sister in a million.

Our friendship started in the late 60s, when we were both under ten years old. Our parents were family friends and neighbours in the same house with two duplexes. Your family lived in one duplex while my family lived in the other.

We both got admission into secondary school about the same time, and resumed on the same day, September 3 1973, at different schools.

We were both day students. Whenever we came back from school, we would look for each other to compare experiences on new subjects, new dance steps, exchange views on what we called "slum books" in those days, and many more.

Later in life, we became closer. You were the Chief hostess at my son's wedding. You came with your team to put final touches to the hall decoration, and everybody wanted to know who that woman was!

On the 21st of December 2025, I was with you for about two hours, talking about old times, music, dance steps, literary and debating days in secondary school, family, counselling, youth and their ways, relgion generally, christianity in partcular, psychology, human behaviour and how to modify bad behaviour and many more.....

You said you wanted to be part of my forth coming workshop/seminar as a life coach. You ate, looked at the proposal I submitted in Abuja, and said it was good.

Little did I know that, all was a farewell package for me.

Rest on in the bosom of the Lord, till we meet to part no more.

Dr Tumi Haastrup

Aunty Layo, your love, kindness, and gentle spirit will never be forgotten. You touched many lives and left beautiful memories in our hearts. Though you are gone, your presence lives on through the love you shared. Rest peacefully—you will always be missed and forever remembered.

Seye Ajayi

Tribute to Sis Layo
We celebrate the life of a truly lovely person Sis Layo as I called her—one who lived her life with grace, courage, and purpose. She was a woman who walked confidently on her own path, lived life on her terms, yet always guided by her deep conviction.

She was simple and friendly this was evident in how she loved, how she served, and how she treated everyone she met especially through Funke, we also became her sisters making people feel welcome, seen, and valued. To know her was to experience warmth, kindness, and sincerity.

She had a beautiful way of connecting with people—always approachable, always smiling, and always willing to offer a word of encouragement.
Though we mourn her passing, we are comforted by her memory and legacy of a life well lived and love freely given.

May the Lord strengthen Mummy, Funke, Timi, her loved ones and give them the grace to bear the loss of this very cheerful Sis.

She will be deeply missed, fondly remembered, and her memory forever cherished.

May her soul find rest in the Lord.

Sincerely,
‘Nireti Adebayo

From my earliest memory, I have been in awe of my sister, Layo. A force of nature—brilliant in dance, acting, public speaking, art and blessed with a vibrant, magnetic personality. Though eight years older, she always treated me as an equal, sought and valued my opinions, and made me feel seen and heard, even as a child and we remained on first name basis despite cultural norms. In all our time together, I don’t recall being scolded or chastised by her even when I was deserving. That was Layo—gracious, kind, and focused on the best in others.

Layo was non-judgemental, selfless and always put others first. This made me quite protective of her but overtime I became fully accepting of her philosophy of life after seeing so many who thrived under her mentorship. Her love was truly unconditional and fierce. If you needed someone to stand in the gap for you, Layo was there without hesitation. Her heart embraced not just family, but extended outwards, often turning acquaintances into family, many of whom are now firmly family to us as well. She gave without measure, and in doing so, she taught us all what true agape love is. This, I believe, is the most important commandment, which she embodied.

But Layo was more than loving—she was strong. Fearless. She lived life boldly, on her own terms, never paralyzed by fear of failure or the need to fit in. When she believed in something, nothing could shake her resolve. She did nothing half hearted—she was all in or out. Professionally, she was a trail blazer and a role model and often was my sounding board. I recently reflected on how good to see that age had not dimmed her energy, passion and zest for life. For instance, she increasingly embraced technology, expanding her reach as Mama @lovecultureng on Instagram and TikTok, continuing to inspire and uplift others.

Her absence leaves a great void but I am thankful for the privilege of being her sister. I am comforted by countless cherished memories and the gift of the family she wove together with her love.

Layo, you live on in my heart and in so many others you touched. Sleep well, you fought a good fight - and you won.

Sis Layo!! Ah I wish you can read this. I am sure you're smiling and laughing at everyone ones tribute here.

You are so special. thank you for giving the privilege of knowing you.

I have really struggled this past few days... especially can't believe I am having to write this

I am right to say I was your first daughter. Taking me in your house at age of 25

I remember how you use to remind me that you were 10 years older oh !! even when you looked so young and had a youthful presence
You loved God and his people.

You had the largest heart and patience. You treated everyone the same... Especially those who society didn't feel acceptable. You stood up for injustice and make sure everyone felt valued

You took me in ..even when my family or friends couldn't. You managed my excesses and thought me true humanity and humility.

I will miss your boisterous and energetic personality. Your largeness of heart and your wealth of knowledge

Fare well ma

Pastor Vanessa

To write about my sister, Funlayo (Layo) is to write about the very definition of selfless love. She was not just my older sister; for most of our formative years, she was my closest companion, my fiercest protector, and my greatest cheerleader.

With only two years between us, we shared a journey that shaped us. We moved through the same primary school, and later, our time at the closely-knit Methodist Girls High School and Igbobi College in Yaba meant our worlds were intertwined. We had the same friends, attended the same events, and, as teenagers, got into the same kind of ‘mischief.’ Some even said we behaved as more than siblings. I remember an old neighbour fondly recalling how, as young children, we would hold hands walking to church on Sundays. She was a bit of a tomboy then, and we could play any game together.

But what truly defined Layo was a character of profound courage and generosity. She never put her own interests before others, and certainly never before mine. My happiness was her happiness; she celebrated my successes as if they were her own. My problems were her problems, and she would move mountains to solve them, even if it got her into trouble. If you needed a shilling and she had two, she would immediately consider that she only had one. If she had only one, she would first try to understand how far half of it could go for you.

Her courage was not passive; it was bold and defiant. I recall vividly a teenage incident outside a friend’s party, where the trend of “chancing” was rife. Two bigger boys pounced on me for my trendy shirt. Immediately, Layo—much smaller than even I was—jumped in front of her little brother and declared they would have to get past her first. Her stunning boldness shocked them into walking away. Decades later, when I first arrived in England with little, she, who had only been there a few months herself, gave me half of all the money she had. “Take this, you need it,” she said. “I cannot have money and my brother will be suffering.”

This was her essence: thinking of others, comforting others, empowering others. If she had two coats and you had none, the second was meant for you. This principle fuelled her incredible work ethic, leading her to establish and manage several businesses. ‘Going the extra mile’ was her creed: if there was anything morally right you could do to make things better, you did it.

Layo brought an infectious energy, passion, and humour to everything. She could transform a quiet, sombre room just by her presence. A mother to the core and an exceptional cook, her love was served on a plate. When she returned from university studying Food Technology, none of us—siblings, uncles, or cousins—wanted to go near the kitchen. We’d simply say “Food!” with a smile, a loving dig at her passion. And she loved cooking far more than eating, because for her, it was never about herself; it was about nourishing happiness in others.

She nurtured with more than food. She gave her time, advice, and guidance. She offered homes to the homeless and direction to the lost, mentoring and coaching people to stand proudly where they are today.

If anyone wishes to do something special in memory of Layo, don’t plant a tree or make a banner. Instead, give to the next needful person you meet. Share whatever good you have in your hand. Do this in memory of Layo, for it is the living embodiment of her guiding principle:

“Do not say to your neighbor, ‘Come back tomorrow and I’ll give it to you’— when you already have it with you.”* - Proverbs 3:28

Goodbye, dear Layo. My first friend, my lifelong protector. Your laughter, your courage, and your boundless, giving heart are woven into the fabric of my life. You taught me that love is an action, and in your memory, that action will continue.

Rest in perfect peace, my sister. You are loved beyond measure, and you will be missed every single day.

Aunty Layo, was a mother to many, opening her home and heart to children who were not hers but needed love.
She showed up, stayed present, and cared deeply for teenagers finding their way.
Her kindness shaped lives, built confidence, and gave hope to many.
We honor her, we thank her, and we celebrate her beautiful legacy. ❤️

Aunty Layo was a gem from the very first moment I met her. With an open heart and an open home, she welcomed me as though I were her own. Ever warm, ever kind, she held my hands through a season when I was quietly battling life, offering comfort without judgment and love without condition.

I would find myself stopping by whenever I was in her area, drawn by her gentle spirit and the peace that surrounded her. She was an amazing woman whose kindness left a lasting mark on my heart. Her presence was a blessing, and her memory will always be cherished.

Sending Timi strength and love in this time.

A radiant light has returned to the stars, She will be greatly missed. Though you have transitioned beyond what my eyes can see, the beauty of your spirit remains woven into every memory you shared with everyone. Rest in peace and power, dear friend; your journey continues in a place of perfect peace. Your life was a gift, and your legacy is the love you left behind in all of us.Good night, Love Culture; Sleep tight Lady Layo!

-NewState

Layo lived with more flavor and fire than most could muster in a hundred years. She was my spark—the sister who reminded me to find the joy in the small things and the zest in every day.
Layo was my 'zesty' sister. She brought colour to every room, spice to every conversation, and an infectious energy that made you feel anything was possible. But beneath that vibrant exterior was a heart of pure gold. Her love wasn't quiet; it was active, fierce, and unwavering. She showed up when it mattered, and she made the 'ordinary' moments feel like an adventure.
To lose her feels like the lights have dimmed just a little, but we are all better, brighter, and bolder for having been loved by her." I will miss her laugh most of all—that zesty, unmistakable sound that reminded us all not to take life too seriously." While her journey here has ended, the warmth of her love endures, and her vibrant energy will continue to inspire each of us to live a little louder and love a little deeper. Rest in peace, my beautiful, zesty sister."

I had the honor of meeting Mama Timi (as I affectionately called her) over 15 years ago through her son Timi, who attended our Teens church where I served as head.

We clicked instantly - she was vibrant, free spirited, kind, charitable, down-to-earth, and outspoken 😊. Her generosity was remarkable; she'd open her home to anyone without hesitation. Her simple lifestyle was truly uncommon for someone of her generation.

When I asked if we could host a vigil at her place, she welcomed us warmly. Over time, she began calling me "Uncle Tunde," then "Baba Timi" or "Daddy Timi" - a title she meant with all sincerity 😊. She was a true mother figure.

Life threw challenges her way, including a period of being bedridden, but she bounced back miraculously. I'm grateful for her life and the impact she had on me and many others, especially her son Timi 🙏.

To Mama, Timi, the Fajemisins, and the entire family, my heartfelt condolences. Rest well, dear sister.

Tunde Onakoya Esq. 💔

My heart broke down hearing the sad news.
I lost a friend, a beautiful soul. I can't find the words to express my shock. I'm saddened that you're no more with us. Mama Layo(Loveculture) you were such an inspiration, your life was a blessing. Your memory is a treasure. Your smile and face will never fade. It's unbelievable and heart breaking that I'm writing this 💔
Mama Layo(Loveculture) you were a massive inspiration! It's a sad news but my consolation is that you lived and you did it happily with no pretence. Many things to say but I sincerely don't know what else to say at this point. We can't question God who made us and calls us when he deems fit.
May God have mercy on your shortcomings and grant you eternal rest. May the Lord comfort your family. My sincere condolences.
Rest in peace my dear mama Layo 🙏
You lived! You impacted! You inspired! You touched lives!
Gone from our sights but never from our hearts ✨️🤍💛❤️

Layo’s passing is still hard to process, and my heart goes out to her dear son, Timi, and the entire family. Hearing the news on December 24 left me in deep shock, because Layo was truly one of those rare people whose presence felt steady, warm, and reassuring.

I had the privilege of working with Layo. We had our fights, and I will always remember her as gracious, thoughtful, and consistently kind. She carried herself with quiet strength and dignity, and she related with people in a way that made you feel seen and respected. Layo brought excellence to everything she did, but even more than that, she brought humanity.

One memory that stays with me is her 60th birthday—such a beautiful celebration of a life well lived. It was a reflection of the love and honour that surrounded Layo, and it reminded me of how deeply she was cherished. Layo was not just loved—she was a source of strength to her family and a blessing to everyone who encountered her.

Layo, thank you for the impact you made through your life, your values, and your quiet generosity. You will be remembered with respect and affection.

May God comfort your son, Timi, and family, strengthen Mama, and grant everyone the grace to carry this loss. Rest in perfect peace, dear Layo. Your legacy lives on.

Layo, my sister and bestie. I miss you so much. May you have eternal rest. You were such a rare person.

Mumsy.

I'm heartbroken.

There is so much I wanted to say to you. To have you rudely taken from us before I could say them hurts so much.

You were more than my mother-in-law. You were the embodiment of unconditional love, a safe place and a truly rare diamond. You saw the parts of me I tried to hide away and loved me anyway. There'll never be anyone else like you.

I'm so grateful for the numerous wonderful occasions which brought us together over the past 5 years. Timi and I's wedding, yours and my mum's 60th birthdays and the births of your grandchildren Neo and Eden. God gave us so many reasons to celebrate and now we have amazing memories to treasure forever.

Thank you for always pouring words of strength and encouragement into Timi and I. Thank you for loving Neo and Eden they way you did. The bond you built with Neo in such a short space of time was special. We'll make sure he remembers his "Dima".

And my goodness, thank you for my beautiful Timi. Your pure heart raised another pure heart. Neo, Eden and I are blessed to have such an amazing man in our lives and it's all thanks to you.

Seeing how much your loss has impacted so many people is humbling. Mumsy, you've taught me what it means to be Christ like.

We're heartbroken to have lost you, but deeply grateful and honoured to have had you.

Rest well in the arms of our Lord. Till we meet again ❤️

Tribute to a Cherished Friend and In-Law

On December 23, 2025, we lost a truly remarkable woman—my daughter's mother-in-law, who became a treasured friend and an irreplaceable part of our family. Layo, your sudden passing has left us all in shock, and your absence is deeply felt.

You were the embodiment of kindness and compassion, always going out of your way to help others. Your warmth and lively spirit made you the life wire of every occasion, and you brought joy and laughter wherever she went.
You were devoted to Timi and adored Neo and Eden—our beloved grandchildren.
One of my fondest memories is from my birthday celebration in September 2025, where you lit up the event and made a lasting impression on everyone present. Your ability to connect with people and make them feel special was truly unique.
Anecdotes like our last conversation, the night before you passed, remind me how precious and unpredictable life can be. I had no idea it would be our final exchange, and I will always cherish that moment. Your friendship meant so much to me, and I will miss her deeply.

As we move forward, your legacy moves on. By God's grace, we will continue to look after Timi, Jackie, Neo and Eden, honoring your legacy by ensuring they are surrounded by love and support. You will never be forgotten.

Adieu Layo!

Dear Layo, it is painful, wrenching, to speak about you in the past tense.

Once upon a day, total strangers met, then became friends and in-laws as a young couple - your son and our daughter - joined us all together as family, through their wedlock. Your unshakeable optimism infused people around you, and your sheer joie de vivre shone through in everything that you did.

Our amazing in-law, we promise that our shared grandchildren will constantly be regaled with anecdotes about vivacious Grandma Layo. They'll be shown the many happy photos. They'll be shown the videos of Glam'Ma dancing and playing with them .

We will continue care for your son, our son, as we care for our daughter. That is the very least we can do.

Layo was a contemplative, generous soul with a ready smile, full of love and kindness and goodwill. She believed in the innate goodness of every person she interacted with. The world has lost a very decent person.

May you rest in peace, Layo.


Eddie Ntephe

I commiserate with the entire members of PFS on the passing of your colleague. May God Almighty have mercy upon the soul of the departed, accept her return and grant her eternal rest. May He grant the families she left behind irreplaceable loss.

Tribute to LAYO

LAYO was a loving and caring woman with a rare heart for nurturing young boys, guiding and mentoring them into men of great value and character. Her compassion, wisdom, and selfless investment in lives have left a lasting legacy. Though she is deeply missed, her impact lives on in the many lives she touched.

Rest in peace, Layo.

Jane

My dearest Aunty, I don't even know where to begin....

In typical Dami fashion, upon hearing this news, I leaned into my typical avoidant self and tried to block my emotions out. Those pent up emotions have come trickling down my face as I write this.

We were neighbours growing up and you were instrumental is developing and shaping the man I am today. The memories are endless. You were the fun aunty, always happy, jovial, and stern on extremely rare occasions. I remember numerous times when I did something wrong that my mum would likely shout on me for, I would run to you to call her and calm her down before she got home. Times I wanted to stay out late, I would just say "I am spending the night at Timi's house" in order to avoid long talk. When some things were not going right in my personal life, you always had a way of making me feel like everything will be better, and I always walked away with a sense of relief. I remember visiting days in Trinity, a day that should be calm with family, you will always find a way to turn it into a party, you were really something lol.

I remember when we stopped being neighbours, I would still always come visit. Every single time I came, there was a new face living in the house. A new person you had taken under your wing, a new person you had decided to show love and compassion, a new person you had decided to mentor and provide with unconditional love. I must admit It was strange to me at first, but upon observing how you transformed these young men and women into better human beings, only then did I understand who you really were. You were one who cared for others and always wanted to help regardless of a persons past, or background.

The thoughts running through my head are endless.... Although you have gone too soon, I would hold unto the memories and cherish them forever. You are gone but not forgotten. You will live my heart forever. You have left behind an untainted legacy, one that all those whose lives you touched will continue to uphold.

Now that you're in the lord place, I bet there's a party going on up there, and you're the star attraction lol.

I love you Aunty, rest well.

Layo! Where do I begin...
It is surreal to even think you are at rest in the Lord! You are one forever person I know... knew!
Anytime we spoke and saw - picking up from where we left off, gracious, loving with no 'airs', genuine, authentic... ahhh Layo!
Our escapades in SA was one of my flashbacks, how we boldly went to Capetown from
J'burg exploring skincare products and our driver Moses tagging us money money money... too many moments to share.. how we sought out plants for well being and of course, discussing the progress of the light of your world, Timi!!!
Death is a finality but you live on in my heart as truly a great person I would always choose to work with, travel with, laugh with, dance with, talk with and more! You were really!
Rest well dear Sister, you were loved dearly!

* Photo: one of our dinner times in J'burg, SA

Madam Layo, continue to rest in the Lord. A woman of exceptional leaderahip traits. Layo lead from the heart. She was my first female manager and she is of a different stuck. Unique and strive for excellence with real humanity at the center.

When a good life is lived,
Grief should bow to joy.
Because some lives finish their work,
And leave us richer for knowing them.

Aunty Layo mi. Mummy mi.

I am deeply grateful for the impact and influence you had on my life. Through you, I learned what it truly means to be present and attentive to the lives of others, even in the smallest and quietest ways.

Your loving and caring nature once saved my life. By the grace of God, I grew up saying that Aunty Layo provided what my mother could not at certain times. You were my confidant, my place of safety, where I could lay down my shame and grow into myself. You were my constant source of love and reassurance.

I am thankful that I met my brother, Timilehin, at Trinity, because through that connection I came to know one of the most remarkable human beings I have ever encountered.

You were truly remarkable, knowledgable, and full of wisdom.

Though I am saddened that I will not see you again on this earth until we meet once more, I rejoice with a grateful heart, knowing that your life stands as a true testament to impact lived fully and selflessly.

You will always be remembered with love, gratitude, and honor.

Sùn re o Layo, Sùn re o Mummy Mi.

Your Son,
Damilola Okulaja-Ewetade

My dear Layo, you left this world so quietly, but you lived life boldly. A woman of bright spirit and unshakeable determination, you faced every challenge with courage and rose to every opportunity with grace. Your strength carried you far in business and from food technology where we met as classmates to a thriving IT career. I am heartbroken and slowly coming to terms that I will see you again when the time is right. Sleep well my dear sister sleep tight.
You loved togetherness — it’s a La….yo…….. eh!…..the laughter, the dancing, the shared moments that we made life feel full. Thank you for those good times.
You also lifted the faint‑hearted with kindness, encouragement, and a generosity that asked for nothing in return. You truly touched lives in ways. Woh!…..
you didn’t even wait for Christmas……oh!…your absence is deeply felt, and will be missed more than words can hold. But your legacy — of joy, compassion, resilience, and love — will continue to shine in everyone who was lucky enough to have known you. Timi and his family will continue your legacy as God consoles and strengthens his heart.
Sleep well my dear friend, sleep well my sister.
Peju Arenyeka.