Olivia Ngwe Titachu

September  8th, 1939 November  7th, 2024
Bamenda, Cameroon
Olivia Ngwe Titachu

Mami Olivia, A beautiful soul, deeply loved and dearly missed. In the hearts of those you loved, you will always be.

Obituary

To our Beloved Mother, Olivia Ngwe Titachu

Born in an era when women had little agency, she defied expectations and demonstrated unmatched strength, resilience, compassion, and an unwavering dedication to service.

Biography

A Humble Beginning
Mami Olivia Ngwe Titachu, a remarkable woman, was born on September 8th, 1939 in the historic town of Bamenda Old Town, nestled in the Northwest Region of Cameroon. Her parents, Papa John Titachu and Mami Monica Nik Titachu, welcomed her as the fifth of seven children. In a time when societal norms often confined women to domestic roles, young Olivia yearned for education. Defying tradition and family expectations, she embarked on a courageous journey, leaving her home to pursue her academic aspirations.

A Journey of Education and Service

Mami Olivia’s pursuit of knowledge led her to the Southwest Region of Cameroon, where she sought refuge with her elder sister and her husband, a Baptist missionary teacher. She enrolled at Girls Baptist Mission School, Victoria, now known as Saker Baptist College in Limbe. In 1955, she graduated with a First School Leaving Certificate, a significant achievement for a woman of her time.

After graduation, Mami Olivia moved to Ekona, also in the Southwest Region, where she secured a position as a Nurse Aid at the CDC (Cameroon Development Corporation) Cottage Hospital. It was during this time that she met her husband and started her own family, blessed with children. However, life took an unexpected turn, leading her to separate from her husband.

In 1962, Mami Olivia made the decision to return to her birthplace, Bamenda, where she found employment as a Nursing Aid at the Acha-Tugi General Hospital, managed by the Presbyterian Basel Mission. Recognizing her potential and dedication, the Presbyterian Basel Missionaries (church missionaries from Switzerland) sponsored her to pursue a professional nursing education at the Shisong Nursing and Midwifery School

A Lifelong Commitment to Healthcare

In 1967, Mami Olivia graduated from Nursing School and furthered her qualifications by registering with the British Board of Nursing in Lagos, Nigeria, becoming a registered nurse midwife. Upon returning to Cameroon, she resumed work at Acha-Tugi Hospital, later transferring to Nyasoso Health Center and then to Bafut Health Center. She became certified as a Nurse and Midwives ordinance with the Joint Nursing and Midwives Council of West Cameroon in April 1968.

One of the most challenging periods of her career came in 1980 when she was temporarily assigned to Banga Bagundu Health Center. Due to unforeseen circumstances, she was stranded there for a year, unable to return home. Undeterred by the distance and the challenges, she embarked on a perilous journey, traversing forests and rivers for three days to reunite with her family.

In 1983, Mami Olivia returned to Acha-Tugi General Hospital, where she took charge of the maternity/labor and delivery unit. Her unwavering commitment to hygiene and cleanliness earned her the affectionate nickname "Mami Nyabiri Nyabiri." In 1990, she was promoted to Matron and Nursing Superintendent, a position she held until her retirement in 1997.

A Legacy of Faith and Service
Beyond her professional accomplishments, Mami Olivia was a devout Christian, finding solace and strength in her faith. She was a member of the Presbyterian Church and actively participated in the English Choir. She was a matron of the Hallelujah Chair in her home village church and along-time member of the Christian Women Fellowship in her active days. Her love for her family, community, and profession were evident in every aspect of her life. Her passion for gardening and singing brought her joy and peace.

Mami Olivia Ngwe Titachu passed away on November 7, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of compassion, resilience, and unwavering dedication to service. Her memory will forever be cherished by her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and countless others whose lives she touched. Her life story inspires all who knew her, a testament to the power of perseverance and a reminder of the enduring impact of a well-lived life.

Timeline

1939
September 8th
Sunrise
A remarkable woman, was born on September 8th, 1939, in the historic town of Bamenda Old Town, nestled in the Northwest Region of Cameroon
1955
Girls Baptist Mission School, Victoria
Graduated with a First School Leaving Certificate from Girls Baptist Mission School, Victoria. Now known as Saker Baptist College in Limbe.
1957
Married and Started Family
In 1957 - 1961, Mami secured her first job as a Nursing Aid at CDC Cottage Hospital, met her husband and started her own family being blessed with multiple children.
1962
Acha-Tugi General Hospital
Returned to her birthplace, in the northwest region and secured new employment as a Nursing Aid at the Acha-Tugi General Hospital; managed by the Presbyterian Basel Mission.
1964
Shisong Nursing and Midwifery Admission
After recognizing her potential and dedication, Mami Olivia gained admission to the Shisong Nursing and Midwifery School with sponsorship from of the Presbyterian Basel Mission.
1967
Graduated from Nursing School
Mami Olivia successfully competed nursing school at the Shisong Nursing and Midwifery School and traveled to Lagos Nigeria, where she passed the British Board Exam to become a registered Nurse Midwife.
1968
Acha-Tugi General Hospital
Mami Olivia returned to the Acha-Tugi General Hospital where she resumed work, now as a registered Nurse Midwife. That same year, she also registered as a Midwife with the Joint Nursing and Midwives Council of West Cameroon under the recognition of the Nursing and Midwives ordinance of 1961
1970
 Nyasoso Presbyterian Health Center
Ma Olivia transferred to  Nyasoso Presbyterian Health Center in the southwest region of Cameroon. This was a new health center at the time with 130 outpatient visits a day.
1980
Banga Bagundu Health Center
Due to unforeseen circumstances, after accepting a temporary assignment at Banga Bagundu Health Center, she was stranded there for a year, unable to return home. She embarked on a perilous journey, traversing forests and rivers for three days to reunite with her family
1983
Returned to Acha-Tugi General Hospital
She returned to Acha-Tugi General Hospital where she was put in charge of the maternity and labor delivery unit.
1990
Promoted to Matron and Nursing Superintendent
Due to her excellence and unwavering commitment to hygiene and cleanliness, in 1990 she was promoted to Matron and Nursing Superintendent at Acha-Tugi General Hospital. 
1997
Retirement
She retired as the Matron and Nursing Superintendent at Acha-Tugi hospital in 1997. The hospital was now managed by the presbyterian church of Cameroon.
2024
November 7th
Sunset
Mami Olivia Ngwe Titachu passed away on November 7, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of compassion, resilience, and unwavering dedication to service.

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December 13, 2024
Ma, you dedicated you life to service and transformed the lives of many. I remember you kindness and warmth and despite many years, you were always in our thoughts. Niw that you have taken this new journey, we only pray that you rest in perfect peace. You deserve it and your memories will live forever. Adieu Ma Titachu.
Akong Fusi
December 13, 2024
Mama may your soul rest in peace.
Emmanuel Fon Mbakwa
December 11, 2024
Mami, thé time I spent with you was life changing because I saw in you a woman who loves dearly. I miss your stories and your warmth. You will always call to check in on me and my family. I will remember your kindness and love. Rest easy mami.
Niih Edelquine Kubi
December 8, 2024
*Eulogy for mum:*

I feel honored and privileged to have been taken in and accepted unconditionally as your daughter’s sister . Your unconditional love for me, even when you were ailing away, gave me immense love each time I went visiting , and now that you depart from this world, I will hold the wonderful memories you lead me so dear and close to my heart.
Fare thee well my lovely mum.
Semi Musi
December 7, 2024
Mami Olivia, you have left a legacy not only to your family but to the whole world. You are now in one of the mansions in heaven RIP Mami - Never to be forgotten 💔 🙏
Ruth Achu
December 7, 2024
I never knew you but your blood gave me some of the best friends I’ve ever made in this life! your legacy lives on Mama.
Nänga Awasum
December 7, 2024
Mami it has always been a great moment spent with you on every step of the way. You taught me a lot on my personality, my heritage. Holidays for me was like big deal because coming home into grandma’s arms was so addictive. i was showed with her love and care , and always making sure i feel happy .
Back in the days in Acha Hospital , i was known by all your staff and patients through the kindness, love and care you showed them which they reciprocated it on me. Growing older i found so much wisdom in all the stories you transferred to me through out our private moments. i will always love you grandmom. RIP
Favour Ngwe
December 7, 2024
Tribute to My Godmother

Today, we gather to honor and remember a remarkable woman, my godmother. Though I hadn’t seen her since my nursery school days, we reconnected through phone calls, thanks to one of her daughters who worked in Acha Bafoussam. These conversations rekindled our bond and allowed me to feel her warmth and love once again.

She was a beacon of kindness and strength, always offering words of encouragement and support. Her voice was a source of comfort, and her stories brought joy and inspiration into my life. I had hoped to meet her in person and express my gratitude, but fate had other plans.

Even though we never met face-to-face after all these years, the bond we shared was profound. She taught me that love and connection transcend physical presence. Her legacy will live on in the lessons she imparted and the love she spread.

Today, as we celebrate her life, I hold onto the memories of our conversations and the promises we made. I will carry her spirit with me, cherishing the moments we shared and the impact she had on my life.

Rest in peace, dear godmother. You will always be in my heart
Fusi Bongnwi
Fusi Bongnwi
December 7, 2024
Mami I want to thank you for giving me life. You are my motivator and my inspiration. You encouraged and instill confident in me. You make me know early in life to have faith in the Lord. You told us to pray more.
One of the letters you sent to me said I should buy a Bible and read the courage of Joshua in Joshua 1 verse 1 - 9 , and i did just that. i will continue to pray more .Thank you so much Mami for all .
Magdalane Yella
December 7, 2024
Fare thee well mama. I don't know your personally but I know you are a great woman cos you raised a wonderful son Julius Doh Fokwen Titachu who's my friend and classmate. I remember the many times your family will call me out cos u were in need of blood transfusion. It has pleased God to call you home. Rest on mama Olive
Atud Minet Engwari
December 7, 2024
Mum Olivia you were such a wonderful mother who saved most lives in Bafut during your youthful years .You were became a very important part of our
family though your godson Bongnwi. Your good works will follow you to your resting home. Sleep well in the Lord bye bye mother till we meet again.
Peggie Fusi
December 7, 2024
You sowed a good seed and will forever be remembered for that. When I watch the videos recorded with BONG I just can stop laughing. BONG will miss her play partner. Rest well Grandma.
GIVENSON
December 7, 2024
‘With that I heard a loud voice from heaven say -the tent of God is with mankind…and he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, death will be no more, neither will there be mourning, pain or sorrow, for the former things have passed away’.-Rev3:21
Bechem Fokwen
December 7, 2024

We honor the memory of Mami Olivia, fondly called "Madoh" by my late mother—a name that reflected their deep bond and sisterhood. More than a neighbor, she was family, forever part of our lives.

Whenever I visited, my mother’s words were always, “Go and greet Madoh!”—a testament to their love and connection. Mami Olivia’s kindness, support, and the joy she brought will forever remain in our hearts.

Though her passing leaves a void, we find peace knowing she and my mother are reunited in heaven, still calling each other "Madoh."

Rest peacefully, Mami Olivia. You are deeply loved and will never be forgotten.
DIN NDASI
December 7, 2024
Weh! Ma Olive, the one who stood beside me during my wedding, you are gone to meet your beloved brother. Say Hi to him and his children. We love you but God loves you more. Rest in perfect peace with the Lord where you are free from all worries. Shalom, Shalom.
Ruth Fombang
December 7, 2024
There are just not enough words or vocabulary to describe how much important you were to me as I mama Na Julius. You accepted my sister as a daughter in law whole heartedly . You showed us much love ❤️. I missed the beautiful moments I spent with you each time I visited you. When you felt sick you were very optimistic and kept praying and Ithanking God 🙏. I learned from you to be faithful to God in all circumstances. We had series of video calls and you easily made out my voice during regular calls. Even though you are no longer with us I can Still your love guiding me..I know we have an angel in heaven. Love and miss you dearly mama Na Julius . Farewell mama Olivia
Relindis
Anjofnda Relindis
December 7, 2024
Mami Julius, as I fondly called you. You were so excited when you met me for the first time. The warmth of your embrace and your appreciative words have stuck with me till now. You told me such interesting stories about our nursing profession.
When you later met my husband, he became like a son to you. You became so fund of him we would practically pray for him each time I called.
Thank you for loving me and my family so effortlessly. I know that you are sitting with the lord right now,you were a virtuous woman. Continue to rest in peace mami.
Nii Yvette
December 7, 2024
Serving under the canopy of a church institution a personnel of your caliber was just a service to God.
Mami would have been running like others to work in the government in those days
But I hail the commitment and endurance in her days of service seen and read today
A testament of serving God and not just mortals.
Mami Doh as we saw n heard people calling you go rest with your maker and continue to serve ans sing with the angels in the heavenly places.
Peace
Samuel Ndingwan
December 7, 2024
Mami, you prepared me for everything in life, yet I was never ready for this day to say goodbye, despite your countless attempts to prepare me. You were an exceptional mother, a loyal friend, a wise mentor, and most importantly, a practical leader. I am eternally grateful for having the best mother I could have ever wished for.
I pray that God will grant me the strength to fulfill all the promises I made to you, even the weighty responsibilities you entrusted to me. You taught me everything I needed to know and always spoke the truth to me.
Until we meet again, sleep well, Mami. I love you dearly and will miss you immensely, but your memory will forever remain etched in my heart.
Julius D Fokwen Titachu
JULIUS Doh FOKWEN TITACHU
December 6, 2024
Mami I want to thank you for giving me life. You are my motivator and my inspiration. You encouraged and instill confident in me. You make me know early in life to have faith in the Lord. You told us to pray more. One of the letters you sent to me said I should buy a Bible and read the courage of Joshua in Joshua 1 verse 1 - 9 , and i did just that. i will continue to pray more .Thank you so much Mami for all .
MAGDALENE YELLA
December 6, 2024
Hello Sweet mother The pain of grief is you passing away to eternity which is like a light being dimmed in my heart. There is one thing I learned from you, is your inspiration towards me and others. .You inspired me in ever aspect of life, tendering motherly care and concern towards everyone who came across you. we loved seeing you smile every moment. and your legacy lives on. keep resting with the Lord till we meet again.
VIVIANE YELLA
December 6, 2024
Mami today we honor your life. You were truly amazing woman who was the kindest and most loving person in the world. You dedicated your life to family and making sure we were supported in whatever we did and that we never felt anything other than loved. Mami sacrificed more than i will ever know and even when she was putting everyone else before herself, she still made time to listen to all our problems. Her warmth and happiness she brought to us cannot be overstated. I loved her more than words could possibly say and she will live on in my hearth forever more.
FLORENCE CHITA
December 6, 2024
Its not long I stood besides you in your critical condition, a moment that you were already in the tunnel, heading for the Kingdom of GOD and will no longer to be of me. I wept as I saw the tedious journey left ahead for me alone. I saw the pains you hard, tracing the way out of the dark tunnel of human making. I prayed and prayed to the Almighty GOD and showers of mercy descended from heaven and today, you are joyfully receiving my happy Xmas and New year 2025 wishes in the Kingdom of the father. Intercede for all left behind.
SUNDAY NYAMREKWEH
December 6, 2024

Dear grandma... oh sweet grandma, i will miss each and every moment we spend together. Thanks for the love and care you showed on me through out these years. I love you so so much grandma. RIP
MARGUERITE CHITA
December 6, 2024

Mami it has always been a great moment spent with you on every step of the way. You taught me a lot on my personality, my heritage. Holidays for me was like big deal because coming home into grandma’s arms was so addictive. i was showed with her love and care , and always making sure i feel happy .

Back in the days in Acha Hospital , i was known by all your staff and patients through the kindness, love and care you showed them which they reciprocated it on me. Growing older i found so much wisdom in all the stories you transferred to me through out our private moments. i will always love you grandmom. RIP
EMMANUEL CHITA
December 5, 2024
Mami Olivia, you have left a legacy not only to your family but to the whole world. You are now in one of the mansions in heaven RIP Mami - Never to be forgotten 💔 🙏
Ruth Achu
December 3, 2024
Accept my profound condolences ur passing away unto glory of the Lord till we meet again.
Peter M. Acha,
December 2, 2024
Mami Olivia, l will ever live to remember my visit to your house in Limbe in 2022. When l greeted you and introduced myself that l was from Maryland you immediately had a broader smile and asked me if l saw Goddy l said yes from then our conversation became very interesting with questions about Goddy.
I really admired the gentleness in your voice and your lovely smile. You will be truly missed. May your soul rest in perfect peace. IJN🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Comfort Berkeley
December 2, 2024
My dear sister, friend and colleague; I was opportuned to know you and worked with you and you became a sister that I never had. Your encouragement, love, kindness and support in and out of the job was so inspiring and we worked together in a way that we could never forget.
Am so grateful that I had a few minutes with you about two months before you left us.
Dear , Rest in the Lord and Peace of the Lord Rest with you. You will be missed.
Esther Chunji
December 2, 2024
Mami Acha,
You will always be in our hearts bicos ur prints of good work, leadership, guidance, love and "straightforward talk" stays with us forever. ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘 ❤️ 😍
Awah
December 2, 2024
A Tribute to My Beloved Mother, Olivia Ngwe Titachu

My mother, Olivia Ngwe Titachu, was the foundation of my life, and together we shared some of the most profound and meaningful moments. Born in an era when women had little agency, she defied expectations and demonstrated unmatched strength and resilience.

The earliest memories of our journey together date back to the 1960s, when I was about seven years old. Though I was too young to fully understand my surroundings, I always knew I was safe in her care. She often reminded me that our journey started when I was just four days old—when she made the difficult decision to leave her marital relationship to protect us. She resolved to remain single, fearing that another husband might not support her desire to educate her children in a time when women’s voices were rarely heard.

Despite the odds, my mother secured a job at Acha-Tugi Presbyterian Hospital before transferring to Nyasoso Presbyterian Health Center, a region embroiled in conflict. Her determination to provide for us never faltered.

One of my fondest memories of those years in Nyasoso was her unwavering devotion to our health. She often treated us at home when we fell ill, sparing us the fear and inconvenience of hospital visits. On one occasion, when I was gravely ill, she carried me on her back to the health center. I remember asking, “Will I die?” Her resolute response, “No, you will not die,” filled me with hope and strength. To this day, I marvel at how her words transformed my spirit.

My first encounter with my father occurred in Nyasoso when I was about eight years old. He arrived in a Volkswagen Beetle, a car I was enamored with. After he dropped me off at the main road, I ran home joyfully, only to find my mother waiting with concern. She chastised me gently, saying, “You are too gullible. What if he had taken you away?” In that moment, I realized the depth of her fear and the lengths she would go to protect me.

Years later, insecurity in Nyasoso forced her to transfer back to the Northwest Province, to Bafut Presbyterian Health Center. Despite the dangers, she prioritized our safety, even sending us ahead to Kumba while she stayed behind to pack. Her bravery was evident—she was ready to face anything to ensure our well-being.

During one of her medical procedures, she was gone for weeks that turned into months. We faced difficult times, scavenging for food and counting plantains to stretch our resources. We waited anxiously every day, unsure of what the future held. By God’s grace, she returned to us, embodying resilience and hope.

My mother was not only a protector but also a disciplinarian and a source of pride. She spoke highly of me in front of others, instilling in me a sense of responsibility and a desire to never disappoint her. Her strictness shaped my values and taught me accountability.

Later, when my younger brother was born, I was overjoyed, even as I navigated the challenges of preparing for secondary school. My mother’s sacrifices never ceased. Despite being deprived of the opportunity to raise my sisters herself, she fought to influence their lives and ensure their futures were brighter.

Her sorrow during our elder sister’s tragedy, when her husband died during the April 6 coup d’état, revealed her profound empathy. I cried with her, not fully understanding death but feeling her pain deeply.

Her career as a nurse and midwife was marked by incredible dedication. Even when she turned down an opportunity for further training in nursing to care for us, God ensured she eventually rose to the position of nurse superintendent at Acha-Tugi Hospital. She retired in the 1990s, but her contributions to healthcare and the community remained invaluable. She delivered countless babies, cared for the sick, and created opportunities for others.

In retirement, despite our pleas for her to join us in the city, she chose to return to the village, where she continued to serve those in need with unwavering hospitality and care. Her life was a testament to the power of faith and love.

In her later years, when illness made it difficult for her to care for herself, friends, family, and loved ones rallied around her. We are deeply grateful to everyone who stood by her and supported her. My mother’s faith never wavered, and she always reminded us to trust in the Lord, quoting John 3:16:

“For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish, but have everlasting life.”

This was her promise to us: that we would one day meet again in God’s eternal presence. Mom, we love you and miss you dearly. As 1 John 3:14 reminds us, “We know that we have passed from death to life because we love each other.”

You have passed from death to life, Mom. We will not experience the second death because of God’s grace. Until we meet again, rest in everlasting peace.

With love,
Gorden
Gorden Achu
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