Myrtle (Mimi) Antoinette Lobo

September  27th, 1938 September  28th, 2024
Mississauga, Ontario, Canada
Myrtle (Mimi) Antoinette Lobo

Your dazzling smile, infectious enthusiasm, warm hugs and kind loving heart and will remain with us forever ...."

Obituary

Myrtle Antoinette Pereira was the fourth and youngest child born to Lavinia and Theophilus Pereira in Bombay in 1938. She had a happy childhood, at Sargent House, Colaba, protected by her older sister in school, Fort Convent, and grew up exploring her many creative talents in art, dancing, theatre and singing. Maths was one of her favourite subjects, but there weren't many avenues for girls at that point, so she took English at Sophia college in Bombay, graduating with honours and then joined a travel agent in a secretarial position. 

Aside from work, Myrtle's passion for theatre and commitment to her Catholic faith drove her to great achievements throughout her life. She joined. a theatre group in South Bombay, which went on to produce several successful productions, 'Hello Dolly' was a feather in her cap, the success of which followed her the rest of her life. 

Her captivating smile and expressive eyes were soon noticed by Derrick Lobo, who recently moved to Bombay, giving up a job in the navy to teach Physics. They were married in 1971, and lived in school quarters at Cathedral and John Connon School, Fort, for 23 years. They had three children, Renita Ann, Alina Giselle and Vincent Jude Anthony.

Both Myrtle and Derrick did not give up their lives to be parents, instead involved their children. in their own passions, with Myrtle continuing to direct and produce several productions at Holy Name Cathedral and the Catholic Gymkhana, and Derrick introducing the children to his love of sport.

Viennese Sunday, Parents day and Christmas were busy times as Myrtle very successfully juggled a full time job, big productions and being a loving mother to her children, ensuring they got a sound education in religion along with school. She took her children to daily mass through all school holidays and regularly discussed and analysed Bible passages with them. Her deep kindness was evident in the multiple occasions she went above and beyond to support to her extended family through trying times. Myrtle also brought friends together,  hosting legendary parties and planning amazing holidays as well, the memories of which remain in the hearts of all who attended them. 

She did very well at work too, rising up the ladder in her field to serve as executive assistant to the chairman and CEO of ICICI for 15 years. She brought culture to the office as well directing productions for their annual events with great success. 

Moving to Prabhadevi and post retirement, Myrtle's theatre career really took off. With her children all engaged in their own jobs she found  great talent in her parish, Our Lady of Salvation Church, and she put on many large productions like Peter the Rock and Godspell at St Andrews theatre, You the Jury in the Church, winning competitions as well. Her Way of the Cross event on Good Friday was inspirational, and attracted believers from nearby parishes as well. She was well known and loved in the parish, in fact the parish priest coined a phrase, ‘Theatre ministry' to acknowledge Myrtle's great contribution to the church and its youth. 

In time, Myrtle and Derrick’s family expanded with  sons in law Chetan, Derek and daughter in law Bhavani, and several grandchildren, seven in total. Ria, Shyla, Deren, Nathan, Dana, Tanya and Trisha, all adored their ‘Mimi’ as Myrtle refused to be called Grandma!!  She chose Mimi, as it was a nickname someone gave her on her honeymoon, and she really loved it. Myrtle made it a point to visit all her children for several months during these momentous occasions to provide unconditional love and support. She hand stitched new clothes for each of her grandchildren, ensuring that their christening clothes were real keepsakes. Over the years Myrtle continued to produce beautiful artwork, and gifted the same to all her children and grandchildren to treasure.

In their late 70s, Myrtle and Derrick, always enthusiastic and ready for new challenges, packed their bags and home in Bombay and emigrated to Mississauga, Canada, in 2016. Myrtle was quick to volunteer in Sts Peter and Paul, her local parish, and, with the Catholic Women's League, helping out with communion classes as well as some theatre and dance productions. 

As her age slowed her down she continued her life of giving and focused on providing emotional support and infinite love during hard times to her family. She kept strong tabs on everyone’s whereabouts, struggles and achievements, offering love prayers and support unconditionally. Her children and grandchildren have excelled with this support and carried on her legacy in the creative arts. 

In spite of all her varied achievements, Myrtle remained humble and approachable to all. An excellent judge of character she greatly valued humility, honesty and kindness in others.  Though we will miss her physical presence, we know she is happy as she will be richly rewarded for her lifetime of service. Her kindness, love, and enthusiasm for life will remain in our hearts forever.

Till we meet again darling Myrtle/Mama/Mimi!

Please click on this link to access the funeral mass for Myrtle. :  https://bit.ly/massformyrtle 


Special Notes

86 years ago on the 27th of September
to Theophilus and Lavinia Pereira a shining star was born
They named her Myrtle, she was the last of four
She held her family close to her heart
And put them first from the very start
She was very attached to her elder sister Hilda
As well as her brothers Herbert and Walter.
She readily extended a helping hand whenever they were in need  

30 years later I spotted her acting in plays like Hello Dolly and star spangled girl
She bewitched & enthralled the audience and made them whirl
with her beauty acting and radiant smile
My close friends Colin, John, and Julian
Acted in various plays with Myrtle
We enjoyed parties and picnics together
these brought me closer to her
I said that’s the girl for me
Can I have her all the while
I nearly fell through the floor
when that charming and talented girl
didn’t show me the door
but accepted my proposal with open arms and much more

I’ve had a contented and happy life
with such a thoughtful & loving wife
She’s been by my side all the while
helping me recover from accidents
encouraging me with her love
and becoming smile and never saying
"Get rid of that motorbike!"

Myrtle had a wonderful disposition
anger on my part did not upset her composition
but made me reflect on what I have said and realize the fool of myself I have made
She made use of her acting and dancing abilities
to bring the youth together helping them use their talents
and mix socially thus improving their prospects confidence and maturity

Her brain took her through crosswords and helped her give me competition in scrabble
the game we enjoyed playing daily between 10 and 11
Her visits to the kitchen were few and far between
but when she put in her hand, the dishes are relished no end
No telling lies, the best were the pies
which were relished by one and all big and small

She brought up religious plays like Peter the Rock
& turned actors and audience into a religious flock
In spite of all her accomplishments,
she remained the plain simple Myrtle
her motto “I must make use of all the talents
God has given to help others enjoy and thrive in His Kingdom

You have been at my side my darling
in times of happiness and suffering
May God bless you on your journey to heaven
And keep you happy and joyful till we meet again.

... Your loving husband, Derrick

Timeline

1938
September 27th
Beautiful baby girl born to Lavinia and Theophilus Pereira
Youngest of 4 siblings
Bombay
1958
Graduation from Sophia College with BA(Hons) in English
1968
Memerised Bombay Theatre scene with Hello Dolly!
1971
May 8th
Married Derrick Lionel Anthony Lobo
1972
August 21st
First child, Renita Ann Lobo
1974
February 2nd
Second child, Alina Giselle Lobo
1977
August 16th
Third child, Vincent Jude Anthony Lobo
1984
Executive Assistant to Managing Director and Chairman of ICICI Ltd.
Worked directly four S S Mehta and Narayan Vaghul, a pioneer inn the Indian banking industry 
1994
Moved from South Bombay to Prabhadevi and joined Our Lady of Salvation Church
Retired and moved on to her 'theatre ministry'
1996
May 8th
25th Wedding anniversary
Grand party hosted at Antonio D'Silvas School hall 
2006
Birth of first grandchild
2008
70th Birthday Surprise
Surprise event held in May to celebrate Myrtles 70th birthday. Her relatives from US, Goa and friends from Mumbai all attended. She was always young at heart so instead of calling it a 70th , the even celebrated '40 years of Hello Dolly'!!
2015
Birth of seventh grandchild
2016
Emigrated to Mississauga,Canada
2018
80th Birthday celebration
Another grand party held at Mississauga, Canada to celebrate Myrtle's 80th, relatives travelled to make it including her sister, who was 86, and we celebrated in typical Myrtle style, with wishes pouring in from around the world!
2021
May 8th
50th Wedding Anniversary
Celebrated via Zoom in the midst of COVID Lockdown! Held multiple online parties with all relatives and friends. Lockdown meant they had an opportunity to reach out to everyone across the globe!
Zoom
2022
January 10th
Became a Canadian!!!
Dressed up in red and swore in to become a Canadian online! 
Zoom
2022
November
Showed the world a true testimonial of what miracles faith and a resilient spirit can do
After apparent heart, lung and kidney failure, and against all odds, she got up and walked out of the ICU to the surprise of the Canadian medical team and lived to share love and laughter and continue her legacy a few years longer.
2023
May 13th
Proudly rose to the role of sponsor for her eldest Grandson's confirmation 
The fact that she was now wobbly and could not move without a walker didn't stop her from continuing to be independent and as she had always taken an active interest in her grand children's spiritual education, she proudly became Deren's sponsor when he was confirmed into the Catholic faith
2024
September 28th
After living a full rich life, full of love and giving, she beat all her health demons by finally pe
Till the end all tests came clear. She chose her time. She wanted to stay till her birthday, and she did, passing peacefully in her sleep in her own home an hour after. 

All this even though she had cancer chasing her for 20 years, and had been fighting kidney disease, heart & other ailments for many years before
Her prediction " I'll die of old age before cancer beats me" has finally come true. She knew no trauma or pain in her last days, and never had the need of a single pain killer. 

Rest in Peace dear Myrtle, knowing you are loved and cherished by all who knew you, and your legacy lives on in the hearts of the many you nurtured and taught over the years.

Yours is a life very well lived every step of the way.  God Bless You Always and Forever.

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October 16, 2024
Hi Ren your mom seems like a wonderful person. Our deepest condolences to you and your family may her soul Rest In Peace. Love Kevin and Anna Fernandes
Kevin Fernandes
October 16, 2024
Hi Ren even though we did not know your mom she seemed like a very kind, loving, happy and talented person from all the pictures we saw may her soul Rest In Peace. We will pray that you and your family find peace in knowing what a wonderful wife, mother grandmother and friends your mom was.
Anna Fernandes
October 16, 2024
Dance into heaven aunty M.! Love and prayers to all the family.
Misquith family
October 15, 2024
My sympathies on the loss of your wife, Derrick, and mother to Alina, Vincent, Renita and families. Remembering you in prayer while your
mourn her loss. May God comfort you at this time.
Celine Bruin
October 15, 2024
My Mimi is the best grandma ever! But I understand that my Mimi was more than just my grandma or a grandma to seven grandkids she was kind, loving, and understood emotions, an actor, a mom, a daughter, a friend, a godmother and a god daughter a niece a teacher etc…She touched many hearts, may be even yours and lived a happy and full life and died holding the hand of her loving daughter. I know she is have a ball is heaven with her family and is with us on earth I love her so much and will always love her and whenever I sing a song especially “happy birthday”, I will think of her as that was the last thing I said to her. I Loooooove you Mimi!
Dana Luis
October 15, 2024
Mimi was a spark of joy in my life. I loved how her eyes would light up the moment she saw us, it made me feel like a celebrity. Her playful spirit showed in her expressive monkey faces which we often made at each other—looks I’ll forever treasure for the laughter it brought her, me and all around. Her support of me was constant, unwavering, like a safety net I could always rely on. And then, of course, there was her smile—gleaming, infectious, the kind that could light up any room.
But most of all, I loved my Mimi with all my heart. She is my inspiration when it comes to hard work, acting and performing among so many other things. I know, without a doubt, that she’s up in heaven right now, gathering all the angels for the first grand performance of Hello, Dolly! in Paradise—directing it with that same sparkle and joy she always carried with her. I love you Mimi. God Bless you.
Deren Luis
October 15, 2024
Our darling Mimi was one of the most joyful people I have ever met. She was constantly smiling, and if she was ever faced with a challenge, she always found a way around it with a positive attitude. she has done many many things with us, such as playing card games. I remember, when I was about 4 I think, me and my family had gone to India and we were playing the game 'Good Morning Sir, Goodnight Miss', and whenever a queen was put down, she would hold on to the 's' at the end of 'Miss', and ended up losing every time! Every year I greatly looked forward to our trips to India (and eventually Canada) and to spending time with our cousins and grandparents. Each time we would go on different adventures, our most recent: Blue Mountain. Every night in Blue Mountain was filled with song and dance, each time Mimi was the one to start it, and that is how she will always be: forever dancing in our hearts.
Shyla Kamat
October 15, 2024
It’s hard to picture you lying still aunty Myrtle. I will always remember you as the vibrant, charismatic, talented personality always on your feet spreading the love, sharing your talent and most importantly giving your time for the community, especially the youth of our parish in Dadar.

You’ve given me so much without even realising the positive impact you’ve had on me. I remember the time you offered me the main role of Jesus in ‘The touch of the Master’s hand’ which was enacted in St. Andrew’s auditorium. I asked you if you were sure about that, as I was only expecting a small part; you responded by saying “Yes Barry, I’m sure you can do it”. Honestly I was shocked and surprised but at the same time honoured that you thought I could do it.

You brought out the confidence in me and I admired and valued your commitment, patience and professionalism you put in to carrying out such a huge production single handedly.

You will be dearly missed aunty Myrtle. You were and will continue to be a legend and will never be forgotten. If I had the authority and power I would have built a monument of you in remembrance of the lives you changed, enlightened and built.

May perpetual light shine upon you aunty Myrtle and may your soul rest in peace. Amen 🙏
Barry D'Souza
October 15, 2024
Our very dear vivacious, fun loving,ever smiling Myrtle us no more. When Derrick married Myrtle, I gained a sister who welcomed me into their home every year where I enjoyed family life during my college vacation.
Myrtle did all she could to make life pleasant for me. On Fridays she would go to the market and bring home a variety of sea food which I loved.
Knowing I loved theatrical performances she booked tickets for both of us to sit through plays, operetta and choral concerts.
Myrtle was an expert in arranging our trips to the USA and Canada and the UK.
Very willingly she drove me to Bandra and Colaba to do my shopping showing me the best places to buy what I needed.
Parties were fun with the games she arranged and the delicious food she prepared.
Myrtle was a consummate actress and staged and took part in and directed many performances highly appreciated by the Mumbai audiences. She was adept at composing a script from a story she had read. Many young folk in Colaba and Dadar owe their expertise in singing, acting and dancing to her.
Having lived in the warmth of Mumbai all her life she adapted to the cold of Canada. I have missed both her and Derrick so much.
Being deeply religious, rest in peace, dearest Myrtle, and enjoy the eternal happiness you so richly deserve.
Denise Lobo
October 14, 2024
There are few people in this world who leave an indelible mark such that when you reflect upon their essence you can actually see their smile, hear their voice and feel their presence as though they are there with you in the moment. Myrtle is among those few. Every single encounter with her always left you feeling better about yourself. The world feels like a lesser place without her. The whole Bombay gang will miss her as much as Derrick, Renita, Alina and Vincent will.

We can feel Myrtle’s presence more now than ever. It seems like when she passed, her energy didn’t disappear or dissipate, it dispersed. Her energy – like love or a candle flame – only grows and expands when it spreads. We’re deeply grateful that we can share some of that along with you.

Peace be with you Derrick, Renita, Alina and Vincent during this challenging time. Great blessings to the three of you and to Myrtle’s soul on its journey to Heaven.

Warm hugs and much love,

Rita & Julian
Julian and Rita D'souza
October 14, 2024
14th Oct. 2024.
My dear Derrick, Renita, Alina, Vincent n Myrtle’s Grandchildren,
I remember being with Myrtle in Sophia College. She was a few years Senior to me. She was a part of the Drama Group.i think I have a Photograph of the Group, but Iam far away in Auckland just now.
When Joe n I got married n I came to stay in Clark House in Colaba I got to know Myrtle better as she was so involved in the Youth Group of Holy Name Parish, helping out actively to organise Entertainment Programmes on Feast days. Who can forget the joy of watching, “Hello Dolly”!!! As one of the H.Name Parishners said after hearing that Myrtle had passed away. “lam sure when Myrtle reached the gates of Heaven, she must have been welcomed with the words, “Hello Dolly, come in.”
In Colaba we had a very close group of friends, Myrtle n her brother Walter, Lullu n John/Elaine Charles, Colin Cardoz, Terry Pereira. We would go for picnics together n for one another’s birthday parties. Perhaps Derrick being my friend from Jabalpur met Myrtle in Clark House, that’s how their friendship began.
All said n done when someone from Jabalpur falls in love n marries someone from Colaba they make a really good couple. So there are two of us couples that are so very happy.
I do miss your smile n happy nature Myrtle, but you will always be remembered for your loving n joyful nature n the memories of the good times in Colaba n in Ocean Gold. You are certainly in the arms of the Lord, close to your dear parents n siblings, all resting in Peace.
Bernice & (Joe from Heaven).
Bernice (and Joe from heaven)
October 14, 2024
Rest in peace Dearest Aunty! We will always have fond memories of you and Uncle during your visits to England!

All your art work and paintings at Alina’s will always make you feel close to us all!

Your beautiful and bright smile will also always be etched in our hearts !

You will live on just as your legacy will !

May you rest with Jesus interceding for all your loved ones ❤️

A memory of your last visit to ours in 2017🙏🏼
Audrey, Radha, Jonathan, Jordanne & Mum Lily
October 14, 2024
As Mimi’s oldest grandchild, I had the privilege of witnessing her incredible journey as a woman of immense creativity, kindness, and love. She was an amazing actress, bringing characters to life with such grace, just as she did with her own life. Always thinking of others first, she nurtured her family with the same care and attention she gave to her art, leaving a lasting impression on everyone she met, filling our lives with warmth, beauty and her unparalleled talent.

I still remember the first time I sat down with her and she taught me how to shade. It was such a simple technique, but I was amazed. In that moment, she made me realise the magic of detail, to how something as small as shading could bring a drawing to life. It was just one of the many ways she shared her passion with me.

I was so lucky to experience Mimi for 18 years and I carry with me the love, the memories, and the lessons she passed down. She stitched together not just clothes, but the fabric of who I am today. I know she’s with me every time I pick up a brush, watch a performance, or enjoy pineapple and dark chocolate. Her legacy will live on in every stroke of art, every character brought to life, and every moment of kindness she inspired. Thank you, Mimi, for being my greatest inspiration, the artist of my life, the actress of our family, and the heart of my soul.

I love you to infinity and beyond.

Love from,
Ria
Ria Kamat
October 14, 2024
This was the news that we were in a way dreading to hear but are now relieved to know that our dear Myrtle has peacefully slipped away into Eternity, without any pain, after a long and brave struggle, enveloped in the love of Derrick, her steadfast companion of 53+ years and her much loved and precious children and grandchildren.

We will always cherish fond remembrances of our long and loving friendship with Myrtle and Derrick. Our friendship with the Lobo’s. Myrtle and Derrick, goes back over 55 years and we have always enjoyed a very close and warm relationship with them. Our children have grown up together and have enjoyed a close and caring relationship during their growing years. They will always remember the unforgettable Friday evenings, when either the Lobo’s came over, or we went to their home in Cathedral School, where the children had a blast ,while we happily chatted away. Of course the children were always reluctant to go home!

There have also been many interesting parallels in our lives. Myrtle and Derrick got married 2 weeks after we did, we had our first daughter Rowena and a few months later they had Renita. Then we had our second girl Michelle and they had their second girl Alina. But the Lobo’s beat us to it the third time .They had a son, Vincent and how could we not keep pace with them ? We had our son Conal, a year later.

We have gone on several family outings and holidays together and even today, although dispersed across the globe, the children still share a close bond with each other as did John and myself ,with dear Myrtle and Derrick. Naturally, when they migrated to Canada in 2016, 8 years ago, we felt the parting very much and we still miss them dearly.

May Myrtle 's sweet soul rest forever now in God 's Eternal Embrace.Today is also the day my dearest Mummy passed on into Etermity and so this day has a special significance for me.

Sharing in your grief and wishing we were nearer to you all
Elaine and John
Elaine and John Charles
October 14, 2024
Myrtle, I knew her as her brother in law, her priorities were clear. First and foremost was the family, providing loving companionship to her husband Derrick, involved herself fully with the children’s early education, put them on the stage performing during school functions from an early age imbibing in them a sense of self confidence.

I was always impressed by her cool unflappable nature at all times and enjoyed the sumptuous dishes on the table.

Deeply religious, socially active, always busy in pursuit of creative activities..

She was a person to be truly admired.

May her soul rest in eternal peace.


Debu
October 13, 2024
Dear Mimi.
You might not know me as much as I got to know your beautiful daughter Renita, however by seeing through Renitas soul I dont have any doubts that your soul was as beautiful as hers as she had to learn kindness, respect and love from someone that raise her with the values that are really important in life.
For that reason I will like to say that you left a mark in this world by showing others that kindness and love is the way to go though life.
THANK YOU for being who you were and.I am sure Renita and all your beautiful family will be able to sense /smell or realize that the only thing that left is the physical body but your essence will continue to shine and talk with them one way or another..

Rest in PEACE.
Barbara Latapie
October 13, 2024
Dear Uncle Derrick, Renita, Alina, Vincent and family,
Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of dear Aunty Myrtle. I fondly remember her from visits and parties at the Charles residence. I remember her always smiling, ready to start a sing-along and dance. May her kind soul rest in peace. With love and sympathy,
Angela Phillips
October 11, 2024
Dearest Aunty Myrtle, you were a precious part of our magical childhood and we are so grateful for it. The Lobo family with you and uncle at the helm joined us, the Charles family, to nurture and grow a friendship that is now as old and as strong as the trees. We remember how we spent time with each other every Friday and weekend with no distractions, having good plain fun, enriching and building each other up and cementing memories to treasure in our future. YOU are such an important part of these memories - drama and performing has always been in your veins and we got to benefit from it growing confidence and stage skills as you coached us through impromptu skits and dakhni dances while on holiday in Khandala and Matheran to formal and grand shows at church and at the Catholic Gym which you directed. I also remember you and my Dad combining beautifully in dance and song at parties especially with Hello Dolly. You taught us that life's a stage and you have to give your best performance and take joy in it whenever you can. We are happy you are at peace now after a life well lived. Heaven has a new and shining star for their own stage and for us - Dolly will never go away. Sending loving thoughts to Uncle Derrick, Ren, Ali, Vincy and families and wrapping you all in a warm embrace from afar. ❤️ Rowena
Rowena D'Souza
October 11, 2024
I really like
My Mimi’s love
I symbolise her as a little
Dove

I know I didn’t know Mimi as much as you guys but i still knew her. I was devastated when I found out about her death but if she was still here she would be suffering with her health so at least we know she’s happy.
Tanya kamat
October 11, 2024
Vanessa Marques
That's Terribly Sad Alina....Have No Words ....Only d Fondest Memories of Her....She's Definitely with d Lord in a Better Place....My Heartfelt Condolences to Each of You...May Mums Beautiful Soul Rest in Eternal Peace....Much Love n Tight Hugs 🙏🙏🙏❤️


Heather Yorrick De Souza
Myrtle was truly one of a kind! May her soul rest in eternal peace. Our heartfelt condolences to the entire family.


Kurt Henriques
A. Myrtle, you & your entire family are very close to my thoughts and heart. I feel blessed to be part of your lives. Kurt Henriques


Marina Pinto
Alina, just wanted to say that Your Mum was such a kind, affectionate and happy person. Got to know her not only through A. Elaine but also through meeting her often in our Salvation church.
I fondly remember her for her theatre ministry..she did so much in the field of English language, especially diction, drama, song, dance that friends in the parish recall her good work even today.
I remember Myrtle as one really full of life, fun and action. Never a dull moment in her life,ever smiling and eager to help and reach out to others.
Above all, was her faith and trust in God who saw her through the turns and twists in life.
I pray that she enjoys her heavenly abode and that God grants her soul eternal rest.


Jacqueline Rodrigues
Hi Alina I hope i got the name correct Myrtle's elder daughter who lives in the UK
I am Jacqui from Century Bazar i used to be in the theater committee along with your mum of course she was the main head i was just assisting in the minor jobs
She used to be in the Bombay Catholic Sabha i too was a member also
When she was leaving for Canada I went to help her clear for some time
I found your dad's cuff links and I made two pendants and sent them to Canada with my niece one pendant for your daughter and the other your sister's daughter it's along time since I meet your cousin not so often now but Joseph i do meet in church or important occasions
My sincere sympathies on the death of your mum Myrtle please also convey my sympathies to Dereck your dad he must be so devastated
May Myrtle's Soul rest in peace


Monica Kaushik
Ah Alina ! Lots of love and hugs to you and family . Had met her so many times at your house …. May her soul shine in heaven , as her kids shine here . Sending sparkles& light in her path & yours . God Bless .


Audrey Radhakrishnan
Rest in peace dearest Aunty, we feel blessed knowing you - a bright, enthusiastic, artistic and creative person and always with a ‘big bright smile’…there is no doubt your legacy will live on through each of children and grandchildren Deepest condolences to you all Uncle, Ren, Alina, Vincent and your families Rest in peace dearest Aunty


Ashutosh Tyagi
Sending love and our condolences, Alina and Chetan. A beautiful tribute which captures her life’s milestones. May the entire family celebrate her life and stay inspired by it. I remember visiting your place in Prabhadevi once when we were students and remember the spread and decorations and a piano performance.


Madhvi Munshi
Losing a parent is just so hard. I know Time helps. But they never really leave you. So many things remind you of them. So many things about yourself even.
Aunty had a full life. With love and success and the respect of so many. And that is the person you can be proud of all your life. She will always be a part of you. ❤️ be strong. Send her your love. That’s all her soul and yours need right now.

Minella D'Souza Gracious
Rest in peace A. Myrtle Derrick Lobo . You set the standards for many to follow

More friends & Relatives
October 11, 2024
Bryce Bocarro
RIP A Myrtle. You taught us so much in our formative years. Your passion for excellence and perseverance made us better human beings in whom we are today. You can now really "Volare" to heaven in peace and with the angels and U Walter and the rest of the family. Our deepest condolences to U Derrick, Renita, Alina and Vincent and the grandchildren they will surely miss their Mimi...

Natasha D'souza
My Dearest Aunty Myrtle Whenever I think Of You I see a Bright Smile A Smile that shines Lije a Star lighting Up.everyone around you . When I now look at the Sky and See Brightly Shining Stars I know its You In Heaven alongwith All Our Loved Ones Your Memory Resounds With Joy Happiness and Never Give Up Spirit . You brought so much Joy into Our Lives with all the fun shows we did at the catholic Gymkhana May God Grant You Eternal Rest In Peace You Will Forever Live on in Our Hearts
My Heartfelt Condolences Alina and to The Whole Family May Aunty Myrtle s Soul Rest In Peace🙏 Will Always Cherish The Memories of The Fun Times we had At Rehearsal


Ryan Rodrigues
Our heartfelt condolences to you, Ren, Vincent, Uncle Derric and the family. She was a beautiful soul and someone who gave us a wonderful experience through dance and song. She will live forever in my heart. May her soul rest in eternal peace.


Clayton Pereira
Heartfelt condolences uncle Derrick, Renita, Alina, Vincent and to the family. Rest in peace aunty Myrtle.
Much love and appreciation to all that you have done for us

Allwyn D'Souza
Rest in Peace Aunty Myrtle you will always be remembered for your love for the performing arts and your kindness towards all. Heartfelt condolences to the entire family

Tyrone Braganza Bauer
Aw, it’s a sad day on earth but a glorious day in heaven. Rest in Peace my dear A Myrtle. Condolences to the family and loved ones.
Theatre friends
October 11, 2024
Dear Alina,
This is Ian Cardozo here.
Please accept sincere and heartfelt condolence from Priscilla and Ian Cardozo to Dad, you, Vincent and Renita on the passing away of Myrtle your dear mother.
We can only try to imagine the void created by her passing away and the impact it will have on your lives.
Your mother believed in living life to the full and she personified this by personal example.
We are praying for Myrtle and will continue to keep her and all of you in our prayers.
God bless and stay safe.
Ian and Priscilla Cardozo.

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Myrtle, Remembering you always as a bubbling ever busy personality, bringing out young and old in some activity and adding to fun and happiness for all. Happy times spent with you and Derrick over many years gone by.
Jean and Julius.

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She suffered but fought to live. May her soul rest in peace. May God be Derrick's strength.
Suraya Dias

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Dearest Alina, I'm sorry to be getting in touch with you after all these years on the sad occasion of your mum's passing. Please accept my our deepest condolences. We are so grateful for A. Myrtle's life that developed the talents of so many youngsters and brought so many of us out of our shells with her sheer magic and flair. We are sad that A. Myrtle is not with us anymore but I know her legacy and joy shines on through each one of you - her children and grandchildren. May she rest well . She's earned it🙏💕 Crystal Dias

*****

Dear Derrick, Renita, Alina and Vincent,
Ayesha and I were deeply saddened to hear of the passing away of your loving wife and the mother, Myrtle.
Please accept our heartfelt sympathies.
Myrtle was a beautiful human being. She was such a lively person. I was particularly impressed by the way she brought up her Children, not only as a parent, but as a friend in their teenage years.
May God give you the courage to bear this great loss.
May her soul rest in peace.
Love and prayers
Marjorie Charles

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My dear Derrick, Renita, Alina, Vincent n their children, n Denise,
I’ve just received Derrick’s message that Myrtle has passed away peacefully an hour ago. Myrtle suffered with health issues for a long time now, n the family stood by her so closely. Yes all of you especially Derrick will miss her presence, but thank God for our faith that assures us that she is in Heaven receiving her eternal reward for the excellent life of love n service to all.
Just a few hours ago I had a long chat with Renita about Joe’s n my association with the family over the years. Happy memories of lovely times together in our growing years, all the parties, picnics n get-togethers.
Myrtle was prayed for everyday as she bravely accepted her health problems. Thanks Derrick n Myrtle for the closeness we shared.
May her soul rest in eternal peace.
Love Bernice D'souza

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Sonia Francis
Alina, Renita, Vincent and U.Derrick, so sorry to hear about A. Myrtle. Love and hugs to you all. She was amazingly talented and we have fond memories of all the fun parties and stage productions that she organized in Colaba

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Monisha Couto Mendes
Deepest sympathies to you, your dad and Renita......A. Myrtle was such a vibrant, joyful presence. May she rest in peace. Hugs, strength and prayers sent to you all.

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Michelle De Sousa
So very sorry U Derek, Alina, Renita, Vincent and families on the passing of A Myrtle. She was truly amazing, a positive force of energy with a heart of gold. We hold very dear memories of our time in her company and that of her family. May her soul rest in peace. Sending much love and hugs and deepest condolences on behalf of my parents and Daryl too xx

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Deepika Cardozo Butala
Rest in Peace Aunty Myrtle. We will always cherish the fond memories of all the good times together.
Much love and strength to U Derrick, Renita, Alina-Chetan, Vincent-Bhavani and all the kids.

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Jerold Chagas Pereira
Rest well A Myrtle. Will always have fond memories of the happy times spent together as families. Particularly the expeditions through the classrooms at Cathedral.
Deepest sympathies U Derrick, Renita, Alina, Vincent & families.

Colaba Friends
October 9, 2024
Dear U Derek, Renita, Alina and Vincent and families, Our condolences on the passing of your Dear Mum. May she rest in peace and May the memories of the good times you all shared comfort you when you are sad. God Bless her soul.
Rachel & Denzil Miranda
October 9, 2024
Your Mum touched our lives in more than ways than one and taught us a lot more. Rest well, Aunty Myrtle ♥️ I am sure you will rock the heavens above with your rendition of “Hello Dolly” 😊
Vincent, when we lose a loved one here on earth, we gain an angel in heaven that watches over us. May you take comfort in knowing that you have an angel to watch over you now. We extend our condolences to you, dad, Renita and Allina and your famililies ....please please take care ❤️
Natasha Pinto Fernandes
October 9, 2024
I am so sorry to read about aunty's demise. She played an integral role in shaping my childhood and brought out the best in me. She was quick to identify talent in our Dadar parish, and invested her time and effort in nurturing that talent without any expectations..she was so full of life - her twinkling eyes, her ability to convey emotions on stage, her patience and poise will always be remembered. I was fortunate to have trained under her during my formidable years - Peter the Rock, the Salvation school operas, our multiple performances at the catholic gym, and the way of the cross on Good Fridays were some of her key productions, that I was lucky to be a part of. May aunty Myrtles soul rest in peace and May grant you and your family the strength to bear this irreparable loss. Take care!
Clifton Pereira
October 8, 2024
Dear Derrick, Renita and family, Vincent and family, Alina and family,
We send our deepest condolences on the passing of dear Myrtle. She certainly lived the good life and we cherish the many good times we shared with her in Mumbai. Especially when we collaborated in her production of the musical Peter, The Rock. From the many parties and celebrations from Santa Cruz to Dadar to her moral support when Mummy ( Phyllis) had health struggles. We appreciate her great empathy at difficult times and remember her fondly for her graciousness and vivacity for life. May her soul rest in peace. Our thoughts are with you all at this time. With love, .
Frank & Pria D'Souza
October 7, 2024
My sincere condolences to you Derrick, my friend, and to all your family. I have lovely memories of Myrtle and of her smile especially. May you bear your loss with fortitude, supported by all your wonderful memories of life together. May she rest in peace. Frank
Frank Youngman
October 7, 2024
My deepest condolences to the Lobos. Myrtle my sister-in-law I will miss you dearly. You were a rock in my world. May you rest in peace.
Liz Pereira
October 7, 2024
Dear Derek, our deepest sympathy to you and to Renita, Alina and Vincent and your families on the very sad passing of Myrtle, my cousin. I recall when all six of the Pereira family visited Karachi years & years ago, and stayed with the Pecus and Almeida clans and the fun times we had. I still remember my Aunt Lavinia (Myrtle's Mum).
It was a real joy to reconnect with Myrtle & Derek when they settled in Canada. I will always remember Myrtle's beautiful smile, her sparkling eyes and her warmth and kindness. May Myrtle rest in peace. May God give Derek and all of you courage at this difficult time. Evelyn & Beryl Pecus De Souza.
Beryl Pecus De Zouza
October 7, 2024
Your passing has left a deep void in our hearts dearest A.Myrtle. Our closest family friends, you taught us how to dance, act and give off our talents. We learnt from your happy go lucky attitude, your deep faith in God and your never say die spirit. I will always remember you for the yummy pies you baked and I have never eaten anything as delicious. We thank you for being the wonderful person you were to us. Rest in peace dearest A.Myrtle. The heavens must already be resounding with your joy and laughter.
Michelle Dias
October 6, 2024
We are so glad to have got the opportunity to meet you, Aunty Myrtle. Your beautiful smile was indeed contagious, as was your love for music and dance. Your girls have definitely taken after you.
Heartfelt sympathies to Uncle Derrick, Renita, Alina, Vincent and the family.
Anuja Verma & Leo Coutinho
October 6, 2024
We will always remember your warmth and lovely smile, dear aunty. Your love of life was a palpable presence around you, lighting up every room you were in. We are so glad we got a chance to know you and will forever cherish the wonderful times we spent with you xxx
Jasmine Dumasia and Yogesh Sholapurkar
October 6, 2024
I remember Myrtle as a sweet gentle soul, darling wife of dear Derek Lobo, our Physics, Squashmaster and Classteacher of 3 years from 1976-78 at the Cathedral & John Connon School, Bombay.

The vividest memory I have of Myrtle was her lovely twirling and pirouetting during our school socials where she and her beloved hubby Derek gave us children a great demo of graceful ballroom dancing waltzing through the assembly hall where our socials were held. Lovely lady with an accomplished life. Good bye & Godspeed to Mrs. Myrtle Lobo. May her soul rest in everlasting peace. Aum Shantih & God Bless to Derek Sir & Family. 🙏🙇🏻‍♂️
Mahesh Khubchandani
October 6, 2024
Please accept my heartfelt sympathies Derek Renita Alina & Vincent. Myrtle was to me not just a work colleague at ICICI but a friend philosopher & guide. Rest in peace dear Myrtle.

Nelia Coutts
Nelia Coutts
October 6, 2024
Heartfelt condolences to Derek, Renita, Alina and Vincent. I will always cherish beautiful memories of time spent together with Myrtle at ICICI. A loving friend and colleague.
Ann Lobo
October 6, 2024
Dear Uncle, Renita, Vincent, Alina & Chetan,
Deepest sympathies.
Aunty's warm smiles and joie de vivre will always be recalled very fondly.. Am sure her love will continue to envelop each one of those she cared for.
With love and respectful remembrances 🙏
Sonali Rao
October 5, 2024
Heartfelt condolences to her family members. May.her soul rest in peace.
K.Krishnan ex- colleague at ICICi
October 5, 2024
May the refreshing joy of good memories comfort you all.
Celebrated her 80th Birthday at my Bingo sessions
May her soul rest in peace.
Gladys Pinto
October 5, 2024
My heartfelt condolences to you Derrick, Renita and the family.
You will be greatly missed at our CWL meetings. Remember the days where we sat together and talked about India and shared other personal stories.
May your soul rest in peace Myrtle.
May God give the family courage and strength to bear the loss at this difficult time.

Love from
Sandra
Sandra Figueiredo
October 5, 2024
Dearest Uncle Derrick, Renita and family, Alina and family and Vincent and family,
Our deepest condolences on the sad passing of dearest Aunty Myrtle. May her soul rest in peace. May God give you all the strength to bear her loss.

I remember Aunty quite well from our Colaba days. You’ll use to come over to our house and we came over to your house. Those were very happy days.
But what I remember her the most was in Hello Dolly! She rocked as Dolly and stole the show.

Over the years I’ve kept in touch on the phone and I was amazed at how she was such a positive person and her laughter was the best.

I’ve always prayed for her and you, U.Derrick and will keep praying.

May our good Lord bless your family.

Love
Egbert, Lilian, Tiffany & Brandon
Pereira Lilian
October 5, 2024
In the 60s we were Church friends, and when the Holy Name Youth Club was instituted, Myrtle was instrumental in forming the Drama Youth Club, of which I was a member. I am thankful for the opportunities I had, and with Myrtle's direction, I gained a lot of confidence on stage, and made lasting friendships! Thank you Myrtle. May your soul rest in peace, and may you dance with the angels and with all who have gone before us!

Dearest Derrick, Renita, Alina, and Vincent, please accept my heartfelt condolences and prayers. I treasure our friendship.

Attached is a picture taken at Myrtle and Derrick's home during one of my visits to India.
The other one is Myrtle in Hello Dolly as matchmaker between Ambrose (Tony Almeida) and Ermengarde (me).
Unforgettable days!
💙🙏💙

Genie D'Lima De Souza
October 5, 2024
Myrtle and Derrick were in separable couple who used to celebrate all festivals. My self and Anuradha were invited for all get togethers. Her loss is great to us but we have to accept His wishes.
S RAGHAVAN
October 4, 2024
Dear Lobo family,
Heartfelt condolences on the passing of your beloved wife/mother/Mimi.
I remember A Myrtle for her happy and enthusiastic personality, her dazzling smile, her excellent taste in fashion, her friendly and caring nature and of course… her beautiful voice. She participated in all the singalongs at the Charles’s house parties as the leading singer and I often thought she was movie star material. At the same time, she was humble and caring, making time to chat and connect with everyone. She used to have little conversations with me about what I liked to do and what my aspirations were. May she Rest In Peace knowing that her legacy of love and creativity lives in each of you. ❤️‍🩹
Anita Sarkees

Family tree

Lavinia
Pereira
Theophilus Pereira
Derrick Lobo
Hilda Rita Rodrigues
Herbert Pereira
Renita Lobo 
Deren Luis
Dana Luis
Alina Lobo Kamat
Ria Kamat
Shyla Kamat
Tanya Kamat
Vincent Lobo
Nathan Lobo
Trisha Lobo
Walter Pereira
Hilda Rita Rodrigues
Herbert Pereira
Walter Pereira
Derrick Lobo
Renita Lobo 
Deren Luis
Dana Luis
Alina Lobo Kamat
Ria Kamat
Shyla Kamat
Tanya Kamat
Vincent Lobo
Nathan Lobo
Trisha Lobo
Myrtle (Mimi) Lobo

Favorites


What was Myrtle (Mimi)'s favorite Color?
Orange
What was Myrtle (Mimi)'s favorite Quote or Saying?
Do your best and forget the rest!!
What was Myrtle (Mimi)'s favorite Food or Dish?
Chinese takeaways! Yum!
What was Myrtle (Mimi)'s favorite Music / Song?
Sway by Julie London and also by Dean Martin 
What was Myrtle (Mimi)'s favorite Game to play?
Good morning Sir Good night Misssssssssss
What was Myrtle (Mimi)'s favorite way to exercise?
Dance dance dance
What was Myrtle (Mimi)'s favorite Drink?
Ice ice ice with a little water! 
What was Myrtle (Mimi)'s favorite Movie?
Singing in the Rain
What was Myrtle (Mimi)'s favorite Book?
All off them, she was an avid reader

Service


We come together to rejoice in the gift of our amazing Myrtle/Mama/Mimi, who enriched our lives for 86 glorious years, and has now taken her rightful place in heaven. While we will miss her terribly we are confident that her lifetime of love and service will reap her rich rewards.

The service is now complete.  Please click on this link to access the funeral mass for Myrtle. : https://bit.ly/massformyrtle 

Visitation 
Took place on: Tuesday, 15 Oct 2024 4:00 PM - 8:00 PM
AT : Meadowvale Funeral Centre, 7732 Mavis Road,
Brampton, ON, CANADA, L6Y 5L5 

Mass was at 10am on Wednesday 16 October. at St. Peter & Paul Catholic Church
Location
Mass
St. Peter & Paul Catholic Church
4070 Central Parkway East, Missisauga, ON, CANADA, L4Z 1T6

Date/time
Wednesday, 16 Oct 2024 10:00 AM 
Funeral Mass Link
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