

To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.
From the family
This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved mother, Mrs. Dora Okoduwa, born on August 25, 1963, and passed away on Thursday, May 28. We will remember her forever
She was a cherished wife, mother, grand mother and a steadfast presence in the lives of all who knew her. Mummy will be remembered for her love, warmth, kindness, and dedication to her family. Her presence was a source of comfort and strength. Those around her admired her strong spirit and her unwavering support for her loved ones
She was a devoted catholic who contributed meaningfully to her community through the countless lives she touched, both within her family and beyond. Her legacy lives on in her children and in the many fond memories shared by family, friends, and all whose lives were enriched by knowing her
She will be dearly missed, and her memory will be held close in the hearts of all those she leaves behind
We ask you to share your tributes and memories so that no part of her legacy is left behind
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Rest on Ma....
Keep resting mummy I love you
The members of the knights of St. Mulumba Nigeria, Ekpoma Sub-council have lost a worthy hero of faith, a complete humble, gentle, and ever inspiring Sister.
Lady Dora Okoduwa contributed her best toward the physical and spiritual growth of our honored Order and her service to God and humanity will always be
remembered. Our Prayers is God grant her Peaceful repose in His Kingdom of light Amen.
To her beloved children. We pray that you take consolation in the word of the scripture Wisdom 3:1 - 55), which says "that the souls of the righteous are in the Hands of God".
Her life was a testimony of Humility, Faith, and Love in action. Truly.l, she had
run her race well, leaving behind footprint of kindness and a legacy that will outline generations.
Adieu lady Dora Okoduwa.
Rest in the bosom of the Lord with Angels and Saints in Heaven, Amen.
Sir. Dr. Christopher Oribhabor
Worthy Secretary
Lady. Dr. Mrs Kate Odaman
L.S.M President
Sir. Dr. Emmanuel Isiramen
Worthy grand Knight

Yet we take comfort in the belief that you are resting peacefully in the Lord’s bosom. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
You didn’t just give advice you gave comfort. And you didn’t only offer words you covered us with prayers.
I will always keep you in my heart and in my prayers.
We know you are looking down on us from Heaven. This world is only a pilgrimage, and although we didn’t want your time to end, God knows best.
Rest in peace, Auntie Dora. Your love, your prayers, and your peaceful nature will never be forgotten.

Mrs Amaka Igbor
Everywhere I went, I kept hearing testimonies of a life well spent
I was lucky enough to have felt your love through Favour, and indeed it was a worthy one...
Keep resting Big Mom❤️
We will surely meet someday in the great beyond
I only pray for the strength for the family to bear this loss.
Rest in Peace Mummy♥️
To the okoduwas family.
Thank you so much mummy for loving me so dearly despite sharing a short time with you.
I met mummy during my service year as a Corp member in her office and she became so concerned about my promptness at work (at first, I thought she was my problem in office until I adapt), my health, welfare, comfort, business and success.
She's so dedicated to her faith in God, family, work and people's happiness.
I can remember times you reach out to students and graduates to come and correct/submit the right documents for the processing of their request (I've never seen anyone display such selfless act as a civil staff) and always frown at extortion of any kind.
Mummy always have a unique way of calling everyone's name and that ignites smile on their faces.
Always ready to show appreciation for every little thing but left so quick that i can't gift you more. Never a sad moments with you. Your kind smiles are contagious, and you left with that same smile on you. It was done on me when I called you and you didn't respond while I stood beside you, holding your phone....
Mummy, you laid legacies and they're worth emulating, always ready to help and express kindness.
You insisted that I must join bridal train of sister Benice no matter how I dodged it.
If anyone ask for a virtues and deligent woman with heart of Gold, I'll proudly call you.
You're a rear Gem.
You're a Heroine
You're a precious gift to all that you found in your world.
A loving mother to everyone.
I told you about my plans to move and you said, "Ruthie, you want to leave me? I returned from lagos and called you that I'm with you because plans changed but you left me. I became devastated early morning on Thursday 28th May about your departure but I'm comforted that you're Resting Peaceful in the bosom of the Lord till resurrection morning.
Thank you for impacting many with your loveliness and a life well lived while with us.
I miss you so much. I miss capturing your happy moments with your phone or mine. It hurts but what more can I say.....?
I Cherish every time, discussions and gists we shared so dearly, mummy.
You're forever in my heart❤.

Still shocked about this, because I remember the last time you called to check up on me. Thank you for being such a sweet soul for all the times I’ve known you ma. God rest you soul and comfort your family.
I believe we’ll all be united once again in our Father’s kingdom 🤍
Death where is thy sting 💔
You were a wonderful mother!!!
I could remember your care toward Bernice my room mate back then in school.
Your were there at all time for her both sunny and raining.
I remembered how often u came checking up on Bernice ,bringing cooked food both day are ningt,taking her laundries home to wash ,iron and bring them back ,calling her both day and night to be sure she is happy and comfortable. Your smile and good advices is another thing I cherished about you.This throughly thought me how deep the love of a mother could be.
But one thing pleases my heart, you were there for Bernice on one of her most joyful day which you had always prayed for.
Continue to rest on mother,your legacy is forever.
@ Bernice,please take heart and note that God loves her most.
From Tolu ( Bernice roommate ,back then in school)
Costy as you fondly called me those days at the Faculty and in church and I'ld respond Mummyyyy
As it has pleased God to call you to him it is my earnest prayer that he comforts your family and all your good loved ones, be merciful to you in judgement and grant you eternal peace.
God rest your kind soul
I am thankful that I got to know you and every moment was beautiful.
Your labour has ended, take your sweet rest until the resurrection morning.
Journey well ma, may your soul rest in perfect peace 🙏🕊️
Thank you for being the kindest and gentlest of souls.
We'll miss you on this side but continue to rest well with God.
That this happened I'm sure it's God's way of saying I love you too much dear child, so come be by my side...
My prayer is that God grants your family the strength to pass through this phase and also grant you enternal rest.
Okinbue Ma...
Sleep well
I remember how often you would call and ask me to send our prayer requests so you could pray for us. You genuinely carried our burdens and concerns to God even when we were tired to do so. It was so comforting knowing that whenever life became heavy, you were interceding on our behalf.
Ohhhh, I admired you deeply. The way you cared for the family, the devotion you showed to Daddy and the selfless love you poured into the home. These are qualities I looked up to and hoped to emulate. Mummy, you are such a remarkable woman, an example of grace, faithfulness and strength -a truly virtuous woman whose life spoke louder than any words ever could.
You loved your grandchildren so much and delighted in them completely. Whether you were playing with them, buying them gifts, checking on their needs or simply spending time with them, you made sure they felt treasured.
Hmmm, there are countless memories I will forever carry with me. Moments we spoke over the phone, conversations with you never felt rushed. We laughed, shared stories, exchanged thoughts and talked about life. Looking back now, those conversations feel like priceless treasures that I wish I could revisit one more time.
Your laughter still echoes in my mind so clearly. Your smiles, I cannot forget that look in your eyes whenever you had so much you wanted to say. Sometimes words were unnecessary because your eyes spoke volumes. They reflected your compassion and love all at once.
The ache of missing you is so much because the blessing of having known you was so great. Yet even in sorrow , I am thankful for every prayer you whispered on my behalf. Every encouraging word, every conversation, every act of generosity and every moment you made me feel loved.
While our hearts grieve your absence, we find comfort in knowing that Heaven has gained an angel. May God grant you perpetual rest in His heavenly bosom and may His eternal light shine upon you forever.
Rest peacefully. You will always be remembered, loved and missed.
While I am deeply saddened by this, but I am sure that heaven has gained an angel.
Keep resting in the bosom of the Lord.
In Loving Memory of Mrs. Dora Okoduwa
Mrs. Dora Okoduwa was more than my sister’s mother-in-law to me, she was mommy. Not for one day did she act distant or formal. She carried the warmth of a mother anywhere, any day, and that’s how I will always remember her. I can still her the sound of her voice in my head saying ' it is well'
She was the smile we all looked forward to seeing, a radiant sun that lit up every room she entered. I never saw her tensed,even in difficult moments, her smile remained steady and unwavering.
I’m grateful I had that chance to meet her. Her advice, her talks, her fun, and especially that smile ,it’s something none of us will ever forget.
We thank God for the gift of her life and for the love she gave so freely. We will miss her deeply, but we will hold her memory and her smile close forever.
May her soul rest in perfect peace. Amen
My greatest prayer is that God grant your family the grace and strength to bear this great and painful loss and may your gentle soul rest in the bossom of the Almighty..
Adieu Mama!!!
Sometime in 2010, during my Confirmation, Mummy became my Godmother. Even at that age, it was a God-led decision. From that day until she went to be with the Lord, she was the best Godmother anyone could ever wish for.
She wholeheartedly accepted me into her family, and her children became my amazing siblings. She called me “Omy” in that gentle voice, always with a smile, and it hurts so much knowing I will never hear it again.
My Godmother was always there—always praying for me, always reminding me of God’s goodness, and always ready with a warm hug. Whenever there was a family event, I knew my family fabric would already be waiting for me. She made me feel like I belonged.
One memory I will never forget was during my university days when I had a missing result. The moment I mentioned it, she followed me to the office and spent over two hours searching through scripts with me until we found it. That was who she was—present, loving, and deeply invested in the people she cared about.
The news of her passing hit me hard. In fact, it came in batches. I refused to believe it, and my first response was to dial her number. It rang, but there was no answer.
Ha! Who will call me “Omy” now?
I wish we had more time. Thank you for loving me and my family. Thank you for your prayers, your kindness, and your unwavering presence. Thank you for being an angel here on earth, and now in heaven.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
Goodnight, Mummy.
Your death came as a huge shock but God knows best
May your soul continue to rest in the blossom of our lord jesus Christ
It is with deep sorrow, yet profound gratitude to God for a life well lived, that we pay tribute to our beloved Mrs. Dora Okoduwa, who peacefully departed this life on the 28th of May.
Although she came into our family as our daughter's mother-in-law, she quickly became much more than that. She was a cherished friend, a woman of exceptional kindness, warmth, and wisdom whose loving personality endeared her to all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Mrs. Dora Okoduwa was truly a remarkable woman whose life was marked by compassion, generosity, and unwavering devotion to family and friends. Her gentle spirit, caring heart, and readiness to support others made her a source of comfort and inspiration to many. She has left footprints on our hearts that can never be erased.
As we mourn her passing, we also celebrate the beautiful legacy she leaves behind—a legacy of love, friendship, selflessness, and dedication to family. Though her physical presence is no longer with us, the memories we shared and the impact she made will continue to live on in our hearts forever.
One special memory that I will always treasure is that Mrs. Dora Okoduwa and I shared the same birthday—the 25th of August. This unique connection made our relationship even more special and strengthened the bond of friendship we enjoyed. Every birthday celebration served as a joyful reminder of the wonderful relationship we shared. Those cherished moments will remain precious to me, and the thought of our shared birthday will always bring back fond memories of her cheerful spirit, kindness, and warmth.
While her departure leaves a void that cannot be filled, we take comfort in knowing that she lived a meaningful and impactful life, and that her legacy will continue through the lives she touched.
We pray that Almighty God grants her eternal rest and comforts all who mourn her passing. May He strengthen the Okoduwa family and all her loved ones during this difficult time and grant them the grace to bear this loss.
Farewell, dear Mrs. Dora Okoduwa.
Gone from our sight, but never from our memories.
Rest in perfect peace my beloved

May her gentle soul rest in the bosom of the lord..amen.

Mrs. Dora was a truly phenomenal woman whose kindness, wisdom, and gentle spirit touched many lives. To me personally, she was more than Anita’s mother; she was a source of encouragement and support at a pivotal time in my life. In her own unique way, she was instrumental in ensuring that I attended law school alongside my peers, and for that, I will forever remain grateful.
What stood out most about Mrs. Dora was her calm nature. She carried herself with remarkable grace and possessed one of the calmest souls I have ever known. Her warm smile had a way of making people feel seen, welcomed, and valued. She radiated a quiet strength that spoke louder than words and left a lasting impression on everyone privileged to know her.
Her life was a testament to the power of kindness, selflessness, and unwavering support for others. Though she may no longer be with us physically, the impact she made and the memories she created will continue to live on in the hearts of those she loved and inspired.
I am deeply thankful for the role she played in my journey. Her legacy will endure through her children, her family, and the countless lives she touched.
May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace, and may God grant Anita, the Okoduwa family, and all who mourn her the strength and comfort to bear this profound loss.
Rest well, Mrs. Dora Okoduwa. Your beautiful smile, kind heart, and remarkable legacy will never be forgotten.
She was a woman of warmth, kindness, and love, and her presence made people feel at home. Though words cannot fully express the sadness of her passing, I am grateful for the memories she left behind.
I will miss her smile, her gentle spirit, and the affection with which she always greeted me. May her soul rest in perfect peace.
When I think of my mother, I think of love in its purest form. She was the person who carried the burdens of others without complaint, who gave without expecting anything in return, and who found happiness in seeing others happy. Her life was not measured by what she had, but by how much of herself she gave to those around her.
My mother loved her children with all her heart. We were the center of her world, and there was never a moment when we doubted her love. She stood by us through every season of life, offering unwavering support, encouragement, and guidance. No matter what challenges came our way, she was always there with open arms, a listening ear, and words of wisdom that somehow made everything feel lighter.
What made mommy truly remarkable was her selflessness. She had an extraordinary ability to put the needs of others before her own. She cared deeply for everyone around her and could never bear to see anyone suffer or go without. Whether it was a family member, friend, neighbor, or even a stranger, she was always ready to help in whatever way she could. Her generosity knew no bounds, and her kindness touched countless lives.
Mommy calls me Beniyo, there was never a time she saw me and without giving me a compliment, she was there in my hardest periods, even when I felt I didn’t deserve the best she gave me the best.
She was a source of wisdom and comfort. People sought her advice because they knew she would listen without judgment and speak with honesty, compassion, and understanding. She had a special gift for bringing peace to troubled hearts and offering hope during difficult times. Her words carried wisdom that continues to guide me even today.
Who would protect me when my insecurities come up, who would make me laugh when it feels hard, who will move heaven and earth just to see me smile. Who would give me the hugs that makes everything immediately better, who would I share my crazy ideas with.
The pain of loosing you is hard and my life will never be the same without you.
Rest in peace sweet mother

Although I knew her for only a short time, she welcomed me into her family with warmth and grace. In February, I had the privilege of marrying her daughter, and I will always be grateful to have shared that special occasion with her and her family.
She was a woman of dignity, compassion, and deep devotion to her loved ones. As her son-in-law, I will remember her kindness, her welcoming spirit, and the genuine interest she always showed in others. Though our time together was brief, her impact was lasting, and I feel honoured to have known her.
While we mourn the loss of Mrs Dora Okoduwa, we also celebrate a life well lived, marked by love, faith, generosity, and devotion to family. Her memory will live on through the lives she touched and the family she cherished.
May she rest in eternal peace. Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.
Your transition, dear Ma, has left me in deep shock.
I fondly remember meeting you about six years ago at Mary the Queen Catholic Church, Ekpoma, Benin City, Edo State, during my pastoral year as a friar. Your devotion to prayer, your commitment to the Holy Mass, and your beautiful, loving heart that welcomed everyone seeking assistance were truly impeccable. There is so much more that could be said, but in a nutshell, thank you for your selfless service to humanity.
May the Just God grant you pardon and welcome you warmly into His heavenly bosom.
Keep smiling, Ma. We miss you dearly. But God loves you more dearly.
Adieu, beloved, Ma.
This is still a very hard pill to swallow and still so shocking.
I count myself truly blessed to have experienced your wholesome, unconditional, and tangible love. Long before I had the opportunity to meet you in person, I already knew your heart through the way you cared for me and always made sure I was okay. To have experienced that love in person is something I will always cherish.
Who will ask me, “Kachi, how is your work? How is your mummy? How are your siblings? How you dey?” Who will send me foodstuffs now? Who will buy me Ori Sugar? Mummy, I will miss all of it.
I will miss your prayers. I will miss your voice. I will miss knowing that no matter what was going on, there was always a prayer from you and a place for me in your heart.
Ahh Mummy, this is very hard. We will miss you so much, but we thank God for a life well lived and a life that embodied the fruits of the Spirit. Thank you for loving me as your own. I am blessed to be one of your children.
Even though you are no longer physically here with us, you remain present in my heart every day.
I love you, Sweet Mother. Rest well 🕊️🤍
Broken is how I feel. Hurt beyond words. Yet, your peaceful smile keeps me going. Our Saturday gisting ritual is no more, and I still do not know how to stop myself from wanting to dial your number every time I need to hear your voice.
I already miss the way you called me "Baby" and how I would always hail my Ene eh'. God, this hurts so much. But I find comfort in knowing that you are now resting peacefully in His bosom, embraced by the love of the One you faithfully served.
Mummy, your light continues to shine in my heart. Your love remains my strength, your memory my treasure, and your legacy will live on forever.
Forever loved. Forever remembered. Forever missed.
Anita
May you find strength in the legacy she leaves behind, comfort in the memories you shared, and peace in knowing that she was deeply loved and will never be forgotten.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May her soul rest in perfect peace.
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Your mother was more than a parent; she was a source of guidance, comfort, and unwavering support. The values she instilled, the sacrifices she made, and the love she shared will continue to live on through you and everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.
As we mourn her passing, we also celebrate a life well lived—a life filled with care, compassion, and dedication to her family. May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace, and may you find strength and comfort in the cherished memories you shared together.
Though I never had the privilege of meeting you in person, your beautiful spirit lives on through the countless wonderful things Ehis shares about you. He speaks so warmly of your kindness, and it’s clear how much of an impact you had on everyone around you.
I find it truly touching that whenever my husband recalls his cherished school memories, he always mentions you with such admiration and gratitude. That speaks volumes about the incredible person you were.
May God grant your soul eternal rest, and may He comfort Ehizele and all your loved ones during this difficult time.
Rest peacefully, Ma. You will always be remembered.
She was a devoted lover of Christ, calm in spirit, generous in heart, and always willing to help. Her life was a beautiful example of faith, kindness, and selflessness. The hardworking and admirable children she raised are a testament to the values she lived by every day.
She will be greatly missed, but her warmth, love, and Godly example will remain in our hearts. May her soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
You were not just my mother-in-law; you were someone I could call my mother. I will always remember your beautiful smile and the special way you called me “Colliazo” Those memories will stay with me forever.
A loving mother whose kindness and warmth will never be forgotten. You will always hold a special place in our hearts. Forever loved, forever missed, and forever in our hearts. 💕
I MISS YOU SO MUCH
IT HURTS SO MUCH
I HAVE CRIED
YOU DIDNT JUST WAIT A LITTLE TO SEE HOW MUCH I HAVE GROWN AND DOING FINE.....I MISS YOUR PRETTY SMILE!!
FOR THE TANK I USE TO CLIMB THEN TO ADMIRE HOW LUCKY MY FRIEND WAS...MAY YOUR AMAZING SOUL RRST IN GOD'S BLOSSOM... ALWAYS LOVE YOU
Your presence, impact, and the positivity your life brought will be sorely missed.
Your unwavering devotion to making every single person who came into contact with you genuinely feel loved and understand what it means to be in the presence of another human being—as God would have us be—is such a divine trait.
Rest in peace, Ma.
I saw in you a mother,a woman that cared so much for her husband and family. A woman that wanted things to work around her.
As a surgeon, I learnt a lot of humility from the way you talked to me,the way and manner you found out things for the well being your your husband and everyone round you.
As a child of God, I believe that God took you for a reason,that you go before your family to intercede for them.
Rest on ma. Till we meet to part no more.
Dr Ambrose Ogbue
Consultant Orthopaedic Surgeon.
I miss you very much, every single passing second.
Your gentleness, kindness and pure heart of gold was known by all. You have left a lasting positive impact on me and I will continue to make you proud.
You must have a special task in heaven for God to call you now.
You will always live in my heart forever. I love you ❤️

This is not okay, but I know you are with heavens angels and I know our bond is strong but God loves you more. I love you mummy, your legacy of love will live on, until I join you in heaven!

