Mrs Bose A Okhawere

Aunty bose, a beautiful soul with a pure heart. Gentle , humble and kind. A woman that can sacrificed anything for you to be stable in life . Your memories lives with us forever. My only regret is, I didn't see you for a long time, before your departure. We cannot question God. Rest in peace Aunty B.

Aunty B, it is with heavy heart that I am writing this tribute in your memory.
Your love towards your siblings that dovetails to their friends and inlaws was visibly felt by me during our wedding.

Memory of your love cannot be forgotten. Till we meet again at Lord's feet.

*Florence Oke*

Sister B as I fondly call you.
You were an easy going, simple, hard working and very kind hearted.
The your departure in such a time as this is so painful.
Adeiu mother of all.

A TRIBUTE TO MY SISTER MRS. BOSE AIJOIHI OKHAWERE ( NEE IZEGAEGBE. )
I still cannot believe I am writing this,my heart is heavy, my hands are trembling and there are no words strong enough to describe the pains in loosing you. In the time we grew up within 1980, you became my safe place, you loved me like I was your own without conditions, without limits, from the very start you saw me you accepted me, you make me feel like I belong. You prayed for my family and encouraged my dreames with me. You always had a way of lifting me emotionally, you were my gist partner,our conversation filled with laughter, you know how to make me smile even in the hard times.I do not know how to say goodbye to someone who meant so much to me
Your absence feels unreal,but I will hold on to your love because it was real,so real.
Thank you for being a light to my life for loving my family so fully
We thank God that you lived a good life, you created an impact in the life of many of us that comes across you .
Rest in my beloved sister in the bosson of the Lord Amen.
Bartho Obakhena / family.

Tribute to Aunty Bose
My Gee as I fondly called as a child, you were a source of joy in my whole life. Your phone calls were always filled with warmth and grace, your radiant smile meant the world to me. I will deeply miss that beautiful smile. You were a woman whose heart was overflowing with endless joy, love, and happiness. You always asked about my graduation and sadly you weren’t able to see me graduate. Your tenderness and care for me always made me feel special and at peace, truly
I will miss that warmth. May your beautiful soul rest in peace.

The loving, kind and quiet/gentle mother of the family is gone.
Adieu, Bose.

Aunty B, as we fondly called you. we thank God for a life well spent. Though you are no more, we will forever remember your act of kindness, selfless and love.
You were present at every of our weddings in Ogbomoso and showed up at every of our beautiful moments.
Keep resting in the bossom of the Lord.

In Loving Memory of My Gee

Today, I honor the life of my beloved auntie. Your kindness, love and warm emotions will never be forgotten. You touched the hearts of so many people, including my father and mother, and brought joy to everyone who knew you. Though you are no longer with us, your memory lives on in the love you shared, and the beautiful times you’ve spent with us

You will be forever remembered, and forever loved. Rest peacefully, My Gee.

Grateful I got to know mummy, grateful for the light and love she brought to the world and everyone around her, most grateful that she served God and that she has gone to rest in the bossom of our Heavenly Father. We pray for strength and comfort to everyone she left behind. We love you

A Tribute to My Dearest Senior Cousin :
To my beloved Senior Cousin( Sis "B"),
Sis "B" ( as i fondly call you)...
Today, my heart is heavy as I reflect on the incredible impact you had on my life. You were not just a cousin to me; you were a Senior Sister, and one of my earliest role models of a virtuous and diligent big Sister who had the big heart to support her younger Siblings. From the time I was young, I looked up to your grace, your wisdom, and the quiet strength you carried through life.
You had a beautiful way of bringing warmth and laughter into every room you entered. We will forever cherish the memories of our conversations, your invaluable advice, and the way you always checked in on us. You showed us how to treat others with unconditional love.
Even though you are gone from our sight, you will never be gone from our hearts. Your legacy of kindness, generosity, and family unity will continue to live on in all of us who were fortunate enough to know and love you.
Though you are gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.
Rest easy, my dear Senior Cousin, until we meet again.
From :
AIG(rtd) Ohiozoba O. Ehiede,psc(+),
On behalf of the
Ohiozoba Ehiede Family.

Bose will be greatly missed, she was a daer friend, we worked together at Premier Commercial Bank, where we became so close. My condolences to the family and may her husband and children be comforted.

With gratitude to God Almighty the owner of our lives to call home our beloved sister Bose back home to him for a better rest of her spirit, soul and body to Heaven with Christ Jesus Amen, we are comforted with his will in this matter arising of Life and Death is the Hands of the Maker and taker of it we find peace and comfort in Christ Jesus Amen

Aunty Aijohi,
Hmmm.. where do I start from? Is it Otuo, Oluma, or Osi? Is it Benin, Ugbowo, Uselu, or Ekenwan? Is it Kaduna? Is it Lagos, Morris Street, Abule-Ijesha, or WAEC Jibowu?

You have always been a constant in my life, a big sister who was a mother to us all without any biases. You mothered the Ehiede and Izegaegbe children as one. You were always smiling with a large heart. Even when you spoke, the smile was always there. Anyone connected to you felt your love, presence, and kindness.
Sis Bee, you have always been there, constantly in my life, my family as always my big sister!!!

Sis Bee, you taught me a vital lesson about family, that family is not defined by blood only, or money or convenience but by loyalty, by sacrifice, by love, by the people who stay through every season of one's life. You were always there encouraging, advising, and praying.

You had your special way of calling me "EHLOJE" We had planned to see Enemeh together the last time we spoke on the 3rd of May, only for Oisaga to send me a message on the 8th of May. I am still in shock and can not question God because He knows best, being the author and finisher of our lives.

You will continue to live in our hearts. You were a jewel, genuinely kind and loving with no pretence.

This is quite sudden, no warning, just gone like that. I miss you, big sister, I miss you, Aunty Aijohi, I miss you, Sis Bee.

Rest in peace.

A Tribute to Sis B
The news of your transition from this world to glory came as a profound shock—so sudden and difficult to comprehend. Even now, it feels like a troubling dream, almost unbelievable.
I still vividly recall the last time I saw you in Otuo just a few months ago, radiant as always with your warm and welcoming smile. That image remains fresh in my mind, full of life and joy, as though it were only yesterday.
Though it deeply pains us that you departed in the prime of your life, we find comfort in the truth that you lived a good, exemplary, and truly inspiring life. You have left behind indelible footprints of kindness, humility, and goodness in the sands of time—marks that will never be erased.
We love you dearly, Sis B, but we take solace in knowing that God loves you even more.
Rest in perfect peace in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ, Sis B.

Andrew E-Philips

TRIBUTE TO AUNTY AIJOHI BOSE

It is with a heavy heart yet deep gratitude to God for a life well lived that I pay tribute to the memory of Aunty Aijohi Bose.

Though I was not privileged to be her biological child, she embraced many of us with the warmth, love, and care of a true mother. To my best friend, she was not only a senior sister but also a guiding light, a source of strength, and a mother figure whose presence brought comfort and reassurance.

Aunty Aijohi Bose was a woman of exceptional character—a caring mother, a devoted mentor, and a loving soul whose kindness knew no bounds. She possessed a golden heart and had a unique way of making everyone around her feel valued, welcomed, and loved. Her words of encouragement, gentle wisdom, and selfless acts of kindness touched countless lives.

She lived a life that reflected compassion, humility, and genuine concern for others. Her home was a place of warmth, and her life was a testimony to the power of love and service. Those who had the privilege of knowing her will forever cherish the memories she created and the positive impact she made in their lives.

While her departure leaves a void that words cannot adequately express, we take solace in the beautiful legacy she leaves behind. Her kindness, generosity, and unwavering love will continue to inspire all who knew her.

As we bid farewell to this remarkable woman, we pray that Almighty God grants her eternal rest and gives her family, loved ones, and all whose lives she touched the strength and comfort to bear this great loss.

Aunty Aijohi Bose, your memory will forever remain in our hearts. You lived with purpose, loved without limits, and left this world better than you found it.

May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Tribute by:Oni Afolabi James

The 8th day of May 2026 a day I will never forget in a hurry, the death of my sister Aijohi Bosede Okhawere Nee Izegaegbe.
Words can't actually describe your kind of person, not at all
You gave your all for your family without thinking about yourself, just like Jesus Christ, you where selfless in giving, loving and so intentional in all things, I never had a boy friend even when I was over 20plus because you where there for us all, we didn't lack any good thing of life everything was made available by you to us your siblings, why did you have to go on that journey that day big mummy, death has taken so much from us as a family, who will step into your shoe, who can take up your responsibility, there's non, who will carry my matter for head like you, who will call to check up on me, and ask how are you coping don't worry I will send you money, who will call me to say I just want to hear your voice, Hummm we're in pain, so deep, how are we going to carry on without you in our lives, God why her, why did you cut her life so short, she has not live to enjoy her labour why, is hard to say goodbye but I know we will meet on resurrection morning, goodnight BIG Sis Aijohi Bosede Okhawere Nee Izegaegbe I love 💕 you 🥰❤️

In Loving Memory of Mummy Bose
A woman of strength, discipline, and love. Though strict, she always wanted the best for us and worked to shape us into better people. Her lessons, care, and sacrifices will never be forgotten.
Rest in peace, Mummy Bose. Forever in our hearts. 🕊️❤️
David Orode-Obiomah

Tribute to Mama B
I was reminded several times to write a tribute for Mama B, my Aunty Bose, Romeo's Juliet, my father's wife, my stepmother, my mum. Yet every time I tried, I simply couldn't bring myself to do it. The pain was too overwhelming,cos not so long ago I just wrote same for my brother Ewanlei.
The loss of anyone or anything dear to us is painful, but the loss of a loved one leaves a wound unlike any other. It is a heartbreak that words can hardly describe. 💔😔. Her loss for me cuts deep bcos she filled the gap my biological mother left and for this reason I don't tell pple that I lost my biological mum unless u very close to me but now I feel empty.
Mama B always smiling a pillar of strength to us all, especially to my father, who has once again suffered the painful loss of a wife, and to all of us children who have lost a loving mother. She was loving, frank, understanding, easy-going, humble almost to a fault, open-hearted, and truly beautiful inside and out. To me, she was more than a stepmother she was my paddy, my friend, I confided in her who do I talk to? Who do i say eegee ma ,ou yemwin ? WHERE DO I START FROM MA ? This was NEVER in the plan when they say when family is always blood but she was my mum, and one of the most genuine souls I have ever known.
She was a loving wife, a devoted mother, a cherished sister, a proud grandmother, a caring aunty, a loyal friend,angel in human form and above all, a remarkable woman whose love touched countless lives. Mama was kindness personified. She had a gentle spirit, a warm smile, and a heart that was always open to others. Her love knew no limits, no conditions, and no boundaries. She gave of herself freely and generously, never expecting anything in return.
She was the heart of our family the one who held us together through life's joys and challenges. Her greatest happiness came from seeing her children, grandchildren, relatives, and friends united, loved, and cared for. She celebrated our victories as though they were her own, comforted us in our struggles, and stood by us with unwavering faith and devotion.
Mama was also a prayerful woman whose faith guided every aspect of her life. In times of uncertainty, she turned to prayer, trusting completely in God, an unshakable belief that God would always make a way.
Her beauty was not only seen in her smile or presence but in the goodness of her heart. She had a rare gift for making everyone feel welcomed, valued, and loved. Her compassion touched lives in ways she may never have fully realized, and the impact of her kindness will continue to live on through those she loved.
Today, I miss her voice, her laughter, her prayers, her comforting words, and the love she gave so freely. It hits differently knowing she is no longer physically with us. The reality is painful, and the void she leaves behind can never truly be filled.
Yet, even in our grief, we find comfort in knowing that her spirit lives on. Her love remains woven into the fabric of our family, guiding us, inspiring us, and reminding us to love one another just as she loved us.
My Aunty Bose, eegee ma ,thank you for being our safe place, our greatest supporter, and our source of strength. Thank you for the love, wisdom, and warmth you shared so generously with everyone fortunate enough to know you.
We will love you always, miss you forever, and carry you in our hearts for the rest of our lives.
*Rest peacefully, dear Mum.**💔💔💔😭😭😭

Aijohi lived with a kind heart, gentle spirit, and soft-spoken grace.

She was selfless to the end, gave whatever she had; time, comfort, and care to help those in need and asking nothing in return.

Though her voice was quiet, her love spoke deeply. Her life reminds us that true strength is found in gentleness and service.

She will be deeply missed, and her kindness will live on in all she touched.

Rest in perfect peace.

Where do I start from?
What a Woman! What a beauty (inside out)!! What a heart!!! And your smile? Priceless! Anty Bose you brought light into our family, you brought warmth, you brought peace, you brought LOVE!!!

Your favorite color was purple, a color that symbolizes royalty which you embodied in the way you carried yourself — a true Queen indeed. You were God fearing, accommodating, forgiving, easygoing, humble, almost childlike in a way but you were also A FORCE IN YOUR OWN RIGHT. Your quiet strength filled hollow vacuums in our lives.

Ahhh, what will happen to your husband whom you loved so dearly? You were a solid support system to him. You were his shield every single time. You stood by him like a rock when my brother Ewanlei recently passed away.

What will happen to your aged mother, Ineme? My God! My God!! My God, please comfort Ineme for us 🙏🙏🙏.

When you and Daddy came to visit me, we had such a great family time together. I am still dazed going through all the pictures from your trip. Every single one of my friends who met you instantly loved and admired you. You carried an aura that drew people into your sphere of positive influence. I was looking forward to you coming again and again.

See how you took care of my child, I could entrust her in your care and go to sleep. You shattered the stereotypical narrative about stepmothers. A loving mother and Grandma you were to us.

What is this life? Why am I writing a final tribute for you? Every time I looked for reasons to celebrate you (your milestone birthdays and everything in between) because you truly had a profound impact on me but alas death has snatched you away! My heart is broken beyond words. THIS WAS NOT THE PLAN Anty Bose! This was not the plan!!

“The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear the sound of it, but cannot tell where it comes from and where it goes. So is everyone who is born of the Spirit.”
—John 3:8

Rest well ma till we meet again 🙏

Your Special Child,
Agbons Kayla Okhawere

A TRIBUTE TO BOSE AIJOHI IMOKHUEDE. NEE IZEAGAEGBE
To my dearest friend turned sister.
Everyone who knew you Bose know you could light up the gloomiest of rooms with your ever smiling face.
The circumstance that brought us together was capable of making us enemies but instead it turned us into good friends, the relationship later developed into sisters.
I remember your house at Uselu where we use to converge and share as family.
My husband still believes and addresses us as cousins.
You were lovely, resilience, and always ready to listen people who were having issues or looking for confidant Your unconditional love, kindness and always finding joy in every little thing is something worth emulation.
I am glad we spoke two days before you left this wicked world.
I will always carry the memories we shared together in my heart.
Aijohi sleep on till resurrection day.
Adieu.

SMILING MOTHER GOES HOME
A beautiful soul indeed
Aunty Bose it is with heavy heart I try to put this tribute together, you came into Daddy’s life and every one of us were happy, you brought so much joy and happiness to every one you came across in the family, you were full of laughter, you were an angel in human form, full of life and expectation, you gave us peace as every word that came out of your mouth was peaceful, you were a perfect gentle woman. You go out of your way to check on me and my family. Osas as you fondly call me and you will ask ‘’how Una Dey’’? Aunty Bose your stay was too short, I am greatly pained and I still find it difficult to accept the fact that you are no more.
We love you sincerely but God loves you more, I know you are there with him until we meet again at the resurrection morning. Rest well mama

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED FIRST COUSIN: Mrs Aijohi Bosede Okhawere (Nee Izegaegbe)
Sister Bose, you lived with quiet strength and a heart for the people. As a banker I visited your office in Abuja and I observed that you discharged your duties with precision and integrity, portraying the values instilled in you by the Izegaegbe's to the banking industry. You were family first. You carried yourself with quiet competence that has inspired your younger ones.
In the family you handled people with patience and care. You never made us feel small
During my Daddy's burial, when grief made our head heavy and decisions felt impossible, you stepped in and gave advice that was practical, calm and you helped us navigate the funeral arrangements and family matters with wisdom. Always using what you have to lift others.
Death took you from us but the memory of your stewardship, trust, calm voice laced with positive advice, and responsibilities to the Izegaegbe's Dynasty will never, never fade.
Though you are gone too soon, we take solace knowing you are with Jesus Christ.
Philippians 1 : 21. For to me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain.
Thank you for showing up when it mattered most.
We love you and we will honour you by serving others with the same selfless love you showed us.
Rest well my beloved Sister Bose.
Mr & Mrs Izegaegbe Ayo.

TRIBUTE TO A DEAR SISTER
LATE MRS. BOSE AIJOHI OKHAWERE (NÉE IZEGAEGBE)

Banker, craftswoman, politician, bridgebuilder, nurturer of relationships, socialite, sportswoman, patriot, and woman of high family values... all of these perfectly describe your personality, Bose Aijohi Okhawere (née Izegaegbe). You were an exemplary character whose life is worth emulating.

You related with me like an elder brother, giving me room to appreciate you closely. You never stopped checking on me whenever you visited home after I relocated to Otuo following my retirement. You were a happy-go-lucky lady who never brooded over situations you could not change. You took them in your stride and moved on. That’s why you remained ageless all through your existence. As a devout family woman, you took matrimony very seriously, which is why you were so attached to your husband. To your parents and siblings, you proved your mettle as the first daughter, also serving as a mother to your younger siblings.

You were very patient, painstaking, and courageous. You were hardly ever seen frowning. Your smile radiated love to all you came in contact with. All these special attributes endeared you to everyone.

Your sudden departure, without even a simple “goodbye,” took us by storm.

May you find rest in the bosom of our Lord until the resurrection day, beloved!

Ayo Brando Omoruanga

To a Darling Sister, Mrs Aijohi Bose Okhawere nee Izegaegbe

My darling sister, it is too hard for me to say goodnight but what can we do, it pleases God to take you away from us at this stage of your life.
Well , it is well. Rest on sister, we will forever miss you.
Mrs Evelyn Omokhaye nee Usideme

Today I write to honour and remember a remarkable woman whose life was filled with love, faith, strength, and kindness. Though our hearts are heavy with sorrow, we are also grateful for the beautiful life she lived and the many lives she touched along the way.
She was a caring and lively soul — someone whose warmth could brighten a room and whose laughter brought comfort to those around her. She had a generous heart and a gentle spirit, always ready to offer encouragement, support, or a helping hand to anyone in need. Her presence made people feel welcomed, valued, and loved.
As a devoted Christian, her faith guided the way she lived her life. She trusted in God through both joyful moments and difficult seasons, carrying herself with grace, humility, and compassion. Her faith was not only something she spoke about, but something she lived daily through her actions, her kindness, and the love she showed to others.
She was also a devoted wife who stood faithfully beside her husband through life’s journey. Her support, loyalty, and unwavering love were the foundation of their partnership. Together they shared not only years, but memories, challenges, victories, and a bond that inspired those around them. She believed in standing by the people she loved, and she did so with all her heart.
To her family and friends, she was more than words can describe — a source of comfort, wisdom, joy, and strength. Her legacy will live on in the lessons she taught, the love she gave so freely, and the countless memories that will forever remain in our hearts.
Although she is no longer with us physically, we take comfort in knowing that her soul rests peacefully in God’s eternal care. Her life was a blessing, her memory a treasure, and her love a gift that time can never erase.
May she rest in eternal peace. She will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and forever cherished.

Tribute To A Lovely Friend

Thank you for the memories, the laughter, the lessons, and the moments that time can never erase. True friendship is not measured by how often we meet, but by the impact we leave on each other’s lives. Through different seasons, distance, and change, You were more than a friend; you were a source of support, joy, and unforgettable memories. May life continue to favor you, and may the bond we once shared always be remembered with gratitude and respect. Farewell my sister

A Tribute to a Sister Who Loved Like a Mother

She’s kind, humble, and caring — the kind of person whose goodness didn’t need an announcement to be felt. To those who knew her, she was the epitome of an elder sister. To those who didn’t, her love still echoed through the lives she lifted.

I never had the chance to meet her in person, but I know her story through the people she raised. Her two younger sisters and I were in the same class in secondary school, and you could tell whose hands had been watching over them. They were always well-dressed, neat, and cared for. At every holiday, my friends would come back with new things — clothes, shoes, little gifts — and without fail, they’d smile and say, “It’s our sister. She bought this for us.”

That was her signature: quiet, consistent, sacrificial love. She was always on the lookout for their welfare, making sure they never lacked anything. While some people talk about responsibility, she lived it. She chose to carry the weight so her sisters could walk lighter. She chose to give so they could grow without shame or want.

What stands out most isn’t just what she gave, but how she gave it — without pride, without complaint, without expecting recognition. That’s humility. That’s care. That’s the heart of a true elder sister.

Even from afar, her influence reached me. I later learned she knew all her sisters’ friends, so she knew me too. Watching her sisters carry themselves with confidence and dignity taught me what it looks like when someone is loved and protected well. Her legacy isn’t in grand gestures, but in the small, daily choices to put others first.

People like her don’t need to be famous to be unforgettable. Her kindness shaped my memory of those school years, and I’m certain her sisters carry her love with them every day.

Rest well, dear sister. Your love was seen, your sacrifice was felt, and your goodness will not be forgotten. You were, and still are, the definition of what it means to care.

OLU AKHIBI

To my aunty Mrs Bose Okhawere
Hmm I'm still very speechless knowing fully well that you're no more mom. One consolation I have is that, your impact to my life will leave on. The position you occupied in my life is irreplaceable. Though you're no more, but your care, kindness, words of wisdom, encouragement, motivation and love will ever be missed. Sleep on mom, I love you
Sign: Imooje Samson Ohiozoba

TRIBUTE TO ANTY BOSE AIJOHI OKHAWERE
Anry B, I remember the last time we spoke on phone when you called me to acknowledge the receipt of my mother's burial Asoebi. I did not know that will be the last time I will hear your voice.
Anty B, thank you for been who you are. With love you guided me throughout daddy's burial so that I will not do anything wrong.
You are a woman of peace, a mother to all of us in Izegaegbe Dynasty. You will forever remain in my heart. Rest in peace.

Florence Ehizojie-Philips

**A Tribute to Auntie B**

Today, we honour the memory of a truly remarkable woman — Auntie B.

To me, she was far more than my friend’s sister. She was a sister in every meaningful way — warm, protective, and endlessly supportive. Auntie B was a beautiful soul whose kindness radiated outward, touching everyone privileged to know her. Her gentle spirit and genuine care made her someone people naturally gravitated toward.

She had zero tolerance for seeing anyone suffer. Her love for people was immense and deeply practical. When I was job hunting, she did everything she could to help me secure a job — making calls, sharing opportunities, offering encouragement, and standing by me through the uncertainty. That was her way: not just feeling compassion, but actively stepping in to lift others up. She gave freely of her time, her network, and her heart without ever expecting anything in return.

Her beautiful smile, her wisdom, and her selfless acts of love will remain etched in our hearts forever. The world is quieter and a little less bright without her, but the seeds of kindness she planted in so many lives will continue to bloom.

Auntie B, thank you for being the loving, generous sister so many of us needed. Thank you for your immense heart and for lending your hands and resources to me and so many others during difficult seasons. We will miss you deeply, but we celebrate the beautiful legacy you leave behind.

Rest in perfect peace, dear Auntie B.
You will always be remembered with love and gratitude.

TO MY DEAREST AUNTY
The memories I do have of you really just makes me remember all the wonderful times we the children had with you at your Benin home during the holiday period. The water gun sprays, messing up your playground and the zoo visit etc
Mere words cannot even express how highly I held you in good regards.
You were like a mother to me, someone I could rely on, someone I could confide in in my darkest hour.
You were a glue that held this family together.
Big mummy, a woman like no other, truly a beautiful gem, lost to the hand of death. But even after your unfortunate end, we all know you will live in peace with God in the eternal paradise that is heaven.
May your soul rest in the loving arms of the Lord
Tega Orode-Obiomah

I met Bose at Garki international market Abuja. We were neighbors for many years. She was such a nice lady. She fixed my beads a number of times without collecting penny. When I heard about her passing, I was heartbroken. She was gentle spoken, kind and always smiling. She will be greatly missed by those who had come in contact with her but as the saying goes, death is but an end for a new beginning. She lived well on earth and I believe she has started a new life with her maker in heaven. Rest easy nwanyioma

Tribute to a Rare Friend Gone Too Soon..Mrs Bose Okhawere nee Izegaegbe

It is with a heavy heart and deep pain that I write this tribute to a friend who was more than a friend — you were a sister, a confidant, and a beautiful soul whose presence brought light, peace, and happiness to everyone around you.

Your sudden departure through such a tragic motor accident has left a wound that words can hardly heal. It is difficult to accept that someone so full of life, kindness, dreams, and compassion could be taken away so soon. The shock still lingers, and the silence you left behind speaks loudly in our hearts every day.

You lived a life that touched people deeply. Your smile carried warmth, your words carried comfort, and your heart carried love for everyone fortunate enough to know you. You stood by your friends in difficult times, celebrated others sincerely, and never failed to spread positivity wherever you went. Truly, you were rare.

Though your life was cut short, the memories you created will never fade. We will remember the laughter we shared, the advice you gave, the strength you showed, and the genuine love you offered so freely. You may be gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.

It hurts that death came at a time when there was still so much ahead of you — more dreams to pursue, more victories to celebrate, and more beautiful moments to create. But even in our grief, we thank God for the privilege of knowing you and sharing part of life’s journey with you.

Sleep on, dear friend and sister. Your memories will remain a treasure in our hearts forever. Though tears may fall today, your impact, kindness, and beautiful spirit will continue to live on through everyone whose life you touched.

May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

BARR. RICHARD OFEN-IMU

*Tribute to a Rare Friend Gone Too Soon*

It is with a heavy heart and deep pain that I write this tribute to a friend who was more than a friend — you were a sister, a confidant, and a beautiful soul whose presence brought light, peace, and happiness to everyone around you.

Your sudden departure through such a tragic motor accident has left a wound that words can hardly heal. It is difficult to accept that someone so full of life, kindness, dreams, and compassion could be taken away so soon. The shock still lingers, and the silence you left behind speaks loudly in our hearts every day.

You lived a life that touched people deeply. Your smile carried warmth, your words carried comfort, and your heart carried love for everyone fortunate enough to know you. You stood by your friends in difficult times, celebrated others sincerely, and never failed to spread positivity wherever you went. Truly, you were rare.

Though your life was cut short, the memories you created will never fade. We will remember the laughter we shared, the advice you gave, the strength you showed, and the genuine love you offered so freely. You may be gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.

It hurts that death came at a time when there was still so much ahead of you — more dreams to pursue, more victories to celebrate, and more beautiful moments to create. But even in our grief, we thank God for the privilege of knowing you and sharing part of life’s journey with you.

Sleep on, dear friend and sister. Your memories will remain a treasure in our hearts forever. Though tears may fall today, your impact, kindness, and beautiful spirit will continue to live on through everyone whose life you touched.

May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

BARR. RICHARD OFEN-IMU

To my dearest Cousin: Mrs Bose A. Okhawere (Aunty Bose)

Your sudden passing leaves a space words cannot fill. I was looking forward to seeing you again, sharing laughter and creating more memories. Your kindness, wisdom, and mentorship touched so many lives. You loved deeply, guided selflessly, and inspired effortlessly. Forever cherished, forever remembered, your beautiful spirit will continue to shine through us.

​Rest in peace, my beautiful cousin. Until we finally meet again on resurrection morning.

Sola Oresegun-Adekonojo

TRIBUTE TO A SUPER FRIEND.
Aijohi its so sad to know you left this world so suddenly without a word of good bye.
Aijohi is still feel like a dream to me that you have gone to be with the lord, though we cant question God.
I appreciate God for the life you lived, a peaceful, loving and God fearing life. You were a mother to your younger ones and taught them to be of good character.
The irreplaceable Aijohi you are one of the most transparent person I ever met.
The memories of the good times will forever linger
Your exit is painful but i take comfort in the fact that you are resting in the bosom of the lord..
Farewell Aijohi Ann Bose till we meet to part no more.
Kashi Ajakaiye

My dear Big Auntie, we didn’t have the chance to spend a lot of time together in this lifetime but the few times you spent with me as a kid and when I got older will stick with me for the rest of my days. I will miss you and typing this text is driving me to tears again. I know you are resting in the Bossom of God Almighty. Rest well from the chaos of this tumultuous world Big Sis. Your smile will forever remain in our hearts.

Hmmm....Aunty Bose your death came as a shocked to me,I can't still believe you are gone. We love you but
God loves you most....you will be forever in our heart.... keep resting on❤️❤️

"A SMILING WOMAN CALLED MRS AIJOHI BOSEDE OKHAWERE NEE IZEGAEGBE".
Without warning,without premonitions of danger,no sickness all we hear was GBUAAA & a Soul was gone forever.Like a thunder from the bluez the sad news of your death through a ghasly motor accident rented the air waves on May 8th 2026 announcing your sudden departure to the great beyond.What a sad news to behold.Your smiles were always there for all.You were kind hearted, amiable, easy going and always ready to give a helping hands when circumstances demanded it.You were a shining example of LOVE.In Benin City where you were the Treasurer of Otuo Union Benin City Branch your honesty and integrity was outstanding for all to emulate.Your was Leadership by Example. You came you saw and left behind an EXCELLENT NAME that would be difficult to forget.May your Gentle Soul Rest In Perfect Peace Amen.May Almighty God give our Family the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss Amen.Adiu Mrs Aijohi Bosede Okhawere Nee Izegaegbe the ever smilly Woman. Okhini Owheoooo
Uncle Idowu Otuogbai

Aunty Bose was more than an eldest aunty cousin to us, she was our mother hen, our protector, and a true peacemaker in the family. She carried everyone with love, wisdom, and kindness, always bringing unity and comfort wherever she went.
Her caring heart, gentle words, and selfless nature touched us all deeply. Though she is gone, her love and beautiful memories will forever remain in our hearts.
Rest well, dear Aunty Bose. You will always be loved and remembered.

I see a great height of submission for your husband, godly fear and wisdom of when to and how to speak when we first met at Afuze. It is highly worth emulating

Rest on Mummy. God loves you best than we do and of a sure, we know that he has the best reason for whatever he does. God bless your soul.

Arc. Ade

TRIBUTE TO MRS AIJOHI BOSE OKHAWERE.
It's with heavy heart that I received the news of your sudden departure from this mother earth. Up till now I cannot still comprehend that you're gone. Anty B, you were a rare gem, you were the backbone of the family, you brought everyone together in love and unity. May God in his infinite mercy grant you eternal rest. You will forever remain in my heart, farewell sis B.
From your cousin Gladys Izegaegbe

My heart is shattered, but I am so grateful to have called you my friend. Your vibrant spirit and infectious smiles touched so many of us. My visit to Nigeria 2024,,We hugged and laughed over our time in Edeki grammar school and time together in Benin. Called you on my way to work that morning of your death. You told me you were traveling with your husband to Afuze. Never knew that goodbye will be the last time to hear your voice. Your life was a blessing, and your memory a treasure, What is lovely never dies, but passes into another loveliness.
Goodbye for now my friend. Sleep well, May the winds of heaven blow softly and whisper in your ear just how much we miss you.

Tribute to a Rare Breed - Mrs Bose Aijohi Okhawere.
The news of your demise came to me as a rude shock.
You were a humble, loving, hospitable, kind and amiable person with a high sense of integrity and responsibility.
You were such a Hebrew Woman whose love for equity, justice, fairness and peace can not be over emphasized. Always smiling and at peace with everyone that cross your path. What can we say? We are humbly consoled by the fact that your soul is resting in the bossom of God.
Rest on Daughter of Zion....
Ayeni Steve Folorunsho.

Tribute to a Rare Breed - Mrs Bose Aijohi Okhawere.
The news of your demise came to me as a rude shock.
You were a humble, loving, hospitable, kind and amiable person with a high sense of integrity and responsibility.
You were such a Hebrew Woman whose love for equity, justice, fairness and peace can not be over emphasized. Always smiling and at peace with everyone that cross your path. What can we say? We are humbly consoled by the fact that your soul is resting in the bossom of God.
Rest on Daughter of Zion....
Ayeni Steve Folorunsho.

*To my dearest Aunty Aijohi*

*News of your passing came as a rude shock to me especially as we recently saw during my Dad's home going ceremony and as usual you were available and stood by us in everything,giving me motherly counsel as i stir the eldest daughter's ship*
*I may not have shown how much you meant to me in words but you sure was one of my favorite big sister, wearing your contagious smiles always, radiantly pleasant to the eyes*
*My heart is still heavy,roaming endlessly in quest for answers over your sudden demise but I take solace in the fact that you are in a better place now*
*Rest well ma till we meet on resurrection morning*.
*Your Cousin*
*Tina Ik-Mojekwu Nee Izegaegbe*

AND
The Sun Went Down, Sis B*

Sister Aijohi Bosede,
The sun went down and took you.
It didn not rise again, no matter how I prayed,
No matter how I cried for it to break through.
I know now that one cannot know
All the mysteries of life.
A time to be born, and a time to die.
You are already an angel in heaven,
Watching over us, your younger ones.
You did not leave us at Uselu, Benin.
You did notleave us at Kaduna.
You did not leave us at Abuja.
But just when you returned to Benin again thinking of how you would rest,
You ran away from us.

Who did you leave our mother for, sis?
You, the perfect fixer of everything.
Hmmm… who?
Me, Omoaho.
Who did you leave her for, your other siblings?

A day does not passing without her crying and calling your name *ubianenemeh* black beauty.
We will not hear these again:
*Afawehinyan*! *Me, nobody dey give me something oo* *una sabi settle una selves oo*
*Me na my own I dey talk. *We must do it together!*” you held the family together

Now you are gone, and I am left with the silence.
Sleep well, my lovely and kind sister.
Rest well, my fixer, my strength, my
confidant.
Till we meet on the resurrection morning,
I will hold your love and your voice in me.
Omoaho Ethel

Tribute to a beautiful soul in and out, Aunty Bose ✝️

Aunty Bose, your sudden departure came to me with a deep shock which I couldn't control the tears of my eyes, what a world❓hmmm.... Over 4 decades you have been a meek sister always full of laughter ever since I knew you.
When we both met as holiday makers in my big brother Kola's house in Lagos as a husband to your aunty Dare then, thereafter I became very close to you and all your younger ones, mom and entire family! With this strong relationship I have with you and your siblings. I remember how I was equally invited to spend few days with you in Benin when I was on vacation, just two weeks prior to your leaving this wicked earth your thoughts came into my mind and within myself I said I will give you a call, I was yet to call you when the news of your departure came to me, I am still battling with the shock, my encouragement came from the word of GOD, the Righteous is taken away suddenly, only HIM knows the reason! Sister mhen, may your beautiful soul rest in peace, till we meet at the resurrection morning, Koko...... 😭😭😭❤️. ... Your younger sister Gladys Olaitan Kanikwu

Good evening to
Make you na sorry ooo I am so sad but what can we do
Am so sorry

I miss you more than words can show. In quiet moments, soft and slow. I think of you in silence. . I often speak your name. All l have are memories and your picture in a frame. Even when you have gone, we can still look back and clearly see the trail you left behind? I always call you mama G.O. May your gentle soul rest in peace.

A Tribute to My Sister in-law turned sister.
It is often said that we do not choose our family, but in the case of aunty Bose, I feel that fate gave me a rare and beautiful gift. To the world, she was my sister in-law but to me, she was the sister I was lucky enough to claim, the one who stood by my side with a heart that knew no bounds.
Our bond was not defined by etiquette or the formalities of being sisters-in-law; it was forged in the real, messy, and wonderful moments of life. She was the steady compass in our family,the one who kept the dates we were too busy to remember, ensuring that no milestone passed uncelebrated.She would always show up for every occasion as long as she was invited.
She was our family’s official "paparazzi." Whether we were at a formal event or just a small family outing, she was always there, lens in hand, capturing the moments we might have otherwise missed. She wouldn’t just take the photos—she would follow up, constantly reminding us to share them, ensuring that our collective history was preserved. She believed that life was meant to be documented and celebrated, and she cared deeply that we all looked our best while doing it. She took such pride in our presentation because she genuinely believed in our value and wanted the world to see it too.
What I cherish most was her radical honesty. She never hesitated to scold me when I needed it and she would tell me the truth even when it stung because she cared more about my growth than my temporary comfort. She loved without a shred of resentment; She wanted everyone around her to be happy and she shared in our deepest sorrows and amplified our greatest joys with a sincerity that is hard to find.
With so much pain in my heart and tear in my eyes,Kai!!!you have left a vacuum in this family that no one can ever fill. You walked through this life with a grace and purpose that was uniquely yours, leaving behind a shoe that no one else can ever fit into. I will forever miss you, your persistent, loving reminders to capture the beauty in our days, and your voice of truth.
I am filled with gratitude that I had the privilege of walking this path with you. I will honor your memory by continuing to document the joy in our family, just as you taught us to do. Rest well, my dear sister. You are loved beyond words, and you are missed in every single moment. My tear can't stop rolling as I type this. I love you.

My beloved sister Aunty Bose, you were God sent to our family, At a very young age you shoulder the responsibility of our family, like a mother hen you protected and care for all your siblings ensuring no one is left behind until we were all grounded. You were selfless, you gave your all, your very best for our family. Now that it was time for your siblings to take good care of you, death took you away suddenly. The pain of your death is great, the suffering is even greater, your death left a vacuum that can never be filled. You taught me everything that I know, God used you to make me who I am and what I have become today. I remember leaving home as a young girl in 1990 after my secondary education to live with you in Kaduna. You provided for me, you instructed and led me to Christ, through your guidance and motherly role over my life, I never missed it in life. From Kaduna we moved to Abuja, under your watch I got married and had my children. The same love you had for me you transferred to my husband and children. No wonder, my husband fondly called you My Gee, the name that my children grew up to also call you. You will forever remain our Gee for life. You were a special breed, natural beauty unparalleled, intelligent, very caring, charming, generous, strong and selfless. I earnestly prayed for a miracle, that you will wake up from sleep but no. Your mother, your twin sister is asking questions, we have no answers. Aunty Bose, my sweet and beloved sister, of a true life will never remain the same again without you, NEVER. God be with you till we meet again in heaven.

*Tribute to Our Dear Sister Bose — Mrs. Aijohi Bose Okhaware*

Some souls come into a family and leave footprints that time can never erase. Sister Bose was one of them.

A beautiful black queen, graceful and full of life, she carried joy everywhere she went. In our youthful days, while I was still courting my husband, we attended disco parties together, and Sister Bose’s dance steps would light up the entire hall. She moved with rhythm, elegance, and a joy that was deeply contagious.

Yet beyond her vibrant smile was a woman of rare sacrifice and deep love for family. With the little she earned, she became a pillar to her siblings. Supporting, uplifting, and standing for them without hesitation. She gave selflessly, loved wholeheartedly, and carried everyone along.

Sister Bose had a special way of seeing into people’s hearts. Her advice came with wisdom, warmth, and sincerity. Her laughter brought comfort. Her presence brought peace.

Today, our hearts bleed. The void you have left can never truly be filled. It is too soon too painful especially leaving behind your aged mother whom you cherished so dearly. Tears fall endlessly as we struggle to accept this painful goodbye.

Mrs. Aijohi Bose Okhaware, thank you for the love you shared, the sacrifices you made, the light you carried, and the memories you gifted us. Your life was a blessing, and your memory will remain a treasure in our hearts forever.

Rest on, dear Sister Bose.
May your gentle and beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.

From your sister-in-law and friend, who will miss you deeply.
*Mercy Ojeabuo*

TRIBUTE TO MY LOVLY SISTER
Oh I which may 8th 2026 never came ! I cried I wish it was all dream you were so good to me, I could remember how you took care of me both financially and emotionally when I did my operation I stayed with you, you treated me like egg or will I talk about how you loved my kids you advise them pray for them and teach them the way of God, no single person has said anything bad about you, that’s how good you lived! I pray you rest well even though it hurt so much, we miss you and you will forever be remembered.

Aunty, your death came as a painful shock to us all. Thank you for your love, care, and the advice you always gave us. You will forever remain in our hearts, and your memories will never fade away. May your gentle soul rest peacefully in the hands of the Lord.

Your sudden departure broke our hearts deeply. You were a loving aunty who always wanted the best for everyone around you. Your kindness, advice, and beautiful memories will never be forgotten. Though tears cannot bring you back, we pray you rest peacefully in the hands of the Lord. Forever loved and greatly missed.

Oh “my big Mumy “as I always call you Your news of leaving this earth on May 8 came as a great shock to my heart. Since that day, it has been hard for me to accept that you are truly gone. You were not just my aunty, you were a blessing in my life, someone who always wanted the very best for me. You made sure I got the best education and never stopped advising and encouraging me to become a better person and strive for the best in everything I do.

Your love, kindness, care, and words of wisdom will forever remain in my heart. The memories we shared are priceless, and you didn’t even wait for me to graduate for you to see how your baby certificate turn out I never imagined a day would come when I would have to write a tribute for you. The pain of losing you is deep, and I realized that tears cannot bring you back, no matter how much I cry.

I pray that God grants you eternal rest and keeps you safe in His hands. Though you have left this earth, your impact, love, and beautiful memories will continue to live on in my heart forever. Rest peacefully, dear aunty. You will always be missed and forever loved.

was such a very caring soul whose sudden exit has left a hollow that can never be filled. She would be sorely missed. May her gentle soul find eternal rest in the bosom of the Lord, Adieu!

TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR SISTER MRS BOSE AIJOHI OKAHAWERE
Good night sisB Ayiti you never told me that may 8 will be the last time we will see , when you called me to think about my next line of action in respect to business instead of selling ponmo Shock and sorrow fill my heart to think of your departure from this world knowing all the struggles you went through to make me stand on my two feet, the love the love and care you showered on me,,l take comfort in assurance that your departure is heaven gain, you will always remain in my heart till meet to part no more Rest in peace.