Mrs Bose A Okhawere

Good evening to
Make you na sorry ooo I am so sad but what can we do
Am so sorry

I miss you more than words can show. In quiet moments, soft and slow. I think of you in silence. . I often speak your name. All l have are memories and your picture in a frame. Even when you have gone, we can still look back and clearly see the trail you left behind? I always call you mama G.O. May your gentle soul rest in peace.

A Tribute to My Sister in-law turned sister.
It is often said that we do not choose our family, but in the case of aunty Bose, I feel that fate gave me a rare and beautiful gift. To the world, she was my sister in-law but to me, she was the sister I was lucky enough to claim, the one who stood by my side with a heart that knew no bounds.
Our bond was not defined by etiquette or the formalities of being sisters-in-law; it was forged in the real, messy, and wonderful moments of life. She was the steady compass in our family,the one who kept the dates we were too busy to remember, ensuring that no milestone passed uncelebrated.She would always show up for every occasion as long as she was invited.
She was our family’s official "paparazzi." Whether we were at a formal event or just a small family outing, she was always there, lens in hand, capturing the moments we might have otherwise missed. She wouldn’t just take the photos—she would follow up, constantly reminding us to share them, ensuring that our collective history was preserved. She believed that life was meant to be documented and celebrated, and she cared deeply that we all looked our best while doing it. She took such pride in our presentation because she genuinely believed in our value and wanted the world to see it too.
What I cherish most was her radical honesty. She never hesitated to scold me when I needed it and she would tell me the truth even when it stung because she cared more about my growth than my temporary comfort. She loved without a shred of resentment; She wanted everyone around her to be happy and she shared in our deepest sorrows and amplified our greatest joys with a sincerity that is hard to find.
With so much pain in my heart and tear in my eyes,Kai!!!you have left a vacuum in this family that no one can ever fill. You walked through this life with a grace and purpose that was uniquely yours, leaving behind a shoe that no one else can ever fit into. I will forever miss you, your persistent, loving reminders to capture the beauty in our days, and your voice of truth.
I am filled with gratitude that I had the privilege of walking this path with you. I will honor your memory by continuing to document the joy in our family, just as you taught us to do. Rest well, my dear sister. You are loved beyond words, and you are missed in every single moment. My tear can't stop rolling as I type this. I love you.

My beloved sister Aunty Bose, you were God sent to our family, At a very young age you shoulder the responsibility of our family, like a mother hen you protected and care for all your siblings ensuring no one is left behind until we were all grounded. You were selfless, you gave your all, your very best for our family. Now that it was time for your siblings to take good care of you, death took you away suddenly. The pain of your death is great, the suffering is even greater, your death left a vacuum that can never be filled. You taught me everything that I know, God used you to make me who I am and what I have become today. I remember leaving home as a young girl in 1990 after my secondary education to live with you in Kaduna. You provided for me, you instructed and led me to Christ, through your guidance and motherly role over my life, I never missed it in life. From Kaduna we moved to Abuja, under your watch I got married and had my children. The same love you had for me you transferred to my husband and children. No wonder, my husband fondly called you My Gee, the name that my children grew up to also call you. You will forever remain our Gee for life. You were a special breed, natural beauty unparalleled, intelligent, very caring, charming, generous, strong and selfless. I earnestly prayed for a miracle, that you will wake up from sleep but no. Your mother, your twin sister is asking questions, we have no answers. Aunty Bose, my sweet and beloved sister, of a true life will never remain the same again without you, NEVER. God be with you till we meet again in heaven.

*Tribute to Our Dear Sister Bose — Mrs. Aijohi Bose Okhaware*

Some souls come into a family and leave footprints that time can never erase. Sister Bose was one of them.

A beautiful black queen, graceful and full of life, she carried joy everywhere she went. In our youthful days, while I was still courting my husband, we attended disco parties together, and Sister Bose’s dance steps would light up the entire hall. She moved with rhythm, elegance, and a joy that was deeply contagious.

Yet beyond her vibrant smile was a woman of rare sacrifice and deep love for family. With the little she earned, she became a pillar to her siblings. Supporting, uplifting, and standing for them without hesitation. She gave selflessly, loved wholeheartedly, and carried everyone along.

Sister Bose had a special way of seeing into people’s hearts. Her advice came with wisdom, warmth, and sincerity. Her laughter brought comfort. Her presence brought peace.

Today, our hearts bleed. The void you have left can never truly be filled. It is too soon too painful especially leaving behind your aged mother whom you cherished so dearly. Tears fall endlessly as we struggle to accept this painful goodbye.

Mrs. Aijohi Bose Okhaware, thank you for the love you shared, the sacrifices you made, the light you carried, and the memories you gifted us. Your life was a blessing, and your memory will remain a treasure in our hearts forever.

Rest on, dear Sister Bose.
May your gentle and beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.

From your sister-in-law and friend, who will miss you deeply.
*Mercy Ojeabuo*

TRIBUTE TO MY LOVLY SISTER
Oh I which may 8th 2026 never came ! I cried I wish it was all dream you were so good to me, I could remember how you took care of me both financially and emotionally when I did my operation I stayed with you, you treated me like egg or will I talk about how you loved my kids you advise them pray for them and teach them the way of God, no single person has said anything bad about you, that’s how good you lived! I pray you rest well even though it hurt so much, we miss you and you will forever be remembered.

Aunty, your death came as a painful shock to us all. Thank you for your love, care, and the advice you always gave us. You will forever remain in our hearts, and your memories will never fade away. May your gentle soul rest peacefully in the hands of the Lord.

Your sudden departure broke our hearts deeply. You were a loving aunty who always wanted the best for everyone around you. Your kindness, advice, and beautiful memories will never be forgotten. Though tears cannot bring you back, we pray you rest peacefully in the hands of the Lord. Forever loved and greatly missed.

Oh “my big Mumy “as I always call you Your news of leaving this earth on May 8 came as a great shock to my heart. Since that day, it has been hard for me to accept that you are truly gone. You were not just my aunty, you were a blessing in my life, someone who always wanted the very best for me. You made sure I got the best education and never stopped advising and encouraging me to become a better person and strive for the best in everything I do.

Your love, kindness, care, and words of wisdom will forever remain in my heart. The memories we shared are priceless, and you didn’t even wait for me to graduate for you to see how your baby certificate turn out I never imagined a day would come when I would have to write a tribute for you. The pain of losing you is deep, and I realized that tears cannot bring you back, no matter how much I cry.

I pray that God grants you eternal rest and keeps you safe in His hands. Though you have left this earth, your impact, love, and beautiful memories will continue to live on in my heart forever. Rest peacefully, dear aunty. You will always be missed and forever loved.

was such a very caring soul whose sudden exit has left a hollow that can never be filled. She would be sorely missed. May her gentle soul find eternal rest in the bosom of the Lord, Adieu!

TRIBUTE TO MY DEAR SISTER MRS BOSE AIJOHI OKAHAWERE
Good night sisB Ayiti you never told me that may 8 will be the last time we will see , when you called me to think about my next line of action in respect to business instead of selling ponmo Shock and sorrow fill my heart to think of your departure from this world knowing all the struggles you went through to make me stand on my two feet, the love the love and care you showered on me,,l take comfort in assurance that your departure is heaven gain, you will always remain in my heart till meet to part no more Rest in peace.

There are people life gives you… and there are people heaven sends to stand in the gap when life feels incomplete.

Aunty Bose Aijohi Okhawere (Izegeagbe), you have been more than a cousin to me. You have been my mother when I had none, my comfort in silent moments, my adviser when I was confused, and my strength when I felt weak.

You didn’t just care for me you stood for me. You filled spaces that could never be replaced, and you did it with love, patience, and sacrifice.

I may not say it every day, but my heart knows what you mean to me. Thank you for being my safe place, my guide, and my family in the deepest sense of the word.

I celebrate you today and always. You are truly a blessing in my life. ❤️

Big mummy, this is still like a dream to me.. people like you are meant to be immortals you not suppose to live the world like that…. Not the fact that you died but how you died oh you were just to good and loving to die that way but at the end who are we to question God… we miss u everyday every minute, your beautiful smile is something we would never forget all the love you have shown us care and most importantly how you have made knowing God important to us all.. rest well and watch over us all as our angel, we love you so much but God loves you even more.

My beloved friend and sister. This is the most shocking news of the year! I still can't accept the fact that you have gone. Why so soon? If only we could change times. i would have not allowed you go on hat deadly trip! Ha! Bose.... you are the only Erson who calls me Duhe (duhay) Hausa pronunciation for Dupe.
We were young , early 20's in Kaduna. The bond we shared all those years carried us to adulthood.
We introduce ourselves to visitors as cousins because we believe we were more than friends.
A petite, kind hearted, cute, intelligent and gracious personality.
You touched lives so effortlessly. Whenever we had chance to speak, you always greet me in Otuo language as you wanted to connect with my roots always. who will teach me now?
Rest on. my sister my friend until we meet at eternity. Grateful you met Jesus That's my only consolation.

Deeply missed by me and all my siblings, it's like a dream😭

My beautiful loving and caring sister, we're left with your smile asleep in our memories, you will forever be my always beautiful as a bright shining star, goodbye is not the end it simple means I will miss you until we meet again. Rest among the angles dear sister till we meet to part no more.

IN LOVING MEMORY OF A BEAUTIFUL SOUL, MY BELOVED SISTER AUNTY BOSE
My beloved sister Aunty Bose, you were more than a sister, a mother, a confidant, a source of strength and inspiration, a shinning light in our family. One accident, on the 8th of May 2026 changed the dynamics of our family forever leaving our hearts shattered and broken into pieces never to remain the same again. The pain of losing you is deep, deeper than I can imagine, I am not certain if I will ever heal from it. Words are not enough to express the magnitude of sadness, anguish, and misery I feel everyday since the news of your death. We spoke at length two days before the tragic accident and just like a flash you left without saying goodbye. I will miss you is an understatement, you may be gone but never forgotten, the memories we shared will always remain with me. My beloved sister, you were beautiful inside and out, your smile lighten up every everywhere you went, your love, kindness and beautiful spirit touched many lives and will never be forgotten. You fought your battles with grace and lived a life of love and dignity. Your legacy of kindness, strength and generosity will continue to inspire me. Heaven has gained a beautiful soul, farewell my beloved sister, may God be with you till we meet again on resurrection morning at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ. YOU ARE FOREVER LOVED AND FOREVER REMEMBERED.

Your dear sister Olore

TRIBUTE TO MY FIXER MY LOVE, AIJOHI BOSEDE OKHAWERE NEE IZEGAEGBE
You were to visit mum and I in Lagos 13th of May 2026 as you decided to stay with Mum for a while. You told me to make a list of things for you to buy. When I sent it, you asked me to add more. I laughed and replied, _“Just buy the whole world when you’re coming,”_ never imagining those would be my last words to you.
That was who you were: selfless, generous, devoted, obedient, kind without limits.
There isn’t a single person who met you who could say anything bad. You touched lives and left your mark on every heart.
In that same spirit you met your untimely death.
I don't even know where to start from and where to end; Since secondary school days you made your mark in my life. You always made sure I had books to read, clothes so that I would be comfortable and other good things of life. I had strength in you, you were my backbone. Your boy you trained to stop using "I don't know" is also crying missing you. Sis, why did you leave us like this? Not even a good bye, I cried so I could Speak with you on the 8th of May 2027 but alas the pains didn't allow you to speak with me hhmmm I am broken sis and shattered. Your voice echoing everyday "Muaho! muaho! how is mummy?, have you eaten?, what did you eat ? Is silent haaaa sis you didn't do well ooo. You just left like that sis. It is well as I can't question God. May your soul find rest in the bosom of the Lord.
Adieu, my dear sister. My tears will never run dry till we meet again on the resurrection morning.
I love you dearly sis.