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Obituary
In Loving Memory of Motunrayo Opeyemi Afuwape
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved Tunrayo, who departed this life on March 2nd 2024. Tunrayo a cherished soul left an indelible mark on the hearts of all who knew her. As many have said, she exhibited truly what it means to be Christlike and love thy neighbor. Born on 5th March 1973, Tunrayo lived a life filled with love, compassion and dedication. She was a devoted sister, sibling, aunt, wife, mentor, colleague and friend whose warmth and generosity touched everyone fortunate enough to be in her presence.
Tunrayo's journey was one of resilience and grace. She ran her race of life with dignity, a quiet strength and an unwavering faith in the Lord Almighty that inspired those around her. Her positive spirit and enduring smile as a beacon of hope in times of darkness.
Tunrayo was not only a pillar of support for her family, friends and loved ones but also a beacon within her community. She found joy in the simple pleasures of life, Whether spending time with loved ones, her brothers, nieces, and nephews,friends extending helping hand to those in need or at Sunday in church she radiated love and warmth. Tunrayo lived well, loved Jesus and served him to the end
Let us celebrate the profound impact she had on our lives. In honoring Tunrayo's memory, let us strive to carry forward the love, generosity and strength that defined her remarkable journey,
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations below in her memory. May Tunrayo's soul rest in external peace and may her memory continue to inspire and uplift us all.
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THIS IS TO SAY A HUGE THANK YOU FROM OUR FAMILY FOR YOUR PRAYERS, KINDNESS, SUPPORT AND STEADFASTNESS DURING THIS DIFFICULT PHASE OF OUR LIVES.
WE ARE VERY GRATEFUL FOR THE GIFTOF YOU AND PRAY THAT GOD BLESSES, KEEPS AND HONOURS YOU
THE KASSIM FAMILY
As the burial date for our Tunrayo draws closer, the family expresses its gratitude for every support received through visitations, messages, tributes, financial etc.
Burial arrangements are as follows:
Date: Tuesday 2nd April 2024
Time: 11am start
Venue: Alive Church Lincoln Central, Newland, Lincoln LN1 1XG).
Pls note that there are a few Alive church centres in Lincoln but you need the Central centre, so note postcode pls.
Interment follows after the church service at Long Leys Cemetery Lincoln LN1 1EQ..Celebration of Life by 6pm at the same Alive church venue .
For virtual attendance through YouTube, the links to join are as follows:
Burial Programme https://youtube.com/live/2YyZc8GAWs8 Celebration of life - https://youtube/liveQhEn96h3dz4
The family has kindly asked that people do NOT wear black please!
I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone who has donated towards the burial, every donation received so far has been given to the family and they will be expressing their thanks in due course to all those who donated but whose contact details I do not have so I could have thanked them personally. Every donation made makes and will make a difference, so please if you still wish to donate, I encourage you to do so, every little helps and adds up. Please see account details for donations:
For UK - Account name A Johnson, Sort code - 110472, Account number 00221046.
For Nigeria - Account name - Abayomi Kassim. Account number - 0007041146 (GT Bank).
Thank you all, God bless.
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We are very grateful for the gift of you and pray that God blesses, keeps, and honours you.
The Kassim Family
I last saw you when you returned from the United States …the kitchen well stocked up with food ingredients… you had plans for the year .
Your eyes filled with tears as we talked .😢expressing your aching heart .
I left with a bowl of Tilapia / yam pepper soup for your uncle and I . ( uncle mi nko ? you usually enquire.
You bought baby gifts for our granddaughter Motunrayo’ your namesake.
Loving 💚, hardworking, large hearted, generous, lover of God and His people… always signposting people to Him .
He was your soul Anchor .
We have strengthening assured comforting Hope 🙏🏽
Now at rest with the Lover of your soul .
Until the resurrection morning sweetheart .😘🙏🏽✝️❤️✝️❤️🙏🏽




Gone but never forgotten,
You came into our lecture room ( always 10 minutes late but this was endearing) full of life and smiles.
I will forever remember your presentation where you stretched the time out for the team and had us all in fits of giggles.
Your infectious smile and love for bright colours ✨️
We will make you proud Ayo, and will continue this journey for you! 🎓
Thank-you for the time we spent together ❤️ the prayer around our resubmission table.🙏
Lots of love,
Terri 💖
Motunrayo wasn't just friendly, she carried a deep faith that shone through in her interactions. Her kindness wasn't just courtesy, it stemmed from a genuine love for others and a desire to see the good in the world.
We'll all remember [fond memory of classmate] - a testament to the positive impact she had on our lives. Her faith was a guiding light, and we take comfort knowing she rests peacefully in God's embrace.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to [classmate's name]'s family during this difficult time. May the memories of her beautiful spirit bring them solace.
We may no longer see her smile in person, but the warmth of her friendship and the strength of her faith will forever be a part of our class memories.
Motunrayo you are more than just a schoolmate; you are a beacon of kindness and warmth to everyone who encountered you. Your infectious smile could brighten even the darkest of days, and your genuine compassion touched the lives of countless individuals.
You had a unique gift for seeing the best in others and spreading positivity wherever you went. Whether it was a comforting word, a listening ear, or a simple act of kindness, Motunrayo, you made it your mission to uplift those around you and make the world a better place.
Your presence brought a sense of unity and camaraderie to our Old Students' community. You were the one who brought people together, bridging gaps and forging lasting friendships that transcended the classroom walls.
Though you may no longer walk among us, your spirit lives on in the memories we hold dear. We will forever cherish the laughter shared, the conversations had, and the moments of joy you brought into our lives.
As we bid farewell to our beloved friend, let us take solace in the knowledge that her legacy of love and compassion will endure for generations to come. May your gentle soul find eternal peace, and may your memory continue to inspire acts of kindness and goodwill in our hearts.
Rest in peace, dear Motunrayo Afuwape. You will be deeply missed, but your light will forever guide us through the darkest of days.
You are resting in a better place with our loving father.
Tunrayo and I lived in the same street way back in Lagos in the 80s. She was the Head Girl and I was the Head Boy or Senior Prefect in our High School. We were like brother and sister, we had many things in common.
She was a very likable and easy going person. Most importantly, she feared and loved God. I'm happy that she remained faithful till the end. Rest well my dear sister. We shall meet again.

Motunrayo Opeyemi Temidayo is my darling Sister from another mother!
Starting out as church members, then neighbours and finally metamorphosing into Sisters...
I guess we were destined to be so, as we were both from only girl families and so found a common sorority😊
Mummy BT shared so many stories of your childhood with me, just like my Mom did with you too and you were such a sweet daughter to her.
You were 'Mummy Tunrayo' to my kids who you spoiled silly at every opportunity! You had cared for them long before they were born and then we took care of them together after their arrival in the world. They have fond memories of their custom-made birthday cakes, especially for their first year and even the one who wasn't born by the time you left for UK also joined them to love you to bits❤️
You were a Mother Hen par excellence, especially to your brothers and their families and you were indubitably and unquestionably, a loyal and loving wife till you breathed your last.
It was so normal for you to let me know the instant something was amiss with any aspect of your life, that I felt you should have at least hinted me of your impending departure, but this your death was a cannonball that I never saw coming and it hit me right where it hurts the most😭
My greatest source of comfort is that you loved God passionately and served him heartily, faithfully and with dispatch, bidding many to join you to do the same💃🏾
My dear Sis Tuns, till we meet to part no more, you can be sure I'm looking forward to our meeting again at the Pearly Gates.
Indeed, "you're ending up with far more children than all those childbearing women." God says so! (Isaiah 54:1b MSG)
Ayoyemi Ezebune
I’m not surprised it was “your boy” who was the one chosen to see you out of my children the last time you came home! Even I didn’t get the honour🥲

”Those who live good lives find peace and rest in death.“ Isaiah 57:2 GNBUK
Tunrayo, still many chats, unfinished decisions and discussions that we promised to have after your 51st birthday and at your next visit. God has however allowed you to go behind the scenes of this world. Tunrayo, you have decided to take a leap with year 2024 and you have taken a victorious and most senior step ahead all of us. It’s still very hard and unbelievable though, but we must submit to the will of our Unquestionable God who remains faithful in all situations.
My dear sister and friend I have decided to celebrate your good life rather than focus on what never happened because your Creator loves you more. You will forever be in my heart ❤️ Sleep well my Lovely, until we meet to part no more at the feet of the Master.
”The righteous … are taken away to be spared from evil. Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they lie in death.“Isaiah 57:1-2 NIVUK
I will miss you ‘Tunrayo, you are one of the most supportive friend I have. So supportive that she was willing to give whatever she had materially as well as give of herself. She was hospitable making everyone feel welcomed in her presence. Tunrayo was gentle and had a soft spoken nature. It was on rare occasions that you witnessed her anger. She had an enviable ability to see the good in others, even when it is obvious this person is not as good as she thought, Tunrayo will give likely reasons why it is appearing so at the time.
Darling friend, I will miss you and it is my prayer that Jehovah in his mercy remembers you for good and resurrect you in his Kingdom so that we shall meet again and continue this friendship that started more than 30 years ago.
May Jehovah also grant your brothers the strength to bear this pain and the gap that your departure will leave in their lives.
Rest on darling friend.



Ayo fought the good fight, finished the race, and kept the faith.
May the Lord strengthen (comfort and heal) us all in our innermost being, through His Holy Spirit as we grieve her sudden departure to Glory.
(2Timothy 4:7 & Ephesians 3:16)🙏🏽
This is one of the most difficult things I have had to write. More difficult than all my life's exams. How do I say farewell to someone I have known for 32years, my friend, my sister, my confidante, my partner in God's kingdom? I met you in my first year at the university as my sister from another mother and we have been friends since.
Your sudden departure was a shock and hurt so bad. However, it was not a shock to the Lord who works all things out for the good of those who love Him. Your love and passion for God was exemplary and was shown even in the way you served the churches and many people. I am priviledged to have known you this long and to have spent life with you without any conflict. Your imprints will forever live on in our lives, mine, your family and the many children you left behind. I have so many happy pictures of us that I am happy you insisted we took (pix mama). Yet, so many dreams, itinerary and pending aspirations that will now be fulfilled in the new world.
Enjoy this Easter break up there, my sister. Ironically I have been staring at the Easter picture we took at Kingsgate and thought about resurrection. God's timing for you is unquestionable. You have now been resurrected in Christ Jesus and I look forward to the day we will all meet together again at the feet of Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour, where there will be no more sorrow, no more sickness, no more death and no more pain.
Do you remember when you walked through that gate in Lincoln and I watched your backview as you left, saying you have passed through the valley of shadow of death and feared no evil because God was with you? We laughed but how true that is today!
Gen 5:24 now echoes for me - "Motunrayo walked with God, and she is no more on this earth, she has passed from death to life, because the Lord took her."
Grateful to God for a life you well spent.
Goodnight my friend.
Love always,
Tolu
















Love you babe xxx Mandy


Continue to sleep on and tight until we meet again
Tunrayo may you find perfect rest in the bosom of the Lord. May God grant your entire family the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss. Opeyemi rest on till we all meet to part no more at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ.
I got to know who you are through Jumoke Johnson, your special egbon.
We were last together at Ascot in June 2023. We mingled together and had a good time. You sat next to me for afternoon tea. Who would have known that would be the last time I would see you or that you only had a few months left. Can't question God as I'd like to as only he knows best. Who am I to say WHY?
You're such a wonderful person and know how you loved your maker. He took you because he loves you more than we do. Albeit the circumstances hurts but he knows best.
Rest in his bossom as surely the angels are rejoicing. You have left a vacuum here on earth but the Lord almighty will comfort us all.
Rest In Peace my lovely.


Motunrayo!!!
Motunrayo!!!
What a Beautiful Name.
My Daughter, My Sister,
My Friend.
Why Now Why Why----Hey Who am I to Say Why. The All Knowing God is at Work. Tunrayo l Thank God For Your Life, it is Painful You Have To Leave Us Now---
Thank God For Everything, Tunrayo The "Mama"With No Dull Moment Am Missing You ---Our Gists And Your Promises, Am Happy You Are Resting ln God's Bossom.
Motunrayo!!!
Motunrayo!!!
Motunrayo!!! . I Love You Rest ln Perfect Peace,
My Dear Sister.

Darling of Jesus, you didn't only love Jesus, you were forever inviting others to join you love Him. Promoter of good news, carrier of glory. Life dished to you all manners of pain, but you laughed through them all- YOU TRUSTED, COMMITTED, LOYAL TO YOUR GOD UNTIL THE VERY END. NOTHING SEPARATED MOTUNRAYO FROM THE LOVE OF CHRIST.The more the pressure, the more you loved, sought & served Him! You were a great example to all. To know you is to love you. Mot, Mot you are now at rest, never to be separated from your Father God. Never to be touched by wickedness again. BUT it is so difficult to say good bye. My hands on your chest, Modupe holding your hands, your brother holding your feet, you opened your eyes for the last time, l felt breath living you, like a person getting out of the train, you left! I ignored my nursing cap( because l knew it was that last breath) l called Modupe's attention, believing, trusting for sign of life, hoping desperately that you were back to life. Alas! You were gone! How can l even write RIP on your photos, how can l address you in the past tense? You were part of our life. We are inconsolable! But you know what, the God our Father can do all things. Sleep on Motunrayo.
“Neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord”

This is a rude shock to me.
You left without a word, but God loves you best.
It’s very hard to put words down but can only say who are we to question God.
Rest well Aburo. Though we are deeply saddened we have to part ways here on earth, your legacy, spirit and laughter live on.
Adieu Tunrayo
I first met Ayo in 2018 at our university interview day and we said hello to each other. I can’t still picture your beautiful smile. We were the only two black among the group of candidates. You turned round and told me, it is well my sister. We both got through and started our course together. I can still picture our crying , our sleepless nights going through our assignments and anytime we pass we celebrate our success together.
Ayo we’re not just a friend and colleague but a sister. I leant a lot from you. Your dedication and love for God, was extraordinary. You were always a shoulder for me to cry on. You always encouraged me to have faith and never give up. II remember every Saturday the phone calls asking me to come to church with you on Sundays. Our chats and phone calls. You show me true friendship..Our promise to each other to visit each other countries ( Ghana and Nigeria). I can’t come to terms that you are gone without us achieving our promises.
I will forever cherish our friendship. It is with a heavy heart , deep sadness to say farewell my beautiful friend. Sleep well till we meet again






Sister Motunrayo
I have known
You as a sister (aburo mi) a colleague specialist caterer event planner and recently a confidant
You were hard working kind generous honest and dependable bringing sunshine wherever you went to friends patients and colleagues
You have laboured here on earth Sis and fought the good fight 💪
Words fail us but God loves you more
Rest in His Eternal blossom Our beloved 🙏
Ropo Gloria Ojo

The turn of events and your absence leaves a void in our lives that words can barely express. We find solace in the belief that you are now resting in the bosom of the Lord.
I vividly recall our first meeting at Immanuel’s baby dedication. You approached me with a warm smile, introducing yourself as a member of our Lifegroup, offering your help without hesitation. That moment showcased the essence of your spirit—always ready to assist, bringing beauty and order effortlessly. You didn’t just find the table for the cake (bringing it down from my room); you transformed it into a centrepiece of the celebration, a testament to your innate talent and generous heart. Since then, your culinary skills have graced many of our family gatherings, etching your signature dishes, especially your renowned moi moi, which even my brother in Nigeria knows. Your ability to create connection and community through your cooking was nothing short of magical.
In addition to your culinary prowess, we remember your kindness and friendliness as pillars of your character. A friendly face, a warm hug, and a photo after church services became cherished rituals, reminders of the light you brought into our lives. As we navigate this world without your physical presence, we hold on to the bright spark of your spirit. May your smile, as radiant as ever, illuminate the heavens as it did our lives here on earth.
Rest in peace, my dear friend, in the comforting arms of the Lord. Your legacy of love, warmth, and generosity continues to inspire us all.
Love Uzo


I am still in shock and I have not stopped crying because each time I close my eyes I see you. Maybe because you breathe your last breath in my arms or because of the wonderful moments we’ve shared. Your presence is all over our house. The plant you gave Olakunle and me on our wedding anniversary is on my kitchen window and it brings sweet memories of our life together each time I look at it.
I can never get over your departure I can only live with it for the rest of my life till we meet at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ
I thank God for the life well spent in Christ, your love for God and people was undeniable. You were a woman of inestimable value. Everyone who encountered you encountered grace and you left an indelible mark in my heart and these are what I will cherish till I see you and we part no more. Sun re òré mi òwón. 💟
Modupe Olakunle- Olabode

I am still in shock and I have not stopped crying because each time I close my eyes I see you. Maybe because you breathe your last breath in my arms or because of the wonderful moments we’ve shared. Your presence is all over our house. The plant you gave Olakunle and me on our wedding anniversary is on my kitchen window and it brings sweet memories of our life together each time I look at it.
I can never get over your departure I can only live with it for the rest of my life till we meet at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ
I thank God for the life well spent in Christ, your love for God and people was undeniable. You were a woman of inestimable value. Everyone who encountered you encountered grace and you left an indelible mark in my heart and these are what I will cherish till I see you and we part no more. Sun re òré mi òwón. 💟
Modupe Olakunle- Olabode

I am still in shock and I have not stopped crying because each time I close my eyes I see you. Maybe because you breathe your last breath in my arms or because of the wonderful moments we’ve shared. Your presence is all over our house. The plant you gave Olakunle and me on our wedding anniversary is on my kitchen window and it brings sweet memories of our life together each time I look at it.
I can never get over your departure I can only live with it for the rest of my life till we meet at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ
I thank God for the life well spent in Christ, your love for God and people was undeniable. You were a woman of inestimable value. Everyone who encountered you encountered grace and you left an indelible mark in my heart and these are what I will cherish till I see you and we part no more. Sun re òré mi òwón. 💟
Modupe Olakunle- Olabode



I am still in shock and I have not stopped crying because each time I close my eyes I see you. Maybe because you breathe your last breath in my arms or because of the wonderful moments we’ve shared. Your presence is all over our house. The plant you gave Olakunle and me on our wedding anniversary is on my kitchen window and it brings sweet memories of our life together each time I look at it.
I can never get over your departure I can only live with it for the rest of my life till we meet at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ
I thank God for the life well spent in Christ, your love for God and people was undeniable. You were a woman of inestimable value. Everyone who encountered you encountered grace and you left an indelible mark in my heart and these are what I will cherish till I see you and we part no more. Sun re òré mi òwón. 💟
Modupe Olakunle- Olabode



I am still in shock and I have not stopped crying because each time I close my eyes I see you. Maybe because you breathe your last breath in my arms or because of the wonderful moments we’ve shared. Your presence is all over our house. The plant you gave Olakunle and me on our wedding anniversary is on my kitchen window and it brings sweet memories of our life together each time I look at it.
I can never get over your departure I can only live with it for the rest of my life till we meet at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ
I thank God for the life well spent in Christ, your love for God and people was undeniable. You were a woman of inestimable value. Everyone who encountered you encountered grace and you left an indelible mark in my heart and these are what I will cherish till I see you and we part no more. Sun re òré mi òwón. 💟
Modupe Olakunle- Olabode



I would never forget your welcoming smile the first time we met and the love for others that radiated around you. You were an amazing person.
Adieu Aunty Tunrayo.
I would never forget your welcoming smile the first time we met and the love for others that radiated around you. You were an amazing person.
Adieu Aunty Tunrayo.
1 Corinthians 15: 54-55 ‘’ When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: “Death has been swallowed up in victory. Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?”
Adieu, Tunrayo. You loved and served God, you loved and served God’s people. You lived well!
I thank God for your Sweet infectious smiles, your gentleness, your calmness.
I sincerely bless God for your life of simplicity.
You will be highly missed, sleep on my Sis.
Adieu Sis.
I thank God for your Sweet infectious smiles, your gentleness, your calmness.
I sincerely bless God for your life of simplicity.
You will be highly missed, sleep on my Sis.
Adieu Sis.
I thank God for your Sweet infectious smiles, your gentleness, your calmness.
Rest on my Sis, you will be highly missed.
Adieu Sis.
I thank God for your Sweetness, your gentleness, your calmness, your sweet infectious smiles.
Rest on my Sis, you will be highly missed.
Adieu Sis.
I thank God for your Sweetness, your gentleness, your calmness, your sweet infectious smiles.
Rest on my Sis, you will be highly missed.
Adieu Sis.
I thank God for your Sweetness, your gentleness, your calmness, your sweet infectious smiles.
Rest on my Sis, you will be highly missed.
Adieu Sis.
I thank God for your Sweetness, your gentleness, your calmness, your sweet infectious smiles.
Rest on my Sis, you will be highly missed.
Adieu Sis.




















Me and Amelia will miss seeing you at church
Me and Amelia will miss seeing you at church

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