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Michael Leonard von Zuben

MarMarch 31st, 1941 DecDecember 12th, 2025
620 Eowyn Lane, Bowen Island
Michael Leonard von Zuben

Obituary

It is with great sadness that we share the passing of our dearly beloved, Michael (Mike) Leonard von Zuben. His love for life, his family and friends and the natural world was keen to the end.


Mike leaves daughter Lea and son-in-law David (Wiljer), grandchildren Ellis and Emily (Wiljer), Chris and Elizabeth (von Zuben) and their mother Elaine (Tufford), sister Pat and brother-in-law John (Sears), and brother and sister-in law Den and Carol (Cotter), nieces Lori (Green) and Teri (McKinnon) and nephews Rick and Brad (Cotter). He will join late wife Judi and son Michael.

Mike’s friendships were strong and true, evident when he returned to BC after living many years away in Calgary, Montreal, Toronto, Brussels and Stouffville, and so easily reconnected with many from his early years. Lasting friendships from his time in Ontario and Belgium had continued to bless him too. After the untimely death of his beloved wife Judi he was able to open his heart and form new bonds to live a fulfilled life, with love, travel and meaningful connections, including Kathleen Scales and others.

Mike’s legacy includes his tremendous efforts to restore the salmon runs on Bowen Island, including his presidency of the Bowen Island Fish and Wildlife Club for many years. His and others longtime efforts have been paying off, with the salmon returning more and more plentifully, and thus the Orcas being more present and the Sea Lions returning for their bachelor parties, up from California. His promise to wife Judi to ‘help the salmon’ has been fulfilled.

https://bowenhatchery.org


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A celebration of life will be held in West Vancouver, on March 1, 2026, from 10am to 1pm at the Gleaneagles Clubhouse - please see below near bottom of page for more details and directsion.

Please add your photos and memories on the 'Memory Wall' below!  Also, suggestions/corrections/additions for the 'Timeline' are appreciated (email lea - lwiljer@gmail.com).  (more Timeline to come... working on it)

We would like to express our thanks to all those that supported Mike and brought him joy and peace, including family, friends, and his wonderful care team.  Special thanks to Lily (GCCH), Patience (Willow) and to Pamela and Andrea for their bright, cheerful attitute and tireless dedication to Mike, above and beyond any duty.  

Timeline

1941
March 31st
A Star Is Born
Mike graced us all with his birth, to loving parents Dorothy and Len. Aunt Mart was thrilled! I wasn't there but I'm sure it was joyous.
St. Paul's Hospital, Vancouver
1951
Young troublemaker
I imagine he was precocious and too cocky.  Those who were there can verify, please 
West Vancouver, Pauline Johnson Public School
1955
Snowfooling
Family and friends good times in the Hollyburn Mountain cabin, and skiing Cyprus.  Foreshadowing his future love... 
Hollyburn Mountain
1957
Prankster
'Mick' and his freinds roam loose in West Van.  Stories of pranks, such as the poop in the bag on fire on someone's porch, or the miming of a tug of war across a road with car coming.  Dangerous?  Shocking?
Loose on the streets of West Vancouver
1959
Oops
Mike skiis over a girl's brand new, powder blue skiis and guiltily runs (slides) away.  Girl knows his sister though, and rings him up.  Rather than getting an earful, he gets asked out to the school dance.  How can he refuse?  Meet Judi :)
Cyprus Mountain
1960
UBC
Mike attends UBC and gets a degree in Math.  He tried for architecture, but fled after building a structure out of paper that was supposed to support a brick - his hopes and structure crushed. (Prof. dropped a concrete block on it - yikes - that's what you call 'make em by breaking em' teaching tequnique)  Math was perhaps more up his alley.
More skiing of course, Mick and Judi travel with Peter Scholefield and Heather Scott in Peter’s 1947 Chevrolet to Vernon to join others on a ski holiday at SilverStar Mountain
1963
December 28th
Union
Wedding Day - Christmas theme with red velvet dresses and snow - all of which Judi made herself.  Mike found lasting love that was sustained throughout his life. She was a catch! 
West Vancouver United Church (I think)
1966
Calgary
Employed after UBC at IBM, offered a move to Calgary, where Mike's 2 children were born.  Wasn't there long enough to adopt a funny hat and a western drowl though.  Still close to the mountains, so pretty ok.
1968
Montreal
Another IBM relocation - don't know much except that I (Lea) had a furry pink coat.
1970
Toronto (Scarborough)
Another relocation!
1972
Belgium (Brussels)
Yet again, IBM relocation.  This one was a real opportunity for the fam to experience different cultures, travel, languge, and I believe the job was also quite the promotion.  Mike was thrown into the deep end and swam beautifully.  Somehow in 3 years he also took his family to England, Scotland, Ireland, France, Spain, Portugal, Italy, Switzerland, Austria, Germany, Croatia, Greece, Norway, Denmark Sweden, the Netherlands....  wow!  Camping, skiing (of course), landscapes, cities, oceans... Perhaps this is when Mike became the No.1 Tour Guide, and the birth of 'von Zuben Tours'.... Freindship with John and Freida Bristow (from Enland but working in Brussels too) carried forward through the years.  
1975
Back to Toronto - temporarily
Same house (was rented out for 3 years) where Mike discovered his tenant had drunk all his homemade wine stored in the crawlspace.  Judi starts work on 'dream home' design for property north of the city. Design is inspired by West Coast houses, of course.
1976
Stouffville
Mike moves the family into newly built, cedar siding home, with a commute to the city for work.  Finally stopped moving and settled into country life, on his overgrown Christmas Tree farm (mostly Scotch Pine).  Braving the mosquitoes in the summer for walks in the woods and cross country skiing the new fav passtime.  UBC pal Peter Scholefield and wife Heather also in Ontario during this time, with the families spending time together and in the great outdoors.  Kids attend local schools (Ballantrae Public and Stouffville Secondary School) and get thoroughly 'Ontarioized'. IBM friends/neighbours Harry Howes and Bill Hone loomed large.  Canine companions Muffin and Maggie called this home, both of whom Mike pretended not to care for but when he thought no one was looking he'd cozy up and pass them treats. Lea takes advantage of country life and wrangles horses into the equation, while Michael (junior) takes to dirt bikes and snowmobiles.  Mike didn't complain toooo much.  Came down with the boating itch at this time, first boat being a 25' Glastron with flying bridge - moored in Lake Simcoe and traversing the Trent-Severn system, with first mate Judi and motley crew of teenagers and doggos.  Somehow a pool gets built in the hill facing the house as well.  At a cetain moment the Glastron gets traded in for a 38' Trawler (the 'Manana') situated in the British Virgin Islands, supposed to pay for itself with charters, but you know what they say about boats....  Yearly trips to the BVI's with family and friends pretty 'hard to take', but Mike discovers 'painkillers' with BVI rum (which won't make you go blind!)  20 years fly by!  Time flys when you're having fun.
1990
1 gone, 1 to go
Son Michael marries Elaine Tufford, with a beautiful reception in the gardens' of the Tuffords' home.  Michael is running his 'MicroTrek' business, too smart too need any help from his dad...  
1993
First Grandchild
Christopher von Zuben, the favourite (hard to beat being 1st)
1994
Retirement - new beginnings
IBM downsizing was an early retirement opportunity that provided new freedom!  Working with son Michael's business, in a bike shop (tuning up bikes!) with Ian Boyd, and more time for cruising the BVI's, drinking 'painkillers', scoping out mountain biking trails, and contemplating his navel.  Good balance of physical activity, brain activity and total relaxation!  "Sure Is Hard To Take", says Mike - Judi agrees.
(Judi is diagnosed and treated for breast cancer, a reminder to live life to the fullest)
1995
2nd one gone
Lea marries David Wiljer, in a mixed up ceremony at home remniscent of '4 Weddings and a Funeral'.  Mike generously gives David a chance to opt out but is secretely relieved when David goes ahead.  Preparations for the wedding were laborious but the result was beautiful despite the rain. 
1996
Capitan, oh my capitan
2nd grandchild, Elizabeth von Zuben is born, cuter than her brother, and so quiet - a real plus for Mike.

House is sold, possessions dispersed/stored, and Mike and Judi prepare to live on the high seas.  Time spent on the boat in the BVI's before making the crossing to Miami. Judi passes on 1st Mate position to Bill Hone, given the stories about real life pirates attacking boats making the crossing - Bill and Mike join with others for safety.  Boat is shipped from Miami to Seattle and then after some (expensive) 'fixing' Mike and Judi capitan it up to Vancouver and spend the next 4 years living on the boat.  Summers entailed cruising to Alaska, exploring the Fiords and inlets, living off the ocean and making new friends. Kayaking next to glaciers and up close and personal with the whales. Winters meant being moored, in Vancouver's False Creek, in Halfmoon Bay, Victoria, and housesitting on the Sunshine Coast.   Discovered Princess Louisa Inlet and Judi painted a tree growing from the dramatic cliff (see below) - the resting place for Judi and Mike's ashes.  
1999
3rd Grandchild
Ella Anne Wiljer is born - (name changed to Ellis Wiljer) - one that excelled at testing Mike's patience.  Ellis was never one to be quiet, or accept things just as they are. They got the scientific mind from Mike - that he appreciated! 
2001
Grounded
Judi's cancer is back and Mike and Judi need to park it for health care.  Bowen Island property is found, the best of both worlds - easy access to Vancouver and health care, while being removed from city life.  Judi has the chance of building a 2nd dream home, smaller but so specially situated.  With a few 'tweaks' to Judi's design Lea provides plans and the building goes ahead.  Mike's contribution is adding the 100 year old 'soul pole' from his father's cabin, supporting the main floor.  Mike job is to rein in the more fantastical design ideas but he is mostly powerless. Living on the boat in the Bowen Island Marina means Mike can keep an eye on things - and the walk up Cates Hill keeps him strong.
2002
4th Grandchild
Emily Martha Wiljer is born - aptly named after Aunt Mart, for her love of animals, obstancy and dogged persuit of what she knows is right.  Including picking dust out of her Poppa's hair (see pic below)
2003
I will love you forever
Mike revises his wedding vow from 'Til Death Do Us Part' to 'I Will Love You Forever'.  The passing of Judi was difficult for Mike to recover from, and he had to learn to live again.  Judi makes him promise to 'help the salmon' before she passes.  He volunteers at the Bowen Island fish hatchery, eventually stepping up to become President, and works tirelessly to improve habitat, secure funding and to bring together volunteers working as a team.  
2008
World Traveller
Mike connects with new friends, reinstates von Zuben Tours, and starts on a series of trips - New Zealand (with Diane Forsythe) and Australia, Fiji and the Cook Islands, Japan to visit grandson Chris, China with Don and Dorothy Frost, Costa Rica and Guatamala (with sister Pat and John, also Marcia), the Amazon (with Robin), India, Peru, and more with Kathleen Scales - and more that I'm not recalling at this moment, there were so many trips.  Germany to see the Oberammergau Passion Play, river cruises in Europe.   Parallels with his time with Judi in Brussels.  When not travelling his work at the fish hatchery continues, and he is actively spending time with friends and family, attending events, and living the life!  OK, it's 12 years we are talking about here, but still!
2020
Home
We all know what happened in 2020, and how being isolated at home was difficulat for everyone.  Mike slowed down and tried to make the best of it.  Family were still able to visit and spending time in the great outdoors was a great option - like hikes up Mount Gardner, walks around Killarny Lake.  Mike continued to work with the Fish Hatchery, though he had stepped down as president.  Don McQueen being a great ally pulling Mike into hatchery work and meeting for meals out. Isolation had it's toll though, and a diagnosis of Alzheimers was very difficult to accept.  Friends and family stepped up to support Mike as much as possible.
2023
Caring until the end
Mike was no longer able to live on his own and required medical and care support not available on the island.  While Mike always appreciated the wonderful, caring people who were helping him he was still a fiesty, independent person who was not interested in being 'meddled' with - yet even as he presented a challange to caregiveres, he was always appreciated for his strength of character, intelligence, kindness and resilience.  Family and friends continued to support him and find opportunities to make the most of life, with lots of social visits walks, visits to parks and gardens, Grouse Mountain, Lynn Valley, Cirque Du Soliel, lunches out and more.  Pamela and Andrea were brought on to take Mike out regularly, keep him active and interested in life, and both grew to be important people in his life.  In his 'moments of clarity' Mike was able to understand the love and care that we were giving him and express his love and grattitude,  

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January 22, 2026
I knew Mike when we both attended West Van High School in the late 1950s, where he was known as "Mick." However, our friendship truly blossomed when we took similar courses at UBC. During the 1961 Christmas break at UBC, he and Judi traveled with Heather Scott and me in my 1947 Chevrolet to Vernon to join others on a ski holiday at SilverStar Mountain.

After UBC graduation, our career paths took us in different directions until 1976, when we both moved to Toronto to take a job and discovered that Mike was also working there. We reconnected shortly after both he and Judi, and Heather and I had moved into our new west coast-style homes north of Toronto. Both of our families lived about the same distance north of Toronto, but we were in Pottageville, about 30 km west of their home near Balantrae. We had a lot in common, both having lived in Europe, having a daughter and son, and building new homes in the countryside north of Toronto. We enjoyed many exchange visits and particularly enjoyed cross-country skiing on their pine tree-covered acreage and savouring each other’s homemade maple syrup and apple cider.

After a 5-year stint in Germany, we returned to our Pottageville home in 1985 and resumed our friendship with the von Zubens and were pleased to be invited to Michael’s wedding in 1990. In 1993, we left Ontario for good to take a UN job in Geneva, Switzerland, which lasted just over 7 years. In the late 1990s, we were pleasantly surprised to receive a visit from Mike and Judi when they rode their bicycles all the way from Belgium to Switzerland.

I retired to West Vancouver in December 2000. By this time, Mike and Judi were living on their boat on the West Coast, which made it difficult to connect with them, but we did arrange to meet them on their boat while they were wintering in Victoria Harbour. They also came on their boat once to visit us at our property on Gambier Island. While they were moving into their new home on Bowen Island, they attended our daughter’s wedding in November of 2002. It was immediately after the wedding that we found out that Judi’s cancer had returned. We kept in touch by phone with Mike during his difficult time caring for Judi during her declining months. Our next meeting with him was at Judi’s celebration of life ceremony at the West Van United Church, where we were married in 1964.

During his years as a widower, we kept in touch with Mike when he wasn’t away traveling. He came to visit us on Gambier Island by himself in July of 2003, and in August of 2008, he came again, this time on his kayak from Bowen Island. On a very stormy day in November of 2006, Mike and I traveled by BC Ferries to visit with an old high school friend, Dave Rolston, who was visiting from Montreal at his family cottage at Hopkins Landing. In the two winters leading up to the 2010 Winter Olympics, Mike joined friends and me for three cross-country ski outings at the Olympic Nordic venue in Callaghan Valley. On one occasion, he surprised us with the accuracy of his target shooting on the biathlon course. At the 50th high school reunion in May of 2009, we made a point of getting Mike and Kathleen together, which was the start of their lasting friendship. In subsequent years, we got together with them at both of their homes and at our property on Gambier Island.

In July of 2021, Mike got on his e-bike and joined friends and me for a ride around Stanley Park, and, later in early October, he joined the same group for a bike ride on Bowen Island that was organized by Court Brousson. Also, in October of 2021, Heather and I participated with friends in one of Mike’s hatchery tours. In March of 2023, we were upset to learn that Mike had been admitted for what turned out to be a lengthy stay in the 4-West sub-acute medicine unit at the Lions Gate Hospital in North Vancouver. On 31 March, I took him a small birthday cake in the hospital to help him celebrate his 82nd birthday, which was that day.

After he finally got settled at the German-Canadian Care Home, we visited with him several times, including taking him out for lunch three times. He was always pleased to see us, had no trouble remembering our names, and always politely thanked us for our visits when leaving. During his stay in care homes and hospitals, we appreciated getting updates on his condition from both Lea and Kathleen.

We will cherish these memories of our friendship with Mike, dating back to our days at West Van High School.

Peter and Heather Scholefield
Peter Ross McLean Scholefield
January 12, 2026

When we were children, the world was a simpler place.

My older brother Mike and I lived in West Van as kids. Our family had cabins - Skunk Hollow and then Sno Foolin - on Hollyburn Mountain where we spent many, many weekends. That’s where Mike learned to ski. I think it’s also where his love of the out of doors began. His passion for skiing, hiking and snowshoeing would follow him throughout his lifetime.

When we weren’t on Hollyburn we built tree forts across the street from where we lived on Mathers, and played there with the McCuaig’s, Linda Williams and other neighbourhood friends.

As teenagers we went swimming at Dundarave beach and fished off the pier. When Mike wasn’t having fun with his buddies, he was folding and delivering thousands of newspapers during the years he had his paper route.

At Pauline Johnson elementary, Inglewood Junior High and West Van high school Mike was a top student. His scholastic success inspired me to work harder for better grades, which I accomplished, and for that I give credit to my brother.

Mike went on to UBC and eventually to IBM where he was posted first in Calgary, then Brussels and finally Ontario, where he retired.

Mike and Judi lived in Europe, boated in the Caribbean, piloted Mañana up to Alaska. Their love of travel and adventure inspired John and I and we followed in their footsteps as often as we could.

At Judi’s passing, I finally felt I was able to give something back to my big brother. I was there with Mike in her final moments, providing comfort when he needed it the most.

In our later years, at happier times, we shared trips with Mike to Palm Springs, Costa Rica and cruised through the Panama Canal. We celebrated many Christmas dinners together in various locales like Bowen Island, False Creek, Delta and Harrison Mills.

The world is a different place than it was when we were growing up. And of course it’s a little emptier now without Mike. But I have all those wonderful memories of Mike to cherish and I’m grateful for them, and for the influence he had on my life.
Patricia Sears
January 11, 2026
On behalf of the Bowen Island Fish & Wildlife Club I’d like to express our sincere condolences to you for the loss of your father and grandfather. I’d also like you to know what a hugely positive impact Mike has had on our Club and its activities in supporting Pacific salmon through his nearly 20 years of volunteering in the maintenance and operation of the island’s salmon hatchery and associated streamkeeping activities.
It’s my understanding that Mike’s involvement started in the Fall of 2002, when he came upon Bill Rush, in the middle of Killarney Creek at the Bridal Veil Falls fish ladder. Bill was struggling to return salmon back into the ladder after the fish had been washed out of the ladder during a high flow, storm event. Mike lent a hand and became hooked on salmon enhancement efforts. He recognized he could contribute and committed to improving the chances of these magnificent creatures in their struggle to survive and thrive within Bowen’s creeks.
Mike’s science background, combined with an innate curiosity and ‘can-do’ attitude made him the perfect person to grow within the club.
Bill Rush became a longtime mentor to Mike. He introduced him to Bill Newport, who’s administrative and record keeping skills were much appreciated. For many years Mike worked directly with DFO’s Community Advisor, Rod Bell-Irving, who supported the club financially and answered many of Mike’s technical questions that would inevitably arise from operating the hatchery. In the years I’m aware of, peak production of salmon fry reached over 220,000 under Mike’s supervision (2016). As part of the BIFWC team Mike and other Board members, including current President Tim Pardee, were able to access funds generously donated by the Pacific Salmon Foundation for numerous local enhancement projects.
Mike liked to tell stories about projects he’d worked on. One of those streamkeeping projects Mike was intimately involved with was the enhancement of spawning bed gravels located at the base of the Bridal Veil Falls fish ladder. The project involved importing and placing spawning substrate, gravels and cobbly material, suited for that purpose. Sounds easy except that the closest place a truck could deliver material was located 50 feet above a very steep embankment that led down to the spawn area. The elegant solution worked out between Mike and Eddie Weismiller was to dump the material into a chute that ran down much of the embankment. Sounds good, until with the first delivery, Mike and a few other hearty volunteers found themselves directly in range of ricochetting cobbles and gravels as they bounced and flew out in a fan near the chute base. This ‘near-death’ experience, with the Cannonball-Express delivery method, was effective but caused Mike to be a bit more cautious on future projects. These spawning gravels are once again attracting adult salmon returns this season.
Mike stayed curious, even as he wound down from hatchery operations. When an opportunity came up in 2019 to explore climate change through local stream temperature monitoring Mike again volunteered. He led the field monitoring and data collection effort until 2021.
Finally, I’d like to say that Mike was a mentor to me. He made volunteering, not only possible, but enjoyable and, to say the least, entertaining, for which I’ll be forever grateful.

Mike’s legacy can be seen in:
• the continued return of salmon to the local streams,
• a functioning hatchery program,
• a stream keeping group that is actively monitoring, developing and maintaining stream enhancement structures, and
• making others aware of the precious resource that salmon represent and how they are reflective of ecosystem health.
Don McQueen
January 8, 2026
Mike von Zuben changed my life.

I was a camper. I liked smoky campfires, tents and provincial parks.

Then I met Mike, and everything changed. Mike showed me a bigger world. Hawaii, the Caribbean, bread pudding.

Wait. What? Bread pudding? Yeah, I’ll get to that in a moment.

Mike was a talker. And an adventurer. I was a listener.

His tales of foreign lands, exotic places and tropical climates hooked me. Mike lived large. Made me want to do the same.

Pat and I were married back in 1975. Mike came in from Ontario to give the bride away. He was always there for her, and us.

A little later, Patricia and I joined Mike and Judi in Hawaii. No smoky campfires here. Beautiful beaches, warm ocean water into which I learned to snorkel. Hey, this was nice!

In the eighties Mike and Judi invited us to the British Virgin Islands. Two weeks on their yacht, Mañana. The Caribbean was stunning. Even more stunning was what Mike had on board. He had ice, a blender, gallons of Piña Colada mix and lots of potent Caribbean rum. I already knew about those things but what was new was the recipe. A guarded secret. The von Zuben Painkiller, Mike called his special concoction. Wow! On that trip the blender got a real workout every afternoon at four o’clock. Thanks Mike, thanks Judi. The vacation was the best I’d ever had.

Made me hungry for more.

Later, Mike took his family to Alaska on a Holland America cruise ship.

Afterward, he spent hours telling us about it. He described the trip in great detail. The inlets, the glaciers, the bread pudding - the desert Holland America prides itself on.

A short time after that, when Patricia and I had saved up enough money, we booked a Panama Canal cruise. Mike came along to show us newbies all about cruising. He introduced us to the buffet.

Mike said, “Here’s the bread pudding I was telling you about.”

The rest is history. I’ve been overweight ever since.

Oh, the times we had! Canoeing on a lake in Ontario in a downpour so fierce it felt like Niagara Falls. On board a jet during a blizzard in Toronto, waiting to be de-iced before flying to Miami. Blizzard, storm, de-icing. Didn’t bother Mike. He was the most relaxed guy I’d ever met.

In Palm Springs we played a painful round of golf at Mesquite. That’s one thing we had in common: our golf games sucked.

In an open air restaurant on Ometepe Island in Lake Nicaragua I tried to show off my Spanish when I ordered a café con leche (coffee with milk). Mike, whose Spanish was, well, fractured, tried to follow suit when he told the Spanish speaking server, “ Café blanco.” Which translates to white coffee. The puzzled expression on the face of the waitress, and the memory of it, still makes us smile.

I think the poor woman was mystified, where on earth could she find white coffee for the gringo guest? Anyway, maybe you had to be there but it sure seemed funny at the time!

There were many, many shared Christmas dinners - Bowen Island, False Creek, Delta, Harrison Mills. Mike liked to help out in the kitchen, tinkering, supervising. His contribution to the menu was a baked brie and cranberry appetizer. Delicious. I often gorged myself on it until I had no room for the turkey that followed.

On Pat’s surprise 50th birthday party, celebrated at Monk McQueen’s in False Creek, Pat was so excited at seeing daughter Lori who had secretly flown down from Whitehorse for the event, that when Mike (who had flown in from distant Stouffville) strode up to the table, indicated the empty chair beside his sister and inquired, “Is this seat taken?” Pat merely glanced at him, replied, “No it’s not,” and returned her focus to Lori. It made Mike smile, being ignored by distracted Pat. But a moment later his sudden appearance sunk in and Pat gave him a rib-crunching hug. That tale also makes us chuckle even to this day. But again, maybe you had to be there to appreciate the humour.

Everywhere we went - Machu Picchu, the Great Wall of China, Australia, Mike’s footprints were there ahead of us.

When we learned of Mike’s passing we were. - where else? - on a cruise ship. And gazing out over the sun-dazzled blue water, remembering the good times, we could sense his presence, his approval. From that moment on we knew that wherever we travelled, he would be with us.

Mike, thank you for showing us the way. Thanks for the fun, the laughter, the memories. I was, and am, honoured to be your brother-in-law.
John Sears
January 4, 2026
Mike and I were close friends during the last sixteen years of his life. At our 50th high school reunion, mutual friends--the Frosts and the Scholefields--made sure we had the chance to connect. We had both lost our life partners and our friends knew we had much to share. Having a companion who understood the magnitude of losing a life partner was just so much easier and more fun than moving on alone!

Together we explored more than fifteen countries, often with friends. So many of our travels were enriched by the friends we brought from our earlier, separate lives and by our previous travel experiences. A highlight for me was going to the Oberammergau Passion Play: five performance decades after my grandmother had attended in 1960. There were many other standouts: riding in a hot air balloon over Cappadocia, having close-up encounters with tigers in Ranthambore, driving over the volcanic destruction on La Palma, exploring Rome from an apartment overlooking Trevi Fountain, and sailing with Windstar through the Greek Islands. We enjoyed road trips around Sicily, down the coast of Croatia and along the "Fairy-tale Road" through Germany.

Back home, a road trip to see Pat and John in Palm Springs led us to hike in Bryce Canyon and Mike got to indulge his passion for organ music at the Tabernacle in Salt Lake City. --I always appreciated Mike's indulgence in my passion for swimming wherever we went that the water was warm...enough! We celebrated Canada Day in Ottawa one year, saw Chris graduate from high school and Ella from elementary, flew with Bill Hone over Prince Edward County in his owner-built airpane. Closer to home there were good times on Hollyburn (even a night spent in "Snowfoolin''), on Bowen, at Sandy Hook, and on the the waters and shores of Sechelt Inlet. Mike's unfailing willingness to help with maintenance tasks at the cabin was greatly appreciated.

We relied on each other through life's challenges, and we recognized our good fortune in having the special relationship we'd enjoyed as we aged. Even through the many months in care, Mike brightened with our connection. Here's to reunions and old friends!

I've looked through the myriad of pictures that record our times together and have sent a sampling for Lea to downsize and add here as she sees fit. They show more than words the "joie de vivre" Mike brought to his elder years--and mine.
Kathleen Scales
December 22, 2025
My favourite memory of Mike is being able to almost see his smile over the phone.

We always had a lot of laughs particularly as it relates to his travels and travel stories. The best one's will stay secret between us.

Anytime I talked to Mike, he made my day better!!
LEON PEDWERBESKI
December 20, 2025
Growing up with Mike:
Mike and I crossed paths on many fronts, from daily treks to school, paper routes, scouting, weekends on Hollyburn Mountain, travel, and as a part of a group of friends who had a share of Mike’s life for almost 75 of his years.
We all lived in the same 2 block neighborhood to start with, and we were all around the same age, and all progressed through our lives on a very similar timeline. We all had paper routes which ran in the same direction, but were a street apart allowing us to swap certain customer deliveries for convenience.
In later years, we all utilized a cabin on Hollyburn where we took many climbs to the peak on weekend ski jaunts, or over to the Hollyburn Lodge , for weekend parties took place, or on occasions to Westlake.
Then came the period when we gained access to cars and driving, and one of us had a car, and we all had it’s benefit for outings to car races and derby’s, and always to White Spot drive-in.
Of course, girl friends, group parties and then serious relationships, and our marriages then took precedence in our lives and our careers and families ensued, separating us only by distance, but we maintained our contact. In later years, Mike joined with Dorothy and I, and some family members, on a tour to China, and then a few other voyages with Kath. Mike also joined us for a weekly golf game, until one day, he just said I quit.
It’s been a bit of a difficult time for the last few years as Mike’s condition changed, but he always recognized me, but failed to recall many of our other friends or activities we had shared.
Don Frost
Don Frost
December 20, 2025
To witness Mike in the midst of a passionate conversation about the salmon ladders on Bowen island was truly a priviledge. His enthusiasm and excitement lit up the misty, rainy day. What an amazing, story spinning man who will be missed greatly. All my love to Emily, Lea, David and Ellis <3
Jo Sainas

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Other family members
Teri McKinnon
Niece
Lori Green
Niece
Rick Cotter
Nephew
Brad Cotter
Nephew
David Wiljer
Son-in-law
Elaine Tufford
Daughter-in-law
Dennis Cotter
Brother-in-law
Carol Cotter
Sister-in-law
John Sears
Brother-in-law
Martha von Zuben
Aunt
Raphel Joseph von Zuben
Mary Delena Labrie
William North
Lillie Ann Bertha Gough
Rafael Leonard von Zuben
Dorothy Eva North
Judi von Zuben (Cotter)
Patricia Sears
Lea Monique Wiljer (von Zuben)
Children
Ellis Wiljer
Emily Wiljer
Michael Bruce von Zuben
Children
Christopher von Zuben
Elizabeth von Zuben
Patricia Sears
Judi von Zuben (Cotter)
Lea Monique Wiljer (von Zuben)
Ellis Wiljer
Emily Wiljer
Michael Bruce von Zuben
Christopher von Zuben
Elizabeth von Zuben
Michael von Zuben

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Please join us to celebrate Mike and remember all of the warmth he shone on all of us.
Celebration of life - mike vz
Location
Gleneagles Clubhouse
6190 Marine Drive West Vancouver BC V7W 2S3.  
Date/time
March 1, 2026, 10am - 1pm
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