Matthew Henley Lankford

Your presence we miss, your memory we treasure.

Obituary

Matthew Henley Lankford, born July 9, 1995, in Richmond, VA passed away on December 5, 2025. He was the beloved son of Duane Lankford and Kimberly Way.

Matt, as he was affectionately known, was a shining light in the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him. His passing has left a void in the hearts of his family, friends and many more whose lives were touched by him.

Matt is survived by his mother Kimberly Way, his stepfather Bill Way, his brother Connor Lankford, his sister in law Meredith Lankford, his step brothers Will and Grayson Way, his father Duane Lankford, his stepmother Jennifer Lankford, his half-sisters Ava and Ellie Lankford and his grandparents Deane and Arlene Lankford. He also leaves behind aunts and uncles who adored him dearly. Among them are Andy Lankford, Judy and Vince Lassiter, Robby and Tracey Sorey, Wendy and Chris Byrns, Shane Sorey and Missy Whaley, Jenny Sorey, Shanna and Donnie Chandler and a host of cousins who shared in his journey. He was predeceased by his grandparents Howard and Susan Sorey.

After his graduation from Freeman High school, Matt sought opportunities in California where he loved the weather and the landscapes. Matt found his way to working in real estate in the Laguna Beach area. Outside of work, Matt loved camping and hiking along the Western United States. Matt adored the water and spent countless hours spear fishing, free diving, swimming, and surfing. Matt will be missed.

Memorial Service

A memorial service to honor the life of Matt will be held at 11:00 a.m. Friday, January 2, 2026 at St. Mary's Episcopal Church, 12291 River Road, Richmond, VA 23238.

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January 5, 2026

Duane and Family.

There are no perfect words for this kind of loss. Sending you and your family my deepest condolences as well as prayers for peace and solace during this difficult time.

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Ghada Ijam

January 1, 2026

After typing and retyping this message I am realizing the right words just do not exist. I don’t think any of us were prepared to have to find the words. I’ve only ever known the intact cousin crew and it is devastating to face the loss of one of us. I think Matt and I had a lot in common. I mourn the loss of him and the lost opportunity to know him better and longer. My heart is with Aunt Kimmy and Bill and with all of my cousins, especially Connor. I know so many people are heartbroken right now. My heart is with you, Matt.

Andi

January 1, 2026

Matt has and will always hold a special place in my heart- one that is filled with cherished memories of conversations we had and of times we spent together. While it feels like we didn’t get him nearly long enough on Earth, I feel certain he is with Mom and Dad. I’m so thankful that I am his aunt.
Kimmy, Bill, Duane, Jen, Connor, Mere, Ellie, Ava, Grayson and Will- all my love and strength to you. I am praying for peace and comfort. Love, Jenny

Jenny Sorey

December 31, 2025

Duane, I don't really have the words to express how sorry I am to hear of this loss to you and your family. Jen and I are keeping all of you in our thoughts. We love you very much.

Rich Terrell

December 30, 2025

Matt was a caring, supportive friend through thick and thin. We were much like brothers. We both loved getting out in nature - swimming in the ocean, hiking and trail-running, relaxing in the sand. We enjoyed cooking meals for each other, or grilling together and serving others. We spent lots of time together just watching movies, listening to music, and making each other laugh. He had a gift for appreciating what others were enthusiastic about, even if it was not his cup of tea, and encouraging them to follow their passions. I will hold tight to memories of our time together, and will strive to honor my friend in the way I live my life. My warmest condolences go out to his family, and all who are feeling the absence of such a wonderful person.

Leighton Carter

December 29, 2025

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Kim
and Bill and all of Matt‘s family at this time. May God hold you in his hands as you progress through this difficult period. Love you.

Mary Louise Chandler

December 29, 2025

Duane & family,
So Sorry to hear of your loss. May your memories and the love of your friends & family help you during this difficult time.

Sherri Thorne

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