
Mary Ann de los Trinos Gonzalez

In honor of a life that left footprints of love.
Mary Ann, such a beautiful soul, deeply loved and dearly missed.
Obituary
Mary Ann de los Trinos Gonzalez, aged 58, passed away peacefully on June 15, 2025, surrounded by her loving family in Stockton, California. Born June 7, 1967, Mary Ann lived a life defined by strength, kindness, and selflessness, leaving a profound impact on everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.
A devoted wife, Mary Ann shared a beautiful, enduring marriage with Victor. Together, they created a warm home filled with love, laughter, and countless cherished memories. As a mother, Mary Ann was an unwavering source of support and guidance for her two children, Julian Michael and Victoria Marie, nurturing them with endless love and instilling in them the values of courage, resilience, and compassion. As a grandmother, she provided a supportive and nurturing environment where Mia Marie, Emilio Manuel, Isolde Marie, and Sofia Mila felt loved and secure. Oh...she hugged her grandkids with so much warmth, happiness, and love... "I love you to infinity" were words Mary Ann often shared with her family, a testament to the endless love she gave and received throughout her life.
Mary Ann was renowned within her community not only for her hard-working nature, ability to intelligently analyze and turn information into spot-on insights, solving complex problems. She was also known for her vibrant sense of life, humor, and her ability to brighten people's day with her presence. She was the kind of person who always took the time to listen, offering a comforting shoulder or a wise word to those in need. Her generosity knew no bounds, often putting others before herself and finding joy in the happiness of those around her.
Family-focused and full of grace and strength, Mary Ann faced life’s challenges with remarkable courage and unwavering faith.
The void she leaves is immeasurable, yet her spirit lives on in the hearts of her family and friends.
Her legacy, woven with love, laughter, and resilience, will continue to inspire our children, grandchildren and future generations.
Mary Ann will be dearly missed and fondly remembered by all who knew her.
Her family invites everyone who shared in her life's journey to celebrate her enduring legacy and keep her spirit alive by emulating her kindness, strength, and selflessness.
Rest in peace my love. Your footprint of love, laughter, and resilience will remain with us forever.
Timeline
She enjoyed being focused, learning, and science. She found the process of studying engaging as rewarding. She had excellent grades.
She ran a total of 3 major marathons (New York, Chicago and Berlin). She ran 20 marathons, and many halfies. Her last marathon was CIM, Sacramento and her last half was Boston.
On July 4th, 2019 Isolde Marie was born and her birth overshadowed all the fireworks of the day. She was so happy... Micki's daughter was born.
Lastly on 05/14/2024 Sofia Mila entered this world, and that baby's smile brightened her life. She cherished every moment with her grandchildren. She loved her grandkids like she loved her kids ..."to infinity".
On behalf of Mary Ann...words are not enough to thank everyone for your hard work, smiles and dedication.
"Forever in the garden of my heart". Your memory, a precious treasure, lives on in our hearts, and each tear we shed is a heartfelt note of love sent to you in heaven. Love you so much!
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I feel incredibly lucky to have been able to work alongside her for seven years. Mary Ann was supportive and understanding; Always so graceful and there when I needed her guidance. I will forever cherish the memories of us talking in her office or through teams about our outfits (hers always being so chic), my little ones, her 2 kids & grandkids, health, her dog, traveling, or anything that was on our minds that day. I wish I could thank her one more time for being there for me during my hardest times. Always checking in and encouraging me to keep going. Truly a beautiful person, gone too soon. I am thankful to have known Mary Ann professionally and personally. I will miss her “Hey there..” texts and our funny reels exchanges. She was a fighter till the end. I admire her resilience.
I’m sending her whole family and pup a big warm hug. I pray that God continues to hold you all together and gives you all each day the strength to go on.
Rest in love and peace my friend. You are truly missed 🤍


Just hold on to God's.Unchanging hands and HIS FAITH will carry you through.
With care and loving memory of my friend Mary Ann.
Rhonda Trout
Mary Ann you had a drive and a determination like no other person I have ever met. When you aimed for a goal, a race, or a vision, you did every thing in you to accomplish it and make it across the FINISH. 👊🏼
You were definitely not a quitter, always defying odds and pushing through adversities. You were an encourager and an inspiration to so many…to me. Not that I needed much convincing but you talked me into races that I never wanted to do. I don’t know how you did, but I would find myself signing up and training with you for random races, but enjoyed them all because of you.
I loved being your running buddy…our training runs, our travel adventures…our food stops…and the countless races together. What I love and will miss so deeply is our friendship, our talks, our messages, our midnite munchies, our funny little quirks and everything we have shared, I love you Mary Ann.
Im thankful to God for giving you the Fullness of Life to enjoy the many things that you have done and accomplished. You conquered so many amazing achievements. I was always so very proud and inspired by you.
Im thankful that you have been such a Big and good part of my life, Im so honored to have been your buddy, your friend. You will always be loved and treasured in my heart. May you rest in peace.
-Flavia

















My next holiday was 2024 with my siblings,mum & my sister in law.You & Victor pick up us in the airport.There goes another memorable with you & the rest og you.Every time you came
Home with your mums house all we did is telling stories what we did when we all younger.My siblings always say ohhh Maryann love ❤️ you the most even when our last day you gave me bag.They’re jealous I had plenty gifts from you & tita baby. The things you’ve done all the times that we were there help us go to the outlet even your just sitting down on the bench you don’t mind.couz the world won’t be the same without you,,,,couz you may have left us,but your memories will stay in our hearts 💕.I know your in good hands with BRO. I know you Happy there with BRO & Lola LoLo & uncles It’s not Goodbye but i see you again.❤️❤️❤️❤️ 5,2,5,4 you
Couz “Maryann “




Later on, she and her entire family moved to the United States, but despite the distance, we stayed in touch. That's who Mary Ann was - someone who valued friendship and connection, no matter where life took her.
One of the things that stood out most about her was her incredible strength. Even while living with RA, she never let it define her. In fact, she pushed herself beyond limits - joining marathons and proving that determination can overcome even the toughest obstacles. She became a shining example that when you truly want to achieve something, nothing can stop you.
Mary Ann's passing came as a deep shock. It's still hard to believe someone full of light and quiet courage is gone. Mary Ann was more than a friend - she was an inspiration. Her grace, strength and kindness will always stay with those of us who were blessed to know her.
Heaven has truly gained a beautiful soul. Thank you Mary Ann, for showing me what grace, quiet strength and resilience truly mean. Your life was an inspiration, your friendship a gift and your presence a blessing. Though you may no longer be with us, your spirit lives on in the hearts of all who knew and loved you.
You are gone from our sight, but never from our hearts. Rest peacefully, my dear friend, you will be remembered always, and loved forever.
Melotte Mondelo-Acuña
Batch '83 and Batch '87














I will definitely miss her positive outlook in life and always cheering me on to my what I call my adventures. Rest in Peace my friend. Love you and will miss your beautiful smile. 💚🤗😭💔🙏🙏🙏
My deepest sympathy to Victor and family. 💚🙏






Remembering our ordinary days with a heart
It was unexpected sad news.
We quietly cried because Mary Ann left a part of her spirit in each one of us as each ordinary day became precious golden memories.. life is just fleeting.
When you remember her, much alive, a part of you feels that warm presence..and tears just flow.. we just realize, is this real? Mary Ann, we did not get to say our good byes.
In our memories, Mary Ann was a friend who just let us be in our state of being… one who did not judge and just accepted us the way we are.
Until now, it is still sinking in and maybe also like me, you find yourselves in tears in your alone moments when you remember Mary Ann.
Only when we close our eyes that her absence is her presence and we keep her memory in our hearts.
In our college freshman year, we were just discovering school, life, our dreams.. we had nothing grand or extraordinary, only the regular days that were lived with pure joy and friendship, being in the moment and laughter and a cheerful spirit.
Realizing Mary Ann’s loss, in those quiet moments, suddenly flashed the memories of our teens.. my 17 year old self, days at freshman year in school, remembering watching an iconic Gabby&Sharon love story movie, a hit during our generation, that gave us those giddy feelings, “kilig” memories.
Life was simpler then, too, we had our commute going home to school and jeepney ride from school to the village, or go all the way to far Alabang mall the old Alabang Town Center (ATC).
It was the ordinary moments that have made these golden as years have gone by.
We will always remember a gracious person who had the kindest heart, she was well loved by her classmates.. was full of positivity and can still remember her laughter, she was a real and true friend, and will always remember her authenticity.
Fondly remembering our Freshman SPCM AB 1-4 lunches at her ancestral home in Malate Manila, that was walking distance from SPCM— where we had hearty home cooked meals by her Mom, Tita Baby.
Freshman year was filled with happy memories, a time before the social media.. that also included a class party with DLSU Engineering class organized by our Spanish professor Mr. Lucero, we met our respective guy pen pals in a soiree party. We were introverts and yet able to attend parties together. It was going with the flow.
Growing up was a fun memory— of being in the moment..jeepney rides, mall trips.. going to parties.. Writing letters, keeping connected, where there was authentic and true friendship.
In one of my conversations with her, she mentioned that her Dad was working abroad (she must have referred U.S.) and little did I know that one day, Mary Ann will leave the country to settle in the US.
I remember saying goodbye to Mary Ann at the Airport, sent her off with a few friends, we both cried hard when we said good byes and eventually we then had our different journeys— she was to start her journey in the US.
When she migrated to the US with her family, we continued to write to each other, sent birthday and Christmas cards, and when letters were too long, we were also recording our voices on tape and mail the package overseas. That was how we connected, it was constant communication, and the internet made it easier eventually.
Growing up was on and off too and our communication was intermittent, she had Mickey at a young age then sent a photo of her elegant wedding when she married Victor, also learned of the birth of Tori..Mary Ann and Victor's family was growing. We still connected through letters and emails during our quiet years.. and there were active years. And fast forward, I have seen posts on Facebook.. her grand kid Mia from Tory and another grand kid from Mickey.
This would be one of my oldest school friendships and have grown since 1983.. a long 42 years. We will always be that 17 year old at heart.
Thank you Mary Ann, and grateful for the years of friendship with you. You are our sister and friend. Thank you for showing us what grace and true friendship really means.
Now, we have an angel in you watching over us.
May our Lord be with you in your journey to after life. You will always be remembered with love. Rest now in eternal peace my friend.🙏🩷
Louise Marie R. Foronda
Freshman AB 1-4 SPCM


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Loved musicals like Mamma Mia and Phantom of the Opera.
She liked running and training with clean sneakers, and she had a tattoo on her left foot with a 26.2 engraved on the shell of a turtle.
Services
While we mourn the loss of our Mary Ann, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy brought into our lives. Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
* Please make reservations for the Celebration of Life (see below).
* Mary Ann liked blue, and the theme is blue on this day. So...wear blue or a shade of blue. Thanks,
400 W. Rose St,
Stockton, Ca 95203
6226 Mokelumne Circle
Stockton, CA, 95219
32992 Mission Blvd,
Hayward, CA 94544
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