Mark Widdowson
'Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world'
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Mark Widdowson, aged 51, passed away on August 11, 2024, on holiday in Estado, Portugal. Mark, born on July 14, 1973, in Sheffield, UK, leaves a legacy of unwavering passion, boundless curiosity, and heartfelt compassion.
Mark shared his life with his beloved husband, Philip McNally, with whom he formed a deeply loving and unconditionally supportive partnership. To their friends and family, they were a beacon of love and mutual respect, setting an inspiring example of what it means to live authentically and love fiercely.
Known by many as a remarkable human being who balanced being fun, engaging, and, as he often described himself, "geeky," Mark touched countless lives. His irreverence and challenging questions kept everyone around him on their toes, while his empathy and support provided a safe harbour in times of need. Sometimes a little chaotic and a LOT sweary. Mark’s fast-paced energy and beautiful spirit were undeniable and infectious. Simply put, he was inspiring.
Mark dedicated his professional life to research and teaching in psychotherapy, to working effectively with clients and supervising to enhance other's practice. His contributions were significant, helping to shape and influence modern practices in TA with his innovative and critical approach.
His tireless devotion to understanding the human mind and his genuine care for those he worked with made him a beloved figure among his students and colleagues. Mark's commitment to psychotherapy was not just a career; it was a calling. He firmly believed in the transformative power of empathy and understanding, which he not only taught but embodied daily.
In remembering Mark, we celebrate a life that was much more than the sum of its accomplishments. He was someone who brought warmth to every room, left a lasting impression on everyone he met, and will be deeply missed by those who had the privilege of knowing him.
Mark Widdowson will forever remain in the hearts of his family, friends, colleagues, and the countless individuals whose lives he touched with his wisdom, kindness, and unique spirit. May his legacy of passion and empathy continue to inspire us all.
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September 23, 2025
Mark was one of my lecturers during my bachelors degree at the University of Salford, and he left a lasting impression. He was a truly unique and inspiring lecturer who brought so much more than just subject knowledge to the classroom. His personality, humour, and wealth of life experiences enriched every lecture, making learning both engaging and memorable. I’m genuinely grateful to have been taught by someone who cared so deeply about connecting with students and bringing lessons to life.
September 18, 2025
Mark was my tutor at Salford University when I was training to be a counsellor and he had such an impact on me ,both as a teacher and also as a person. We kept in touch after I left and I asked him if he could help my very close friends with counselling which he did as individuals with also his husband philip taking them on as a couple. I heard about his death a day before the funeral so I was devastated I couldn’t go but I recently had two vivid dreams of Mark saying reach out so it may seem strange but I needed to write this message and hopefully someone close to him reads this and knows he is still making an impact and he won’t be forgotten. I am now a couples therapist and will always bring things that mark taught me so thankyou so much for everything mark.
Love,Kirsty x
Love,Kirsty x
July 15, 2025
I first met Mark in 1990. We got on very well from meeting. A regular bus trip, in to town on a Wednesday, sharing a bottle of wine, in readiness for going to the Limit night club, after a few drinks at the Hallamshire hotel. My memories of him putting "kinky boots" on the jukebox, singing along, with his close friends. For somebody like myself, sharing time with somebody so free spirited, proud of his sexuality, out spoken, intelligent, empathetic, but also to the point with fools; Mark had an influence on my own confidence to find out who I was. Over the years, we hadn't seen eachother in person, but like many of his friends, proud to see how he made a success of his life, found love and kept true to his path.
I somehow missed the announcement of his passing, until a mutual friend informed me. My thoughts are with his husband, family and friends.
I somehow missed the announcement of his passing, until a mutual friend informed me. My thoughts are with his husband, family and friends.
May 12, 2025
I was a client of Marks in 2021 for a very short period. I was really struggling at the time and I just wasn’t in the right place to make the most of the help he provided.
I started to feel better in June last year and I thought about Mark and how his presence and what I would describe as ‘call a spade a spade’ approach had brought comfort in what was a very difficult time. I thought about reaching out to say just as much but I didn’t unfortunately.
Being in a much better place now I wanted to take proactive steps to manage and that’s when I came across the sad news.
My heart felt condolences go out to his husband, family and friends.
I started to feel better in June last year and I thought about Mark and how his presence and what I would describe as ‘call a spade a spade’ approach had brought comfort in what was a very difficult time. I thought about reaching out to say just as much but I didn’t unfortunately.
Being in a much better place now I wanted to take proactive steps to manage and that’s when I came across the sad news.
My heart felt condolences go out to his husband, family and friends.
April 14, 2025
Mark must have had the best attendance stats for his lectures - engaging, witty, knowledgeable, cheeky, fun, deeply empathic and intuitive. What a loss to all who loved him and what a joy to all who met him <3
February 28, 2025
Fly high! I’m gutted I never got to meet you. I heard so many wonderful things about you and your teachings! Sending love to all his loved ones xxx
February 4, 2025
I am so sad to read this, I cannot believe it. I did a 5 day trauma workshop with Mark via the Link Centre, hence I found out this news, as I was looking on the Link Centre website for more workshops from Mark. He really inspired me as a counsellor and I really have taken his energy with me into my work. He inspired me to be myself, bring humour, be human, don't have to be perfect, but aim high and give clients a brilliant experience. I thought he was wonderful. I have told so many people about my experience on the course as it was so impactful, and I found his work so incredible.
January 31, 2025
I'll never have the right words to describe what Mark meant to me, and the impact that he had on my life the 5 years I knew him - that's what's stopped me from making a post here until now.
But now, the night before the start of my TA training, I'm finding myself revisiting this page, and it feels right to say something.
This is a journey that Mark set me on, and while it feels so unfair that he's not here to see it continue, I'll always carry him with me wherever it takes me.
I notice bits of him in the way I am with clients, turns of phrase and little mannerisms I've picked up, and my Nurturing Parent has his voice.
He showed me that there was a future for people like us, and then he told me to go out there and get it.
One of the last things he ever said to me was "I'm really proud of you. You deserve to do well."
Mark pushed me, and I flew.
But now, the night before the start of my TA training, I'm finding myself revisiting this page, and it feels right to say something.
This is a journey that Mark set me on, and while it feels so unfair that he's not here to see it continue, I'll always carry him with me wherever it takes me.
I notice bits of him in the way I am with clients, turns of phrase and little mannerisms I've picked up, and my Nurturing Parent has his voice.
He showed me that there was a future for people like us, and then he told me to go out there and get it.
One of the last things he ever said to me was "I'm really proud of you. You deserve to do well."
Mark pushed me, and I flew.
January 29, 2025
“And when your sorrow is comforted” (time soothes all sorrows) you will be content that you have known me.
Antoine de Saint - Exupery
The Little Prince
I met Mark briefly during my studies at Salford University. His lectures were energising and engaging. Such sad news sending love and strength to his loved ones and friends.
Carla Moore
Antoine de Saint - Exupery
The Little Prince
I met Mark briefly during my studies at Salford University. His lectures were energising and engaging. Such sad news sending love and strength to his loved ones and friends.
Carla Moore
January 14, 2025
“Come to the edge," he said.
"We can't, we're afraid!" they responded.
"Come to the edge," he said.
"We can't, We will fall!" they responded.
"Come to the edge," he said.
And so they came.
And he pushed them.
And they flew.
- Guillaume Apollinaire
I remember Mark sharing this in one of our lectures, commenting that it’s what he would want on his headstone. It touched me then, and especially now. I feel it encapsulates the unwavering support for others and belief Mark had in the resiliency of the human spirit. I’m so devastated to learn of his loss, and months after his passing, too. I wish I’d had a chance to say goodbye. Thank you for inspiring me so greatly, and affirming my decision to be a therapist in each lecture I had with you. I had hoped to train with Mark in the future, and feel robbed of the opportunity to continue learning from such an incredible person. I’m so grateful to have been able to learn from Mark at all.
Sending so much love to his husband and family. I’m so deeply sorry for your loss.
"We can't, we're afraid!" they responded.
"Come to the edge," he said.
"We can't, We will fall!" they responded.
"Come to the edge," he said.
And so they came.
And he pushed them.
And they flew.
- Guillaume Apollinaire
I remember Mark sharing this in one of our lectures, commenting that it’s what he would want on his headstone. It touched me then, and especially now. I feel it encapsulates the unwavering support for others and belief Mark had in the resiliency of the human spirit. I’m so devastated to learn of his loss, and months after his passing, too. I wish I’d had a chance to say goodbye. Thank you for inspiring me so greatly, and affirming my decision to be a therapist in each lecture I had with you. I had hoped to train with Mark in the future, and feel robbed of the opportunity to continue learning from such an incredible person. I’m so grateful to have been able to learn from Mark at all.
Sending so much love to his husband and family. I’m so deeply sorry for your loss.
January 6, 2025
I cannot believe that Mark is away. The energy Mark had lit up a room and the stories he told made his lectures enjoyable. Mark never held back, was refreshingly honest and funny at times. Mark wore his heart on his sleeve and his strength always amazed me after hearing some of the cards he had been dealt in life. I hope now Mark you are at peace. You will always be fondly remembered.
October 23, 2024
Mark was not only my lecturer at university but also someone I continued to train with at The Link Centre. Mark was a kind and caring spirit, a person who passionately represented marginalised groups and stood as a voice for the working class. For me, studying with him was an incredible privilege—one that made me feel welcomed and deserving. It was an experience I had never found in my previous academic history, and it’s something I will always cherish deeply.
Mark was unapologetically himself—a no-nonsense, brave, and bolshy character who was always the most entertaining. 🌟 His presence lit up any room, and his energy was contagious. I will dearly miss his self-care tips, which included enjoying gin on Friday nights, endless cups of tea and cake served by Philip, and soaking up the Manchester City vibes. 🕺😂
His presence, energy, and dedication to the field of psychotherapy created a huge impact, and his absence will be deeply felt by many. He leaves behind a gap that will be incredibly hard to fill. I feel so grateful to have had the opportunity to learn from and train with him before he was taken away far too soon.
Rest in peace, Mark. You will be greatly missed, but your legacy will live on through all those you have inspired. 😢
Mark was unapologetically himself—a no-nonsense, brave, and bolshy character who was always the most entertaining. 🌟 His presence lit up any room, and his energy was contagious. I will dearly miss his self-care tips, which included enjoying gin on Friday nights, endless cups of tea and cake served by Philip, and soaking up the Manchester City vibes. 🕺😂
His presence, energy, and dedication to the field of psychotherapy created a huge impact, and his absence will be deeply felt by many. He leaves behind a gap that will be incredibly hard to fill. I feel so grateful to have had the opportunity to learn from and train with him before he was taken away far too soon.
Rest in peace, Mark. You will be greatly missed, but your legacy will live on through all those you have inspired. 😢
October 2, 2024
Inconcieveable that such an irreverent sparkle of a man and all his magic could be snuffed out in the middle of his holiday to Portugal, I don't believe it, not possible. Mark was a profoundly compassionate, bright and zesty, deeply sincere force for good.
When we started couple's therapy with him he scooped us up and transformed our relationship. He held a space and fought with us, performing many small miracles along the way and so much of our present happiness is owed to him. Our interactions were peppered with playful anecdotes giving us beautiful glimpses into his personal life, the reoccurring theme always being how much he adored his husband Philip. He was always fidgeting, always engaged, always reaching out to us, trying to pull something good out of us and he always managed. What a gift. We were blessed to be in such close proximity to him if only for a handful of moments.
Alice (in Wonderland) asks the White Rabbit, "How long is forever?", he replies, "Sometimes just one second." Our hearts go out to Philip, and all the family. We will treasure our little forever with Mark, forever.
When we started couple's therapy with him he scooped us up and transformed our relationship. He held a space and fought with us, performing many small miracles along the way and so much of our present happiness is owed to him. Our interactions were peppered with playful anecdotes giving us beautiful glimpses into his personal life, the reoccurring theme always being how much he adored his husband Philip. He was always fidgeting, always engaged, always reaching out to us, trying to pull something good out of us and he always managed. What a gift. We were blessed to be in such close proximity to him if only for a handful of moments.
Alice (in Wonderland) asks the White Rabbit, "How long is forever?", he replies, "Sometimes just one second." Our hearts go out to Philip, and all the family. We will treasure our little forever with Mark, forever.
September 30, 2024
My colleagues and I have learned a lot from this unique and irreplaceable man. Our clients especially benefited after reading each of his books or attending his workshops.
We remember January 2016, when he visited Serbia for the first time (now I know it was also the last time), leaving an indelible mark on the TA community in our country.
We remember January 2016, when he visited Serbia for the first time (now I know it was also the last time), leaving an indelible mark on the TA community in our country.
September 24, 2024
I had the pleasure of having Mark as one of my lecturers on the counselling course. I'd always look forward to my day if I saw that Mark was taking the lecture and would sit right at the front so I could get involved. He made me laugh so many times and I felt so at home in his company. I always found it so funny how 'sweary' he was and I'd walk out of every lecture with a beaming smile. What an endearing, empathetic, kind, generous, beautiful soul. I was heartbroken and so shocked to hear of Mark's passing. I send all my love to Mark's husband, his family and friends. I consider myself very lucky to have crossed paths with Mark. <3 xxxx
September 16, 2024
I have known Mark as a friend and colleague for over 20 years and I have really struggled to find the words to do him justice, and express the depth of loss for me personally and for the TA community, professionally. His personality and contribution was huge and cannot be replaced. He was unapologetically himself, and for me perhaps the most important permission he provided to others was for them to be unapologetically themselves too.
September 14, 2024
I knew Mark from way back in the 90s when we were at college at the same time and he was Student Union officer. I was in awe of his energy, vibrant personality and wicked sense of humour (and that he carried his pet rat around in his pocket). He was like a whirlwind whirling through the corridors. He had time for everyone and anyone, I’m so sorry to hear of his untimely passing and send my sincere condolences to his husband, family, friends and colleagues.
September 14, 2024
What a man Mark was, leaving an indelible mark on all those who were lucky to meet him!
I worked with Mark at Salford University and I loved his humour, his authenticity and his irreverence. We had a reciprocal arrangement where we would teach each others students once a year, and our students always loved and remembered the sessions he delivered (once met never forgotten!).
Rest in peace Mark, you have been taken from the world too early, but you leave an incredible legacy. Sending much love to mark’s husband and family x
I worked with Mark at Salford University and I loved his humour, his authenticity and his irreverence. We had a reciprocal arrangement where we would teach each others students once a year, and our students always loved and remembered the sessions he delivered (once met never forgotten!).
Rest in peace Mark, you have been taken from the world too early, but you leave an incredible legacy. Sending much love to mark’s husband and family x
September 13, 2024
Met Mark many moons ago at Stradbroke College. I was 16 and Mark was always someone I could talk to for guidance, even back then. I might not have made a mark on his life but he certainly made mark in mine. I still often think what would Mark advise whenever there was a tricky situation. He will be missed by many and I'm blessed to have even been in his orbit. Love and condolences to those he left behind, his legacy will never be forgotten x
September 13, 2024
I had the pleasure of having mark as my therapist over the darkest time of my life. If it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be here today. I will be forever grateful of the help, love and humility I received from him. Condolences to his family, friends and loved ones. For me to of only known him a short amount of time and feel so saddened by his passing, I can only imagine the heartache that you all must feel.
September 13, 2024
I am deeply moved by reading all the wonderful tributes to Mark and all the shared memories. What an amazing impact Mark made on so many people and what gifts of healing, teaching, humour, authenticity, and caring he shared so generously.
Mark was an inspiring leader in our TA community. He was a highly intelligent communicator of TA theory and practice with a very pragmatic, commonsense approach to effective TA therapy. He understood the vital importance of research for the future recognition of our modality.
With his sudden tragic death, the TA world has lost a unique personality, a great advocate, and one of our finest ambassadors.
Above all we remember his friendship, his compassion, his generosity and his humanity. He deserves our deepest gratitude.
Mark was an inspiring leader in our TA community. He was a highly intelligent communicator of TA theory and practice with a very pragmatic, commonsense approach to effective TA therapy. He understood the vital importance of research for the future recognition of our modality.
With his sudden tragic death, the TA world has lost a unique personality, a great advocate, and one of our finest ambassadors.
Above all we remember his friendship, his compassion, his generosity and his humanity. He deserves our deepest gratitude.
September 13, 2024
I had only met mark at the start of this year when I joined one of his courses. Sadly, on the week the course began, my mother took gravely ill and I contacted Mark as I wasn't sure if I would be able to do the course.
He was so supportive and reassuring and I felt such a strong sense of his commitment to see me through, he gave me the courage to continue on the course I'd been so looking forward to doing.
As a teacher his humanity, deep empathy and heartfelt compassion shone through. His warmth and humour were infectious-he cheekily played to the stalls!
His passionate sense of justice infused the learning with an active urgency, that one could make a difference, to help the people we wanted to work with.
I was heartbroken on hearing of his passing. I had sent him an email at the end of the course in July thanking him for a great learning experience . I thanked him for his generosity in sharing some beautiful and very amusing stories from his own personal life which had brought the subject alive for me. His love and pride in his husband Philip and their relationship was awesome. My deepest deepest condolences to Philip. Mark never missed an opportunity to let us know how in love with his husband he was (and how much he fancied him after 16 years together!) The loss of that love must be terrible but to have had that love in life truly wonderful.
I feel blessed to have been a student of his and will endeavour to honour him through my practice by keeping his wise words of counsel with me.
Condolences to all who feel his loss.
He was so supportive and reassuring and I felt such a strong sense of his commitment to see me through, he gave me the courage to continue on the course I'd been so looking forward to doing.
As a teacher his humanity, deep empathy and heartfelt compassion shone through. His warmth and humour were infectious-he cheekily played to the stalls!
His passionate sense of justice infused the learning with an active urgency, that one could make a difference, to help the people we wanted to work with.
I was heartbroken on hearing of his passing. I had sent him an email at the end of the course in July thanking him for a great learning experience . I thanked him for his generosity in sharing some beautiful and very amusing stories from his own personal life which had brought the subject alive for me. His love and pride in his husband Philip and their relationship was awesome. My deepest deepest condolences to Philip. Mark never missed an opportunity to let us know how in love with his husband he was (and how much he fancied him after 16 years together!) The loss of that love must be terrible but to have had that love in life truly wonderful.
I feel blessed to have been a student of his and will endeavour to honour him through my practice by keeping his wise words of counsel with me.
Condolences to all who feel his loss.
September 11, 2024
I only knew Mark for a very short time as my tutor but I thought he was an effervescent, funny, warm, caring human being. I am so shocked and saddened on his sudden passing and would like to pass on my sincere regards to Phillip and the rest of the family. Mark was an inspiration, unique, impactful and I’m so pleased I got the opportunity to be taught by him. 💔
September 10, 2024
Mark was my colleague at Salford University for 11 years. He was a warm, engaging and passionate lecturer, as well as a kind person who cared deeply about justice and fairness. It was a delight to work with someone who probably swore more than me in lectures and my fondest memories of him are of the times we’d run into each other outside Mary Seacole when he was having a smoke. He’d always greet me with a hug. Mark was playful, often bolshy in meetings and rightly passionate about academic excellence. He was a bright star and I still can’t believe he’s left us. Good night and sleep tight Mark…you will be sorely missed.
September 10, 2024
I knew Mark as a tutor, and group facilitator in my final year at uni, as a vibrant, genuine, fully himself person, generous with his energy and attention, knowledgable & encouraging and at the same time always playful, cheeky and irreverent. My heart goes out to Philip and everyone connected to Mark, with deep sadness for his passing and grateful for the colour, challenge, laughter and connection he brought to the world xx
September 9, 2024
J'ai découvert Mark à travers son livre "Notions clés et pratiques cliniques en AT", traduit en français et au moment où je préparais mes examens TSTA.
Son livre m'a été d'une grande utilité.
Je le découvre également à travers tous les hommages qui lui sont rendus.
Regrets.
Son livre m'a été d'une grande utilité.
Je le découvre également à travers tous les hommages qui lui sont rendus.
Regrets.
September 9, 2024
I had the great pleasure and privilege to be one of Mark’s PhD supervisors. What an amazing experience that was. He was so hardworking and dedicated. He was focussed and both inspired and inspiring. What a sad loss to psychotherapy research and the world!
September 8, 2024
Mark was my therapist and my teacher, from whom I learned a lot about myself… and also about TA. Thank you, Mark.
September 8, 2024
So shocked, so sad but also so glad that Mark was in this world and part of our TA family.
So much has been said and written about him but I can only echo how funny, irreverent, authentic, human and warm he was.
Thank you Mark for being you.
Heartfelt condolences to Philip, his family and friends and us all.
Rest in power Mark, you made a difference and left us all better off for having known you. What a man what a legacy.
💔 Ruma x
So much has been said and written about him but I can only echo how funny, irreverent, authentic, human and warm he was.
Thank you Mark for being you.
Heartfelt condolences to Philip, his family and friends and us all.
Rest in power Mark, you made a difference and left us all better off for having known you. What a man what a legacy.
💔 Ruma x
September 7, 2024
I am profoundly sad! It was beyond my thought. The great influential TA author Mark is no more. He helped me a lot while I was totally from a different country, different culture. The write up was so easy eye catching and comfortable as well. I read out the whole book 100 Key Points
& Techniques, I felt it was easy now for me. His clarification of TA theories and concepts and examples put me a crystal clear understanding. I truly became his fan as a imaginary trainee.That was a missing. Specially I felt that I can write. As I was on the CTA writing roller coaster time, and was the first cta trainee from Bangladesh.
Someday I felt a feeling of emptiness, nothing is going to happened, I can't move for a single line. Mark helped me there.I shifted my thought, throughout the TA jouney. Thanks for your support Mark. You will be cherished & remembeted by thousands TA aspirant’s for your modest approach and care. May you rest in peace!!!
& Techniques, I felt it was easy now for me. His clarification of TA theories and concepts and examples put me a crystal clear understanding. I truly became his fan as a imaginary trainee.That was a missing. Specially I felt that I can write. As I was on the CTA writing roller coaster time, and was the first cta trainee from Bangladesh.
Someday I felt a feeling of emptiness, nothing is going to happened, I can't move for a single line. Mark helped me there.I shifted my thought, throughout the TA jouney. Thanks for your support Mark. You will be cherished & remembeted by thousands TA aspirant’s for your modest approach and care. May you rest in peace!!!
September 7, 2024
I'm grateful that Mark lived. He was special both intrinsically and to me. His contribution to my life and my work is immeasurable and it's hard to put into words, though one keeps coming up: permission. His existence was an embodied permission for me to be radically authentically me. His way of being in the world was a permission for me to build my own path. His last words to me were literally a very sweary and direct permission to develop my own direction and offer it out to the world, like Eric Berne did, like Mark did. He showed me that uniqueness is valuable and being oneself without shame or apology is important. I will coach, teach and live in gratitude to Mark.
September 5, 2024
It is really hard to put into words the deep sadness I feel at the passing of such a remarkable, warm and thankfully imperfect human being.
Like so many others, I found Mark to be real and relatable - in one moment, sharing or explaining something that helped transform my understanding of Trauma theory or practice, in the next, making some witty, hilarious observation, making us all chuckle on screen.
Learning with Mark on the Trauma Certificate training was a joy and a privilege.
He was a rare human being, in how he interacted with people, myself included, to help us feel better about ourselves in different ways, whether students, clients, colleagues or friends.
He contributed so much to helping people in the world, and had an amazing compassionate heart for helping alleviate psychological pain and suffering. I think Mark was someone who truly knew how to love people.
Like so many others, I found Mark to be real and relatable - in one moment, sharing or explaining something that helped transform my understanding of Trauma theory or practice, in the next, making some witty, hilarious observation, making us all chuckle on screen.
Learning with Mark on the Trauma Certificate training was a joy and a privilege.
He was a rare human being, in how he interacted with people, myself included, to help us feel better about ourselves in different ways, whether students, clients, colleagues or friends.
He contributed so much to helping people in the world, and had an amazing compassionate heart for helping alleviate psychological pain and suffering. I think Mark was someone who truly knew how to love people.
September 5, 2024
Mark was one of the quality lecturers I had the privilege to learn from at Salford. Quality because he knew his stuff, and he practiced his vocation. I loved that he was straightforward honest, no frills, funny, tell it how it is. His passion, empathy, and love for his work came through in every lecture and seminar. You felt it in the air. You could breathe it in. You might leave a lecture laughing out loud, or feeling challenged. When he was there, he filled the space. He held ethics and I values’ fiercely and true. He cared deeply about the work he did. I am gad there may be a recording or two on YouTube of him. Words fail me right now. I cannot do the man justice. He will be deeply missed.
September 5, 2024
I was so sad to hear of Mark's passing, and he was clearly loved by many and respected for his brilliant work. What a legacy to leave behind. I was due to attend the Trauma Focused Certificate course beginning at the end of September. I had heard only good things about Mark and his approach (and spicy language!), and I was so looking forward to both meeting him and learning from him. His loss is clearly going to leave a huge mark for many people both personally and professionally and - as I did silently back in August - I send my condolences to his husband, family and friends.
September 5, 2024
I was on two of Mark's trainings last year. He struck me as a breath of fresh air! His irreverence, his wicked sense humour, his potty mouth, his refusal to conform, his out loud and proud-ness, his passion for his clients and teaching and research - all felt wildly refreshing. He also drove me nuts with his chaotic admin but never pretended otherwise. He gave me so many permissions, not just as a trainee therapist but as a person, just by virtue of who and how he was. Thank you Mark for being so fearless and unapologetic. Your death and loss of your huge personality will leave an enormous hole. Rest in peace (or party like hell might be more your style!) : )
September 5, 2024
I’m late to the party, and as a fellow ADHD-er you knew about that, Mark. And of all people would never condem.
Due to your kindness and encouragement of mutual OK-ness and your permissiveness about authentic self-expression, you were trusted, appreciated, and loved.
You made a very positive impact in the world, on the psychotherapy scene, and in people’s hearts.
Your life was worth living. And thank you for living it.
Vauna x
Due to your kindness and encouragement of mutual OK-ness and your permissiveness about authentic self-expression, you were trusted, appreciated, and loved.
You made a very positive impact in the world, on the psychotherapy scene, and in people’s hearts.
Your life was worth living. And thank you for living it.
Vauna x
September 5, 2024
I was saddened and shocked hearing of the passing of Mark. Mark was an examiner in my phd process and made me feel very comfortable about the process and his excitement about my research truly pushed me forward. I will remember his kindness.
Condolences to Mark's family, friends, and colleagues.
Condolences to Mark's family, friends, and colleagues.
September 5, 2024
I was so shocked and sad to hear the news of Mark's passing. Mark was so full of life and had so much of it left to live!
It's been very comforting to read these comments and to reflect on the huge impact Mark had on thousands of people. What a testament to him that he resonated deeply with so many people.
I'll always remember attending a lecture that Mark gave on working with LGBTQ clients when I was training at Salford several years ago. He was brimming with passion, heart and infectious energy.
Mark also led the counselling service at Salford when I volunteered there. Despite clearly having a lot on his plate, he always made time for me and also made a point of expressing his appreciation for the work I did. His care for clients shone through in every interaction we had. I was moved when I reread his warm, supportive and irreverent emails recently.
I'll particularly remember Mark for his warmth, intelligence and congruence. He was so real and that will continue to inspire me for years to come.
My heart goes out to Mark's husband, family, friends, clients, colleagues and students. He really was a special guy. Thank you Mark.
It's been very comforting to read these comments and to reflect on the huge impact Mark had on thousands of people. What a testament to him that he resonated deeply with so many people.
I'll always remember attending a lecture that Mark gave on working with LGBTQ clients when I was training at Salford several years ago. He was brimming with passion, heart and infectious energy.
Mark also led the counselling service at Salford when I volunteered there. Despite clearly having a lot on his plate, he always made time for me and also made a point of expressing his appreciation for the work I did. His care for clients shone through in every interaction we had. I was moved when I reread his warm, supportive and irreverent emails recently.
I'll particularly remember Mark for his warmth, intelligence and congruence. He was so real and that will continue to inspire me for years to come.
My heart goes out to Mark's husband, family, friends, clients, colleagues and students. He really was a special guy. Thank you Mark.
September 5, 2024
I think it speaks volumes about the person Mark was that I never met him in person but was heart wrenchingly floored by the news that he is no longer on the earth with us. A loss that feels far too soon. My heart goes out to his husband and family will be devastated. I did a five day training with Mark on trauma online two years ago and it was such a pleasure because of Marks charisma. Being a therapist of the same generation I felt a huge connection with Mark and I loved everything about him☺️ I felt like I’d made a friend which is perhaps silly but is testimony to his warmth, kindness and ability to connect with people. I feel absolutely gutted that he’s gone and that I won’t get to do more training with such a special skilled and incredible human. Rest in power Mark the world is so much richer for you having been in it. I will remember you at gin o’clock or with a cuppa most fondly. Love and strength to all those mourning him.
September 4, 2024
I was lucky to know Mark when he supervised me on my MSc Supervision.
Both being from Sheffield, kicked started our relationship with lots of banter, colloquialisms, and humour. He was an excellent supervisor. Rigorous, thought provoking and always supportive.
I was gutted to hear of Mark’s death. A man so full of life. He will always be in my heart.
Both being from Sheffield, kicked started our relationship with lots of banter, colloquialisms, and humour. He was an excellent supervisor. Rigorous, thought provoking and always supportive.
I was gutted to hear of Mark’s death. A man so full of life. He will always be in my heart.
September 3, 2024
Mark introduced me to TA as a client many years ago. He talked a language that made sense and gave me a voice, when those around wanted to silence me. I found humour, compassion, empathy, authenticity and a wonderful man who "listened" and saw me.
I embarked on my own counselling training,
seeing my own clients and then opening up my own practice through his unwavering support, guidance, encouragement, exuberance, faith and pride in me.
Thank you from my heart Mark for everything that you did for me, especially "holding the light".
I won't forget you!
I love you. 💜
My sincere condolences to Philip and his family.
I embarked on my own counselling training,
seeing my own clients and then opening up my own practice through his unwavering support, guidance, encouragement, exuberance, faith and pride in me.
Thank you from my heart Mark for everything that you did for me, especially "holding the light".
I won't forget you!
I love you. 💜
My sincere condolences to Philip and his family.
September 3, 2024
Mark embodied for me what initially drew me to TA. He had a talent for explaining and teaching concepts in such a clear and human way, I always came away feeling some of the enthusiasm he had alongside the learning.
I also want to acknowledge what a brilliant book 100 Key Points is, especially the recent edition, which I devoured pretty much cover to cover as I was writing a chapter for a book; it helped me think through the type of therapist I am and want to be, several years on from my original training. A great training and reflection guide.
I also want to acknowledge what a brilliant book 100 Key Points is, especially the recent edition, which I devoured pretty much cover to cover as I was writing a chapter for a book; it helped me think through the type of therapist I am and want to be, several years on from my original training. A great training and reflection guide.
September 2, 2024
Mark had been my therapist for several years, and I owe so much to him. He helped me heal from deep trauma and grow as a person, and always with such sensitivity and insight. He genuinely changed mine and my husband's lives, and I will be eternally grateful to him. It's been really cathartic to read all these tributes and seeing how many lives he improved.
September 2, 2024
Following attaining my CTA in 2006, Mark became my supervisor for my Master of Science degree at The Berne Institute. His support, enthusiasm and warmth resonated within as he helped me to discard my “you’re not clever” Script until I achieved my MSc in Transactional Analysis in 2008. Sadly we sometimes do not realise how a person has impacted on our lives until they are gone. Mark was one of those special people to me. I will forever carry him in a special place in my heart.
September 2, 2024
I met Mark 16 years ago in Greece during my Master's Degree. He loved Greece and used to come every September with his adorable husband Philip. Mark introduced me to T.A. world. Mark was for me the whole world, teacher, supervisor, friend. I am so proud to be Mark's student. I will keep everything he taught me in my heart and I will continue to teach and do therapy with the same pathos and ethos he tauch me, in his way, in Marks' way. I love you Mark and I still do not know how I am going to manage without you...
September 1, 2024
What terribly sad news. I always think back to him fondly and am so happy to have met him. I also effectively tell others what I learned from him because he passed it on so simply and sincerely. I carry him in my heart and understand that his loved ones and friends will miss him very much.
September 1, 2024
Condolences to Philip, family and friends of Mark. Mark was a special human being, authentic, funny, intelligent, compassionate. He brought light in other people's darkness. He has left an imprint on my heart and brain. I was so saddened to hear of his death so young. I feel blessed to have had him as a tutor.
August 31, 2024
From the first time attended one of your lectures with your passion, compassion, drive and unique way of teaching you inspired me. Thanks
Glyn
Glyn
August 30, 2024
My heart goes out to you Philip and Mark's family. I was shocked when I heard the news about Mark sudden death and I was left with the feeling of how unfair life is. From my own experience of Mark, I could see that his whole heart and soul were permeating each moment of his life, he was giving all and this is very inspiring! Goodbye Mark and thank you for your generosity.
August 30, 2024
Dear Mark, thank you for the times, the contact, your mind and your refusal to conform. You have become of the folk I walk with, I hope that's OK. We'll hold you with us. Much love
August 30, 2024
I am so shocked and saddened at the loss of Mark. He was warm and empathetic with a wonderful gift for teaching and connecting with others. He had great sparkle and was instrumental in my journey to becoming a CTA psychotherapist. A heartfelt thank you to Mark. My condolences go to his husband, family and friends at this awfully sad time.
August 30, 2024
Mark, I was lucky enough to attend a couple of cpd with you. I came away thinking Wow! this guy brings energy, says what he means (no thrills) and I came away thinking Yes! . I scroll through your photo and think commitment, passion, and service! . Something that I admire and want to do myself. As i typed this i shed tears, but I don't know you. Something about you touched my soul this morning. Thank you
August 30, 2024
It has taken me a while to gather my thoughts and process Mark's passing and I am not sure I am fully there yet.
My dealings with Mark were mainly in my role as an organiser at the Humber Counselling and Psychotherapy Conference.
Mark presented our keynote at the inaugural conference in 2022 and, in true Mark style, absolutely inspired the crowd. When we invited him back for a second year, he was so humble, and so complimentary - he loved coming to Hull and described the conference in such warm terms.
He agreed to come back again in March 2025, and we were so looking forward to seeing him again. We will miss him, and will find a way to honour him. Mark's DNA will always run through the conference.
For me, Mark was inspiring. He knew his stuff inside out, mainly through an absolute passion for his subject, and for people. I admired that he said what he thought, and that absolutely gave me permission to do the same.
Permission was what I took from him. Permission to be me in the therapy room. Permission to improvise. Permission to use the models in ways client's will understand ("the trouble with TA is there are too many f**king circles Chris!).
I will miss your input Mark, the inspiration, the humour and your passion. I will continue to be inspired by you.
With love to Phillip and Mark's family.
Rest in Peace Mark.
My dealings with Mark were mainly in my role as an organiser at the Humber Counselling and Psychotherapy Conference.
Mark presented our keynote at the inaugural conference in 2022 and, in true Mark style, absolutely inspired the crowd. When we invited him back for a second year, he was so humble, and so complimentary - he loved coming to Hull and described the conference in such warm terms.
He agreed to come back again in March 2025, and we were so looking forward to seeing him again. We will miss him, and will find a way to honour him. Mark's DNA will always run through the conference.
For me, Mark was inspiring. He knew his stuff inside out, mainly through an absolute passion for his subject, and for people. I admired that he said what he thought, and that absolutely gave me permission to do the same.
Permission was what I took from him. Permission to be me in the therapy room. Permission to improvise. Permission to use the models in ways client's will understand ("the trouble with TA is there are too many f**king circles Chris!).
I will miss your input Mark, the inspiration, the humour and your passion. I will continue to be inspired by you.
With love to Phillip and Mark's family.
Rest in Peace Mark.
August 29, 2024
A generous, honest and dynamic man. Although I didn't know you well, your personality shone through all the same. You have left a strong and powerful legacy.
August 29, 2024
such an inspiration to the TA world, may you always be a light in the rainbow 🌈
August 28, 2024
Thank you for sharing your wisdom, passion, love and spirit. I only got to meet you briefly but what you shared has stayed with me. I hope I can live life as fiercely and as fearlessly. Truly a inspiration.
August 28, 2024
When you are fortunate enough to meet someone enlightened, quick-witted, inspirational, encouraging and with such an infectious zest for life and TA, you will always remember them. They leave an invisible mark and you are always able to recall the impact they have had on you. Mark was one of those gems. I shall miss the lost opportunities to have worked with you more. Party on Mark.
August 28, 2024
Mark I knew you as therapist trainer and then as a valued colleague. I loved your openness, irreverance and passion. You will be deeply missed.
August 28, 2024
I met Mark one time in my life. I was a 21 year old undergrad student and I was keen to explore working in therapy. Through some contacts, I reached out to Mark and received a reply email back from him almost immediately inviting me round to his house to have a chat about his career and give some guidance to my potential next steps. I spent a few hours with him as he gave advise and support in different areas of training and experience that I might pursue. I went on to do my TA foundational year with his advise and completed my doctorate in counselling psychology. That was almost 15 years ago now. Although only being in his presence one time, mark regularly kept in touch. I actually had a messenger exchange with him just a few months ago. He would often reach out and celebrate my successes with me show continual care and support. Mark was a key figure in shaping my career and I am eternally grateful for that one meeting that we shared. I was so sad to hear about his passing. My memories of him will be that he was a man of great care and character.
August 28, 2024
I first met you Mark when you were a trainee. At some point we must have both attended a group where I shared some of my childhood experience. Some years later you told me in another group setting what had been the impact on you of my experiences and the resulting Script decisions I had made, and In that instant I felt seen heard and understood. You "got me" even though we never engaged in therapy. You had a skill to see between the lines and account the human. As a result I asked you to tutor/supervise my dissertation for MSc. having had no academic experience prior to CTA this was a challenge to me. You challenged and supported me in a way that was far more than the sum of the parts. I will forever be grateful for your part in my journey. Since the shock of your passing I have seen that in sharing everyone says something very similar. You had a powerful skill to engage with the person in front of you as if they were most important. You connected with the core of the person that filled so many gaps in their history inspiring confidence in their ability. Mark you will be so missed in the TA community and your inspiration will live on in all the people you engaged with. Who knows what they will achieve. Farewell dear man.
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