

What good shall I do this day?
Obituary
Mark J. Ginanni, age 66, of Palo Alto, California, passed away peacefully on December 21, 2025 after a thirteen-month-long battle with GBM. Born on May 8, 1959, Mark was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, coach (Wilcox and Paly High Schools), teacher (Peterson and Jordan/Greene Middle Schools), and friend, whose presence touched the lives of so many.
Mark's joyful spirit and outgoing nature made it easy for him to connect with people wherever he went - he could make friends with anyone regardless of the language they spoke or their background. A common love of wine, sports, or fishing was generally his jumping-off point, but his genuine interest in others meant he could find commonalities among differences, too. He will be fondly remembered for his warmth, honesty, and boundless energy.
Athletic and adventurous, Mark embraced the outdoors and found happiness in exploring the beauty of nature and catching fish in any creek, stream, river, or lake he could find.
Friends and family cherished his stability under pressure, his unwavering optimism, and the genuine goodness he shared so freely with those around him.
Mark’s passion for life was evident in his relationships and the countless friendships he cultivated. It’s impossible to express here the impact Mark had on others - he had a unique gift for making people feel happy, special, seen and heard - his ability to build relationships was profound and can only be measured by the love he accumulated from the people he surrounded himself with. All who knew him knew what it meant to be loved and we are all better because of it. This will be his legacy. His laughter, kindness, generosity, integrity, and loving commitment to his family will continue to inspire all who knew him.
Mark is survived by his wife of 45 years, Cindy (Raffarin) Ginanni, children, Joe, Christie and John, their spouses, Tris, Joe and Kaylyn, grandchildren, Asher, Hank, Norah, Jack, and Lorenzo, sister, Joanne (Bruce), brother, Joe (Suzy), niece and nephews, Alyssa, Matt, Justin, and Ryan, cousins Katy and Claudia, great-aunt Mary Belle Ginanni, and countless friends, former students and players.
A celebration of his wonderful life will be held at the Lucie Stern Community Center in Palo Alto on March 1, from 2:00 to 4:00 pm. All are welcome to join in remembrance of a truly remarkable man.
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Watching over my grandparents who moved in across the street.
Reconnecting with my Dad and soon beginning their coaching career together.
Meeting my best and longest friend/Bruh John.
John and I had front row seats to what true friendship looks like. Mark was the only man that I knew who wasn’t intimidated by my dad. He was the Barney Rubble to my dad’s Fred Flintstone. He loved my dad for who he truly was. My dad felt comfortable enough to remove his armor, put down the shield and really relax when with Mark. He could be himself and breathe. My dad is and has always been my hero but Mark gave me the rare opportunity to see my dad’s heart. That was so special for me to see as a kid. Now that I am a father I realize how important that was. We all felt so safe with the Ginannis. I am so thankful. I love you guys so much. I have so many core memories. All the Blue Bronco rides to the cabin. All the rides to watch Joe and Christie’s sports game singing The Monkeys. All the BBQ’s and family parties. The Xmas mornings. I could go on and on. I cherish those times. They have left a life long impression on me. I will do my best to give all the game Mark gave to me to give it to my boys.
Mark became a brother to me when I was only ten years old. As I grew into those difficult teenage years and found myself "messing up," he was right there alongside my sister and parents—not to judge, but to offer the sane, steady counsel I so desperately needed.
Our family can be a beautiful whirlwind, but Mark was always the calm center of the storm. He was the one person who could always ground us, acting as the quiet, rational fixture in every room. I loved him for that balance, but I also admired him for the way he loved. He was always so handsome, and it was so clear how deeply he loved my sister.
I’ll never forget the sound of his "two honks" as he drove away at night, with my parents standing on the sidewalk waving him off. He was part of the fabric of our lives from the very beginning, and he will be missed beyond words.

One day I was walking Old Spanish Trail and low and behold, there was Mark jogging on the trail! We stopped, surprised to see each other up there! We talked for at least 20-30 minutes about encounters we had hiking on this trail. One instance in particular, Mark shared that he had once come upon a young mountain lion lying on his back enjoying the warm sunshine, batting at a butterfly. I could visualize the scene. And we both chuckled to think this mighty lion was so relaxed and playing!
In the next few years, I saw Mark and Cindy regularly picking up Asher and Norah from Walter Hays. It was always a joy to connect with them. We did a lot of small talk, but Mark reminded me that when I retired to enjoy each day (especially if you meet friends at Cafe Venetia!) So, one day after I retired, I met two friends there. There was Mark! It was evident that everyone knew and loved him. He escorted us to the counter and insisted that he treat us all to coffee! We sat down together and enjoyed another wonderful conversation with Mark!
I feel fortunate to have known such a kind, welcoming, generous and thoughtful man. He is the kind of person that makes our experiences in life rich. To know Mark, even in those brief moments, were very special and I will always remember his enthusiasm and joy in everyday life. What a role model!
My thoughts are with you Cindy, Joe, John, Christie, spouses and grandchildren. We are all lucky to have him in our lives; he certainly made the world a better place!
As a coach, Mr. Ginanni taught me far more than the fundamentals of the game. He instilled values of discipline, accountability, and respect—lessons that extended well beyond the baseball field and have stayed with me throughout my life. His influence helped shape me not only as an athlete, but as a person.
What stood out most was the example he set as a family man and father. The pride he had in his family was evident in everything he did, and it left a lasting impression on me. Seeing how he balanced leadership, integrity, and devotion to his loved ones made a meaningful impact that I will always carry with me.
My heartfelt condolences go out to the entire Ginanni family. Mr. Ginanni’s legacy lives on through the many lives he touched, and I am truly grateful to have been one of them.
— Rafael
Three years ago, I began spending my days working out of the house next to his. One afternoon, we started chatting in his front yard, and suddenly it clicked—this was Ginanni. That kicked off a very frequent happening: seeing Mark and stopping for a ten-minute conversation. We’d talk about my kids and Paly sports; he’d share stories about his kids and grandkids.
Then we discovered our shared passion for fly fishing. Each day, as I walked up the street or headed out, I’d hope to see him out front.
I’ve missed those chats this past year, and I’ll miss him. Mark was one of the most authentic and seemingly content people I’ve known. I choose to see his passing as a lasting reminder to slow down and have the conversations—sometimes great impact comes from simple chats in a front yard.
The Marty Family
It was just pure joy to be around Mark in the park after school from day one. He would bring the wonderful smile, the joy for life and passion every time we saw him. Mark inspired all kids to be better in school, better at sports and better one to another. Our kids loved him and we loved him.
We will greatly miss you Mark.
Prelovac Family
Vlad, Beka, Petra, Masha, Zoe
Our family of five shared many memories, that were thankfully documented through photographs. These photos will always be with my brother, Joe and I, and hopefully passed on after we are no longer here. And as we grew into adults, got married and had our own children, the tradition of taking photos carried on.
For the past year, during Mark’s illness, photos have been a source of strength. And now, as the healing process begins, they will do the same. He will never be far from my thoughts, and to miss him is to honor and remember him always.
This collage, mostly of the three of us, is just a fraction of the images taken throughout the years. They are priceless.
Bring the camera. Take the photos. Create the memories.
It’s never too late to start.
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Family tree
(Nelson) Ginanni
(Suzy Ginanni)
(Bruce Caruth)
(Joe Stepan)


(Tristan Ngoon Ginanni)


(Kaylyn Reyes)

(Suzy Ginanni)
(Bruce Caruth)
(Joe Stepan)


(Tristan Ngoon Ginanni)


(Kaylyn Reyes)


Service
March 1, 2026 at the Lucie Stern Community Center in Palo Alto. 2-4pm.
The memorial will be held in the ballroom, followed by snacks and refreshments in the patio. Casual attire. All are welcome, please RSVP below.
Parking is VERY limited at the community center! Please allow extra time to find parking in the neighborhood, or arrive via rideshare, bike, or on foot!

