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We honour the life and memory of Margaret Nicholas, a remarkable woman whose presence graced this world for 79 beautiful years. Born in the town of Springs, South Africa, Margaret’s journey through life was filled with friends, Christian fellowship and wonderful family.
Margaret was the loving mother of Angela and Sheryl, two remarkable daughters who carry forward her legacy of kindness and strength. Loving grandmother to Louise, Winston, Kelvin, Brandon, and Rowan and Great Grandmother to Henry and Hugo.
Margaret was the epitome of an independent woman, with strong views and unwavering opinions. Although her relationships with her daughters were not always perfect, there was never a doubt about the depth of her love for them. Her independence and strong will, shaped her interactions, though Angela and Sheryl were always in her heart, cherished and loved.
Margaret and Edward went on to build their martial home at Pitcairn Road, in the seaside city of Durban. Margaret was very house proud and enjoyed decorating and organising her home. Her daughters were raised here, and enjoyed many family occasions, especially as her family kept growing with the marriage of both daughters, and proud arrival of her 5 grandchildren. She filled her days with a love of music, knitting and sewing, as well as working and immersing herself in the Durban Church Life. She established communities of friends in the city and enjoyed outings with them.
In 2019, Margaret moved to the quaint dorp of Montagu, leaving behind the bustling city of Durban. It was here in Montagu that Margaret truly found a second home. Despite the suddenness of her passing, it brings some comfort to know that she left us peacefully, surrounded by the serene beauty of the place she had come to love.
In Montagu, Margaret became more than just a resident, she became a cherished friend to many. Her warm smile, her genuine kindness, and her willingness to lend a helping hand endeared her to all who had the pleasure of knowing her. Margaret had an incredible ability to connect with people, to listen, and to make everyone feel valued and cherished. Her friendships were deep and sincere, and her absence will be profoundly felt by the community she had touched.
Margaret’s life was also defined by her faith. She was a dedicated Christian, profoundly religious, and always in search of God’s wisdom. Through every joy and every challenge, she trusted in the Lord, and sought refuge in His love. Her faith was a cornerstone of her existence, providing her with strength and solace, especially through some very difficult health-related challenges. Her unwavering belief in God’s plan, and her constant pursuit of His guidance, inspired likeminded around her. Her spiritual journey was a testament to her deep and abiding faith.
Margaret shared a very special bond with her brother, Ronnie Lee. Their relationship was one of mutual respect, affection, and unwavering support. Throughout their lives, Ronnie was not just a brother, but a confidant and a steadfast companion. They shared countless memories, from their childhood in Springs, to their later years, always finding joy in each other's company. Ronnie’s presence in Margaret’s life was a source of great comfort and strength, and their bond remained strong through all the ups and downs.
Margaret was married to Edward Nicholas for 36 years, a union that brought forth many cherished memories and two wonderful daughters, Angela and Sheryl. Sadly, after Angela and Sheryl were married, Margaret and Edward found themselves growing apart and eventually divorced. Despite this, it was evident that Margaret never stopped caring for Edward. They were both deeply religious individuals, bound by their faith, but life's complexities led them down different paths. Their separation was a difficult chapter, yet Margaret held onto the respect she had for Edward, carrying with her the positive aspects of their shared journey.
Margaret’s life was a testament to the strength of the human spirit. She faced challenges with grace and courage, always finding a way to bring joy and positivity to those around her. Her legacy is one of compassion, and an unyielding belief in the goodness of people, fortified by her faith.
As we remember Margaret, let us celebrate the incredible woman she was. Let us honor her memory by carrying forward her kindness, her warmth, and her unwavering love for friends and family. Margaret Nicholas may have left this world, but her memory lives on in the hearts of all who knew her.
Rest in peace, mother. You will be dearly missed, but never forgotten. May your testimony, Mom, of the ‘Joy of Your Heavenly Salvation’ live on and comfort all on your sudden passing. May you have found your true Heavenly Beauty, love always.
‘To bestow on you a crown of Beauty’ Isaiah 61:3. Your legacy of love, faith, and friendship will continue to inspire us all.
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the steadfastness in God that you showed us. I have great admiration for how you made a second home in Montagu and a set of friends that love you dearly. Your accomplishment in building such a solid foundation in Christ is very inspiring
Thank you for sharing the life albums and details of your Mom's life. Your family home made a big impression on us Nicholas girls and your contemporary furniture was ahead of time. We loved the huge family gatherings.
I pray Ang and Sheryl that you continue your tradition of taking time out for a cup of tea and cake. It must be a Nicholas thing indeed. Much love Ang and Sheryl. Col, Darryl and Lulu xxx
Montagu not so long ago, she was an inspiration to all her friends. We both had physical issues and Margaret had the nack of helping through the days
Margaret often came to me in Huis Uitvlucht to chat and I would always feel ready to face the world again!!
I miss Margie so much..no more pain, go well Margie
Going to miss your visits to the branch.
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