Margaret Cave

Firsts met her when she first came to the care home and I was one of the first people who spoke to her and then from then we became friends.
Everytime we saw her she gave us a hug and shook hands and when I lost my husband she was very good to me.
And also she gave me a little tin where you put pills in with a dog on it this was specially given to me due to my kindness to her when she first came here..

To me you was Alex’s mom. Who I always had time to visit on my trips up to visit. Cutting your hair and having a gossip about Alex’s current life and Vikki. Plus Alex when she was a child! I loved that time. You was such a bright and happy person and always made me laugh with your little digs to Alex about food and men!

You will be missed but I’m so happy your reunited with your love and no doubt a packet of fags!

Love always … Gracy

In Memory of My Beloved Mum
Mum, saying goodbye to you is so difficult. You were my real mum, my friend, and no one can ever replace you.
I treasure all our special moments together. I remember fondly how we'd go blackberry picking when I was a little girl, and how you'd help me with my Brownie activities. One of my favourite memories is visiting the plane museum with you, and the time we restored a jet aircraft cockpit alongside Dad. You were always so proud of my work at Flag Fen, where I learned about archaeology and history, inspired by your own love of the past.
Your support was unwavering as I ventured into the world of work. You gave me the confidence to work in shops, helping me overcome my fears of interacting with the public. I can still taste those delicious mince pies you'd make every Christmas - they were a highlight of the season for me.
Mum, you looked after me so well, always caring and fighting for me. When cruel people bullied me or wouldn't accept me because of my disabilities, you stood up for me fiercely. You may have been small in stature, but you were a giant in my life.
Your patience knew no bounds. You taught me to read and to walk without supports, encouraged me to ride horses, and instilled in me a deep love for animals. Thanks to you, I learned the importance of charity and trustworthiness. I felt so special when you entrusted me with caring for your beloved cats.
I'm grateful for all the skills you passed on to me. You taught me to knit, nurtured my love for puzzles, and showed me the joys of gardening. Our trip to America with Dad opened my eyes to the wider world, just as you always encouraged me to broaden my horizons.
Mum, your cleverness and love for people were inspiring. You taught me the value of friendliness and how to connect with others. I miss our visits when you were in the home, but I'm thankful for the bravery you showed in letting me have my own flat.
Your love and support have shaped me into who I am today. I miss you terribly, Mum, but I carry your love with me always. Thank you for everything.
With all my love, Vicki

What an amazing person and what a remarkable life. I feel lucky that I got to meet you. Always grateful for the messages of encouragement and best wishes passed on through Alex. A true advocate for all your children, your family and a friend to many x

I remember the first time I met you. I had popped into work on my day off, and you had only been at Longueville for a few days. You asked me where the rest of my ripped jeans were, showing that great personality and sense of humor of yours. You then became such a huge part of my day, helping with activities, giving advice, and most of all, making me laugh. I miss you greeting me as I come on shift with your huge smile and cheeky comments.

R.I.P. Margaret

Lovely lady always with a smile nothing to much bother for her always asking how our mum was will be sadly missed

I have only known her briefly since my mum arrived at Longueville Court but she always greeted me with a smile, asking how my mum is. She will be missed for her welcoming smile when you walked in

It was my privilege to have known Margaret for the later part of her life and to be considered a friend. It’s hard to put Margaret into a few words but to me she was a woman of strength and resilience, honest as the day is long and I feel she achieved a life of great value and clearly was valued.

A graceful woman (even on her mobility scooter) and certainly a woman to aspire to, a leader and a Pirate! I know Margaret will be sorely missed by all who’s lives she touched and especially those who loved her. My deepest sympathy to Vicki, Richard and Alex.

Margaret, you faced many challenges in life with such determination and dignity and understood that” a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor”. I will never forget you, especially as you took your final journey on my birthday. Also, tell John he owes me a roast dinner! Rest easy Shipmate! Ellen Xxx

I don’t even know where to begin.
I am just glad that when I popped back into the hospital to bring you a hairbrush whilst on shift, I woke you up. You looked so peaceful but something inside said to wake you up. We had a brief chat and then you said I love you and I replied see you later mother as I usually did.
Kicking myself for not saying I love you back, maybe if I knew that was the last time I’d talk to you I would have. I hope you knew how much you were loved.
I miss you Mum, I miss the days of when I was a kid and I’d lie on the sofa with my head in your lap. I miss our chats, I miss your words of wisdom.
I miss your rebellious side and the fact you brought that out in me. I loved that you thought it was great I forged your signature on my homework book, that I skipped school yet still excelled.
You always inflated my skill within the Ambulance Service always telling people that I was a paramedic, you were just so proud.
I miss the - this is my baby and she’s in/was in the Navy intro you always did.
We always conspired against Dad. You nicked my shoes and clothes.
Always there for me whenever I needed you.
In the last few years you’d been my rock. You sometimes made mistakes but you rectified them and with humility.
You always welcomed every friend of mine as a member of family, you loved hearing the stories, you loved my goddaughters as your own.
I loved that you thrived in Barchester. I loved that you were there at the door greeting everyone.


You were Vicki’s biggest protector, always fighting her corner. When I said goodbye to you and also Dad I promised I would look after Vicki and I will do so.
I loved that you were also Richards best friend. We wouldn’t have had him here I don’t think if that were not the case.

I do miss us winding him up about his untidiness!

You could talk the hind legs of a donkey, but that’s what I loved, you were a friend to all. It’s why you were so loved.

I won’t miss your cooking though!

Only person I’d allow to hug me, I miss your hugs.

You were taken too soon but I am pleased you’re no longer in pain.

I hope you’re giving Dad hell up there, also I hope you’re keeping a watchful eye over us along with everyone else who is up there.

Mum never said in person - however I love you and I hope you knew that xx

I did not know Margaret for very long, but we became great freinds, always greating each other when she was sat in reception, she will be sadly miss by myself and the rest of the home and visitors,
R.I.P. Margaret no longer in pain

Mum,
I miss you - your wisdom, your rebellious spirit, your creativity, and your boundless love.
You were the best cat mum, with a magical touch that gave all your felines long, happy lives.
Your cooking was legendary (for all the wrong reasons!), but I'd give anything for one more of your ham and salad cream sandwiches.
For 25 years, I faced the darkest sides of humanity, but with you, I always felt calm and safe.
You were my best mate, my friend, and the only person who truly knew me.
Your strong sense of justice and your ability to set the world to rights were inspiring.
Though you're gone, your love remains, a beacon in my life.
Rest peacefully, Mum. You are deeply missed and forever loved.

Richard and Willow, xx