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Obituary
IN LOVING MEMORY OF OUR MATRIARCH FLORENCE MOJISOLA AKINPELU (NEE AKINDELE)
With deep sorrow but gratitude to God for a life well-lived, we announce the passing of our beloved wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, and matriarch, Florence Mojisola Akinpelu (nee Akindele), who transitioned to eternal glory on 1st January 2025.
Born in 1940 into a prominent Akindele family in Oyo Town, Nigeria, she was raised in the Islamic faith before accepting Christ and being baptized at St. Michael’s Anglican Church, Esiele, Oyo, in 1964. Her lineage reflects deep ties to the royal history of Oyo. Her father, Mr. Shitu Mogbonjubola Akindele, was the son of Chief Sunmonu Oyewole Akindele, the Laguna of Oyo. Her paternal grandmother, Sie Ejide Akindele (nee Ladigbolu), a princess of the Ladigbolu ruling House of the Alaafin of Oyo, further cementing her royal heritage.
Her mother, Oyegbenjo Ajogbe Akindele, hailed from the Are-ago Asipa compound in Oyo. Mama Akinpelu’s early life was shaped by her father’s absence due to his sojourn in Togo, leaving her under the care of her uncle, Late. Alhaji K. O. Akindele, and later Late. Barrister Ganiyu Oyetunji Akindele.
Education and Early Career
Mama Florence attended St. Andrews College Primary Demonstration School, Oyo, where she was exposed to foundational educational principles that instilled in her a lifelong passion for teaching. Later, she enrolled in DC (Divisional Council) Secondary Modern School in Durba, Oyo. These formative educational experiences played a pivotal role in shaping her worldview, emphasizing the value of hard work, discipline, and the transformative power of education. These principles guided her throughout her distinguished career as an educator and community mentor.
After completing her initial education, she began her career as a pupil teacher at Divisional Council (DC) Primary School, Igboho. Eager to advance in her field, she attended the Local Authority Teacher Training College (LATTC), Oyo, where she trained from 1962 to 1964. This period was instrumental in refining her teaching skills and laying a strong foundation for her future achievements.
Her teaching career took her to several primary schools, including DC School Imeleke, DC School Onira, and DC School Ipeba. In these rural settings, she demonstrated unwavering commitment to her pupils.
Marriage and Family Life
In 1960, during a bus journey to Okeho, Mama Florence met the love of her life, Benjamin Akinola Akinpelu from Agbelu compound, Akinmorin, Oyo, while he was a young man studying at Government Teacher Training College, Ibadan. Though reserved at first, Florence eventually embraced the relationship, which blossomed into marriage in April 1965.
Their union was blessed with six children, nine grandchildren and two great-grandchildren whom she raised with strong discipline, self-reliance, and deep-rooted values:
Mama Florence’s home was a haven of love and discipline, not only for her biological children but also for numerous extended family members and non-biological children whom she raised as her own.
Career Advancements and Education
After relocating to Lagos in 1968, Mama Florence’s teaching career continued to flourish. She began working at Ajeromi Local Government Primary School, Apapa, as a Grade 3 teacher. Determined to enhance her qualifications, she attended Government Teacher Training College, Surulere, where she earned a Grade 2 certification. Her dedication to education didn’t end there; she sought to improve continually, enrolling at the University of Lagos for the Associate Diploma Course in Education, which she completed in 1981. This accomplishment marked a significant milestone in her career and paved the way for her promotion to Vice-Principal of St. Joseph Catholic Secondary School, Surulere.
Support for Grandpa’s Career
Mama Florence was a steadfast partner to her husband. She followed him to various postings across Nigeria, including a significant move to Jos in 1974, where she taught at St. Luke’s Anglican Primary School. Despite the demands of relocation and managing a growing family, she never wavered in her commitment to her profession. She often used her expertise to organize literacy workshops in these new communities, benefiting her students and the adults eager to learn.
Retirement and Post-Career Activities
After 35 years of dedicated service, Mama Florence retired as a Headmaster Class 1 at Imam Shuaib Primary School, Ijeshatedo, Surulere, in 1997. After retirement, she seamlessly transitioned into entrepreneurship, trading to support her family. She established thriving ventures such as grain trading and tailoring, all underpinned by a disciplined business mindset.
Her entrepreneurial flair extended to community development. One of her standout achievements was founding the Grain Millers Association, Bada, Ayobo, Ipaja, Lagos. An initiative that empowered women to gain financial independence through grain milling and sales. Through this association, she introduced training programs that enhanced the economic potential of dozens of families in her community. Recognizing her dedication, she was awarded accolades at local trade fairs for her contribution to women’s empowerment.
Beyond business, Mama remained a passionate advocate for education. She organized free tutoring programs and worked closely with her church to provide adult literacy classes, empowering countless women with the tools to read, write, and manage their finances.
Faith and Community Service
Mama Florence’s faith was central to her life. She was an active member of her church, contributing tirelessly to women’s groups, mentorship programs, and community initiatives. In 2018, she was honored with the “Best Family Harvest” award at St. James’s Anglican Church, Bada-Balogun, Gowon Archdeaconry, for her outstanding dedication to the church and her community.
She also played a crucial role in establishing a community library and youth mentorship programs, ensuring that the next generation had access to resources that would equip them for the future.
A Legacy of Love, Leadership, and Service
Florence Mojisola Akinpelu (née Akindele) leaves behind a legacy of strength, resilience, leadership, and unwavering faith. Her devotion to family, commitment to education, and entrepreneurial ingenuity will forever be remembered. Her life was a testament to the power of selflessness, hard work, and unwavering faith in God. She nurtured generations, uplifted communities, and empowered women, leaving footprints of impact that shall endure for years to come.
Though she is no longer with us, her spirit lives on in the countless lives she touched. We celebrate a life well-lived, a journey well-travelled, and a legacy that shall never fade.
Rest peacefully, Mama Florence. Your love, light, and wisdom shall remain in our hearts forever.
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Founded the Grain Millers Association, Bada, Ayobo, Ipaja, Lagos, an initiative that empowered women through grain milling and sales.
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The news of your demise came to me as a rude shock, having spoken to Kunmi at 7AM, and he assured me you were still with us and resting. Only to hear 3 hours later that you had gone to be with your maker. You were unique in your birth and death even as you were in life.
Born on Christmas Day, died on New Year's Day!
It never crossed my mind that I was seeing you for the last time when I had to travel impromptu in October 2024. A journey you did not want me to take! But I had to go.
I've reached for my phone uncountable times, wanting to speak to you, only to be jolted back to the reality of the impossibility of that ever happening again.
Looking back, I have nothing but gratitude to God for giving me a mother like you! You were simply the best!
Thank you for the way you raised us and every child that came into your home. You raised us to be loving, hard working, accommodating, fair to all, honest, generous, the attributes are endless.
To be a homemaker, teaching us sewing, knitting, etc, skills we were always grumbling about. We never knew they would come in handy later when we married(laugh)
You were my mentor, my confidant, my prayer partner. A fervent believer who took every challenge to God in prayer and fasting and also taught us to.
I am gradually coming to terms with your departure, mum. That initial feeling of nakedness is gone, replaced with the cloak of absolute faith in God, and an assurance that you are in a better place.
Thank you, mum, for the love & care for me, my husband & our children.
We love you, but God loves you more.
May your sweet soul continue to rest in perfect peace till resurrection day.
Your daughter,
Oyenike Adesola.
Mummy wa, your departure is like a dream. Indeed still dreaming o.
Your lived a life with boldness, never afraid to take risks, encourage others around you to follow their dreams and visions. Most especially in business and academics. You are always ready to invest in anyone with good business ideas. Mummy you were a hard worker who loved hardworking people. You joined the night traveller market women *Alajapa* to buy garri for the people around you to enjoy and buy at cheaper price. I will always remember your love and praises that aunty re ko e, osi gbe eko. I will never forget the night you called us to pray together not knowing you are giving a parable. We are missing your lovely environment, jisting, stories, advice, cheerfulness, dramas and your motherly shouting. You are such a lovely wonderful personality for those that understand you. Omo Olofa, rest on ma. Your daughter -in-law Leah Akinpelu
Brother Paul in 2 Timothy 4:7-8 says
7 I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith:8 Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day: and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his appearing. Congratulations mummy for a job well done. We will meet at the resurrection morning. Good night Mummy
We are deeply saddened by the shock of your passing, but we find solace in the wonderful memories we shared and the profound impact you had on our lives.
We thank God for sharing you with us as a precious gift—an ornament full of joy and grace. Your unwavering love, kindness, and the beautiful memories you created and shared with all of us will continue to endure and be cherished in our hearts.
Mummy, your spirit will forever be etched in our hearts, and we are all eternally grateful for your presence in our lives. May you continue to rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ until we meet to part no more.
Pastor Oyetunde Jinadu
Mommy,
Where do I even begin? It feels like a dream to sit here and reflect on everything you've done for me, and I know that no words could ever truly capture the depth of my love and gratitude for you. But I will try.
Every day, I find myself cherishing the memories of you raising me—shaping me into the woman I am today. From the very start, you taught me the importance of hard work, responsibility, and unconditional love. The values you instilled in me are now guiding me as I try my best to pass them on to my children. One of the most important lessons was the way you never made distinctions between us. Everyone had house chores, boy or girl, older or younger, no exceptions. I carry that with me every day, teaching my children the same sense of equality and responsibility.
I’ll never forget how you encouraged us all to cook, even when we were not the best at it. You made sure that no matter what we made, good or bad, it had to be eaten with love and appreciation. You were more than a mother—you were my best teacher, showing me not just how to survive, but how to thrive with grace, patience, and humility.
I often think of those Christmases we spent together—cooking for hundreds of people. At the time, I remember feeling upset because we never got to wear our special Christmas clothes. I didn’t understand why, but now I know. You were preparing me for my future, teaching me the true spirit of selflessness and generosity. You showed me that giving to others is far more important than receiving.
And then, the shopping trips to Lagos Island, Mushin, and other places. I used to get frustrated when you would say, “Omo mi ni mulo, arare bale dada.” I would frown, resisting, but now I realize how valuable those moments were. You were teaching me patience, discipline, and how to navigate the world with a sense of purpose and grace.
You never shied away from expressing yourself, making sure your views were always known. Your bluntness, which used to make me raise an eyebrow, is something I now see in myself. I think I got that from you. You were never afraid to speak your truth, and that has made me stronger, more confident, and unafraid to stand up for myself.
Mommy , I want you to know that all of your sacrifices, your wisdom, and your love have not gone unnoticed. I am who I am because of you. I carry your lessons with me every day, and I try to live in a way that honors the incredible woman you are.
I love you more than words can express, and I will forever be grateful for the lessons you you’ve taught me and the woman you’ve helped me become. Sleep on mommy till we meet to part no more.
Abidemi Jinadu (nee Akinpelu)
Grandma Florence, I write these words with a heavy heart. The thought that I will not see you again on Earth is burdensome, but even so I am very glad I was able to meet you and see you a few times. You and grandpa were so kind to my siblings and I, and I still remember the sound of your lovely voice till this day. May the good Lord console the whole family and keep you in His rest until the perfect day. Love you.
Samuel Jinadu
Grandma Florence was such a lovely women. In the short moments I was able to spend with her, she was always smiling and did her best to make sure everyone was OK. Her friendly demeanor made it clear that her and Grandpa Ben were meant for each other, together their love was beyond what can be explained. When she visited us in Atlanta, she gave my siblings and I so much attention when we put on a talent show for her. As kids, all we wanted was someone to be excited for us and that's exactly what she did. Although she is no longer here, the light that she shined through me will forever be a testament to her love and kindness. I will love you forever Grandma Florence. Rest easy.
Heritage Jinadu
Grandma Florence, had a significant impact on our lives. She shared laughter and wisdom that resonated with everyone around her.
Though she is no longer with us, her memory will continue to inspire us. Grandma Florence will be missed but never forgotten.
Ololade Jinadu
Rest in peace grandma. You have shown me kindness and love everytime we met. You pushed me to do better and your life now serves as a role model for me. Thank you.
David Jinadu
My physical contact with her on 7th December before i travelled out of town betrayed no imminent departure from the World. She just complained of weakness. What a loss!
Mummy Ayobo as she was fondly called was a loving, devoted, hospitable and committed mother, grandmother and great grandmother!
She accepted me wholly as a Son despite being a Son- in -law.
She would welcome anybody to her homes in Surulere and then Ayobo with warmth and food.
She extended love to everyone, family, the extended family members and neighbours . She loved education and ensured all denied in the extended families had access to education by using her resources.
She was an encourager and advised us to be strong in the Lord in face of challenges. She was ever thankful to God and never affected by the ephemeral things of the World.
She practiced the Christian faith very well.
She was also a repository of history. It was an endowment that will be missed.
She was a disciplinarian and could be blunt to call a spade a spade
We loved you, but God loves you more. Rest in the bosom of your maker in Jesus Name
Alhaja Limota Arinlade Akindele.
I remember how caring and protective you were to us.
Thank you for your unwavering love, the values you instilled in us, the countless moments of joy and guidance.
Rest in peace, mummy. You will be deeply missed, but never forgotten.
It's with heavy hearts that we learn of passing of Mama Florence Akinpelu, my primary school favorite teacher. Mama is a truly dedicated and inspiring educator. I will always remember mama for the way she taught us as her own children. Mama is not just a teacher, but a mother and a good mentor to us . Her dedication to us her students was truly remarkable, she made a lasting impact on all of us including my very good friend and classmate, mama's son Abiodun Akinpelu. We will forever be grateful for the good foundation , the knowledge and wisdom mama impacted on us.
May God Almighty grant Mama eternal Rest.
I remember sometimes in December of 1972, daddy and mommy came to visit us at our village. They brought us rice, bread, and tinned peak milk among many other things. It was during that visit that mommy asked me if I will like to come and live with her. As a village shy girl that I was, I turned towards the wall and said yes as I ran towards my mom who was in the kitchen. I knew they live in Lagos which is far from our village, however, as a child I quickly traded the chores of going to the farm and waking up early to fetch water for an adventure to live in Lagos.
What if I had said no? what if my parents said no? What if she did not ask at all?
Little did I know that going with her that day and at that time was a step onto the path of life that changed the course of my life. Since then, I was raised and cared for as part of the family, building memories from Sea School, Apapa, moving to Jos talking about "Dankali", or watching mummy learning to drive on a bridge across River Benue, moving back to Lagos, and most importantly, teaching me how to buy food stuff at Ajegunle, Jenta, Lawanson, or Idumota markets, Too many to mention here. Living with her gave me the opportunity to understand the value of education and I was able to develop skills I would not have. These are virtues I still carry with me today.
I remember mommy and daddy were the first in the church on my wedding day, The last time you came to visit USA, it was a moment of sharing joy. When you got back to Nigeria, you even went to visit my brother to continue to keep the family strengthened.
In conclusion, for all the time I lived with mommy, I know you as mummy, when we were living in Jos, I know you as my primary 4 teacher at St Luke’s Anglican Primary School, with your guidance I went to Oranyan Grammar School, and since I have grown up, you are not just mummy, but a caring person always asking how we are making progress in life.
We will miss you. Rest in peace.
Dr. Lydia Oladosu (Representing Aareago Family).
Though you are no longer with us, your lessons and kindness will live on in our hearts forever.
Rest in peace Mama.
Ayeriyina Yisa Abiodun. March 24th,2025
When I was admitted to Oranyan Grammar School, your dedication and love were my guiding lights. You single-handedly coordinated with our mother to ensure that every item I needed for school was meticulously arranged. This selfless act was just the beginning of a bond that would grow stronger with each passing day.
Even after your family relocated to Lagos, our connection never wavered. You remained my steadfast confidante and mentor, always keeping a watchful eye on my journey through life. Your guidance went beyond mere advice; it reflected your genuine concern for my well-being and your desire to see me thrive in living a godly life.
As I navigated the challenges of growing up, your unwavering support and wise counsel were my anchors. You never hesitated to offer insightful ideas and suggestions, always aiming to steer me towards a path of righteousness.
Your sudden departure has left a void in my heart, but your legacy of love, faith, and care will continue to inspire and guide me. I am eternally grateful for the countless ways you touched my life and the lives of those around you.
Rest well, dear sister. Your memory will forever be cherished, and your love will remain a beacon of light in my life.
With all my love,
Depo Akindele
You were such a caring grandma, as the children would like to address you, always asking after the wellbeing of every one of us: my wife, children and myself. Our last discussion via telephone was at the instance of a call I got from Muyiwa Ogunniran, who said that you wanted to see me. I put a call through to you, we discussed at length and I ended the conversation with a promise to visit you during the new year holidays. A Facebook post I saw the evening of January 1st, 2025 bearing “goodnight grandma” made me curious and I made calls immediately to confirm what the post was all about. Alas! you had left to meet your creator. We feel so devastated that we will miss the caring, loving and graceful personality that you were. May your soul find peace in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Eyin ti e fi sile ko ni baje. Didun, didun ni iranti olododo. Adieu Mama Florence Mojisola Akinpelu:
Iyeru Okin Omo Olofa Mojo Olalomi
Omo abisu Joruko ijakadi loro toffa
Ija kan ijakan ti won nja lofa
Nile Olalomi oju talose
Osoju ebe lala
Ibasoju oloko, iba lawon
Omo 'laare Omo su re ikan o gbodo ju kan
Bi kan ba ju kan nile olofamojo ogun lon'da ni ile baba wan.
Omo Oloba Meta, Oba Agunloye Alayoayo, Iba Lagunna ati Iba Ashipa. Omo Aja lo leru Iro ni Pepe npa. Omo agbo Igba 'lekun ma ta giji,Omo ojoye tan fa'ra mado, oni ara ni gbeni, Egba o gbe Omo eniyan. Sun re oo.
Abayomi Adeola Akindele
She would serve us the best meal available and never complaining
I mean every Sunday
We thank God for your life and you will be greatly missed. Your popular phrase 'Oko mi ' will always give us comfort and joy you shared during your lifetime.
Your dear husband, children and family are missing you but God knows best and we cannot complain. Rest in perfect peace my dear Auntie.
Adieu Mama Oninurere!
Our dearest Grandma Akinpelu
We love you but God loves you most ❤️❤️❤️
Mummy, your departure was sudden, we spoke on phone a day to your exit, I asked after you from Dr. Kunmi and he said you were recuperating, only to hear about your exit some hours later. We love you but Jesus loves you most. Good night ma.
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