Rev Mrs Rebecca Naa Adokailey Adotei Antwi
What we leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others
Obituary
It is with a heavy heart that the Antwi, Adotei, and Ashong families regretfully announce that our dear mother, sister, minister, and friend, fondly known to many as Mummy, Auntie Becky, and Auntie Kailey, was called to glory on the eve of 18th December 2024.
Rebecca Naa Adokailey Adotei was born on Saturday 7th November 1947 in her family home in Nsawam, Accra to her mother, Korkorbi Ashong and her dad Paa Nii Adotei, who was the Ga Chief of Nsawam and Osu, Ashintey in Greater Accra, Ghana.
She attended school at St John's Anglican mixed school in Nsawam. Rebecca was raised as a Christian however committed her life to Christ and was baptised with the Church of Pentecost, Kaneshie, Accra Ghana in 1972.
She migrated to the UK in 1982 with her children, basing herself in Deptford, South East London. Rebecca loved people, loved children, loved her community, and loved her family. She worked as a family support worker with Save the Children Fund for many years and worked as a childminder for a few years before permanently retiring in 2015. She was ordained as a minister, supporting her husband in ministry work. Through this, she bore many spiritual children whom she adored as her own.
Rebecca is survived by her husband Archbishop Edward Manasseh Antwi, her sister Stella Adotso Adotei Lartey, her children Naomi, Harriet, Joshua, and Vera, her grandchildren Edward, Bethany, Eleazar, Moriah, Jesse, Acacia, Josiah, Harley, Abel and Israel, and her step-children Isaac Antwi, Akoto Antwi, Atta Antwi, and others.
Scheduled Events
Please refer to the list below for information on all scheduled event.
Wake Keeping
Thursday 27th February | 5pm - Private viewing with Family and Close Friends.
Dress code: Black
Funeral Service
Friday 28th February | 9am
All Saints Church, New Cross
London SE14 5FF
Nearest station: New Cross Gate, Nearest bus stop: Briant Street (buses: 21, 53, 172, 453)
Also a short walk from New Cross Gate bus garage.
Dress code: Black & White
Burial
Friday 28th January | 12pm
Hither Green Cemetery, Verdant Lane. London SE6 1TP
Nearest bus stop: Whitefoot Lane (buses: 124, 284)
Funeral Rites & Celebration of Life
Friday 28th February | 2pm
Glory Hall (RCCG)
Bellingham Trading Estate
London SE6 3BX
Nearest Train Station: Bellingham, Nearest bus stop: Bellingham road (buses: 136, 320, 208, 54)
Also a short walk from Catford bus garage.
Dress code: Black & White
Available to view live on YouTube at
https://youtube.com/@naseiphotography?si=GIqkSveagpvmh1u6
Thanksgiving Service
Sunday 2nd March | 2pm
Word of Life, Union Jack Club
Sandall Street, London SE1 8UJ
Nearest Train/Tube station: Waterloo (nearest exit via Jubilee line exit), Nearest Bus stop: Waterloo Raod, Waterloo Station
Dress code: All White
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February 8, 2025
Tribute to "Inŋmaa Bi"
No words can describe how I feel about the thought that my beloved sister, Inŋmaa Bi, as we passionately call each other has passed away.
Inŋmaa Bi Rev. Rebecca, you are gone, but you will never be forgotten. We may be apart, but your memory will live within me and the family forever.
I remember when we spent time praying for our children, family and ministry.
Inŋmaa Bi my beloved sister, I remember your sense of humour and the many laughs we had together.
I am left with so many precious memories of the good times we've spent together and the joy that we'll meet in heaven.
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Rest in peace, Inŋmaa Bi.
From Rev. Mrs Clara Nana-O Mensah, Pst James Mensah and family
No words can describe how I feel about the thought that my beloved sister, Inŋmaa Bi, as we passionately call each other has passed away.
Inŋmaa Bi Rev. Rebecca, you are gone, but you will never be forgotten. We may be apart, but your memory will live within me and the family forever.
I remember when we spent time praying for our children, family and ministry.
Inŋmaa Bi my beloved sister, I remember your sense of humour and the many laughs we had together.
I am left with so many precious memories of the good times we've spent together and the joy that we'll meet in heaven.
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Rest in peace, Inŋmaa Bi.
From Rev. Mrs Clara Nana-O Mensah, Pst James Mensah and family
February 3, 2025
A Tribute to "Onua"
"Blessed are those who die in the Lord from now. Yes, says the Spirit, they will rest from their labours, for their deeds will follow them" Revelation 14:13
My family and I can confidently claim that we were one of the first families the Antwi family came into contact with when resided in Deptford.
Aunty Rebecca and I got on so well that, we affectionately addressed each other as "Onua," meaning 'sibling'
A very enduring relationship materialised between us and our respective families till today.
Onua, you wore your deep faith on your sleeve, in that you opened your home to humanity long before you became a minister. You opened your doors and arms to many and supported them, just as Jesus has asked us to do. A big hearted woman you were.
Onua Albert, the boys, Freddie & Albert jnr. and myself say;
Sleep well !!
Sleep on peacefully in the Lord till we meet again!!
✝️✝️✝️
Amen
"Blessed are those who die in the Lord from now. Yes, says the Spirit, they will rest from their labours, for their deeds will follow them" Revelation 14:13
My family and I can confidently claim that we were one of the first families the Antwi family came into contact with when resided in Deptford.
Aunty Rebecca and I got on so well that, we affectionately addressed each other as "Onua," meaning 'sibling'
A very enduring relationship materialised between us and our respective families till today.
Onua, you wore your deep faith on your sleeve, in that you opened your home to humanity long before you became a minister. You opened your doors and arms to many and supported them, just as Jesus has asked us to do. A big hearted woman you were.
Onua Albert, the boys, Freddie & Albert jnr. and myself say;
Sleep well !!
Sleep on peacefully in the Lord till we meet again!!
✝️✝️✝️
Amen
February 27, 2025
Dear Mummy,
I am forever grateful for the day I walked into your warm home, which quickly became my second home. From the moment I met you, you welcomed me as a son. I will always be grateful for how you took time to nurture us through the word of God and how you would always encounter us to “pray” and “be on fire” for God. You left an indelible mark on my life beyond words can express.
You saw potential in me. I will never forget how you sponsored me as a young man to attend my first leadership seminar when I couldn’t afford it. To the glory of God I became a leader in my church and the man of God you saw in me! You believed in me even when I didn’t believe in myself. I will never forget our very last moments before you went home to be with the Lord. You referred to me as “Osofo”, which means “pastor” from there I knew that your spirit was still strong.
The story of my life is incomplete without you. You were there for me when I needed you.
I love you and I miss you.
I look forward to eternity when we will catch up because there is still so much I needed to share with you.
Thank you for all you did and for who you have been to me.
Proverbs 10:7 The memory of the righteous is blessed...
Gerald
I am forever grateful for the day I walked into your warm home, which quickly became my second home. From the moment I met you, you welcomed me as a son. I will always be grateful for how you took time to nurture us through the word of God and how you would always encounter us to “pray” and “be on fire” for God. You left an indelible mark on my life beyond words can express.
You saw potential in me. I will never forget how you sponsored me as a young man to attend my first leadership seminar when I couldn’t afford it. To the glory of God I became a leader in my church and the man of God you saw in me! You believed in me even when I didn’t believe in myself. I will never forget our very last moments before you went home to be with the Lord. You referred to me as “Osofo”, which means “pastor” from there I knew that your spirit was still strong.
The story of my life is incomplete without you. You were there for me when I needed you.
I love you and I miss you.
I look forward to eternity when we will catch up because there is still so much I needed to share with you.
Thank you for all you did and for who you have been to me.
Proverbs 10:7 The memory of the righteous is blessed...
Gerald
February 27, 2025
Aunty Rebecca was a mentor, a mother, and a master communicator, inspiring me to be the be the person I am today. As a 13/14 year old who was wide eyed and ready to take on the world, she helped me harness my energy, by opening her home to me, encouraging me to be authentically me, whilst smoothing over the rough edges of my personality, speaking life into me, and helping me grow in my faith. Aunty Rebecca mothered me with her words, her time and energy; effortlessly, even when I didn’t know I needed it. I hold aunty Rebecca in high esteem, because she taught me how to be a stand up woman, she taught me that I have something to say, and the world needs to hear it. I had no idea that this confidence instilled in me, would take me to varying corners of the earth, that I’d be paid to speak, for companies like Burberry and Moncler, or that my wisdom would be called upon by the likes of McKinsey. Aunty Rebecca is part of my soul family, we are forever connected, eternally part of me, and the world got to see the light she carried, through me. For that, I am eternally grateful. See you soon Aunty, I love you forever.
Rachel Kaliisa
Rachel Kaliisa
February 27, 2025
Thank you, Mum, for your wisdom, love, determination, and hard work, which you demonstrated every time I saw you. You always taught me to trust in God (Jesus Christ) and that everything I need can be found in the Bible. I will forever cherish your guidance through life’s toughest moments. You were truly a blessing from God.
Olga
Olga
February 27, 2025
Dear Vera and Family
I am deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved mum her kind-hearted nature and unwavering faith have left an indelible mark on my life, through our weekly Bible study sessions, back in the day mummy guided me to understand the word of God in a profound way I must say! Her insights and dedication were a blessing that helped me stay on the straight and narrow path at the time
Her sense of humour always brought joy to our gathering’s I cherished every moment she made me laugh knowingly and unknowingly
I must also mention how she introduced me to the wonders of Ghanaian food
I will forever be grateful that God placed such a wonderful woman in my life.
She opened her home to me, creating a safe and welcoming space that felt like a second home a home away from home her Encouragement inspired me to seek a deeper connection and relationship with God and for that reason , I am eternally thankful.
Knowing mummy was a true blessing, and I am comforted by the thought that her spirit and legacy will continue to inspire me to move forward in life with my faith and God, no matter the trials or tribulations I have faced and will face.
May her soul rest in perfect peace,
May God’s grace be with you and your family during this difficult time.
With heartfelt sympathy and love,
Diana xxxx
I am deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved mum her kind-hearted nature and unwavering faith have left an indelible mark on my life, through our weekly Bible study sessions, back in the day mummy guided me to understand the word of God in a profound way I must say! Her insights and dedication were a blessing that helped me stay on the straight and narrow path at the time
Her sense of humour always brought joy to our gathering’s I cherished every moment she made me laugh knowingly and unknowingly
I must also mention how she introduced me to the wonders of Ghanaian food
I will forever be grateful that God placed such a wonderful woman in my life.
She opened her home to me, creating a safe and welcoming space that felt like a second home a home away from home her Encouragement inspired me to seek a deeper connection and relationship with God and for that reason , I am eternally thankful.
Knowing mummy was a true blessing, and I am comforted by the thought that her spirit and legacy will continue to inspire me to move forward in life with my faith and God, no matter the trials or tribulations I have faced and will face.
May her soul rest in perfect peace,
May God’s grace be with you and your family during this difficult time.
With heartfelt sympathy and love,
Diana xxxx
February 27, 2025
Mummy Rebecca
I am grateful for the time as limited as it may seem now
Reflections as all i can collate is memories in limited space
Prayers as vast and varied
Individually spoken as unique as an oceans wave
I am grateful for time taken to teach feed commune and raise our hands in rejoice and surrender
Thankful for a home a place a church a pastor a mother a family
That can impact foreign soil
And plant the love of god in this heart and mind
I am thankful for you
Mummy Rebecca
These words aren’t enough in measure
They can say what needs to be said but thank you for teaching me the love of god lives within me
Thank you for calling me
Inviting me when I could of been somewhere else breaking my already broken spirit
I am grateful to ever family member daughter son uncle cousin I met within your home
Most of all the friendships that moulded my young heart with a real understanding of sisterhood truly all a young person needs is safety
Community love and the opportunity to nurture their gifts
To be thankful and grateful is not enough, as I wish I had told you this in person.
I am thankful for you
Mummy Rebecca
These words aren’t enough in measure
They can say what needs to be said but thank you for teaching me the love of god lives within me.
May you rest in eternal peace paradise and the everlasting grace of gods love.
Love Tamsin Kayembe
I am grateful for the time as limited as it may seem now
Reflections as all i can collate is memories in limited space
Prayers as vast and varied
Individually spoken as unique as an oceans wave
I am grateful for time taken to teach feed commune and raise our hands in rejoice and surrender
Thankful for a home a place a church a pastor a mother a family
That can impact foreign soil
And plant the love of god in this heart and mind
I am thankful for you
Mummy Rebecca
These words aren’t enough in measure
They can say what needs to be said but thank you for teaching me the love of god lives within me
Thank you for calling me
Inviting me when I could of been somewhere else breaking my already broken spirit
I am grateful to ever family member daughter son uncle cousin I met within your home
Most of all the friendships that moulded my young heart with a real understanding of sisterhood truly all a young person needs is safety
Community love and the opportunity to nurture their gifts
To be thankful and grateful is not enough, as I wish I had told you this in person.
I am thankful for you
Mummy Rebecca
These words aren’t enough in measure
They can say what needs to be said but thank you for teaching me the love of god lives within me.
May you rest in eternal peace paradise and the everlasting grace of gods love.
Love Tamsin Kayembe
February 27, 2025
Good afternoon everyone. Today, we celebrate the life of Rev. Mrs. Rebecca Antwi, an extraordinary youth Bible study teacher who had a unique way of making God’s Word come alive. She could turn the story of David and Goliath into an underdog sports movie and make the parable of the prodigal son feel like a family drama with a happy ending. But beyond her humor and creativity, it was her deep love for Jesus and her genuine care for each of us that left the biggest mark. She taught us that faith isn’t about being perfect—it’s about trusting a perfect Savior. While we’ll miss her dearly, we can take comfort in knowing she’s now in the presence of the One she loved so much, probably leading a Bible study in heaven and reminding everyone to ‘keep the snacks coming.’ Let’s honor her legacy by living out the faith she so passionately shared—with joy, love, and a whole lot of trust in God’s plan.
Johnny
Johnny
February 27, 2025
Aunty Rebecca, you were such a blessing in my life. As a teenager, you not only taught me the Word of God but showed me, through your kindness and patience, what it truly means to live by it. You welcomed us into your home week after week, creating a space where we could pray, learn, and grow in our faith without fear of judgment. You were like a second mother to me—always listening, always encouraging, always guiding.
Even though many years passed without us seeing each other, I am so grateful I recently had the chance to visit you one last time. I will never forget the love and guidance you poured into my life. It’s your time to rest in perfect peace, however your legacy lives on in all of us. Thank you for everything.
Love you always,
Tara
Even though many years passed without us seeing each other, I am so grateful I recently had the chance to visit you one last time. I will never forget the love and guidance you poured into my life. It’s your time to rest in perfect peace, however your legacy lives on in all of us. Thank you for everything.
Love you always,
Tara
February 18, 2025
A TRIBUTE TO MAMA REV. REBECCA ANTWI
Gone but never forgotten.
Blessed are those who die in the Lord from now on. Yes, says the Spirit, they are blessed indeed, for they will rest from their hard work; for their good deeds follow them!– Revelation 14:13
Her Faith and Devotion
Mama Rev. Rebecca Antwi was a woman of deep faith, fully devoted to God and His work. She lived a Christ-centered life, dedicating herself to prayer, worship, and the study of God's Word. Her unwavering belief in God's promises guided her every step, and she was an example of what it means to serve the Lord wholeheartedly.
Her Service to Others
She was a servant at heart, always caring for people and showing love in practical ways. Whether through ministry, hospitality, or a word of encouragement, she touched many lives. She and her husband, Archbishop Dr. Edward Antwi, dedicated themselves to mentoring and uplifting others, ensuring that many were equipped for the work of the Lord.
Her Strength and Character
Mama Rebecca was a pillar of strength, gracious, compassionate, and full of wisdom. She faced challenges with faith, never wavering in her trust in God. Her laughter was infectious, and she had a way of making everyone feel valued and loved. She often said, “CORRECT”, bringing joy to those around her.
Her Legacy
Her impact lives on in the many she mentored and encouraged. She was more than a spiritual mother to me ,she was a guide, a teacher, and a source of unwavering support. Even in her absence, her teachings, kindness, and faithfulness remain a testament to a life well-lived for Christ.
Memorable Moments
I first met Mama Rebecca while working with Christian Aid in London. I was searching for a Bible college, and through a friend, I found Universal Bible College, where I met her and Archbishop Dr. Antwi. From the beginning, she embraced me with love, mentoring me as a daughter. She and Archbishop Antwi visited my home country, Tanzania, to preach the Gospel and experience where my journey began. Her presence in my life was a gift from God.
A Call to Honour Her Memory
The best way to honour Mama Rebecca is to carry forward her legacy to love God, serve others, and remain steadfast in faith. Let us continue to walk in the example she set, living with love, integrity, and devotion to Christ
Closing Blessing and Scripture
Mama Rebecca fought the good fight, finished the race, and kept the faith (2 Timothy 4:7). She now rests in the presence of the Lord, where there is no more pain or sorrow.
Rest in peace, Mama Rebecca. You are deeply missed, but your legacy endures.
Bishop Dr. Stella & Christopher Matte
Gone but never forgotten.
Blessed are those who die in the Lord from now on. Yes, says the Spirit, they are blessed indeed, for they will rest from their hard work; for their good deeds follow them!– Revelation 14:13
Her Faith and Devotion
Mama Rev. Rebecca Antwi was a woman of deep faith, fully devoted to God and His work. She lived a Christ-centered life, dedicating herself to prayer, worship, and the study of God's Word. Her unwavering belief in God's promises guided her every step, and she was an example of what it means to serve the Lord wholeheartedly.
Her Service to Others
She was a servant at heart, always caring for people and showing love in practical ways. Whether through ministry, hospitality, or a word of encouragement, she touched many lives. She and her husband, Archbishop Dr. Edward Antwi, dedicated themselves to mentoring and uplifting others, ensuring that many were equipped for the work of the Lord.
Her Strength and Character
Mama Rebecca was a pillar of strength, gracious, compassionate, and full of wisdom. She faced challenges with faith, never wavering in her trust in God. Her laughter was infectious, and she had a way of making everyone feel valued and loved. She often said, “CORRECT”, bringing joy to those around her.
Her Legacy
Her impact lives on in the many she mentored and encouraged. She was more than a spiritual mother to me ,she was a guide, a teacher, and a source of unwavering support. Even in her absence, her teachings, kindness, and faithfulness remain a testament to a life well-lived for Christ.
Memorable Moments
I first met Mama Rebecca while working with Christian Aid in London. I was searching for a Bible college, and through a friend, I found Universal Bible College, where I met her and Archbishop Dr. Antwi. From the beginning, she embraced me with love, mentoring me as a daughter. She and Archbishop Antwi visited my home country, Tanzania, to preach the Gospel and experience where my journey began. Her presence in my life was a gift from God.
A Call to Honour Her Memory
The best way to honour Mama Rebecca is to carry forward her legacy to love God, serve others, and remain steadfast in faith. Let us continue to walk in the example she set, living with love, integrity, and devotion to Christ
Closing Blessing and Scripture
Mama Rebecca fought the good fight, finished the race, and kept the faith (2 Timothy 4:7). She now rests in the presence of the Lord, where there is no more pain or sorrow.
Rest in peace, Mama Rebecca. You are deeply missed, but your legacy endures.
Bishop Dr. Stella & Christopher Matte
February 18, 2025
As we bid farewell to our dear Aunty Rebecca, we celebrate her precious life -Proverbs 22:1 – a life well-lived, filled with love, joy and charity and dedication to family events e.g christening, engagements, weddings, birthdays and countless memorable moments, especially her 70th birthday celebration with the family.
She was also a beacon of wisdom. Her advice, always given with love and understanding, guided and supported many of us through difficult times especially her late Sister Patience Onumah and our late Sister Abigail's Hurrell funeral.
Her legacy will continue to inspire us to live our lives to the fullest, to cherish and love our family and continue to support all family events.
Rest in Peace ,
She was also a beacon of wisdom. Her advice, always given with love and understanding, guided and supported many of us through difficult times especially her late Sister Patience Onumah and our late Sister Abigail's Hurrell funeral.
Her legacy will continue to inspire us to live our lives to the fullest, to cherish and love our family and continue to support all family events.
Rest in Peace ,
February 15, 2025
Tributes from NNOBOA
In the needlework of life, some threads shine brighter than others.
Today, we honour such a thread – the golden strand that was Mama Rebecca.
Born under a winter sky in summer NOVEMBER 1947,Rebecca was a child of the sun. Her smile could part clouds, her laughter could coax flowers from the earth. Correct Ooh
As a Nursery teacher, she nurtured young minds like a gardener tends to delicate seedlings, helping them grow strong and tall.
Rebecca was a poet of the everyday, finding beauty in the commonplace and charmed in the ordinary. Her oil painting was the lives she touched, her brushstrokes the gentle words of encouragement she offered to all. And ends often her conversations with the word, correct ohh
To her husband, Archbishop Eward Antwi, she was the northern star – constant, bright, guiding. Their love was a slow dance in the church halls, a shared glance over steaming coffee cups, a silent promise renewed each day.
For us from a distant as members of Association of Ministers and Christian Workers(NnOBOA), her children, she was like the mighty oak under which they flourished. Her wisdom fell like leaves, nourishing their growth. Even in the winter of her life, she stood tall, her branches offering shelter and strength.
Mum Rebeca found music in the everyday – in the laughter of her family, in the quiet rustle of turning pages, in the gentle hum of their home. She taught us to listen, to find beauty in simplicity at most meetings .
Mum Rebecca wove stories like spider silk, delicate yet strong, capturing moments in time and preserving them for eternity. Her words painted pictures more vivid than any photograph, her tales a legacy that will echo through generations.
Now, as we bid farewell to her, we are reminded that endings are but new beginnings. The seeds of her kindness, planted deep in our hearts, will continue to grow.
So let us not mourn the setting of this brilliant sun, but rather celebrate the warmth it brought to our lives. For in the garden of memory, Rebecca blooms eternal – a constant reminder of love’s enduring power.
Rest in PEACE
Bishop James Larbi on Behalf of NNOBOA
February 10, 2025
Because I bear the name Abossey aunty Rebecca never treated me as an in-law but as her daddy
She calls me iŋpa meaning Daddy
Sleep well my daughter
You would always be in our hearts .
She calls me iŋpa meaning Daddy
Sleep well my daughter
You would always be in our hearts .
February 10, 2025
I have so many memories of Rebecca Antwi. When we were pioneering in London in 1987, the Antwi's were one of the first families we met. Rebecca was always so kind and generous with me. Many, many times I would just stop by her house...it was to visit and follow up but it was also to encourage myself. I was always received so warmly and I could sit in her house for long periods of time and feel refreshed in their company. She never hesitated to offer me food and if it wasn't ready she would prepare something. So hospitable. In those early months of pioneering a church when it is hardest Rebecca was a breath of fresh air that encouraged my soul and I will always be grateful for her for that.
Her days and years of suffering are over. She is in heaven enjoying her reward. Part of that reward will be for how she encouraged a struggling pioneer pastor during very challenging and difficult days trying to get a church started. I thank God for Rebecca Antwi. I am praying for her husband Edward and family. Rebecca's was a light in the midst of a very dark world. She will be missed but the separation is only temporary as we will all be United one day in heaven.
Pstr Paul Stephens
Her days and years of suffering are over. She is in heaven enjoying her reward. Part of that reward will be for how she encouraged a struggling pioneer pastor during very challenging and difficult days trying to get a church started. I thank God for Rebecca Antwi. I am praying for her husband Edward and family. Rebecca's was a light in the midst of a very dark world. She will be missed but the separation is only temporary as we will all be United one day in heaven.
Pstr Paul Stephens
Favorites
What was Rebecca's favourite Travel destination?
Bankok
What was Rebecca's favorite Color?
Lilac
What was Rebecca's favorite Quote or Saying?
"Every mistake is a new style!"
What was Rebecca's favorite Food or Dish?
Banku or kenkey with spiced salmon head and pepper sauce OR green plantain with garden eggs stew.
What was Rebecca's favorite way to exercise?
Dancing!
What was Rebecca's favourite hobby?
Baking cakes and doughnuts
Funeral Service
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