Judy Rey Brim

Judy Rey Brim passed away peacefully on April 7th leaving behind a legacy of life-long learning and service to her community. Born on March 26, 1943, in Newfane, NY, she was the cherished daughter of the late Henry and Justine Rey. Judy shared a beautiful 47-year marriage with her high school sweetheart, Bruce P. Brim.

She is survived by her children, Andrew D. Brim (Julie) of Dublin, OH, and Amy R. Tobias (James Glueck) of Indianapolis, IN. Judy took immense pride in her role as Nana to her five grandchildren: Ian Brim and Jack Brim of Columbus, OH, Andrew Brim and Ella Tobias of Chicago, IL, and R. Sam Tobias of Los Angeles, CA. She also leaves behind her beloved brother and nephew, Kevin Rey (Mary) and Keith, of Buffalo, NY.

Judy, a graduate of Lockport Senior High School, earned her college degree in Elementary Education from Ohio University. Passionate about shaping young minds, she co-directed Discovery Nursery School alongside the late Sue Lerch and Ann Secord before going on to devote 25 years to teaching third and fifth-grade students in Lockport, touching countless lives through her love of learning and her dedication to her students.

Judy had an energetic spirit and a zest for life that radiated through in everything she did. A talented crafter and enthusiastic game player, she was also an ardent and spirited fan of the Buffalo Bills. Judy often spent time watching the PGA Tour - continuing a love of the sport fostered by her late father, Henry Rey.

In place of flowers, the family asks that donations in Judy’s memory be made to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research or Earth Rangers USA—two causes close to her heart.

A private Celebration of Life will be held by her family. 

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April 18, 2025

Chuck & I were so very sorry to hear about Judy's passing. I know Chuck & Ann were part of the couples club & were very close friends with Judy & Bruce. I have known Judy since I was 5....she was at my fifth birthday party on Church St. Then in 1959 & 1960, she was my partner on the Lockport High School cheerleading squad. We were neighbors when my first husband & I lived on Euclid Avenue. I loved having Judy next door! She shared the best recipes. And finally, after Chuck & I married, we had several great times with Judy & Bruce. Judy was always a bright ray of sunshine & she will be missed by so many! May her beautiful soul Rest in Peace. Our sincere sympathies to Amy, Andy & their families.

Patricia Barry

April 12, 2025

Amy and Andy-
Your mom was a terrific neighbor and a good friend.

She brought me a cake the day I moved in and used to send texts at 5:00 announcing "wine time" - a call to bring my glass of wine and join her on her patio. I will miss her.

Kathleen Wolken

April 11, 2025

Amy and Andy, I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom. She was always such a sweet person. I was sad to hear of her passing.

Julie Palia McKeown

April 11, 2025

Andy and Amy,
So sorry to hear about Judy's passing. She was a great lady and always so kind and caring. And funny.

Dana (Brant) Kirsch

April 9, 2025

Amy and Andy, I am deeply sorry for your loss. What an amazing gift to have the two of you in her life all the way until the end. I am glad you were able to be close as a family and spend so much time together. Judy was a wonderful wife, mother, friend, and teacher to many. Wishing you peace in this time of grief.

Kris Parmelee

April 9, 2025

I knew Judy through her daughter, Amy. Immediately I loved her energy and warmth. We shared talking about teaching, life, and our families. I looked forward to seeing her when she came to visit the family in Indianapolis and always left with a warm feeling. I will remember you, Judy, and will cherish our times together.

Karen Tobias

April 8, 2025

Judy was a wonderful neighbor and friend. She always had a smile and a bright glow about her. I was happy to spend time with her. we mostly would just visit at her house. I did some grocery shopping and helped her around the house but mainly just visiting. And then we went to Ohio theater to take in some holiday music for Christmas one year. We really enjoyed the time together. I will miss her, My life has been touched by her!

Valeri Daniel

April 8, 2025

Nana to her beloved children and grandchildren, Judy was so wise and so able to see into the hearts of children, including my own daughter. She was always kind and encouraging, and generous with her genuine concern for all that Amy and I experienced together. “Go make memories” she would tell us whenever we had any opportunity to explore or to travel. So blessed to have known her and see just what a wonderful mother and grandmother she was - I will miss her and will cherish the memories she allowed me to make being here with us.

James Glueck

April 8, 2025

Amy & Andy,
I taught in the classroom right next door to Judy at Charles Upson Elementary. She was an absolute hoot. Her smile and sense of humor were contagious. She loved each of her students as if they were her own children. My life was richer for knowing her. Love to you all.

Megan Cain

April 8, 2025

Amy & Andy. So sorry to hear of her passing. Judy was a great gal & awesome teacher. She loved to have a great time. She is now at peace & again with your dad. Thoughts & prayers.
Kay & Dick Shanley

Kathleen dhanley

April 8, 2025

I met Judy six years ago, and we became fast friends. During Covid, we shouted at each other across the patio, then when we felt comfortable, we would drive around wearing masks. When we were able to talk without masks, communication became easier…and funnier. We were good playmates for several years, and laughed every time we spent time together.
It broke my heart to watch her weaken, and to see her get more concerned. Her family used the phrase “zest for life” in her obituary, and that term suited her perfectly. But when she lost that zest for life, it was time. She told me at the end of 2024 that she was ready to go. So she did.
I will think of her every day and always keep her in my heart.
Much love, Elaine

Elaine Emch

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