Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die.
John 11:25-26
Obituary
Lovingly called Mama Ayi by all, our mother, Josephine Ayinuola nee Ogwu, was born into the family of Pa and Ma Ogwu Iyegbu on the 20th of November 1954 in Idumu Ahaba quarters of Issele-uku in Aniocha North Local Government Area of Delta State. She was the sixth child in a family of eight children. She met her husband Folajoye Ayinuola in Lagos, and they got married in 1973. Being a young intertribal couple 50 years ago had challenges, but Mama Ayi won everyone over with her gentleness and grace. Baba Ayi gave his beautiful bride a special name, ‘Oluwadamilola’, because he believed that having her in his life was God’s blessing. They are blessed with six biological children: Olubunmi, Iretiola, Folayemi, Ololade, Kolawole, and Damilola. It was Mama Ayi’s joy to watch her beautiful family grow as each child got married and had their own children. In all, she was blessed with nineteen grandchildren. One of the most impressive things about Mama Ayi was her incredibly sharp mind. She had special names for everyone and would neither forget nor call one for the other. She would tell stories in detail that no one else even registered. She valued the culture of her married homeland and was able to talk about some of those to her children. She valued family, relationships, and people; indeed, she was the bond that held us together. She also had an incredible voice and loved to sing. Our childhood was filled with many Igbo songs with deep meanings. The most important thing to her was her walk with Jesus. Since she became a Christian in 2008, her whole life has been dedicated to loving her Savior. She had so much hope for a better life and faith in the love that set her free. That faith was her mainstay till the very end. She was active in The Redeemed Church of God as an Elder and the Full Gospel Businessmen Fellowship. Her church and fellowship members became her family in every sense of the word, and she valued them so much. They also stood by her through some of her most challenging times. May the Lord reward them. Not having our mother in this world is a reality we were not prepared for. How do we even move on from not saying ‘Amen’ to her daily prayers? The special names she called us, our spouses, and her grandchildren do not sound the same when not from her lips. To the world she may be another sweet mother, but to us, she was our WORLD. However, we do not mourn as though we have no hope. We know that she was welcomed home with so much dancing and rejoicing. Heaven stood still as she met her Savior, welcoming her home to the place He had prepared for her. Rest on sweet mother, Nnem-Oma, our one and only Mama Ayi, our Jewel of inestimable value. We love you beyond words, and we miss you deeply.
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David Osakwe (Davido,Oluwaseun)
I love you grandma and I will continue to love you and I will be a good girl you want me to be. Good bye to the world best caring and beautiful granny.
From Chiamaka osakwe(Oluwatomisin)
I don't know how it's possible but I love you more now than I did then.You taught me more than I ever knew,you gave me reason to continue the fight, saying a better day comes after the night.where would I be were you are not around? Likely adrift in the Sea of life drowned.I am forever grateful for your love and I know you are looking down from above.
No matter what granny,you will always live on.i will try not to be sad.Grandma, we are not mourning your departure,we are celebrating your coming to this part of the universe.your contribution meant a lot and it's impart signifies you are still living.
Hmmmm mama ayi,the world best grandma, friend,supporter, mother.You know I am always very proud to say I am a member of the Ayiniola family because we United in love and live in peace.granny may your beautiful soul rest in peace, good bye grandma.
OGECHI OSAKWE (ogechineke)
Iyami, iya daada, a selfless and a woman with a heart so pure and true, iya Ayi has no record of any conflict with any one till date, Her tolerance is second to non, the love she has for all reflect on all her children, she will always call my husband by his native name (ONUORAH) that makes him love her the more.
My mum will say ololamitide, "ohun ti o to ninu aye ee ma sekun, iwa laaye Olohun o ni fi ee sile" all this prayers are her daily words to me, Wurami will no longer pop up on my phone again hmmm....Even in pain iyami, your smile brightened,
Iya Ayi as this bound with all her grandchildren, and they are fond of her too.
MY consolation now is that you are in a better place were you no longer experience pain.. Iya Ayi International can never be forgotten bcuz your beautiful memories remains forever in our hearts.
May your soul continue to rest in the bossom of your maker🕊🕊🕊 shalom
Ololade Osakwe (OLOLAMITIDE)
The impact you played when my wife was not around are still very fresh in my memories, we talked at a levels that were beyond in-laws, you talked to me as your son. You told me that you so much believed in me and you never doubted my person, my words nor my prayers. You always call me "Olajide mi òwón" meaning "My Dearest Olajide' and I always respond as Iya Ayi t'o Special. I will forever be grateful God for all you did for me and my family.
Yes, we miss you but you will forever remain Special in our hearts.
My joy is that you knew Jesus and accepted Him as your Lord and Saviour, which gives me comfort and assurance that we shall surely meet again.
Sleep on Iya Ayi t'o Special.
I will miss your smile and the love you bestowed towards us. Rest in perfect peace Mama Ayi to special 😘
So much beauty,grace love and patience you possessed.you will forever be remembered in my heart. I love you grandma, Continue to rest in the bosom of your maker.
I love you grandma, rest in perfect peace.
Till we meet again, rest in perfect peace Mama Ayi.
It is with heavy hearts we pen down our tributes when we heard of your demise our dear mother-in-law. You were an epitome of humility and respect to emulate. You were a mother-in-law with a difference who raised her children in a godly way. There is no doubt that your death have created a vacuum in her hearts but as Christians, we believe you have gone to rest at the bosom of the Lord. We miss you Mama. May your soul rest in perfect peace!
2 Timothy 4 vs 7 I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith. Mummy although you are gone, we have the eternal hope of seeing you again. Although it is difficult, God's grace has been sufficient I know one day we will see you again in the loving arms of our Lord Jesus Christ. You were one of the strongest women in our lives. You were and will continue to be a true gem, through your kindness your legacy of good deeds will continue to shine brightly in our hearts, we are glad that you are in a place where there is no pain or sorrow. An humble woman you were, we will forever live to celebrate you. I will surely miss your call every morning. Maami sun re oo.
It breaks my heart that we would not be getting your early morning dose of prayers again. You may have passed on,but your memory lingers on in our heart.
Thank you for your love,sacrifices,care and everything else you have done for us. I know you're in a much better place now;I will be forever grateful and thankful that you were my grandma.
Bello Aisha Chukwuyenrem
She was a beautiful soul that radiated her beauty everywhere she went
I remember the games she used to play with me and my cousins when we were younger
I remember her laugh
I remember the way she would fondly call my name, or the many pet names she had given me- Olamma, Ngozichuckwuka, Ayomide, my precious gold, my first grandchild
The way she would always argue with my grandpa, Baba Ayi
How she would stand up to wash the plates after she told me to wash it once and I didn't stand up immediately
As I write this I still can't believe it
I miss her already
May her beautiful soul rest in perfect peace
Khayrah Bello (Olamma)
You were the most loving, humble, compassionate, understanding, family-orientated woman and one of the most beautiful souls one could ever meet. You accepted me with open arms as soon as I became a member of the family and have shown me endless love ever since. You would always call me "Oluwatosin Omo mi" and always prayed for me "Oluwatosin Oko mi, Iran Ogede onsukun atide Ara oni ni e o". You even taught me how to make "Ofofo"okro soup without oil. You lived an exemplary life and inspired us all everyday to do the same. Even in sickness you were always radiating joy, you were a real embodiment of strength and beauty. Your passing has broken our hearts but we know you're in a better place
May your beautiful soul rest in peace
Aliu Oluwatosin Bello
remember all those times we'd hang out in your kitchen,formulating the best dishes, your cooking wasn't all about the food but they about the love you put into every dish. You taught me that cooking is not only about following instructions but pouring your heart into what you create. Even though you're not physically here anymore,your spirit lives on in every laugh,every memory and every piece of advice you've shared.Thank you for being my grandma,Mama Ayi. I miss you more than words can say but I will never forget the impact you had on my life.
HALIMAH BELLO( Nneeka)
But I'm still happy because I know you will be elevated higher. Anywhere you go you shine the brightest ,cause you're a star that will protect us from darkness
Kamil Bello ( Chukwuemeka)
David Osakwe (Davido,Oluwaseun)
[29/02, 4:51 am] Naovid kitchen seasoning and spice: The best grandma in the world may your soul rest in peace🕊I do call you Iya Ayi to special, because you are so special to me, you've always been there for me and you've always been a caring and loving grandma.You always call me oluwatomisin and chimamaka,i smile anytime you called out those names, even on your sick bed you are strong and always happy, you are talented and a trustworthy person.you are a great cook and a teacher to me 🥰
I love you grandma and I will continue to love you and I will be a good girl you want me to be. Good bye to the world best caring and beautiful granny.
From Chiamaka osakwe(Oluwatomisin)
[29/02, 4:51 am] Naovid kitchen seasoning and spice: Dear grandmother,you may have passed on, but your memories would always live on with us.The moment I received the shocking and devastating news of your departure from my mum,grandma,my world caved.
I don't know how it's possible but I love you more now than I did then.You taught me more than I ever knew,you gave me reason to continue the fight, saying a better day comes after the night.where would I be were you are not around? Likely adrift in the Sea of life drowned.I am forever grateful for your love and I know you are looking down from above.
No matter what granny,you will always live on.i will try not to be sad.Grandma, we are not mourning your departure,we are celebrating your coming to this part of the universe.your contribution meant a lot and it's impart signifies you are still living.
Hmmmm mama ayi,the world best grandma, friend,supporter, mother.You know I am always very proud to say I am a member of the Ayiniola family because we United in love and live in peace.granny may your beautiful soul rest in peace, good bye grandma.
OGECHI OSAKWE (ogechineke)
[29/02, 8:33 am] Naovid kitchen seasoning and spice: I don't even know how to start writing because am still in shock, hmmmmm, Iya Ayi!! i was holding your legs telling you Iya Ayi Ololade lon pe yin you did not even recognise me anymore that makes me so sad😭
Iyami, iya daada, a selfless and a woman with a heart so pure and true, iya Ayi has no record of any conflict with any one till date, Her tolerance is second to non, the love she has for all reflect on all her children, she will always call my husband by his native name (ONUORAH) that makes him love her the more.
My mum will say ololamitide, "ohun ti o to ninu aye ee ma sekun, iwa laaye Olohun o ni fi ee sile" all this prayers are her daily words to me, Wurami will no longer pop up on my phone again hmmm....Even in pain iyami, your smile brightened,
Iya Ayi as this bound with all her grandchildren, and they are fond of her too.
MY consolation now is that you are in a better place were you no longer experience pain.. Iya Ayi International can never be forgotten bcuz your beautiful memories remains forever in our hearts.
May your soul continue to rest in the bossom of your maker🕊🕊🕊 shalom
Ololade Osakwe (OLOLAMITIDE)
Thank you mama Ayi for your constant prayers, a woman of prayer is who you really are. You believed in the possibilities of us your children. All your 19 grandchildren love you specially. The way you exude love and care cannot be explained.
Grandma, we find solace in knowing that you are resting in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Your body has been transformed to the heavenly body where there’s no more pain, struggle and weeping. Thank you for being God’s gift to humanity.
Mama Ayi your memory will forever be etched in our hearts. May your loving soul rest in peace. Till we meet at His feet on that day, radiant, victorious singing Hallelujah.
Sun re o, Mama daada.
My number one role model
The one I looked up to my entire life
You set the bar for how an amazing mother should be
How an amazing wife should be
How an amazing person should be
You taught me lessons I could have never learned in the four walls of a school
You blessed me with wisdom that I could never have gotten from anywhere
And you showered me and my siblings with love despite every hurdle we went through
You were a present mother and showed our family what true love is
I love and miss you forever
OLUBUNMI NKEMDILIM BELLO
Love
Olamide Oladejo (Ekenedilichukwu, as you fondly called me)
Grandson.