Obituary
Joseph Stewart Merritt
Joe was born on May 18, 1953, and passed away unexpectedly on May 13, 2025, while on vacation in British Columbia. He and his wife, Louise, had returned to the place where their story began as newlyweds on their honeymoon nearly 47 years ago. His final chapter came after a cycling accident near Tofino, in the same wild, beautiful landscape they explored decades earlier.
Joe was born in Niagara Falls and later settled in Milton, where he built a full life over nearly 50 years. He spent 33 of those years as a detective with the Toronto Police, known for his steady presence, strong sense of right and wrong, and sharp, dry humour. But there was much more to Joe than his work — his life reached well beyond the job.
Joe was an athlete from a young age, playing baseball, football, wrestling, and running track in high school. That competitive streak stayed with him, from police league games to his later love of curling. After retiring, he became a regular at the Milton Curling Club — playing on teams, serving on the board, and running the Friday Night Social draw with Louise. His favourite matches were always the ones where he played against her — winning was fun, but teasing her about it was even better.
Joe loved coaching just as much as competing, especially in wrestling. He helped start the Milton Wrestling Club with his friend Mooch (Larry), and together they built more than athletes — they built lasting memories. The Florida trips became legendary, full of tough matches, sunburns, and stories that only got better over the years.
Louise wasn’t just his wife — she was his co-adventurer, his anchor, his match. Joe’s stories were unforgettable, his one-liners legendary. He had a deep love for his family, good food, animals, and the simple joy of a hearty laugh. His kitchen was a place of comfort and creativity, where his cooking became a kind of magic. He spent countless hours outdoors — tending his gardens, relaxing in the “backyard cave,” or tinkering in his over-the-top shed that was more like a tiny home. He loved to fish and once hunted, though in later years he couldn't bring himself to shoot them, he preferred to simply watch the animals and soak in the peace of nature.
Joe was a steady, loving presence for his children — Chad (Jennifer), Michelle (Vinicius), and Tammy (Wilkins) — and a playful, joyful grandpa to Colton and Olivia. He was predeceased by his parents, Marge and John Merritt, and is survived by his siblings: Rae-Anne, Johnny, Terry, Bruce, and David. As the oldest of six, Joe carried the quiet strength of a big brother and the loyalty of a true family man.
A Celebration of Life will be held on September 7, 2025, from 2:00 to 4:30 PM at the Milton Curling Club — not as a time for sorrow, but as a chance to share stories, laughter, and the kind of remembrance Joe would have wanted. Among the clinking of glasses and familiar faces, a few classic “Joe-isms” are sure to surface.
In lieu of flowers, honour him in a way that lasts: hug someone you love, and take the trip — adventure is always waiting.
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Take good care,
Sincerely,
Judith MacKinnon , Friday Night Social
Our memories of Joe are of a special person with a such a presence around the club, always laughing and joking and just a joy to be around. Joe added so much to the social network of our club and he will be missed more than words can say.
Our deepest regrets to Louse and the family,
Ingrid and Mike Granton
Joe was truly a remarkable person—full of warmth, humor, and genuine kindness. Whether he was on the ice curling with his infectious team spirit or competing fiercely with a smile on his face, he brought joy and energy to every moment. His appreciation for a good shot, whether his own or someone else's, was always genuine, and he never missed an opportunity to lift others with a simple "Great shot!" The social times with him were filled with laughter and stories that left us all better for having known him.
He was not only a passionate curler but also your unwavering cheerleader after his retirement, coming to the club to support you with such enthusiasm. His cheerful voice, his keen interest in others’ lives, and his vibrant personality will be deeply missed. Jamie and I are truly sorry for your loss.
May the treasured stories and happy memories you hold help to soften the pain over time. Remember, even in the darkest moments, the light of someone’s kindness and love can guide us toward hope and healing. Joe’s spirit reminds us that life is best lived with heart, humor, and the courage to enjoy each moment to the fullest.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Sincerely
Lianne and Jamie Krane
We were devastated to hear of Joe's accident and his passing and send sincere condolences to your entire family. It will be impossible to think of Joe without a smile coming to our faces...he was just a great guy. Milton Curling Club is so fortunate to have had him as a cherished member and volunteer. We will be sorry to miss his Celebration of Life but will be travelling in Africa--a trip we know Joe would appreciate...you two went on the most adventurous trips that we always admired. Sending hugs.
You’ve been on our minds and we’re sending our condolences for the loss of your Joe. He was such a valued member of MCC and you both were such generous volunteers. We wish that we could join you, on September 6, but will be traveling. I hope to see you soon to give you a real hug. June
Diana
I met Joe while I was assigned to the 14th Division. Our paths crossed many times over the years.
Joe was the poster boy for what a Police Officer should be. He was always there to help, guide and teach us junior officers. Better yet, he was a kind, gentle man with an infectious smile.
After retiring to Port Dover, my wife and I decided to play a round of golf near home one sunny day. Soon after we arrived at the golf club, we were paired with two gentlemen, both of whom were seniors, like me.
By the third hole, a surprise came to light. Standing beside me was S/Sgt. Joe Merritt and S/Sgt. Ronny Short. Two people I admired throughout my career.
From that hole on, the war stories began.
It was one of the best afternoons I’ve had on a golf course since being retired.
My sincere condolences to all of Joe’s family. It was a pleasure to know Joe and work alongside him. He will be missed but never forgotten.
May your many memories gradually help to replace the sadness of your loss.
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If you plan to attend please let us know below so we have enough food and drinks. If you would like to publicly share any stories or a few words at the celebration, please get in touch with us prior to. We would love to have you share.
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