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Obituary
Dear family and friends,
It is with heavy hearts that we share the passing of Jennifer May Kong, who left us peacefully on July 30th at 10:05 AM, surrounded by her daughter Alix, her husband Alan, her son-in-law Jamieson, her sister Judy and her brother-in-laws Eric and Roth.
Jennifer was born in 1958 in Saint John, on Canada's east coast, to Julia and Gene Wong. She was the beloved sister of Juliana, Judy, Jacqueline, Eugene, and Gerry. The family later moved to Vancouver, where Jennifer spent her childhood and grew into the woman so many would come to love. In 1987, she married Alan Kong, and together they raised their daughter Alix in Kelowna before moving back to Vancouver to be closer to family.
Jennifer had a true love for art and pottery, and spent many happy hours at the wheel and in her studio. Some lucky friends and family still hold onto plates, bowls, and cups shaped by her own hands — small, lasting pieces of her creativity and care. She was also an avid golfer, spending countless hours at the range and on the course, and she treasured the friendships she built along the way at Capilano.
Jennifer was a ray of light to everyone who knew her. She carried a constant, infectious positivity that gave her the strength to face whatever came her way — and to be a source of strength for the people around her. Those who knew her remember a true picture of courage, a fighter who remained unwavering through every challenge, and a wonderful person who lived life to the fullest. She was, in the words of so many who reached out, a bright light — generous, thoughtful, and full of kindness, with a special way of making everyone around her feel cared for. A wonderful, kind, generous woman. A great human being.
Jennifer is survived by her husband Alan, her daughter Alix, her mother Julia, and her siblings Juliana, Judy, Jacqueline, Eugene, and Gerry and her son-in-law Jamieson.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that donations be made to the 'The Yiu Wah, Lily and Jennifer Kong Legacy Fund'.
Donations can be made online (vghfoundation.ca/donate), by phone at 604-875-4676 or by mail to the address below — please specify that your donation is directed to the 'The Yiu Wah, Lily and Jennifer Kong Legacy Fund'.
VGH & UBC Hospital Foundation
Suite 190 – 855 West 12th Ave
Vancouver, BC V5Z 1M9
With love, Alan & Alix
Condolences / Memory wall
I still cannot believe that you are no longer with us. I remember meeting you for the first time when I was just 12 years old. You became such a steady, loving presence in my life. Over the years, you gave us more love, support, and warmth than words can really capture. I'll carry those memories with me always. Thank you for everything you gave us. You will be deeply missed.
Love,
John and Angela
With love,
Darlene, Dylan & Lucas
And to dear Alan, Alix and all who loved her, may you be able to rejoice for the time you had with Jennifer, to find comfort and joy in the memories shared.
With love, Debra
We love you forever.
Darwin and Lucinda, Donovan, Mirabella and Davis
Though your time with us was far too short, the depth of your kindness, laughter, and love filled our lives with so much joy. We shared so much of our childhood together, creating beautiful memories that I will cherish forever. As the years went on, you always brought such a special warmth to our family gatherings. Thank you for always treating me and my girls in a way that made us feel so special, as only you could. You will be missed every single day, but your spirit will live on in our hearts.
May God welcome you into His loving arms and grant you eternal peace. Until we meet again, rest peacefully, cousin.
We love you,
Dianna and family
We were extremely saddened to hear of Jennifer’s passing. Our hearts go. out to both of you and the Wong family during this incredibly difficult time. Jennifer was a wonderful person, and I hope the many happy memories you shared with her will bring you some comfort in the days and years ahead.
Thinking of you both and sending our deepest condolences and much love. ❤️
It doesn’t seem possible that it was only last year we were in London celebrating our birthdays together. We had such a fabulous time. I will treasure all the wonderful memories of the times we shared with you. I know you’re in a much better place now, alive and well, free of pain and suffering, and watching over all of us. Thanks for being an incredibly great sister. You are dearly loved and deeply missed. We’ll see you on the other side.
Love you forever,
Juliana XOX
Whether at the driving range or on the course, it was always so much fun being together.
Jenn was always encouraging to those of us who were struggling with playing golf, celebrating every acceptable shot we made. We shared our everyday lives and our dreams, the books we loved, the snacks we brought for every round, the friends we met, family news and so much more. Jenn embraced our children and grandchildren and never failed to be excited about their accomplishments. She was so proud of Alan, Alex and Alix and the love she had for them and her siblings was ever present in our conversations.
Her strength and positive attitude was ever apparent as she faced and dealt with health issues.
I will never forget Jenn. She will live on in the wonderful memories I have of her and I am so grateful for the beautiful serving bowl she made for me. I will treasure it always.
I will try to be a better person and model all the traits she exhibited that I so admired..
Love you forever Jenn.
I am at a loss for words.
She was an angel for so many. She gave her love and was so generous to so many.
I first met her at UBC. She was always classy and elegant, always cheerful. She carried that with her throughout her life.
When Jaye and I had kids, she was the aunt who always remembered their birthdays and came bearing gifts and laisee for them.
She left us far too soon. A piece is now missing in our family that can never be replaced.
I think of her every day.
Eric
Jennifer was a kind , helpful and very friendly person.
She and Alan lived across the street from us when we moved from Edmonton to our new house on Underwood Avenue .
She coached me on life in Vancouver and always reminded me when I ran across the street to visit to go home and lock my door before coming back.
Jennifer was also great on giving clothing advice as well, including what type of dress
to wear to her wedding.
Jennifer was a light in this world and will be sadly missed by all who knew her.
I wished I had seen her more often in recent years.
Lots of love and big hugs,,
Betty Ann
Heaven is receiving its newest Angel. Beautiful inside and out, you touched so many lives in the most wonderful way.
You and I were both born in Saint John, New Brunswick. We spent many summers together in Vancouver when my family drove up from Los Angeles and stayed with yours. Swimming every day, drive-in movies (hiding Judy in the trunk), PNE, late night drives in Stanley Park, and the ‘Puka Shell’ incident in Chinatown one late night. We always cried when we said our goodbyes with a sad drive back to Los Angeles. Those memories will stay with me forever.
I saw you twice in 2025 and I will forever cherish this. Wonderful memories were created at Alix and Jamieson’s beautiful wedding and on New Year’s Eve. You and Alan being there made it a special night.
I wish I knew how sick you were when we said our goodbyes on December 31, 2025. I would have hugged you tighter for 10 more seconds.
You will forever have a special place in my heart. Your Dad, my sister Donna and many ancestors are waiting to receive you. Go in Peace. As I am writing this to say goodbye to my bestest cousin, my heart is breaking. I will miss you. 💔
Love you always,
Dwight
With love & big bear hugs,
Jaye
PS. Are we doing the kids’ laisee this year? Coz i bet you that you will trick me again, somehow. Xox
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Donations can be made online (vghfoundation.ca/donate), by phone at 604-875-4676 or by mail to the address below — please specify that your donation is directed to the 'The Yiu Wah, Lily and Jennifer Kong Legacy Fund'.
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