Jacob Deme Angelo Gnanakkan

October  12th, 1959 October  19th, 2024
Chicago, IL
Jacob Deme Angelo Gnanakkan

Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us, or we find it not." 
                                                              - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Obituary

The world lost a bright and colorful light with the passing of Jacob Deme in Chicago, Illinois. He was kind, loving, open-minded, generous, and compassionate. He was unassuming and traveled the world, to over 120 countries, and made this Earth his home and all humans his siblings.

Born as the youngest child to the late D.J. Gnanakkan and Anammoney Thai and the youngest brother to Jeya Lamech (Lamech Samuel), Beulah Selvaraj (SPS Selvaraj), Sulochana Daniel (Chackravarthy Daniel), Rajan Dharmaseelan (Sumathi), Nalini Dhanakumai, Ravi Isaac (Evangeline), and Elizabeth Abel (Raj), Jacob was always free-spirited, sociable, trusting, and charming. Jacob loved his nephews and nieces and was always present in the lives of Vijay, Pearl, Raja, Beryl Jennifer, Gladys (Rajathi), Annette, Dev, Dion, Wycliffe, Adoni, David, Stanley, Dharshini, Ryan, Roshan, and Tanya.

Born in Colombo, Sri Lanka, Jacob attended Wesley College, Colombo. To continue his education in English as the medium of instruction, his parents sent him to Spicer Higher Secondary School and later to Pakistan Adventist Seminary and College, where he received his Bachelor of Ministry degree. His first job serving as the Chaplain at Lakeside Medical Center in Kandy, Sri Lanka, drew him to medicine. Jacob completed his medical degree in Spanish at Montemorelos University, Mexico. He also received both a Master’s and a Doctor of Medical Science from Nova Southeastern University, Miami, Florida.

Jacob’s career extended from the World Bank, Washington, Ryder Florida, Accenture, American Red Cross, Northeastern University , to the US Census Bureau. He was a regular tutor to students who prepared for medical exams. His pastimes were serving as an educator, massage therapist, nutritionist, YouTuber, and fashion model.

Jacob’s non-profit organization, Hunger Strike, Inc., promoted nutrition and healthy living and helped Tsunami victims of Sri Lanka. He held health camps in Pragasapuram, Madipakkam and Vadapalini in India. Many sought him for natural remedies and healing.

He was a poet, a pianist, and a soloist and authored many books. He loved the arts, languages, fine cuisine, and everything elegant and beautiful. He spoke eight languages, picked them with ease, and also knew koine Greek and Latin.

He effortlessly made friends worldwide during his travels. His sense of humor brought laughter, cheer, and connection with people.

Sadly, despite the best efforts of his cardiologist team at the Swedish Hospital, Chicago, and Jacob’s valiant fight, he was unable to recover from his heart condition. His sister, Elizabeth, and a friend were beside him when he breathed his last.
Jacob will be missed deeply by his family and friends who adored him. And, we are grateful for the joy and indelible memories Jacob Deme brought into our lives. We have the blessed Hope of seeing Jacob again.

Join us to remember and celebrate Jacob's life on Sunday, November 10, at 10:30 am EST, 9 PM IST at Sligo Church Atrium. A reception will follow.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Mercy Corps. https://www.mercycorps.org/ or
Doctors without Borders. https://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/

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November 10, 2024
It is still fresh in my memories how Jacob Chithappa took us on our first flight to Bangalore when we were very young, opening our eyes to new experiences and adventures. He always encouraged us to live a healthy lifestyle, believed in God's healing, and taught about the last days. He educated us about the benefits of being vegetarian, doing proper exercise, and embracing natural healing. He truly believed in living life to the fullest, and his commitment to keeping his surroundings happy was inspiring.

His intelligence and diverse knowledge were remarkable, with his ability to speak eight languages fluently and his travels to over 120 countries. I will always admire his adventurous spirit and the joy he found in exploring the world. I'll never forget how he surprised us all by attending our engagement, a testament to his love for family and his thoughtful nature.

Chithappa's memory will live on through the valuable lessons he imparted and the joyful moments we shared. He was religious, kept the Sabbath, and always kept God first in his life. May his spirit find comfort and rest until the day of resurrection, when we shall all be reunited in Christ's glory, and may we all find comfort in knowing how much he meant to all of us.

Miss you, Chithappa...
Dharshini Gnanakkan
November 10, 2024
I remember being a chubby pre-teen when you lived in Miami. I miss those days because they felt simpler. I always loved you no matter where you lived. But Miami was a lot of fun. I did not know how complex you really were. There were times when I got annoyed with you because I felt misunderstood but you always showed kindness and hugs in return.
Abel T
November 9, 2024
Jacob mama was a genuinely loving and supportive person. He was never one to judge others. His compassionate heart, joyful nature and his desire to help others made him shine bright in life.
He was a multi talented person who brought joy and sunshine in to the hearts and lives of all thoes whom he met. I will always cherish my memories of him.
Katherine Ananth
Katherine Ananth
November 8, 2024
Jacob was so much more than just my younger brother. In so many ways, he was my son, my closest confidant, and my best friend.
Over the last few years, he would often come to Srilanka and I would go over there to spend time with him. We were of great comfort to each other as we could confide in each other the things we could not with anyone else. We spent many wonderful hours reminiscing the past and making plans for the future.

To my dear brother Jacob:
you were my brother, my friend, and a piece of my heart. I don’t know how to say goodbye to you, and I don’t think I ever will.Thank you for blessing our lives, dear Jacob. You were a gift, and though you’re gone, your love and spirit will live on forever.

Lots of love and prayers
Beulah Selvaraj
Beulah Selvaraj
November 8, 2024
Of all the siblings I probably spent more time with him. First out in Spicer, Pakistan and then in Lakpahana/Kandy. When he came back to India on his pet project’ ‘Genesis health foundation’ again I worked closely with him. When I had a hip problem he encouraged me to go for the surgery and also paid for it. That surgery made my life much easier. When I greeted him on his last birthday, from his sick bed he was concerned of my health. Such was his concern for all who came across him.
Ravi Gnanakkan
November 7, 2024
Jacob was a very happy and cheerful person. We will miss him and saddened by the loss.
May God comfort all his siblings and their families at this time of sorrow. We have the hope of seeing our loved ones in the resurrection when Jesus returns to takes us home with Him.
Merlin Dhamayanthi Ponraj
November 7, 2024
You'll always be missed chithappa....
Gideon Stanley Jayadev
November 6, 2024
Deme, you are soaring with the angels and smiling down at us. So many beautiful memories to will keep with me. Thank you for them all. I think of things that make me laugh and cry. All our crazy life together. Peace and perfect rest my dear friend. My sympathy to Elizabeth and the rest of the family.
Ian Rosenior
November 6, 2024
The memories of Jacob annan will always be with us, and I was so thankful to have known him. He was a larger-than-life presence in our lives during our high school years when he visited us every weekend from college. He was always funny, full of life, happy to put everyone at ease with his stories, music and amazing smile. I wish I had the right words, but my mind is still processing this loss. The world has definitely lost a good man. I know your grief is insurmountable. We continue to pray for God's Amazing Grace during this difficult time.

Kingston Benjamin
November 5, 2024
Thanks for being a part of our wedding and being such a good friend will miss you alot till we meet again at Jesus coming
Hilda Iqbal
November 5, 2024
It’s so sad to hear the demise of my good old friend ( he is much younger to me ) yet we had some kind of a bond, I had a surgery in Lakeside medical centre that time he was working there, he took extra care on me and help me to recover he is person who been there any one in need , I lost contact with him yet I always remember him , may we will meet him when our Lord and saviour comes take us home until then we cherish memories with hope seeing him again
KRISHNAKUMAR PERUMAL
November 2, 2024
It was such a shock to hear about Jacob Anna’s passing. Condolences to Rajan Anna, Ravi Anna and all the rest of the family.
When I was in Spicer, one evening my sister and I were walking home after vespers, when a stranger approached us and snatched my torch. We screamed and caught the attention of Jacob Anna along with many others, going back to the boys hostel. They tried to find the person but they couldn’t and it was getting dark. Seeing that we were afraid, he reassured us and walked us back home to Sasda. I will never forget, the love and care that he showed us that evening. He certainly left a mark in our hearts.
May his soul rest in peace until the resurrection morning.
Jasmine Alagappan
November 2, 2024
Jacob and I were classmates in 9th & 10th grade at Spicer Higher Secondary School. He was closest in age to Janet, Jill and me. We were the younger cousins of the Thambakara family. Over the years, we met sporadically during family events. He was always cheerful, happy and very honest. My heartfelt condolences and prayers for his immediate family. We will miss him very much.
Doris Kore
November 2, 2024
So many memories of Jacob “mama” I was very saddened to hear of his passing. I was looking forward to planning trips to visit him in Chicago now that I’d moved to Ohio and would be closer to him. I will miss getting massages from him too! He gave the best ones and I learned many things from him. Some of my fondest memories growing up include him and he will be greatly missed.
Rumira Stephen
November 1, 2024
Elizabeth , My mom and I loved Jacob as our family. I know he is now with my mom in heaven having a great reunion. I will miss him greatly and do look forward to meeting him in Heaven.
Mark Carlson
November 1, 2024
Jacob and I studied at PASC, Pakistan in the late 70’s. I remember him to be incredibly talented and a caring person. Hope to meet again
David Davamony
November 1, 2024
We had the pleasure of working with Jacob many years ago at Lakeside Medical Center at Kandy, SRI LANKA. He was gifted with a great sense of humor among other things. Remember him in a while suit playing the piano in the Kandy church. The last time we met was at Elizabeth's home in MD.True to form he had us literally splitting our sides with laughter. We look forward to that great reunion day...
Merle and Betty Fernando.
November 1, 2024
Certainly we are all diminished at the passing of such a beloved brother of Elizabeth. While i didn't know him, he clearly was greatly loved and valued. Elohim's blessing upon you all at this time.
Lizzi Swane
November 1, 2024
Certainly we are all diminished at the passing of such a beloved brother of Elizabeth. While i didn't know him, he clearly was greatly loved and valued. Elohim's blessing upon you all at this time.
zzi Swane
November 1, 2024
I was so saddened to hear of Jacob's passing. Although we didn’t see or talk to each other often, we had a special bond. Jacob was such a warm, kind, smart, talented, and adventurous person. The last time I saw him was when he came to my mom’s 90th birthday. He came home, Raj and I had a chance to spend some quality time with him just talking and laughing . We had such a great time together. I have fond childhood memories of him that I will always cherish. Jacob will be deeply missed.
Janet Munu
November 1, 2024
For over six decades, Jacob has been a close family friend. From classrooms to life's many milestones, we’ve walked a shared path, gathering memories that have shaped who we are today. His kindness, wisdom, and unwavering friendship have been a constant source of support and inspiration.

We've studied side by side both at Bethel Chapel and at Wesley College where Jacob's warmth and integrity shone through. Jacob was a remarkable friend and a cherished soul, and his kindness and warmth touched everyone who knew him.

Though we feel the loss deeply, we look forward to the soon return of Jesus, when our friendship with Jacob will be rekindled and remain for all of eternity. Thank you, Jacob, for a lifetime of friendship and the joy you've brought to our journey.

To all his siblings and extended family, may you find comfort in the love of family and friends, and in the assurance that we have in Christ that we will see Jacob again when Jesus returns. Our prayers and deepest sympathies are with you all.
God bless

BastiamPillai family
Sri Lanka
Surendra BastiamPillai
November 1, 2024
We have beautiful memories of associating with Jacob! He was very loving and kind and quickly learned to speak Urdu! I remember when he went to do an evangelistic meeting in the nearby village while he was studying Theology at Pakistan Adventist Seminary and College! They were returning late at night and he was left behind by his Team, who were all riding bicycles! The thieves took his clothes and his wrist watch but did not harm him and let him go!
Sarfraz Inderias
November 1, 2024
Elizabeth,

My prayers are with you and your family. God rest Jacob’s soul. I never had the opportunity to meet Jacob, but Elizabeth I’m glad I’ve had the opportunity to meet and work with you. It seems you have similar qualities as Jacob. I pray he rest in peace and am sending my sincere condolences.

Best,

Lola
Lola Johnson
October 31, 2024
Condolences to all. Jacob was always fun and full of mischief when I knew him in Pakistan and what fun times we all had. Heaven come soon!
Pam Sadler
October 31, 2024
I knew Jacob as a teenager. He was handsome, funny and had a lot of ambitions and interests. We were always fond of his family and appreciative of the friendship. Pray that we all strive to meet up in heaven one day real soon to continue friendships in an earth made new. John 14:1-3.
Patty Dodd Palsgrove
October 31, 2024
What a wonderful friend, mentor, and travelling partner Jacob was. Jacob was the quintessential Rennaisance man, but most importantly had a deep and enduring care for all of humanity. He always desired to teach and educate in the many areas he was versed. I will miss him, but am eternally grateful for all the ways he enriched my life.
Taylor Cooper
October 31, 2024
My deepest Sympathy and Condolences
to Elizabeth and Family,
and all the Siblings and their Families , Relatives and friends, by the passing away of Jacob, His Love, kindness and
Smile will be remembered forever .
Still in disbelief, that he is not around. We have the Hope to see him again at
Jesus’ Second Coming, go to Heaven and Spend Eternity with Him . Rest in peace my dear brother and friend.🙏💕☮️😢💐
Ponnamma Ninala
October 30, 2024
Our deepest condolences to the grieving family members. Jacob was like one of our family members. He is such a jovial and a very friendly person. We couldn't believe when we heard the sad news. My mom (Mrs. Gnanasekaran) sends her condolences as well. We have one hope. That's when Jesus return we will meet in heaven. Rest in peace.
Sharon Gnanasekaran Sivanathan
October 30, 2024
I never knew him, but I wish I had! What a remarkable life!
I am inspired by Elizabeth’s devotion to her dear brother!
Debbie Eisele

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Please join us to pay a last tribute.
We will come together to remember and pay tribute and celebrate his life. While we mourn the loss of our dear Jacob, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy brought into our lives. Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
Location
Sligo Church Atrium
7710 Carroll Avenue
Takoma Park, MD 20912
Date/time
November 10, 2024
10:30 am EST
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