John Ajibade Faji
John Ajibade Faji
For this God is our God forever and ever; He will be our guide even to the end.
PSALM 48:14
Biography
The humble early days of Mr. John Ajibade Faji were premised on self-help, courage, struggle, determination, and the grace of God. The beginning and antecedent did not correlate with the final product that the world now cherishes and acknowledges of him.
Mr. Faji was born at Ogidi in the Ijumu Local Government Area of Kogi State, Nigeria, to the family of the late Mr. Odeyemi Faji of the Ojo extraction and Mrs. Olokoniun Faji of the Itepe extraction, on the 26th June 1930. His father was a peasant farmer and hunter, while his mother was a petty pounded yam seller. His mother had two other children before him, namely Mrs. Ibiyemi Olajubu and Mr. Ogunmola Faji.
Mr. Faji had no opportunity to know both parents because his father died in his infancy, while his mother also passed on before he was seven years old. As an orphan at such a tender age, he was confronted with a bleak, tough and uncertain future. Before his mother’s death, the young Faji was put under the care of his mother’s brother, Mr. Francis Hinmikalu, who was also a peasant farmer.
Mr. Faji’s ambition to attain formal education like his peers was shattered as there was nobody to sponsor him. With the futility of all his efforts to acquire formal education, he decided to educate himself through correspondence courses. This was after leaving home for Ibadan in 1950.
Through correspondence courses abroad, he wrote and passed the General Certificate of Education (G.C.E) of the University of London at both ordinary and advanced levels. Undaunted by his challenges and helplessness, he gained admission to the University of Lagos, where he bagged a diploma degree in mass communication, a gesture which ushered him into the media profession.
Mr. Faji began his working career in 1957 when he was engaged by the African Newspapers Limited, publishers of the Nigerian Tribune newspaper, as a typist. He spent barely a year with the newspaper, when he served another appointment with the then Public Works Department (P.W.D), later called Ministry of Works and Transport. Again, he disengaged from the ministry to begin a career in Broadcasting with the Nigerian Broadcasting Corporation (NBC), Kaduna, in 1967, as a News Assistant. He rose along the ranks to the position of a Senior Editor in 1977. Mr. Faji transferred his services to the Kwara State Broadcasting Corporation (Radio Kwara), where he rose to the enviable position of Director of New and Current Affairs. He had the privilege of being promoted to the position of Deputy General Manager and once acted as the General Manager and chief executive of the Corporation.
Mr. Faji attended several in-service courses, workshops, and seminars, including advanced managerial courses in ASCON, Topo, Badagry, Lagos.
When Kogi State was created out of Kwara and Benue States in 1991, Mr. Faji was deployed to the new state as one of the pioneering staff of Radio Kogi. He retired on January 6, 1993, after thirty-five years of service.
Mr. Faji was happily married to Mrs. Philomena Peju Faji (nee Medupin) in Kaduna, on the 28th of April 1968 and blessed with six children.
This ace broadcast journalist will be remembered for his humility, steadfastness, discipline, honesty, and devotion to his career. An astute, committed and devoted catholic, Mr. Faji is simply a phenomenon who stands for all virtues demanded from a personality committed to the service of humanity and God.
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January 20, 2026
Tribute to Pa. John Faji - the world’s most gentleman has left the world.
The news of the passing into glory of Pa Faji filled me with mixed feelings in the sense that I am very pleased that he spent up to the right old age before he left this sinful world and the world never changed him. I am so happy for his family and children because for me this is the exit of the most gentleman I’ve ever known. I met Pa. Faji for the first time in the late 1970s when I relocated from Lagos to Ilorin to further my secondary education. I was a regular visitor to his house to visit auntie Philo at the upstairs building they lived in that time in Sabo Oke. Whenever he came back from work at Tadio Kwara then, he would quietly sit down and no problem with anybody, busying himself, you never even know he was in the house and that is the picture of him that I have in my mind. The last major time we interacted was during the 80th birthday party of Chief Oliha Ehindero in Atlanta 5 years ago. He came there with his wife and children at the ripe age that he was. As usual, a complete gentleman chatted with me all night because we sat on the high table together. He was always at peace with himself and His Creator. Thank you very much Pa. Faji for the life you lived, for the beautiful children you raised. You gave our mother, Anti Philo, your children and the entire world peace. May you rest in peace of the Lord your creator. Sleep well with your Lord and your creator. You will be sorely missed.
Dr. Felix Akande for the Akande family.
The news of the passing into glory of Pa Faji filled me with mixed feelings in the sense that I am very pleased that he spent up to the right old age before he left this sinful world and the world never changed him. I am so happy for his family and children because for me this is the exit of the most gentleman I’ve ever known. I met Pa. Faji for the first time in the late 1970s when I relocated from Lagos to Ilorin to further my secondary education. I was a regular visitor to his house to visit auntie Philo at the upstairs building they lived in that time in Sabo Oke. Whenever he came back from work at Tadio Kwara then, he would quietly sit down and no problem with anybody, busying himself, you never even know he was in the house and that is the picture of him that I have in my mind. The last major time we interacted was during the 80th birthday party of Chief Oliha Ehindero in Atlanta 5 years ago. He came there with his wife and children at the ripe age that he was. As usual, a complete gentleman chatted with me all night because we sat on the high table together. He was always at peace with himself and His Creator. Thank you very much Pa. Faji for the life you lived, for the beautiful children you raised. You gave our mother, Anti Philo, your children and the entire world peace. May you rest in peace of the Lord your creator. Sleep well with your Lord and your creator. You will be sorely missed.
Dr. Felix Akande for the Akande family.
January 19, 2026
Daddy, thank you for being a good father. For the many sacrifices you made for us, always going out of your way to being a blessing to my family. You treated and welcomed us as your own.
Your investment in God's kingdom and humanity will never be forgotten. Your legacy will remain forever in our hearts.
We are comforted and glad that you are resting with the Lord. Keep resting in His Bosom sir
- Ven Omonogun & family
Your investment in God's kingdom and humanity will never be forgotten. Your legacy will remain forever in our hearts.
We are comforted and glad that you are resting with the Lord. Keep resting in His Bosom sir
- Ven Omonogun & family
January 17, 2026
REST IN PEACE SIR
I remember first seeing Uncle in 1985 when Mummy (Dorothy Obasa - RIP) visited him.
Uncle is a Gentleman, loving, compassionate, kind and benevolent.
REST IN PEACE UNTIL WE MEET TO PART NO MORE.
Your Nephew,
Oluwaseyi Obasa
I remember first seeing Uncle in 1985 when Mummy (Dorothy Obasa - RIP) visited him.
Uncle is a Gentleman, loving, compassionate, kind and benevolent.
REST IN PEACE UNTIL WE MEET TO PART NO MORE.
Your Nephew,
Oluwaseyi Obasa
January 12, 2026
Daddy Faji, I am short of words to express the good quality of life you lived while on this side of eternity. You were such a kind-hearted, perfect gentleman who would not mind sharing your limited resources with others even when you were retired. I remember your one-word greeting 'nle' and your favorite show every Sunday evening, " The New Testament Church founder Pastor Popoola of blessed memory." You are truly a definition of selflessness. I pray that you rest well at the bosom of our Lord Jesus till the resurrection morning. We will greatly miss you.
From Olabimpe & Christopher Omonogun
From Olabimpe & Christopher Omonogun
January 12, 2026
Baba May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace, may God grant you merciful judgement sun ree oooo Baba
January 9, 2026
Baba Faji was one of the pioneering members of the Society of St. Michael of Saint James Catholic Church, Sabo Oke, Ilorin, Kwara State, Nigeria where I worshipped alongside my husband who is also a member of the noble Society. Ever since I knew baba, he has been consistently very quite, loving, calm, reliable, accommodating and very committed to whatever he believed in. Baba was always very jovial and no matter your age, baba would relate with you in a very respectful and sincere manner. I remembered one occasion when the Society members and their spouses traveled to Lagos for the burial ceremony of one of their members’ mother’s burial. Throughout the journey, baba with few of the men made the trip so interesting as if we were on an excursion. By the time they started their jokes and stories, we were so comforted that Instead of sorrow, laughter, joy and peace filled our hearts and we were all very happy. Baba had no dull moment as he always had some lessons to teach. . He was loved for his humility and gentleness! Baba had come, he had seen, he had conquered. He lived a good life and also died a peaceful death. We give glory to God and pray that eternal rest be granted unto him, amen.
Good night baba till we meet on the resurrection morning to path no more!
Modupe O. Ayeni
Good night baba till we meet on the resurrection morning to path no more!
Modupe O. Ayeni
January 8, 2026
Oh my dearest 2nd Daddy, Pa John Ajibade Faji, if only I could influence your time of exit. I would prefer that your candle continue to burn with strength and vigor.
However Baba, you completed your race gloriously and triumphantly, hallelujah! You had lighted many other candles that gave light to many people, you had love and showed kindness to everyone around you.
Above all, you left us a great legacy of prayer and follow shipping with God. I will continue to trust in God till resurrection.
Mr Somebody, newspaper stand Baba comes to read newspapers in ilorin.
However Baba, you completed your race gloriously and triumphantly, hallelujah! You had lighted many other candles that gave light to many people, you had love and showed kindness to everyone around you.
Above all, you left us a great legacy of prayer and follow shipping with God. I will continue to trust in God till resurrection.
Mr Somebody, newspaper stand Baba comes to read newspapers in ilorin.
January 5, 2026
I knew about Baba long before I had the opportunity to meet him for the first time in Ilorin when I went for my "A" Level papers in 1975. Since then he had drawn me close to himself in a very special way.
His humility and quietness amazed me. At home in Sabo Oke, Ilorin, Nigeria he was quiet all the time and that reflected on the ambience of the home. He welcomed all with open arms and he made you feel wanted.
His marriage of 57 years stood out as a model to many of us youngsters who looked up to their home as a perfect example of what we wanted ours to be when we got to the age of marriage.
At work, he was a perfect example of industry and hard work.
In the last couple of years, I got particularly close to him as he commissioned me to follow up for him in Abuja on his paltry pension. I always looked forward to his calls during which he would update me on his health and his worries about the trouble he was having gaining access to his pension. He was, during such calls, unsparing in his praise of what he considered the great work God did through me as President of the Ogidi Development Union (ODU) and later as the Director-General of the Ogidi Day Festival which holds in June every year.
He was a devout Catholic and a sincere lover of God.
He was a rare breed of the Christian faith and we would miss him dearly. I pray that the Lord would, in His mercy, watch over the wonderful family he has left behind. May the Lord grant Baba's soul sweet repose in His bosom.
Adieu Daddy.
Tunde Ipinmisho
Abuja, Nigeria
His humility and quietness amazed me. At home in Sabo Oke, Ilorin, Nigeria he was quiet all the time and that reflected on the ambience of the home. He welcomed all with open arms and he made you feel wanted.
His marriage of 57 years stood out as a model to many of us youngsters who looked up to their home as a perfect example of what we wanted ours to be when we got to the age of marriage.
At work, he was a perfect example of industry and hard work.
In the last couple of years, I got particularly close to him as he commissioned me to follow up for him in Abuja on his paltry pension. I always looked forward to his calls during which he would update me on his health and his worries about the trouble he was having gaining access to his pension. He was, during such calls, unsparing in his praise of what he considered the great work God did through me as President of the Ogidi Development Union (ODU) and later as the Director-General of the Ogidi Day Festival which holds in June every year.
He was a devout Catholic and a sincere lover of God.
He was a rare breed of the Christian faith and we would miss him dearly. I pray that the Lord would, in His mercy, watch over the wonderful family he has left behind. May the Lord grant Baba's soul sweet repose in His bosom.
Adieu Daddy.
Tunde Ipinmisho
Abuja, Nigeria
December 28, 2025
Baba as we fondly called you, please continue to rest in peace. The years I spent under your roof were defining. I learnt about devotion & provision for family from what I saw you practice; staying committed to Mama and ensuring the food store in your house was never without food for everyone, including me. Thank you for allowing God to use your home as a spiritual covering for me at the most crucial time of my life. We rejoice that Heaven has gained a humble soul even though you will be truly missed down here by us all. RIP Baba, I will always have very good memories of you.
December 27, 2025
My grandpa was very kind. One time, he let me eat his muffin, even though he probably really liked muffins - because almost everyone likes muffins.
My grandpa also loved watching the news. He watched it a lot, maybe all day.
Fun fact: I am the only grandchild who has a picture with him all by myself, and that makes me feel very special.
Jayden Eriifeoluwa Adegbile
My grandpa also loved watching the news. He watched it a lot, maybe all day.
Fun fact: I am the only grandchild who has a picture with him all by myself, and that makes me feel very special.
Jayden Eriifeoluwa Adegbile
December 26, 2025
My daddy was a quiet, gentle but strict, caring, and deeply loving man. He was patient, selfless, principled, hardworking, and unwavering in his commitment to his family. His love was not loud, but it was constant, intentional, and sacrificial.
He placed great value on education and was deliberate about ensuring we had the best foundation. I vividly remember how he faithfully dropped off and picked up my brother and me from school every single day throughout my primary school years. Those simple acts spoke volumes of his devotion and presence in our lives.
When I was selected as one of the gifted children after the entrance examination into secondary school, you personally coached me for the interview, determined to see me succeed. By God’s grace, I did—and that victory will forever be tied to your belief in me.
You also made it a daily habit to stop by the supermarket every blessed day to buy fresh bread and beverages for our breakfast. That routine became a symbol of your care, and it is a tradition I proudly continue in my own family today.
Thank you, Baba, for your words of encouragement and for your prayers at every stage of my life, especially during my most trying moments. Your voice lifted in prayer whenever we spoke on the phone continues to echo in my heart and mind.
Thank you for all you did to ensure we are who we are today, by the help and grace of God. I thank God for your glorious exit and for a life well lived.
With tears rolling down my face as I write these words, I miss you dearly. Continue to rest in the bosom of the Almighty until we meet again.
Your beloved daughter,
Judith Ronke Aderibigbe.
He placed great value on education and was deliberate about ensuring we had the best foundation. I vividly remember how he faithfully dropped off and picked up my brother and me from school every single day throughout my primary school years. Those simple acts spoke volumes of his devotion and presence in our lives.
When I was selected as one of the gifted children after the entrance examination into secondary school, you personally coached me for the interview, determined to see me succeed. By God’s grace, I did—and that victory will forever be tied to your belief in me.
You also made it a daily habit to stop by the supermarket every blessed day to buy fresh bread and beverages for our breakfast. That routine became a symbol of your care, and it is a tradition I proudly continue in my own family today.
Thank you, Baba, for your words of encouragement and for your prayers at every stage of my life, especially during my most trying moments. Your voice lifted in prayer whenever we spoke on the phone continues to echo in my heart and mind.
Thank you for all you did to ensure we are who we are today, by the help and grace of God. I thank God for your glorious exit and for a life well lived.
With tears rolling down my face as I write these words, I miss you dearly. Continue to rest in the bosom of the Almighty until we meet again.
Your beloved daughter,
Judith Ronke Aderibigbe.
December 26, 2025
BAABA FAJI: A GENTLE SOUL RETURNS TO THE FATHER.
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Prior to 1983, I had known Baaba John Faji tangentially and met him only a few times by my relationship with my brother and friend, Adedayo Emmanuel Medupin, junior brother of Mummy Philo Faji [nee Medupin], dedicated wife of daddy and daughter of late Baaba Bathlomew Medupin, the well respected and inspiring leader [Baaba Egbe] of the St Thomas Catholic Church Ogidi, Nigeria, where Baaba Faji hails from.
In all those years, Baaba Faji always struck me as a super humble, quiet, organised and focused father figure; someone that would leave you upset with yourself, if you were to offend him.
Baaba Faji was a broadcaster and management professional to the core, as demonstrated in October 1983, when I encountered him as Head of the panel that interviewed me for a reportorial position at the radio station. He betrayed no undue emotion at the interview. He was to explain to me later on, that he needed to be officious with me as not to prejudice the panelists against me; as displayed familiarity could, sometimes, breed problems. I understood, clearly.
Fresh from the University with a degree in Mass Communication, it was fairly easy to pass the interview [compared to now, we were in pure heaven in Nigeria at the time]. Unfortunately, i could not take up the appointement, as I got employed by the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation [where I had undertaken the compulsory one year youth service, the year previous] before my resumption date at the radio station. Baaba understood my choice when I returned to explain to him.
Though we had been out of communication for a while [my fault, really], in the past year we became actively engaged again, and Baaba remained his usual self, a gentle adviser, humble to the core, hopeful, prayerful, a calming influence in the sea of a challenging and uncertain world.
He was a Catholic to the end. For him, The Faith was a lived reality, not some esoteric pre- occupation that served ad-hoc or temporary and transient needs. And so when I learnt he was indisposed, and considering his advanced age, I routinely and silently offered the Catholic prayer of total surrender, "ANIMA CHRISTI" [SOUL OF CHRIST] for him; a prayer so profound and supplicatory, that I also offer it for all of us who mourn Baaba:
"Soul of Christ, Sanctity us
Body of Christ, Save us
Blood of Christ, inebriate us
Water from the side of Christ, cleanse us
Passion of Christ, strengthen us
O good Jesus, hear us
Within your wounds, hide us
Never permit us to be separated from you
From the malicious enemy, defend us
At the hour of our death, call us
And bid us come to you
That with your saints, we may praise you forever and ever, Amen"
Baaba is missed. But he is gone to a better place, back to the Father where his loving wife, Mummy Philo Faji, caring children and all of us who love him, will meet him to part no more, after our own very long life here on earth, amen.
Gabriel Olusegun Obando.
Ottawa, Canada
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Prior to 1983, I had known Baaba John Faji tangentially and met him only a few times by my relationship with my brother and friend, Adedayo Emmanuel Medupin, junior brother of Mummy Philo Faji [nee Medupin], dedicated wife of daddy and daughter of late Baaba Bathlomew Medupin, the well respected and inspiring leader [Baaba Egbe] of the St Thomas Catholic Church Ogidi, Nigeria, where Baaba Faji hails from.
In all those years, Baaba Faji always struck me as a super humble, quiet, organised and focused father figure; someone that would leave you upset with yourself, if you were to offend him.
Baaba Faji was a broadcaster and management professional to the core, as demonstrated in October 1983, when I encountered him as Head of the panel that interviewed me for a reportorial position at the radio station. He betrayed no undue emotion at the interview. He was to explain to me later on, that he needed to be officious with me as not to prejudice the panelists against me; as displayed familiarity could, sometimes, breed problems. I understood, clearly.
Fresh from the University with a degree in Mass Communication, it was fairly easy to pass the interview [compared to now, we were in pure heaven in Nigeria at the time]. Unfortunately, i could not take up the appointement, as I got employed by the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation [where I had undertaken the compulsory one year youth service, the year previous] before my resumption date at the radio station. Baaba understood my choice when I returned to explain to him.
Though we had been out of communication for a while [my fault, really], in the past year we became actively engaged again, and Baaba remained his usual self, a gentle adviser, humble to the core, hopeful, prayerful, a calming influence in the sea of a challenging and uncertain world.
He was a Catholic to the end. For him, The Faith was a lived reality, not some esoteric pre- occupation that served ad-hoc or temporary and transient needs. And so when I learnt he was indisposed, and considering his advanced age, I routinely and silently offered the Catholic prayer of total surrender, "ANIMA CHRISTI" [SOUL OF CHRIST] for him; a prayer so profound and supplicatory, that I also offer it for all of us who mourn Baaba:
"Soul of Christ, Sanctity us
Body of Christ, Save us
Blood of Christ, inebriate us
Water from the side of Christ, cleanse us
Passion of Christ, strengthen us
O good Jesus, hear us
Within your wounds, hide us
Never permit us to be separated from you
From the malicious enemy, defend us
At the hour of our death, call us
And bid us come to you
That with your saints, we may praise you forever and ever, Amen"
Baaba is missed. But he is gone to a better place, back to the Father where his loving wife, Mummy Philo Faji, caring children and all of us who love him, will meet him to part no more, after our own very long life here on earth, amen.
Gabriel Olusegun Obando.
Ottawa, Canada
December 26, 2025
A TRIBUTE TO A GREAT MAN OF INTEGRITY, A PATRIARCH AND A MENTOR PA JOHN AJIBADE FAJI.
Today, we gather to honour and remember the life of a "giant" who has passed unto glory but his legacy lives on.
We are celebrating the life of a remarkable man, devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great grandfather, who lived an extraordinary 95 years on this planet earth.
A faithful son of Jesus and His church, he was a pillar of strength and wisdom, dedicating his life to his family and community. He was the immediate past chairman of Okun Community in Saint James Catholic Church, Sabo Oke, Ilorin, KWARA STATE. During his tenure, he contributed effectively to the progress of our community. He paid his yearly dues as at when due and made additional contributions even while he traveled to Canada and was living there. He sent money yearly to our Okun Community during our church yearly harvest.
His life was a beautiful reflection of God's love and he leaves behind a legacy of kindness, generosity and service. We celebrate his life, his triumph and his unwavering commitment to his faith.
We extend our words of solace and consolation to the entire family of Pa Faji. May God comfort the family and we the entire Okun Community members at Saint James Catholic Church, Sabo Oke, Ilorin, Kwara State.
May the soul of Pa John Ajibade Faji rest in perfect peace and may perpetual light shine upon him. Amen.
S.A. Fadile. J.P.
On behalf of Okun Community, Saint James Catholic Church, Sabo Oke, Ilorin, KWARA State.
Today, we gather to honour and remember the life of a "giant" who has passed unto glory but his legacy lives on.
We are celebrating the life of a remarkable man, devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great grandfather, who lived an extraordinary 95 years on this planet earth.
A faithful son of Jesus and His church, he was a pillar of strength and wisdom, dedicating his life to his family and community. He was the immediate past chairman of Okun Community in Saint James Catholic Church, Sabo Oke, Ilorin, KWARA STATE. During his tenure, he contributed effectively to the progress of our community. He paid his yearly dues as at when due and made additional contributions even while he traveled to Canada and was living there. He sent money yearly to our Okun Community during our church yearly harvest.
His life was a beautiful reflection of God's love and he leaves behind a legacy of kindness, generosity and service. We celebrate his life, his triumph and his unwavering commitment to his faith.
We extend our words of solace and consolation to the entire family of Pa Faji. May God comfort the family and we the entire Okun Community members at Saint James Catholic Church, Sabo Oke, Ilorin, Kwara State.
May the soul of Pa John Ajibade Faji rest in perfect peace and may perpetual light shine upon him. Amen.
S.A. Fadile. J.P.
On behalf of Okun Community, Saint James Catholic Church, Sabo Oke, Ilorin, KWARA State.
December 26, 2025
Dad was one of the most important people in my life. He was my anchor and my safe place. Although he was strict with us while growing up, he did most of what he did to us out of love, from his own hard upbringing, and because he wanted the best for his children in the best way he knew how.
He was a responsible and dutiful father, and, like most Nigerian dads, he believed in passing down the legacy of education; you would never compromise that for anything. You loved current affairs so much that you wanted to stay aware of what was going on, which is probably why you went into journalism.
I have so many memories of you, too many, but I decided to share the latest and the most important. It was on your 95th birthday that you sat down with your wife and all your daughters and surrendered your life to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ after sharing with us about your life’s journey, what a great privilege God gave you and us.
The assurance of you being in a better place gives a lot of comfort, not just as a cliché said by everyone, but which also came to me as a conviction from the Lord before your passing on the 9th of December, exactly a week before you took your last breath. We take great solace in that now and forever. Continue to rest well, Baba.
From your third daughter,
Julie Olajumoke Adegbile (Juliana)
He was a responsible and dutiful father, and, like most Nigerian dads, he believed in passing down the legacy of education; you would never compromise that for anything. You loved current affairs so much that you wanted to stay aware of what was going on, which is probably why you went into journalism.
I have so many memories of you, too many, but I decided to share the latest and the most important. It was on your 95th birthday that you sat down with your wife and all your daughters and surrendered your life to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ after sharing with us about your life’s journey, what a great privilege God gave you and us.
The assurance of you being in a better place gives a lot of comfort, not just as a cliché said by everyone, but which also came to me as a conviction from the Lord before your passing on the 9th of December, exactly a week before you took your last breath. We take great solace in that now and forever. Continue to rest well, Baba.
From your third daughter,
Julie Olajumoke Adegbile (Juliana)
December 26, 2025
Rest on Papa
Rest peacefully, Daddy. Your guidance and warmth will never be forgotten.
You were more than family, Daddy; you were strength, humor, and steady support.
Thank you for welcoming me into the family with open arms and quiet kindness.
Your wisdom lives on in the lessons you shared, both spoken and silent.
Grateful for the time we had together, and you will be remembered always for leaving behind a legacy of steadiness, respect, and family.
You will be deeply missed and always honored.
Continue to rest in the bosom of your maker.
Debo Adegbile
Rest peacefully, Daddy. Your guidance and warmth will never be forgotten.
You were more than family, Daddy; you were strength, humor, and steady support.
Thank you for welcoming me into the family with open arms and quiet kindness.
Your wisdom lives on in the lessons you shared, both spoken and silent.
Grateful for the time we had together, and you will be remembered always for leaving behind a legacy of steadiness, respect, and family.
You will be deeply missed and always honored.
Continue to rest in the bosom of your maker.
Debo Adegbile
December 25, 2025
Adieu Pa Faaji
Today, I pay my last respects to a man who was more than a senior friend and brother to my late father.Pa Faaji was a steady presence in my life from childhood. I grew up knowing him as a man of integrity, humility, and quiet strength, shaped by the same community that shaped Pa Faaji and my late father to produce many of us today.
Daddy Faaji was a truly modest man, never seeking attention, yet always earning respect through his actions, his wisdom, and his kindness. His closeness to our family meant a great deal to us, and his guidance and example left a lasting impression on me as I grew up.
He lived a life that speaks for itself as a devoted husband to a wonderful wife, and a proud father who raised accomplished children, reflecting the values he stood for. His legacy lives on not only through his family but through the many lives he touched with sincerity and grace.
I will always remember his calmness and knack for remembering past events so accurately.He was also rather caring to me.
Another of the remaining pillars that makes me remember my dad so well is gone.
He will be remembered with gratitude, respect, and deep affection. May his soul rest in peace, and may his family find comfort in the beautiful life he lived.
Today, I pay my last respects to a man who was more than a senior friend and brother to my late father.Pa Faaji was a steady presence in my life from childhood. I grew up knowing him as a man of integrity, humility, and quiet strength, shaped by the same community that shaped Pa Faaji and my late father to produce many of us today.
Daddy Faaji was a truly modest man, never seeking attention, yet always earning respect through his actions, his wisdom, and his kindness. His closeness to our family meant a great deal to us, and his guidance and example left a lasting impression on me as I grew up.
He lived a life that speaks for itself as a devoted husband to a wonderful wife, and a proud father who raised accomplished children, reflecting the values he stood for. His legacy lives on not only through his family but through the many lives he touched with sincerity and grace.
I will always remember his calmness and knack for remembering past events so accurately.He was also rather caring to me.
Another of the remaining pillars that makes me remember my dad so well is gone.
He will be remembered with gratitude, respect, and deep affection. May his soul rest in peace, and may his family find comfort in the beautiful life he lived.
December 24, 2025
Baba Faji was warm, caring, and deeply compassionate. My association with him was filled with respect and affection. I was privileged to engage in dialogue with him on a few occasions, each time impressed by his wisdom. He was a devoted family man who embraced even an extended family with love and openness.
Adieu Baba… may your soul find eternal rest.
Olumayowa Adewara
Adieu Baba… may your soul find eternal rest.
Olumayowa Adewara
December 24, 2025
SPECIAL TRIBUTE FROM YOUR SON‑IN‑LAW,
JOHNSON ADEGBITE
Today, I honour the life of a great man — Pa John Ajibade Faji — a father‑in‑law with a sense of humor. A quiet pillar whose presence brought stability and wisdom into our lives.
Pa Faji was a man of deep character. His words were measured, his actions thoughtful, and his heart full of kindness. He carried himself with a humility that only comes from a life well lived and a spirit anchored with the fear of God. In every interaction, he showed what it means to be patient, disciplined, and gracious.
As his son‑in‑law, I count it a privilege to have known him closely. He welcomed me into the family with warmth and sincerity. He never imposed himself, yet his influence was unmistakable. Through his stories, his gentle nature, and his unwavering faith, he taught lessons that will remain with me for the rest of my life.
I admired his strength — not the loud kind, but the quiet, enduring strength that comes from decades of experience, responsibility, and trust in God. I admired his devotion to his family, his commitment to peace, and the dignity with which he carried himself until his final days.
Pa lived 95 years, and he lived them well. His legacy is not only in the years he spent on earth, but in the values he instilled, the lives he shaped, and the love he shared. I am grateful to God for the honour of being part of his family.
Though we will miss him deeply, we rejoice that he has entered his eternal rest — free from pain, free from labour, and safe in the arms of the Lord he served.
Your memory is a blessing, your legacy a treasure, and your impact on my life will never be forgotten.
Rest in peace.
JOHNSON ADEGBITE
Today, I honour the life of a great man — Pa John Ajibade Faji — a father‑in‑law with a sense of humor. A quiet pillar whose presence brought stability and wisdom into our lives.
Pa Faji was a man of deep character. His words were measured, his actions thoughtful, and his heart full of kindness. He carried himself with a humility that only comes from a life well lived and a spirit anchored with the fear of God. In every interaction, he showed what it means to be patient, disciplined, and gracious.
As his son‑in‑law, I count it a privilege to have known him closely. He welcomed me into the family with warmth and sincerity. He never imposed himself, yet his influence was unmistakable. Through his stories, his gentle nature, and his unwavering faith, he taught lessons that will remain with me for the rest of my life.
I admired his strength — not the loud kind, but the quiet, enduring strength that comes from decades of experience, responsibility, and trust in God. I admired his devotion to his family, his commitment to peace, and the dignity with which he carried himself until his final days.
Pa lived 95 years, and he lived them well. His legacy is not only in the years he spent on earth, but in the values he instilled, the lives he shaped, and the love he shared. I am grateful to God for the honour of being part of his family.
Though we will miss him deeply, we rejoice that he has entered his eternal rest — free from pain, free from labour, and safe in the arms of the Lord he served.
Your memory is a blessing, your legacy a treasure, and your impact on my life will never be forgotten.
Rest in peace.
December 24, 2025
My father used to talk about how hard life was for him growing up. He often said if he had the opportunities I have today, he would have done great things. He spoke with purpose. His actions proved it. He made sure I, his first son, attended the best schools around, in his own words. He chose sacrifice so my road could be wider than the one he walked.
He was a true gentleman. Soft spoken. Easygoing. Deeply committed to his faith and church work. Above everything else, he was a family man. For 57 years, he lived with one woman, my mother. Their union stands as an example of love and respect.
Growing up, he taught me discipline. More importantly, he taught me restraint. Any time I crossed the line and hit a housemaid, he stood up against me immediately. Sometimes firmly. Sometimes fiercely. He told me a man must never hit a woman. I never saw him raise his hand against my mother. That example stayed with me. It shaped my view of strength, honor, and manhood.
I also remember his stories. Stories about Nigeria. Stories about his childhood. Stories about how he grew up. Stories about how he met my mother, stories he told with a smile. I remember our arguments, mostly about politics. I remember how you called me almost every night to discuss trending issues. We talked about the nation. We argued for hours at times. We both enjoyed those moments. Especially the times when it was only you, mum, and me around.
Everything he did was for his family. His love was quiet. It was intentional. It was protective. Above all, God showered him with His blessings. He gave him a beautiful family built on love. A family many people look up to. Now God has called him home to rest from his labor here on earth.
His life was not loud. It was impactful. I remember our last moments together. The closeness. The love. I carry those moments in my chest and always will. Rest on, Daddy. If you see me, know this. I walk with everything you gave me. God will also do all He promised.
You will always be proud of your beloved son.
Your son, Jude Oluwafemi Faji
He was a true gentleman. Soft spoken. Easygoing. Deeply committed to his faith and church work. Above everything else, he was a family man. For 57 years, he lived with one woman, my mother. Their union stands as an example of love and respect.
Growing up, he taught me discipline. More importantly, he taught me restraint. Any time I crossed the line and hit a housemaid, he stood up against me immediately. Sometimes firmly. Sometimes fiercely. He told me a man must never hit a woman. I never saw him raise his hand against my mother. That example stayed with me. It shaped my view of strength, honor, and manhood.
I also remember his stories. Stories about Nigeria. Stories about his childhood. Stories about how he grew up. Stories about how he met my mother, stories he told with a smile. I remember our arguments, mostly about politics. I remember how you called me almost every night to discuss trending issues. We talked about the nation. We argued for hours at times. We both enjoyed those moments. Especially the times when it was only you, mum, and me around.
Everything he did was for his family. His love was quiet. It was intentional. It was protective. Above all, God showered him with His blessings. He gave him a beautiful family built on love. A family many people look up to. Now God has called him home to rest from his labor here on earth.
His life was not loud. It was impactful. I remember our last moments together. The closeness. The love. I carry those moments in my chest and always will. Rest on, Daddy. If you see me, know this. I walk with everything you gave me. God will also do all He promised.
You will always be proud of your beloved son.
Your son, Jude Oluwafemi Faji
December 24, 2025
I’m truly short of words. I only wish you could have stayed a little longer. How I wish I had the chance to meet you in person. How I wish you could carry your first son’s child. How I wish you could see when things get better for us….. But If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.
To know you is to love you. I’m grateful to be called your daughter-in-law. From the very first day I spoke to you, you accepted and welcomed me like your own daughter.During pregnancy, you called almost everyday to check up on me with your illness.
You lived a beautiful and fulfilled life, and we thank God for the precious years well spent.
We will miss you deeply, but God loves you more.
Keep resting in the bosom of the Almighty.
— Deborah Faji (Daughter-in-Law)
To know you is to love you. I’m grateful to be called your daughter-in-law. From the very first day I spoke to you, you accepted and welcomed me like your own daughter.During pregnancy, you called almost everyday to check up on me with your illness.
You lived a beautiful and fulfilled life, and we thank God for the precious years well spent.
We will miss you deeply, but God loves you more.
Keep resting in the bosom of the Almighty.
— Deborah Faji (Daughter-in-Law)
December 24, 2025
Tribute to Daddy
Daddy John Ajibade Faji lived a long, full, and purposeful life, and his peaceful transition on the 16th of December at the age of 95 marks the end of a beautiful chapter but not the end of his impact.
Daddy was a calm, gentle, and deeply respected man. His presence alone brought peace. He was a man of prayer, and I was always covered by his prayers. From the very moment I joined the Faji family in holy matrimony, Daddy accepted and loved me as one of his own. That love was genuine, steady, and unconditional and for that, my heart will always be grateful.
With Daddy, I enjoyed a rare and special privilege we fondly called being the “last baby” for a very long time. It was a bond filled with warmth, tenderness, and quiet understanding. I had (and still have) a very soft heart for him. I never wanted to see him in pain, and I never wanted to imagine a world without him. Yet, even in this pain of goodbye, I find comfort in knowing that his life was full and his departure peaceful.
Daddy held and will forever hold a special place in my heart. His wisdom, kindness, humility, and strength live on through his children, grandchildren, and everyone whose life he touched. His legacy is not just in the years he lived, but in the love he gave, the prayers he offered, and the examples he set.
Today, we do not mourn without hope. I am confident that Daddy is resting peacefully in the bosom of the Lord, reunited with eternal joy, where there is no pain, no sorrow, and no suffering, only perfect peace.
Daddy, thank you for loving me, for praying for me, and for being a true father to me. Your legacy lives on, and your memory will forever be treasured.
Rest well, Daddy. You are deeply loved and dearly missed.
Your daughter-in-law, Olubukola.
Daddy John Ajibade Faji lived a long, full, and purposeful life, and his peaceful transition on the 16th of December at the age of 95 marks the end of a beautiful chapter but not the end of his impact.
Daddy was a calm, gentle, and deeply respected man. His presence alone brought peace. He was a man of prayer, and I was always covered by his prayers. From the very moment I joined the Faji family in holy matrimony, Daddy accepted and loved me as one of his own. That love was genuine, steady, and unconditional and for that, my heart will always be grateful.
With Daddy, I enjoyed a rare and special privilege we fondly called being the “last baby” for a very long time. It was a bond filled with warmth, tenderness, and quiet understanding. I had (and still have) a very soft heart for him. I never wanted to see him in pain, and I never wanted to imagine a world without him. Yet, even in this pain of goodbye, I find comfort in knowing that his life was full and his departure peaceful.
Daddy held and will forever hold a special place in my heart. His wisdom, kindness, humility, and strength live on through his children, grandchildren, and everyone whose life he touched. His legacy is not just in the years he lived, but in the love he gave, the prayers he offered, and the examples he set.
Today, we do not mourn without hope. I am confident that Daddy is resting peacefully in the bosom of the Lord, reunited with eternal joy, where there is no pain, no sorrow, and no suffering, only perfect peace.
Daddy, thank you for loving me, for praying for me, and for being a true father to me. Your legacy lives on, and your memory will forever be treasured.
Rest well, Daddy. You are deeply loved and dearly missed.
Your daughter-in-law, Olubukola.
December 24, 2025
“Baba”, as I fondly called you growing up, you were a beacon of resilience and determination; you never let circumstances define you. You fought for education, for a better life, and for us. Your legacy lives on in the values you instilled and the opportunities you created for us. Your strength paved the way for my success. You were a family man, strict yet overly caring. You taught me the value of contentment, with many memories to cherish.
As the last child, I held a special place in your heart, Dad. Your guidance shaped me, your love supported me, and your legacy inspires me. I'll carry your stories, values, and love forward, honouring your memory and all you did for us.
With endless love,
Your son, Victor.
As the last child, I held a special place in your heart, Dad. Your guidance shaped me, your love supported me, and your legacy inspires me. I'll carry your stories, values, and love forward, honouring your memory and all you did for us.
With endless love,
Your son, Victor.
December 24, 2025
Tribute to a loving and a very kind father in-law.I remembered in August/September 1977 while I was on end of the year holiday from school I was sent by him to long vacation holiday school training In Ilorin, in fact he supplied all I needed with all encouragement and this brought about a very good improvement in my academics performance not only in that class but in all subsequent classes. Daddy was easy going and gentle individual. I can also remember in the recent times even in the old age daddy kept asking for me and sending gifts/cash to Nigeria. I will never forget my father-in-law, may he continue to rest in peace. Ojo ajina mora loruko Jesu.
December 24, 2025
On behalf of my wife, children, and grandchildren, we give thanks to God for the full, rich, meaningful and enviable life of Pa John Faji, our beloved in-law, who departed this world peacefully at the age of 95 years and 6 months.
Pa Faji lived a life marked by gentleness, kindness, and deep compassion in a very Roman Catholic tradition. His presence brought calm where there was anxiety, comfort where there was pain, and love wherever he went. He spoke softly but lived loudly through his actions, teaching us that strength does not always shout, and that love is best expressed through patience, humility, and care for others.
His long life was a blessing not only in years but in impact. He witnessed generations rise, nurtured family bonds, and quietly shaped lives through wisdom, prayer, and example. To know him was to encounter warmth, understanding, and an unwavering sense of humanity.
His exit was as peaceful as his life was gracious, a gentle transition after a life well lived. We take comfort in knowing that he laid down his earthly burdens and entered eternal rest, leaving behind a legacy of love that time cannot erase.
Though we mourn his passing, we celebrate his life with gratitude rather than sorrow, knowing that such a life is not truly lost, but lives on in the hearts, values, and memories of all who were privileged to share in it.
Rest well, dear daddy. Your journey was noble, your love enduring, and your memory a blessing to the entire Medupin Family.
Pa Faji lived a life marked by gentleness, kindness, and deep compassion in a very Roman Catholic tradition. His presence brought calm where there was anxiety, comfort where there was pain, and love wherever he went. He spoke softly but lived loudly through his actions, teaching us that strength does not always shout, and that love is best expressed through patience, humility, and care for others.
His long life was a blessing not only in years but in impact. He witnessed generations rise, nurtured family bonds, and quietly shaped lives through wisdom, prayer, and example. To know him was to encounter warmth, understanding, and an unwavering sense of humanity.
His exit was as peaceful as his life was gracious, a gentle transition after a life well lived. We take comfort in knowing that he laid down his earthly burdens and entered eternal rest, leaving behind a legacy of love that time cannot erase.
Though we mourn his passing, we celebrate his life with gratitude rather than sorrow, knowing that such a life is not truly lost, but lives on in the hearts, values, and memories of all who were privileged to share in it.
Rest well, dear daddy. Your journey was noble, your love enduring, and your memory a blessing to the entire Medupin Family.
December 24, 2025
Grandpa, you were a kind, loving and generous man. We appreciate you for being the father and teacher that you were. Thank you for raising us with wisdom and in the way of the Lord. Your words of wisdom guided us, your prayers protected us, your love embraced us. We thank God for the privilege to live a long healthy life. We carry your strength and love with us everyday, and your memory will always be a part of who we are.
Rest in heavenly peace.
With love,
Anuoluwapo Adegbite on behalf of your grandchildren
Rest in heavenly peace.
With love,
Anuoluwapo Adegbite on behalf of your grandchildren
December 24, 2025
My father lived a long and meaningful life marked by his compassion, wisdom, and strength. He has left behind a legacy of love, sacrifice, and deep care for his family. He believed strongly in the power of education and he never stopped encouraging me to learn, grow, and persevere, even through the hardest times. His motivation carried me when my own strength felt small. Though, he is no longer with us, his guidance, values and love continue to shape who I am today. His life is a testimony of God’s faithfulness, and his memory will forever remain a blessing.
I miss you so much Dad; remembering your prayers and advice over the phone almost every night we talked.
Dad, you were a rare gem; carried uncommon grace and sort for peace and comfort for us all till the very end.
Good night Daddy until the resurrection morning.
-Joyce Titilayo Adegbite (Your treasured Daughter
I miss you so much Dad; remembering your prayers and advice over the phone almost every night we talked.
Dad, you were a rare gem; carried uncommon grace and sort for peace and comfort for us all till the very end.
Good night Daddy until the resurrection morning.
-Joyce Titilayo Adegbite (Your treasured Daughter
December 24, 2025
I thank God for the life of my husband. He was not just a husband but a father.
A friend of my mother introduced him to my mother to have me as his partner. The friend described him as gentle, loving and accommodating; that is exactly how I met him and how he was throughout our 57 years of marriage together. We stood together through thick and thin, when we had plenty and when we did not, we thanked and praised God. Also want to point out that in all our years together, nobody ever came to settle a quarrel for us. Not that we did not quarrel, we did, but he would call me, and we would settle before we went to bed. We can settle a quarrel because there is a prayer we have to say before going to bed; that is the act of contrition and a song that says into your hands I commit my spirit in Yoruba ( ni owo re oluwa, le mi gbe emi mi le….). By these acts, we cannot hold any grudge and go to bed. And even if I had a grudge with some other person, he would make sure I settle with that person; he would not give me rest until I settle the disagreement.
Another aspect of his life was to ensure he gave all his children an education to at least the university level. His father died when he was an infant, so he, as much as he desired to go to school he could not and did not have an education in the four walls of a school. But being determined to be educated, he self-schooled through correspondence to attain his education. But today he has a Dr of pharmacy amongst his children and all with at least a college degree in various fields.
I thank God for the life we had together. I miss you so much. Goodnight, till we meet again at the feet of Jesus! Your wife is and mother of your children.
A friend of my mother introduced him to my mother to have me as his partner. The friend described him as gentle, loving and accommodating; that is exactly how I met him and how he was throughout our 57 years of marriage together. We stood together through thick and thin, when we had plenty and when we did not, we thanked and praised God. Also want to point out that in all our years together, nobody ever came to settle a quarrel for us. Not that we did not quarrel, we did, but he would call me, and we would settle before we went to bed. We can settle a quarrel because there is a prayer we have to say before going to bed; that is the act of contrition and a song that says into your hands I commit my spirit in Yoruba ( ni owo re oluwa, le mi gbe emi mi le….). By these acts, we cannot hold any grudge and go to bed. And even if I had a grudge with some other person, he would make sure I settle with that person; he would not give me rest until I settle the disagreement.
Another aspect of his life was to ensure he gave all his children an education to at least the university level. His father died when he was an infant, so he, as much as he desired to go to school he could not and did not have an education in the four walls of a school. But being determined to be educated, he self-schooled through correspondence to attain his education. But today he has a Dr of pharmacy amongst his children and all with at least a college degree in various fields.
I thank God for the life we had together. I miss you so much. Goodnight, till we meet again at the feet of Jesus! Your wife is and mother of your children.
December 24, 2025
Today, we celebrated the life of an incredible man who left an indelible mark on our hearts. From my childhood to adulthood, he was always there with an open heart.
I knew Daddy Faji Ajibade vaguely at Kaduna earlier on, but got to know him better when I got to Secondary School and, I was a member of the British Council Kaduna Drama Group Contingent. We used to put up a drama series every alternate week which were recorded by Radio Kaduna Television and he was the chief anchor of the program representing the Radio House. Each time we were at the program, I would greet him and he would respond calmly "Pele Iyabo. Se onfoju si iwe e?".My colleagues saw me as favoured among the group and it was a pride on my part. All these, before we became in-laws. I was not just happy, but proud that my town's man was in charge. He was as an uncle. An easy going and soft spoken individual. Later, as my sister-in-law's husband, he became a part of my family. His easy going nature was seen and loved by individuals. He loved me from my childhood till his passing on. I started missing him few days before his passing on, when I requested to speak with him and his wife said he was no longer much at alart.He was ever happy to speak with me in his good days. I am grateful for the memories we shared, his kindness and compassion
I wish you rest in peace in eternity Daddy Ajibade Faji as perpetual light continues to shine upon you. Your love and legacy will live on in my heart.You will be dearly missed. Good Night Sir!.
I knew Daddy Faji Ajibade vaguely at Kaduna earlier on, but got to know him better when I got to Secondary School and, I was a member of the British Council Kaduna Drama Group Contingent. We used to put up a drama series every alternate week which were recorded by Radio Kaduna Television and he was the chief anchor of the program representing the Radio House. Each time we were at the program, I would greet him and he would respond calmly "Pele Iyabo. Se onfoju si iwe e?".My colleagues saw me as favoured among the group and it was a pride on my part. All these, before we became in-laws. I was not just happy, but proud that my town's man was in charge. He was as an uncle. An easy going and soft spoken individual. Later, as my sister-in-law's husband, he became a part of my family. His easy going nature was seen and loved by individuals. He loved me from my childhood till his passing on. I started missing him few days before his passing on, when I requested to speak with him and his wife said he was no longer much at alart.He was ever happy to speak with me in his good days. I am grateful for the memories we shared, his kindness and compassion
I wish you rest in peace in eternity Daddy Ajibade Faji as perpetual light continues to shine upon you. Your love and legacy will live on in my heart.You will be dearly missed. Good Night Sir!.
December 24, 2025
My tribute stems from the fact that God made my inlaw a father and a grate grand father. He lived a life of victory which is seen in and taken from Proverbs 14:34-35, 15:1. which says "Righteousness exalted a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people. The king's favour is towards a wise servant: but his wrath is against him that causeth shame. A soft answer turneth away wrath:..." Today I eulogiz him as a perfect gentle man who has come and conquered. A father and grand father a lot will want to have. May his soul continue to rest in perfect peace in Jesus name. We love him but it's a price we all have to pay one way or the other. God bless us. Amen.
December 24, 2025
May the soul of the departed rest indeed with the lord.
He was just a wonderful man.
Peacefull and loving till the end.
No drama around him.
He was a quintessential gentle man that every family would love to have as an inlaw.
Rest in the lord my wonderful friend, inlaw ,father and indeed a role model of a quintessential husband
Our gisting days are gone forever.
Your strong voice towards the end still rings in my ears and i guess so shall it be till we also cross this divide.
Will be sorely missed.
He was just a wonderful man.
Peacefull and loving till the end.
No drama around him.
He was a quintessential gentle man that every family would love to have as an inlaw.
Rest in the lord my wonderful friend, inlaw ,father and indeed a role model of a quintessential husband
Our gisting days are gone forever.
Your strong voice towards the end still rings in my ears and i guess so shall it be till we also cross this divide.
Will be sorely missed.
December 24, 2025
Daddy, so many lessons have been learnt from you.Till your last days,you used your strength in praying for us, and you gave us all good and wonderful advice. The good legacies you left will not be soiled,we will continue to be the good ambassador of the name you are passionate of be assured of this, Sleep on dad.A well disciplined,loving and caring heart.Till we meet to part no more,rest well Daddy.
December 24, 2025
Today i write these words with a heart full of gratitude,but also to thank God for your impactful contact, effects on me ,, you are just too much to me dated back for over four decades.
Daddy you are a peaceful father, caring, humble, accessible, available, courageous, religious ,lovely name it,A father of many parts in humanity ,
From the earliest days of my life dated back to the early 80s your unwavering courage on academic pursuit, emotional strength that carries me through life challenges.Daddy your love knew no limits.
You possessed a quiet strength that radiated grace,
Daddy your wisdom didn't always come through only grand speeches,but with simple act of kindness, daily sacrifice,and the way you carried yourself with dignity and purpose.
Daddy 1984/85 you taught me the importance of compassion, humility, integrity,and above all love and forgiveness..
Daddy you are an example of humility on all area of human existence.
So many good encounters I had with you severally,I will just mentioned three, possibly with dates,Daddy introduced me to my destiny helper in April 1985. early march 1992 I took my fiance to Daddy for an introduction,Daddy was so happy entertained us with transport and gifts.
Same 1992 first week of June Daddy came to present me a gift for my wedding,his gift was the best among numerous gifts,(complete baby care..)
Daddy though you have passed, your spirit of advice, courage is permanent in me.
I will miss your very low voice of encouragement,love and easy going personified.
Daddy thank you for everything sir,.I will still keep to your memory as a guiding light in my life.
Thank you sir for everything, your love..and still is..,,the greatest gift I have known.
REST WELL sir..
God grant you a special resting place IJCMN AMEN.
Daddy you are a peaceful father, caring, humble, accessible, available, courageous, religious ,lovely name it,A father of many parts in humanity ,
From the earliest days of my life dated back to the early 80s your unwavering courage on academic pursuit, emotional strength that carries me through life challenges.Daddy your love knew no limits.
You possessed a quiet strength that radiated grace,
Daddy your wisdom didn't always come through only grand speeches,but with simple act of kindness, daily sacrifice,and the way you carried yourself with dignity and purpose.
Daddy 1984/85 you taught me the importance of compassion, humility, integrity,and above all love and forgiveness..
Daddy you are an example of humility on all area of human existence.
So many good encounters I had with you severally,I will just mentioned three, possibly with dates,Daddy introduced me to my destiny helper in April 1985. early march 1992 I took my fiance to Daddy for an introduction,Daddy was so happy entertained us with transport and gifts.
Same 1992 first week of June Daddy came to present me a gift for my wedding,his gift was the best among numerous gifts,(complete baby care..)
Daddy though you have passed, your spirit of advice, courage is permanent in me.
I will miss your very low voice of encouragement,love and easy going personified.
Daddy thank you for everything sir,.I will still keep to your memory as a guiding light in my life.
Thank you sir for everything, your love..and still is..,,the greatest gift I have known.
REST WELL sir..
God grant you a special resting place IJCMN AMEN.
December 24, 2025
Oh my dearest 2nd Daddy, Pa John Ajibade Faji, if only I could influence your time of exit. I would prefer that your candle continue to burn with strength and vigor.
However Baba, you completed your race gloriously and triumphantly, hallelujah! You had lighted many other candles that gave light to many people, you had love and showed kindness to everyone around you.
Above all, you left us a great legacy of prayer and follow shipping with God. I will continue to trust in God till resurrection.
However Baba, you completed your race gloriously and triumphantly, hallelujah! You had lighted many other candles that gave light to many people, you had love and showed kindness to everyone around you.
Above all, you left us a great legacy of prayer and follow shipping with God. I will continue to trust in God till resurrection.
December 24, 2025
My dad was a gentle and easy-going man, yet deeply hardworking and strong in character. He carried himself with quiet discipline — caring, kind, and sometimes strict — always guiding us with patience rather than force. He showed his love not through loud words, but through steady presence, consistency, and sacrifice. To many, he may have seemed calm and reserved, but those who knew him well understood the depth of his care and the strength of his values.
Dad you raised me to grow into a responsible woman, grounded in Christian virtues. From you I learned the importance of honesty, compassion, and good character. You believed in doing what was right even when it was difficult, in being a peacemaker rather than a source of conflict, and in treating others with dignity and respect. These lessons were not just spoken — they were lived daily through your actions, your work ethic, and the way you related to people.
One of my favorite memories of you is your love for staying informed. Though not a politician, you were a devoted consumer of the news and the politics of the day. When his sight was good, he found joy in reading newspapers, carefully following events and forming thoughtful opinions. That curiosity and awareness reflected who he was — a man engaged with the world, thoughtful about society, and always eager to understand more. Dad, we honor not only the life you lived, but the values you planted in us — values that will continue to guide us long after your passing. I miss you so much; miss that voice of yours that tells me “rora o”( be careful) every time I tell you I am stepping out of the house for anything.
Goodnight dad! May God continue to bless the memory of you! Your Daughter and first fruit - Victoria Foluke Afolayan!
Dad you raised me to grow into a responsible woman, grounded in Christian virtues. From you I learned the importance of honesty, compassion, and good character. You believed in doing what was right even when it was difficult, in being a peacemaker rather than a source of conflict, and in treating others with dignity and respect. These lessons were not just spoken — they were lived daily through your actions, your work ethic, and the way you related to people.
One of my favorite memories of you is your love for staying informed. Though not a politician, you were a devoted consumer of the news and the politics of the day. When his sight was good, he found joy in reading newspapers, carefully following events and forming thoughtful opinions. That curiosity and awareness reflected who he was — a man engaged with the world, thoughtful about society, and always eager to understand more. Dad, we honor not only the life you lived, but the values you planted in us — values that will continue to guide us long after your passing. I miss you so much; miss that voice of yours that tells me “rora o”( be careful) every time I tell you I am stepping out of the house for anything.
Goodnight dad! May God continue to bless the memory of you! Your Daughter and first fruit - Victoria Foluke Afolayan!
December 24, 2025
TRIBUTE TO OUR AMIABLE FATHER, GRAND FATHER and GREAT GRAND FATHER.Late PA AJIBOYE FAJI. With Greatest Respect for a Life Well Spent the Above named GROUP condole with the Family of Pa AJIBOYE FAJI in Ilorin kws ng, Kogi state and in CANADA on d death of Our Late SAGE. Several years ago,we recall how BABA do sit down with Us at a very popular Newspaper Stand in Ilorin,before we realized what was going on, BABA led us to form what we called NEWSPAPER FREE READERS ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA,KWARA STATE CHAPTER
.The owner of the Newspaper stand also a respected Oldman popularly called OLOHUNIYO, We do read Nigerian Newspapers ✋ Magazines,Books with d payment of a token then N10, later N20, later N50 as Reading fees, presently Now it's N100 being paid by each reader, we remember with nostalgia how Papa Will drop N200, N500, payment for would be readers to read freely.
Papa was very jovial and highly intelligent,we do argue a lot while reading the Newspapers, but always BABA used to moderate Our Argument And he use to tell us that No Nigerian Politician is worth dieing for.Baba Will sit-down comfortably with us for hours,most part of the Day before going back home in the evening.He said that he loves Our company.whenever he is around at d Newspaper Shop,he usually ask for those of us who are absent for a Long Time.Baba know many of us by our Names, he has Our numerous Cellphone numbers, BABA FAJI do buy things for us voluntarily, sometimes if any applicant amongst Us intend to go for a Job interview, BABA Will freely give them money to go for their jobs interview.BABAFAJI informed us All when he was going to stay with his children in Canada ❤️, He use to send money to Our Newspaper Group in ilorin kws at the end of every Year during Xmas and New year.We are so many, Our Newspaper Free Readers Association in ilorin kws ng, include Many Academia, Students, Business men, Retired civil servants,Politician and Journalists amongst others.Names like Baba oluhuniyo, his son Shola alias somebody,Dr Abiodun MEDUPIN,Dr Kunle Adebowale JP, Hon Adewara, Comrade Sunkanmi Iwaloye, Barrister Nicholas,Comrade Afolabi Lukman,Baba offa,Dr Sanusi,Comrade Lanre Oro,Barrister Fatai,Mr Omidora,late C.O Adebayo( during the period of (N.A.D.E.C.O)and others.
Wishing the entire family a successful burial rite .
Dr Abiodun Medupin for and on behalf of the NEWSPAPER FREE READERS ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA, KWARA STATE CHAPTER
.The owner of the Newspaper stand also a respected Oldman popularly called OLOHUNIYO, We do read Nigerian Newspapers ✋ Magazines,Books with d payment of a token then N10, later N20, later N50 as Reading fees, presently Now it's N100 being paid by each reader, we remember with nostalgia how Papa Will drop N200, N500, payment for would be readers to read freely.
Papa was very jovial and highly intelligent,we do argue a lot while reading the Newspapers, but always BABA used to moderate Our Argument And he use to tell us that No Nigerian Politician is worth dieing for.Baba Will sit-down comfortably with us for hours,most part of the Day before going back home in the evening.He said that he loves Our company.whenever he is around at d Newspaper Shop,he usually ask for those of us who are absent for a Long Time.Baba know many of us by our Names, he has Our numerous Cellphone numbers, BABA FAJI do buy things for us voluntarily, sometimes if any applicant amongst Us intend to go for a Job interview, BABA Will freely give them money to go for their jobs interview.BABAFAJI informed us All when he was going to stay with his children in Canada ❤️, He use to send money to Our Newspaper Group in ilorin kws at the end of every Year during Xmas and New year.We are so many, Our Newspaper Free Readers Association in ilorin kws ng, include Many Academia, Students, Business men, Retired civil servants,Politician and Journalists amongst others.Names like Baba oluhuniyo, his son Shola alias somebody,Dr Abiodun MEDUPIN,Dr Kunle Adebowale JP, Hon Adewara, Comrade Sunkanmi Iwaloye, Barrister Nicholas,Comrade Afolabi Lukman,Baba offa,Dr Sanusi,Comrade Lanre Oro,Barrister Fatai,Mr Omidora,late C.O Adebayo( during the period of (N.A.D.E.C.O)and others.
Wishing the entire family a successful burial rite .
Dr Abiodun Medupin for and on behalf of the NEWSPAPER FREE READERS ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA, KWARA STATE CHAPTER
December 24, 2025
ST Annes Society of ST James Catholic Church Ilorin, Kwara State Nigeria
In humble submission to the will of Almighty God and in the hope of the Resurrection, the entire St Anne's society mourns the passing of our beloved mentor, Pa. John Ajibade FAJI. Though his transition has brought deep sorrow, we thank God for a life well spent in faith, service, and love.
At this moment of grief, our hearts and prayers are especially with his beloved wife, our dear sister and active member of the Society . We recognize the pain of this great loss and stand firmly with her in love and solidarity. May she find comfort in the beautiful memories shared, strength in the support of the society, and peace in the assurance that Baba has gone to rest in the bosom of the Lord. Please know that you are not alone, your society family mourns with you and upholds you in prayer.
Though Baba’s earthly journey has ended, his good works, wise counsel, and gentle spirit live on through his family and all whose lives he touched. We take consolation in the promise of eternal life, believing that he has finished his race and now rests in God’s everlasting peace.
On behalf of the entire St Annes Society, we extend our heartfelt condolences to his wife, children, and the entire FAJI family. May the Almighty grant them strength, comfort, and divine peace during this difficult time.
May the soul of Pa. John Ajibade FAJI rest in perfect peace, and may perpetual light shine upon him. Amen.
In humble submission to the will of Almighty God and in the hope of the Resurrection, the entire St Anne's society mourns the passing of our beloved mentor, Pa. John Ajibade FAJI. Though his transition has brought deep sorrow, we thank God for a life well spent in faith, service, and love.
At this moment of grief, our hearts and prayers are especially with his beloved wife, our dear sister and active member of the Society . We recognize the pain of this great loss and stand firmly with her in love and solidarity. May she find comfort in the beautiful memories shared, strength in the support of the society, and peace in the assurance that Baba has gone to rest in the bosom of the Lord. Please know that you are not alone, your society family mourns with you and upholds you in prayer.
Though Baba’s earthly journey has ended, his good works, wise counsel, and gentle spirit live on through his family and all whose lives he touched. We take consolation in the promise of eternal life, believing that he has finished his race and now rests in God’s everlasting peace.
On behalf of the entire St Annes Society, we extend our heartfelt condolences to his wife, children, and the entire FAJI family. May the Almighty grant them strength, comfort, and divine peace during this difficult time.
May the soul of Pa. John Ajibade FAJI rest in perfect peace, and may perpetual light shine upon him. Amen.
December 24, 2025
The Parish Priest, on behalf of the family, St. Michael’s Society, and the entire parish community of St. James Catholic Parish, Sabo-Oke, Ilorin, announces with deep sorrow the passing unto glory of Pa John Ajibade Faji.
Pa John Ajibade Faji departed this world on Tuesday, 16th December, 2025, in the United States of America.
He was a foundational member of St. James Parish and a very strong and committed member of St. Michael’s Society. His dedication, faith, and service to God and the Church will remain indelible in our hearts. He will be greatly missed by the parish, the society, and all whose lives he touched.
Further details concerning funeral arrangements will be communicated in due course.
May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Pa John Ajibade Faji departed this world on Tuesday, 16th December, 2025, in the United States of America.
He was a foundational member of St. James Parish and a very strong and committed member of St. Michael’s Society. His dedication, faith, and service to God and the Church will remain indelible in our hearts. He will be greatly missed by the parish, the society, and all whose lives he touched.
Further details concerning funeral arrangements will be communicated in due course.
May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in perfect peace. Amen.
December 24, 2025
A RARE GEM IS GONE.
The Parish Laity President, on behalf of the Executive and the entire Parish Laity Councillors, extend his Condolences to the Family of Baba John Ajibade Faaji, the members of St. Michael’s Society, and the entire parish community of St. James Catholic Parish, Sabo-Oke, Ilorin, on the call unto glory of Pa John Ajibade Faji.
His departure from this sinful world occurs on Tuesday, 16th December, 2025, in the United States of America.
We appreciate God for Late Pa John Ajibade Faaji, as he lived a well-deserved life while on earth. His commitment as a foundational member of St. James Parish and St. Michael’s Society is top-notch. His dedication, faith, and service to God and the Church will always linger indelibly in our hearts. He shall be greatly missed by the Parishioners, his society, and all those who have had the course to meet him.
May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in perfect peace. Amen.
The Parish Laity President, on behalf of the Executive and the entire Parish Laity Councillors, extend his Condolences to the Family of Baba John Ajibade Faaji, the members of St. Michael’s Society, and the entire parish community of St. James Catholic Parish, Sabo-Oke, Ilorin, on the call unto glory of Pa John Ajibade Faji.
His departure from this sinful world occurs on Tuesday, 16th December, 2025, in the United States of America.
We appreciate God for Late Pa John Ajibade Faaji, as he lived a well-deserved life while on earth. His commitment as a foundational member of St. James Parish and St. Michael’s Society is top-notch. His dedication, faith, and service to God and the Church will always linger indelibly in our hearts. He shall be greatly missed by the Parishioners, his society, and all those who have had the course to meet him.
May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in perfect peace. Amen.
December 24, 2025
Oh my goodness. What a huge loss this is.
Eternal rest grant unto Papa Faji, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his gentle soul find eternal repose in our Lord Jesus Christ.
May He comfort the Faji family, especially you, his beloved Wife of many decades, Ma.
May God Almighty richly reward you and the children for your outstanding care and support of him, especially in these last years of his life.
Please take solace in the legacies he left....
* an amazingly loving Husband, Father, Grandfather, Uncle and Community leader
* an accomplished journalist of repute, who meritoriously served Kwara State of Nigeria, in many capacities and for decades.
* that he was a practicing and devout Catholic.
I am deeply grieved because often he would call asking after me, my unpaid 13-year Aviation and 5-year NTA pensions. He cared.
My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you and your wonderful family at this time of irreparable loss.
May God comfort you and the family, in Christ's precious Name.
Eternal rest grant unto Papa Faji, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his gentle soul find eternal repose in our Lord Jesus Christ.
May He comfort the Faji family, especially you, his beloved Wife of many decades, Ma.
May God Almighty richly reward you and the children for your outstanding care and support of him, especially in these last years of his life.
Please take solace in the legacies he left....
* an amazingly loving Husband, Father, Grandfather, Uncle and Community leader
* an accomplished journalist of repute, who meritoriously served Kwara State of Nigeria, in many capacities and for decades.
* that he was a practicing and devout Catholic.
I am deeply grieved because often he would call asking after me, my unpaid 13-year Aviation and 5-year NTA pensions. He cared.
My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you and your wonderful family at this time of irreparable loss.
May God comfort you and the family, in Christ's precious Name.
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