Obituary
With heavy hearts, we are sharing the passing of our beloved Ivy – a creative, compassionate, and deeply cherished soul whose light touched the lives of many. Ivy was a gender-fluid artist, a passionate music lover, a warm-hearted friend to all animals, a thoughtful listener, and an engaging conversationalist. From an early age, Ivy’s curiosity and talents shone brightly. She delighted in playing sports, gaming, caring for her rescued cats and dogs, and travelling with family. A gifted student, Ivy excelled academically, earning awards in poetry and computer science.
Music was immensely important to Ivy and a source of joy throughout her life. As a synesthete, Ivy could see sound. She was a skilled guitarist who shredded incredible solos and enjoyed jamming with her family and friends. Ivy delighted in sharing her profound knowledge of music which spanned across genres, eras, and geographies. Ivy always had a song recommendation for those around her.
As a gentle and compassionate soul who admired all things cute and fuzzy, Ivy had at least one four-legged friend on her lap at all times. She also held a deep appreciation for the natural world – finding peace on trails along the Niagara Escarpment, at her grandparents’ cottage in Muskoka, and while cruising Hamilton Bay.
A thoughtful philosopher, Ivy thrived in deep conversations and had a dry sense of humour that often left her and those around her chuckling. Ivy was a foodie with a diverse palate. From momos, to saganaki, to masala dosas, to poutine, Ivy found joy around the dinner table.
Ivy is lovingly remembered by her mother Lisa Sabatino, father James Truman, stepmother Jen, beloved sisters Anise and Astara, grandparents Maureen and Wayne, aunts Sarah, Gina, and Lindsay, and many family and friends far and wide, including fur babies Stella, Polly, Bitsy, Enzo, Greta, Baby, and Bambi.
To honour Ivy, pause to embrace the beauty around you, hug your loved ones, cuddle your four-legged friends, explore a new artist or song, and cherish the connections that make life meaningful.
We are blessed for the time Ivy spent with us and wish her the greatest peace on the next phase of her journey.
Donation
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Hamilton Trans Health Coalition, Ladybird Animal Sanctuary, or the Sexual Assault Centre of Hamilton (SACHA).
https://hamiltontranshealth.ca
https://www.ladybirdanimalsanctuary.com
https://sacha.ca/
Gallery
Memory wall
Thinking of Ivy the first thing coming up is her carrying growling polly and singing Three Little Birds.
For me she is and always will be remembered as kind, talented and funny person and protector of poly,Stella & bitsy ❤️
No words can express how sorry I am for everyone close around her.
Ivy is a beautiful name may she be in a place where she can be herself in happiness!
I mourn with you as you struggle to adjust and grieve.
May you be comforted in your connection to each other and in the sharing of happy memories.
May the blessings of Air lighten your hearts and lift your spirit. May the blessings of Fire illuminate your path forward in this time of darkness, and warm heart and home. May the blessings of Water wash your tears and ease your sadness, May the blessings of Earth hold you steady, be abundant in her gifts of beauty and life and protect your sacred circle of love.
"I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one. I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days..."
"If I am anywhere, it is in your mindful breathing and in your peaceful steps." TNH
Blessed be.
It’s been a privilege to get to know Ivy, and for that I’m forever grateful.
I'm at a loss of words of what was a beautiful light that has been extinguished too early.
We will never really know all the reasons why you left us, but your soul Ivy, will live forever in our thoughts and prayers.
Although I never got the chance to meet you ..I can only imagine the bright colours and sparkle you brought unto this world ✨️Your kindness and gentleness will always be remembered ❤️
Rest easy Ivy .. I hope you have found peace 🌈🦋
To the sorrowful, I will never return,
To the angry, I was cheated,
But to the happy, I am at peace,
And to the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot speak, but I can listen.
I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.
So as you stand upon a shore gazing at a beautiful sea,
As you look upon a flower and admire its simplicity,
Remember me.
Remember me in your heart:
Your thoughts, and your memories,
Of the times we loved,
The times we cried,
The times we fought,
The times we laughed.
For if you always think Of me, I will never have gone.”
@Margaret Mead
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A beautiful tribute to Ivy -- who sounds like a gentle soul.
The pictures gave me a glimpse of who Ivy was and all the people that loved Ivy
Thinking of you all on this difficult path - sending love and strength
I just read Ivy’s Obituary. So beautiful.
Ivy sounds like such a colourful person that would have been wonderful to know and lucky to have as a child, sibling, grandchild, cousin and friend.
The photos really do show there is a strong connection to animals, nature and family.
I send you and your family peace, love, joy and gratitude for having had such a special jewel in your lives and hope you feel Ivy’s spirit from time to time until you are together again.
Hugs
Connie
Favorites
Greek Food - Mezes, Danforth
Indian Food - The Himalya, Stoney Creek
Fries & Pizza - Bardo, Hamilton
Seinfeld
Breaking Bad
The Office
Celebration of Life
We encourage you to wear colours in honour of Ivy's colourful life.
1185 York Blvd, Hamilton, ON
2:00 - 5:00 pm
The formal memorial will take place at 2:30pm followed by a reception.
