Ewanlei Isewede Okhawere
With hearts weighed down by sorrow but uplifted by gratitude for a life so beautifully lived, we announce the passing of our dearly beloved Son, Brother, and Uncle — Ewanlei Isewede Okhawere, who went to be with the Lord on Friday, October 17th, 2025, at the age of 47 years.
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💔 SUNSET OF A BELOVED SOUL 💔
In Loving Memory of Ewanlei Isewede Okhawere (1978 – 2025)
With hearts weighed down by sorrow but uplifted by gratitude for a life so beautifully lived, we announce the passing of our dearly beloved Son, Brother, and Uncle — Ewanlei Isewede Okhawere, who went to be with the Lord on Friday, October 17th, 2025, at the age of 47 years.
Ewanlei was a beacon of light and laughter — a man of immense kindness, quiet strength, and unwavering love. His life was a melody of generosity and grace, touching every soul fortunate enough to cross his path. His laughter echoed warmth, his wisdom guided hearts, and his compassion knew no bounds.
Though his earthly journey has come to an end, his spirit will forever live on — in the smiles he inspired, the love he shared, and the memories he left behind.
He is survived by his loving Father, devoted Step-Mother, cherished two Sisters, and his Brother, In-laws, as well as nieces, nephews, and countless friends who will forever hold him dear.
Our hearts ache with the pain of his departure, yet we take solace in knowing that Heaven has gained a rare gem — a soul radiant with love, humility, and purpose.
Ewanlei, you were deeply loved, and you shall never be forgotten.
Rest peacefully, until we meet again at the gates of glory.
“The memory of a good man is a blessing.” – Proverbs 10:7
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October 28, 2025
My sincere condolences to the family 🙏 with the Resurrection hope we have the sure hope of meeting our loved ones again. John 5:28,29. Acts 24:15
October 28, 2025
My beloved cousin that l loved so much,you have just left us without notice to heaven ,a place where every one of us desire to be. You were just too young to go ahead of us. I know that the Lord that knows the end from the beginning knew before it happened. My joy is that you made it to a better place. Apostle Paul says,for me to live is Christ and to die is gain. You have just gone to receive your gan. I pray for us that are left behind to serve God faithfully to be able to make this heaven and see you again when we shall all meet at the feet of Jesus. Rest in perfect peace till will meet to part no more.Heaven has gained a precious son,while you we shall forever have your good memories in our hearts. Rest in perfect peace my handsome cousin.
October 27, 2025
RIP Bro
October 27, 2025
The news of Mr Ewanlei's passing is devastating. He portrayed lots of genuine values - simple, cool, helpful, thoughtful, hardworking, jovial and cooperative. I'm still grateful for the skill of project management I learnt from you. May his soul rest in peace and the good Lord grant his family true comfort a
October 26, 2025
My Bros, Death was not part of our last chat. We talked about the good things of life. My last question to you , was when are we.coming to sign the register. Then you laughed.. Anyway u caught the family off gaurd.I can not question our God because he knows it all. Rest In Peace. Amen
October 26, 2025
In Memory of Ewanlei Isewede
It is with deep sadness that we remember our colleague, Ewanlei Isewede.
Ewanlei was a dedicated professional whose commitment to his work and sense of responsibility left a lasting impression on everyone who had the privilege of working with him. He approached his duties with quiet diligence, integrity, and an admirable sense of purpose. His professionalism and steady presence contributed greatly to the positive atmosphere in the workplace.
Beyond his work, Ewanlei will be remembered for his calm nature, respect for others, and the kindness he extended to those around him. Also, his sincerity and gentle character were unmistakable.
His passing is a profound loss — to his family, friends, and to all of us who had the opportunity to share in his journey. Though he is no longer with us, the memories of his dedication, humility, and good spirit will continue to inspire us.
May his soul rest in perfect peace.
It is with deep sadness that we remember our colleague, Ewanlei Isewede.
Ewanlei was a dedicated professional whose commitment to his work and sense of responsibility left a lasting impression on everyone who had the privilege of working with him. He approached his duties with quiet diligence, integrity, and an admirable sense of purpose. His professionalism and steady presence contributed greatly to the positive atmosphere in the workplace.
Beyond his work, Ewanlei will be remembered for his calm nature, respect for others, and the kindness he extended to those around him. Also, his sincerity and gentle character were unmistakable.
His passing is a profound loss — to his family, friends, and to all of us who had the opportunity to share in his journey. Though he is no longer with us, the memories of his dedication, humility, and good spirit will continue to inspire us.
May his soul rest in perfect peace.
October 26, 2025
Still in shock at the news of your passing.
You were a quiet fire with a fierce spirit. Wise. Reliable. Loyal. Kind. Content. Grounded. Funny. Fighter. Real.
You taught me more than you’ll ever know, lessons I’ll never unlearn.
You loved deeply, lived simply, and carried peace wherever you went.
You loved your family fiercely, and carried that love with loyalty and pride.
The world lost a rare one.
You for no die laidat… but God knows best.
Rest well Ewanlei.
You were a quiet fire with a fierce spirit. Wise. Reliable. Loyal. Kind. Content. Grounded. Funny. Fighter. Real.
You taught me more than you’ll ever know, lessons I’ll never unlearn.
You loved deeply, lived simply, and carried peace wherever you went.
You loved your family fiercely, and carried that love with loyalty and pride.
The world lost a rare one.
You for no die laidat… but God knows best.
Rest well Ewanlei.
October 26, 2025
Dear cousin,
I was sad to hear that you had passed. In life you were kind and fair. You tried to do the right thing even if it meant standing alone. I trust that you’re in a better place and that we’ll meet again.
Goodbye, cuz.
Rest easy.
I was sad to hear that you had passed. In life you were kind and fair. You tried to do the right thing even if it meant standing alone. I trust that you’re in a better place and that we’ll meet again.
Goodbye, cuz.
Rest easy.
October 25, 2025
Man… I’m sorry.
I’m sorry because each time I try to understand why life happens to the realest ones, I end up with blanks. I’m really sorry, bruv. You were one of the realest.
You had that rare light, the kind that filled every room you walked into. Your humor could break walls, your laughter could heal. You were raw, honest, talented beyond measure, and real to the bone. Never sugarcoated anything, never faked a vibe. You were you, boldly, unapologetically, and beautifully.
You had the soul of an artist and the heart of a fighter. Whether it was your art, your jokes, or just your presence, you left a mark that no one could ever erase. You always showed up, for family, for friends, no matter where you were or what you had going on. That’s something I’ll always remember.
It hurts, man. It really does. Life took you too soon, and that’s a pain that words can’t really touch. But even in the sorrow, I find peace knowing you’re resting easy now bruv, probably cracking up the Angels with your jokes, painting skies with your creativity, and spreading the same joy you gave us here.
Rest in power, Champ! Rest on Ewanlei!!
You’ll forever be one of the realest.
I’m sorry because each time I try to understand why life happens to the realest ones, I end up with blanks. I’m really sorry, bruv. You were one of the realest.
You had that rare light, the kind that filled every room you walked into. Your humor could break walls, your laughter could heal. You were raw, honest, talented beyond measure, and real to the bone. Never sugarcoated anything, never faked a vibe. You were you, boldly, unapologetically, and beautifully.
You had the soul of an artist and the heart of a fighter. Whether it was your art, your jokes, or just your presence, you left a mark that no one could ever erase. You always showed up, for family, for friends, no matter where you were or what you had going on. That’s something I’ll always remember.
It hurts, man. It really does. Life took you too soon, and that’s a pain that words can’t really touch. But even in the sorrow, I find peace knowing you’re resting easy now bruv, probably cracking up the Angels with your jokes, painting skies with your creativity, and spreading the same joy you gave us here.
Rest in power, Champ! Rest on Ewanlei!!
You’ll forever be one of the realest.
October 25, 2025
It was really a big shock when the news of your passing reached me. You were humility personified. I still recall your words of encouragement and the motivational books you gave to me when I was at the peak of despondency years ago. They really helped in shaping me into a better person today.
God knows best.
Rest in peace, big Bro.
God knows best.
Rest in peace, big Bro.
October 24, 2025
Rest in peace bro, your legacy and profound memories lives on. ❤️❤️🥺
October 24, 2025
There aren't enough words to properly encapsulate how much of a good man and a good sport you were. Not enough words to properly articulate the depth of your character and the honesty of your empathy. Your quiet yet profound resilience. A man that, for all intents and purposes, knew himself. You were, perhaps, a musical virtuoso in another life. In many ways you saw life for what it really is, a humorous simulation not to be taken too seriously despite all its vicissitudes. You were a good man in many ways...in many ways. You had soul. Sadly, we didn't spend a lot of time together as adults, but I built bonds with you as a teenager, all those years ago, that never waned.
You are a light that has been dimmed too quickly, a good man that has gone too soon.
May your soul find rest, and may the laughter never depart from your eyes and lips.
All my love, brother.
You are a light that has been dimmed too quickly, a good man that has gone too soon.
May your soul find rest, and may the laughter never depart from your eyes and lips.
All my love, brother.
October 24, 2025
Big Bros, I always call you. because I saw you as my elder brother, someone I confided in. You gave me every reason to smile, laugh and we had something in common, the love of football ⚽️. Your love and good energy was contagious. I will dearly miss you... May your gentle and loving soul rest in peace BIG BROS...
October 24, 2025
Though I didn’t have the chance to know you closely, your passing has touched my heart deeply. I remember seeing you, during your daddy’s marriage full of life, smiles, and warmth. My dad often spoke about you with pride and affection, and through his stories, I came to see the kind, humble, and promising person you were.
I wish I had known you better, but even from a distance, your loss has left me broken. Rest well, Big Bro. You’ll always be remembered.💔
I wish I had known you better, but even from a distance, your loss has left me broken. Rest well, Big Bro. You’ll always be remembered.💔
October 24, 2025
You should be here Ewanlei. I will never be able to comprehend why you left so soon. Bros,we get plans o..But I trust you say you fought to stay because my guy no dey give up.
Too many questions in my head Ewanlei.
Why?....
Why?...
Too many whys...
You know you have the best smile but I never got the chance to tell you..
So,I will no longer hear Kardaaashiann again in your voice.
I hope heaven is treating you better than the world did Ewanlei?
Too many questions... How do someone come back from this kind of pain? I love you and I miss you tooooo much. This one na strong pain o. I don't even know how I am feeling. Am I dreaming??? Am I really writing this for you Ewanlei? So it's real... God, I know you know best because your eyes see everything and we cannot question you, but this one do me strong thing o.Host of Heaven,please take care of this very special human for me.
Too many questions in my head Ewanlei.
Why?....
Why?...
Too many whys...
You know you have the best smile but I never got the chance to tell you..
So,I will no longer hear Kardaaashiann again in your voice.
I hope heaven is treating you better than the world did Ewanlei?
Too many questions... How do someone come back from this kind of pain? I love you and I miss you tooooo much. This one na strong pain o. I don't even know how I am feeling. Am I dreaming??? Am I really writing this for you Ewanlei? So it's real... God, I know you know best because your eyes see everything and we cannot question you, but this one do me strong thing o.Host of Heaven,please take care of this very special human for me.
October 23, 2025
I had put this off and I’m only now putting down these words because this is an incredibly difficult development to swallow.
My every encounter with my elder cousin was always delightful and filled with encouraging words from him.
Uncle Ewanlei, as I refer to him even though he is my first cousin, was a source of strength and support in my formative years.
I’ll remember him as someone who always looked out for me, every opportunity he had.
My deepest regret is not taking the opportunity and initiative to reach out to even just check on him regularly.
His loss is one that is felt deeply because he was a very bright light from whatever corner he found himself in this dark world.
I’ll miss him everyday.
My every encounter with my elder cousin was always delightful and filled with encouraging words from him.
Uncle Ewanlei, as I refer to him even though he is my first cousin, was a source of strength and support in my formative years.
I’ll remember him as someone who always looked out for me, every opportunity he had.
My deepest regret is not taking the opportunity and initiative to reach out to even just check on him regularly.
His loss is one that is felt deeply because he was a very bright light from whatever corner he found himself in this dark world.
I’ll miss him everyday.
October 23, 2025
The news of your passing is deeply saddening. It still feels unreal that you’re no longer with us, but I take comfort in knowing that God is in control.
I’m grateful for the time I had with you as a colleague, and for the warmth, humility, and peace you brought wherever you went. Heaven has truly gained an angel.
May your gentle soul rest in peace, and may your family and loved ones find comfort in the memories you leave behind.
Rest in peace, Ewanlei.
I’m grateful for the time I had with you as a colleague, and for the warmth, humility, and peace you brought wherever you went. Heaven has truly gained an angel.
May your gentle soul rest in peace, and may your family and loved ones find comfort in the memories you leave behind.
Rest in peace, Ewanlei.
October 23, 2025
Bros E. It's still a shock.. Don't know what to say or how to say it. If that makes sense. Still in shock.
Help keep Aunty company for us. Tell.her I miss her Olohitare work, work!
Will miss your ever smiling face.
Rest in peace cousin and know you will be greatly missed. Love ❤️ you
Help keep Aunty company for us. Tell.her I miss her Olohitare work, work!
Will miss your ever smiling face.
Rest in peace cousin and know you will be greatly missed. Love ❤️ you
October 23, 2025
Dearest Cuz,
It was so shocking & sad to hear of your passing. The memories of our childhood flooded my mind ( happy days). You were such a gentle and quiet soul. I pray that God will heal and strengthen Uncle & your siblings.
Deuteronomy 29:29 NKJV
[29] “The secret things belong to the Lord our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law.
May your soul rest in perfect peace.❤️
It was so shocking & sad to hear of your passing. The memories of our childhood flooded my mind ( happy days). You were such a gentle and quiet soul. I pray that God will heal and strengthen Uncle & your siblings.
Deuteronomy 29:29 NKJV
[29] “The secret things belong to the Lord our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law.
May your soul rest in perfect peace.❤️
October 23, 2025
Dear Ewanlei, the news of your sudden demise was a shocker. As a colleague, you showed uncommon dedication at work. I pray God to grant you eternal rest. Rest in peace brother...
October 23, 2025
Ewanlei was a wonderful colleague ,calm, kind, and truly genuine. He carried himself with quiet strength and warmth that touched everyone around him. He was not just good at his work but a good person at heart. His calmness and gentle spirit will always be remembered. Rest on bro.
October 23, 2025
My dear loving colleague, I'm shocked and saddened by your sudden passing, Ewanlei. We did all that is humanly possible to keep you alive on that faithful day, but God knows why you had to leave us.
May your soul rest in peace. May your cherished memories bring comfort to loved ones.
May your soul rest in peace. May your cherished memories bring comfort to loved ones.
October 23, 2025
It is with deep sorrow that we mourn the passing to glory our dear colleague and friend, Ewanlei.
Ewanlei was a source of inspiration, kindness, and genuine warmth to everyone around, he approached every task with dedication and excellence, always willing to lend a helping hand to progress the work. His positive attitude, humility and unwavering commitment to teamwork was exceptional.
Though he is no longer with us in person, his spirit lives on in the memories we shared and the impact he made on the lives of those who knew him. We will miss his smile, gentleness and friendship, but his legacy will continue to be remembered.
Rest in peace, dear Ewanlei, you will never be forgotten.
Adieu!
Ewanlei was a source of inspiration, kindness, and genuine warmth to everyone around, he approached every task with dedication and excellence, always willing to lend a helping hand to progress the work. His positive attitude, humility and unwavering commitment to teamwork was exceptional.
Though he is no longer with us in person, his spirit lives on in the memories we shared and the impact he made on the lives of those who knew him. We will miss his smile, gentleness and friendship, but his legacy will continue to be remembered.
Rest in peace, dear Ewanlei, you will never be forgotten.
Adieu!
October 22, 2025
Ewanlei, your transition to Glory and to the heavenly realms brought pain and many questions. But the Lord is on the throne and knoweth all things. Rest in the blossom of the Lord till the resurrection morning. Good night.
October 22, 2025
I'm still trying to come to terms with this reality, but we can't question God. Your calm nature and kindness were truly enviable .
I pray that God teaches those of us who are still alive to number our days. Indeed ,life is transient.
I pray that God teaches those of us who are still alive to number our days. Indeed ,life is transient.
October 22, 2025
I never met you but with all the tributes I have heard & read, we lost a gem!
Rest in peace🙏🏾
Rest in peace🙏🏾
October 22, 2025
Tribute to Our Beloved Big Bro, Brother Ewanlei
The news of your passing hit me harder than a sledgehammer. It’s still difficult to believe that you’re no longer with us. We shared not only precious memories but even the same name, a bond that made your loss feel even more personal and profound.
Your quiet strength and gentle spirit have left a lasting impact on all our lives. Though words may not have always been spoken, your presence spoke volumes. Your kindness, wisdom, and love touched everyone around you in ways that will never be forgotten.
You lived a life of purpose, humility, and grace, always inspiring those who knew you. Your legacy of love and integrity will continue to live on in our hearts.
Rest in perfect peace, our Dear Big Bro and my very own namesake. You will forever be cherished. ❤️😔
The news of your passing hit me harder than a sledgehammer. It’s still difficult to believe that you’re no longer with us. We shared not only precious memories but even the same name, a bond that made your loss feel even more personal and profound.
Your quiet strength and gentle spirit have left a lasting impact on all our lives. Though words may not have always been spoken, your presence spoke volumes. Your kindness, wisdom, and love touched everyone around you in ways that will never be forgotten.
You lived a life of purpose, humility, and grace, always inspiring those who knew you. Your legacy of love and integrity will continue to live on in our hearts.
Rest in perfect peace, our Dear Big Bro and my very own namesake. You will forever be cherished. ❤️😔
October 22, 2025
Today, my heart is heavy😭😭😭😭😭 as I pen down this tribute. Your journey here ended far too soon, yet your impact remains forever etched in my heart. You were full of life, your laughter brought warmth to me as I always referred to you as "my friend".
Rest peacefully my dear Ewanlei. You will always be in my mind, always loved, and never forgotten. Adieu my Ewancious.
Your step-mom
Rest peacefully my dear Ewanlei. You will always be in my mind, always loved, and never forgotten. Adieu my Ewancious.
Your step-mom
October 22, 2025
The last time i saw you was in Abuja when you visited your sisters and that was also the fisrt time i met you. I remember asking after you few weeks back.
Your sunden demise was still a big shock to me.
What i admire most about you those few times was your calmness and humility.
You will be forever remembered dear Ewanlei.
Rest in Power
We love you but God loves you more.
Your sunden demise was still a big shock to me.
What i admire most about you those few times was your calmness and humility.
You will be forever remembered dear Ewanlei.
Rest in Power
We love you but God loves you more.
October 22, 2025
It is very painful to think that I will not see you again in the office, but that is the sad reality. You were among the first set of persons that welcomed me on my very first day at work and I still remembered how you made sure I was comfortable with the new work environment I found myself.
Thank you very much for your kindness and good deeds!
Rest on my brother!
Thank you very much for your kindness and good deeds!
Rest on my brother!
October 22, 2025
Even though I did not get to know you well, I know that you are very special to your family, calm and gentle in your own way. Thank you for being part of our story, I wish we had more time to get to know each other better, but I know you are resting now in peace, we love you, rest on
October 22, 2025
I was much shocked and pained to hear the sad news of your demise.
You are not only a colleague, but a friend and brother, I shall cherish the moment we spend together, your death is a great loss indeed.
However, we should bear it bravely. For God's will is supreme.
May your gentle soul rest in peace.
You are not only a colleague, but a friend and brother, I shall cherish the moment we spend together, your death is a great loss indeed.
However, we should bear it bravely. For God's will is supreme.
May your gentle soul rest in peace.
October 22, 2025
May his soul rest in peace Amen
October 22, 2025
Bros,this one heavy oh...no be so we talk am,no be so we plan am,never in my wildest imagination would I have taught I would be penning down a tribute for you this early.
You were a man of deep intellect, quiet strength, and subtle humor. You carried your wisdom with humility and grace.
You were cerebral, a thinker, someone who didn’t just skim the surface of things. Conversations with you were never loud, but always meaningful.
Your humor wasn’t for show, when you laughed , it wasn’t contained or muted. It was full, joyful, and utterly contagious. Your ecstatic laughter could light up a moment and remind you that joy still lived quietly in him, waiting to surprise you
Despite your private nature, you had a warmth that drew people in. You didn’t chase attention, but somehow held space in a room with quiet dignity. Anyone will always know they were in the company of someone who didn’t need to speak loudly to be heard.
I will miss your calm presence, your thoughtful way of seeing this world, and the rare, brilliant flashes of humor that lit up the silence.
Your absence leaves a quiet space — one that echoes with memory, with love, and with gratitude for the time we shared.
Rest well, dear cousin. You were deeply loved, and you will not be forgotten.
You were a man of deep intellect, quiet strength, and subtle humor. You carried your wisdom with humility and grace.
You were cerebral, a thinker, someone who didn’t just skim the surface of things. Conversations with you were never loud, but always meaningful.
Your humor wasn’t for show, when you laughed , it wasn’t contained or muted. It was full, joyful, and utterly contagious. Your ecstatic laughter could light up a moment and remind you that joy still lived quietly in him, waiting to surprise you
Despite your private nature, you had a warmth that drew people in. You didn’t chase attention, but somehow held space in a room with quiet dignity. Anyone will always know they were in the company of someone who didn’t need to speak loudly to be heard.
I will miss your calm presence, your thoughtful way of seeing this world, and the rare, brilliant flashes of humor that lit up the silence.
Your absence leaves a quiet space — one that echoes with memory, with love, and with gratitude for the time we shared.
Rest well, dear cousin. You were deeply loved, and you will not be forgotten.
October 22, 2025
Words fail me, I saw a man full of life and love. It hurts but we lean on Jesus at this time.
October 22, 2025
With a deep pain and Cold heart, I heard the Falling of my Brother, Uncle, Teacher and Friend. Bros Ewanlei, with the Time you Walk on this sinful world, the Words and Love we shared Can't be forgotten but it Lovely Memories will continue to be the hope that you have find a glorious Home in the Palace of our Lord Jesus Christ, Sleep on Big Bro..
October 22, 2025
Our big uncle (Brother EWANLEN), your quiet strength and gentle spirit have left a lasting impact on our lives. Though words may not have always been spoken, your presence spoke volumes. Your kindness, wisdom, and love will be deeply missed and forever cherished.
Rest in peace. 😔❤️
October 22, 2025
Ewaneli,Your dedication and friendship touched many lives. Though you're no longer with us, your legacy lives on. Rest in peace, dear friend.
October 22, 2025
Dear Brother and Friend. It's still difficult to accept the reality that I am making a tribute on your demise.
We shook hands and exchanged greetings in our local dialect that morning on your way out of the office premise that day. Never knew it would be the last with you.
You were always available anytime even at late nights at the office premise to render me assistance even in circumstances when I couldn't ask.
I have never seen you frown yet you have been supportive even in my own challenging moments.
Its difficult to accept and adjust to this vacuum your demise has created.
However, we are helpless at this moment and unable to challenge what God has destined. He knows best.
You will continue to be remembered for your good soul and deeds and as a reward, you will be granted eternal rest and peace by Almighty.
I also pray for divine consolation for your father and other loved ones you left behind. Amen.
It shall certainly be well with your kind soul.
Adieu Brother!
We shook hands and exchanged greetings in our local dialect that morning on your way out of the office premise that day. Never knew it would be the last with you.
You were always available anytime even at late nights at the office premise to render me assistance even in circumstances when I couldn't ask.
I have never seen you frown yet you have been supportive even in my own challenging moments.
Its difficult to accept and adjust to this vacuum your demise has created.
However, we are helpless at this moment and unable to challenge what God has destined. He knows best.
You will continue to be remembered for your good soul and deeds and as a reward, you will be granted eternal rest and peace by Almighty.
I also pray for divine consolation for your father and other loved ones you left behind. Amen.
It shall certainly be well with your kind soul.
Adieu Brother!
October 22, 2025
Dear Ewanlei, words can't bring you back to fill the space created but you will forever be in our heart. Sleep well in the Lord. We are yet to recover from this shock. May the Almighty God send His comforter to comfort the family left behind. Good bye Ewan.
Israel Peter & family
Israel Peter & family
October 22, 2025
bro. It is so hard to believe you are gone, what more can we say than to ask God to accept you into his bossom. RIP
October 22, 2025
Brother Ewanlei 🥺🥺
Why am i writing a tribute?
Like why?
It still doesn’t make sense🥹.
I keep replaying things, asking questions that sound ridiculous even to me,but I can’t help it 😢. I’m just trying to understand something that doesn’t have answers.
You were good to me. Always kind, always protective.
You had that quiet strength, never loud, never needing attention,
just steady, like someone who’d always show up when it mattered.
Growing up, you were the calm in the middle of things.
Even when you barely said a word, your presence was enough.
And now that you’re gone, it’s like the silence got heavier 💔.
I keep thinking about your last moments.
How unfair it was. How undeserved that pain was.
You didn’t deserve that kind of ending. You didn’t 😢 😭
And then I wonder if you’re okay now.
If somewhere beyond this mess of questions and grief,you’re free. At peace, whole again?
Because down here, it still hurts.
The kind of hurt that sits in your chest and refuses to move.
It's been a mixture of feelings the past few days! Some days I’m angry, other days I just feel… nothing.
Like the world pressed pause and forgot to start again.
But beneath all that, there’s this quiet gratitude.
That I got to know you. That you were part of my life.
That I got to see up close the kind of gentleness that doesn’t make noise.
You’ll always be part of my story.
Even if this ache never fully leaves.
Love you forever!
😢!
Adieu 🕊 🕊
Why am i writing a tribute?
Like why?
It still doesn’t make sense🥹.
I keep replaying things, asking questions that sound ridiculous even to me,but I can’t help it 😢. I’m just trying to understand something that doesn’t have answers.
You were good to me. Always kind, always protective.
You had that quiet strength, never loud, never needing attention,
just steady, like someone who’d always show up when it mattered.
Growing up, you were the calm in the middle of things.
Even when you barely said a word, your presence was enough.
And now that you’re gone, it’s like the silence got heavier 💔.
I keep thinking about your last moments.
How unfair it was. How undeserved that pain was.
You didn’t deserve that kind of ending. You didn’t 😢 😭
And then I wonder if you’re okay now.
If somewhere beyond this mess of questions and grief,you’re free. At peace, whole again?
Because down here, it still hurts.
The kind of hurt that sits in your chest and refuses to move.
It's been a mixture of feelings the past few days! Some days I’m angry, other days I just feel… nothing.
Like the world pressed pause and forgot to start again.
But beneath all that, there’s this quiet gratitude.
That I got to know you. That you were part of my life.
That I got to see up close the kind of gentleness that doesn’t make noise.
You’ll always be part of my story.
Even if this ache never fully leaves.
Love you forever!
😢!
Adieu 🕊 🕊
October 22, 2025
Your kindness. Generosity and warm smile touched my heart you left us too soon but ur memory lives on.
Rest in peace
Rest in peace
October 22, 2025
Bros,
It was always evident that you had a beautiful heart, mummy would always talk about how you are one person who truly cared for her. Your heart was gold and my few encounters with you were good…
I cried when I saw it, not just because you had passed, but majorly because you passed alone, and without fully enjoying the good things of life. You were a good man, you still are a good man, and good men shouldn’t die like that. It doesn’t make sense, and it never will.
I sincerely wish I had built a strong relationship with you, my memory of you speaks of a smart, hilarious man.
My heart is broken with pain, I can’t even lie, too many losses all at the same time, and it’s all the good ones.
My succor is that you knew the lord, I hear Heaven is beautiful and I am certain you will have a good time there.
Rest well Bros Ewanlei.
I love you, I wish I got to tell you this in person, I never said these words to you.
Thank you for being different…..
It was always evident that you had a beautiful heart, mummy would always talk about how you are one person who truly cared for her. Your heart was gold and my few encounters with you were good…
I cried when I saw it, not just because you had passed, but majorly because you passed alone, and without fully enjoying the good things of life. You were a good man, you still are a good man, and good men shouldn’t die like that. It doesn’t make sense, and it never will.
I sincerely wish I had built a strong relationship with you, my memory of you speaks of a smart, hilarious man.
My heart is broken with pain, I can’t even lie, too many losses all at the same time, and it’s all the good ones.
My succor is that you knew the lord, I hear Heaven is beautiful and I am certain you will have a good time there.
Rest well Bros Ewanlei.
I love you, I wish I got to tell you this in person, I never said these words to you.
Thank you for being different…..
October 22, 2025
It's disheartening , sad and shocking to hear you are no more!! How can the Light and star go off suddenly like this? A humble , loving, kindhearted, devoted , God-fearing go like this? It's still like a dream! I find it hard to believe you are gone! A very good inlaw! Who are we to query God! We love you but God sees it all and Loves you most. I believe you are resting! Keep resting dear and loving inlaw! God loves you !
October 22, 2025
Hey Big Cuz,
My heart broke the moment I heard you no longer walk this earth with us. I’ll never forget how you showed up when my father passed, or how Mumsi always spoke of you with so much warmth and love. I’ll truly miss you Cuz. Though we can’t see you anymore, the impact you made lives on in each of our hearts. Rest easy and fly with the angels Big Bro❤️❤️
My heart broke the moment I heard you no longer walk this earth with us. I’ll never forget how you showed up when my father passed, or how Mumsi always spoke of you with so much warmth and love. I’ll truly miss you Cuz. Though we can’t see you anymore, the impact you made lives on in each of our hearts. Rest easy and fly with the angels Big Bro❤️❤️
October 22, 2025
It is with deep sadness that we say goodbye to our dear colleague and friend, Ewanlei. He was more than just a coworker — he was a source of warmth, dedication, and positivity to everyone around him. His commitment to excellence, his humility, and his kindness touched many lives and left a lasting mark on our team.
Ewanlei’s memory will continue to inspire us to give our best, to care deeply, and to value one another. Though he is gone, his impact and the good moments we shared will remain in our hearts forever.
Rest in peace, Ewanlei. You will be greatly missed.
Ewanlei’s memory will continue to inspire us to give our best, to care deeply, and to value one another. Though he is gone, his impact and the good moments we shared will remain in our hearts forever.
Rest in peace, Ewanlei. You will be greatly missed.
October 22, 2025
I am deeply saddened by the passing of my dear cousin and big brother. Words cannot truly express the pain of losing someone so special. He was more than family — he was a source of strength, kindness, and wisdom to everyone around him.
His warmth, laughter, and caring heart will always be remembered. Though he is no longer with us in body, his spirit will forever remain in our hearts and in the beautiful memories shared.
May God grant his soul eternal rest and give our family the strength to bear this painful loss. He will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Rest in peace, my brother. 💔
His warmth, laughter, and caring heart will always be remembered. Though he is no longer with us in body, his spirit will forever remain in our hearts and in the beautiful memories shared.
May God grant his soul eternal rest and give our family the strength to bear this painful loss. He will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Rest in peace, my brother. 💔
October 22, 2025
A friend, gentleman, my greeting pal, respectful, professional to the core.
This is the only man in our office that chose greetings as a hobby. We were attracted to each other due to our shared penchant for greetings heartedly and sharing a handshake and a bit of more discussion. This is a man we do this daily and religiously because we both looked forward to that moment each morning.
Suddenly, I got a message I was not going to get that moment on Friday morning 17.10.2025.
I had mourned with tears (my own way of healing), but I already missed you and our daily pleasantries.
I love you brother. We never wanted you to go this early, but we hope in God that the great mark you left behind will grow to fill the whole
earth. Amen.
May the Lord console my boss (Mike Okhaware) and the whole Okhaware dynasty.
Rest on Ewanlei.
Rest on beloved.
Rest on! Rest on!! Rest on!!!
This is the only man in our office that chose greetings as a hobby. We were attracted to each other due to our shared penchant for greetings heartedly and sharing a handshake and a bit of more discussion. This is a man we do this daily and religiously because we both looked forward to that moment each morning.
Suddenly, I got a message I was not going to get that moment on Friday morning 17.10.2025.
I had mourned with tears (my own way of healing), but I already missed you and our daily pleasantries.
I love you brother. We never wanted you to go this early, but we hope in God that the great mark you left behind will grow to fill the whole
earth. Amen.
May the Lord console my boss (Mike Okhaware) and the whole Okhaware dynasty.
Rest on Ewanlei.
Rest on beloved.
Rest on! Rest on!! Rest on!!!
October 22, 2025
It was so sad and unbelievable to hear of your passing. Till this very moment the sad news still feels unreal but alas it is real. We all take solace in knowing that you have gone to rest. You will greatly be missed. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
October 22, 2025
May the Lord comfort the family and give strength to bear this loss. The bible says “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18).
May the soul of the departed find rest in God’s eternal peace.
May the soul of the departed find rest in God’s eternal peace.
October 22, 2025
Dear brother, the story of your passing came as a shock. I am still not over it, everytime I look at your work station it feels like you just went on break and would be back shortly. I can only imagine the pain you went through fighting for your life. You were a solid professional, calm, cool and calculated, you had time for the things that made you happy, delivered professionally, a passionate football enthusiast and a man who knew his movies. I never saw you for once have an issue with anyone. This situation is very painful but God knows best and we can't ask him why. Remain blessed, we pray that the almighty forgive your shortcomings while on earth and grant you eternal life. Amin.
October 22, 2025
This indeed is a rude shock. Not when just last week here, two of us, mummy 's old colleagues talked about her with so much wonderful memories.
Oh! Daddy, be strong in the Lord. Omo and co, let the peace of God fill your spirit.
Sleep on beloved. You will be dearly missed.
Oh! Daddy, be strong in the Lord. Omo and co, let the peace of God fill your spirit.
Sleep on beloved. You will be dearly missed.
October 22, 2025
It was a shock hearing your sudden Demise .You were a good colleague while in Kaduna .who like watching his football ball .God knows the best ,Rest in power Bro.
October 21, 2025
Ewanlei my guy, writing a tribute for you is what I never wished for now, you were a loving person, a peaceful soul, a genuine guy in all ramifications, you were fun to be with, never a dull moment with you, oh I remember several years again when we attended a wedding of your relative, and you made everyone of us laugh and laugh. Ewanlei you were humble to a fault, never rude and calm, words fail me to describe you my personal person. This was not the plan but God knows best your Dad and siblings especially Kayla is pained. We miss you deeply. Rest in the bossom of our LORD JESUS CHRIST till the resurrection morning.
Adieu my guy.
Adieu my guy.
October 21, 2025
Dear Big Brother,
I have had to dig into the deepest recesses of my Spiritual strength to write a Tribute to/for you because my own strength has completely failed.
Wow write a tribute they said, TRIBUTE??? Wait what??? How??? I don’t understand, Brother Ewanlei please make it make sense 😭😭😭.
All I can say right now is to quote this verse from Isaiah 9:2 KJV
“The people that walked in darkness have seen a great light: they that dwell in the land of the shadow of death, upon them hath the light shined.”
Rest in Power Blood 🩸 , Ovbi Ohiochioya, Ovbi Imoiseme. I love you DEEP 🥹😭
Your Little Sister,
Agbons Okhawere
I have had to dig into the deepest recesses of my Spiritual strength to write a Tribute to/for you because my own strength has completely failed.
Wow write a tribute they said, TRIBUTE??? Wait what??? How??? I don’t understand, Brother Ewanlei please make it make sense 😭😭😭.
All I can say right now is to quote this verse from Isaiah 9:2 KJV
“The people that walked in darkness have seen a great light: they that dwell in the land of the shadow of death, upon them hath the light shined.”
Rest in Power Blood 🩸 , Ovbi Ohiochioya, Ovbi Imoiseme. I love you DEEP 🥹😭
Your Little Sister,
Agbons Okhawere
October 21, 2025
My Diego😭😭😭, my heart is broken 💔💔💔💔. How are you no longer with us? Sisto broke the news to me today. I'm so sad. I wish I reached out sooner. Rest well dear one.
October 21, 2025
Oh Broda Ewanlei💔💔💔 It breaks my heart to even type this. Though I only knew you for a short period of time when you came to visit Agbons and SistoBee in Abuja years ago but you definitely left a mark, you were kind and thoughtful. I'm really saddened by your passing, May God Rest your Soul and comfort your entire family. Rest Easy Bro.
October 21, 2025
Ewanciois, as I fondly called you…😭😭😭
It was a rude shock to hear about this. When Omo told me I couldn’t hold back the tears.😭😭
U were a true gentle man, always smiling and joking, there was no dull moment with you. It felt like I was not just a friend to your sister, but also to you.
I pray God grants us all the fortitude to bear this great loss and comfort your dad and siblings.
Rest in power my dear Ewancious you will be greatly missed.
😭😭😭😭
It was a rude shock to hear about this. When Omo told me I couldn’t hold back the tears.😭😭
U were a true gentle man, always smiling and joking, there was no dull moment with you. It felt like I was not just a friend to your sister, but also to you.
I pray God grants us all the fortitude to bear this great loss and comfort your dad and siblings.
Rest in power my dear Ewancious you will be greatly missed.
😭😭😭😭
October 21, 2025
We were 4 now we are 3 ... The news of your passing was like the ground was taken off from under my feet 😭😭😭😭 What kind of tribute do I write for a great man , an intelligent critique, sports analyst, political analyst, Grammerian , musician, man of God , keyboardist, very loving Son, Brother, brother in law , and Friend..Life doesn't prepare you for rude shocks as this , it doesn't give you any rule book on how to handle the loss of a sibling, nothing prepares on how to handle this 😢😢.. Guanness, Guanguan, Ewancious, Baba Ovbi Nico, Ovbimoiseme, Ovbio Okhawere, ovbio Oyakhire,,, Omokhé, ovbio Agan , Dadi n Mumi's boy😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 This was never in the plan , your abrupt departure was never in the plan , how do I hold strong for Dadi, how I hold strong for your big bro ,his wife and kids they loved you fondly, how do I hold strong for myself and your little sister who worried about you so much , Ewancious na big work you give me do so ooo. Your abrupt departure has brought a lot of unanswered questions 😭😭 my heart is broken, its shattered 💔 , I would give my all to have you back with us Ovbio Okhawere,😭😭😭 .but only God knows best...I don't know how I would ever recover from your loss its too huge a loss but in all I know you are with mumsi whom we are still missing....hmmmn
Mumi take care of your boy.
I love 🧡🧡 and miss you guys dearly 🤗😢🤗😢🤗😢 your sisto B.
Mumi take care of your boy.
I love 🧡🧡 and miss you guys dearly 🤗😢🤗😢🤗😢 your sisto B.
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What was Ewanlei Iswede's favorite Game to play?
Football, he loved this game with a passion beyond words can explain
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We will come together to remember and pay tribute to the wonderful person. While we mourn the loss of our dear, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy brought into our lives. Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
We will come together to remember and pay tribute to the wonderful person. While we mourn the loss of our dear, we also aim to cherish the moments shared and the joy brought into our lives. Your presence would mean a great deal to us during this time of remembrance and reflection.
Benin Vaults and Gardens
Benin Vaults and Gardens
Paradise Pack Cemetery
Behind New Benin Police Station Opposite Edokpolor Grammar school
Benin City, Edo State
Paradise Pack Cemetery
Behind New Benin Police Station Opposite Edokpolor Grammar school
Benin City, Edo State
28.10.2025 / 11:00am
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